DECLUTTERING & ORGANISING MY CLOTHES WARDROBE 2024 UK / DECLUTTER WITH ME / AN HONEST APPROACH
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- DECLUTTERING & ORGANISING MY CLOTHES WARDROBE 2024 UK / DECLUTTER WITH ME / AN HONEST APPROACH
Declutter my wardrobe with me! I have been accumulating clothes for a long years and it was time to have a clear out, to declutter and organise my clothes.
This is the first video, next time I will be decluttering and organizing my handbags, shoes and accessories.
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Kim, you are so watchable, relatable, entertaining, inspirational and laugh out loud funny. Keep doing what you’re doing. X
Thank you so much Helen that's so kind x
There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to go back to your regular healthy size. Please don't feel like you have to apologise for it! Reconciliation with excess weight can be dangerous and many people suffer the long term consequences. Your collection of colourful clothing looks very interesting and personal, I was hoping to see more of it 💜
Thank you, yes you're right, I shouldn't apologise. Thank you x
Oh bless you! I’ve only just started to watch this video, and if it’s any consolation it’s taken me 40 years to get past so many things. It’s only now that I’ve started what I call a hard declutter and removed all of these memories that have kept my foot chained to the ground that I actually feel like I can breathe. Enjoy your home, enjoy being you, whoever, and whatever size or shape you are now, love yourself ❤ best wishes from Hull 😊
Love you sense of humour Kim you are a joy to watch ❤
Thank you Julie xx
I love your videos, it’s like chatting to a friend. You’ve made such a good start and I can’t wait to see the finished wardrobe. Always good to have a clear out xx
Thank you Louise! Another wardrobe vid will be coming xx
thank you for your revelations, I love your videos, your subtle sense of humor and opinion. I wish you health and happiness to your wonderful family
Thank you xx
I have missed you it's good your back again i was like you should I keep it should it go. I had a clear out of clothes because they were to small but with the stress of my marriage break up that I didn't want to split up with him.I've lost 2 stone I've gone from 14-16 down to a size 8-10 depending on what clothes shop could be a 12. Love watching your videos your a lovely person with a good sense of humour. 😊
Love your honesty and have always enjoyed your vids! Nothing better than a clear out x
Thank you Maria! Yes it feels good to have a clear out 😀
Well done Kim! The hardest part is the starting it + you did it! I look forward to your journey through this.
Thank you Sue, yes now I have started I have got the momentum going x
Think this is the pep talk we all needed 🤣🥰 xxx
Next video...Pep talks with Kim! lol x
I'm so so happy I've came across this video . The first 5min of it I wanted to scream out loud that's me, that's me you're talking about.I'm on my self love journey (after 6 years of depression), I'm doing great, I'm eating my chicken and veggies and hearing your story was so helpful for me on my journey because u made me feel I'm not alone with these thoughts, thank you for reminding me that I'm not on my own in it. Word for my English.
OMG, this is me all over! 😂
Love seeing you back lovely ❤ xxx
Thank you Debbie, good to be back x
First off, I adore your personality! Watching this was like hanging out with a friend❤❤ You did such a great job!!!!!
I just turned 55 last month and suddenly despised everything and did a massive declutter of so much stuff I never wore. And I'm also on a new path of staying committed to getting myself healthy and into my old size again. 😊
You're doing great, and we've all been where you are! I'd save just a few really awesome size 10 pieces somewhere not in your closet that you hope to come back to. This way you can keep that goal, but you don't have all that guilt or shame when you're getting dressed in the morning. And then give yourself permission to buy new clothes when you reach your goals. You will want to celebrate and have new things, and there's nothing wrong with that!
Don't feel guilty. I just decluttered over half my wardrobe nearly having to start over because I just didn't like or couldn't wear 75% of the things I owned! I donated it all and felt good about it really letting go.
I feel much better now I have started the process! and I do not feel guilty anymore, it had to be done x
I loved watching you your so funny,I always used to be a small 8 /10 I’m now 65 and a size 10/12 and I have a little bit off a tummy,but I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m happy as I am.I’m never going to get back to that size and to be honest I can’t be bothered.but fair play to you good luck.
