Really Bad MEN’S Anatomy
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Some more examples of bad men's anatomy, because this is really not how guys work
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Bro timetravelling lol
Aquascaping.
@@JonDoh-ve7ec arborist?
If I may offer some advice on getting dark green hair that isn't just 'dark' as a goth who's been trying different things for a year now in my quest for very dark green hair. I have found that a 50% mix of Manic Panic Raven back and 50% Manic Panic Venus Envy goes to a really nice foresty green. It'll look black after the first rinse but after a full wash it's just very dark green 💚🖤
try making recipes
The Chicken comment is actually a history joke - an ancient greek philosopher once tried to describe humans in the fewest words possible as "featherless biped", and competing philosopher Diogenes made fun of that by bursting into his lecture with a plucked chicken saying "Behold! A man."
The terfs aren't the first people to think that they have a perfect definition of an absolute category but have it turn out that reality requires just a bit more attention to detail and nuance than they're willing to admit. And sex/gender are rather more complicated as categories than species...
Beat me to it. Diogenes
"an ancient Greek philosopher" is underselling. The smug boi that Diogenes humiliated in front of everyone was only bloody PLATO.
(Who won at wrestling at the Olympic games iirc, so it's totally nerd kid humiliating the jock everyone swoons over vibes)
came to look for this comment!
Diogenderes, still searching for an honest trans, approves of your comment.
Viagra is also a heart medicine, in fact it's what it was formulated for in the first place. Spiking someone's drink with a substance that affects the heart seems like a HORRIBLE idea.
Yeah, it could even kill them if they have a heart condition!
Bingo! @@aidennevada243 you got in right in one.
Spiking someone with any drug sounds horrible too.
Plus, even if that man found a woman who actually liked him back (though the chances are microscopic), the relationship would be built on distrust and entitlement. Who does he think he is?
"Wow, there sure are a lot more trans people these days. Oh, I know what to do! Drug women without their consent!"
Yeah, & it doesn't *cause* erections anyway, lmao
Yeah maybe we just shouldn't spike people's drinks period.
"Men don't cook!!!" How much you wanna bet they'd scoff at a woman being a professional chef?
Obviously there are little kitchen fairies that appear and cook the food in professional restaurants
source? trust me bro
WHERE'S THE LAMB SAUCE?!
@@PGOuma IT’S COMING, CHEF
Being a cook and chef are different things because chefs yell at people. Like Gordon Ramsay ::tongue::
Yes I made this comment on another creators video. The running joke is that woman belong in the kitchen, but all be damned if that’s an industrial kitchen with a pay check involved. The food industry is vile. I was sexually harassed and underpaid for years before I finally gave up and start working privately.
5:30 "Men are like Waffles, Women are like Spaghetti" is an Evangelical Christian version of "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".
The idea is that men compartmentalize their lives and for women, everything is intertwined.
My mom gave me the book and study guide when I had issues with my ex. It turned out that he wasn't a waffle, he was just abusive.
Sorry about the abuse part. Been there. Hope you're safe kiddo.
Yes, I'm fine. We broke up over 5 years ago. I gave up on the idea of getting married, went to college, graduated, got a reasonably well-paying job, and rented my first solo apartment. Now I won't be financially dependent on a relationship. That's a better feeling than all the self-help relationship books can give.
@@asongfromunderthefloorboards Oh well done! Lots of love, hugs, good vibes. Living free is the greatest craic. Beannacht Dé leat!
Thanks for the explanation on waffles vs spaghetti. I went to the comments looking for an explanation. I could tell where they were going with the waffles, but not the spaghetti…
Dittoe @@angeliquestevens1863 however now I want spaghetti.
It's not gay to have emotions. Are you really a man if you have no emotions? Man up and cry.
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Underrated comment +1
i don't think reverse psychology actually works but I'd be down to try it out
I’m not even trans myself but I just love watching Jamie’s content to be educated, and also for the occasional silly video like this one :p
Same!
Same
Same
Yup! Still waiting for the social contagion to hit...
Same, OT too
Today is now the fifteen year anniversary of me starting testosterone. I had my top surgery ten years ago and my bottom surgery 7 years ago. Just like you said Jamie - no regret, just happiness.
My life is the best it has ever been - I look and feel amazing and wonderfully masculine, I have an adoring and adorable husband and I have not felt dysphoric in a very long time.
To those of you reading who are in the space I was in my early 20s (that is to say, suffering from crippling gender dysphoria and other mental health issues and not having any support from your family or the world around you), it gets better. So much better. I know you can get through this.
Regardless of the madness on the internet, the world is much more accepting than it has ever been, and especially more accepting than in the late 2000s when I started my transition. All of the people before us fought so we could have access to the healthcare we need, so let’s keep fighting to make sure the next generation can have that too.
awwh, that’s so sweet 😭 I’m glad you’re happy and that you got to transition and are expressing yourself to the fullest ❤ I hope you have a wonderful life going ahead, just like you are now :)
@@sesbianlex. thank you :)
I hope your life is just as wonderful (or, if not, becomes so)
Happy T-anniversary and thank you for sharing your story!
Happy Anniversary!
