I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective. BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication. BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week. You can also apply for financial aid while signing up, which can reduce the cost of the service by up to 40%. When you go through the signup process, you will be presented with the payment page and can elect not to pay. You will then be asked if the price was too much and will be given the option of financial aid. You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.
Absolutely no uniqueness. They copy you. They think it's not noticeable. It's creepy, even the smallest things they copy. It can even be your fork and knife set in your kitchen
It's so true like you say how in today's world, being alone is surprisingly something to be proud of. Most people can be so shallow and fake. Being a part of such groups will only involve you in toxic behaviors and experiences.
I had a narcissistic ex that used me for convenience, friends that have back stabbed me and were jealous of me the whole time - fake people! I am now on my own, with my family and children. I am happier - no drama, arguments, mental torment, lack of sleep, loss of appetite, stress. I’m feeling better - healing and accepting that God wants me to spend this time in isolation, so I can heal and find my peace and praise him for opening my eyes to the fact that I am not like these people and I need to remove myself for my own health and well being. 🙏🏽❤
Love you bro Christopher. You have a whole bunch of sisters here who appreciate your work. What a wonderful chat. Stay strong and stay blessed...in the precious name of Jesus.
Chosen ones don't need to have another half. They are whole by themselves. It's the world telling us that we have to find our other half. They need to but we don't. It doesn't exist for us.
Free at last. That liberating feeling: we can fly. Meditate on that! Never any need to question who we are. ☑️with God we always have many chances for as long as we ASK. Being alone is a gift. 🎁
You know the narcissists wanted to destroy you because you were always doing good all your life. Narcissists only wanted you to make one mistake and hold it against you. Because you can correct yourself and walk away and focus on yourself and shutting out negative energies,influences out of your life and home. Nothing can bother you anymore because you have nothing to say to these narcissists anymore. These narcissists can't provoke you anymore because you've achieved everything on your own,with having faith and hope in the Divine. When you've surrendered all your worries to the Divine, and now you don't question Nothing, you're just focused on positivity. 😇💖🙏💎👣
When you start getting stronger and respecting yourself, they become more insulting to compensate. But then they slip up and tell on themselves, because their insults become less grounded to reality. "You're a constant failure" becomes "you'll never succeed", but that blows your fuse, because you know for a fact you're improving, so they lying.
I only wish I had the money to donate, attracting and manifesting money is next now that all the toxic trash is gone from my life. But, you have been saving my life for years, and I'm still listening! Thank you!
5:25 Bang on, it’s tall-poppying, I think because we are obviously really decent people too, it makes the dark inclined people dislike us, the mirror thing, it’s their crap projected, i mean complete strangers often comment on what a good or kind person I am, which is frankly bizarre, but it must mean our spirit of good will just shines somehow, & this seems to produce these 2 opposite reactions- most of the time I’m away from home I wear my big noise cancelling headphones because so many people come at me, talk at me, just to try to put an obstacle in the way, still doesn’t help that much, weird would you start talking to someone you’re never met before if they’re wearing massive headphones, I wouldn’t & haven’t, it’s horrible actually, not flattering dehumanising somehow, they have no sense of boundaries or my space & then there’s the others, the negative reaction you are talking about right now - I guess we just need to accept there’s something about us & our energy that people are either extremely drawn to or want to crush, not fun either way, neither sees us as a person, & it’s all really about them - but personally I’m loving being alone, it’s been a long time coming & I am so happy just to be, trying to be left alone completely unmolested, & enjoying the world .. most people are locked in their little irrational boxes of their brains, ego reactive, over sensitive to their own feelings, & paranoid even really, about how they are being viewed, so reactive to imagined slights etc etc .. just emotionally unstable, in flux, in comparison, I’m very even, & there’s no talking to them without extreme patience & navigating really this hinterland of themselves they are constantly revealing rather than whatever topic is actually being discussed, it’s tedious in the extreme, & they are simultaneously at the same time, unbelievably insensitive to the other person, on all levels, hence me saying their boxes- I’m trying to say we need to seek fellow calm, non-reactive but positively energetic, forward positive external pragmatically driven, external engaged, but deep (apparently!) thinking/feeling expansive mellow caring people, which in some ways is possibly quite complicated & paradoxical for others to grasp & it appears we are definitely a small percentage of the population, so no wonder we seldom meet those that just naturally resonate, gel, click, effortlessly - & you know what that’s ok, there’s music & words to be made, skies to look at, libraries to be read (well wiki at least 😄) etc etc & on & on.. don’t know just felt like sending an it’s ok, it doesn’t matter.. we/you don’t need people.. they need us & frankly we need to run from them .. there will be other people who likewise don’t actually need people & those are the ones that will be worth sharing our mutual time with.
