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Cis men don't understand periods and the unrealistic expectation on women to not have organs
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You should train baby hippos to diagnose people with illnesses
leopard gecko keeper!
Continue with cats, but this time paleontology. Let the cats dig up prehistoric fish! :3
Dragon Tamer 🐉 🐲 because dragons are cool and transphobia is not 💗
Alpine shark farmer. You gotta get the milk for your carving cheeses somewhere, no?
As a cis woman, I can confirm that all my bones are cartilaginous, as my true form is a snake-god.
That explains so much about cis women! Thank you for confirming it, I've always wondered 😂
That's cool. I am an enby. We have a noncoporeal form.
@@pathevermore3683I'm masc enby, but afab. Do I get both non corporeal AND snake-adjacent?
@klingonsexy I'm a god, though. I defy the things observed in the natural world
Fun fact, all bones started out as cartilage, both in the evolutionary timeline, and in vertebrate development. Bones are cartilage that has been calcified. When a bone is injured, the break fills in with cartilage first, then turns into bone.
AFAB NB here. I'm up to my third year now of chronic pain that might be endometriosis. I struggle to walk most days. My doctors refuse to sign it as a disability, and refuse to let me get the hysterectomy that I really want and need. Because I'm in my mid twenties and "it can't be that bad." Hun, I rated my appendicitis as a seven out of ten on your stupid pain scale. This constant pain is a six, and goes up to eight when I move, then we knock it out of the park when a period comes.
Doctors need to get a grip and trust that maybe uteruses can cause issues.
Myself and my oldest son ( AFAB trans masc) are hoping that the chronic abdominal pain and awful periods he is suffering from are caused by endometriosis and can have a hysterectomy and not have to wait until gender reaffirming surgery.
@@lynn69jackson Heads up for this, I'm in Australia, and am struggling despite our very decent medical system. So whenever you are, I'd reccomend trying to get in to see all the doctors ASAP! If the ultrasound and blood tests don't show anything up, you can get a laparoscopic surgery for them to put a camera in to have a look and grab some samples for a diagnosis. Sooner you get that diagnosis, sooner you can shop around for find a doctor who will get you to a surgeon.
Good luck, and god bless!
I'm so sorry you're being treated that way. That's awful. Have you tried going to a different doctor in your network, or asking for a new primary care Dr. or new OBGYN? Some of them are just awful when it comes to really listening and taking symptoms seriously, but some of them are much more compassionate and understanding and do take the time to get a full history and will believe you. I too have chronic pain that was suspected to be endometriosis, and I had several doctors write off my pain as bad periods, or just IBS related to anxiety (was literally prescribed therapy as a fix for the chronic pain, despite already being in therapy, on multiple occasions because they thought the pain must all be psychosomatic) but my last OBGYN was absolutely wonderful and immediately agreed to perform a hysterectomy if I wanted her to (and that was in my early twenties too!). Sometimes it takes seeing a few different doctors before you find one who really is a good fit and is willing to take the time to help you, unfortunately. Most Doctors have reviews online now, so you might potentially even be able to look up potential care providers in advance and request one that other people have had good experiences with. Also, a little tip I learned about for if your doctor is refusing to order something helpful, like testing, meds, or exploratory surgery to diagnose endometriosis, etc make sure that you ask them to document it in your medical chart that they are refusing to order it. I truly hope that you get the care and treatment that you need soon, without having to jump through a bunch of hoops! Healthcare can be a real headache, but you so deserve to be taken seriously and find relief from your condition (s) and receive help if you're unable to work and function. Wishing you far better doctors and more compassionate healthcare experiences in the future. 🙏💛 One disabled enby to another, sending you a big hug from my heart. 💓
@@Behold_I_am_Egg I second that. Get a better doctor and get a second opinion. Any doctor who won't listen to their patient's concerns is a major red flag. A lot of patients don't realize they're allowed to ask questions, to refuse a treatment they don't want, and to look for a better doctor.
I'm so sorry you have to live with that, that's absolutely awful and those doctors should be so goddamn ashamed of themselves that it makes them shit their pants daily, and also lose their licenses.
crazy ass idea *just in case* it could be helpful to you: my aunt who had a hysterectomy for anti-cancer purposes had to fight her dr for it too, even as a married, past-baby-having age person. She said the dr made her get her husbands permission to have it done. It's all absolute bullshit, but if you can't make any progress elsewhere, ~~maybe legally marry a man friend long enough for them to go to the drs with you and vouch for you, like "yes, my dear spouse won't be needing that, please remove it posthaste".~~ maybe! wild thing to do, & not free to get married by the courts (in the US anyways), but a potential avenue in case nothing else works.
You deserve an easy, free, caring, and immediate solution. you deserved it years ago and I hope shit changes for you quick
If we had any control over when our periods come, I think a very large percentage of women would choose to not have them at all!
Pretty sure if we got to choose then 99% percent of women would cancel periods permanently.
Telling an AFAB to hold in their period is the equivalent of being stabbed, then told "why are you bleeding out of your wound? Just hold it in, you don't need a tourniquet or bandage!
Pretty sure the catcalling doesn't happen when he's around BECAUSE he's there.
That is the big problem…Even if a man really WANTS to believe how incredibly often this harassment takes place he maybe won’t ever witness it because it doesn’t happen as long as he is there… I explained to my partner that as soon as he accompanies me other men think that he „owns me“ and therefore leave me alone, which is disturbingly misogynistic in its own way…. Luckily I am over 40now…no one is catcalling me anymore because my beauty has faded..😂😂
@@Izanuela22 got catcalled as a teen, now because of my age I'm invisible 🫥 for which I'm ever so grateful 😸
Sadly that's probably true.