2:39 there’s an entire topic on this called heterofatalism, and it’s basically just the experience of women trying to cope with the fact that men are never going to be equal partners in relationships
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That's so sad. If I were them, I would rather just stay single and get pet bunnies then put up with that
More reasons to join the lesbian side
(I'm a lesbian I'm allowed to make this joke)
@@amethyst_cat9532 I’m way ahead of you xD I changed teams like a year ago.
@@PGOuma More and more women and fem people are just noping out of relationships with men, whether or not they are sexually or romantically attracted to males.
28:46 I resent this. I have a period every single month, cycling through all these eggs I was literally born with. He didn't start producing the "ingredients" until he was nearly a young man. He cycles through his "ingredients" like crazy. He doesn't have a hellish period to relieve pressure and make room. He has a nice date with Jill.
3:15 This is what I, [cis] Internet Uncle-Gay🏳🌈, consider one of the benefits of being gay: (1) You learn to be self-sufficient; (2) Thus, you learn how to be an _adult_ and; (3) You are dating _other adults._ Not freaky man-children, not overgrown little-girls. Everyone in the relationship is an Adult, everyone's expected to be able to function on their own. That's the starting point. And from there, as a couple, we help each other grow as people.
As a fellow super dark haired person who loves putting color in their hair, I felt you on this opening.
This actually looks cooler than making the hair some unnatural color, because it makes the hair glow. Like, I can see a bluish hue in the hair when Jamie rotates his head to the side...
Yeah I would love to have pink hair but don't want to bleach it. So I dye it pink and my silver hairs get to be pink 🌸😸
@@silverghostcat1924 honestly, that sounds so cute.
@@emeraldlily673it is.
I also have dark hair, and I sometimes go purple. Some silver is starting to come in now, so it should be more interesting next time. 💜
To all of my transgender family out there. I'm so, so proud of us ❤ always remember to keep your head up and your heart full. The world's hate cannot stop us. We've got this. All the love, from a lonely trans girl in nebraska ❤❤❤
Thanks sis ❤
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As an ace man with high T the whole T makes you bi thing kind broke me XD
Sexuality overflow!
11:37 this one isn't bad men's anatomy, its based on a meme about ancient greek philosophers. Basically, IIRC, Plato defined a man (as in a human) as a "featherless biped", and then later Diogenes showed up with a chicken he plucked exclaiming "behold, a man!".
Love the mention of Freddie at 10 minutes! My fav vocalist of all time.
Global average height for cis men and amab folks is 5'7", provided no hormone influence beyond natural puberty.
That probably includes a non-trivial number of men who are 6' or taller wand plenty who are shorter than 5'7".
@@jnharton yes thats what average means, average is in the middle LOL theres gonna be people that go above and below
Yes!! I’ve been saying for years that if men are supposed to sleep around, who the heck are they sleeping with if all women need to be virtuous!?
The waffles and spaghetti thing is about how men's and women's minds are supposed to work.
In this worldview, men's minds are like waffles because there are compartments and everything is organized in neat little boxes.
and women's minds are chaotic, like spaghetti where everything is connected to every other thing.
I've also heard it described like an attic full of boxes vs a ball of wires.
When the man has conversation about football, he opens the football box and he can look at all the football information in the football box.
When a woman has a conversation, she starts talking about the kitchen, but that makes her think about how the trash needs to be taken out, and now she's thinking about the other things that need doing around the house and one of those is the laundry which reminds her that the laundry machine is broken so she-
basically, they're saying men have OCD and women have ADHD.
My nonbinary ass having both fits this model very well then. 😁
Guys I swear I'm a factory default male even though I have both
You described this very well, I really understood it in a vivid way. Thank you.
Damn. Guess I'm a woman. Eh, I'm not mad
@@maskedmallard537 Shouldn't enbies have neither ocd nor adhd snce they're neither male nor female though?
Medical student here:
Spermatogenesis (the process in which sperm grows from its original cells) has a duration of 74 days, after which the sperm can survive for about another month. The idea that men carry the sperm for their entire life is utter BS.
12:08 The chicken one is a joke about a dialog between Diogenes and and Plato. Plato defined man as a "featherless biped". Diogenes, hearing of this, plucked a chicken, brought it to Plato, and said "Behold, a man!"
20:56 how... can there be regular and average-
6:32 the variation of weight and muscle is what they're talking about. It's a rough sketch of basic body types but not body shapes in going through every single variation of weight muscle and body shape would be more than what this person was invested in doing because that's not the point. They're asking if you prefer a slim muscular or chunky and that's what they wrote.
I thought you might have been looking for the phrase weaponized incompetence where when partner asks the guy to do xyz chore they fail so hard at it every time that it is no longer worth it for partner to even ask for the "help", thereby avoiding both effort and nagging.
7:15 Those are real muscles, sometimes called the boxer's muscle because they help pull the arm forwards for punching. The Photoshop stuff is just about enhancing muscles rather than adding more, with the most egregious part being the seam between the shoulders and biceps where the biceps have been particularly "enhanced"
My to-do list before this video:
- Buy groceries
- Take out trash
- Re-organize office
My to-do list after this video:
- Listen to (somehow) even more Queen
- Figure out how I had arms pre-puberty
- Throw away phone since I can apparently only carry a wallet + pocket knife
A man's work never ends
8:36 Oh Jamie! Don't you know that, to many Americans, including the entire Republican Party, _a single cell _*_is a child._*
I'm serious.
