Funnily enough, by the standards in 1600s SHE’D be the witch! Since redheads were considered witches by default due to "the flames of hell" being the reason that their hair is red or orange.
Her using low self-esteem as an excuse for how toxic she is is wild to me. Like, my self-confidence is nonexistent, but that never made me a manosphere pick me.
I had major self esteem issues as a kid and most of my bullies were girls. So I became a pick me. But I didn't openly trash women because I knew I was envious of their makeup skills, I loved wearing makeup on stage or at formal events, I didn't have the body to pull off the outfits the other girls wore yet once I had more confidence around 17/18 I wore the same sort of outfits I internally judged the other girls for. I think the worst I would say is I'm not like other girls, I'm a real gamer girl because I play lots of games not just COD (ironically I rarely play things other than Pokemon and a few other childhood franchises nowadays), I like wearing makeup but I don't get wearing it to school of all places (and also ironically I will spend ages doing a bold eyeshadow look and experiment with lipstick until I find the right look for absolutely no special reason or event, I just do it because it's fun even though my glasses hide a lot of it). Teenage me would both judge 25 year old me and admire me because I'm basically the person I was too self conscious to express. I dye my hair, I have piercings and a tattoo from my favourite anime from back then, I figured out how to do eye makeup, I wear bold lipstick colours, I dress alternatively and show off my body (reasonably) in summer, etc. I'm the person 14 year old me wishes she had the guts to be.
It's more than just self esteem. Correct me if I'm wrong but I remember her justyfing and wouldn't care her husband cheats. Right on cue, the clip of her justifying cheating because women bad.
I could be incredibly wrong but Pearl might be envious of her mother. Her mother is living proof that her beliefs are wrong in so many ways. She is educated and has been successful from a young age. By now she is a career woman, a married woman, and a mother of multiple kids. She has done it all and Pearl has not done much despite being in her late 20s. Pearl even goes out of her way to overlook her mother's role as a CEO and even talked about how she respects her father for not cheating on her mother as if she expected him to.
@artlover4997 that's strange because I remember seeing a clip of a podcast she was on and boasting how she didn't care that her dad cheated on her unless I'm missing some context. Either way thats....so sad. Like it really is. Yes it's funny to make fun of her for all her hyprocrisies, but it's so sad.
@@jewelamina This is not it. My father earns mid 6 figures in America. My mother earns more than $2,000,000. Rich kids hate their moms because their moms often spend too much time at work. For some reason, it just hurts more when your mom avoids you. Just the way it is. I have a lot of respect for women who are driven in their careers, but I'm looking for a teacher or a girl with a government job. Even though my mom and I have a good relationship.
@@optimizelife365 That is an interesting take I didn't think of. Do you think that Pearl might have lacked an close and intimate relationship with her mother, causing her to lash out now? And the rest of her siblings seem okay, although of course I don't know what happens behind the scenes.
Genuinely it would be so interesting to hear from her why she is like that, but like just the full on honest reason why; no sugar coating, no political corrections just her saying her reasons. Like what would posses her to act that way to the extremes she has gone to?
Pearl being racist is not shocking at all. Misogynistic people aren't above other types of ignorance. Honestly, nobody is above being ignorant. It's the people that choose ignorance that are irritating.
right and there’s plenty of racist white women that’ll date black men or even fetishize having mixed babies. pretty sure pearls ex who she was having premarital sex with and “lowering her value” (in her own words) was a black man. have seen it play out many times irl it’s so fucked.
My parents got divorced when I was in like 1st grade, and them separating was 100% the best thing for my brother and I. People staying together for the kids is a horrible thing to do in a lot of cases.
Completely agree! My parents divorced when I was a teenager, but I wish they would have done it much earlier. I was old enough to fully understand what was happening in their relationship and was used as an unpaid therapist/mediator for years. Things got better after they finally separated. Staying together in a miserable marriage is not the gift to children that people seem to think it is 😂
Im the same! Even as a kid who begged my parents to stay together, it resulted in home life getting a lot better. Especially since one parent was abusive. Removing the conflict with divorce can be life saving for both kids and parents
My parents divorced too when I was young but then my mom got with my stepdad and argued with him everyday for most of my life. Later she said she stayed with him for me and my sibling. So I saw both possible outcomes and I definitely preferred just divorcing. What kid wants to grow up in a miserable home
Same here!!! I was 15, my mom had been wanting to leave her abusive husband for at least 8 years before she did. I wish she did it sooner, but I'm happy she did at all.
The black manosphere loved pearl until the whole nick fuentes thing. The crazy thing is they really thought she cared about the plight of black men. It's crazy that black men would ever align with a red pill right wing person
I don't think it's strange. They unite with misogyny and will ignore a lot if their misogyny is validated. But a breaking point always comes because of course they'll find the racism too much one day. It's wild that these black men understand discrimination when it comes to racism but suddenly don't get it when it comes to misogyny. That's why, although it is not solved as a social issue, racism will always be taken more seriously than misogyny is. Because it affects men too. Which is why racist slurs are taboo and slurs against women are used in daily life, in all of pop culture.
Whenever birth control is brought up by these sorts of people, they forget that birth control is often prescribed for health conditions. Like, I need it in order to not be in excruciating pain and so severely anaemic I'm constantly passing out. This is after having endometriosis removed. I'm still left with chronic nerve pain that flares up when I have periods so I need birth control. And either way, condoms still exist to protect against both STDs and babies. Does Pearl think condoms are evil as well? Should every sexually active person just risk getting diseases that will affect a potential pregnancy?
!!!! Omg! Sorry about the endo. Omg! I can imagine how much toll the whole process took on you. Please take it easy with yourself. As for pearl, I still can’t think she’s real. I refuse to believe that tbh.
@@jewelamina Thank you! I'm lucky it was a small amount and was in a spot it could be removed safely. I'm also lucky the lingering pain is nothing compared to the decade of pain I had before getting it treated. In regards to Pearl, I choose to believe this is all just a dream and she's just a sleep paralysis demon 😅
Yes! I went from vomiting, couldn’t walk straight (back pain), and waking up on my floor to the only difference I have on my period being the color of the pills I’m taking haha. I think that people don’t realize that “birth control” pills are female hormones and are hence can be used to treat any issues that are based upon female hormones in women. They’re medication and shouldn’t be withheld from those who need it to live a halfway decent life!
I find it funny that Pearl was laughing with Nick Fuentes at King Richz and his girlfriend. All the while she dated and slept with angry reactions and many other black men.
@@oginnidemi6747They were in a TOXIC full blown relationship…look it up; she thought he was a millionaire and she literally tracked him down via social media and DM him BUT in reality he had no money…he had to move into her parents mansion and they shared a bedroom, he didn’t have an ID, had 2 kids that she didn’t know about, her parents had to even make a fake lease for him to get a ID…she actually cheated on him and that is why they broke up.
I honestly think a lot of this is from Pearl feeling neglected and inferior to her siblings. Pearl had a lot of siblings and said in videos that she and her siblings would get more attention if they were doing well in their respective sport. She also said her brothers “humbled her” and was the ugly friend in her group. She also has said multiple times “I never said I was smart,” her mom and siblings are readers and she is not, and they have successful jobs. And by doing this, even if she is getting negative attention, she is still getting the attention she wish she had before.
Makes perfect sense 👌 her mother is a thorn in her side for sure as well, her mom is a successful mother and wife and ceo, she did amazing for herself and Pearl isn’t lol
@@deny93ful1I literally have a hard time understanding people with thick accents because of genetic ear issues and I can hear her clearly I think you're just racist.
One point made by the manosphere that I cannot understand is that if a woman has kids or if she has already been "passed around" that she cannot say that she wants to be celibate or want to wait until marriage. Like what? But then men can go through a 1000 women and still manage to find a woman to settle down with long after not only hitting the wall but it also falling on them after they hit it. At the end of the day, whether you are a virgin or you're like Brittany Renner, you are never obligated to have sex with a man and you can wait until marriage. Like this whole idea that if a woman has had sex or has kids that she cannot say no to sex or make a man wait is sick.
The point is they want women to be universaly considered objects. Objects don't have will of their own, they are to be used by a person whoever they want. And only men being considered persons, they can't loose "value" doing anything.
Well, it's because even being as low as they are, they consider themselves above. They posses no logic and no sense and whenever questioned about why they can do something and you supposedly can't. They say "because it's different." Which is a non answer since a real one doesn't exist. We're all people and they want to be the only people. Which is why I've always thought they should turn to one another for the weird relationships they wanna have. You consider yourselves so wonderful? F each other then and for intimate relationships.