@@Izanuela22I mean… maybe? I do think half of it is that “alpha” guys don’t know how to communicate appropriately so they catcall… and maybe they don’t catcall a clear partner because they’re afraid of getting into a fight with the guy , not because of ownership but rather their own fear? I’ve seen women flirted with when the partner wasn’t “alpha” or assumed that the partner was below the flirtatious persons “league”…. I’d also wager many women’s side eye they think is flirting is completely misunderstood by men. We all need to advocate for mature dialogue, and the destigmatization of it.
@@It-b-BlairI understand what you're saying, but I have a better idea. Just don't talk to strange women. Most of the time we want to be left alone, catcalled or not.
There was an actual study that measured a whole age range around 20-60, women usually chose a man partner close to their age, while men always chose a 20-something year old woman, no matter their own age. They're certainly being reinforced the idea of expiry date or misogynist ideals. Ageist hype for women is really what's going on in the media and marketing anyway and even the workforce. It's depressing.
The worst are the men who act like they _should_ be attracted to much younger women because of studies like this. They see it as a prescription, rather than a description, because they don't recognize that society has conditioned them to feel this way. Never mind they don't apply the same standards to themselves.
I'm curious how much of that study was performative vs. their actual observable life choices?
I've seen plenty of age gap relationships, and they weren't all based on older men abusing patriarchal privilege.
Nor did they all involve older men.
I’m also curious about how men don’t want to date their mother… but many “women” want to call out “daddy” in the bedroom…. 😬
@@It-b-BlairThese things can and do coexist in reality without meaning the same thing. As in, these are VERY MUCH TWO SEPERATE THINGS AND SHOULD NOT BE COMPARED BECAUSE ONE IS SEXUAL AND THE OTHER IS NOT.
If you, as a landlord, ever encounter a wall of blood in a housing unit you rent out, that's not menstruation, that's a crime scene
Noted.
@mactepok31 third time's a charm - And I've made a Gameboy version of Another Code. It's quite popular out of all the completed games I've made.
At least I'm telling the truth, and it STILL has nothing to do with this conversation, much like your comment.
Please. Get good hobby. Make games about dragons. It's not that difficult. My disabled butt has done it.
@mactepok31 no one cares
I like your profile pic, very cool :)
(To Roadent1241)
When they taught my class about periods (...about 12-15 years ago?) they explained the very scientific stuff and left it at that. I had NO CLUE how to use a tampon. It would be years before I found out, after reading a book I checked out at the public library. ONLY THEN. Sorry, I guess I was just supposed to know??
Even in high school health class they didn't discuss how tampons worked. Everyone just said "it shouldn't be painful" and there I was "are you SURE??" .... after talking with a gynecologist, it turns out tampons weren't a great option for me! Thankfully I can avoid periods for the most part, since T took them away. Life is much better like this.
I still have no clue what they told the boys that day...
Same.have not been taught a single word about tampons at school. Havent found a doctor to put me on T, yet, but a doctor to put me on gestagen to take my very painful periods away. At least something. Afab NB.
"after talking with a gynecologist" And this wasn;t your first thing to do?
@@shawkorror lol, trying to omit personal medical information from my UA-cam comment..... I knew how to use them but it's not ideal for me. Also Im trans and working up to that appointment took a lot of willpower.
I had the same experience. I thought you were supposed to shove the whole plastic thing up there and when I sat down I would sob in pain. Went to the nurse crying and that’s when I found out that’s not how they work. I was horribly embarrassed and mortified. Our sex ed is shit and I believe they do it on purpose.
The fact that I (a gay man) know more about women's anatomy than the straight guys who (theoretically) can be expected to at least WANT to interact with said anatomy is bizarre to me.
I, Internet Uncle-Gay🏳🌈, call straight men who know less than we do about women's anatomy "Failed heterosexuals." Like come on! They're the ones interested in women, yet they know _less_ about women's bodies than a couple of gay men? Yeah, that sounds like he's failed at heterosexuality.
😂😅🥲😞😓
And this is why I'm ace /j
Hmm perhaps it's the vested interest combined with compensating ignorance that produces this confidently incorrect BS. Like, pff sure I know ALL about this. Never being able to ask a question, look stuff up in educational books/sites etc
@seabhactheshifty4741
You know can look stuff up or ask right? You shouldn't have to feel like you can't. It shouldn't be stigmatized to ask about to understand. In fact it should be incouraged.
@@seabhactheshifty I assure you, as long as you're not creepy about it, anyone you're with would be glad to answer questions to ensure a better experience for both of you.
I would like to give all man-bodied people, who think breast reductions are unnecessary, a pair of G cups (which isn't even that large) to wear for a week. Also, for every man who has ever had a pen leak in their pocket, and been forced to send their secretary to find them a new shirt before an important meeting, and who thinks women can't take a bathroom break during work hours: Imagine that happen, only instead of ink, it's blood, from your crotch region, and there's a lot more of it.
I have my period with passion. I'm in my 40s now, and they've calmed down from the early times, but I never forget when I was on a business course and my pad just completely failed to function while I sat on a upholstered chair, during class. I felt the blood seep up my back against the backrest. I stayed motionless until we had a lunch break, and I rushed to the bathroom. My jeans were black, but soaked with blood, but somehow, my shirt was okay. I did what I could, disposed of the evidence by moving the chair, and felt mortified all day.
