it's funny how far we've fallen as a society. back in the day mistresses knew their place... now people are PROUD to be side chicks....to each it's own. #teamsingle and #stressfree.
india Thank you! They're so fucking delusional talking about she also see herself as a main chick because she gets the same things.... okay. ...yeah....
What I find ironic is that one side chick was saying "if the wife was doing everything she was supposed to doing at home, then he wouldn't be coming to me". But the same can be said for the side chick...if you are doing everything you're supposed to be doing wouldn't he just be with you?
Kaiya Smith I doubt that any of them are actual side chicks. A lot of people don't know, but most people on reality shows are aspiring models and actresses and they audition to be on the shows. Then the casting team picks who they want and tells them the role that they're supposed to play. Half the time, they've never even met each other before the filming. These shows are literally 100% fake.
I don't want to be the sidechick. I don't want to be the main chick. I want to be the *ONLY* chick. Sad how television promote degrading ish like this. Ironic how they all wearing Red. They all the devil . 😈 #SMH
I refuse to keep company with women who don't respect another woman relationship because the saying goes "you are who you surround yourself with". I don't remain friends with men who are married, in a relationship and playing the field. Me living as a single woman who is very guarded about whom I surround myself is not so bad after all. I have 0 tolerance for foolishness.
Wow, you know what we need? Another reality show that shows black women in a negative light! That's brilliant! *Said no self-respecting black person ever*
Renee Myricks .. they look like side chics ... dirty .. not hot ... not someone u bring home to mama ... looks like 7 people full of "std's" in "cheap" red outfits ... so no bitch u dont get the same .. u are what u are ... cheap
I'm about to get a divorce after 29years . We've been together 33 years . Since we were just babies in middle school . Now he's seeing a coworker of his and I refuse to stay and be after all the love and energy Ann's support ive given over the years . I'm broken , but I'm a surviver . So are you!
I pray all my beautiful sisters on this site be Blessed. GOD will deal with them!! Who was the bonehead in the background saying we got action? He should have broke up that fight instead of talking and recording. Some men are Soo dum!
You much be at a real low place in life if 1. Your a side chick 2. Proud to be a side chick 3. So proud you would put your self on a tv show to get judge This is a crazy world
Main reason why I don't want to get marry or have kids. I saw this happen to my mom and aunt. Saw the heart break they went thru. Like giving your all, having his kids, losing your young and body for him to leave you at the end, not for me. Working on my money and my education.
first husband's side chick got pregnant; we divorced. They married. Did she REALLY think he would stop cheating? He had two boys by her and got another woman pregnant. She could never tell me that she didn't break up my home. He was a dog and she fed him kibbles and bits. They both got what they deserved. I have no harsh feelings for either of them. I prayed for him a lot. I remarried (and have two children by my 2nd husband). We celebrated 25 years in February. I'm really sickened by the whole concept. Other than you cussing, I could listen to you all day LOL Peace love and blessings from RVA (the beginning of the South)
Good for you, I admire the fact that you prayed for them. I'm glad that you met a real man that loves you. The side chicks have really lost their souls and I don't care how much they try to glamorize their disgusting behavior, they will age badly, may get a fatal STD, and they WILL be dumped for a younger "side piece" The devil is grinning from ear to ear. Take care, js
This is sickening. Not only is this promoting the lack of self respect, but it's making it seem like it is ok the ruin relationships. I can't stand women like this.
I dnt like when women pull the "what are u doing to keep ur man" bs if only u knew that a man will do what he wants depending on how well he respects his woman.. and the cheating has something more to do with insecurity more than anything. I can't believe this being said 2017!!
This is what happens when we remove shame from society, I say it a lot we need to shame behaviours in society, this mentality of do what you want has negative influence on our society.
241Genevieve well everytime someone shows morality they get ridiculed for it being called prude, vanilla, nerd, simp(which is the most used), white Knight and everything else. Whenever you try to do what's right get ready to be isolated because nobody wants to hear it.
why are we black folks so morally bankrupt? why do we embrace everything bad? Behavior, attitudes, lifestyle, habits. im so frustrated with my people because we are the biggest one reppin Christianity and church and have no respect for nobody and nothing!!!
oprah7 this is a black mans creation. It was a black man who went shopping to big companies to put this out there. We cant blame white folks for this mess, cuz if you notice when fights were going on, it was black men hyping it, behind the camera.
Exactly. I'm so sick of this weak ass excuse "It's dem white folks!". That's not a viable excuse anymore. These chicks could have said "No, I'm not doing a show, I don't roll like that." The BLACK producer and the BLACK females consigning and participating are to blame. Can't blame "whitey" for everything. Black people need to wake the hell up and stop perpetuating our own stereotypes and then turning a blind eye and defending it by blaming "white folks".
EL-Bee I'll remind you of a little gem called "Flavor of Love"...actual fights for a man who's claim to fame was being a walking, talking, minstrel show.
tonedog77 Lol I'm gonna assume ur being sarcastic cus that's a wild suggestion...plus it's most men, of course there are good guys out there but most won't be loyal when they see "better options"
J'Kalah Furlow no not all black women...not all of us agree with this mess...by the way I'm not watching this crap..they need get their own men..just pathetic
Kai Jolly Who you telling!!! As if Black women don't have it hard enough, here they go with another reality show like this!!! I'm beyond tired of seeing the same thing over & over displayed on Tv when it comes to us!! Smh
Janet Mcwilliams ...AND U GOT THESE STAts from whhheerre nw? I just wanna do my research like u obviously have done so could u do a sista a Big Favor n pls "pay it fwd". I'm hella curious 2C fm wht reference source those numbers originated. #sideeye
it's a damn shame that we as black people have to make our selves look like this. this show will do nothing but glorify hoes and trifling women. I'm a man and I'm not about that at all!
This is the stupidest thing I've ever seen. It's even worse that they are so comfortable being a side chick like are your parents watching this "promo" lol.
I don't understand how Kendrick Lamar could get dragged by twitter for saying he fuxx wit black women photoshop or no photoshop and gets dragged by black women on social media, but they will sit up here and faithfully watch these disgraceful shows with there daughters and sons smh. S/O to the real beautiful sister out there that I know that don't spend there time watching shows like this.
Lol not even... I didn't even watch RHWOA or LHHNY or LHHATL hardly, I just caught the high lights.. kmsl but who knows I maaaaay check the first episode via my fire stick no way would they get a rating off meh 😂😂😂
Why are we glorifying being a side chick? This is ridiculous and the shit better be cancelled. Everyone has the right to do what they want with their lives, but to put it on tv? It's beyond ratchet.
Tilsade Mersalle yes I when I heard about this I thought it was a joke but to know people would actually be apart of this..it's another messy TV show trying to get money SMH, count me out from watching!
I agree with T...I believe the MAJORITY of men cheat I'm not seeking to be married AGAIN for this very reason. I did what I was supposed to do got married first had kids and in the end got played. Won't happen again I did my part No one says you have to do it twice Once is SHOLL enough for me
Don't let this mess make you want to be single. This is some BS! I will not be watching this show. Ladies you can be happy, there are good men out there. Very few yes, but they still do exist. These men do not RESPECT woman and I. Return these woman do not RESPECT themselves.
T.I. This show is absolutely disgusting, the things the media are force feeding society is sickening. The fact that a female would stoop to the low of publicly saying "I'm a side chic" has me baffled beyond belief and are happy knowing the man is married and going home to his wife. I will not understand at all. I've been married for 12 years and I am totally taken aback by the comfort of a female being openly okay with sleeping with a married man. Karma is a bitch and she has the mind of an elephant that shit will come back around. And let's not forget STDs are real and claiming bodies by the second.