Along the fact that the logic just doesn't make any sense. There's naturally an even split of men and women so how is every man going to be having sex with multiple women, therefore making those women 'whores' and 'unmarriageable' and there still be enough 'good women' for a man to marry? The math doesn't add up.
Exactly. “Pride” is also putting yourself down and making the “self” an excuse for harmful ideas and communication. If you are humbled, you know your insecurities are your own struggle and should not inform how you interact with the world.
She does, and that's half the grift. None of these tradwife advocates are actually against the benefits they've gained from feminism, they use feminism as an attack against other minorities. It's not even a new concept, with most Suffragettes explicitly wanting black women excluded from the movement because "it would erode society" to give black women the same rights as white women because, well, racism..
Literally! The way this type of content is so draining to watch. So low vibrational that even if i disconnect my brain i am having a headache by the mental gymnastics they make to try to justify their bigotry. Like bro don't bring up "biology",biology is ashamed of the way your brain work.💀😭🤣
She is hurt, self projecting onto other women because of possibly being abandoned and neglected in a sense as a child. Now she is an adult she is angry and speaking up for her inner child who needs healing. Instead of learning to heal, she decides to roll with the punches and side with men to throw her insults at other women. Every beautiful woman is a threat to her. Pearl has found many ways to get men to side with her but has not found a man to cherish her, and take her seriously. And now she is at that age of wanting it but knows it might not come because she has gone too far. Desperate for attention has only put her into a deeper hole.
I have been celibate for about 16 years. My marriage was toxic. I have zero desire to ever have a relationship again. I think that woman’s mom makes perfect sense. What was he trying to say? Was he saying she owes the men of the world sex? Any woman can and should be celibate at any point of their life. They don’t owe anyone sex, ever.
Wait until Pearl finds out that not only are women on the front lines now, but they're *officers* 😱 and have been for a long time 🤯 I think Pearl's entire personality is intended to break her mother's heart...it's not uncommon. I'm a new subscriber and I've really been enjoying your content, just wanted to say thanks 🖤
@@SweetestSweden I don't think they would. These women have real lives and real problems. Pearl and irrelevant males with mics are a waste of precious time.
She's the lady version of Uncle Ruckus, Lady Ruckus. That said, this is one of those things where I struggle to know how to feel about it, yes, she is totally wrong, and deserves every bit of ridicule and hate she gets, but I do also feel quite sorry for her. Also Myron talking about getting married is hilariously ironic seeing as there's those leaked photographs of him with other guys, being gay isn't a problem, but calling everyone else gay when there's pictures of you snuggling with men is a problem. Guy needs to be a real alpha and acknowledge his sexuality.
I call it internalised homophobia (Myron). I had to google uncle ruckus haha and I’ll have to watch the cartoon too to understand lol. I too feel a little bit of sympathy for her but she dug this hole herself and got into it
@@jewelamina I urge you to watch The Boondocks, it's a satirical masterclass. I guess it's okay to feel both things at once regarding the whole Pearl issue, hopefully she realises what a terrible mistake she's made in the fullness of time.
@@jewelamina just a warning, The Boondocks doesn't have great depictions of black women either lol it's a good show but it's mostly from the pov of blk men and boys with few redeemable bw characters besides the caricature of the perfect blk woman, "Ebony Brown" and she's only in 1 episode
idk feels wrong to ever call a white person a Ruckus. You can't be a self hating black man stereotype as a white woman, that's just standard white woman white supremacy.
@@Ravenboppityzoppity tbf that's the point because it's not just the pov of black men, but satirising the experience of black men, including the artifice of the gender wars as they're perpetuated under white supremacy. With that in mind it's less offensive and more of a "huh, the writers really see the way society sees me." thing.
Legit question: Why would somebody who does not have a man, husband, partner of any kind has the nerve to be giving out relationship advice? The number one way to stay single is to get relationship advice from somebody who is single.
It's not. You don't have to be in a relationship to give relationship advice. Many people are smart and thoughtful and can see things about your relationship from the outside that you can't or refuse to see. They also have previous life experience and hopefully your best interest at heart. That doesn't apply to troubled, negative and unintelligent people like her or anyone in the (lol)manosphere.
It’s cuz when you are on the outside of something, all you can do is see what you can see. It’s different when you’re in it vs. when you can see it from that outside pov, and that can either mean you give really good relationship advice or you could give the worst advice ever. It’s a person to person kinda thing, it seems .
i used to give sage advice to my friend about her relationships way before i got into a relationship myself. pearl's advice isn't bad bc she's single, her advice is bad bc she vehemently refuses to see women as their own people.
Facts!! that’s what gets me about women like this, your lady ancestors fought for us to have the little equality we have, why would we want to go back??
@@jordanwebb3129 because i dont think she really believes what she says, she says it for clout because she knows being this idiotic will make people hate her and shes catering to the right wing males that think that women arent equal. its sad that she acts this way as her own mother is the type of woman pearl talks shit on, rather than being proud of her mothers achievements she makes them seem like her dads instead. her whole family seems to not like her much at all so idk why she's willing to give up her family and friends for some losers on the internet that wont ever want to marry her bc she's not conventionally attractive LOL. shes going to be old and alone for a very long time bc of her choices. the things people do for fame i suppose
The best friend reminds me of me after my best friend and I broke up. All the stuff she's saying is true, but it sucks seeing how hurt she still is years after the fact.
I wonder how pearl would feel about my parents divorce. My mom was extremely abusive towards my dad, and my DAD chose to divorce her, even though he still loved her.
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Pearls views on women in the workforce are frustrating as a woman who does labour in a male dominated industry. And the women we do have at my workplace do some of the best quality work there, without the emotional outburst our male counterparts constantly get away with. Men are emotional, anger is an emotion.
I am willing to bet I've done more manual labor or "mans work" in a year then Pearl wide backed ass or any of these red pilled manosphere losers will in their whole lives. She needs to take her homely ass on down the road.
Same here, I’m an archaeologist who works in construction, and I find it hilarious that it’s always weak, unsuccessful and boring women like Pearl that want to take away our rights. She can fight me and my hand tools for them.
Sooooo good. I love Ethan. He made her speechless. And the way he speaks and asks questions, he doesn’t do too much, he just makes you look more stupid 😭
I may dislike and HEAVILY disagree with Ethan a lot (for example he's pro-genocide in one particular case 🙄.) but it's undeniable that he has a talent for making people expose themselves in debates and interviews.
5:05 I HATE PEOPLE WITH THAT THOUGHT PATTERN!!! “Stay together for the children” yeah great idea, let your kids watch you and your partner fight constantly for their whole upbringing! My parents separated so I wouldn’t have to grow up like that, and I turned out fine and am forever grateful.
Pearl is really a case study in showing how supporting the patriarchy will not save you. No one can live up to the standards of patriarchy- man or woman, but when it comes to women, no respect is gained trying to support a system or beliefs that says we're lesser.
It's crazy how these people can disrespect black women time and time again yet when it comes to talking about a certain community they're immediately wiped off the internet.
Omggggg. Just checked now. I think she’s trying to backtrack cause she’s falling off. She also came out and said she never said her husband can cheat on her. Point is, there’s a whole evidence
I think Pearl isn’t in a relationship or married, because she is just acting like she believes in red pill. She’s not saying these things from conviction or deep belief
As a dude, I'd never hold a woman in high regard if she's constantly taking shots at people of the same gender. Lady won't even stick up for her own people, and I'm supposed to praise her for that? Insane.
Has anyone else noticed that the manosphere men claim to want a traditional woman but then their list of demands describe the traits of a trust fund baby? I.e. they want the women to stay home and not work but also want them to financially contribute.
That tired ol' "We can't have women in power because of emotional periods causing nuclear war" as if this planet has known ANY kind of peace since man has existed.
i’m all for feminism, but i would love to see you do a video on feminism vs womanism and why as black women it’s important for us to understand that the feminist movement also has a history of racism and exclusion. love your videos!! 🤍
i want to use this opportunity to thank everyone for taking out the time to watch this video. y’all are literally the best and i’m grateful the algorithm gods led you to click on my commentary. i am ever grateful for you guys. thanks so much 💖
I just discovered you today!! I love to see a fellow progressive, black woman. Your overall vibe and the depth of your content is very much appreciated! 🎉
I understand people saying oh you are morally corupt so you are ugly, but its really not ok. It 1. Says to people that have similar/same features that arent doing those harmful things that they are ugly 2. Promotes + supports ageism (as if its wrong to age or you need to do it at an acceptable rate, which stress + trauma can age a person) and 3. Supports the way people dont think attractive people are dangerous or let things slide bc someone is attractive.