Carrying a woman's baggage around? Hardly a novel experience.
Yikes! That beats my "best" leak story! (Got all over my leggings when I was wearing mostly white. Somehow, it didn't go all the way through my skirt. Luckily, the stains came out.)
Oh god I just had flashbacks to an exam day in my early teens where I wasn't prepared for my period and I was bleeding on a chair during an entire history exam, and then I didn't have time for a bathroom break so I had to keep sitting in blood (thank GOD I was wearing black pants)
Yes have a man wear a fake woman's chest with accurate weight and see how long it takes them to complain about how their backs hurt
I used to work as an aide on a Gastrointestinal floor in a hospital. Many of our patients would have had laparoscopic abdominal surgeries. The surgeon fills up the abdominal cavity with an inert gas to make room for the surgical instruments and to be able to to see the surgery site. There is only 2 ways for the gas to leave abdominal cavity, up or down. When the patient would fart or belch, they would always apologize. I'd tell them that it was a good sign that their digestive track was coming back to life.
When i was taking care of my mom before she passed away( she was 90, nearly blind, multiple strokes) whenever she would pass gas when i was putting her in the commode, we both would say " salute to the queen" and laugh
One of the things that bring me joy in this world is looking up the women in in manosphere videos to make it seem like the men score with pretty women and seeing that they are all hired escorts and that they are all over 30.
Explains why so many of them look like they just don’t gaf about anything thats being said in those videos 😂 just the occasional „yea“ to feign attendance for an easy paycheck, love it
Seriously? Oh God, that is the best news I've had in ages.
This is one of the things that's so utterly ridiculous when they claim women lose their looks shortly after 25/30 yrs old, they don't even know what the average 25/30 yr old woman looks like when it comes to ageing so they just assume any woman they find attractive must be under 30
20:42 - I'll have you know, I have never sprayed period blood anywhere...but I HAVE had violently explosive nosebleeds that spray blood everywhere. Most people have noses and the occasional nosebleed...
Yeah. I've had nose bleeds so bad that one time, I was waiting for the bus and when it pulled up, the driver thought I'd been stabbed. There was an actual puddle of blood a few inches wide on the sidewalk in front of me
19:50 That's like saying, "men don't produce sperm. They produce a testicle...".
Oh my days, imagine the _sound_
@@beesforbreakfast*_plop_*
In Japan, there are two nicknames for “aging out of desirability”. If you’re over 25, you’re “Christmas cake” because who wants a Christmas cake AFTER Christmas? And if you’re over 31, you’re “New Year’s cake”, same applies just older. I was told nobody uses them anymore but then a man called me New Year’s Cake early last year and I laughed in his face because I was 35.
Gotta say, i much prefer the cooler lighting. I feel it balances the colors better and it's easier on my eyes (sensory wise)
So happy that you’ve been posting plenty of content. I’m currently stuck on the couch, recovering from top surgery! Parts of my life kind of blew up, but I 100% made the right choice ❤
You should run a restaurant that serves dino nuggets (advertised as “made with real dinosaurs”) and smiley fries
What kind of partner doesn't help when there's a new baby? Mine.
He was "terrified," so he didn't help for the first 8 weeks of our daughter's life. No diaper changes, no feedings, no baths, no tummy time, nothing. It absolutely happens.
Sounds like weaponized incompetence.
I thought that picture of a butt was meant to be one of those mouse pads at first 😂
The funniest thing, related to around 05:00, where doctors don't take women seriously, is that YES TRANSITIONING AS AN FTM DOES WORK FOR THIS 😭 My first appointment after getting on hormones (and staying away from doctors for a few years otherwise), with a new PCP was nuts. I was immediately dxd with ADHD, given an X-ray for the back pain I've had all my life (bone spurring from degenerative arthritis), and sent to rheumatology for what turned out to be autoimmune arthritis plus joint subluxations. Turns out my "growing pains" and "anxiety" was systemic damage from inflammation, bones grinding together, and a slower, insidious version of ANAPHYLAXIS. Literally the only difference was presenting as a man vs a woman 😭😭😭
Was just commenting today that it took me 10 years of agony even morphine couldn't touch, and two previous laparoscopic operations to remove some of my endometriosis, before I got my hysterectomy. Even then, I had to go private because our local trust doesn't do hysterectomies for "pelvic pain".
And then my wife's brother had a teensy bit of chest pain and they put him on a ward for two days and gave him IV morphine, just like that. Because he's a man, and so he gets better treatment. And it frustrates the hell out of me, because all of my 20s were wasted by being in incredible pain, while being told (by female doctors, even, which is always worse) that abdominal adhesions don't cause pain, and that I was just drug-seeking.
When my surgeon did my hysterectomy, he said it was one of the most complicated he's ever had to do, and it took him much longer... and he had to leave some endometriosis where it was wrapped around my bowel, because the ten previous years had let it grow out of control, and if it continues to grow, it'll probably lead to me needing part of my colon removed. It's so depressing.
My brother was well into his 30s when I discovered that he didn't know that women use toilet paper when they pee.
Oooh! Happy Birthday, Jamie. Hope you enjoy your day and be sure they give you the biggest slice of cake 🎂
Idea for next Squarespace website/job: creator of plushies of inanimate objects (like books, candles, chairs, electronics, eating utensils, etc.-but all plushies) 🥰
Fun fact - The name of the vag-deodorant means "Unrest" or "Worry" in Norwegian
I hate how good the ad read was. Why is it so much better than a lot of the memes. 😅
You should make one for a cat Cafe (btw I love your content and it makes my day whenever I see you have posted a video. )
Even as a cis straight person I love your videos because as a young person it’s very good to hear from someone that your not alone and what random bad people on the internet (or in real life ) say is not often true! And it’s really great to learn about the LGBTQ+ community!!
