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  • Опубліковано 26 вер 2020
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  • @sarahmendez11553
    @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +59

    In order of appearance:
    Greys Anatomy
    Greys Anatomy
    Riverdale
    Teen wolf
    Supergirl
    Supergirl
    Greys Anatomy
    Glee
    Greys Anatomy
    Arrow
    Greys Anatomy
    Glee
    Supergirl
    Glee
    Like and subscribe if u liked the video!!

  • @no.braincell.06
    @no.braincell.06 3 роки тому +254

    My dad: "who are you I don't recognize you"
    me: "I'm your daughter that's not ok"
    Dad: "why are you not ok, I give you everything"
    me: "except your love, approval, and telling me that your proud"
    Dad: "your so ungrateful"

    • @bishwut6081
      @bishwut6081 2 роки тому +9

      I feel this every damn day.

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +12

      I'm very sorry that you feel this way. Sometimes parents don't give us what we really want, but that's not our fault, it's theirs.

  • @LittleBlueAngelDuck
    @LittleBlueAngelDuck 2 роки тому +146

    I think it's more common than people may believe that older siblings raise their younger ones and still, they're getting all the blame, hate and neglect from the parents. That absolutely breaks my heart.

    • @BellaR18Swiftie
      @BellaR18Swiftie Рік тому +2

      I'm not the older sibling I'm the middle child but my mom treats me like the older one

  • @angelicabaruffaldi7900
    @angelicabaruffaldi7900 3 роки тому +341

    Me watching this with my parents screaming in the background 😃

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  3 роки тому +35

      😔 strength, friend.

    • @sopanjadhavar4480
      @sopanjadhavar4480 3 роки тому +7

      Same but not watching with my parents

    • @yashrajchoudhary5221
      @yashrajchoudhary5221 2 роки тому +5

      Same we have issues going on rn my mum and sis are having a argument- yk approval and all thingzzz

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +2

      @@yashrajchoudhary5221 Im really sorry that you have to go through this. Hope it gets better

    • @S.N_21
      @S.N_21 2 роки тому

      What ,you okay?

  • @saphobyron1397
    @saphobyron1397 3 роки тому +250

    In Stilinski's defense, that was a conjured up illusion in Stile's head

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  3 роки тому +28

      I know, the sheriff is a perfect dad... but it fits si good xD

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  3 роки тому +5

      @Dominica Joos Oooh what interesting information hahha thx xD

    • @cam-cs4cj
      @cam-cs4cj 3 роки тому +4

      yeah, i feel bad for stiles :( that scene made my cry so much

    • @austinwest9847
      @austinwest9847 3 роки тому +1

      It was an illusion about a fear in his head, that's one of the reactions to the plant they were given, it made you drunk and hallucinate

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +1

      @@cam-cs4cj Same :(

  • @Sarkastik-1219
    @Sarkastik-1219 3 роки тому +85

    My baby Jo deserves the whole world, im so glad she has Luna now

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  3 роки тому +8

      Yes, at less se have Luna 💕

    • @kaitlinlewis2450
      @kaitlinlewis2450 2 роки тому +1

      @@sarahmendez11553 I would love to see Vicky make another appearance and see Jo with Luna.

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому

      @@kaitlinlewis2450 I feel like she would make jo feel bad and I don't want that anymore 🤧

    • @kaitlinlewis2450
      @kaitlinlewis2450 2 роки тому +1

      @@sarahmendez11553 I get that and Jo has come a long way. Now to find Luna a Daddy and a Good Husband for Jo.

  • @tvds8350
    @tvds8350 3 роки тому +114

    My parents yell at me, have their own lives, and never spend time with me. I feel so not love, they wouldn’t care if I live or die. All they want is money.

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  3 роки тому +7

      Let me tell you that many times parents do not act as they should, they are supposed to love us and take care of us but sometimes they just don't.🤷🏽‍♀️
      And that will make you a strong and independent person that one day will find someone who loves you as you deserves. You have a lot to live for don't let a bad situation keep you from seeing how bright life is

    • @tvds8350
      @tvds8350 3 роки тому +5

      @@sarahmendez11553 I'm a teenager, and thank u for the advice.

    • @katielear6570
      @katielear6570 Рік тому +1

      @@sarahmendez11553 I know its been a year but I just wanted to say thanks. Going into my last year of high school and then I'm free to do whatever I want and get away from my abusive and toxic family. Just gotta make it one more winter...

