Im in college and I have a classmate who's autistic. He's not exactly treated badly but no one really hangs out with him. However, he has an INCREDIBLE memory and is really smart... I just wish more people saw how wonderful he really is
You say he has an INCREDIBLE memory, so do I! For example, before my grandmother passed away, my dad and I were at the funeral home, and the mortician asked what my great-grandmother’s middle name was, I instantly remembered it was Elizabeth, and my dad DIDN’T know.
I have autism, and I sometimes get really upset when somebody calls me names because I am different, but I know to surround myself with people who really love and care about me.
Unpopular opinion. As an autistic woman I actually don’t like this video because if you really think of the message, it is not respect people with autism because they’re humans. The actual message of this video is respect people with autism because they might be good at things neurotypicals are good at. And that speaks volumes….
@sydneycloud5930 This video really does have a very confusing message XD (I have autism too). I assume that the original commenter is being sarcastic!
@@cori055 I think they’re being sarcastic too! I’ve just been very sad lately because I’ve been struggling with my autism. I have a learning disability so I struggle academically. I feel like the main character still wouldn’t be friendly to the new girl if she actually struggled in a subject
Exactly I don’t like the fact that they only centured it on being smart or perceived as a genius and that was the only way Tessa stopped being so ableist when she shouldn’t have been regardless if they were really smart or not.
As someone with high functioning autism I'd like to see myself as kind and caring people treat me equal most of the time I'd love to see you as accepting too thank you
"Respect Autistic people because they're super smart and never fail at anything!" Thank you for stereotyping us! We really appreciate it!(I'm being very sarcastic btw)
@@CeCe_Bride_Of_Jesus_Christwell god doesn’t exist, but you can be a god at something meaning you have a lot of skill. I am autistic and I’m a god at music, languages, and geography.
or instead of taking it as an attack, just watch the actual video and realize that the story was about an ignorant person being taught that people with autism aren't dumb, would you rather have that as the message?
As a young woman with autism, I know exactly what Heavenly is going through and dealt with bullying throughout my years in elementary and middle school, I didn't have any supportive friends at the time and everybody treated me differently, not wanting to be my friend at all. The bullying stopped when I entered high school where I finally made a real friend, who I'm still friends with to this day, and we both found out we both are on the autism spectrum and shared a lot more things in common than I expected. I was so happy to finally find a real friend and I finally accepted the fact that I was autistic after all these years, I never let negativity affect me anymore and to be positive with a big smile to show I am proud of my diagnosis.
I am so happy for you I hope that person continues to be your friend forever. I also have a best friend who loves and accepts me for who I am and she and I are both autistic.
My best friend has autism. He gets bullied alot for it and it makes my blood boil. He is a blessing to this earth. And he is really smart in science and helped me pass it. I cant be happier to have a friend like him.
My oldest daughter has aspergers. She is so bright. There are so many people out there that have some sort of autism and can be brighter than anyone can ever know. They just learn in different ways. This is amazing. There is so much about autistic people we can learn from.
As someone with autism, the stereotypes are either: your a super smart person who knows everything, or you’re dumb and can’t talk or understand anything around you. Whenever I tell people I’m autistic their response is but you don’t look autistic, you don’t act autistic.
@@bogdananedavnya2528 I have Asperger’s, I may not get all of them. But I flail my hands when stimming, it’s hard to socialize, I have a special interest {the hobbit}, I’ll say things that I didn’t know were mean by accident, I can’t remember the rest on the spot.
I love how Tessa says "Yeah, experience messing things up" Yeah, that's how life works XD You have to mess something up to know that's not the right way to do it.
As someone who has autism, I cannot believe how bad Tessa treated Heavenly, and how things have changed. Just because someone has a disability, does not prevent them from having a perfectly normal life.
Can we please stop with the "Autistic people are mathematical geniuses" stereotype? Just because Rain-Man did it, doesn't mean all autistic people are human calculators.
I’m a person with autism and in the beginning pulled some heartstrings because the girl underestimates what autistic people can do they are intelligent they might act different but it’s who they are and no one can change that “do your best because your best is enough”
I have autism and I’m PROUD of it! I wouldn’t be who I am today if it wasn’t for my struggles with autism! Especially with God. I have really transformed in my 19 years!!! YOU GUYS ARE ALL AMAZING! ILYY
I have autism also and I agree. While I'm not very computer smart I'm extremely intelligent with hands on mechanical work and can figure out almost anything usually before my coworkers. I'm proud of who I am
I have a asperger syndrome, I had regular classes in high school but had to go to different building for my tests, once when I was in Krogers I met one Jane doe and two John does, they remember me for something but may or may not remember, just because we think/function differently then others we ain't slow we do things our own way and pace
I am really happy that Tessa won. She realized that she has no right to judge people based on how they are. When you don't appreciate what you have, you would lose something that you want back.
As a woman with autism and ADHD. Some peers in my school confused The difference between autism and down syndrome. Which I find it really hurting cuz I believe people need to be educated on the differences between down syndrome and autism.
The problem with school is that they expect for students to all learn the same exact way but everyone's brain works far differently from each other, I barely had any help with teachers thinking im kina dumb or "problems with my memory".
As an Autisic 16yo, there are times when I struggle with learning, but also times when I find my interests in things I gain and learn those things easier than others. Autism doesn't stop you from being functional and smart.
I saw it and got frustrated by something..... Tessa shouldn't have known Heavenly had a disability unless the school is in the wrong and believes that everyone should know everything about everyone.
As a girl with autism, I'm absolutely thrilled to share my passion for coding, computers, and math! Math is my favorite, and I excel at it while spreading kindness along the way. Sometimes I can be a bit shy, but when someone needs help, I’m always ready to jump in! 😊😊😊 Being on “the spectrum” doesn’t hold me back-in fact, I think it’s amazing! Balancing my autism with honors math is truly epic and I wouldn’t have it any other way!