Happy early birthday Jamie! Thank you for making these videos to inform people and cheer us up when the world is… harshly unfair, let’s say.
Also if I could schedule my period, I totally would, I’ve had my period hit on Christmas 3 years in a row now! And it’s not a regular cycle either, I have 24 day cycles. Help.
16:52 if i have joint problems you should have to too
I'm about the same age as you (also British) and I never had segregated sex ed. It must have been something that was up to schools to decide I guess.
The only male specific things that I can remember learning about, outside of basic anatomy, was things like voices breaking and wet dreams. On the female side we covered things like the menstrual cycle.
I'm not even sure how you can really segregate it once you get to the sex and conception part. Even before that, a lot of it is just naming body parts (including nicknames).
I definitely think that we could have delved deeper into certain topics though, such as what's normal and when you should see a doctor (e.g. regarding vaginal discharge).
19:21 my mom use to tell me i would “have to use tampons eventually when i grow up” and i was made to feel like i was being childish.
I think another two conditions that doctors fail every community on is "fibromyalgia" and "lupus". There's more than one type of lupus but there's only one test for it and it's not very accurate. Some women will have lupus for years before the test finally comes up positive for it. I have a form called Chilblain's lupus and there isn't a test. They take the symptoms and the negative test to get to my diagnosis. The fibro diagnosis was easier only because I had a really good doctor who sent me to a specialist right away.
I think you were right about the “leagues” thing, good on you for catching that one bc I wouldn’t have.
I’m pretty sure the “woman inside a placenta has no rights” thing is an anti-abortion thing 🙄🙄🙄
Even though that makes less than zero sense, bc both the person saying “women shouldn’t use childbirth as an ‘excuse’ for everything” and the person saying “fetuses should have the right to incubate inside their maternal parent, to full term, regardless of what that parent wants to do with their own body” are both saying “pregnant people should sacrifice their bodies for the benefit of others.”
7:00 (it's a pro-life thing) "a woman inside a placenta" is a baby, and they're saying it's hypocritical that we don't allot an unborn child rights
7:50 they are still wrong, but they are trying to say that female fetuses in the womb don't have rights
They are trying to make a "feminist" argument against abortion
Exactly! Though one would expect a feminist…or anyone trying to make an argument about abortion…to understand how pregnancy works.
I don’t know that very real Cat Circus seems like a purrrfect business investment to me.
The League is the Evil League of Evil. I’m so pissed that I’ve been serving under Bad Horse for 13 years and didn’t know it!
19:11… as a girl, this moment made me crack up so much more than it should have😂😂😂
I don't remember joining the League of Shadows when I turned 25?
4:36 oh my god this is my exact experience with endometriosis in the US. It was blaned om anxiety for almost two whole years before a female gynecologist of mine finally started treating it as endo. I have stage four endometriosis, thoratic endometriosis, and other issues that affect my daily life because of how far into my body it has spread. It's likely that if it wasn't treated the way it was back then, that i may be better off. Endometriosis and AFAB specific diseases in general need to be more common knowledge among doctors everywhere. Not evwn my gynecologist knew that endo could spread outside of the pelvic area. It's truly sad, and it makes people like me suffer more. I'm non-binary btw, and use any pronouns, but my preference is they/she/he.
Women don’t usually get cat called when walking with a man, because men consider us property and respect other men
On getting older. I turned 50 this year and mentally i have never felt this amazing. Sure, I do notice in my body that it's getting older but overall i'm pretty much living the best life so far.
I hade my first period for a year I was put on BC at 11 I wish I could have turned it off I was extremely anemic
I remember when I was 6 years old, I seriously thought that 15 years old were unimaginable old. Also I thought 45 years old folks were so old that they were close to dying. Now I'm 25 and 15 years old are just kids and 60 years old are just starting to mature:)
In my medical textbook from university the female symptoms of the heart attack are ... mentioned. Whole text about typical male symptoms. Then at last : and yeah, there are also atypical symptoms like stomach and back pain, typically with female patients. -.-
As a trans NB with severe PCOS it makes me feel so amazing that I literally can control when I have my period. If I'm having a really bad time with dysphoria, I can just not take my period medication and skip it until my dysphoria is low enough that I can handle having it.
The blessings of having a really messed up body.
That postpartum post... -Terrible pregnancy anecdote incoming-
I was in labor for 24 hours, had to have a c section because the meds they gave me to speed up the labor stopped it entirely. In and out of consciousness to the point I couldn't hold my son when he was born because I wasn't conscious. Couldn't move around on my own not even to use the bathroom since I was numb from the waist down.
My husband at the time went home to check on and feed our cats since one was a kitten that still needed to be hand fed. Hours go by and I wonder "Where is he?" I need to feed our son but I can't reach him to do so, husband no where insight. I call my him, ask if everything is alright since it had been over six hours since he left. Surely something must have happened to keep him from his newly born son and fresh out of surgery wife right? Some emergency? (Note I was barely 20 at the time and hundreds of miles away from my own family or anything that could be considered a support network, I literally had no one else there with me at the hospital.)