See, *THIS* is exactly why I keep saying more people out there-especially men!-seriously need to consider polyamory as an option. If y'all know you're just not cut out for monogamy or fidelity, if you know you can't be satisfied by just one person's body for the rest of your life, then you need to be honest about that-first with yourself, and then with your significant other. Only you need to keep it real *up front!!!*
I don't understand the whole "if u were taking care of your business and doing it right then he wouldn't have come to me" Like sweetie no, if you call yourself doin it right then why won't he stay with you? He still eventually goes back to the "main" right? Why 🤔
Precious Exactly. And statistically, most of the men who cheat NEVER leave their wives/girlfriends for the side chick, so most of them ain't doing shit right.
I knew what T.I. was about when Tiny & Toya had a show together. Tiny and Toya were out and about and T. I. wanted her to come home right away. She had JUST left the house. She told him no and he hung up in her face. She immediately went home to appease him. I knew that he was into mind games.
I wanted to reach in the screen and slap the woman who said "what are you doing wrong that he's coming to me for? Are you doing everything to keep your man?" are you kidding me?
I know this is old but she was just on Facebook literally harrassing her mans "sidepeice." Posted there text messages, calling her a prostitute, she's a store etc etc. This went on for days. This the kicker though...Her man's in the comment section telling her if she'd have sex with him, he wouldn't have done none of that. And apologizing to the new girl in front of eveybody. Karmas no joke
The video of these men filming the woman fighting was disturbing.... they don't care.... and we give them our heart .. what's wrong with these young women.
carolyn1301977 It's not every man, generalization can be a dangerous thing. Not all guys are like this, of course there are a lot with this mentality. Just like not all women are trying to be side chicks. It's hard to to get to the good bottom when the scum keeps floating to the top.
L Gill Guess if your digging in the trash that's all you will find, cause last time I check I wasn't trash. Sorry whoever got you feeling that way but not all men are trash. Just like not all women are trash. You wouldn't want a man generalizing every women based on a bad experience they had, I think same courtesy needs to be applied.
lilhypnotique LOL. You surely took the bait on that one. If that statement doesn't apply to you, why take it so personal? And if you REALLY thought about how men treat women including what the original person was commenting you wouldn't respond this way.
L Gill Ummm didn't take the bait, I don't like generalizing of any ppl whether it be male or female. Plus you said "all" so your statement was very pointed. I didn't kno you had been with Everyman on earth, you really must get around. Like I don't kno that are bad men, it's just bad ppl out in the world period. I have several female friends who are happily married and I kno some close family members who been dogged out. You can't paint everything with same brush. Just because it doesn't or does go in your house don't mean it applies to everybody. Would you like if a guy came in room full of women and called them gold diggers? No and neither would I because I expect the same good courtesy I give to other ppl. There are both men and women who go thru this situation a good man or woman at home and they want play with the garbage. You put the bait out there but nobody was biting.
lilhypnotique oh but you did take it sir. You defaulted to the "who hurt you bruh?" to "you must get around" and then the typical "all men are not bad" litany. Again if you really put your ego aside, get out of your personal box and think about how men in general talk about, think about, and treat women, you would respond differently. I'll give you a hint. It's not that good.
ᴹᵃʳˢʰᵃᶫ ᴸᵉᵉ ᵀʰᵉ ᴾᵘˢˢʸ ᴰᵉˢᵗʳᵒʸᵉʳ ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) How fucked up this generation is? Lmao. In my mom's generation, a woman couldn't get a divorce unless both parities agreed or a judge said it was reasonable to leave. The husband beating you wasn't "good enough" to leave.
Sherri Solomon Then you would be shamed by your church and by your family. Divorce was frowned upon far more back then. My grandmother wanted to leave her first husband, but when she told her mother about it, they threatened her and told her she'd embarrass their family name. She eventually left and started her life over again.
All that you're saying is true. I grew up in South Carolina and my mom was the side chick. She made it feel like a normal life to live. As I grew up, I learn better and did better. I will share on facebook.
Shavon Cullors this is horrible to say but some women are side chicks cuz it gets them off.. absolutely disgusting. it just shows weakness and insecurity to me.
i will not be shocked to see all these women in the front of Amber Roses "I'm a slut, but can't call me a slut" walk bullshit! smmfh!!! I hope this gets canceled after 1 season, but knowing how much society is backwards & for some reason we like to reward bad behavior, this show will be a hit .. I've lost all hope on me , as a 20 year old woman , to finding a monogamous relationship at this time, Imma just wait until the after life 😔 .
Ieasha 1596 I get that. I was just making a statement. This side chick business I find sad. These women will use any excuse to justify their behavior. I don't understand the appeal of watching women fight over men that wouldn't do the same for them. These are the women I tell my boys to watch out for and the women I encourage my daughters never to become.
Maybe I watch too many movies but I thought mistresses were supposed to be hot. The wives must be highly insulted. What happened to self pride and respect?
This is so disgraceful. All of these women have very low self esteem. I don't care what anybody says. Only a women with good self esteem doesn't look to have someone else's man.
MissBella 100 Bad bitch? Only an ignorant woman think thats a compliment. Why do women think that keeping a man is an accomplishment? It's not. It's definitely not an accomplishment if you had to "steal" him from someone else. Who would want a man who cheats? A low self esteem having women. If you support that kind of behavior, you are one as well.
I disagree. I dont even believe there is a such thing as stealing a man. Cheating is not always black and white. A man will be with who he wants to be with. If a woman tells a man that she has a boyfriend that man will never respect that, he will continue pursuing her anyway. But when a woman does the same its disgraceful. My point is that people will be with who they want to be with. No one wants a cheating man true, but there are men who cheat simply because the woman they are with doesn't full fill them anymore. The brave men would leave that woman and the cowards will choose comfort over their happiness. I am witness to this. My cousin had a boyfriend who left her for another girl and that guy is still happy with that girl and they are married. People will be with who they want to be. Yes there are bad bitches out there who will "steal" your man cause they have something better to fulfill him. Same with a man who steals a woman from a man. People will be with who they want to be with, thats just a reality.
I've got nothing more to learn. I've been there done. Bottom line , not everyone is going to value you. Someone is going to fall out of love with you. The only thing a person can do is love themselves and be thankful for those who truly love them unconditionally. Nothing lasts forever and marriage is just another unsuccessful attempt to make something lasting out of an incident. Nothing lasts forever. Put on your own glass slipper.
Wendy I live right down the highway in Greensboro born & raised & i don't condone this. Where Is your self respect as a woman to call yourself a side chick
This litterally makes my blood boil! I pitty these women. I really do. Their self-esteem is lower than dirt and I'm sorry, but why would you allow yourself to be so degraded, thinking this man who is cheating on his wife or girlfriend, loves you? He has no respect for either you or her and he is NOT both you and her man, unless she agreed to a poly lifestyle! I pray that many of these women will come to the realization, that they are only hurting thmeselves in the long run and come to know wwhat it is to hae love and respect for themselves. God is not sleeping, nor is He dead! Therefore He sees everything! I say to people who don't give a damn now, trust me, you will give a whole lot of damn later.
Maybe they don't think the man loves them. Maybe they don't want to be loved. They maybe just want some relationship benefits, but not all the baggage. They get the fun parts; sometimes.