After I was diagnosed with autism and ADHD in elementary school, teachers stopped putting me in the advanced reading groups, tried to have someone read my assignments out loud to me, and forced me to do extra work to “improve my reading skills” even though I could read at a high school level in 5th grade and every assessment I took said I was highly advanced in reading. Amazing how even teachers would rather believe their preconceived notions about autistics instead of what they actually see.
@@_creamy_cloud.x Autism, or ASD, is a neurological and developmental condition that affects communication, learning, and behavior. It has a wide spectrum and can affect people in many different ways.
As a person with autism, I can confirm that, ADHD, ADD, Autism, Down syndrome and dyslexia are WAAAAAAAAY different from one another. My friend, who has ADHD, also can confirm this.
“ADD” is now classified as ADHD-PI, they’re part of the same disorder, i think Autism and ADHD are more accurately two sides of the same coin, some researchers think they might actually be part of the same disorder
I know I don’t have autism, but I have respect for those who have Autism. I got bullied in school because I have a learning disability, but what I learned is just because you have a learning disability it does not mean that you are not smart, you are still smart and you can be anything you want in life as long as you put your mind to it.
Hi Anaya, I also had learning disablelities and skeletal dyphlasia.. Which in school it really hard for me especially in math class, the teacher always pick me just to humiliate me infront of others which is hurt so much.. But am glad for having supportive friends.. They all didn't bully me and they would be worried sick if I was walking behind them like if there any bad happen to me😅although i had learning disablelities but i manage goes to Science class which even harder for me to study and focus😫
thanks dhar for the added awareness in girls. as an autistic girl myself, theres little to no representation of it in movies, shows, etc. so again thank you because its quite rare!!
id just like to point out, not everyone with autism has super high intelligence. sorry but the life lesson should be to treat autistic kids right, cuz they people, not cuz they ultra smart
Ok but extreme amazement that Tessa has a superpower. The ability to tell who is on the spectrum simply by looking at them. Remember guys. When youve met one person with autism... youve met one person with autism. Just like everyone else they are all different with different talents and weaknesses so never ever assume that you know what a person cam do based by where they are on the spectrum.
Everyone should be treated equally! No matter what race, religion, or disability status! This is 2023, not 1952! Love from Florida, East Coast, United States! :)
While it's nice to see a rare depiction of a Black autistic girl (having been one myself), I really wish the message of these was "autistic people and other disabled people are human beings worthy of respect" instead of "be nice to disabled people because maybe they can benefit you in some way." Because guess what? Some autistic people aren't good with math! I'm proof of that! We're still people just like everyone else, even if we can't all be the Rain Man for our neurotypical friends. I need caffeine.
AS AN AUTISTIC PERSON, BEING AUTISTIC DOESN’T CHANGE YOU AS A PERSON, YOU ARE JUST LIKE EVERYONE, THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THAT YOU STRUGGLE TO COPE IN CERTAIN SITUATIONS (NOISY PLACES)
Not only noisy places but you worded this better than I ever could've, and before anyone possibly jumps to any conclusions I was diagnosed autistic a few years ago
This was an awesome vid The funny thing for me is when he said “It was simple actually” at 6:11 and said the same thing at 6:49 lol, this was an awesome vid
I used to have an autistic friend in childhood. I can confidently say he was much smarter than me even though i was not autistic. His brain could do stuff we could never do, he could also calculate the day on any date of any year or month. Only drawback was he used to get a little violent at times but it was not serious
The fact that you tried to mitigate one stereotype while managing to perpetuate another one at the same time is honestly impressive and appalling simultaneously
I have autism its not to be ashamed of it a special thing through life. You may be smart or inquisitive but you will always have people to stand up for u. You have hope we can make a stand up for all autistic people
It's rather concerning how you depict autism as a superpower, utilizing it as a plot point to alter her mindset, instead of acknowledging autistic individuals as human beings deserving of equal treatment. I hope this doesn't reflect your perspective on people with autism, but considering the recurring theme in most of your videos, it appears to be.
Exactly, they always make autism look like a superpower when it’s not, it’s not something to be made fun of but it’s also not an advantage. I know there’s a thing called savant syndrome but not all autistic have it, in fact it’s very rare and it doesn’t make you good at EVERYTHING, just a certain part. You should accept autistics but you also shouldn’t make it look like autism makes you become einstein
I'm a funny little guy [or what I'm told] with autism ever since I was born. ❤ I've been bullied because of it before, though the person learned a lesson and we become friends! I've had enough about bullies treating people like this, so if you ever see it happen just do something about it.
There's a boy in my math class with autism. He gets bullied, but not to his face. Behind his back. He's really smart and we were paired up together for a math sheet we had to do. He helped me with stuff i couldn't figure out. I'm blind in one eye and that eye is lazy so i'm made fun of for it, but he called it cool and he's never seen something like that before. It really made my day. I am a person who WILL NOT stand up for bullying. Just because somebody acts differently, doesn't make them any less of a human with a heart and feelings. No matter what race, religion, disability, or interests somebody has, shouldn't give you the right to treat them any less than what you treat others. THEY HAVE FEELINGS! Stand up for those who're bullied, and don't be the bully. As my principal always says, "Be a buddy, not a bully."
The real dumb one is Tessa, Ik it’s just a story but it made me so annoyed when the two girls tried to put popsicles and make them stand without a base😂
6:18 My friend has autism and she’s really really lively and smart. I feel really bad when people treat her different…..especially since she spent most of her life abroad. Great video ❤
I did customer service for kids with autism in a baseball team. They were so excited and eager to get their shaved ice & kicking the truck 🙈 I was still preparing and had completely forgotten what kind of event I was serving. Once I realized I completely changed my mindset and found my patience again. They were very sweet kids and full of compliments ♥️
This never happened to me. But if it did, I wouldn’t let them treat me like a nobody! I have autism and the bully’s behaviour is already abysmal. We are not slow! We just learn differently.