What was so important he had to be doing it right then? He was playing Xbox with his friends.
ok so in the thumbnail those weird pills i keep getting ads for as well as very much 18+ stuff from that company youtube is bombarding me with and i would just like to say i’m not even close to 18 i’ve reported those ads but it keeps popping up how do you stop it
If you go into your settings on UA-cam, you should be able to find Google Ad Services. The settings in there should be able to block particular companies and brands, as well as general types of ads.
My current perspective is that 30 isn't old it's just the age where people are fully settled into their adulthood and might loose some touch with the under 25 crowd.
The person with the "ovary" was not utterly off! 😅 they meant "the ovum" which is indeed the egg cell. So their autocorrect might also have screwed them over. But they were utterly wrong about the last part. It is called "egg cell" throughout the process though there's more terms for the stages it goes through. :'D
It is true that as we age ages seem younger and younger. I'm turning 30 this year too and 30 doesn't seem old at all now.
Birthday twins. 30, hurty and barely surviving on the 19th 😂
I'd like to believe that the cat-calling one was as you said, but it's more likely that he has seen it, maybe even done it himself, but he doesn't associate that with cat calling. "Oh but I'm just being nice/giving a compliment" etc which no, you're cat calling.
I don't console myself with shopping. I celebrate not being pregnant by eating lots of chocolate!
I celebrate by shopping with my partner using the money I save from not having kids 😂❤😊
18:40 As someone who still go to school and stuff, they still do that. just stop.
I know no one cares buuut I GOT MY FIRST BINDER
Woo! Congrats!! 💕
Hecc yeah!
I had a c-section and my, now ex-husband, did that same thing he had to go ‘train for work’ (another woman) and left me there with a baby and fresh stitches telling me to step up and be a woman…did I mention they are a VERY ex-husband lol
7:32 I'm pretty sure they're trying to pretend that is a good argument against the body autonomy of pregnant people.
I hate that fellow peeps who suffer from endo get tricked into thinking it's all in their head. No it's not, endo sucks and I truly hope more advancement and knowledge are gained over time.
Nah, they’ll be in the league. The League of Legends.
“14 minutes ago”
oh
I’m a woman who doesn’t get a period. I thought the same thing as that guy. 😭😭 (the thing about pads going on the vagina)
One of the most hilarious ads I remember seeing online was for shiny red plus sized leggings/pants except that the accompanying picture for them was of a model wearing a pair that were size 00 because their legs were so stick thin and I couldn’t stop laughing at the sight of it because it was supposed to be advertising the plus size version but it was the farthest thing from it. I may be an AFAB asexual aromantic demigirl and totally clueless in some regards, but even I have an understanding of basic biology and how the human body works and I cringe so hard sometimes when I see how dumb society truly is, ugh!
2:31 this makes me want to become a tattoo artist because god damnit I draw occasionally and you are being way too nice that woman has COMICALLY small arms and idek if I've never touched a tattoo gun before offer me $500 and a tattoo gun I will make a better tattoo than that after consuming a fifth of vodka I swear to god. At least the arms will make logical sense.
3:07: "what is 'the league?'"
*bill wurtz voice* ✨ the league of nations ✨
The placenta one i believe is an anti-abortion argument - saying that people are shouting for women's rights but "if the woman was in a placenta (i.e. a fetus (with the potential to be a woman) in utero) then she doesn't have rights" - utter bs like all anti-abortion arguments, but what do you expect from that crowd tbh
Tbh nobody have ever been in a placenta lol
In defence of the rapidly aging cartoon lady, I was 27 in 2020 when COVID hit, and I do feel like I've aged 30 years since then... Though I suspect that wasn't what they were going for.
21:28 it does say vitamin and dietary supplement, so I assume it's vitamin pill you swallow.
I find it sad bc when my friend went to enlarged her chest everyone was happy about it but when the professor did the opposite everyone (classmates) were making jokes and somone wrote wood-door chest on the board before her class (sorry for poor English)
Regarding shreks “better out than in” comment, that is also often used for brain trauma relating to the swelling. You want a bump if you get hit on the head otherwise you’re risking an increase of brain pressure
I think that as a kid time seems so slow that we think 30 years are a lot of time. Trust me once you become a teenager time will fly. I can't believe I'll be 23 this year. It's wild. And because of this when you get older 10 years doesn't seem like a long time. So it doesn't seem like you aged all that much. Plus the fact you don't go through a growth spur physically and mentally the same way you did as a teenager. So it doesn't feel like much changed.
you ever so bored that you decide to try to make a reputation for yourself being the "girl who types things that no one's going to know what you're talking about"? Just me? Fair
Cast off from the docks onto boundless seas
There’s shops to be stocked, there are mouths to feed
Every town needs Neptune’s bounties
But bringing them aground? Well, it’s down to me
Trust me honey, someone’ll know what you’re talking about, and it’s probably going to be me
For the flounders, bream, crabs, cod and mackerel
Can’t outcompete man, rod and tackle
And the salmon and the wrasse, barracuda and the bass
Are all grouped up with the groupers - and a profit haggled
@@Dr_Mortis_SCP Yeah but no one else is gonna get it
What’s it worth to get your earnings from a sturgeon on a pole?
There’s a lot of soul searching when you’rе searching for a sole
No man is an island but I’m fine to play thе role
Living life on the horizon, it can really take atoll
@@freddiefishton I’m sure someone else will get it
What you want to risk to get a fishy
There upon a little dishy when the boat comes in?