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  Рік тому

      @@katielear6570 you just made my day, I'm glad to hear you're about to get over it and please let me know when you're finally out, I'm proud of how strog you are girl

  • @mireillebonnici2384
    @mireillebonnici2384 3 роки тому +38

    Riverdale
    Teen wolf
    Supergirl
    Glee
    Arrow
    Arrow
    Glee
    Glee

  • @matthewnewby3850
    @matthewnewby3850 3 роки тому +47

    Anyone else search these to relate?

  • @thessianheart9816
    @thessianheart9816 3 роки тому +18

    The mistake kids with horrible parents make is thinking that they will love them some day in the future. It's never gonna happen. It's better to be alone and to love yourself than expecting love from a soulless monster. It's hard but it's the only thing that they can do.

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +6

      For a child it is difficult to accept that the person who is supposed to love you unconditionally does not. They are children, they begin to believe that there is something wrong with them because no one taught them to love themselves, it is not their fault, it is the parents' fault.

  • @himashreeborgohain30
    @himashreeborgohain30 3 роки тому +21

    My father said that he would be happy if I was not born
    My mother always curse me to die
    My older sibling don't give a shit about me

    • @Mariasocmella
      @Mariasocmella 3 роки тому +3

      im so sorry, i hope you find someone that makes you feel loved and special.

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +3

      Very sorry. I'm sure you are a special person and you don't need anyone's approval. Life is too beautiful to focus on the opinion of people who are not good.

  • @MammaMia-oi9sl
    @MammaMia-oi9sl 3 роки тому +44

    Damn... I might actually cry

  • @me0t7
    @me0t7 Рік тому +3

    I almost lost my smile since long time! I can't anymore!

  • @Mari-wm9qc
    @Mari-wm9qc 2 роки тому +2

    Sometimes I come to myself and think "maybe they were right and I'm just stupid" but the days keep proving to me that there is something wrong

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  Рік тому +2

      Parents dont know it all im pretty sure you are awesome

  • @goodfoods7450
    @goodfoods7450 Рік тому +4

    People always say that older siblings get the worst treatment from their parents. Well, in my case, my older brother got all the forgiveness no matter how shameful and horrible things he did. When it comes to me, even the smallest mistakes I do, would be an issue and my mom would not talk to me for days as if I have committed a crime.
    For 24 years of my life, I always feel so lonely and broken and nobody can see that. I have decided to stop sharing my problems to anyone. And truthfully, I don't even think I have friends.
    I can't let people know how toxic my family really is. And btw, my parents divorced when I was 11. Everytime my mom got mad at me, she would always say "go to your father and live with him and see if he can stand with your shit". I don't even know if I ever needed in this world but one thing for sure nobody would care if I die.

  • @palmaianiko6992
    @palmaianiko6992 5 місяців тому

    I know Stiles' hallucination scene fits here, but I adore his father-son bond with Noah❤

  • @gabrielisfalcin359
    @gabrielisfalcin359 3 роки тому +15

    Jo is so brave ❤❤ she deserves the world

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +1

      definitely deserves it. But now she has Luna!!!!

  • @renatareynoldsxianxian
    @renatareynoldsxianxian 2 роки тому +5

    I feel like this is gonna happen in real time in more frequently because of wade vs roe.

  • @VioletEmerald
    @VioletEmerald Рік тому +5

    Glad to stumble across this one as related to my selfish mothers video lol. I really knew almost all the fandoms, I hadn't gotten quite that far in Supergirl to see Maggie's dad (may have seen the previous episode lol, I was so close) and never got around to seeing Riverdale but I know all the rest of the scenes. 1:40 ish, I especially love seeing the undervidded Alex Karev moment of how it's hard for him to process his mom being okay and better now when it's too late.

  • @---su5lw
    @---su5lw 2 роки тому +6

    Parents: I raised you to be EXTRAORDINARY
    : Disappointment..."No more than Ordinary"
    Me: what if i choose to be ordinary , what if I wanted an average lifestyle with a normal family,what if I love myself for who and what I am, what if I am satisfied and proud of my achievements and accomplishments, what if I don't care but I LOVE YOU and it really hurts ...... Then....Then..... I just ... Feel shitty 'bout myself.. and.. hating myself ? .... no?..yes?...... then surely concluding that I Am the problem..It was always me....