Ty Hence their self-esteem being lower than dirt! Get a man that only wants to be friends with benefits and is unattached or enter a poly lifestyle where all parties agree to share the same man. None of which I agree with, but at least no one is getting hurt in a sense...I guess. For example Floyd Mayweather is upfront with the women he dates. He Lets them know he wants an open relationship, therefore he gives them a choice to stay or leave. Like damn, get with a man like that! I would respect some of these boys a lot more if they were just upfront about what they want instead of sneaking around like serpents! No matter what these little girls are still getting baggage at the end of the day because of the situation they chose to be apart of.
They're not gonna do that unless it was white women who were pushing the agenda. It's also part of the "be free" movement and "do whatever you want". We need to tell people to do what is right rather than do what you want.
I'm single forever! I declare it, if this is what I have to look forward to. Us women have the power to reform the way men treat us, but setting standards if we could unite to that common goal, but its a fairytale because too many women struggling from self-esteem and/or daddy issues. My ex-fiancee cheated while we were in the process pf relocating to Seattle from Atlanta. He arrived in Seattle 2 months before me because his new job needed him to start and I was packing us up in Atlanta and trying to rent out my house. In the first 3 weeks, he found a woman and slept with her until I arrived. Not knowing all this was occurring in another time zone but sensing something up in his behavior. I got there amd first week learned he was cheating. I literally gave up my career and house for his career to thrive. Then learned he knocked her up with twins. I walked away broken, not just my heart but soul. When she found about me she was unbothered because she assumed getting pregnant will keep him. Well, she was half right. He married her not before contacting and giving me an ultimatum to either give him another chance or he's going to move on. I told him you have 2 kids in Atl and now 2 kids in Seattle, your best bet is to marry one of your babymommas because its cheaper to keep her. Well he married the one in Seattle and he doing all kinds of cheating. But now she feels trapped and doesn't want to own up that she invested in a lemon. The same way she got him will be the same way she lose him or she'll lose her mind. I don't wish anyone the pain I endured, but I'm not mad either she going through it with him. God knows what kind of woman I am and what path he needs me on. I'm so much more successful without him and just happy he's someone else's problem. Know your worth ladies and know when to walk away and hold yourself to a much higher regard than ehat they placed upon you. 💋
I have a question, if he married you do you think you will also have peace? Its easy to talk about the side chick and how she "stole your man". Why should she feel bothered by him cheating on you? Its the guy who cheated on you and made those choices. Whether the girl knew about you or not is irrelevant to me because we have a tendency to forget that once a woman loves a man she can become naive. You dont know what he is telling her, you dont know how he is treating her. The fact is that your ex fiancee is trash period. He lacks discipline and self restraint. If you married him it would be no different , he would have still cheated on you. Self worth and self love is the only important thing on the planet.
MissBella 100 I do know a little of how he's treating her because she attempted to reach out to me a year after getting married stating women to women, what signs did I witness from him to know he cheated? And she named two or three women's name from his past who she's battling with on fb or ig. I never responded. Then on my birthday that same year he reached out to me wishing me happy birthday and attached a old pic of us together kissing. I didn't respond. When I shut a door regardless if its family, friend or lover, I shut the door and window to avoid being entangled in any drama. But clearly with the type of questions she's asking, its not all roses and rainbows and his disrespectful message he hasn't changed. Like I said, I dont wish what I experienced on any woman; however, I don't care or feel bad about her struggles she's facing with him.
First words out of my mouth when I read the title... OH. HELL. NO. DAMN people desperate for any kind of attention these days. Good or bad. Also-- just a side note, also probably a GOOD THING, ain't no man want chatty side chick, putting their shit on blast. Who knows, maybe this show will make it the end of their side chick days, and they can go find their own damn man.
Side chicks have their own show now?? As blacks we HAVE GOT TO STOP glorifying this b.s. It's not cute anymore. Never was to me personally tbh. It makes our people look tasteless, uncouth, and trashy! It's not funny! It's a reflection of our community! Black men will continue to disrespect us if we continue to condone this behavior. Remember, 'we' are NOT the only people looking/watching us! This is encouraging the disrespect/disdain for our sistas. There may be 1 white girl in the show but we are perceived differently as opposed to white women!
Well said. These producers know exactly what they are doing. Notice the white girl is the thinnest, blonde and front and center as though she is the star. Guaranteed she will be more valley girl with an attitude to keep it interesting and you won't see her fighting and acting like the other women. Why can't we stop this mess??? SMH
I guess nobody believes in how you get them is how you lose them. If that man was so quick to stray because his wife wasn't "doing her job" then the minute you start causing too much drama, nagging him about being around his wife, etc, he will say you're no longer doing your job, cut you off, and find someone more accommodating. Come on ladies you asking for karma to slap you in the mouth.
Ti don't give up hope. you're an amazing beautiful woman. There are faithful men. I know a few BUT IT TAKES NOTHING BUT THE POWER OF GOD TO HELP WITH LUSTFUL DESIRES for both men and women. Stay prayed up sis!
This is disgusting and this behaviour should never be normalised. If a partner cheats, it's not because of the inadequacies of the cheated, it's the inadequacies of the cheater. You're not happy, gets a stepping. Though makes sense why Peter Thomas from RHOA loved Charlotte.
+Jamiezing'sWorld Please don't forget the other races who will watch this shit show and then judge all Black women by it. The black community might be the lowest percentage to watch this pos show.
Ms Chin Honestly I highly see that not happening. Look at love and hip hop or basketball wives for an example, the black community eats that shit up! So the ratings will mostly come from blacks. But your other statement is true, other races will begin to label black women more than they already do.
+lovelyti2002 They need to air this shit on youtube, not on national television smh this is very degrading and belittling. This type of behavior has everything to do with being insecure and probably the way they were raised (both male/female)...Oh and I agree with the infidelities in the South! I'm from Louisiana (born and raised), and it's very much so thriving. I moved to Fayetteville about 3 years ago, and it's even worse here smh It has the potential to be a much better place, but of course crime and ridiculousness such as this, makes it look really bad.
Just when I think more black folk are waking up, the white man peep and sneak back in and green light this foolishness.. and we go right along with it like its life and death...our self esteem is so shot..
gil This aint have shit to do with the white man! I didnt see white men promoting and conjuring up this foolishness I saw 2 black men and some black women in that interview going along with this shit willingly.
Danielle Mills I disagree if you can wholeheartedly say black folk are completely funding this plus the network it is goin on then I'll side with you. I believe a white company is funding this entire project until proven otherwise..I follow the money not the faces
I'm 25 and I keep getting asked when I am going to settle down. Never at this rate. My ass is going to stay single, I don't need no additional stress in my life. #JesusistheonlymanIneed #Jesusismynumbeoneguy
calstatebadboy1111 Why is it a problem that I said God is the only man I need. If it wasn't for god being in my life I wouldn't be who I am. The last thing that is on my mind at 18 is men on earth. I have so much that I want to accomplish and I know god will be there for me. College, Law School, etc. A boyfriend is the last thing I care about, especially when guys have now chosen bum ass girls over loving women.
loveofallthingsmusic I'm 24 and feel the same exact way 💯 no one values relationships anymore They are only as faithful as their options 💯 Too much drama! This generation is something else Just sad
it's funny how far we've fallen as a society. back in the day mistresses knew their place...
now people are PROUD to be side chicks....to each it's own. #teamsingle and #stressfree.
#menaretrash
lovelyti2002 smh when was cute for people not to have any self respect. why are people willing to do anything for a check it's really sickening.