Well I feel your pain Kim, such a good watch , can't wait for more xx
Glad you enjoyed it x
Absolutely fabulous, well done Kim! This was so inspiring and real. Well done for realising your value and your potential. You are so worthy of whatever makes you happy. I watched your closet clearout a few years ago. Make this your happy place again so when you walk in you feel you are surrounded by things that are you, the person you are right now. I can’t wait to watch the second part, thank you so much for sharing. This is this start of something special and you deserve it.
Ahh thank you so much! yes I want to walk in and for it to be a happy space x
Hello! I’m a new subscriber. Nice job! 😊🐦
This was a good watch and you made me chuckle quite a few times lol. Hope you get back to a size 10 and manage to sort out the walk in wardrobe x
I appreciate your honesty!! Very refreshing… I wish you all the best!!
I love a declutter so satisfying ❤
Once I get into the swing of it I love it x
You are totally relatable..it felt as though I was listening to a replay of the conversations I have in my head every time I try to declutter. I watched a video last year where someone said..better the one time guilt of purging and donating vs the every day guilt when you constantly look at things you cannot or just do not wear. I got rid of about 300 pieces of clothing in multiple sizes and clothing I bought for the person I aspired to be. I quite enjoyed the entire video. It was, I think how so many people feel vs. all these minimalist videos that are totally unrealistic for so many of us.
So funny and relatable! Thank you
Ahhh I need you to be my friend. I know it may sound creepy haha cause that’s the kind of world we live in now. But I do think u would be a wonderful person to know . ❤ your vibe . Great video. Thank you!
I’m really proud of you! I’ve just seen this video and subscribed. You’re hilarious and that whole inner dialogue is so relatable
This was really helpful. I used to be a size 8 but since having my two children I'm a 12. I keep all my clothes thinking I will one day get back into them. All the while knowing I have zero energy to go on a diet and zero time to exercise (my boys are 2 and 3). But I think what if ONE DAY I'm a size 8 again and have to rebuy everything 🤦♀️ x
Ahhh your babies are still young, be kind to yourself (makes note to self too!)
You may be a size 8 again, however the styles will be different. Treat yourself to new styles if/when you are a different size.
After 2 babies, a size 8 body may be different.
Be kind to yourself.
Well done for your honesty Kim - going through a similar process xx
Thank you Nicola, hope your declutter goes well! x
Just found you…loved this…it’s exactly where I am …tooooo many size 10 clothes …am going to do the same as you have …thank you for making me smile and being so relatable ❤❤❤
Looks great well done can't wait to see what it looks like when you're done I need to do this to 😊
I needed this today ♥️
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Well done Kim, I too am having a clear out. It’s not easy letting go, but it has to be done 🙄 Keep up the good work!! Looking forward to seeing your next vlog 😊 xx
Thank you Christine, so weird how we get attached to clothes! but you're right it's got to be done x
Well done Kim 🎉 I’m inspired to get rid of half my wardrobe now. Thank you 💋
Thank you Serena! do it!!!! xx
Kim ,you're brilliant .
Stop it I'm blushing lol thank you x
Love this Kim! x♥
Thank you Beverley x
Loved this clear out, waiting for part 2 (accessories). I got rid of a lot of things in my own wardrobe. I only kept good, beautiful stuff I actually wear.
That's the best way, no point in keeping things we don't wear. Yep, another vid coming soon x
You've inspired me Kim to declutter my wardrobe! My problem is the size range is 12-18.I cant bring myself to get rid of larger things in case I need them one day.I'm 12/14 at the moment.What if I cant afford to replace them one day.None of my hangers match! I hate clothes hangers they drive me mad.😄🤣😂
They drive me mad too lol glad I gave you a bit of Inspo x
I've got 12-18 as well I've retired and I'm opposite you. I'm big hoping to go small it's never going to happen but some year I might get my Santa wish. Not likely. But after this vlog I'm having a clearout. Defo !!!😂😂😂
Two words: velvet hangers ... more words, stuff doesn't fall off and they're very compact.