Girl me too!! I’ve been bullied but not this bad! I wouldn’t be who I am without autism or God! We need to stick up for each other! We aren’t alone. I get so excited to meet people who relate to me!
Thank you for showing how we can be just as intelligent as people who are not neurodivergent. I’m always seeing Autism being shown with people doing a lot more stimming, or are higher needs. I’m so glad they are showing that we are all not doing the same thing. However no matter where you are on the spectrum you deserve respect . To all my fellow Autistics, don’t let anyone tell you who you are and what you can and can’t do.
I know that feeling, because I went swimming to do my daily exercise, the popular girls laughed at me and makes fat jokes about me, I told them to leave me alone, but this girl called me a weird, disgusting, ugly, autistic ogre. They laughed at me, and I outburst crying, and they told me to get out of the pool, That was the worst day of my life. But this video will understand popular girls to learn their lesson not to make fun of autistic kids.
@@john_233nobody said they were and just because they made that comment doesn’t mean they’ve never met someone with autism, yes autistic kids can be EXTREMELY intelligent and that’s their point. having autism doesn’t stop you, it’s your own fascination to learn
"A disability is not an inability; people with autism are just as smart as everyone else." Very true! I also have autism and even I know that's very true. Just because people are autistic doesn't make them less intelligent than everyone else. Autistic people are like everyone else in this world; they just learn things a little differently.
My brother has Down syndrome and he might not be book smart at school and things like that but he is super smart at other things, especially electronics. He knows more than me about them
I'm high functioning autistic and socially awkward because I don't want to be in situations like this and compared to my history of being bullied and having physical aggression I don't want no friends anymore
I don’t have autism, so I wouldn’t really understand what it’s like for those who have it, but I’m friends with a lot of people in my school who do have autism, they are so kind and so smart you wouldn’t believe it. I don’t think of them as any less of anybody else because they are amazing people, so I feel lucky I have these people with me. This video proves my point, thank you Dhar for making this. :)
@@trainfan4014 I’m sorry that thats happening to you, you seem like a really nice person, don’t let them get to you tho bc they dont know the real you!
yOU HAVE SUCH INTERESTING FRIENDS. i AM SORRY FOR BOTHERING, BUT MAY i KNOW TO UNDERSTAND THIS CONDITION BETTER? wHAT SIGNS OF AUTISM DO YOUR FRIENDS HAVE?
As someone who has autism I can really relate, many people take one look at me and decide I'm not worth their time and I often get taken advantage of and I struggle to socialize even during family gatherings so I just mainly keep to myself
I am very sad for you. Look how many peole here are with similar conditions, if you have inspiration, you can try to befriend them. You are rathere smart and educated person, learnt to express your conditions, feelings and opinions in clear way, learnt to use the Internet, you have difficulties and features, but you are strong minded person.g
Man I wish being autistic meant that I would be the next Albert Einstein😂. (It’s honestly annoying being portrayed as super intelligent but really my autism just hinders me in school and is the main reason I’m not doing well)
I have a friend who worked as a gymn teacher before becoming vice principal of the public school where her team work with autistic children. Once she told me about her student who has autism and is very smart
I have autism, the type of autism I have makes me emotionally intelligent + I am naturally smart, proof that there is nothing wrong with having it sure we have our difficulties but we are still people
This breaks my heart watching this video 😭 Full story down below Well I have 2 disabled siblings with autism and a rare genetic disorder and a lot of people bully them but I’m happy to know that there are some really sweet people out there that do really care. Thank you for your time… merry Christmas 🎁
That trick for the % questions have really helped me, i never understood % questions until now, and Ralph made it really simple. So ty Ralph. Edit: I passed my unit test on percentages in school 😊
I am age 13 and have Asperger's Syndrome. This is exactly what I walk into at school and in public. Getting bullied and being called unqualified to do basic activities. Glad Tessa learned a valuable lesson:)
I really love this video! I also love the main lesson. I also have autism, even though I'm very terrible at math. But, on the bright side, I'm very smart when it comes to vocabulary words, phonics, vocabulary comprehension and I'm such a creative thinker. Autism is not a disability nor an inability. Many people on the autism spectrum are incredibly smart, like Temple Grandin and Albert Einstein.🧠
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Im in college and I have a classmate who's autistic. He's not exactly treated badly but no one really hangs out with him. However, he has an INCREDIBLE memory and is really smart... I just wish more people saw how wonderful he really is
I’m also in college and I have autism and Asperger’s
are you acoustic
I’m autistic and I feel proud of it. :)
You say he has an INCREDIBLE memory, so do I! For example, before my grandmother passed away, my dad and I were at the funeral home, and the mortician asked what my great-grandmother’s middle name was, I instantly remembered it was Elizabeth, and my dad DIDN’T know.
Im also autistic
I have autism, and I sometimes get really upset when somebody calls me names because I am different, but I know to surround myself with people who really love and care about me.
I’m so sorry to hear. I’m glad to hear you have people surrounding you that do care about you. 💪
welcome to the party pal not the only one here whos gotten called names because of autism
@@Artuar3CRaFT Tru! ❤😊🙏🏻
@@wrestlingwithjay3770 💜❤️✊🏼🙏🏼💪
You're not alone in this. I have autism and ADHD as well. I can clearly put myself in your shoes.
