Unconscious vs Conscious Love. Three of my favorite quotes from Keeping the Love You Find 1. Romantic Love is nature's anesthesia. 2. Romantic Love is nature's glue. 3. Real Love is conscious love. In order to reach real love, our unconscious aim must be intentional.
*Do Healthy Relationships Make People Healthier?* Interpersonal relationships impact our lives. As a graduate of Institute for Integrative Nutrition I learned about the importance of relationships in regards to our holistic health. There's much more to health and wellness than what we eat and whether or not we exercise. This video addresses how relationships affect our health too. *Watch it and tell me what you think!* #holistichealth #IIN #relationships #tf
@M. Leanna Peterkin Can you clarify this statement for me. To me, he sounds a little crazy. I have been happily married for more than 10 years, but have never had to fix past child issues.
@Robert G, sir your wife down ... look right at her and tell her... “Dear, tell me honestly, is there ANY aspect of our marriage that troubles you that you’ve not been able to talk about, or could be improved upon.” Then be quiet and listen to her reply without interrupting or controlling what she may tell you. You might be surprised.
But if you have had past partners that are polar opposites of each other, how are they both reflections of one's childhood imago? Wouldn't one be reflective of the model- and more likely to provoke old wounds- while the other does not? So in that way we aren't ALWAYS seeking the same image...
I am aure he meant that due to our very unconscious patterns of behavior based on what we experienced early in life with family we will be drawn to whoever will bring those same unhealthy patterns to our awareness so we can process them. So you might either attract a bully or a person who has been bullied. Either person will personify the frequency of being bullied. You can then dialogue your feelings to a partner or another person which makes you feel heard so you can begin to heal from whatever experiences you may have had around bullying. For example, you may have had a step parent who bullied everyone. As an adult , until you bring those feelings you may have experienced as a child to your conscious awareness you may attract either a bully or a victim of bullying into your life unconsciously because that is the type of energy you grew up with as a child. The bully and the victim may seem different yet they both have to heal from the effects of bullying that probably their parents also had. Patterns of behavior are passed down from generation to generation.
This is to easy. Their are lying traumatic exspiriences on our genes too. It not only about the DNA, Childhood, it's about exspiriences in the adult live too. And this all are dancing with each other. Yes it is about safty and if you are feeling save, you will grow and so the realationship. But to feel safe depends on you personally, your partner and society. To feel safe in an unsafe world... can a human, be intitle to do so?!
There’s a lot of wisdom in Hendrix’s approach, but the idea that the fundamental conflict between each partner’s wounded (and starved) inner child is a positive dynamic meant to foster mutual healing is wishful thinking at the highest level.
Unconscious vs Conscious Love. Three of my favorite quotes from Keeping the Love You Find
1. Romantic Love is nature's anesthesia.
2. Romantic Love is nature's glue.
3. Real Love is conscious love. In order to reach real love, our unconscious aim must be intentional.
Dr. Hendrix is the Bomb! Thank you Sir!
Harville is my hero ! I have all the books he and his wife have written.
We’re big fans of Dr. Hendrix’s work, too! So glad this resonated with you and you took the time to share it with us. Wishing you a lovely week!
Love INN & Dr. Hendrix’s work
Totally totally agree!!
*Do Healthy Relationships Make People Healthier?*
Interpersonal relationships impact our lives. As a graduate of Institute for Integrative Nutrition I learned about the importance of relationships in regards to our holistic health. There's much more to health and wellness than what we eat and whether or not we exercise. This video addresses how relationships affect our health too.
*Watch it and tell me what you think!*
#holistichealth #IIN #relationships #tf
this guy's a genius!!!
He is informed by God- and has used his God-given intelligence & partnered it with supernatural insight into how we work.His wife, too-Ask them:)
@M. Leanna Peterkin Can you clarify this statement for me. To me, he sounds a little crazy. I have been happily married for more than 10 years, but have never had to fix past child issues.
@Robert G, sir your wife down ... look right at her and tell her... “Dear, tell me honestly, is there ANY aspect of our marriage that troubles you that you’ve not been able to talk about, or could be improved upon.” Then be quiet and listen to her reply without interrupting or controlling what she may tell you. You might be surprised.
But if you have had past partners that are polar opposites of each other, how are they both reflections of one's childhood imago? Wouldn't one be reflective of the model- and more likely to provoke old wounds- while the other does not? So in that way we aren't ALWAYS seeking the same image...
I am aure he meant that due to our very unconscious patterns of behavior based on what we experienced early in life with family we will be drawn to whoever will bring those same unhealthy patterns to our awareness so we can process them. So you might either attract a bully or a person who has been bullied. Either person will personify the frequency of being bullied. You can then dialogue your feelings to a partner or another person which makes you feel heard so you can begin to heal from whatever experiences you may have had around bullying. For example, you may have had a step parent who bullied everyone. As an adult , until you bring those feelings you may have experienced as a child to your conscious awareness you may attract either a bully or a victim of bullying into your life unconsciously because that is the type of energy you grew up with as a child. The bully and the victim may seem different yet they both have to heal from the effects of bullying that probably their parents also had. Patterns of behavior are passed down from generation to generation.
Read his first book "Getting the Love You Want" to better understand these concepts.
The ad at the end was really annoying the rest was great
Brain health can certainly promote overall health
This is to easy.
Their are lying traumatic exspiriences on our genes too.
It not only about the DNA, Childhood, it's about exspiriences in the adult live too.
And this all are dancing with each other.
Yes it is about safty and if you are feeling save, you will grow and so the realationship.
But to feel safe depends on you personally, your partner and society.
To feel safe in an unsafe world... can a human, be intitle to do so?!
There’s a lot of wisdom in Hendrix’s approach, but the idea that the fundamental conflict between each partner’s wounded (and starved) inner child is a positive dynamic meant to foster mutual healing is wishful thinking at the highest level.
You've intrigued me. Would you care to share why it is that you think that Hendrix's ideas of mutual healing is wishful thinking?