Yeah I I didn't like the look of them but they are probably the most practical! x
Well done Kim and thanks for the inspiration ❤ I need to do the same xx
Do it! you will feel much better x
New to your channel, loving your attitude. 😀
Such great progress ! This has inspired me to do the same !
Woo hoo go Amanda! x
New to your channel, you’re my kind of person. Carnt wait for part 2 😊
Thank you so much x
My fav are
The pink house shoes!
Good on ya Kim! You go for it girl!!! ….I wish I could be arsed to drop back down to a size 10, I’ll just watch you doing it for us both ❤
lol I can't be arsed either! joke! this time I am doing it x
Thank you for a very relatable and entertaining video. I used to volunteer at a charity shop, your narration of how things go donating as well as receiving stuff cracked me up, it's all true! 😂 You joke about donating underwear but someone once did donate a bag of DIRTY underwear! Looking forward to part 2 of your wardrobe sort out
That is so gross! why would someone do that lol x
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Well done Kim missed your videos your doing well ❤you have some lovely clothes xx
Thank you Jackie x
You are so refreshing Kim, im in need of a declutter like you but just cant seem to do it! No shame here as a lot of us are in the same boat. Im going to do mine this weekend xx
Thank you Suzie! and good luck with the declutter x
Just discovered your Channel so have subscribed. I love the animal print skirt as well. I’m taking some inspiration from you as need to have a massive wardrobe clear out as well xx
Thank you! good luck with the clear out x
“Emergency bleached leggings” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I literally have a pair 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this made me burst out laughing.
Awww Kim can so relate...so sorry bout your sister..get a lovely wee cushion made from the cardigan..it can sit on a chair or a sofa...just an idea..xx Ty for the great video...Gona tackle my wardrobe next week...ahhhhh!!!!🤪🩷
I thought about the cushion thing, but I'm not sure I would want it cut up. Good luck with the declutter x
Hi Kim I am new to you video I have the same thing I have put on a lot of weight so I am trying to sort out my wardrobe thank you for sharing your video I look forward to seeing more of your videos ❤
Thank you Alana, we can do it together! x
Well done, you've made a great start! Decluttering is always a journey, and it should feel so much better when everything in the room is done :)
If I'm struggling then I try and frame it that it's better for items to be used by someone else than sat doing nothing in my wardrobe!
Once you have tried the clothes on, try organising them by colour as well as item - it might help make it feel 'tidier'.
Joshua Becker, 'Use Less' and 'The Carla Project' have great videos on decluttering xx
ooh thanks for the tips Gemma, and I will check out those other videos too x
Hi Kim , not seen you in a while , I didn’t notice much difference in your weight , you still are slim and gorgeous..I put on 5 st 5 lb in lockdown, slowly getting it off … xxxxx
Ahh thank you so much! slow and steady wins the race! x
Also, batch up your hangers and tape them together with masking tape, and sell them on, they’re lovely. I’m sure someone would be in the market for them. Good luck!
Like the snake reference! Just found your channel, glad I did.
Thank you Jane! the snake reference makes sense doesn't it! x
I came back to say you are hilarious. Plus those red boots are bloody fabulous and i don't see anything else only them.♥️♥️♥️
Ahh thank you x
@@feelgoodwithkim We would definitely be friends in real life.I always have had friends who are hilarious. From very young, through college and still.I could write a book. 😂
I love this video for reasons I won't go into. I'm actually crying. Sorry to be dramatic, but THANK YOU, Kim ❤❤❤❤❤
Ahhh Katherine! I am so glad it's helped you x
Omg you are amazing. Where’d the leggings go Ian? Hm?hm?hm? Hilarious.