7:56 Teacher Dances And Go’s Crazy, She Instantly Regrets It💀
😂😂😂
Nah u violated her 😂😂😂
LMAOOO
no but fr wtf is she doing 😭😭😭
Part 2: 0:46 Teacher Dances And Go’s Crazy, She Instantly Regrets It💀
As an actual autistic person, thank you, Dhar for pushing stereotypes and making people think we’re all geniuses. Appreciate it
It is because most are super smart but I agree and I think they should make another one with a not so smart autistic person
@@LisaGamerCool23 I agree
Unpopular opinion. As an autistic woman I actually don’t like this video because if you really think of the message, it is not respect people with autism because they’re humans. The actual message of this video is respect people with autism because they might be good at things neurotypicals are good at. And that speaks volumes….
@sydneycloud5930 This video really does have a very confusing message XD (I have autism too). I assume that the original commenter is being sarcastic!
@@cori055 I think they’re being sarcastic too! I’ve just been very sad lately because I’ve been struggling with my autism. I have a learning disability so I struggle academically. I feel like the main character still wouldn’t be friendly to the new girl if she actually struggled in a subject
4:14 “Why won’t my wall stand”
Me: HAVE YA FORGOTTEN ABOUT GLUE!!!!!!!!
FRRRR
So, people with autism can be really smart with math and stuff like that? What about the fact they're human and a good person?
Exactly I don’t like the fact that they only centured it on being smart or perceived as a genius and that was the only way Tessa stopped being so ableist when she shouldn’t have been regardless if they were really smart or not.
@@avabackupaccount Yeah. Like the video where Kyle stops being mean to the autistic kid
i’m autistic and i can promise you i’m not a genius. it’s just harmful stereotypes
As someone with high functioning autism I'd like to see myself as kind and caring people treat me equal most of the time I'd love to see you as accepting too thank you
@@bowserking6624 No problem
'We're not just changing lives, we are pushing stereotypes'
Yep
@@coconutcoffeeedits7595 burp
I’m autistic but I guarantee you i was mid at math.
@@nerdgeekman omg me too I was doing decent in math and then we did this one unit I sucked at 💀
This is just treating autistic people like their geniuses with super powers This isn’t true. They are normal people
imagine having the audacity to talking to someone with a disability like that and feeling proud
She's a literal pet peeve, she would probably rely on her pretty privilege thing
"Respect Autistic people because they're super smart and never fail at anything!" Thank you for stereotyping us! We really appreciate it!(I'm being very sarcastic btw)
@@aiden-xq9lkYou're NOT a god. There's only ONE God and His name is Jesus Christ! ✝️
@@CeCe_Bride_Of_Jesus_Christwell god doesn’t exist, but you can be a god at something meaning you have a lot of skill. I am autistic and I’m a god at music, languages, and geography.
@@Mazikittythere's gonna be someone who's gonna start ww3 over your reply
@@CeCe_Bride_Of_Jesus_ChristCristian
or instead of taking it as an attack, just watch the actual video and realize that the story was about an ignorant person being taught that people with autism aren't dumb, would you rather have that as the message?
As a young woman with autism, I know exactly what Heavenly is going through and dealt with bullying throughout my years in elementary and middle school, I didn't have any supportive friends at the time and everybody treated me differently, not wanting to be my friend at all.
The bullying stopped when I entered high school where I finally made a real friend, who I'm still friends with to this day, and we both found out we both are on the autism spectrum and shared a lot more things in common than I expected.
I was so happy to finally find a real friend and I finally accepted the fact that I was autistic after all these years, I never let negativity affect me anymore and to be positive with a big smile to show I am proud of my diagnosis.
MASKING IS MY BESTIE AT SCHOOL
I’m 22 years old and I actually have Autism and I stayed at high school when I was 21 years old
I am so happy for you I hope that person continues to be your friend forever. I also have a best friend who loves and accepts me for who I am and she and I are both autistic.
Same as me I am 41 and I have Autism but mild thankfully
You are different in a good way
My best friend has autism. He gets bullied alot for it and it makes my blood boil. He is a blessing to this earth. And he is really smart in science and helped me pass it. I cant be happier to have a friend like him.
People really bullying niggas with autism in 2023?
I hope people don’t bully him anymore I know exactly how it feels
It just makes me sick that these kinds of ignorant people presume that just because we people are autistic means we’re either deaf or dumb.
@@amoghcoorg4920I know right.
God bless him ❤
I love how Tessa’s friends are being kind to heavenly.❤
I’m a girl with autism ❤
@AndrewRubin9 dude don't be so mean
@@KateygirlJ but it’s the truth
@AndrewRubin9 so DISRESPECTFUL
all u need to put kind and respect don’t matter what they are as lest they are beautiful the way they are
@@Welcometomyroblox So true! And I care!
A lot of people with autism are very underestimated, because people focus on the fact that it’s a disability, and the severe part of it.
My oldest daughter has aspergers. She is so bright. There are so many people out there that have some sort of autism and can be brighter than anyone can ever know. They just learn in different ways. This is amazing. There is so much about autistic people we can learn from.
Bro I almost cried because of this heart touching girl with autism makes friends with popular girl after being bullied
As someone with autism, the stereotypes are either: your a super smart person who knows everything, or you’re dumb and can’t talk or understand anything around you. Whenever I tell people I’m autistic their response is but you don’t look autistic, you don’t act autistic.
yeah that's exactly what I get!
Can you blame them? There really is a certain look.
@@richardray6258 what do you mean I’m not following. Could you word it differently?
May I ask you what signs of autism do you have?
@@bogdananedavnya2528 I have Asperger’s, I may not get all of them. But I flail my hands when stimming, it’s hard to socialize, I have a special interest {the hobbit}, I’ll say things that I didn’t know were mean by accident, I can’t remember the rest on the spot.
I love how Tessa says "Yeah, experience messing things up" Yeah, that's how life works XD You have to mess something up to know that's not the right way to do it.
Just like the saying “failure is the key to success”.