I see where you're coming from, and you make some really good points. But let's face it, our society has a pretty messed up way of putting certain people on pedestals. I mean, have you seen those awful games like 'pop the balloon' or 'smash or pass'? People are literally picking apart others' body parts like they're pieces of meat. It's disgusting, if you ask me. So I can't really blame people for saying someone isn't 'conventionally attractive' - even if it's not a great thing to say. As for me, I've got this theory that your attitude and emotions can actually affect how you look on the outside. It's like how some people end up in physical pain because of emotional trauma, you know? I honestly believe that when you've got a lot of sadness, hate or pain bottled up inside, it shows up in your appearance somehow. That's why people talk about someone's 'aura' - it's like your inner self shining through. Thank you so much for watching & trust me, you have really valid points too
The only reason why people call Pearl ugly is because she spends so much time critiquing other women’s looks and dehumanizing bigger or overweight women. So don’t dish it out if you can’t take it.
Their attitude DOES effect how we view them tho, even if you're beautiful but if you're constantly bashing others then it doesn't matter, the attractiveness is gone. Your personality matters more and it reflects on your looks. For example, my old classmate is very handsome and i used to have a crush on him, that is until i found out he loves putting down other people and bullied me. The only people who hangs out with him now is those who is the same as him. Almost everyone in my school hates his guts. Now when i saw him, he just looks....decent. If you have a good personality, even if you doesn't look pleasing, there's still alot of people who would stay and hang out with you. Attractiveness and youth fades overtime, and when it did then what? People will start leaving. Looks only matter on attracting others to try and get close to you, but your personality is what makes them stay.
I understand what you're saying but I don't think most people are calling her ugly over her actual looks. It's how she behaves and what she preaches. I look at her and see her as ugly cause of her personality and her views. She could have all the features I like in people perfectly in harmony, she'd still be ugly in my eyes cause of who she is as a person. And I could see another person who's a carbon copy of her lookwise, but they're nice and loving and kind, and I'd find them pretty.
The whole “the younger you are the more attractive you are” thing is definitely coming from society fr. This is why i dont think her mom is all that innocent. Her mom married a guy when she was a literal minor. This is probably a repeated thing she heard from like end of highschool “have you found a guy? You’re not getting any younger you need to get married” or repeatedly talking about how she looks “why are you standing like that, why do you look like that, smile so you can fond a husband” like im telling yall this archetype of person doesn’t just APPEAR
Pearl: If a woman isn't married at 35 she'll likely never get married Me: If that were the case the last year of hell I've gone through wouldn't happened. Context: My grandfather got remarried to the wicked witch of the west then died less than a year later.
Thank you so much for educating us, queen 💗 as a decolonial feminist & latina, it saddens me to learn about all that “manosphere” community. These kinds of influencers and male-centered “coaches” are so so popular in Latin American countries, there is a famous one called Temach, which makes profit and exploits the very sexist ideas that still run rampant in our Latino culture 😢 I wish our men would change, but sadly, my culture actively promotes machismo, sexism, the oppression of women and servitude of women within the household. I don’t know what it would take for the social fabric and mentality of these men to change, but it feels so hopeless. Thank you again for such a wonderful video 🙏🏼
29:10- that guy looked so bored as he torpedoed their so-called arguments. And that "I can say it slower" at the end was Tombstone piledriver worthy. Well-done, sir.
Honestly it’s giving her parent taught her that. Her mom got married at 17 so I’m not surprised Pearl has these views, her mother probably talked to her the same way.
Personally, I don’t think her parents did cause people around her said she’s never been like this. I don’t even think her mum agrees with these views of hers but at the end of the day, she’s an adult. Thanks for watching
@Kadinelindsayart This is the REAL STORY…Pearl’s Mom was 17 years old and her Dad was 22 years old when they met; her mother’s sister and her father’s brother were engaged BUT Pearl’s MOM GOT PREGNANT & she wanted to 🪦the pregnancy but she decided not to (it was the SUMMER before she was entering her freshman year of college); so SHE decided TO GIVE THE BABY UP FOR ADOPTION but her FATHER didn’t want to and he wanted to keep the baby who was named Greg; her Mom went off to college and completed schools THEN they got married BUT THEY DIDN’T tell their kids including Pearl until she was in her 20 that they had a child that they gave up for adoption…they did eventually meet him (Greg)…this really traumatized the family. Pearl actually brought her entire family on and they ALL revealed this including her parents BUT she removed the video after a few months.
Ngl i doubt that, just as the top commenter said. Her mother is the living proof that her belief of "Women shouldn't vote, shouldn't have a voice, blabla" is wrong in every kind of way, her mother is literally a business woman, while ALSO being a wife and mother. She is very educated and successful from a young age, where on the other hand, Pearl haven't achieved anything even close to her despite almost at the age of 30. Having Your daughter having these bs belief must be a huge punch on the heart. Insecurity is definitely the main factor, maybe she's jealous of her mother or siblings, and seek attention.
BS. It's time we start holding adult responsible for their actions and stop blaming the parents. Especially since her entire family are nothing like her
Worddddd me and all the homies are hotter now, approaching 30 at mach speed, than we ever were in our teens or early 20s. Like, imagine not thinking confident, fully developed people with an understanding of themselves are hotter than partially developed kids with low social skills and little confidence 💀
Ethan completely dressing down the hosts of the fresh and fit podcast scratched an itch I didn’t know I had. Like he’s not my favourite guy but that was wonderful.
I think what confuses me the most is that she is a direct contradiction to her own message. She says that women shouldn’t have a voice as she speaks. She says everything should be about being a wife and having babies but she isn’t married and she has no children. Everything is about appearances but she shows up like she just rolled out of bed… she definitely doesn’t practice what she preaches.
I don't think there's any question of how a woman like Pearl's mom creates a Pearl. She was groomed into a serious relationship with corporate responsibilities before the age of 20. She was probably an extremely absent mother, emotionally if not also physically, and Pearl created this idea in her mind that she would have had a happy childhood if her mom hadn't worked. Completely ignoring the fact that her father manipulated a child into marriage. I don't think that's confusing at all, we see it every single day. It's just usually the little boys who grow up to be people like Pearl instead of the girls.
To the other girl in the beginning of the video. If you love black men why are you on a show where she speaks so negatively about them?!? She literally laughed in your face. This is why I look at the shit y’all do rather than what yall say.
i think the debate was about traditionalism, that guy said something about black men and black culture and pearl said to that guy that girl is in relationship with a black man. that guy nick started bullying her and black men that's why she said that.
@@koyelimukherjee.3115 She doesn’t get a pass. She knew beforehand who was coming on. She knew who he was. More to the point why would you align yourself with someone like Pearl. You’re that making excuses for this type of behavior. The other girl is just as guilty
@@zerokool2354 chyea, debating against bad opinions and providing pushback is inexcusable and we should instead sit quietly in a dark room while Pearl and Co ruin society
She’s not picked because she’s a pick me, and not a challenge to a man. She’s not too “conventionally unattractive” to get a man. That’s not even a thing.
@@andieallison6792 boo, men are _desperate_ of course she's not too unattractive to get a man. Y'all were throwing yourselves at anything with a hole before this "male loneliness epidemic" thing supposedly started.
There are plenty of men who are in the market for attractive and pretty pick mes, because what they lack in a challenge is made up for (in their minds) in the ability to flaunt the beauty of their trophy wife or gf. Pearl is not conventionally attractive, and a pick me so she turns off all the normal people who are willing to date on personality AND the misogynists who think a woman’s purpose is to make dinner and babies and look good doing it.
Thank you and congratulations on your graduation. Omg. Researching for deep dives is a lot 😭. I’m literally a one man army plus I have my own 9-5 but I enjoyed every step of the process. Happy graduation again
@@jewelamina I finished the whole video while cookjng enjoyed every minute of it!! You can tell you did a lot of work it doesnt go unnoticed 😫❤️ i feel like im in the room with you when you discuss these topics so in depth thank you for the congratulations and thank you for great content!