Hi Kim, you do make me laugh I love you so much. I am watching you do a wardrobe declutter and I need to do the same thing. It’s not easy because we spend a lot of money on clothes and really do we need them all? I have so much in my wardrobes, coats, jackets, blouses, tops, shoes and bags…..I am ashamed. You are not alone in your mindset. Our Air Ambulance must make a fair bit out of my donations. I don’t sell anything at all, I can’t be bothered and someone else is welcome…..all good stuff but mostly high street I won’t spend thousands on a bloody label! I was a size 10 uk also but not any more, our bodies change whether we like it or not, it’s an aging problem. At the end of the day good health and a good mental attitude is paramount. Like you with darling Luca my husband has had a brain tumour, ( It’s not cured just debulked). Keep smiling, keep your sense of humour I love your vibe Kim. Take care. Xx ps…..I only went out yesterday and bought more stuff….what are we like? ❤️❤️
Thank you Christina! no we don't need it at all, but what do we do....I think its just a case of managing it. Health and mental attitude is absolutely where it's at.
Sending positive vibes to your husband, hoping the cure comes soon x
Great work and great talk. Buy new hangers now when you don´t have so many clothes… it wont feel so wasteful. Love from Sweden. I have been there….💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Yes that a good idea! Thank you x
Not sur I can either but going to try 😊
You can do it xx
Well done Kim like you I have a lot of stuff but I’m having a no buy year this year to make me wear what I have did you keep the leather jacket 😊😊😊
Oooh I’m not sure I could do a no buy year! Go you! And I absolutely kept the jacket 😀
This was so good. I totally know how you feel regarding wanting to get back to your happy weight. For the longest time I kept telling myself just to accept the weight gain and stop worrying about it, but it wasn't me. Being happy in my skin required about a 20 pound loss, so I finally just bit the bullet and worked on getting the weight off, which by the way, in my opinion, is as much of a mental game than a matter of eating. The best thing I did was to accept that at 53 years old it was going to come off slower, find a few pieces of clothing in my current size that I liked and felt good in, and go from there. Diet wise, not eating between meals and limiting - not cutting out b/c life's too short for that - the simple carbs because I noticed with age I was developing the middle age spread which is encouraged by a diet high in bread, crackers, and sweets. Unless you have a food allergy I don't buy into the whole cutting out food groups. Food isn't evil. It's a tool, just like money. The challenge is to use the tool correctly and when needed. Anyway, just my two cents.
I agree it is a mental game! getting your mindset right is key x
Thank you for sharing your back story. I had the same issue. A few years back I finally made the decision to only store my size at the time which was a 2-3x plus size. So that I knew anything I reached for fit. Only recently did I do another declutter to get rid of ill fitting or worn items. I could feel that my closet could "breath" again. Such a rewarding experience. I mean we're in our closets everyday. Might as well make it an enjoyable experience, right?
Absolutely! that's what I am working towards. I know what you mean about the wardrobe being able to breath again x
Take a picture of the sentimental items, put it in a book, then give away the sentimental items.
I would say over half of my stuff still has the tags on 😢. I totally relate to all of this - the struggle is real.
I was the same way and am a size 14 over 4 or 5 years and its ok. We need to love ourselves and just wear what we fit into and get rid of the old hoping for something.
I am going to attempt it, but won't pressure myself! x
Hiya! New subscriber here, i loved your video, very funny 😂 we have a similar sense of humour! Nice to meet u 😊
I now approach clearing out clothes that are too small with the mindset of 'do I want or am I able to make the changes needed to make this fit'. Life changes and your body changes. In my 20s, I was constantly busy, on my feet all day, and exercising. Now, in my 30s, my job is more sedentary and health conditions mean I can't exercise like I used to. Of course my body has changed to reflect what I need and am asking of it now. I spend my free time walking (with the occasional rave) so I now invest in pieces that make me feel good and function well whilst doing something I love. Like you, I definitely want to drop some pounds- but it'll happen. And we'll both fit comfortably into our prized leather jackets again- even if we're wearing them to a nice pub lunch rather than crawling back in in the early hours 😂 😉😜.x.
I love that approach- am I willing to make the change, if not then it goes! And yes we will get back in the jackets! We can do this 💪
You are really funny hahaha. Where are the leggings?! I have so many lost socks myself.