NOT THE STEREOTYPES 😨🔫
So true
Ikr like I’m cringing rn 😂
@@Aila909ha
EXCATLY. LIKE IT'S NOT HELPING US
PLEASE NO MORE STEREOTYPES IT'S HINDERING OUR COMMUNITY'S PROGRESS IN AUTISM AWARENESS
4:16 she’s slow, she forgot glue😂
Not slower than u 😂
As someone who has autism, I cannot believe how bad Tessa treated Heavenly, and how things have changed. Just because someone has a disability, does not prevent them from having a perfectly normal life.
I’m sorry it’s not called a disability it’s called a superbility
@@EJ_Editz11no it’s called a disability.
@@EJ_Editz11 why would that be something my mom says in her little facebook post💀💀💀💀💀💀
@@sydneycornell1007. LMFAOOOOO BYEEEEEE
The truth is, a lot of autistic people in realty just need a little more help than other people, and thats ok
Can we please stop with the "Autistic people are mathematical geniuses" stereotype?
Just because Rain-Man did it, doesn't mean all autistic people are human calculators.
Fr, I'm autistic and i despise maths. I prefer art, literature and music, i like creating beautiful things and sharing them with the world :]
@@jdhsjsjdhsush yeah I barely passed any of my math classes.
I'm autistic and am no genius. In fact my IQ is super low. I have intellectual disability and adhd. But I study a lot on my interest.
Can we have JUST ONE Dhar Mann video about a non-stereotypical autistic person?
Tess wasn’t unlucky to be stuck with Heavenly, Heavenly was unlucky to be stuck with Tess with that attitude
She was unlucky until one day later she started to apologize for what she’s said to her and gave her a chance to
Autistic people = amazing people ❤❤
Nah
Yes they are
I have autism I go to a special need school
Not all of them I met an autistic person that does bad things to people
@@FuriousGuy1234there was an autistic girl at my school that “touched” her siblings
I may not have autism but at 4:38 when she started crying tears were flooding down my face
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As someone who has autism, this is offensive. These kind of ignorant people presume that just because we have autism means we’re either deaf or dumb.
I’m a person with autism and in the beginning pulled some heartstrings because the girl underestimates what autistic people can do they are intelligent they might act different but it’s who they are and no one can change that “do your best because your best is enough”
Same here
I have autism and I’m PROUD of it! I wouldn’t be who I am today if it wasn’t for my struggles with autism! Especially with God. I have really transformed in my 19 years!!! YOU GUYS ARE ALL AMAZING! ILYY
I have autism also and I agree. While I'm not very computer smart I'm extremely intelligent with hands on mechanical work and can figure out almost anything usually before my coworkers. I'm proud of who I am
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I have a asperger syndrome, I had regular classes in high school but had to go to different building for my tests, once when I was in Krogers I met one Jane doe and two John does, they remember me for something but may or may not remember, just because we think/function differently then others we ain't slow we do things our own way and pace
I am just worried about my education, drivers license and all. I know i can get it somehow but it will not be easy
@@hannahkrug1923 jainitor?
Bruh i love how Ralph was like "it was simple actually" for so many times-
"It was simple actually"
@@SunnyAir ..
@@FxiryStarzy what-
I know 8 was about to comment this he sounds like an npc
I am really happy that Tessa won. She realized that she has no right to judge people based on how they are. When you don't appreciate what you have, you would lose something that you want back.
As Dhar would say Shouldn’t Judge A Book By It’s Cover
Thx for spoilers 🙄🙄🙄
@@ToranDoesGaming1ok but if u haven’t watched it don’t read comments??
I am glad she CHANED into being a good person.
“A disability is not an inability. People with autism are just as smart as everyone else.” Really touching message, Dhar. 💜🙏🏼
Actually really like that message
Yeah it is my brothers autistic but believe it or not he’s smarter than most 3 years old
Their actually smarter than average human
I have autism, but autism is not a disability.
@@Layahspeaks I meant some autism people are smarter than average human
As a woman with autism and ADHD. Some peers in my school confused The difference between autism and down syndrome. Which I find it really hurting cuz I believe people need to be educated on the differences between down syndrome and autism.
Idgaf
The problem with school is that they expect for students to all learn the same exact way but everyone's brain works far differently from each other, I barely had any help with teachers thinking im kina dumb or "problems with my memory".
@@JaamiDepp mk so?
@@Mcdonaldsbag exactly
@@JaamiDepp thats why yall celtics lost lmao
2:02 who saw the girls nose bleed
Me
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAH NIKE SHORTS GIRL😂
Mel
Me
8:19 "Not just in the classroom"
But in the bedroom😏😏
Looks like someone just turned 13
@@hcal88 I'm not 13. But fair enough. My humour is atrocious
😂
Ayo 🤨
@@hcal88shush it roblox kid
As an Autisic 16yo, there are times when I struggle with learning, but also times when I find my interests in things I gain and learn those things easier than others. Autism doesn't stop you from being functional and smart.
You have expressed your experience and opinion very clearly and you are educated AND SMART PERSON.
As an autistic 16yo it can definitely stop you from functioning too but j get what youre saying
hey, i'm also 16yo. i turn 17 next month!:) pretty sure i have autism lololol but it's okay ❤
I Hope someone with Autism sees this and knows that they are loved and that they matter too. Spread awareness and show love to everyone.❤
I have autism ♥
Amen ❤
I might have it, my parents say it… so no one knows about it 😅
I saw it and got frustrated by something..... Tessa shouldn't have known Heavenly had a disability unless the school is in the wrong and believes that everyone should know everything about everyone.