Thank you so much for watching. I was sooooo tired recording the video but that was the only time I had on my hands. I genuinely appreciate your feedback
I actually do 😭. That’s the account I use to watch my regular videos on UA-cam and I have my UA-cam premium on. This particular one I post on is like my baby, so I try not to infiltrate it. But now, things are easing up. Thank you so so much for watching 🙏🏾
To me Pearl seems like the type of person who is projecting and repressing allot of stuff. It wouldn't surprise me if she came out as something or another in a couple of years.
I had to double dip in the comments section because I wanted to say I loved your video essay and analysis. And your voice is very soothing. I look forward to watching another video :)
Hello angel, I don't know if I can watch this all the way through tonight but I wanted to go ahead and comment how your voice is like music to my ears!
I cant help but feel pearls misogyny comes from a place of hurt and insecurity I feel like she needs to see her own worty in order to see womens worth in general
i am not very on-date with these controversies, but I am glad to discover them through you. Your voice is incredibly soothing, and a wonderful sound to listen to as I draw. Thank you for this video! You have a beautiful accent!
This is my first time watching a video of yours and I was meaning to find a channel who makes long videos like this while I cook and bake. I hardly ever comment on videos but you are just so beautiful and adorable and so well spoken in a way that is so empowering as a teenage woman who is interested in topics relating to feminism and society. This was truly an amazing video and I’m so excited to watch more of your videos. Thank you!
Pearl looks very unfortunate in the face, in the back, in the shoulders…everywhere. But has the nerve to be shady towards lizzo??? Crazy how that works
She looks fine. Her personality sucks asss and her views physically pain me to hear about but i don't think we should stoop to her level and insult aspects of her appearance she can't change. Especially since she doesn't even look bad, so this is a reach at best. It's not like I don't think she deserves whatever hate she gets. She's actually batshit insane, an absolutely hypocritical asshole and it's a shame she has a platform. I just found a sub reddit full of people who love her and her views, which is pretty scary actually. but I don't think it gives us a free pass to shame her for her looks imo, at least in part because it means that we are insulting other people who look similar. Tbf though i do think lizzo def looks prettier though haha 😅
Pearl has done exactly what her goal was to get noticed, she wants and gets , people to listen and look at here, at a certain point it is sad she should get some good Therapy
It’s so funny because if she wants me to believe the same philosophy that she does, why then would I listen to her - a woman? If she doesn’t want us to have voting rights, then I believe she shouldn’t be able to aggressively express her opinion like that then
Stop equating looks to morality. Aging isn't an evil thing and it's largely based on genetics. When you say aging is something that happens to negative and hateful people you're contributing to the stigma of aging (especially for women) and you're helping uphold toxic beauty standards.
pearl needs to learn to love herself before she goes on and speaks about other people. she blames "modernism" for her circumstances, whilst failing to realize people don't want to associate with an aggressive, performative "victim" who seeks power in victimizing others.
@@urzmontst.george6314 Alissa White Gluz would have kicked Pearl's neck. Don't get me wrong Alissa is actually kind and takes her fight against her own depression really seriously but one push and YOU MUST BEG FOR YOUR LIFE
Can’t really go down when she’s been at the bottom since the beginning.
Pearl is the type of woman that would call other woman witches for because she don't f with them in the late 1600s
💀💀💀in another lifetime for sure
Pearl got her start with Kevin Samuels, the high value fraud.
Its her reincarnated
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Funnily enough, by the standards in 1600s SHE’D be the witch! Since redheads were considered witches by default due to "the flames of hell" being the reason that their hair is red or orange.
Her using low self-esteem as an excuse for how toxic she is is wild to me. Like, my self-confidence is nonexistent, but that never made me a manosphere pick me.
Honestly! And also, please be gentle with yourself. 🥰🥂
I have self-esteem issues, too. And at times, my lack of self-esteem made me act like a bit of a shit. But never ever did I sink the level Pearl has.
I fully agree. I thing lowly of myself but never thought about doing what she does.
I had major self esteem issues as a kid and most of my bullies were girls. So I became a pick me. But I didn't openly trash women because I knew I was envious of their makeup skills, I loved wearing makeup on stage or at formal events, I didn't have the body to pull off the outfits the other girls wore yet once I had more confidence around 17/18 I wore the same sort of outfits I internally judged the other girls for.
I think the worst I would say is I'm not like other girls, I'm a real gamer girl because I play lots of games not just COD (ironically I rarely play things other than Pokemon and a few other childhood franchises nowadays), I like wearing makeup but I don't get wearing it to school of all places (and also ironically I will spend ages doing a bold eyeshadow look and experiment with lipstick until I find the right look for absolutely no special reason or event, I just do it because it's fun even though my glasses hide a lot of it).
Teenage me would both judge 25 year old me and admire me because I'm basically the person I was too self conscious to express. I dye my hair, I have piercings and a tattoo from my favourite anime from back then, I figured out how to do eye makeup, I wear bold lipstick colours, I dress alternatively and show off my body (reasonably) in summer, etc. I'm the person 14 year old me wishes she had the guts to be.
It's more than just self esteem.
Correct me if I'm wrong but I remember her justyfing and wouldn't care her husband cheats.
Right on cue, the clip of her justifying cheating because women bad.
I could be incredibly wrong but Pearl might be envious of her mother. Her mother is living proof that her beliefs are wrong in so many ways. She is educated and has been successful from a young age. By now she is a career woman, a married woman, and a mother of multiple kids. She has done it all and Pearl has not done much despite being in her late 20s. Pearl even goes out of her way to overlook her mother's role as a CEO and even talked about how she respects her father for not cheating on her mother as if she expected him to.
Honestly. This crossed my mind but I thought I was just thinking too far. Nice to see someone who’s thought in the same way
@artlover4997 that's strange because I remember seeing a clip of a podcast she was on and boasting how she didn't care that her dad cheated on her unless I'm missing some context. Either way thats....so sad. Like it really is. Yes it's funny to make fun of her for all her hyprocrisies, but it's so sad.
@@jewelamina This is not it. My father earns mid 6 figures in America. My mother earns more than $2,000,000. Rich kids hate their moms because their moms often spend too much time at work. For some reason, it just hurts more when your mom avoids you. Just the way it is. I have a lot of respect for women who are driven in their careers, but I'm looking for a teacher or a girl with a government job. Even though my mom and I have a good relationship.
@@optimizelife365 ya, she seems to resent her mum for working instead of taking care of her and her siblings
@@optimizelife365 That is an interesting take I didn't think of. Do you think that Pearl might have lacked an close and intimate relationship with her mother, causing her to lash out now? And the rest of her siblings seem okay, although of course I don't know what happens behind the scenes.
Pearl is toxic towards women because it’s the only way she’s ever successfully bonded with any men
The men don’t even pick her
She's not even good enough to be a bro to them she's their trick dog
Genuinely it would be so interesting to hear from her why she is like that, but like just the full on honest reason why; no sugar coating, no political corrections just her saying her reasons. Like what would posses her to act that way to the extremes she has gone to?
Yup
Or human
FWIW, Kevin Samuels was *also* unmarried. So is Andrew Tate. So is every other manosphere dingus I can think of.
funny how that works
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giving bitterness
no cuz do men even think? why would you get relationship advice from someones whos single 😭
Kevin Samuels was divorced and couldn't afford his child support as well. 💀
Pearl being racist is not shocking at all. Misogynistic people aren't above other types of ignorance. Honestly, nobody is above being ignorant. It's the people that choose ignorance that are irritating.
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right and there’s plenty of racist white women that’ll date black men or even fetishize having mixed babies. pretty sure pearls ex who she was having premarital sex with and “lowering her value” (in her own words) was a black man. have seen it play out many times irl it’s so fucked.
Omg! This is another topic for another day!
The ignorance is like a snowball rolling down a hill. It picks up more as it rolls.
Preach 🙏
My parents got divorced when I was in like 1st grade, and them separating was 100% the best thing for my brother and I. People staying together for the kids is a horrible thing to do in a lot of cases.
Completely agree! My parents divorced when I was a teenager, but I wish they would have done it much earlier. I was old enough to fully understand what was happening in their relationship and was used as an unpaid therapist/mediator for years. Things got better after they finally separated. Staying together in a miserable marriage is not the gift to children that people seem to think it is 😂
Im the same! Even as a kid who begged my parents to stay together, it resulted in home life getting a lot better. Especially since one parent was abusive.
Removing the conflict with divorce can be life saving for both kids and parents
My parents divorced too when I was young but then my mom got with my stepdad and argued with him everyday for most of my life. Later she said she stayed with him for me and my sibling. So I saw both possible outcomes and I definitely preferred just divorcing. What kid wants to grow up in a miserable home
yea, not divorced parents are worse than divorced...