It’s a mystery but I’m pretty sure a big'un up and hit me
Took a nibble and he broke something
@@Dr_Mortis_SCP I hope so
I’ll take tea with a spot of hake, please
Some chips, baked beans and a blob of H.P
Love, craft and skill let you dominate seas
Tough graft won’t kill - but a gob of great teeth
@@freddiefishton Even if nobody else recognizes it, at least we’re helping to appease the algorithm
Might take you by surprise as you’re scraping up the muck
No saying what you’ll find so it pays to have a look
Hauling trinkets all a-glimmer or just fishing up some dinner
Sure I ain’t much of a singer but I’m great with catchy hooks
"A woman's beauty fades after 25 --"
Maybe if you're weak. I've seen 90 yo's I found very beautiful. Your weakness disturbs me and there is no beauty in your heart
real, like I'm not attracted to elderly women because I'm not elderly myself but a lot of them are seriously gorgeous
Your weakness disturbs me and there is no beauty in your heart very very much gives the rage you hold now keeps you warm but will leave you cold in your grave energy and I am LIVING for it
@@justaperson4656 Tumblr quote spotted 🫵
@@spiritsys but you recognised it 👀
As I’m getting closer to 35 I am having a very difficult time with it. I appreciate comments like these SO MUCH 🥹
I find it striking that the age at which a woman's beauty is supposed to fade is around the same time that neurotypical brains reach full maturity
Youth and oldy, seek out the BIBLE, and start knowing more than you today assume to know.
I've read it. Are you supporting marrying girls off at 12 and selling her if she was r@ped then?
@@theharshtruthoutthere the word you're looking for is elder. If you're gonna try and sound like you're some kind of super wise bible hermit, at least have the vocab to back it up.
i sure try to have it, thanks and GOD bless you.@@somegeese
@mactepok31you're not
The period makes you sad because you aren't pregnant is the worst thing I've ever herd most people get their periods when there 10-11-12 that's not the goal of tweens and teens
My religious school runed by nuns used to enforce a similar idea that I found even worse.
"Periods are your body crying because you aren't pregnant."
Telling that to girls is a simply sick thing to do, even worse being said by nuns.
That doesn’t even make sense for a nun to say because they don’t even have sex why would they be pushing this agenda?
@@flowerpower9419 Because Christianity rarely supports celibacy as a first option and does support internalized misogyny.
Matt Walsh moment
The quote is from a US sit com, and the character was constantly spouting uninformed opinions, and yet convinced that he was smarter than everyone else. He was a farmer who was raised in a strict religious household who hadn’t had comprehensive sex education beyond raising animals.
The writers were making fun of people who say things like that, not proposing it as a valid point. It was a very funny line that definitely fit the character’s world view.
Not-so-fun fact from someone who had their endometriosis dismissed as "all in your head" by a pain specialist literally reading the surgery report with photographs of how much tissue was removed: it's recently been discovered it's not related to your chromosomes or if you have a uterus. If their estrogen levels are high enough and they lost the genetic lottery, anyone can start growing endometrial lining in their abdominal cavity. Most cis guys need liver damage to get estrogen that high, but it's hormones, so some people are just born naturally doomed.
Yes! I love horrifying cis guys with that fact! Also >hugs< from someone whose pain wasn't dismissed and is apparenly in a terrifyingly small minority in that ;_;
Ugh, hugs if you want them. I ended up not having endo, but it took me four docs to find someone who didn't just shove birth control at me and tell me to stop being dramatic and whining. Yeah, turned out my "drama" needed surgery.
Yup. My endometriosis was dismissed by multiple doctors, all men. One even told me "you're a redhead, your kind are just naturally weaker when it comes to pain tolerance".
@@WobblesandBean The doctor mangled the redgead thing, but it is true that natural redheads and most natural blondes have a gene that means we perceive pain a bit differently AND we go thru anesthesia like crazy. The latter is why the belief, pre-human genome project, came about that we have a really low pain tolerance: we often need 3-4 times (or more!) the anesthesia to stay numb during local procedures. But if we get the right anesthesia, it turns out that in general, we have a higher pain tolerance than other hair colors. 🤷🏼♀️
@@WobblesandBean 'your kind' like you're some kinda mystical cryptid. Hilarious
I'm 58 years old, getting very close to 59. I own every year, month, day, hour, minute, and second. That old saying about it's rude to ask a woman her age is just bullshit. I've earned being this old, the ups and downs, the successes and the failures, the triumphs and the tragedies. When I taught high school, the high school girls would always ask me if I hated getting older. My answer was, "Hell no, and the alternative is dying young and I'm not through with the things I want to do." As Hunter S. Thompson said "Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, "Wow! What a Ride!""
I love everything about this!! Next month, I turn 43 and am still not sure how I feel about it. This made my heart feel lighter. 💟
@@Moon_Thief_420 💯 Glad it was helpful. I love life and am proud of the years I've spent living it, even the not so pleasant time.
@@Moon_Thief_420 i am only 3 years ahead of you, but i had a heart attack back in july so i kind of feel qualified to tell you, get your self checked up and on a diet and exercise program. also. learn something new it helps with neuroplasticity, something else you will find slipping as you age. i have been a metal chugger (rhythm guitarist) since james hetfeild had long hair and i have spent the last 4 months learning music theory and finally learning how to PLAY my instrument. memory and cognition have improved dramatically.
@@Moon_Thief_420 just noticed your name so i came back for one more peice of advice. higher THC content and slower smoking, and terps are your friend.