I have autism and thank you. I really needed this right now 💜
Tessa: WHY WONT MY WALLET STAND😡😡
Me:GURLLLLL YOU AINT GOT GLUE ON IT!😭😭
LIKE HOW IT STAND ON ITS OWN
Just because someone has autism doesn’t mean you treat them bad, treat everyone equally (:
For sure! :)
(:
Agree I agree
speak
the truth
Same here I have autistic
Always treat people how u want to be treated
As a person with autism like myself, sometimes people think I'm not great at anything, but I always do amazing stuff in life.
As a girl with autism, I'm absolutely thrilled to share my passion for coding, computers, and math! Math is my favorite, and I excel at it while spreading kindness along the way. Sometimes I can be a bit shy, but when someone needs help, I’m always ready to jump in! 😊😊😊 Being on “the spectrum” doesn’t hold me back-in fact, I think it’s amazing! Balancing my autism with honors math is truly epic and I wouldn’t have it any other way!
I love how they turn out to be father, and daughter!! Never expected it ❤
After I was diagnosed with autism and ADHD in elementary school, teachers stopped putting me in the advanced reading groups, tried to have someone read my assignments out loud to me, and forced me to do extra work to “improve my reading skills” even though I could read at a high school level in 5th grade and every assessment I took said I was highly advanced in reading. Amazing how even teachers would rather believe their preconceived notions about autistics instead of what they actually see.
Same, Ive always been good at reading luckely teachers never underestemated me
What is autism
@@_creamy_cloud.x Autism, or ASD, is a neurological and developmental condition that affects communication, learning, and behavior. It has a wide spectrum and can affect people in many different ways.
As a person with autism, I can confirm that, ADHD, ADD, Autism, Down syndrome and dyslexia are WAAAAAAAAY different from one another. My friend, who has ADHD, also can confirm this.
So true
Fr bro
AIDS too, totally different
Well ADHD and ADD are kind of two sides of the same coin.
“ADD” is now classified as ADHD-PI, they’re part of the same disorder, i think Autism and ADHD are more accurately two sides of the same coin, some researchers think they might actually be part of the same disorder
I have ADHD and Autism, and I’ve been bullied too. Luckily I have a small friend group who accepts me for who I am! 🥰
❤
Same with me I have both autism and ADHD
@@FelicityVannoy Same here
I might I’m getting a disorder test soon
How do you have ADHD and autism
I know I don’t have autism, but I have respect for those who have Autism. I got bullied in school because I have a learning disability, but what I learned is just because you have a learning disability it does not mean that you are not smart, you are still smart and you can be anything you want in life as long as you put your mind to it.
Truth be told
Just because you call yourself smart doesn't mean you are smart. Prove it.
Hi Anaya, I also had learning disablelities and skeletal dyphlasia.. Which in school it really hard for me especially in math class, the teacher always pick me just to humiliate me infront of others which is hurt so much.. But am glad for having supportive friends.. They all didn't bully me and they would be worried sick if I was walking behind them like if there any bad happen to me😅although i had learning disablelities but i manage goes to Science class which even harder for me to study and focus😫
I can get wings... i put my mind to it🤓🤓🤓
NO ONE ASKED LOL
Wow I remember being bullied in school it’s horrible we should always choose kindness
Do unto others as you want them to do unto you ❤✝️
So true tho
I just love these people with autism opening up you guys go through enough y’all are perfect nobody can tell you otherwise ❤️
Whoever wrote Ralph's little computer talk has no idea what a command prompt is.
thanks dhar for the added awareness in girls. as an autistic girl myself, theres little to no representation of it in movies, shows, etc. so again thank you because its quite rare!!
Wait autistic men are represented in media
😂😂
@@sushmamallineni697 why you laughing?
yall literally have tons of representation idk what u on rn
id just like to point out, not everyone with autism has super high intelligence. sorry but the life lesson should be to treat autistic kids right, cuz they people, not cuz they ultra smart
Ok but extreme amazement that Tessa has a superpower.
The ability to tell who is on the spectrum simply by looking at them.
Remember guys. When youve met one person with autism... youve met one person with autism. Just like everyone else they are all different with different talents and weaknesses so never ever assume that you know what a person cam do based by where they are on the spectrum.
Had such a blast filming this video! I hope you all enjoy and learn something from it ☺️❤️
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Yes we did you are a good actor ❤❤❤
W actee
which character were u
I feel terrible for heavenly ,she was such a sweet girl❤
But she's autistic 😂😂
@@idojumpingjacks1739 so what?
Everyone should be treated equally! No matter what race, religion, or disability status! This is 2023, not 1952! Love from Florida, East Coast, United States! :)
Things are getting better, maybe
Fr
True that😊
Im going to florida in 4 days!
It’s 1952 in my eyes
While it's nice to see a rare depiction of a Black autistic girl (having been one myself), I really wish the message of these was "autistic people and other disabled people are human beings worthy of respect" instead of "be nice to disabled people because maybe they can benefit you in some way." Because guess what? Some autistic people aren't good with math! I'm proof of that! We're still people just like everyone else, even if we can't all be the Rain Man for our neurotypical friends.
I need caffeine.
Yeah, I wish so too, and im terrible at maths!!
Fr!! I'm an autistic woc and I'm terrible at maths lol, i prefer art, literature and music :]
AS AN AUTISTIC PERSON, BEING AUTISTIC DOESN’T CHANGE YOU AS A PERSON, YOU ARE JUST LIKE EVERYONE, THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THAT YOU STRUGGLE TO COPE IN CERTAIN SITUATIONS (NOISY PLACES)
I don't understand autism, but I would NEVER make fun of it
@@Electrostatic_Fusion agreed
@NovenberxSwiftie I like that lesson but i don’t really take it that seriously because of the bold letters, but still! Good message :D
why are you yelling
Not only noisy places but you worded this better than I ever could've, and before anyone possibly jumps to any conclusions I was diagnosed autistic a few years ago
This was an awesome vid
The funny thing for me is when he said “It was simple actually” at 6:11 and said the same thing at 6:49 lol, this was an awesome vid
I used to have an autistic friend in childhood. I can confidently say he was much smarter than me even though i was not autistic. His brain could do stuff we could never do, he could also calculate the day on any date of any year or month. Only drawback was he used to get a little violent at times but it was not serious
It’s true! I have some friends on the spectrum who can do complex math problems mentally in a matter of seconds. Really impressive!