I call them trolls too. Everything you're saying is on spot. It makes you wonder why they can't change. I'm under the impression that God actually will not allow them, or shall I say that He already knows who will change and who will not. So therefore He let's them go on their merry way. They're minds become darkened in understanding. That's God's doing. We should be very grateful to God for choosing us and trusting in us enough to make this effort to work on His behalf. There's nothing better in this world than to be given God's grace of peace and joy, something that this world cannot give.
sometimes im thinking, are you some kind of therapist...but you don`t have to be, You just person, who have been in same situation than we are...good person, empathic😍
Oh my goodness. I was the best he ever had. There was nothing I wouldn't do for him I was very agreeable and never told him " no". He had to make something up to discard me. He told me that my shampoo, body wash and toothpaste made me smell bad. Haha, I used all of his products. How dillusional. He's the one who smelled bad cause he smoked 2 cigars everyday.
Now church bells going off like sirens? That church must have appeared out of nowhere, you’re in a middle of a park! Phantom church, must be the wrong kinda church.
I've been doing live videos for almost 4 years. As you may see, people have never really noticed me filming lives in public. But I noticed the same thing with TheRoyalWe.
I’ve recently encountered my ex narc at a shopping mall. It has been quite a long time since we have seen each other and since I have healed and taken the spirit of discernment within me, I felt different towards him, yet, I felt a gross disgusting feeling looking at him. Thankful for The Higher Power for saving me from that mess.
I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective.
BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication.
BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week.
You can also apply for financial aid while signing up, which can reduce the cost of the service by up to 40%. When you go through the signup process, you will be presented with the payment page and can elect not to pay. You will then be asked if the price was too much and will be given the option of financial aid.
You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor
By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.
Amen this was perfect for me today Christopher ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Absolutely no uniqueness. They copy you. They think it's not noticeable. It's creepy, even the smallest things they copy. It can even be your fork and knife set in your kitchen
It's so true like you say how in today's world, being alone is surprisingly something to be proud of. Most people can be so shallow and fake. Being a part of such groups will only involve you in toxic behaviors and experiences.
I had a narcissistic ex that used me for convenience, friends that have back stabbed me and were jealous of me the whole time - fake people!
I am now on my own, with my family and children. I am happier - no drama, arguments, mental torment, lack of sleep, loss of appetite, stress.
I’m feeling better - healing and accepting that God wants me to spend this time in isolation, so I can heal and find my peace and praise him for opening my eyes to the fact that I am not like these people and I need to remove myself for my own health and well being.
🙏🏽❤
Yep, God has recently also put me in a season of isolation.
I'd rather be alone than be with someone and Feel alone. Energy vampires.
Hello to all my creatives and artists ❤
Love you bro Christopher. You have a whole bunch of sisters here who appreciate your work. What a wonderful chat. Stay strong and stay blessed...in the precious name of Jesus.
Chosen ones don't need to have another half. They are whole by themselves. It's the world telling us that we have to find our other half. They need to but we don't. It doesn't exist for us.
@@kerstitekko2257 at least it opened my eyes, it sucked, but I see clearly now
@@kerstitekko2257 when you realize this you are free
Free at last. That liberating feeling: we can fly. Meditate on that! Never any need to question who we are. ☑️with God we always have many chances for as long as we ASK. Being alone is a gift. 🎁
Couldn't have said it better myself.
I think your right!
You know the narcissists wanted to destroy you because you were always doing good all your life. Narcissists only wanted you to make one mistake and hold it against you. Because you can correct yourself and walk away and focus on yourself and shutting out negative energies,influences out of your life and home.
Nothing can bother you anymore because you have nothing to say to these narcissists anymore.
These narcissists can't provoke you anymore because you've achieved everything on your own,with having faith and hope in the Divine.
When you've surrendered all your worries to the Divine, and now you don't question Nothing, you're just focused on positivity. 😇💖🙏💎👣
When you start getting stronger and respecting yourself, they become more insulting to compensate.
But then they slip up and tell on themselves, because their insults become less grounded to reality.
"You're a constant failure" becomes "you'll never succeed", but that blows your fuse, because you know for a fact you're improving, so they lying.
❤ Morning 🌄, Loving FAMILY!
THX GOD & Our Brother CHRIS
For the Knowledge ! Love Ya'll
Always been on my own I honestly don't have any friends
I'm not a social butterfly. I had a partner but he was a Nark !
Spot on 🙏
Thank you I am very proud my circle is very very small. I'm grateful to God.
AWESOME!!!🌍💯
Thanks for listening. Donations are greatly appreciated, no matter how small - paypal.me/narcsurvivor
Hello Chris ( Good looking) You're taking care too, it appears dear one. It's been a minute since I seen you. Great video 😊
All they care about is themselves. Tunnel vision. Like a light switch. Off and on.