There are people in the US whose understanding of biology is stuck back in the 8th Century. 😾😡😠🤬
my first thought on the "real men don't listen to music, all they do is play video games" was "okay, i guess real men only play games with music volume 0"
The hype for 6 feet tall guys is clearly a number hype, in good old metric it is 1.8288m and nobody cares about that specific size.
Happy new year Jamie, I'm "just gay" but you've taught me things I didn't know about over the years.
I love you very much thank you for being you.
"Behold, a man!" is actually a reference to Diogenes, the Greek Philosopher. Some other philosopher had claimed humans were best defined as 'a featherless biped', so Diogenes hit him with a plucked chicken while yelling... Ye ken it.
The whole "I carried my child in my balls" thing is not only biologically inaccurate, but it also gives "You might have bought the flour, milk, chocolate, butter, sugar, baking powder, made the dough, put it into the oven and decorated it, BUT I BOUGHT THE EGGS!"
About the corn dog muscles; they develope as you work on your chest back and core. Can't remember what they're called though.
Back in the 90's I actually did carry a pocketknife past security at the airport. It was very small, gold, and on my keychain. They never noticed it. I had bought it at an antique store.
The thing is, it isn’t possible to get shredded muscles like that without harming yourself. It requires dehydration, a very restricted diet, and an unhealthy and excessive amount of exercise… and probably steroids. Actual strongman body types have plenty of body fat rather than cut abs.
All of what you just described is/can be considered self-harm. Being regularly dehydrated damages your kidneys. Restricting your diet to the extreme causes nutrition deficiencies, which again can cause physical organ damage and psychological distress. Excessive exercise causes a whole host of issues, including (but not limited to):
- mitochondrial fatigue
- insomnia
- heart problems
- repetitive injury
- damaged immune system
- increased blood pressure
- over-stress to muscles and joints
In your Urethra.
Whenever I see something about men and height, I am reminded that height is one of the biggest factors in how much a man earns. Statistically, the taller a man is, the more money he earns.
And frankly, that's 50 shades of f'd up, that society places so much value on how tall men are, something that is determined at birth.
Welcome to “pretty privilege.” Women get judged on their looks their en ire lives….not just height. Eye color, length of hair, weight, size of their chest, their lips, wrinkles, and have forever. Men are starting to be advertised to more about physical attractiveness, but 9 year olds are using hyaluronic acid and wrinkle cream TikTok ! They are desperate to look “pretty” and are doing make-up tutorials on TikTok (as if TikTok can’t tell they are under 13).
Men don’t listen to music. Mozart, Liszt, Wagner, Andrew Loyd Webber, Billy Joel, Elton John. None of them listened to music? How could they write the songs and tunes?
I think I was in 3rd grade when I last held misconceptions of this nature in regard to human anatomy.
10:10 game osts and background music existing:
Also she says that but when I went to a (rock) music festival with my dad and his girlfriend he didn’t want to go pee cause his favourite band was playing (he did in the end but he really didn’t wanna go 😭)
That was an amazing time though. My sister missed out.
my dad was a DJ for like 20 years, a song come on the radio and he needs like 3 notes to tell you name and performer lol men can definitely listen to music
22:00 My dad used to bring a pocket knife to the airport. Went as smoothly as you'd expect. He's old fashioned.
25:45 bro looks like a fortune cookie
I adore the reference to Diogenes at 11:40
Behold: Plato’s Man!
23:39 simple, other men
The "Regular" vs "Average" is prob due to translation, some languages use similar words to "regular" to mean "regulated" as in "prescribed", "ordered", "preferred"
This video brilliantly breaks down stereotypes about male anatomy! 👏 Our society has always been inclined to idealize the female body
Making me ridiculously jealous with the apple tango 😭 darn you, geography
Eve ate the fruit first and then gave it to Adam.
Anyone else read the thumbnail like "Men crying when they see THAT their bride is extremely gay" 🤣
I never understood the whole “gender stereotypes” as someone from a family of female cooks/food service workers on my mom’s side of the family and male ones on my dad’s side of the family, to me it didn’t matter what gender they were or whether or not it was their full time job or just a hobby it just mattered that they were good at it, lol. I especially got annoyed when someone teased my brother in kindergarten for wanting to play house because I played little league baseball with boys even though I was AFAB and I enjoyed it so I was happy for my brother that he liked playing house even if stereotypically he wasn’t supposed to. Life’s too short, do what you love and enjoy it while you can!
The problem is we've segregated the sexes so much to the point that boys and girls only talk about the other sex within their own gender group and assume whatever their girlfriends/homies say about one another is true and both are assuming the worst aspects of said sexes to be true.
We are all guilty of this due to societal expectations of gender norms since birth.
"Boys wear blue. Girls wear pink"
"Boys play with toy trucks. Girls play with dollies"
"Men grill. Women bake"
This is a trap we all fall into and is a process we all have to unlearn.