I love this comment and your attitude! I have a song recommendation for you: 'Look My Age' by Brooke Alexx 💛
3:08 "the league" obviously refers to The Justice League. After 25, all women gain super powers and join the Justice League. Men join The Avengers and enbies make their own because they're too powerful
Hey wait a minute, I know you
@@Dr_Mortis_SCP hi, friend! :3
@@Trixie_Lavender Hello again
@@Trixie_Lavender i don't know you at all. hi!
@@pathevermore3683 hii! :3
20.24 reminds me of something I read once. "Arguing with idiots is like playing chess with a pigeon. No matter how good you are, the bird is going to shit on the board and strut around like it won anyway."
Pigeons can be taught basic instructions, idiots can't learn
What an amazing quote! I love it!
I heard that! Love it!
The other one I like is, “they drag you down to their level, and beat you on experience.”
I have a friend who had an extremely large chest. She was constantly in pain. Her fiance was overjoyed when she said she wanted a reduction. He didn't want to tell her to get one in case she didn't want one but as soon as she mentioned it, he told her he's been hoping she'd want one because of how much pain she was in and he didn't want her to be in pain constantly. He took her to her appointment and cared for her after. She's so much happier now
My mom always wanted one, too, though could never afford one. She also had a very large chest.
@eliscanfield3913 This was in the uk for us, and the fact that it wasn't available on the NHS was absolutely insane. She was in so much pain, but they refused to do anything, apparently she didn't meet the criteria
Can I ask to get either a reduction or removal just so I can breathe at night or am I just being childish? I struggle to get to sleep because of the weight on my chest and that's with me trying to sleep on my side. It was bad enough when I was bleeding as well but I've spent nearly a further decade with this being the solo struggle but I'm a girl so I just have to lump it, yes? I know I can't ask to not be disabled but I understand breathing is quite a bit more important to survival.
Also the nausea I keep forgetting it causes doesn't help.
@mactepok31 Again - and I've made a Gameboy version of Another Code. It's quite popular out of all the completed games I've made.
At least I'm telling the truth, and it STILL has nothing to do with this conversation, much like your comment.
Go away and get a hobby.
@mactepok31 Knock yourself out ,mate. Btw,this comment thread is about women whose boobs naturally grew so big they hurt just existing.
RE: Catcalling. In my experience it happens to me less often when I'm out with a man. I assume it's for the same reason that telling a guy I'm gay is less productive than telling him I'm married.
it's ridiculous, it's like they respect the opinion and boundaries of another man more than they do any woman's
Yep. I sadly know way too many people whose partners have been apologized to for catcalling. As in a "Oh sorry dude, I didn't realize she was claimed" kinda way. 🤮
came here to say this. if you are walking with a man, other men see you as "taken," so no catcalling. we are seen as possessions of men, so no man = available no matter what we say; with man = off limits
@@mamarowan7689no it’s because men are likely to make their boundaries respected by force.
If your man looks like a twig it’s not going to work as well.
Had 2 male acquaintances tell me not to worry, they don't hit on friends' wives (not that either was actually a friend of DH's, just a teammate. Especially after that statement) Gee, thanks, I guess. Creep. One would quite literally hit on any female he saw who he didn't know was attached to some guy. (He told DH that, not me, so at least he has a microgram of sense)
Bro, a woman's beauty fades after 25?? My girlfriend's mother is 63 and she looks like she's not a day over 28!
all of my friends literally say that my mum is beautiful and looks like 20-30 years old (she's 41 and i always tell her when one of my friends say something nice about her and it always makes her smile)
Sadly. My mother passed away at 21.
She was really good at being 21 though. She had 32 years of experience at it.
my mom is 45 and she just looks like an older teenager, idk it’s hard to explain
when my mom was 30+ she still had constant comments on how hot she was from others
I'm almost 30 and I feel more beautiful right now than I ever did under 25. Every time I get compliments, especially from younger women or obviously body conscious individuals, I tell them it's the confidence. I only look as beautiful as I feel because of confidence.
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Daily reminder; You are valid and amazing just the way you are!
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Don’t. Stop, you’re making me blush. Hehe…
*I said don’t stop*
unless its dreamgender. or zoophilia, or many more
You too
Heckle deckle yeah we are!
NO YOU
At 13, I went with 2 guys in their early 20s (family friends) to pick up one of their gfs. She had just started her period and asked her bf to pick up some sanitary products on the way. They left me in the car and didn't tell me what we stopped at a convenience store for until after. Then, they started asking questions about the difference between pads and tampons. I was 13 and hella awkward, so I just said, "One goes inside, and one is used outside." Their response, "Of her underwear?" These were 2 adult, sexually active men 🙄 decades later and I still can't even.
4:59 THIS!!!!! I was AFAB and still very much look it. It took TWELVE YEARS after I started having painful and terrifying symptoms for them to diagnose me with MS. One medical professional told me I was collapsing because I broke up with my ex. We were together for three months. I’d collapsed *multiple times* before I’d even met them.
Also, the amount of times I was told it was *just anxiety* makes me wanna go a little berserk. If they had listened to me, I wouldn’t be disabled at age 27.
When my son was around 11, they had the "your body is changing" talk at school. He came home very confused and scared. As a single mom, i wasn't sure how to reassure him. So i said the best thing i could, " would you like to talk to Grandpa?". Son and grandpa had a nice long talk about male puberty and son's fears were relieved
The reason that guy has never seen cat calling in person is because creeps are usually also cowards and won't cat call you if you're with a man. It's that simple
Oh hey, your Sex Ed was exactly like my own.
girls and boys were separate, and i was disappointed that i couldn't join the boy group. I wanted to know what guys went through.