3:36 Can you stop describing yourself 😫
Fr😊
@@bxitcy Nah she said that the autistic girl had no functioning brain? I'm sorry what's her GPA? Like, 0.000001?
@shermymcd maybe even less
0:45 The way she announced it was just straight-up cringe
Ain’t no way she was serious
You literally read my mind
FR
Yes
No real teacher would do that
If Tessa loses that would be karma with extra paprika
As a dude who's dating autistic she excels well. And autism and downs are very different I'm friends with a couple who are also.
9:37 I haven’t finished the video but I think she’s going to use Ralph’s strategy
Same, I it's right
4:09 nah why did i legit think she was gonna say "out of pocket" 💀
😂
The fact that you tried to mitigate one stereotype while managing to perpetuate another one at the same time is honestly impressive and appalling simultaneously
2:04 I wouldve said:"nah your brain is 'slow"
Same g ❤
As someone who has a brother with high-functional autism, this made my day. Thank you
As someone with high functioning autism and with a brother who has mild functioning autism
I like this video
@@DioBrando-lp7yrthere is ok?
11:12 not the teacher just popping up lol
I have autism its not to be ashamed of it a special thing through life. You may be smart or inquisitive but you will always have people to stand up for u. You have hope we can make a stand up for all autistic people
I'll forever be ashamed of it, I don't belong
I know how it feels like I'm so sorry for u
I can't believe you have 23 likes!! 😡 You should have over a thousand likes!! Btw I have Autism too
8:49 was the Ed Sheeran
No it’s Alex long
It's rather concerning how you depict autism as a superpower, utilizing it as a plot point to alter her mindset, instead of acknowledging autistic individuals as human beings deserving of equal treatment. I hope this doesn't reflect your perspective on people with autism, but considering the recurring theme in most of your videos, it appears to be.
Yeah, in an attempt to be "accepting" hes just being horribly abelist and spreading harmful info
Exactly, they always make autism look like a superpower when it’s not, it’s not something to be made fun of but it’s also not an advantage. I know there’s a thing called savant syndrome but not all autistic have it, in fact it’s very rare and it doesn’t make you good at EVERYTHING, just a certain part. You should accept autistics but you also shouldn’t make it look like autism makes you become einstein
3:35 even her friend is shocked by what she said!
I'm a funny little guy [or what I'm told] with autism ever since I was born. ❤
I've been bullied because of it before, though the person learned a lesson and we become friends!
I've had enough about bullies treating people like this, so if you ever see it happen just do something about it.
Agreed! ❤️💪
Cool
What if I’m the bully?
No thank you!
@@Hitlerlover92 it’s simple! What you give, you will get …..eventually!! Be sure!!
There's a boy in my math class with autism. He gets bullied, but not to his face. Behind his back. He's really smart and we were paired up together for a math sheet we had to do. He helped me with stuff i couldn't figure out. I'm blind in one eye and that eye is lazy so i'm made fun of for it, but he called it cool and he's never seen something like that before. It really made my day. I am a person who WILL NOT stand up for bullying. Just because somebody acts differently, doesn't make them any less of a human with a heart and feelings. No matter what race, religion, disability, or interests somebody has, shouldn't give you the right to treat them any less than what you treat others. THEY HAVE FEELINGS! Stand up for those who're bullied, and don't be the bully. As my principal always says, "Be a buddy, not a bully."
I have autism and I think it is amazing to spread awareness of how smart and kind we can be.
I am sorry for bothering you, but I would like to be better aware, what signs of autism do you have?
I'm really sorry to say but even other people are smart not all just people that have autism
Make sure not to do it to much
The real dumb one is Tessa, Ik it’s just a story but it made me so annoyed when the two girls tried to put popsicles and make them stand without a base😂
Fun fact's Dhar the perfect person's to watch while eating and he always makes our day or night even better
nah keegzn or wafflos or lennybarn way better
@@liur8019 no shi~ 🙄
@@thepurringninja9367shit* if ur gonna curse do it correctly
@@wonyscamera she said shi if she said shit she would’ve gotten community violated
@@Cheeseburger-je9uq i said it and I didn’t get community violated
6:18 My friend has autism and she’s really really lively and smart. I feel really bad when people treat her different…..especially since she spent most of her life abroad. Great video ❤
I did customer service for kids with autism in a baseball team. They were so excited and eager to get their shaved ice & kicking the truck 🙈
I was still preparing and had completely forgotten what kind of event I was serving. Once I realized I completely changed my mindset and found my patience again. They were very sweet kids and full of compliments ♥️
Sure I envy your Cleverness@DONT READ MY PROFILE PICTURE
8:36 heavenly's smile is so cute 🥹
The truth is, a lot of autistic people in realty just need a little more help than other people, and thats ok
And actually, many of them are smarter than the general population.
This never happened to me. But if it did, I wouldn’t let them treat me like a nobody! I have autism and the bully’s behaviour is already abysmal. We are not slow! We just learn differently.
Fs ✊🏼
Girl me too!! I’ve been bullied but not this bad! I wouldn’t be who I am without autism or God! We need to stick up for each other! We aren’t alone. I get so excited to meet people who relate to me!
@@destinyspeaceyou and me both.
@@loganmalough2379 haha btw I think I said girl!! It’s a habit! I’m so sorry 😆
@@destinyspeace sorry for what? Girl don’t matter.