Hi Kim, (if you don’t feel like it would be total sacrilege) you could buy a canvas and stretch/staple the Kenzo top over it to turn it into an art piece. Or sell it if that’s safer/more lucrative. Totally up to you.
ooh I am not sure I am ready for that lol but it's a good idea x
Could you maybe have a small giveaway party with family and friends to just let them choose from the clothes you are giving away? This way, it’s easier to part with some of it. ❤
Good idea, I think I could do this with some items, others I would be like - oi your wearing my top lol x
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❤this - I also have a room & rail that needs attention! Hugs
Thank you Christine, now go get that rail! lol x
When is the next video coming? :)
Currently watching… I watch a lot of decluttering videos but I often switch off part way through because I find the person talking annoying. Not this time! So relatable and your inner monologue is pretty entertaining haha but I really do say the same stuff and make the same excuses! Subscribed!
Thank you for subscribing! really appreciate it. And I am glad I'm not annoying to you lol x
I think with some others, they're just less relatable to me (maybe younger than me, haven't had the weight gain and feeling like wanting to start fresh but also missing the 'old me' and that style), also I'm British and I have been hoping to stumble across a British youtuber I could follow... I'm in Canada now and I do miss some British humour in my life! In any case, I'll be sure to check out your other videos. x@@feelgoodwithkim
Me too, me too. Pandemic fatness is real and hard to shake
The worst kind of fatness!
What time does she get to the decluttering?
About half way I think x
Just done Hubby's wardrobe today and filled 5 bin bags of clothes! 🤔 yes we did it together 😂
ooh well done! I'm not doing Ians lol x
lol that charity shp look is so accurate, why do they get so annoyed by large donations??
Firstly I would like to say I think you look lovely, even in your creased jumper and bleached leggings. You actually are glowing! And secondly, this screams ADHD decision paralysis, along with the disorganisation. I speak from experience! Well done for making a dent in your rails! You got this! ❤ Also if you have a vinted... you should sell some of your clothes! Would make your guilt feel easier. Sending love 💕
Ahh thank you! love the creased look lol, I have been wondering if I have ADHD traits...
You made a great start but I was wanting you to be more ruthless
I think I did pretty good for a start, don't worry more to come :-)
@@feelgoodwithkim You did very well for a start, no criticism intended ❤️
Your just like me Kim always been a 10 and now 12/14. I keep trying to tell
Myself it’s fine but it’s not. I’ve never been this person who dresses to cover her body up. Used to love a basic vest top tucked into jeans but wouldn’t dream of it now xx
I have started to wear clothes to cover up, shall we challenge ourselves to get back into the vests tucked into jeans? x
Hi Kim
My Name is Becky it has been a year since I have been out of Hospital I nearly died from Covid 19 I am only 32 and really need some support from people who don’t know me I just want to wish you a happy New Year
Hi Becky, Sorry to hear you've had a hard time, hope you are on the mend. You are welcome here x
What about a clothing swap party with your girlfriends
ج على شكل قوافل و كاين الي يقدرو يهدرو و كاين غ و دددظد على حساب فيها قع و كاين لي طير
Sorry to much talking for me and not enough cleaning out
Hi Kim i could be your twin sister. I feel exactly the same as you,guilty too much stuff, guilty 2 much money spent, guilty should sell it but cant be bothered. While im typing this i am listening to you with your lamp on floor. Handbags dont use scarfs hanging everywhere dont ever wear them. Belts dont fit ...everything the same ill keep watching and watch previous vlogs. text you soon sis haha. By the way im not a stalker i just cant believe somebody thinks exactly like me!!!🫣😮😊
Ha ha I feel ya sis! well your going to have to have a clear out and do the same if we are to remain sisters lol
I’d highly recommend taking pictures of the items with happy memories and just get rid of the item instead of physically keeping it with you, it’s your closet and not a museum. I have managed to really organise my closet by doing that and now I don’t experience decision fatigue 🥲
But I love a museum! lol no I do need it to be functional, but not sure I am ready to get rid of them yet x