I mean my mom was already having that talk with me, and she was more than willing to help me understand stuff about reproduction or finding info on my own.
I just had to look stuff up for myself, also asking a friend or two about it.
I think Sex Ed is really lacking integration and information about a lot of stuff.
Also, living in the South US, we had Absonance instead of condom use taught.
So many girls getting pregnant. it just doesn't seem like a viable alternative. smh
When I was a young child who's DFAB (another way to say AFAB), my sex ed was like this in a grade 5/6 mixed class I was in... In the end... My teacher said at the end "don't be a slut" which is misogynistic as hell (and jokes on her, I prefer fictional men loving men stuff over real life cishet relationships)
My mom was single for like 25 years and now I walk in the room and her and her boyfriend are googling "civil partnership" there is definitely no expiry date
The title sounds like my demiboy BFF who's on their period
ALSO THEY WATCH YOU TOO SO LOVE YOU ARTE IF YOU SEE THIS 🤜🤚🤟
I hope they see this!
@@AmorphousCatAnimations maybe they will :)
I got carded when I was 35 at a casino, which means they thought I was under 18. Yeah we're doing just fine over 25 thanks.
A new person wanted my hall pass at the school where I worked when I was 33, so I hear you, lol. My poor spouse is the opposite; people keep thinking he's my father, rather than a man a scant 12months older than me.
@eliscanfield3913 Oh no haha!
I simultaneously look 13 and 30.
They're actually required to card you to make sure you're not banned from entering casinos because of cheating or a gambling addiction, at least in the country I live in, so it might not have been age-related.
The woman in the insurance ad is a doctor. She just got her doctorate at 27 and is about to begin her residency. Age 30 is three years in the field.
I can think of so many famous women over 25 who are like stunning. I mean have you seen Gillian Anderson or Margot Robbie
When I saw Gillian Anderson on the set of X-Files she was the most stunning creature I'd ever seen. Then I saw her later when she crossed the pond back to her roots and starred in British shows, and she's even MORE beautiful than before.
@@jooleebilly And the network didn't want to hire her because she wasn't tall or busty enough! INSANITY.
Two words: Angelica Houston
Jamie Lee Curtis. My dad had a massive celebrity crush on her, which I only learned about after they'd both past 50.
Helen Mirren. 'nuff said.
I’m so glad my mother, sister, and I have managed to teach my brothers the basics on female anatomy, LGBTQ+ facts, and the expectations and experiences of women so they don’t end up sounding like mysoginistic idiots
3:09 after a woman turns 25 they get drafted into the justice league. Obviously
Periods can be so so very unreliable and people need to realize this sooner. When I was maybe 12, I was going to camp in a few weeks. The week before, my period started. I was relieved that I wouldn't have my period at camp. The very next day, it stopped. Nothing happened the rest of the week. The first morning at camp, I woke up in a puddle of blood. The d*mn period decided, nah, I'm gonna wait until you're at camp with no pads to start. I had to sleep on a towel covered mattress the rest of the week because the bed sheets I brought were ruined and there was no washer/dryer.
Yep, erratic periods are awful. I once had one for an entire month on and off, one of the worst months of my life. Sometimes it only waits 2 weeks, once it was almost a month late (so almost 2 months between the first proper period). It depends on the person, i envy those with regular periods
My period once decided to skip a month, I was worried about it because I had never been taught that, sometimes, periods are just a bit quirky with their timing
when younger its not uncommon for it to be unpredictable.. if older and missing months of periods then there's an issue/ or constant bleeding.. normally some have it like clockwork others it shifts a few days either direction. ya not enough is taught.. I learned a lot bc I suspected I had pcos and also eventually diagnosed w it. learned as an adult. still aways something new to learn about biology.
my younger days it could be missing more than being reg... I loved swimming thankfully didn't miss too many days= embarrassing.
its best to teach kids young ( kids as young as 7 can hit puberty) so having pads around JIC for them or their friends would be a good idea. i keep some in our car all the time jic.
if too erratic there's a problem.. also if you go too many months w out periods it can lead to cancer. I have pcos and have had every kind of period reg/ daily bleeding/ no bleeding cycles months at a time. IN our hs sex ed class.. it was all about too easy for teens to get pregant... oddly enough everyone in my circle of friends had trouble conceiving.@@AnEmu404
As a trans dude, my periods are quite irregular and heavy for the first few days (no thanks to hypothyroidism)
I guarantee that some of those men who complain about breast reductions could use one of their own!
help yes
So the topic of genital aesthetics brings up something I find kind of neat:
So the condition phimosis, where your foreskin will not retract fully, is usually just treated with circumcision--no foreskin, no problem. Otherwise you have a higher risk of infection and sex can be painful.
However, in Tokyo there is a clinic that specializes in curing phimosis while leaving you with a foreskin, because being circumcised is so uncommon in Japan that this is desirable. They have TV commercials and they are hilarious.
The US is kinda "hack-it-off"-crazy, due to the influence of sex-hating christians who promoted infant circumcision 120 years ago in order to, "prevent masturbation." by the 1950s it had become so routine and so entrenched, all sorts of medical excuses were made to make it seem good to hack off a length of shaft skin.
As for phimosis, the actual problem is the "rigid band" that normally keeps the foreskin closed. It becomes inelastic and/or is too short. So why not just remove that band instead of hacking off the entire foreskin? Again, it comes back to normalizing a body modification that was started over 100 years ago to force extremist anti-sex christian beliefs onto male bodies.