Same here!!! I was 15, my mom had been wanting to leave her abusive husband for at least 8 years before she did. I wish she did it sooner, but I'm happy she did at all.
The black manosphere loved pearl until the whole nick fuentes thing. The crazy thing is they really thought she cared about the plight of black men. It's crazy that black men would ever align with a red pill right wing person
We have women doing it, is not too big of a stretch if you think about it.
I don't think it's strange. They unite with misogyny and will ignore a lot if their misogyny is validated. But a breaking point always comes because of course they'll find the racism too much one day. It's wild that these black men understand discrimination when it comes to racism but suddenly don't get it when it comes to misogyny. That's why, although it is not solved as a social issue, racism will always be taken more seriously than misogyny is. Because it affects men too. Which is why racist slurs are taboo and slurs against women are used in daily life, in all of pop culture.
@@kiriki4558...Red pill is a mens movement. Yes, there are women who participate. But its driven by men.
They always seek everybody’s approval and satisfaction but God’s
@@ukht_aleealee8488real.
Whenever birth control is brought up by these sorts of people, they forget that birth control is often prescribed for health conditions. Like, I need it in order to not be in excruciating pain and so severely anaemic I'm constantly passing out. This is after having endometriosis removed. I'm still left with chronic nerve pain that flares up when I have periods so I need birth control. And either way, condoms still exist to protect against both STDs and babies. Does Pearl think condoms are evil as well? Should every sexually active person just risk getting diseases that will affect a potential pregnancy?
!!!! Omg! Sorry about the endo. Omg! I can imagine how much toll the whole process took on you. Please take it easy with yourself. As for pearl, I still can’t think she’s real. I refuse to believe that tbh.
@@jewelamina Thank you! I'm lucky it was a small amount and was in a spot it could be removed safely. I'm also lucky the lingering pain is nothing compared to the decade of pain I had before getting it treated.
In regards to Pearl, I choose to believe this is all just a dream and she's just a sleep paralysis demon 😅
I've had excessive bleeding and severely uncomfortable periods. Birth control lessened it!
Honestly I do t think Pearl has ever gotten that far to even think about condoms
Yes! I went from vomiting, couldn’t walk straight (back pain), and waking up on my floor to the only difference I have on my period being the color of the pills I’m taking haha.
I think that people don’t realize that “birth control” pills are female hormones and are hence can be used to treat any issues that are based upon female hormones in women. They’re medication and shouldn’t be withheld from those who need it to live a halfway decent life!
I find it funny that Pearl was laughing with Nick Fuentes at King Richz and his girlfriend. All the while she dated and slept with angry reactions and many other black men.
She’s a contradicting human
She slept with Angry reactions? Really? I thought he'd have better taste than that.
@@oginnidemi6747They were in a TOXIC full blown relationship…look it up; she thought he was a millionaire and she literally tracked him down via social media and DM him BUT in reality he had no money…he had to move into her parents mansion and they shared a bedroom, he didn’t have an ID, had 2 kids that she didn’t know about, her parents had to even make a fake lease for him to get a ID…she actually cheated on him and that is why they broke up.
@@oginnidemi6747they were dating at one point, & no a lot of blk men will date a person like pearl while she encourages racists to spew hate
@@oginnidemi6747 before he was famous.
He was just a homeless guy at the time.
I honestly think a lot of this is from Pearl feeling neglected and inferior to her siblings. Pearl had a lot of siblings and said in videos that she and her siblings would get more attention if they were doing well in their respective sport. She also said her brothers “humbled her” and was the ugly friend in her group. She also has said multiple times “I never said I was smart,” her mom and siblings are readers and she is not, and they have successful jobs.
And by doing this, even if she is getting negative attention, she is still getting the attention she wish she had before.
Well said. Not all publicity is good publicity. It always comes back to bite you in the end
Makes perfect sense 👌 her mother is a thorn in her side for sure as well, her mom is a successful mother and wife and ceo, she did amazing for herself and Pearl isn’t lol
Then she should go to therapy, not the internet
So she is just not a below average person but also has a sh*ty personality.
It’s only her fault. She is privileged enough to have good adulation and good job, but no she humiliate women on the internet
Pearl reminds me of a kid who constantly gets in trouble cus they dont know how to get attention any other way
African and Caribbean accents are underrated frfr
Frfr. 🥰
Its like she's speaking with a potatoe in her mouth
@@deny93ful1She doesn’t really. Her words are quite clear
@@kikelomohassan7638exactly they’re just closed minded 😂
@@deny93ful1I literally have a hard time understanding people with thick accents because of genetic ear issues and I can hear her clearly I think you're just racist.
One point made by the manosphere that I cannot understand is that if a woman has kids or if she has already been "passed around" that she cannot say that she wants to be celibate or want to wait until marriage. Like what? But then men can go through a 1000 women and still manage to find a woman to settle down with long after not only hitting the wall but it also falling on them after they hit it. At the end of the day, whether you are a virgin or you're like Brittany Renner, you are never obligated to have sex with a man and you can wait until marriage. Like this whole idea that if a woman has had sex or has kids that she cannot say no to sex or make a man wait is sick.
The point is they want women to be universaly considered objects. Objects don't have will of their own, they are to be used by a person whoever they want. And only men being considered persons, they can't loose "value" doing anything.
Men and women are just DifFeREnT of course until things become unfair for them
@@kiriki4558 that’s exactly it. It’s frightening how openly they flaunt this
Well, it's because even being as low as they are, they consider themselves above. They posses no logic and no sense and whenever questioned about why they can do something and you supposedly can't. They say "because it's different." Which is a non answer since a real one doesn't exist. We're all people and they want to be the only people. Which is why I've always thought they should turn to one another for the weird relationships they wanna have. You consider yourselves so wonderful? F each other then and for intimate relationships.
Along the fact that the logic just doesn't make any sense. There's naturally an even split of men and women so how is every man going to be having sex with multiple women, therefore making those women 'whores' and 'unmarriageable' and there still be enough 'good women' for a man to marry? The math doesn't add up.
Aligning the terms "low self esteem" and "humble" with each other is WILD.
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I thought she was saying she had been "humbled", like that was her gentle way of saying she was bullied lol. Because she definitely was
@@DangerousTempeststill, the way she talks about both seems to me like she thinks theyre the same, thats a really unhealthy idea imo
Exactly. “Pride” is also putting yourself down and making the “self” an excuse for harmful ideas and communication. If you are humbled, you know your insecurities are your own struggle and should not inform how you interact with the world.
Humiliated is the same root as humble though.
I don't get why its a weird connection?
Doesn't she understand she is standing and having a platform because of feminism
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She does, and that's half the grift. None of these tradwife advocates are actually against the benefits they've gained from feminism, they use feminism as an attack against other minorities. It's not even a new concept, with most Suffragettes explicitly wanting black women excluded from the movement because "it would erode society" to give black women the same rights as white women because, well, racism..
By her own logic, she should change her mind every time she talks to men with different opinions. The mental whiplash would be exhausting.
I breathed deeply and really thought to myself "do I really want to make myself angry tonight?" 😂
🤣🤣🤣. Exactly how I felt 🤣😭
Literally! The way this type of content is so draining to watch. So low vibrational that even if i disconnect my brain i am having a headache by the mental gymnastics they make to try to justify their bigotry. Like bro don't bring up "biology",biology is ashamed of the way your brain work.💀😭🤣
She is hurt, self projecting onto other women because of possibly being abandoned and neglected in a sense as a child. Now she is an adult she is angry and speaking up for her inner child who needs healing. Instead of learning to heal, she decides to roll with the punches and side with men to throw her insults at other women. Every beautiful woman is a threat to her. Pearl has found many ways to get men to side with her but has not found a man to cherish her, and take her seriously. And now she is at that age of wanting it but knows it might not come because she has gone too far. Desperate for attention has only put her into a deeper hole.
… in a fcking nutshell!
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I have been celibate for about 16 years. My marriage was toxic. I have zero desire to ever have a relationship again. I think that woman’s mom makes perfect sense. What was he trying to say? Was he saying she owes the men of the world sex? Any woman can and should be celibate at any point of their life. They don’t owe anyone sex, ever.
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You are absolutly right.
Pearl be talking and expressing her opinions too much for someone who thinks that women shouldn't express personal opinions 💀💀
my point exactly
Jewel’s hair was EATING IN THIS VIDEO
Stapppppppp! 🥹🫶🏾🙏🏾. Thanks a lot
Eating what?