Seems like most of the people who already figured this out are trans people or nonbinary people...
Even if those things were /generally/ true, there would still be outliers...
12:17 this needs to be put in a "science diagrams that look like memes"
My past therapist called that learned helplessness.
the chicken thing is refering to an old story about diagonese and plato, where plato said "man is a featherless biped" and diagonese heard this, and immediately found a plucked chicken and said "behold! a man"
You should become the worlds best underwater basket weaver!
'men don't listen to music' is satire, making fun of men who think that women don't listen to music or have any thoughts or preferences, and only do stuff to please and attract men
Oh hey, I'm here at quite an early time! Um, good for me, I guess.
I think talking about your husband as a child is from frustration over their inability to do basic things for themselves. Example: my father walked into the kitchen and asked what was for dinner. My mom said she hadn't thought about that yet because she had been busy all day. He said "but I'm hungry" and expected her to solve this.
I know its probably too late for jamie to notice this comment, and he might already know/ruled out this possibility but i will say it anyway:
A possible reason the green hair doesnt show on camera could be the purple/pink lighting in the background
Green+red+blue(green+purple) tends to mix into dark brown/black
im certain that the green looks amazing in person tho, i hope you are enjoying the new hairstyle
Im sorry run that by me again, Jamie. Beans on.... WAFFLES???
10:01 Honestly, in the company I keep at least, I think I've only met maybe 3 men that aren't big on music, and even then they know quite a few songs or bands that they enjoy. I've actually met far more women that have very niche music that they listen to.
Considering the types of people that make this type of post, I feel like its a much higher chance that their music tastes don't mesh well and he's never heard of the people she listens to, and therefore "doesn't listen to music".
Maybe he isn't a fanatic, but that doesn't mean he doesn't listen. I feel like it's more of a "my music is the only type" and a complete disregard of communication in hobbies and tastes rather than a male sterotype like "you have to do this to be a man."
As a cis bi (but straight presenting) man who grew up in a conservative town, I had never had someone play with my hair or run their fingers on my neck. Current girlfriend does it casually and it means so much that she returns the affection in those little ways.
First video I've watched, and quite funny. Glad to be here :)
12:15 It's from "The Onion Book of Known Knowledge," a totally factually correct, and reliable encyclopedia, and not in any way a satirical book 😜
I'm sorry… WAFFLES WITH BEANS?!
The chicken is a reference to the philosopher Diogenes
By the end of the video hair definitely came off turquoise on the highlights!💜
Apparently my dad, grey hair and all, is a young boy. You learn new things every day
Holland 😭 Tom Holland 😭👏🏻 he’s amazing 😭👏🏻 you should watch his interview with Jay Shetty. Tom is just such a wholesome bean
If the person who made the height chart saw Avi Kaplan, a literal bass singer, they would be embarrassed in putting him at "a young man" (not that he's old but still) lol
Regular reminder that you're all awesome, beautiful and valid little spuds, just the way you are ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Love you all ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
You really ate that debate (you did good)
SO EARLY HEY BOOKIE
Funnily enough, sperm are reproduced continuously throughout a man's life, just millions and millions, and they only last in the testes for a few weeks. So that "i carried the child my whole life before you did the last 9 months" is just pure malarky
In the department of "carrying around gametes", I think men and women are pretty much on a level playing field as far as carrying some around all the time.
Nobody knows for sure exactly which egg + sperm will end up coming together to make a child, at least short of IVF.
Pretty stupid comparison in any case.
@@jnharton well, not really. Sperm cells, as the original comment says, are reproduced continuously. Meanwhile all the eggs are created in prenatal life. That's why when mother's age increases, the risk of genetic problems for the baby increases (because the eggs are older so the genetic material has a higher chance to be damaged), while the father's age doesn't have such a negative effect, as sperm is always produced fresh.
@@jnhartongirls are born with all the eggs they will ever have. Literally from birth, so no it’s not comparable.
@@andreawinston8900 So one could argue that mothers of daughters even carry their grand children for a while, since the daughter's egg cells develop while she is in her mother's uterus. Men really don't do anything.
@@andreawinston8900 I took high school biology, thanks. The point was more that men are always carrying around some quantity of sperm cells at all times. It's not like they just manifest right before you go to have sex/masturbate.
Just because girls have all their eggs from the start doesn't mean that they are all equally available at any time or that she has any direct control over which ones are released. Some of them might even carry mutations which could cause the resulting zygote to result in a non-viable offspring.
And an egg only carries half the genetic information that ultimately constitutes a future child's DNA.
So if you want to be nitpicky, there is no baby/child at all prior to conception making any notion of superiority absurd.
As a trans girl, the one side effect of estrogen that surprised me was the feathers.
The- feathers? 😧
As a cis-ish girl I can confirm I was born with feathers as a result of estrogen
I laughed out loud 😂
It's the trans to furry pipeline. Or maybe that was the other way around.
I thought that they had scales?
Learned incompetence example: A few years back, I worked with a highly paid colleague, job title "Chief engineer", in a testing company. Once he said that he couldn't figure out how to operate the washing machine he was supposed to be testing - we had the operating manual on hand and everything, and other times he would be expected to test complex laboratory and telecom equipment. When I confronted him with "Are you unable to read the manual? You're the Chief Engineer" - he said, in front of our boss, "Washing machines are 'women's work', LOL."