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +1

      Parents project their insecurities on their children, if you feel happy with the choices you have made then there is no other choice that live as you want, choose to be happy over other things. If your parents do not support you or continue in the position of calling you "ordinary" then the problem is not you, it is them. Because if you were to do everything to satisfy them, where would you be? Your self love? your happiness? I'm sure you are someone wonderful, never let someone else's opinion (no matter how much you love them) stop you from being who you are.

  • @JinaMukherjeeF
    @JinaMukherjeeF 2 роки тому +3

    I feel kinda good knowing i can relate to yall in the comments and we all feel like a community :)

  • @seikooz
    @seikooz 3 роки тому +48

    This really amazing edit 💗💖

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  3 роки тому +1

      THANK U!!! 💞💞💞

    • @seikooz
      @seikooz 3 роки тому +2

      @@sarahmendez11553 You're welcome 💗

  • @rhapsody8726
    @rhapsody8726 3 роки тому +12

    Gosh...I missed this one

  • @BlackQueenedits
    @BlackQueenedits 3 роки тому +11

    Wow😍😍😍😍IT'S REALLY GOOD

  • @jayakodybasnayake9638
    @jayakodybasnayake9638 2 роки тому +8

    I NEED LOVE FROM MY PARENTS LIKE OTHERS BUT NEVER ,i need to hug ,kiss ,talk with my parents bu they doesn't care about me .why?never answer

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +1

      Many times parents are not able to give us what we need, it does not mean that no one will ever love us, it means that they simply have a problem, it is not your fault, it is not you, it is them. I send you a lot of love because I think you are a special person!

  • @rhapsody8726
    @rhapsody8726 3 роки тому +17

    It's so good 🥺🥺❤

  • @nadiavanhattem5175
    @nadiavanhattem5175 2 роки тому +7

    An idea to add in a edit like this: (series: 9-1-1 -->) Bucks mom "What expected you us to do?!" Buck "Loving me. Just loving me." (Someth like tha).
    That scene- MY HEARTT😭😭

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +2

      Omg yes, when i made this edit i did´nt knew 911 but you are right that scene fits so well! Ill have it on mind the next time i edit something like this

    • @nadiavanhattem5175
      @nadiavanhattem5175 2 роки тому +1

      @@sarahmendez11553 Ikr! Oeff yeahh i cant waiittt🎶😱😍 You're welcome!😘

  • @faithdomenichini1500
    @faithdomenichini1500 3 роки тому +5

    mer and jo were so young 🥺
    edit: omggg alexxx and grown up lexi (supergirl)

  • @epiphany5
    @epiphany5 3 роки тому +9

    Also consider emotional abuse

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому

      I don't remember any scenes, maybe you could tell me some for a next video!

  • @Toocoolforschool573
    @Toocoolforschool573 3 роки тому +4

    Loved this and you should have put shameless in here

  • @jelenaorevic7716
    @jelenaorevic7716 Рік тому +1

    We all grown up with a parents that is not good for themselves and for us.we all now know that is very unhealthy and not good.we all are under that.and maybe become because of that bad to ourselves.but here is the thing and the fact that if we all want a healthy and a better.the fact is that someone has to be first to make a change.and to be the change into good.that is the key of better and healthy and safe life❤😊

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  Рік тому +2

      We all have to learn from theur mistakes and be better

  • @rynhanz5553
    @rynhanz5553 2 роки тому +2

    Oh no so related 😭😭😭

  • @jinspinkslippers35
    @jinspinkslippers35 2 роки тому +4

    I am 12 year old girl who likes to study at night and my mom she thinks i have a boyfriend or something why she never spend time with me why she never trusts me why she never loves me and she always say it's my fault that she doesn't loves me am i that bad?

  • @hauahmisshellychaitram6547
    @hauahmisshellychaitram6547 Рік тому +2

    Hi dearheart most great people defeat their parental issues an become the best mother or father to their selves and their children when they realise that they just need to love themselves too make up for whatever they lost out on.😊

  • @ellie_hernandez4465
    @ellie_hernandez4465 3 роки тому +2

    They all looked intresting

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  3 роки тому +1

      They are

    • @ellie_hernandez4465
      @ellie_hernandez4465 3 роки тому +1

      What are the names of the shows?