It's crazy af too me..I hope they get cancelled tho..this is stupid.
lovelyti2002 Amen sweetie Amen
lovelyti2002 #Teamsingle it is 😍😍😍😍😍😘
NOTHING 👏🏾 IS 👏🏾 CUTE 👏🏾 ABOUT 👏🏾 BEING 👏🏾 A 👏🏾 SIDE 👏🏾 CHICK 👏🏾
india
tell em 😂
india Thank you! They're so fucking delusional talking about she also see herself as a main chick because she gets the same things.... okay. ...yeah....
LMAO!!!!
india
yaaassss👍👏💯
Jazz Taylor When she said that, I kept saying, "No, no, no, no..." 😂
What I find ironic is that one side chick was saying "if the wife was doing everything she was supposed to doing at home, then he wouldn't be coming to me". But the same can be said for the side chick...if you are doing everything you're supposed to be doing wouldn't he just be with you?
Yup
Booom
PREACH
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NOLIFEWITHOUTMUSIC1: HEY!!! You better say it!
Wait. Wait......hold on. Soooooooo, women now aim to be SIDE CHICKS?! WHAT HAPPENED TO OUR SOCIETY??????????
Erin Stojkov
just when I thought the real baby mommas of Richmond was enough. now there's more nonsense
Rocky Cage Wait... what?! 👀
Serbian Dahlia bruhhhhh, i was wondering the same thing!!!😢😢
any man who makes another girl disrespect his wife is weak
GHchic.. truth
GHchic who allows ** it's their choice.
Let the church say AMEN!
Amen
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Because being a side chick is something to be proud about. #TheFuckery
The face palm from this nonsense is migraine label.
Unfortunately a lot of women are content with it.
Kaiya Smith
I doubt that any of them are actual side chicks.
A lot of people don't know, but most people on reality shows are aspiring models and actresses and they audition to be on the shows.
Then the casting team picks who they want and tells them the role that they're supposed to play.
Half the time, they've never even met each other before the filming.
These shows are literally 100% fake.
I don't want to be the sidechick. I don't want to be the main chick. I want to be the *ONLY* chick. Sad how television promote degrading ish like this. Ironic how they all wearing Red. They all the devil . 😈 #SMH
Queen LiLi exactly..amen to this
Queen LiLi 😂😂
Queen LiLi I know right! me too I hear you sis!
Queen LiLi Preach!!!
Queen LiLi 💯 💯 💯 💯💯 sooooo true.
I refuse to keep company with women who don't respect another woman relationship because the saying goes "you are who you surround yourself with". I don't remain friends with men who are married, in a relationship and playing the field. Me living as a single woman who is very guarded about whom I surround myself is not so bad after all. I have 0 tolerance for foolishness.
Word I feel you sis, I totally feel you.
Wow, you know what we need? Another reality show that shows black women in a negative light! That's brilliant! *Said no self-respecting black person ever*
Right
SMDH... How low can we stoop.... truly ashamed to know this $hit exists.
the crazy part is....they're not really that attracitve
Renee Myricks Thats what i said too!😩
Renee Myricks lol
Renee Myricks They never are....
Renee Myricks it's not always about looks sweetie
Renee Myricks .. they look like side chics ... dirty .. not hot ... not someone u bring home to mama ... looks like 7 people full of "std's" in "cheap" red outfits ... so no bitch u dont get the same .. u are what u are ... cheap
Well damn😳this culture is getting a bit wild. Glorifying side chicks? Bye✌🏾
I'm about to get a divorce after 29years . We've been together 33 years . Since we were just babies in middle school . Now he's seeing a coworker of his and I refuse to stay and be after all the love and energy Ann's support ive given over the years . I'm broken , but I'm a surviver . So are you!
I know what you mean. I left my 1st husband because of his infidelities.
Mimis page same thing happened to me
I pray all my beautiful sisters on this site be Blessed. GOD will deal with them!! Who was the bonehead in the background saying we got action? He should have broke up that fight instead of talking and recording. Some men are Soo dum!
Mimis page 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯
You Will Triumph Over This Shit. You Deserve Everything. I Don't Know You, But I Wish You The Best Queen💯
I had to lift my wig and scratch my scalp for this fuckery!
Shauna Rose 😄😄
Shauna Rose lmao I feel you
Shauna Rose 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂
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Shauna Rose lmfao right!!
You much be at a real low place in life if
1. Your a side chick
2. Proud to be a side chick
3. So proud you would put your self on a tv show to get judge
This is a crazy world
Mareia Cunningham Yes and so sad. smh
+1pimpafro For the love of money... sad
I only have slightly more respect for the women who stay with them. I bet they all fight each other and sleep with the guy.
Main reason why I don't want to get marry or have kids. I saw this happen to my mom and aunt. Saw the heart break they went thru. Like giving your all, having his kids, losing your young and body for him to leave you at the end, not for me. Working on my money and my education.
Carly Al me too
Carly Al....there's still some good men left. let them fuck your mental and spiritual before anything else. Some men are birds though.
Carly Al not my main reason but definitely top 5..
I wonder what the std statistics are in Charlotte...
Paula Oliveira I've come from the future to tell you that back in 2016 Charlotte was in the top rankings for STDs (I'm talking like top 20)
Paula O oh it's bad 😂 I'm from Charlotte NC, it's so bad that I stopped having sex. Sad
It's ridiculous tbh. You can't trust no MF
STAY using condoms and getting tested if you're fuckin anybody here I s2g 🙄
Personally, I don't think adultery is cute.
It's not, it's a deadly sin
Inferior Beauty lying is a sin too. No sin is greater than another.
That 3 dislikes are from sidechicks watching your video and getting salty af😂😂
first husband's side chick got pregnant; we divorced. They married. Did she REALLY think he would stop cheating? He had two boys by her and got another woman pregnant. She could never tell me that she didn't break up my home. He was a dog and she fed him kibbles and bits. They both got what they deserved. I have no harsh feelings for either of them. I prayed for him a lot. I remarried (and have two children by my 2nd husband). We celebrated 25 years in February. I'm really sickened by the whole concept. Other than you cussing, I could listen to you all day LOL Peace love and blessings from RVA (the beginning of the South)
Good for you, I admire the fact that you prayed for them. I'm glad that you met a real man that loves you. The side chicks have really lost their souls and I don't care how much they try to glamorize their disgusting behavior, they will age badly, may get a fatal STD, and they WILL be dumped for a younger "side piece" The devil is grinning from ear to ear. Take care, js
I'm so sick of people, the media, and society glamorizing cheating.
The only side piece I need is my 9mm. This is not to be glorified😒
Terrence Barnes 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾
Terrence Barnes exactly in no shape form of way
Terrence Barnes .40 cal is mine
Terrence I agree with you 100%... our society likes normalizing shitty behavior
Terrence Barnes I agree my brother. This is reprehensible.
side chicks are grocery store. your open to anything. 😢
Peanut butter legs, "easy to spread"
This is sickening. Not only is this promoting the lack of self respect, but it's making it seem like it is ok the ruin relationships. I can't stand women like this.
MoMo right. And the fact that Rihanna is here for it..you know ppl will hop right on in the wagon and support this mess
lol Rhihanna is rich and bored. She is just looking for another reality show of mess to watch on television. Don't pay her any mind.
The thing is, it’s the men that are “ruining” the relationship, the hoes are just hoes but the men ain’t shit either
"These men are only as faithful as their options." Amen.
mingram511 you said a mouthful with that one.