After a few more instances of this, she fired him.
A great response would be, "Oh, women as an entire demographic have better engineering skills than a trained, professional male engineer. Good to know. You're fired, we have a female secretary who will be taking your position on this project."
@@CorwinFound Year for real :'D My standard response that works for any instance of this is "OK, got it. You're too frail for anything that women can do. OK, thank you for letting me know about your personal struggle. I'm a feminist. Ofcourse I think we should accommodate for men's struggles. So, let's see what you CAN handle at this point in time so we can see how much support you'll need and what we're trying to catch you up on, too. You'll e alright. We'll be taking baby steps. Let's start by making some capacity by removing some of your responsibilities and their respective privileges!"
Aka you can use the whole thing or just sentences. Sometimes the first sentence is enough. They CAN absolutely be incompetent. We're not ableist. We'll just have to remind them that obviously that translates to us thinking they're too incompetent for that complicated game console and they're absolutely NOT ready to safely navigate any vehicles, goodness, no! 💅
I believe that's called "weaponized incompetence." Thankfully, it was weaponized right back at him.
Is that story real?
@@Rin-zn9bo Sadly, yes. He was such an idiot.
Men are like waffles because they have all the pockets.
This one I can get behind. But I'm also a proponent for pockets for women!
THIS one makes more sense to my little brain
At least one answer that makes sense about this phrase. Thank you.
😂
Damn men, hoarding all the pockets
My sister is on a high blood pressure medication because she has a hereditary condition. Looking at her people wouldn’t think she could possibly have it because it’s often not associated with people who slim and fit. If someone gave her viagra she could have a serious issue!
This
Men crying when they see their bride isn't extremely gay... but! Men crying when they see their groom is pretty gay.
See what I did there? :3
-and yes I'm aware that bisexuality and pansexuality exist just let me have my dumb joke-
No, no, it's really funny and you have a point.
I 👏 at your funny joke 😂
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It was just badly punctuated. I would also cry if I saw my bride was extremely gay. I'd expect her to be at least a little attracted to men, or else what's the point?
Yup, solid!
Oh Lord, I was part of a marriage bible study group with my ex that did eight weeks on "Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti." Yes, I am serious, and no, it was not ironic. I'm so glad that I'm no longer straight, married, or part of a church.
Was it cooked spaghetti?
@@SandraLugn-nc1rkOh yeah, it's cooked spaghetti. The analogy is "men compartmentalize like waffles have little boxes for everything; women's thoughts are all interrelated and jumbled up, and that's why men are better at business and women are better at serving/childrearing/domesticity because they multitask." 🤢
Congrats on getting out of that environment- with all those carbs about it sounds like a really unhealthy place to be
congratulations!!!!! =)
If that was the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster, I assume it was trying to say that women are divine?
"You have to be over 6' to be a king"
Seems like someone hasn't heard about SHORT KINGS
Most monarchs would be folded by lebron no cap
That's what I was thinking XD
We love a short king
@@OdinsSageYes, I also thought of that! (I also may or may not have laughed at my own remark.) I am just a bit over 6ft (and have been since i was 13 which is just bazaar) I and I'm a bit Jealous of other people because being tall can be a bit difficult with hitting your head on everything all the time (like I run into low-hanging branches on trees). so I just want to applaud those short Kings! 🥳
I think the "men don't listen to music" one is a riff off how that sort of thing gets said about women "women aren't really into music" "girls are only gamers because they're trying to impress a boy" etc. There's a whole series of reversing those sorts of things to show how absurd it is. Could be wrong but that's how it read to me.
Damned if ya do, damned if ya don't, right? 🙄 These gender role things are outta hand.
Yeah I thought the same
That thing about men transforming is entirely true. I knew I was trans when I stayed a cat instead of becoming a gorilla at 18.
I wish you well on your journey to become a chicken.
Im so glad so many trans people/allies have gotten large platforms a sense of community is so helpful when your questioning yourself.
You are very much welcome to not click these videos.Though viewing and commenting on a trans content creator is just fine too.@@TheWerewolfOfNorway-mf5jz
@@TheWerewolfOfNorway-mf5jzobsessed troll
It's not a coincidence I realized I was trans the same year my parents finally let me get a phone 😂
People act like progressive media is influencing their kids when all it does is let them know theres a word for what they are feeling and they arent alone@@GruulAnarch
I needed a trans person taking about being trans to realize it
The featherless chicken is a great reference for Diogenes vs Plato. Diogenes was an epic troll and the stories are amazing.
I had to scroll for way too long to find this comment ❤️
8:45 minor correction: it is not actually proven that eggs are all there since birth. In some species it has been shown that eggs can continue being created during early life or even later life. No such thing has been proven for humans yet, but it has also not been conclusively disproven. Menopause also doesn't have to be caused by them running out. It's a bit of an oversimplification but given that we're making fun of people for not knowing how bodies work we should try to be as all-encompassing as we can.