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  3 роки тому +1

      @@ellie_hernandez4465 In order of appearance:
      Greys Anatomy
      Greys Anatomy
      Riverdale
      Teen wolf
      Supergirl
      Supergirl
      Greys Anatomy
      Glee
      Greys Anatomy
      Arrow
      Greys Anatomy
      Glee
      Supergirl
      Glee

  • @DeuxiemeLuca
    @DeuxiemeLuca Рік тому +2

    I don't think Jo's birth mother should be here, yes she have a sad background too but at the end she tried to give Jo a chance to survive. Stories like theirs are so hard, complicated, and sad u.u

  • @sophianash6097
    @sophianash6097 Рік тому +2

    I don't think Noah belongs here. He was an amazing parent. That scene was a hallucination of Stiles' worst fesr

  • @shane2133
    @shane2133 3 роки тому +5

    Please i won't names all movies and tv shows on this video

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому

      Greys Anatomy, Riverdale, Tee Wolf, Supergirl and Glee

  • @dum_dum5113
    @dum_dum5113 3 роки тому +3

    1:43 is that is season 17? I have no idea where that is is greys anatomy

  • @kimberleywilliams3283
    @kimberleywilliams3283 2 роки тому +2

    What is the series called at 0.29 please and Thank you

  • @natalybrooke7828
    @natalybrooke7828 3 роки тому +3

    Where is from 1:07?

  • @snehanazarkar9006
    @snehanazarkar9006 3 роки тому +3

    Where is from 0:31 ?

  • @ellie_hernandez4465
    @ellie_hernandez4465 3 роки тому +3

    What shows did you put on here!?

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  3 роки тому +4

      In order of appearance:
      Greys Anatomy
      Greys Anatomy
      Riverdale
      Teen wolf
      Supergirl
      Supergirl
      Greys Anatomy
      Glee
      Greys Anatomy
      Arrow
      Greys Anatomy
      Glee
      Supergirl
      Glee

  • @vanessagalicia2238
    @vanessagalicia2238 3 роки тому +1

    1:50 que película o serie es?

  • @v1rtuous
    @v1rtuous 3 роки тому +3

    Stilinski's one doesn't count cuz it was just an illusion...

  • @shrekla4247
    @shrekla4247 2 роки тому +1

    I can’t watch encanto bec I know my family is abusive and toxic and I also know I’ll never get the resolution like they did and it kills me every time.

  • @mahrukhshaikh3466
    @mahrukhshaikh3466 2 роки тому +1

    My father said that I don't deserve my parent
    Last night my mother was beating me no one came to my help instead my father stuffed cloth in my mouth to shut me up

  • @shanellesmusic7402
    @shanellesmusic7402 3 роки тому +2

    anyone know 2:44 3:10 ?

  • @KQuinn672
    @KQuinn672 2 роки тому +1

    WHY ARE the parents humiliating them in front of the whole family

  • @HarleyLilo1988
    @HarleyLilo1988 6 місяців тому

    Image your father giving you a lecture on why you shouldn't have a vhild. How you would fail as a mother and all these things. Then when you lose your son he doesn't call or check on her. He just stops talking to you.

  • @vasilikikokozidou3402
    @vasilikikokozidou3402 3 роки тому +9

    I don't think stiles belongs in this category

    • @Anazec1
      @Anazec1 3 роки тому +1

      They used that scene because it fits the video

    • @thewallfangirl2980
      @thewallfangirl2980 3 роки тому +1

      Just because it’s conjured up in his mind does not mean The person who uploaded the video can’t have that scene in alright?

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому

      I know, but it fits with the idea!

  • @nuerodol1147
    @nuerodol1147 2 роки тому +3

    not all of them are bad parents

    • @sarahmendez11553
      @sarahmendez11553  2 роки тому +1

      Jo's mother abandoned her and I understand why, but when she wanted to reconnect with her, she ignored her and caused her depression by telling her that she only saw her as a result of rape.
      Meredith's mother looked down on her and blamed her for having "ruined" her career, always verbally attacking her for this.
      Cheryl's mother blamed her for the death of her brother, she kept quiet about the attempted rape of a rich boy towards Cheryl for cash.
      Maggie's father abandoned her and years later when she wanted to show him her life, he despised her for being a lesbian.
      Alex's mother had schizophrenia and he had to raise his two siblings neglecting his studies, when she controlled herself she completely ignored him.
      I can go on. I don't know what you understand as good parents but these definitely weren't. When you cause emotional or physical damage to your children, you are not a good parent, not even close.