She's a hotter redhead than the actual redhead 😂
LITERALLY i think i need this color now😍😍😍😍
Ik I literally thought to myself that it must feel so nice to have such pretty curls around your face like that!!
Wait until Pearl finds out that not only are women on the front lines now, but they're *officers* 😱 and have been for a long time 🤯 I think Pearl's entire personality is intended to break her mother's heart...it's not uncommon. I'm a new subscriber and I've really been enjoying your content, just wanted to say thanks 🖤
Yes. She is a bitter loser and a hypocrite.
I wonder the world she lives in 😭🤣
I'm sure the women fighting in the Ukrainian trenches for the last two years would love to chat with pearl about her Frontline views.
@@SweetestSweden I don't think they would. These women have real lives and real problems. Pearl and irrelevant males with mics are a waste of precious time.
lol there are zero women in the trenches in Ukraine, grow up. What trenches? lol Ya'll so dumb
She's the lady version of Uncle Ruckus, Lady Ruckus. That said, this is one of those things where I struggle to know how to feel about it, yes, she is totally wrong, and deserves every bit of ridicule and hate she gets, but I do also feel quite sorry for her. Also Myron talking about getting married is hilariously ironic seeing as there's those leaked photographs of him with other guys, being gay isn't a problem, but calling everyone else gay when there's pictures of you snuggling with men is a problem. Guy needs to be a real alpha and acknowledge his sexuality.
I call it internalised homophobia (Myron). I had to google uncle ruckus haha and I’ll have to watch the cartoon too to understand lol. I too feel a little bit of sympathy for her but she dug this hole herself and got into it
@@jewelamina I urge you to watch The Boondocks, it's a satirical masterclass. I guess it's okay to feel both things at once regarding the whole Pearl issue, hopefully she realises what a terrible mistake she's made in the fullness of time.
@@jewelamina just a warning, The Boondocks doesn't have great depictions of black women either lol it's a good show but it's mostly from the pov of blk men and boys with few redeemable bw characters besides the caricature of the perfect blk woman, "Ebony Brown" and she's only in 1 episode
idk feels wrong to ever call a white person a Ruckus. You can't be a self hating black man stereotype as a white woman, that's just standard white woman white supremacy.
@@Ravenboppityzoppity tbf that's the point because it's not just the pov of black men, but satirising the experience of black men, including the artifice of the gender wars as they're perpetuated under white supremacy. With that in mind it's less offensive and more of a "huh, the writers really see the way society sees me." thing.
Pearl cannot speak about issues with any knowledge, wisdom, or nuance. She's very immature and a bully.
29:29 When Ethan is on a roll, he’s one of the most capable debaters I’ve ever seen. And I think it’s because he is NOT a debate bro.
He doesn’t even stress 😭
Does he have a channel? I have been scrolling through comments trying to figure out who he is >.
@@jaysmitty1376I believe it is h3h3 productions
Legit question: Why would somebody who does not have a man, husband, partner of any kind has the nerve to be giving out relationship advice? The number one way to stay single is to get relationship advice from somebody who is single.
It's not. You don't have to be in a relationship to give relationship advice. Many people are smart and thoughtful and can see things about your relationship from the outside that you can't or refuse to see. They also have previous life experience and hopefully your best interest at heart. That doesn't apply to troubled, negative and unintelligent people like her or anyone in the (lol)manosphere.
It’s cuz when you are on the outside of something, all you can do is see what you can see. It’s different when you’re in it vs. when you can see it from that outside pov, and that can either mean you give really good relationship advice or you could give the worst advice ever. It’s a person to person kinda thing, it seems .
i used to give sage advice to my friend about her relationships way before i got into a relationship myself. pearl's advice isn't bad bc she's single, her advice is bad bc she vehemently refuses to see women as their own people.
We white girls don't claim her
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True😂
She's an embarrassment to all women. I wish the grift wasn't so strong.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Well we black girls aren't cleaning up after the white girls anymore, okay Miss? So she's still y'alls to sweep up.
"is lizzo going to be a ten everywhere"
I don't know pearl, are you a ten anywhere?
That's a hard no.
Sis is leaning hard into the homely prairie widow who is secretly a lesbian aesthetic
One person's average may be another person's 10.
@@unapologeticallyb5068i honestly do think shes a lesbian and doesnt know how to deal with it
lol Lizzo would be a 10 for me if it weren't for the s-xual harassment suit against her.
You’re so pretty you remind me of starfire
Omg! Thank you 🙏🏾
Omg yes!!!
omg yessss the hair, the make-up, the absolute GLOW and self-assured way of speaking! 😍
0:10 Look at the man's body language in that nervous, exaggerated laugh. Bro has real self hate issues
she really has no idea what its like to live in the society she says she wants
A lot of these right wing women will get a rude awakening if project 2025 goes into effect.
frr
she really doesn’t 😭
Facts!! that’s what gets me about women like this, your lady ancestors fought for us to have the little equality we have, why would we want to go back??
@@jordanwebb3129 because i dont think she really believes what she says, she says it for clout because she knows being this idiotic will make people hate her and shes catering to the right wing males that think that women arent equal. its sad that she acts this way as her own mother is the type of woman pearl talks shit on, rather than being proud of her mothers achievements she makes them seem like her dads instead. her whole family seems to not like her much at all so idk why she's willing to give up her family and friends for some losers on the internet that wont ever want to marry her bc she's not conventionally attractive LOL. shes going to be old and alone for a very long time bc of her choices. the things people do for fame i suppose
imagine a 27y old being jealous of a teenager
The best friend reminds me of me after my best friend and I broke up. All the stuff she's saying is true, but it sucks seeing how hurt she still is years after the fact.
Bestfriend break ups are the worse
39:25 “Kevin Samuels died broke and alone” LMAO thank you for letting us know this was the cherry on top
😭😭😭🤣. Had to be said 😅
I wonder how pearl would feel about my parents divorce. My mom was extremely abusive towards my dad, and my DAD chose to divorce her, even though he still loved her.
Вона б просто звинувачувала твою мати, от і все 🤷♀️
Privilege is blinding, Pearl moves like someone who's exposed to a world of no consequences
Pearl's career is just rage bait in my opinion
Go on incognito when you watch her videos!! That way you won’t taint your own account 😂
Great idea! I’ll do that
Alternatively, create an account for watching content you're making videos on, that way you'll have a handy feed that keeps you up to date but also maintains your personal algorithm.
Pearls views on women in the workforce are frustrating as a woman who does labour in a male dominated industry. And the women we do have at my workplace do some of the best quality work there, without the emotional outburst our male counterparts constantly get away with.
Men are emotional, anger is an emotion.
I am willing to bet I've done more manual labor or "mans work" in a year then Pearl wide backed ass or any of these red pilled manosphere losers will in their whole lives. She needs to take her homely ass on down the road.
Same here, I’m an archaeologist who works in construction, and I find it hilarious that it’s always weak, unsuccessful and boring women like Pearl that want to take away our rights. She can fight me and my hand tools for them.
Im new here. Prelude was so spicy I had to stop, meditate, take a shower and light some incense and get some food. My god that one mollywhopped me.
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂. Thanks for watching 🤣🙏🏾
You made an entire one hour special 😂.
I'm completely down. The video looks amazing.
Haha. Thank youuuu 😅
I love your alt look 🖤 the lipstick blend is perfection sis!
Thank you so much 😀🥹🫶🏾
I'm obsessed with the eyes 😍
Her interview on h3 was soooo good 😂😂😂
Sooooo good. I love Ethan. He made her speechless. And the way he speaks and asks questions, he doesn’t do too much, he just makes you look more stupid 😭
I did not watch h3 much but I seen that video 😂
@@jewelaminai dont think Pearl needs help to look stupid 😂
I may dislike and HEAVILY disagree with Ethan a lot (for example he's pro-genocide in one particular case 🙄.) but it's undeniable that he has a talent for making people expose themselves in debates and interviews.
5:05 I HATE PEOPLE WITH THAT THOUGHT PATTERN!!! “Stay together for the children” yeah great idea, let your kids watch you and your partner fight constantly for their whole upbringing! My parents separated so I wouldn’t have to grow up like that, and I turned out fine and am forever grateful.
Pearl went that route because she hates her mom. Let’s be real.