11:37 this is a reference to a meme! This one is not serious. In Ancient Greece, Plato was asked to define a man and he said a "featherless biped", so Diogenes ran in with a plucked chicken and said "behold, a man!" Well, you know, it's a legend. Who knows whether it actually happened.
that paper (2008) has since been basically disproven--there have been a number of studies prompted by it, in none of which was found any evidence of oogenesis in adult human women.
@@skleedleplotchnu3713 "No oogenesis in adults" is not the same as "born with all eggs already present". There are quite a few years between birth and adulthood (or even the onset of puberty) when it could still be happening. Has that also been researched?
People thought humans could produce eggs after birth due to a so called 'egg stem cell', this was data from around 2012. Many people have been unable to even replicate these data findings since then. A 2020 study did a full cell map of the human ovaries and has discovered no such cell existing. There is a full and very in depth article that details running through the process of trying to identify such cells on the Nature Communications website (Single-cell analysis of human ovarian cortex identifies distinct cell populations but no oogonial stem cells). I urge you to please do thorough research before posting about science and the human body as it is such a sensitive subject, and throwing out these comments without really citing anything just makes it more difficult for people ot actually know the whole truth. People don't have the patience to look into things and will take this as gospel then go on to tell others the same thing. No hate, just passion on my end for scientific truths.
@@fghsgh "No new egg cells are made during their lifetime. This has long been accepted as fact." Medically reviewed by Stacy A. Henigsman, DO - By Rhona Lewis - Updated on May 4, 2023
Your argument reminds me of the saying "you can't prove a negative". It's a lot more conclusive than you make it out to be, to the point where I'd classify your comment as misinformation. Also, I'm pretty sure it's widely known that menopause isn't necessarily caused by "running out of eggs" and more of running out of "quality" eggs, as both quantity and quality decrease with time (not to say running out of eggs isn't all a reason). This is why we still see women who have gone through menopause still able to get pregnant in extremely rare cases. Also, why as you get older not only is it harder to get and stay pregnant, but the baby has a higher chance of abnormalities because of egg quality. It is widely accepted as fact, as there have been many studies on this.
Idk this comment feels a lot like "we havent technically proven that my bed sheets aren't blue!" "Well Fred, we can see the bed sheets are purple, so the natural conclusion is that they aren't blue". I'm not good at explaining what I mean so that's not totally accurate to have I feel, but it's close.
Actually, it's like, current research indicates this to be true, so therefore we accept this as fact until proven otherwise. But this is true of most "facts" known to man. By this logic we technically haven't proved Earth has a core. We think it does because all current evidence points to this conclusion, but hey who knows 🤷🏾♀️, maybe someday we'll get down there and there won't be anything there.
Also, the article you are referring to has been disproven as of 2023.
@fghsgh current medical evidence suggests that humans born with ovaries have 1-2 million oocytes present at birth, which subsequently declines as the person ages. At puberty, on average there are around 300,000 remaining. There has been zero evidence of oogenesis in humans born with ovaries after birth. Could there be room for error there in that there is a period of time where oogenesis occurs again? Unlikely, but admittedly also not definitively no. However, it is still more correct to state what our current evidence supports, which is that humans born with ovaries are born with all of the oocytes they will have during their lifetime
27 Dresses was released in 2008. So, we have evidence that men have been crying when their brides walk down the aisle since at least then. Also, imagine wanting to walk down the aisle to see your husband just looking expressionless. That sounds depressing
Bad [insert type of person] anatomy is a great genre of video because it is wild to see how people of all walks of life do not know how bodies work at all
yeah!
It always makes me feel better about myself
People with high blood pressure can die if their drink is spiked with viagra. Spiking is a crime for a reason.
20:00 when my grandmother got breast cancer, my uncle talked about it at the bar. Another regular (middle aged AMAB) asked who her doctor was and after being told quickly assured my uncle that she was in good care as that had been his doctor as well. He'd had breast cancer himself and it was a big suprise formost of the bar to learn that was a thing that could happen to cis guys. A suprise for my grandmotheras well when my uncle told her about it. She told me expecting she'd get to see my suprise and was disappointed when I just said "uh-huh" expecting there to be more to the story 😂
I (sadly) know what the waffles and spaghetti are about. It's some ridiculous bioessentialist brain nonsense.
Here we go:
Men are like waffles because they compartmentalize information, and even have spaces in their minds that are completely empty. You can't change the subject in conversation and expect them to follow along. They'll be confused, because that subject is located in a different square of the waffle.
Women are like spaghetti because everything is connected in their minds. That's why they never shut up, and why they're such a mystery to men. It's also why they berate their husbands for no real reason.
No, I am not kidding. I read a book in the 90s about this that I found in my then church's library. Don't go there anymore!
LOL actually .... it is scientifically a bit of a thing. :'D Like, even physically there are such things for us. Starting from how our immune systems work differently (aka men get sick hard but fast, full system, to be back in defence mode as quickly as possible [heard of man colds yet? they're real]. Women have a more complex immune system that takes the potential presence of extra residents into account AND the necessity to attend to any moved out ex-tenants that still need feeding, while the current resident still needs growing :'>). We also know that men literally struggling to find objects in the house if they are not where they expected or have slightly changed appearance is a real thing, when women seem to frequently come in to find said objects literally right in front of them.