Damn! This is sad. I'll take "Happily Single" for 500 Alex. Smh!
boodah1000 👏👏👏
boodah1000 lol that is so funny what you said gurrl
What type of reality show that has side chick in the title. That lets the world know that these women dont respect themselves and their name.
Thainia Tinopcin true dat!!!!
This is exactly why I'm single.
I dnt like when women pull the "what are u doing to keep ur man" bs if only u knew that a man will do what he wants depending on how well he respects his woman.. and the cheating has something more to do with insecurity more than anything. I can't believe this being said 2017!!
ghada pollard. Excatly you can do all there is to do for your spouse but if they wanna cheat its going down..
They have to say something to deflect from their rachet behavior.
This is what happens when we remove shame from society, I say it a lot we need to shame behaviours in society, this mentality of do what you want has negative influence on our society.
The show is disgraceful !!!
241Genevieve These sidechicks are good with being a sidechick to a real baller rather then a main chick of a broke dude.
241Genevieve My thoughts exactly!
241Genevieve well everytime someone shows morality they get ridiculed for it being called prude, vanilla, nerd, simp(which is the most used), white Knight and everything else. Whenever you try to do what's right get ready to be isolated because nobody wants to hear it.
241Genevieve I agree with you! Shame is definitely a good thing. It was when we were growing up lol. Question is, which behaviors?
I just don't understand society anymore to where this is acceptable. People plz don't watch this show....
why are we black folks so morally bankrupt? why do we embrace everything bad? Behavior, attitudes, lifestyle, habits. im so frustrated with my people because we are the biggest one reppin Christianity and church and have no respect for nobody and nothing!!!
leah williams or how about you stop generalising and stop holding a whole group of people accountable for the actions of a few?
not black people, black hollywood by white hands. We are not a freaking monolith.
oprah7 this is a black mans creation. It was a black man who went shopping to big companies to put this out there. We cant blame white folks for this mess, cuz if you notice when fights were going on, it was black men hyping it, behind the camera.
Exactly. I'm so sick of this weak ass excuse "It's dem white folks!". That's not a viable excuse anymore. These chicks could have said "No, I'm not doing a show, I don't roll like that." The BLACK producer and the BLACK females consigning and participating are to blame. Can't blame "whitey" for everything. Black people need to wake the hell up and stop perpetuating our own stereotypes and then turning a blind eye and defending it by blaming "white folks".
This is biblical. soon there will be 7 women fighting over 1 man smh
EL-Bee I'll remind you of a little gem called "Flavor of Love"...actual fights for a man who's claim to fame was being a walking, talking, minstrel show.
Tavi Crear That was fake because he's nasty lol
EL-Bee Indeed 😷
EL-Bee Facts
EL-Bee u right sis.... But they can have the man. Lol i will wait on tge Lord. I swear this makes i want to be alone!
Ti, I am disgusted by this show. but I am inspired by your strength of character ☺
This can't be real.. I live in the wrong generation.
Tastethis Withcatt omg I'm with u, wtf
now watch ppl going to try to be side chicks to be on tv..smh!!😣
Sheila Dav 😂🤣😂🤣
Please everyone boycott this show!!! If they have low ratings they will be taken off air. #BoycottSideChicks
Lola ! I can’t I’m here for the mess
Lola ! I'm with you!
"Most men are as faithful as their options" PREACH Ti!!!
tonedog77 Lol I'm gonna assume ur being sarcastic cus that's a wild suggestion...plus it's most men, of course there are good guys out there but most won't be loyal when they see "better options"
this makes us black women as a whole look so bad #sad
J'Kalah Furlow no not all black women...not all of us agree with this mess...by the way I'm not watching this crap..they need get their own men..just pathetic
People would think badly about black women whether this show was a thing or not.
Kai Jolly Who you telling!!! As if Black women don't have it hard enough, here they go with another reality show like this!!! I'm beyond tired of seeing the same thing over & over displayed on Tv when it comes to us!! Smh
Janet Mcwilliams ...AND U GOT THESE STAts from whhheerre nw? I just wanna do my research like u obviously have done so could u do a sista a Big Favor n pls "pay it fwd". I'm hella curious 2C fm wht reference source those numbers originated. #sideeye
Trump is president, Prince is dead, and now side Chicks have a reality show smh #streetsaintsafe
Donielle Tyler 😭😭facts
Donielle Tyler Where is the lie tho? lmao
Donielle Tyler, as they say on Seinfeld, "The Bizarro World."
Daria Nosdrahcir lol exactly and I am also a die hard Seinfeld fan therefore I truly appreciate the reference lol!
The Twilight Zone
it's a damn shame that we as black people have to make our selves look like this. this show will do nothing but glorify hoes and trifling women. I'm a man and I'm not about that at all!
I really hope this show FAILS & FLOPS
Cierra Mills From your mouth to God's ears
Cierra Mills Oh trust it will. It will probably be boycotted before it's able to make it to tv...or so I hope
Accordinto_Ambi w lol!!! They tried it
Why are they glorifying cheating?
Benjamin Sakyi because we live in a ungodly world.
Maia Jones basically✅
I love Ti's voice it's so soothing 🤗
awww thank you so much!
lovelyti2002 I love listening to your video's even the old ones...You always keep it real
Neisha Tatts It helps get through the day, and you know there's no pretense or bullshit with what she's saying or about to say.
Neisha Tatts try listening to her whiles driving. That laugh of hers coming through the car speakers always cheers me up. Don't know why
I'm so tired of black women carrying on like this! Anything for a check and fame. Truly sad!
Kalielah Simmons It’s not just black women... Every race is hopping on the hoe train. Race just depends on the area lol
MxTooReal and Hispanic women
These hoors dont need a reality show, what they need is a reality check☕😕
o01q2w3e yeah because hoors kind of rhymes with doors which they can be compared to open close open close lmao😂😂😂
This is the stupidest thing I've ever seen. It's even worse that they are so comfortable being a side chick like are your parents watching this "promo" lol.
they probably dont have any "parents" probably only sperm donors and egg carriers.
5 Minute Lunch Break you mean this is the spirit of Jezebel
erica 💋 it's so sad they don't love themselves
People will auction off their soul for a dollar I swear!!!
Right even more are the children watching. This is really F-ed up
father's please stay in your daughters lives so they don't end up like this
vlawd5 truth 🙄🙄🙄
All this is a distraction to keep da black ppl focus on drama and reality tv instead of the real shit that's going on.
BINGO!!!
What, you can't multitask?
lol
Tisa booker real talk sis
@@belias360🤔😩😄
Now there's "qualifications for becoming a side chick"??
*Jesus take the wheel!!* 😧... Lawd I'm not ready for dis one.. *face palm*
I don't understand how Kendrick Lamar could get dragged by twitter for saying he fuxx wit black women photoshop or no photoshop and gets dragged by black women on social media, but they will sit up here and faithfully watch these disgraceful shows with there daughters and sons smh. S/O to the real beautiful sister out there that I know that don't spend there time watching shows like this.
Captain Phasma 🙌🙌
I'm so sick and tired of our sisters doing this shit. I'm mutha-fuckin-tiiiiieeed.
Lol, you what?
LucyM but you gone watch it. Smh. We're all guilty of letting these types of shows run because we watch them.
Lol not even... I didn't even watch RHWOA or LHHNY or LHHATL hardly, I just caught the high lights.. kmsl but who knows I maaaaay check the first episode via my fire stick no way would they get a rating off meh 😂😂😂
LucyM 🤣🤣🤣.