Pearl is really a case study in showing how supporting the patriarchy will not save you. No one can live up to the standards of patriarchy- man or woman, but when it comes to women, no respect is gained trying to support a system or beliefs that says we're lesser.
that woman who is 5'10. I wish I had her confidence and makeup skills. Also she seems really nice. and she is awesome!
Hi 😅. I’m a little bit confused 🙏🏾🤎
@@jewelaminathe woman Kevin Samuels was trying to bully when he played the sound affect for her size 14 dress
It's crazy how these people can disrespect black women time and time again yet when it comes to talking about a certain community they're immediately wiped off the internet.
The pick me that was never picked.
Non virgin, Over 25, Has a career, no husband/ fiancé/boyfriend.
At 23 I could never see myself going back to the highschool to find a 17 year old to marry😂I don’t understand how they just glossed over that.
Has anyone noticed that at the bottom of her UA-cam description, it says "Everything on this channel is comedy or satire"
Omggggg. Just checked now. I think she’s trying to backtrack cause she’s falling off. She also came out and said she never said her husband can cheat on her. Point is, there’s a whole evidence
No wayyy 😂 she’s struggling to handle the backlash I guess 😗
funny thing is she's actually incapable of doing neither comedy or satire.
I think Pearl isn’t in a relationship or married, because she is just acting like she believes in red pill. She’s not saying these things from conviction or deep belief
Oh, she isn’t. She’s unmarried and has never had a real relationship.
As a dude, I'd never hold a woman in high regard if she's constantly taking shots at people of the same gender. Lady won't even stick up for her own people, and I'm supposed to praise her for that? Insane.
Has anyone else noticed that the manosphere men claim to want a traditional woman but then their list of demands describe the traits of a trust fund baby? I.e. they want the women to stay home and not work but also want them to financially contribute.
That tired ol' "We can't have women in power because of emotional periods causing nuclear war" as if this planet has known ANY kind of peace since man has existed.
True. I've had bad periods but I've never wanted to cause a genocide
i’m all for feminism, but i would love to see you do a video on feminism vs womanism and why as black women it’s important for us to understand that the feminist movement also has a history of racism and exclusion.
love your videos!! 🤍
Oh wow. This would be interesting. Thank you so so much
i want to use this opportunity to thank everyone for taking out the time to watch this video. y’all are literally the best and i’m grateful the algorithm gods led you to click on my commentary. i am ever grateful for you guys. thanks so much 💖
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I just discovered you today!! I love to see a fellow progressive, black woman. Your overall vibe and the depth of your content is very much appreciated! 🎉
I’m glad the algorithm recommended this to me today. Can’t wait to watch more of your videos.
@@boochi7087thank you so so much
@@psychedelicshrugs4088thanks a lot. New video just came out
what is it with abusers and the ukelele??? i think the ukelele is just a cursed instrument
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I understand people saying oh you are morally corupt so you are ugly, but its really not ok. It 1. Says to people that have similar/same features that arent doing those harmful things that they are ugly 2. Promotes + supports ageism (as if its wrong to age or you need to do it at an acceptable rate, which stress + trauma can age a person) and 3. Supports the way people dont think attractive people are dangerous or let things slide bc someone is attractive.
I see where you're coming from, and you make some really good points. But let's face it, our society has a pretty messed up way of putting certain people on pedestals. I mean, have you seen those awful games like 'pop the balloon' or 'smash or pass'? People are literally picking apart others' body parts like they're pieces of meat. It's disgusting, if you ask me. So I can't really blame people for saying someone isn't 'conventionally attractive' - even if it's not a great thing to say.
As for me, I've got this theory that your attitude and emotions can actually affect how you look on the outside. It's like how some people end up in physical pain because of emotional trauma, you know? I honestly believe that when you've got a lot of sadness, hate or pain bottled up inside, it shows up in your appearance somehow. That's why people talk about someone's 'aura' - it's like your inner self shining through.
Thank you so much for watching & trust me, you have really valid points too
The only reason why people call Pearl ugly is because she spends so much time critiquing other women’s looks and dehumanizing bigger or overweight women. So don’t dish it out if you can’t take it.
Their attitude DOES effect how we view them tho, even if you're beautiful but if you're constantly bashing others then it doesn't matter, the attractiveness is gone. Your personality matters more and it reflects on your looks. For example, my old classmate is very handsome and i used to have a crush on him, that is until i found out he loves putting down other people and bullied me. The only people who hangs out with him now is those who is the same as him. Almost everyone in my school hates his guts. Now when i saw him, he just looks....decent.
If you have a good personality, even if you doesn't look pleasing, there's still alot of people who would stay and hang out with you. Attractiveness and youth fades overtime, and when it did then what? People will start leaving. Looks only matter on attracting others to try and get close to you, but your personality is what makes them stay.
I understand what you're saying but I don't think most people are calling her ugly over her actual looks. It's how she behaves and what she preaches. I look at her and see her as ugly cause of her personality and her views. She could have all the features I like in people perfectly in harmony, she'd still be ugly in my eyes cause of who she is as a person. And I could see another person who's a carbon copy of her lookwise, but they're nice and loving and kind, and I'd find them pretty.
It's also just completely unrelated to the actual issues with them
she's basically Serena from The Handmaid's Tale
The whole “the younger you are the more attractive you are” thing is definitely coming from society fr. This is why i dont think her mom is all that innocent. Her mom married a guy when she was a literal minor. This is probably a repeated thing she heard from like end of highschool “have you found a guy? You’re not getting any younger you need to get married” or repeatedly talking about how she looks “why are you standing like that, why do you look like that, smile so you can fond a husband” like im telling yall this archetype of person doesn’t just APPEAR
Pearl: If a woman isn't married at 35 she'll likely never get married
Me: If that were the case the last year of hell I've gone through wouldn't happened.
Context: My grandfather got remarried to the wicked witch of the west then died less than a year later.
seeing a few weirdos in the comments already. some people feel called out 🤭 great video jewel!
Omg! Me too 😭. I’m really making them maddddd 🤣😭
Thank you so much for educating us, queen 💗 as a decolonial feminist & latina, it saddens me to learn about all that “manosphere” community. These kinds of influencers and male-centered “coaches” are so so popular in Latin American countries, there is a famous one called Temach, which makes profit and exploits the very sexist ideas that still run rampant in our Latino culture 😢 I wish our men would change, but sadly, my culture actively promotes machismo, sexism, the oppression of women and servitude of women within the household. I don’t know what it would take for the social fabric and mentality of these men to change, but it feels so hopeless. Thank you again for such a wonderful video 🙏🏼
Thank you for taking the time to put this together. I've avoided watching a lot of her content so this is a nice way to become educated on the matter
Thank you 🙏🏾
29:10- that guy looked so bored as he torpedoed their so-called arguments. And that "I can say it slower" at the end was Tombstone piledriver worthy. Well-done, sir.
Ethan Klein is so funny you have no idea 😂
Honestly it’s giving her parent taught her that. Her mom got married at 17 so I’m not surprised Pearl has these views, her mother probably talked to her the same way.
Personally, I don’t think her parents did cause people around her said she’s never been like this. I don’t even think her mum agrees with these views of hers but at the end of the day, she’s an adult. Thanks for watching
@Kadinelindsayart This is the REAL STORY…Pearl’s Mom was 17 years old and her Dad was 22 years old when they met; her mother’s sister and her father’s brother were engaged BUT Pearl’s MOM GOT PREGNANT & she wanted to 🪦the pregnancy but she decided not to (it was the SUMMER before she was entering her freshman year of college); so SHE decided TO GIVE THE BABY UP FOR ADOPTION but her FATHER didn’t want to and he wanted to keep the baby who was named Greg; her Mom went off to college and completed schools THEN they got married BUT THEY DIDN’T tell their kids including Pearl until she was in her 20 that they had a child that they gave up for adoption…they did eventually meet him (Greg)…this really traumatized the family. Pearl actually brought her entire family on and they ALL revealed this including her parents BUT she removed the video after a few months.
Ngl i doubt that, just as the top commenter said. Her mother is the living proof that her belief of "Women shouldn't vote, shouldn't have a voice, blabla" is wrong in every kind of way, her mother is literally a business woman, while ALSO being a wife and mother. She is very educated and successful from a young age, where on the other hand, Pearl haven't achieved anything even close to her despite almost at the age of 30. Having Your daughter having these bs belief must be a huge punch on the heart. Insecurity is definitely the main factor, maybe she's jealous of her mother or siblings, and seek attention.