Bro I think the cartoon your referring to is captain cave man 😆
Bro this is great I totally agree😂. You are funny today and it’s funny bc it’s so true. Everyone wants to live in a carnival with a bunch of clowns
I only wish I had the money to donate, attracting and manifesting money is next now that all the toxic trash is gone from my life. But, you have been saving my life for years, and I'm still listening! Thank you!
5:25 Bang on, it’s tall-poppying, I think because we are obviously really decent people too, it makes the dark inclined people dislike us, the mirror thing, it’s their crap projected, i mean complete strangers often comment on what a good or kind person I am, which is frankly bizarre, but it must mean our spirit of good will just shines somehow, & this seems to produce these 2 opposite reactions- most of the time I’m away from home I wear my big noise cancelling headphones because so many people come at me, talk at me, just to try to put an obstacle in the way, still doesn’t help that much, weird would you start talking to someone you’re never met before if they’re wearing massive headphones, I wouldn’t & haven’t, it’s horrible actually, not flattering dehumanising somehow, they have no sense of boundaries or my space & then there’s the others, the negative reaction you are talking about right now - I guess we just need to accept there’s something about us & our energy that people are either extremely drawn to or want to crush, not fun either way, neither sees us as a person, & it’s all really about them - but personally I’m loving being alone, it’s been a long time coming & I am so happy just to be, trying to be left alone completely unmolested, & enjoying the world .. most people are locked in their little irrational boxes of their brains, ego reactive, over sensitive to their own feelings, & paranoid even really, about how they are being viewed, so reactive to imagined slights etc etc .. just emotionally unstable, in flux, in comparison, I’m very even, & there’s no talking to them without extreme patience & navigating really this hinterland of themselves they are constantly revealing rather than whatever topic is actually being discussed, it’s tedious in the extreme, & they are simultaneously at the same time, unbelievably insensitive to the other person, on all levels, hence me saying their boxes- I’m trying to say we need to seek fellow calm, non-reactive but positively energetic, forward positive external pragmatically driven, external engaged, but deep (apparently!) thinking/feeling expansive mellow caring people, which in some ways is possibly quite complicated & paradoxical for others to grasp & it appears we are definitely a small percentage of the population, so no wonder we seldom meet those that just naturally resonate, gel, click, effortlessly - & you know what that’s ok, there’s music & words to be made, skies to look at, libraries to be read (well wiki at least 😄) etc etc & on & on.. don’t know just felt like sending an it’s ok, it doesn’t matter.. we/you don’t need people.. they need us & frankly we need to run from them .. there will be other people who likewise don’t actually need people & those are the ones that will be worth sharing our mutual time with.
This was perfect for me today Christopher ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I now have heart flutters no contact thank you Chris for everything. How many languages do you speak!
Wonderful and informative video Christopher! I appreciate you so very much for all the help that you are doing!❣️
Happy to help! Donations are greatly appreciated, no matter how small - paypal.me/narcsurvivor
❤❤❤ You LOOK SO GOOD❤❤
SO HOLSUM! SO BLESS
AND WE LOVE YOU!
😊 !
I call them trolls too. Everything you're saying is on spot. It makes you wonder why they can't change. I'm under the impression that God actually will not allow them, or shall I say that He already knows who will change and who will not. So therefore He let's them go on their merry way. They're minds become darkened in understanding. That's God's doing. We should be very grateful to God for choosing us and trusting in us enough to make this effort to work on His behalf. There's nothing better in this world than to be given God's grace of peace and joy, something that this world cannot give.
Now people playing drums?? 😂😂😂 wow man, something doesn’t want this message to go out, keep recording!
I am a CHOSEN ONE and this video resonates with me!
sometimes im thinking, are you some kind of therapist...but you don`t have to be, You just person, who have been in same situation than we are...good person, empathic😍
Oh my goodness. I was the best he ever had. There was nothing I wouldn't do for him I was very agreeable and never told him " no". He had to make something up to discard me. He told me that my shampoo, body wash and toothpaste made me smell bad. Haha, I used all of his products. How dillusional. He's the one who smelled bad cause he smoked 2 cigars everyday.
Either either a dog, this annoying car honk or music. Follows you all over the world 😂
🎯💯👌🏽
👍👍🎉yep
Now church bells going off like sirens? That church must have appeared out of nowhere, you’re in a middle of a park! Phantom church, must be the wrong kinda church.
How do people react to your filming your lives in public?
I've been doing live videos for almost 4 years. As you may see, people have never really noticed me filming lives in public. But I noticed the same thing with TheRoyalWe.
I’ve recently encountered my ex narc at a shopping mall. It has been quite a long time since we have seen each other and since I have healed and taken the spirit of discernment within me, I felt different towards him, yet, I felt a gross disgusting feeling looking at him. Thankful for The Higher Power for saving me from that mess.