Aka there IS some truth in there. But, it sure as hell does not translate to everything. Plus, the reality is, a lot of it is also an actual manner of training LOL Aka societal training for men and women tends to differ, thus, we might show gender specific patterns as to how we utilise our brains. But these things may not be solid in the sense of being ingrained due to different genders. In fact, interesting stuff is found when looking at trans people or homosexual people. :D
What I'm saying is: They may have made valid observations that ring true in their social setting. AND that by no means sets it in stone. In fact, all generalized statements have in common, that they're highly likely to be VERY off once we zoom in on the "individual" scale. :3 So, maybe that book is an interesting read, if you approach it with the right expectation.
I did not read it, mind you. But reading people's comments on it, that alone, has shown just how many options there are to perceiving that reading material LOL
Why do I feel like the author hasn’t had conversation with either men or women?
Ohhhh my god
My church said the exact same thing
I was sent to catholic school all the way through high school and we were taught this...
The explanation we were given was that men could only focus on one thing at at time and women could focus on a bunch of things at once.
Even with the slightly different explanation it fails to make sense.
@retrojon_ ugh, the whole "men are incapable of multi-tasking, women are incapable of focusing on one task" ideology is so stupid. It's sexist in both directions; might as well just say you hate everyone at that point.
I hate the whole thing about guys not being allowed to want affection. One of my friends once asked me if they could give me a hug and I answered "I guess" which really surprised. So they gave me a hug and I could have cried, and it left me with a sort of glow feeling that lasted for the next couple of days. I still treasure that moment.
Also the one about water bottles reminded me of a time when one of my friends said "hydrate or die straight" and I immediately took a sip of water (Most of my friends are LGBTQIA+ but I identify as straight to them for now) and we all laughed.
Good job being there for them and yourself. As a cis woman who's absolutely hand enough of the blasted unnecessarily sexualised interaction nonsense, I've made it a thing to explicitly make these things a topic with men when I can. Men urgently need really 1x1 on platonic friendships and skin ship. And you can hear me angrily grumbling to myself when we hug and it just breaks them emotionally to experience "being human" and hell, am I mad at their peers and especially their damn male ancestors who failed them that atrociously, all while even now I'm surrounded by women desperately trying to fight for the internal lives of their sons against everything that our "by default sexistic" systems still teach them, the second they grow into teenagers. Sometimes even earlier.
I can't stand it and I'll be damned if I don't do my part of hitting da boys hard with the hug-wake-up-calles to how terribly neglected they are of human touch and modelling all the skill sets to them that it takes, to remedy that.
We're seeing changes in the upcoming generations and we'll fan that fire until everyone's nicely cosy n warm with each other, regardless of gender. Nothing is "cool" about literal dissociation and male generalized alexithymia! (=w=#)
Straight guy right here, and I can't stop laughing at the sentence "hydrate or die straight."
I always heard it as "hydrate or die-drate" but your version is MUCH funnier. 🌈 just imagining a withered-up straight who thinks it's gay to drink water.
Woho! I just discovered I'm still a child! I'm 5'5"and 45yo! XD
Regarding men struggling to deal with emotions, I'm one of those. I suffer from CPTSD and PTSD and I'm completely unable to lower my guard with other men and very rarely with women. I might be dying inside of loneliness and anxiety but I will keep smiling and going on as if nothing is wrong. Learning to deal with that with my therapist. Guess it's a good sign I can type about this here. That and the LGBTQ+ community is one of the more open-minded and less judgmental around.
And I'm a young man! Nice to know approaching my 68th...
Glad you are getting help. So sorry about the CPTSD and PTSD.
I also have CPTSD from surviving human trafficking. Glad you are getting help. :) You are not alone. I am glad you are the height you are. I am a girl and most people called me short my whole life as an insult but I am pretty close to average height. Ave. height for women is 5'4" and I am 5'2." If we were dance partners, I would find it easier to swing dance with you because I wouldn't have to crane my neck up to look at you or bend my arms at a 45 degree angle when they are supposed to be at a 90 degree angle for the pushes and the turns. So your height is good for us shorter girls to do the partner dances with and not be in pain. :) It's a good thing. Maybe ask your therapist to help you make friends by going to a dance studio to learn swing dancing or ballroom dancing. :) It helps me with my loneliness. :)
@@lemurlover7975 And I'm glad you made it out. As a former EMT, I've helped rescue some victims of human trafficking but still, I can't even start to imagine what you went through.
You sound like an amazing dance partner. I unfortunately suck badly at it. Way too crispé (stiff) for that due to my anxiety. But your advice to try dancing is not a bad one precisely because of that. I severely lack self-esteem and I'm clumsy as hell but it's worth the try. Thanks! :)
@@firbolg please tell us you gave dance a try 🙌🏻
I just figured out I’m gender fluid after a while of going: trans? No. Gender fluid? No. Etc. so I’m happy 🎉 😊 great vid as always!
Goodjob! I had it too but nb, i looked up every gender definition i could and went "no, not exactly.." just to return to the one i started with, gender is weird :P
Men who say "I carried the baby my whole life" don't know how batter cells work.