This is disgusting. I'm angry that men just can't stay faithful. Marriage isn't to be taken lightly. This is crazy.
we need to petition this shit!!!! this is disgusting!
yessss
Why are we glorifying being a side chick? This is ridiculous and the shit better be cancelled. Everyone has the right to do what they want with their lives, but to put it on tv? It's beyond ratchet.
Tilsade Mersalle Exactly 👏👏👏
yeah we glorify all the wrong shit..keep that something to the imagination! geez!!!
Tilsade Mersalle yes I when I heard about this I thought it was a joke but to know people would actually be apart of this..it's another messy TV show trying to get money SMH, count me out from watching!
Well Ofcoursesir I don't know you so I won't say anything negative but I will pray for you!😶
They all look dusty... 😐
Jordyn Taylor exactly...lol
I agree with T...I believe the MAJORITY of men cheat
I'm not seeking to be married AGAIN for this very reason.
I did what I was supposed to do got married first had kids and in the end got played.
Won't happen again
I did my part
No one says you have to do it twice
Once is SHOLL enough for me
40th like
Ladies be Woman enough to get your OWN Man and Men RESPECT your wives!!!
Marie Marlene women need to learn to respect men
im going to be single forever
Latrice Finn enjoy your own company
TheRenegadeStarr I love my own company but it would be nice to have someone else enjoy it to. That's all.
Latrice Finn He will find you..no worries 😊
Latrice Finn me too. being in messy relationships is so hard. I'm good being single.
Don't let this mess make you want to be single. This is some BS! I will not be watching this show. Ladies you can be happy, there are good men out there. Very few yes, but they still do exist. These men do not RESPECT woman and I. Return these woman do not RESPECT themselves.
T.I. This show is absolutely disgusting, the things the media are force feeding society is sickening. The fact that a female would stoop to the low of publicly saying "I'm a side chic" has me baffled beyond belief and are happy knowing the man is married and going home to his wife. I will not understand at all. I've been married for 12 years and I am totally taken aback by the comfort of a female being openly okay with sleeping with a married man. Karma is a bitch and she has the mind of an elephant that shit will come back around. And let's not forget STDs are real and claiming bodies by the second.
See, *THIS* is exactly why I keep saying more people out there-especially men!-seriously need to consider polyamory as an option. If y'all know you're just not cut out for monogamy or fidelity, if you know you can't be satisfied by just one person's body for the rest of your life, then you need to be honest about that-first with yourself, and then with your significant other. Only you need to keep it real *up front!!!*
I think some of them like women fighting over them all the time.
I don't understand the whole "if u were taking care of your business and doing it right then he wouldn't have come to me" Like sweetie no, if you call yourself doin it right then why won't he stay with you? He still eventually goes back to the "main" right? Why 🤔
Precious Exactly. And statistically, most of the men who cheat NEVER leave their wives/girlfriends for the side chick, so most of them ain't doing shit right.
Precious I'm confused😕😕😕😕😕 too
kai jai
Reminds me of that Ginuwine song.
Jayden Griffiths thats because its cheaper to keep her...especially if kids are involved 😂
I knew what T.I. was about when Tiny & Toya had a show together. Tiny and Toya were out and about and T. I. wanted her to come home right away. She had JUST left the house. She told him no and he hung up in her face. She immediately went home to appease him. I knew that he was into mind games.
Niesha Maree I remember that. And it was nothing but an innocent girls night. Yea...he has been leaving a bad taste in my mouth for a while.
this is evil and disgusting
Farida S that's how you know that we all living in a sinful world.
Love Yourself 99 True
Farida S urghhhh😈 the job of the devil chile
I wanted to reach in the screen and slap the woman who said "what are you doing wrong that he's coming to me for? Are you doing everything to keep your man?" are you kidding me?
I know this is old but she was just on Facebook literally harrassing her mans "sidepeice." Posted there text messages, calling her a prostitute, she's a store etc etc. This went on for days. This the kicker though...Her man's in the comment section telling her if she'd have sex with him, he wouldn't have done none of that. And apologizing to the new girl in front of eveybody. Karmas no joke
The video of these men filming the woman fighting was disturbing.... they don't care.... and we give them our heart .. what's wrong with these young women.
carolyn1301977 It's not every man, generalization can be a dangerous thing. Not all guys are like this, of course there are a lot with this mentality. Just like not all women are trying to be side chicks. It's hard to to get to the good bottom when the scum keeps floating to the top.
L Gill Guess if your digging in the trash that's all you will find, cause last time I check I wasn't trash. Sorry whoever got you feeling that way but not all men are trash. Just like not all women are trash. You wouldn't want a man generalizing every women based on a bad experience they had, I think same courtesy needs to be applied.
lilhypnotique LOL. You surely took the bait on that one. If that statement doesn't apply to you, why take it so personal? And if you REALLY thought about how men treat women including what the original person was commenting you wouldn't respond this way.
L Gill Ummm didn't take the bait, I don't like generalizing of any ppl whether it be male or female. Plus you said "all" so your statement was very pointed. I didn't kno you had been with Everyman on earth, you really must get around. Like I don't kno that are bad men, it's just bad ppl out in the world period. I have several female friends who are happily married and I kno some close family members who been dogged out. You can't paint everything with same brush. Just because it doesn't or does go in your house don't mean it applies to everybody. Would you like if a guy came in room full of women and called them gold diggers? No and neither would I because I expect the same good courtesy I give to other ppl. There are both men and women who go thru this situation a good man or woman at home and they want play with the garbage. You put the bait out there but nobody was biting.
lilhypnotique oh but you did take it sir. You defaulted to the "who hurt you bruh?" to "you must get around" and then the typical "all men are not bad" litany. Again if you really put your ego aside, get out of your personal box and think about how men in general talk about, think about, and treat women, you would respond differently. I'll give you a hint. It's not that good.
That's embarrassing__and to glamorize that type of situation just shows you America is running out of reality TV ideas.
Valentina Poindexter you are Flawless ❤
babygurl2smoove thx
Valentina Poindexter imagine how little girls view life
Valentina Poindexter ...The more ratchet the better... SMH
tiondaj28 😂
Sounds like I could be making bank becoming a Divorce lawyer 🤔
ᴹᵃʳˢʰᵃᶫ ᴸᵉᵉ ᵀʰᵉ ᴾᵘˢˢʸ ᴰᵉˢᵗʳᵒʸᵉʳ ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) How fucked up this generation is? Lmao. In my mom's generation, a woman couldn't get a divorce unless both parities agreed or a judge said it was reasonable to leave. The husband beating you wasn't "good enough" to leave.
Starly Casablanca oh, you can physically leave it's prob that you couldn't do it on paper.
Sherri Solomon Then you would be shamed by your church and by your family. Divorce was frowned upon far more back then. My grandmother wanted to leave her first husband, but when she told her mother about it, they threatened her and told her she'd embarrass their family name. She eventually left and started her life over again.
All that you're saying is true. I grew up in South Carolina and my mom was the side chick. She made it feel like a normal life to live. As I grew up, I learn better and did better. I will share on facebook.
Damn ti dropping these videos back to back 🙌🏽
milly ma'at amen 🤗
Get your OWN man like WTF!!!!