Thank you for showing how we can be just as intelligent as people who are not neurodivergent. I’m always seeing Autism being shown with people doing a lot more stimming, or are higher needs. I’m so glad they are showing that we are all not doing the same thing. However no matter where you are on the spectrum you deserve respect . To all my fellow Autistics, don’t let anyone tell you who you are and what you can and can’t do.
Do you know what high functioning autism is it’s basically a super power 
Well if you think he's actually spreading awareness you're a fool.
This video is showing the harmful stereotype of “all autistic people are super smart and they get bullied until the bully realizes they are smart”
He is just pushing stereotypes
no dude, people with autism DO have higher needs, we DO need help
I know that feeling, because I went swimming to do my daily exercise, the popular girls laughed at me and makes fat jokes about me, I told them to leave me alone, but this girl called me a weird, disgusting, ugly, autistic ogre. They laughed at me, and I outburst crying, and they told me to get out of the pool, That was the worst day of my life. But this video will understand popular girls to learn their lesson not to make fun of autistic kids.
Do you need a hug?
"A disability is not an inability. People with autism are just as smart as everyone else." Big facts! 💯
I agree how autism doesn't affect a person's intelligence. A lot of people with autism are very smart. Many geniuses have autism.
@@bikerboy9010 I have autism.
@@john_233nobody said they were and just because they made that comment doesn’t mean they’ve never met someone with autism, yes autistic kids can be EXTREMELY intelligent and that’s their point. having autism doesn’t stop you, it’s your own fascination to learn
they are not
@@intenzfn4842 How is that?
"A disability is not an inability; people with autism are just as smart as everyone else." Very true! I also have autism and even I know that's very true. Just because people are autistic doesn't make them less intelligent than everyone else. Autistic people are like everyone else in this world; they just learn things a little differently.
My brother has Down syndrome and he might not be book smart at school and things like that but he is super smart at other things, especially electronics. He knows more than me about them
12:26 the way im literally drinking an oreo milkshake because my brother passed all his exams LOL
I have autism, adhd, anger issues, anxiety
I'm sorry 😔
oh me, either
I'm high functioning autistic and socially awkward because I don't want to be in situations like this and compared to my history of being bullied and having physical aggression I don't want no friends anymore
I'm autistic too but I have abandonment issues so I rather have friends just I don't have any
I’m also very autistic and I always would scream bomb on an airplane
I don’t have autism, so I wouldn’t really understand what it’s like for those who have it, but I’m friends with a lot of people in my school who do have autism, they are so kind and so smart you wouldn’t believe it. I don’t think of them as any less of anybody else because they are amazing people, so I feel lucky I have these people with me. This video proves my point, thank you Dhar for making this. :)
I do and its upsetting for me to be bullied by 2 people even tho I am a special needs person
@@trainfan4014 I’m sorry that thats happening to you, you seem like a really nice person, don’t let them get to you tho bc they dont know the real you!
Thank you for that that helps me a lot😉🙂
yOU HAVE SUCH INTERESTING FRIENDS. i AM SORRY FOR BOTHERING, BUT MAY i KNOW TO UNDERSTAND THIS CONDITION BETTER? wHAT SIGNS OF AUTISM DO YOUR FRIENDS HAVE?
As someone who has autism I can really relate, many people take one look at me and decide I'm not worth their time and I often get taken advantage of and I struggle to socialize even during family gatherings so I just mainly keep to myself
I am very sad for you. Look how many peole here are with similar conditions, if you have inspiration, you can try to befriend them. You are rathere smart and educated person, learnt to express your conditions, feelings and opinions in clear way, learnt to use the Internet, you have difficulties and features, but you are strong minded person.g
Ok so now everybody’s apparently autistic. Stop trying to get the attention ur parents didn’t give you
Man I wish being autistic meant that I would be the next Albert Einstein😂. (It’s honestly annoying being portrayed as super intelligent but really my autism just hinders me in school and is the main reason I’m not doing well)
I have autism and am proud (thanks for the likes) 😄
Yes! You should always have self trust
You should always be proud of were you come from and proud of yourself
@@josephberryman4106 thanks. I will
@@YanSimTuts I will. Thanks 👍
@@JayJay-BRZ your welcome have a great day
I have a friend who worked as a gymn teacher before becoming vice principal of the public school where her team work with autistic children. Once she told me about her student who has autism and is very smart
I have autism, the type of autism I have makes me emotionally intelligent + I am naturally smart, proof that there is nothing wrong with having it sure we have our difficulties but we are still people
This breaks my heart watching this video 😭
Full story down below
Well I have 2 disabled siblings with autism and a rare genetic disorder and a lot of people bully them but I’m happy to know that there are some really sweet people out there that do really care. Thank you for your time… merry Christmas 🎁
And my siblings do count, and they do matter! I would love to here your story too, feel free to share it in my reply’s
That trick for the % questions have really helped me, i never understood % questions until now, and Ralph made it really simple. So ty Ralph.
Edit: I passed my unit test on percentages in school 😊
I am age 13 and have Asperger's Syndrome. This is exactly what I walk into at school and in public. Getting bullied and being called unqualified to do basic activities. Glad Tessa learned a valuable lesson:)
i got aspergers too but i never been bulied
@@warzoneclips4913 that’s good
That is true
@@warzoneclips4913me too
I'm sorry if this comes off as offensive but please can anyone tell me what Asperger's is? I'm quite uneducated when it comes to this sort of stuff
I really love this video! I also love the main lesson. I also have autism, even though I'm very terrible at math.
But, on the bright side, I'm very smart when it comes to vocabulary words, phonics, vocabulary comprehension and I'm such a creative thinker.
Autism is not a disability nor an inability. Many people on the autism spectrum are incredibly smart, like Temple Grandin and Albert Einstein.🧠
i love the way ralph says,it was simple actually