I was looking for that comment. That show everyone that not only women can be totally ignorant of how men's body work...
Yeah, it's pretty much the quivalent of "I made that cake because I put the flour in the bowl for the mother. MY flour, that I've had in my kitchen FOR ALL THIS TIME."
@@Maerahnit’s more like the flour he bought a few days ago, because those cells get produced and recycled constantly.
Batter cells? You mean nurse cells?
@@Madamchief No. Like baby batter. I'm just trying not to have YT slap my comment out of existence by heavily censoring myself, because for some frikkin reason it's like YT has a vendetta against my comments.
Considering I used to be a "straight, cis man", and the amount of time I've spent around them, I can confirm that for the most part they are immature and childish. But what would 28 years experience matter?
@@QuinnOsgood-rj7wz I don't mean to sound hateful or anything, and there are so many good men out there. It's just a shame how rare they can be. Congratulations for coming out, may I ask your pronouns?
@@QuinnOsgood-rj7wz You are absolutely right sis. I think it's a mix of toxic masculinity taught from an early age, and just general lack of education and understanding.
Seriously stop, your contributing to a stupid Untrue stereotype, that really fu***ng hurts😥😥
@@kennyholten8837 Actually, in my very humble observation, this is just the crippling effect of sexism on men. We know by now that behaviour is always triggered by emotions (and sometimes then, in a second step, regulated via other instances, such as thinking or learned pattern stemming from morals to habits etc.). But sexism has lead to men mostly being taught an incredibly tiny set of bad coping skills ta best!! Aka it's not even processing skills but suppression ones.
The number of men who have great emotional regulation skills and a lot of experience with perceiving and managing their emotions and thus their behaviours, are not only rare, but they are also often actively disregarded due to sexism :'3 (think like men catering to women's needs are automatically labelled "simp" without any discernment of their intentions).
Sexism is the system that always affected men, women and in consequence also trans people and non-binary people. It's just that for men, in a sense, for a long time the benefits supposedly (! not actually true) outweighed the terrible price of it. Now that all other groups other than cis men have launched the process of healing and the process of sorting out the negative impacts of sexism in all areas, men can no longer avoid facing the negative impact of sexism on them. Because all the "mitigating" factors are slipping out of their hands. We're all busy with our own healing journeys and can no longer spare capacities to manage their mess for them. Particularly in the case of women, society often no longer enables a parent to be full time home-maker, childcare manager and the man's private emotional mitigator (more often that, than regulator, cause the later requires for them to be open enough for input, which a portion of them are!!! Even rarer: emotional management teacher).
It has always been visible. Who hasn't yet heard "boys will be boys" and co.. But now, they are less able to avoid their bad outcomes and consequences to sexism. And that is tragic AND a good thing. It's an opportunity to stop being stuck in those miserable old patterns that require a LOT of energy and external factors, and to wake up to a more self-regulated life along-sides others, not at the enforced-cost of others or sacrifice of others.
It's a symptom of healing. Going from chronic to active (gotta drain the puss before the wound can start healing). Heading towards more consensual and kind and mutually safe forms of human relationships AND societal systems.
@@KxNOxUTA THANK YOU FOR THIS. As a trans man with many cis male friends who don't realize I'm trans (so they're 100% treating me like one of them), this is exactly it. It sucks to see men getting constantly insulted and belittled instead of helped tbh. Guys need encouragement to be more emotionally open and independent outside the workforce. My cis friends and I are trying to help each other with this but we often forget due to it still feeling embarrassing knowing we'd be judged if anyone saw us hugging each other for comfort and exploring unique styles and even just taking care of ourselves.
i always heard that adams apple was because adam took the second bite and it got caught in his throat when they were called out. the the first sin wasnt eve taking the first bite because she hadnt been told the rules but adam taking the second bite after using eve to make sure it was safe to do so
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Guys... is it gay to cry over your bride...? Lol!
That whole thing about bisexual men was ridiculous. That's one of the worst stereotypes about bi people. "Oh, they're all so horny, they want to have sex with anything that moves." That whole post was biphobia but the person tried to make it sound like a scientific fact, which makes it worse. As a bi woman, I'm offended by that but it was somehow still laughable to me because of how ridiculous it is.
I’m pan (same thing to those people) and ace so it really is just doubly ridiculous. I’m also demiromantic so it’s not like I even want to date everyone I see 😂
As a bisexual man with lots of straight men friends wanting to fuck everything that moves I find it midly offensive and way to holarious to take teal offense... 😂
As a bi afab nb i am joining with you, it really sucks to see people who can't understand what they dont know
"Men don't listen to music." Bwhahahaha. Tell that to the guy who mansplained The White Album to me for FOUR HOURS.
FOUR HOURS???
also had to google the album bc seeing "the [color] album" makes me assume weezer which would've been extra insane
FOUR HOURS?!?! You, @PeggyWebb, are an incredibly patient person! 😮😂😂
FR. 😂😂😂
Damn. You could’ve listened to the White Album two times and been well into a third. Which would’ve been a far superior use of your time tbh
How are you still alive?!