Shavon Cullors It's because we're all supposedly gay or taken lmao 😂
Shavon Cullors lol they can't find good men because they lack self respect, so why not go after someone's boyfriend or husband? Smh
autismpete lmao
jackieangelify1 girl this is crazy! These rats had the nerve to basically say that they're equal to the MAIN chicks smdh
Shavon Cullors this is horrible to say but some women are side chicks cuz it gets them off.. absolutely disgusting. it just shows weakness and insecurity to me.
i will not be shocked to see all these women in the front of Amber Roses "I'm a slut, but can't call me a slut" walk bullshit! smmfh!!! I hope this gets canceled after 1 season, but knowing how much society is backwards & for some reason we like to reward bad behavior, this show will be a hit .. I've lost all hope on me , as a 20 year old woman , to finding a monogamous relationship at this time, Imma just wait until the after life 😔 .
Ieasha 1596 I hope it's cancelled before it ever airs
I think Amber is saying she can sleep with as many men as she wants. I don't think slut or hoe means she is sleeping with married men
Ieasha 1596 I pray this gets cancelled after the pilot episode
Nicole Newell never said she was .
Ieasha 1596 I get that. I was just making a statement. This side chick business I find sad. These women will use any excuse to justify their behavior. I don't understand the appeal of watching women fight over men that wouldn't do the same for them. These are the women I tell my boys to watch out for and the women I encourage my daughters never to become.
Maybe I watch too many movies but I thought mistresses were supposed to be hot. The wives must be highly insulted. What happened to self pride and respect?
If that's what they want... Leave me... I wouldn't stay in a marriage and deal with their b.s.
This is so disgraceful. All of these women have very low self esteem. I don't care what anybody says. Only a women with good self esteem doesn't look to have someone else's man.
Chioma L. A woman with high self-esteem and high confidence will get her own man because she knows that's what she deserves.
Im sorry but there are real bad bitches out there who can take your man and keep him. Angelina Jolie is one of them.
MissBella 100 Bad bitch? Only an ignorant woman think thats a compliment. Why do women think that keeping a man is an accomplishment? It's not. It's definitely not an accomplishment if you had to "steal" him from someone else. Who would want a man who cheats? A low self esteem having women. If you support that kind of behavior, you are one as well.
I disagree. I dont even believe there is a such thing as stealing a man. Cheating is not always black and white. A man will be with who he wants to be with. If a woman tells a man that she has a boyfriend that man will never respect that, he will continue pursuing her anyway. But when a woman does the same its disgraceful. My point is that people will be with who they want to be with. No one wants a cheating man true, but there are men who cheat simply because the woman they are with doesn't full fill them anymore. The brave men would leave that woman and the cowards will choose comfort over their happiness. I am witness to this. My cousin had a boyfriend who left her for another girl and that guy is still happy with that girl and they are married. People will be with who they want to be. Yes there are bad bitches out there who will "steal" your man cause they have something better to fulfill him. Same with a man who steals a woman from a man. People will be with who they want to be with, thats just a reality.
I've got nothing more to learn. I've been there done. Bottom line , not everyone is going to value you. Someone is going to fall out of love with you. The only thing a person can do is love themselves and be thankful for those who truly love them unconditionally. Nothing lasts forever and marriage is just another unsuccessful attempt to make something lasting out of an incident. Nothing lasts forever. Put on your own glass slipper.
I live in Charlotte ... born and bred , and I am very disgusted by this new reality show.
Wendy Me too
Wendy I live right down the highway in Greensboro born & raised & i don't condone this. Where Is your self respect as a woman to call yourself a side chick
Chasity Burgess Go Aggies!
How many "real" folks of different cities do we need?
Gina Lienn 😂
Gina Lienn This!! 😩😒
Gina Lienn OK done.
Gina Lienn done 😂😂😂😂
awww it was really cute to hear how close you are to your ex's family. Now that is what you call RESPECT for who you are and how you conduct yourself.
This litterally makes my blood boil! I pitty these women. I really do. Their self-esteem is lower than dirt and I'm sorry, but why would you allow yourself to be so degraded, thinking this man who is cheating on his wife or girlfriend, loves you? He has no respect for either you or her and he is NOT both you and her man, unless she agreed to a poly lifestyle! I pray that many of these women will come to the realization, that they are only hurting thmeselves in the long run and come to know wwhat it is to hae love and respect for themselves. God is not sleeping, nor is He dead! Therefore He sees everything! I say to people who don't give a damn now, trust me, you will give a whole lot of damn later.
RandyMakeup 😍💯💯💯
It might be too late once they realize what they've done
Interior Beauty smh tell me about it!
Maybe they don't think the man loves them. Maybe they don't want to be loved. They maybe just want some relationship benefits, but not all the baggage. They get the fun parts; sometimes.
Ty Hence their self-esteem being lower than dirt! Get a man that only wants to be friends with benefits and is unattached or enter a poly lifestyle where all parties agree to share the same man. None of which I agree with, but at least no one is getting hurt in a sense...I guess. For example Floyd Mayweather is upfront with the women he dates. He Lets them know he wants an open relationship, therefore he gives them a choice to stay or leave. Like damn, get with a man like that! I would respect some of these boys a lot more if they were just upfront about what they want instead of sneaking around like serpents! No matter what these little girls are still getting baggage at the end of the day because of the situation they chose to be apart of.
so we glorify shows like this but Underground gets cancelled... 😡😡
Kathryn Dorsey yeah! so messed up
KreKre99 Exactly 😡
KreKre99 that's beyond fucked up but this is where we are in society
jamaican lova 28 sad but very true. and we wonder why we are where we are
Wtf it I didn't know underground got cancelled 😱I loved that show .. I just thought it'd be back next season ..
Soooooo is Bernice not going to be on this show 🤔🙄😂
imani watkins kind of surprised she's not 😂
+jackieangelify1 tiny would beat her ass
Tiny said Berniece came into the picture after her and TI split
This is why I watch Korean dramas lol
Girl!! Me too lol. I cannot with us Americans smh
😂😂😂They are Good aren't they?
Lol my ghost is my favorite Korean series
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This filthy show should be boycotted!!!The bar has to be raised! #DISGUSTED #HORRIBLE
They're not gonna do that unless it was white women who were pushing the agenda. It's also part of the "be free" movement and "do whatever you want". We need to tell people to do what is right rather than do what you want.
I'm single forever! I declare it, if this is what I have to look forward to. Us women have the power to reform the way men treat us, but setting standards if we could unite to that common goal, but its a fairytale because too many women struggling from self-esteem and/or daddy issues. My ex-fiancee cheated while we were in the process pf relocating to Seattle from Atlanta. He arrived in Seattle 2 months before me because his new job needed him to start and I was packing us up in Atlanta and trying to rent out my house. In the first 3 weeks, he found a woman and slept with her until I arrived. Not knowing all this was occurring in another time zone but sensing something up in his behavior. I got there amd first week learned he was cheating. I literally gave up my career and house for his career to thrive. Then learned he knocked her up with twins. I walked away broken, not just my heart but soul. When she found about me she was unbothered because she assumed getting pregnant will keep him. Well, she was half right. He married her not before contacting and giving me an ultimatum to either give him another chance or he's going to move on. I told him you have 2 kids in Atl and now 2 kids in Seattle, your best bet is to marry one of your babymommas because its cheaper to keep her. Well he married the one in Seattle and he doing all kinds of cheating. But now she feels trapped and doesn't want to own up that she invested in a lemon. The same way she got him will be the same way she lose him or she'll lose her mind. I don't wish anyone the pain I endured, but I'm not mad either she going through it with him. God knows what kind of woman I am and what path he needs me on. I'm so much more successful without him and just happy he's someone else's problem. Know your worth ladies and know when to walk away and hold yourself to a much higher regard than ehat they placed upon you. 💋
I have a question, if he married you do you think you will also have peace? Its easy to talk about the side chick and how she "stole your man". Why should she feel bothered by him cheating on you? Its the guy who cheated on you and made those choices. Whether the girl knew about you or not is irrelevant to me because we have a tendency to forget that once a woman loves a man she can become naive. You dont know what he is telling her, you dont know how he is treating her. The fact is that your ex fiancee is trash period. He lacks discipline and self restraint. If you married him it would be no different , he would have still cheated on you. Self worth and self love is the only important thing on the planet.