BS. It's time we start holding adult responsible for their actions and stop blaming the parents. Especially since her entire family are nothing like her
No. Her sisters don't have the same beliefs. It's all Pearl. She's 27 not 7.
A certain group of men defended her honor hard af.
i regurlaly watch ethan klein debatting pearl. Her destruction calms my nerves.
Ewww I was so weird and awk at age 16… hotter where??? When I got older I got “hot”, at age 31 I’m the hottest I ever been!!!!! 😭🤣they’re tripping
@@Anon06428 sameeee 😭
Worddddd me and all the homies are hotter now, approaching 30 at mach speed, than we ever were in our teens or early 20s. Like, imagine not thinking confident, fully developed people with an understanding of themselves are hotter than partially developed kids with low social skills and little confidence 💀
Ethan completely dressing down the hosts of the fresh and fit podcast scratched an itch I didn’t know I had.
Like he’s not my favourite guy but that was wonderful.
I think what confuses me the most is that she is a direct contradiction to her own message. She says that women shouldn’t have a voice as she speaks. She says everything should be about being a wife and having babies but she isn’t married and she has no children. Everything is about appearances but she shows up like she just rolled out of bed… she definitely doesn’t practice what she preaches.
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I don't think there's any question of how a woman like Pearl's mom creates a Pearl. She was groomed into a serious relationship with corporate responsibilities before the age of 20. She was probably an extremely absent mother, emotionally if not also physically, and Pearl created this idea in her mind that she would have had a happy childhood if her mom hadn't worked. Completely ignoring the fact that her father manipulated a child into marriage. I don't think that's confusing at all, we see it every single day. It's just usually the little boys who grow up to be people like Pearl instead of the girls.
To the other girl in the beginning of the video. If you love black men why are you on a show where she speaks so negatively about them?!? She literally laughed in your face. This is why I look at the shit y’all do rather than what yall say.
i think the debate was about traditionalism, that guy said something about black men and black culture and pearl said to that guy that girl is in relationship with a black man. that guy nick started bullying her and black men that's why she said that.
@@koyelimukherjee.3115 She doesn’t get a pass. She knew beforehand who was coming on. She knew who he was. More to the point why would you align yourself with someone like Pearl. You’re that making excuses for this type of behavior. The other girl is just as guilty
@@zerokool2354 chyea, debating against bad opinions and providing pushback is inexcusable and we should instead sit quietly in a dark room while Pearl and Co ruin society
She’s not picked because she’s a pick me, and not a challenge to a man. She’s not too “conventionally unattractive” to get a man. That’s not even a thing.
Yes it is lol
@@andieallison6792 I mean it’s not the reason she doesn’t have a man. There are lots of conventionally unattractive women that are in relationships
@@andieallison6792 boo, men are _desperate_ of course she's not too unattractive to get a man. Y'all were throwing yourselves at anything with a hole before this "male loneliness epidemic" thing supposedly started.
There are plenty of men who are in the market for attractive and pretty pick mes, because what they lack in a challenge is made up for (in their minds) in the ability to flaunt the beauty of their trophy wife or gf.
Pearl is not conventionally attractive, and a pick me so she turns off all the normal people who are willing to date on personality AND the misogynists who think a woman’s purpose is to make dinner and babies and look good doing it.
Ive been waiting for this video since you made a yt post about it!!! ♡ currently graduating though 😂 so ill come back to watch the full thing soonn ❤
Thank you and congratulations on your graduation. Omg. Researching for deep dives is a lot 😭. I’m literally a one man army plus I have my own 9-5 but I enjoyed every step of the process. Happy graduation again
@@jewelamina I finished the whole video while cookjng enjoyed every minute of it!! You can tell you did a lot of work it doesnt go unnoticed 😫❤️ i feel like im in the room with you when you discuss these topics so in depth thank you for the congratulations and thank you for great content!
Thank you so much for watching. I was sooooo tired recording the video but that was the only time I had on my hands. I genuinely appreciate your feedback
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
To quote the Joker “it would be funny if it wasn’t so pathetic.”
With this quality of content and you only have 11k? This is criminal... Subscribed
🫣🫣🫣. Thank you
Use an extra account for when you research things on UA-cam so it dousnt mess with your regular feed
I actually do 😭. That’s the account I use to watch my regular videos on UA-cam and I have my UA-cam premium on. This particular one I post on is like my baby, so I try not to infiltrate it. But now, things are easing up. Thank you so so much for watching 🙏🏾
@@jewelaminaof course! Love supporting fellow alt people >:)
Thank you haha 😅
To me Pearl seems like the type of person who is projecting and repressing allot of stuff. It wouldn't surprise me if she came out as something or another in a couple of years.
When I saw one hour I got sooooo excited!!! Thank you!
Awww. Thank you so much 🥰
Your accent is so beautiful 🫶🏻
Thank youuuu 🥰
@@jewelamina Of course! 💕
I had to double dip in the comments section because I wanted to say I loved your video essay and analysis. And your voice is very soothing. I look forward to watching another video :)
Wow, thank you!
Hello angel, I don't know if I can watch this all the way through tonight but I wanted to go ahead and comment how your voice is like music to my ears!
Wow, thank you
I cant help but feel pearls misogyny comes from a place of hurt and insecurity I feel like she needs to see her own worty in order to see womens worth in general
i am not very on-date with these controversies, but I am glad to discover them through you. Your voice is incredibly soothing, and a wonderful sound to listen to as I draw. Thank you for this video! You have a beautiful accent!
This is my first time watching a video of yours and I was meaning to find a channel who makes long videos like this while I cook and bake. I hardly ever comment on videos but you are just so beautiful and adorable and so well spoken in a way that is so empowering as a teenage woman who is interested in topics relating to feminism and society. This was truly an amazing video and I’m so excited to watch more of your videos. Thank you!
Pearl looks very unfortunate in the face, in the back, in the shoulders…everywhere.
But has the nerve to be shady towards lizzo??? Crazy how that works
She looks fine. Her personality sucks asss and her views physically pain me to hear about but i don't think we should stoop to her level and insult aspects of her appearance she can't change. Especially since she doesn't even look bad, so this is a reach at best.
It's not like I don't think she deserves whatever hate she gets. She's actually batshit insane, an absolutely hypocritical asshole and it's a shame she has a platform. I just found a sub reddit full of people who love her and her views, which is pretty scary actually. but I don't think it gives us a free pass to shame her for her looks imo, at least in part because it means that we are insulting other people who look similar.
Tbf though i do think lizzo def looks prettier though haha 😅
Lizzie isn’t exactly a great person either.
Pearl is many things but not a whale. Lizzo has a face, and that's it.
Pearl has done exactly what her goal was to get noticed, she wants and gets , people to listen and look at here, at a certain point it is sad she should get some good Therapy
ohh we have a whole DEEP DIVE to watch. LOOOOVE that
Thanks so much
The girl just wanted attention and she got it. Now she is gone…goodbye Pearly!!!
So true like EVER SINGLE pick me just wants attention from everyone. Even if it's negative like gurllll😭💀
It’s so funny because if she wants me to believe the same philosophy that she does, why then would I listen to her - a woman? If she doesn’t want us to have voting rights, then I believe she shouldn’t be able to aggressively express her opinion like that then
28:58 Sprinkle Sprinkle cause he ATE with that one.
I think what's really happening is that Pearl is Comphet. She's gay.
Pearl can’t be gay 😭. She identifies as straight so till she comes out to say she’s explicitly gay, we don’t claim her 🥰🥹
Ding ding dinng
All that hate and negativity got her aging like rancid milk...OH the irony. She doesn't even look like a 27 years old. Poor thing.
Stop equating looks to morality. Aging isn't an evil thing and it's largely based on genetics. When you say aging is something that happens to negative and hateful people you're contributing to the stigma of aging (especially for women) and you're helping uphold toxic beauty standards.
@@Silversnakesinthesun hatred and anger raise cortisol levels, which actively ages you. It literally is connected in this case 😂
That low self esteem clip was downright crazy, what a self-tell
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pearl needs to learn to love herself before she goes on and speaks about other people. she blames "modernism" for her circumstances, whilst failing to realize people don't want to associate with an aggressive, performative "victim" who seeks power in victimizing others.
27? No effing way? I thought she was late 30s early 40s. 😳
And yet she insults women FAR better looking than she is.
@@urzmontst.george6314 Alissa White Gluz would have kicked Pearl's neck. Don't get me wrong Alissa is actually kind and takes her fight against her own depression really seriously but one push and YOU MUST BEG FOR YOUR LIFE