MissBella 100 I do know a little of how he's treating her because she attempted to reach out to me a year after getting married stating women to women, what signs did I witness from him to know he cheated? And she named two or three women's name from his past who she's battling with on fb or ig. I never responded. Then on my birthday that same year he reached out to me wishing me happy birthday and attached a old pic of us together kissing. I didn't respond. When I shut a door regardless if its family, friend or lover, I shut the door and window to avoid being entangled in any drama. But clearly with the type of questions she's asking, its not all roses and rainbows and his disrespectful message he hasn't changed. Like I said, I dont wish what I experienced on any woman; however, I don't care or feel bad about her struggles she's facing with him.
First words out of my mouth when I read the title... OH. HELL. NO.
DAMN people desperate for any kind of attention these days. Good or bad.
Also-- just a side note, also probably a GOOD THING, ain't no man want chatty side chick, putting their shit on blast. Who knows, maybe this show will make it the end of their side chick days, and they can go find their own damn man.
Boycott this mess.
So Cynthia did have reason to be concerned about Peter, spending all his time in Charlotte.
Natural Fantastic 😏
Side chicks have their own show now?? As blacks we HAVE GOT TO STOP glorifying this b.s. It's not cute anymore. Never was to me personally tbh. It makes our people look tasteless, uncouth, and trashy! It's not funny! It's a reflection of our community! Black men will continue to disrespect us if we continue to condone this behavior. Remember, 'we' are NOT the only people looking/watching us! This is encouraging the disrespect/disdain for our sistas. There may be 1 white girl in the show but we are perceived differently as opposed to white women!
Pearl Diamond Beautifully said Queen!🙌
Sitting Pretty Home thanks sis!
Well said. These producers know exactly what they are doing. Notice the white girl is the thinnest, blonde and front and center as though she is the star. Guaranteed she will be more valley girl with an attitude to keep it interesting and you won't see her fighting and acting like the other women. Why can't we stop this mess??? SMH
Pearl Diamond 💯
and it would be black men influencing this. our race needs to stop this
I guess nobody believes in how you get them is how you lose them. If that man was so quick to stray because his wife wasn't "doing her job" then the minute you start causing too much drama, nagging him about being around his wife, etc, he will say you're no longer doing your job, cut you off, and find someone more accommodating. Come on ladies you asking for karma to slap you in the mouth.
Ti don't give up hope. you're an amazing beautiful woman. There are faithful men. I know a few BUT IT TAKES NOTHING BUT THE POWER OF GOD TO HELP WITH LUSTFUL DESIRES for both men and women. Stay prayed up sis!
This is disgusting and this behaviour should never be normalised. If a partner cheats, it's not because of the inadequacies of the cheated, it's the inadequacies of the cheater. You're not happy, gets a stepping. Though makes sense why Peter Thomas from RHOA loved Charlotte.
SHE SAID SHE LOOKS AT HERSELF AS THE MAIN CHICK AS WELL I'M SCREAMINGGGGGG LOL
Muwosi I caught that too. That was her argument. Not even love, not desperation. No, comparing herself like that. pfft
Muwosi New Definition!
I never wish badly on anything, but I hope this show flops. 😒
gottaluvpink89 The way the black community is set up it won't. They love ratchetness and drama.
+Jamiezing'sWorld
Please don't forget the other races who will watch this shit show and then judge all Black women by it. The black community might be the lowest percentage to watch this pos show.
Jamiezing'sWorld 😩😩 that's unfortunately true.
Ms Chin Honestly I highly see that not happening. Look at love and hip hop or basketball wives for an example, the black community eats that shit up! So the ratings will mostly come from blacks. But your other statement is true, other races will begin to label black women more than they already
do.
Janice Johnson Yup, tragically and sadly true 😭😩
+lovelyti2002 They need to air this shit on youtube, not on national television smh this is very degrading and belittling. This type of behavior has everything to do with being insecure and probably the way they were raised (both male/female)...Oh and I agree with the infidelities in the South! I'm from Louisiana (born and raised), and it's very much so thriving. I moved to Fayetteville about 3 years ago, and it's even worse here smh It has the potential to be a much better place, but of course crime and ridiculousness such as this, makes it look really bad.
Seaux Southern it’s not aired on Tv thank god
Seaux Southern update it is being aired on YT... really don’t need to be aired at all
Sidechicks always want to glorify and be called things OTHER THAN what they actually are.
Ewww. To hell with "The real side chicks of Charlotte." This is such a disgrace. I hope this show gets cancelled soon. This is so ridiculous.
Feeding into the "Promiscuous Black Women" stereotype are we...how lovely😒
Just when I think more black folk are waking up, the white man peep and sneak back in and green light this foolishness.. and we go right along with it like its life and death...our self esteem is so shot..
gil This aint have shit to do with the white man! I didnt see white men promoting and conjuring up this foolishness I saw 2 black men and some black women in that interview going along with this shit willingly.
Danielle Mills bro stop. it's The white man that has the ultimate power to green light this shit or not. stop kidding yourself and be real.
Danielle Mills I disagree if you can wholeheartedly say black folk are completely funding this plus the network it is goin on then I'll side with you. I believe a white company is funding this entire project until proven otherwise..I follow the money not the faces
SnozBerryQueen exactly...the naïve train is heavy today
This is sick, pathetic and the ID channel proves that this is the reason people get murdered. I hope my teaching my daughters how to be a real Women.
I'm 25 and I keep getting asked when I am going to settle down. Never at this rate. My ass is going to stay single, I don't need no additional stress in my life. #JesusistheonlymanIneed #Jesusismynumbeoneguy
loveofallthingsmusic Amen. God is the only man I truly need in my life. he is my #1 and love of my life.
calstatebadboy1111 Why is it a problem that I said God is the only man I need. If it wasn't for god being in my life I wouldn't be who I am. The last thing that is on my mind at 18 is men on earth. I have so much that I want to accomplish and I know god will be there for me. College, Law School, etc. A boyfriend is the last thing I care about, especially when guys have now chosen bum ass girls over loving women.
also 25 and not in a rush to be apart of the foolishness
Fam #teamsingleforlife
loveofallthingsmusic I'm 24 and feel the same exact way 💯 no one values relationships anymore
They are only as faithful as their options 💯
Too much drama! This generation is something else
Just sad
I hope Chic-Fil-A sue the HELL out of them for copyright infringement!
~Queen~
we said black people have the power and we should use it to not let this show see the light of day.
Ikr, I'm not watching this fuckery.
Ashley Winston exactly i wont be watching it
what should we do to stop this, maybe get a petition started?
Eleia Roddy I'm game for that.
Eleia Roddy dont watch. write to the network. Heywe got Sorority Sisters off (#ZPhiB). Also that rapper with the 10 kids.
1 word "demonic"
Cyn Yes it is