Passport Bros Be HATING On AFRICAN WOMEN BIG TIME!!! | Ep. 114
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- Опубліковано 13 лип 2023
- @AustonHolleman brought out a great topic about the situation with #passportbros and the situation that is occurring. African American men traveling to Africa (instead of Dominican Republic, Brazil, or Columbia) are getting hated on in my honest opinion. When you go into Facebook Groups that are Passport Bros related, you will find A LOT of Hatred towards women from Africa.
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00:00 - Discussion on African-Americans' stance towards Africans
01:23 - Exploration of negative reactions to African women's posts
02:31 - Discussion on why some African-American men explore Africa
03:11 - Description of dynamics within Passport Bros Facebook groups
04:15 - Discourse on negative perception of African women in groups
05:20 - Analysis of motivations behind Passport Bros' travels
06:31 - Inquiry into whether Passport Bros is a form of sex tourism
07:45 - Clarification of the nature and purpose of Passport Bros
08:54 - Discussion on antipathy towards African women within communities
10:04 - Exploration of reasons behind dislike towards African women
11:03 - Analysis of colorism and racial perceptions affecting attitudes
12:55 - Discussion on importance of exposure and understanding
15:30 - Highlighting preferences for Eritrean, Somalian women
16:28 - Listener viewpoint, associating prejudice with self-hate, ignorance
17:11 - Comments on online hate impact, calls out ignorance
18:30 - Emphasis on detrimental effect of online hate
19:08 - Citing self-hate, ignorance, societal influences as prejudice reasons
20:28 - Discussion on influence of upbringing, personal choice on views
21:15 - Sharing of personal experience with family colorism
22:29 - Argument that miscommunication, misunderstanding are issue sources
23:58 - Argument that understanding, education can dissolve stereotypes
24:37 - Analysis of prejudice causes including ignorance, personal experiences, colorism
25:12 - Discussion on potential for change in attitudes towards Africa
26:15 - Call out on irrationality of writing hateful online comments
27:22 - Proposition that some black men stereotype black women
28:01 - Suggestion that men feel comfortable with mixed racial background women
28:59 - Suggestion that men may make connections based on past experiences
29:33 - Argument that mixed-race and international relationships get more publicity
31:30 - Narration of early-age manifestation of colorism
33:24 - Expression of confusion and disagreement with bias against African women
34:27 - Encouragement to tackle internalized biases and judge based on character
35:17 - Discussion on prevalence of skin-lightening cream in Uganda, Congo connection
36:21 - Conclusion of episode, sharing of social handles, and encouragement for dark-skinned women
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When Austin came to Africa he had 50,000 subs he is now over 60,000 and most of them are black men in America so this whole segment claiming black men hate on Africa is LIES!
@@Naija4K
It's not lies, claiming otherwise is a lie. Also that's not even most of his subs. Black people be preferring mixed and 'exotic' women, even Austin himself. Some african men are like this too unfortunately. Except with african men they're more obsessed with skintone than other features (at least for the moment)
@@blackblaze5271 8 out of 10 black men prefer black women....
@@Naija4K
What does that even mean? 😄😄 These things are always so vague. By black do you mean not racially ambiguous whatsoever and how'd they even get these numbers? Self reporting? That's not the best way to find out the truth. We live in an age that some people seem to think determining the truth is so easy and certain
It's possible those men might have a problem with women in general.
It is very possible. They might have unresolved issues with their mothers. It could happen to any race of man
If they are hating on their own women, what makes you think they will not hate on African women.
If you know what's good for you keep homosexuality & feminism out of your culture. Stop posting about what you don't know.
They are looking for excuse to find white skin women.
A lot of the men who are hating on black women in America are African and Caribbean
Exactly
It's internalized hate. They have had such bad experiences with blk women in America they want nothing to do with any females that remind them of blk women from the hood I guess, I don't even know.
Black women world wide are mind blowingly beautiful lol 💪🏾💪🏾🙌🏿
My sister is a narcissistic B so please do not gas us all up smh they out here taking people's will to live, and yall praise them
Big facts.. I absolutely love black women bad or good
@@Tictoktrends simp
That's enough jokes
Am south Sudanese man and I was relocating to UK..I remember a Kenyan dude advised me to marry white woman once arrived.I think the guy was reflecting his colorism on me.south Sudanese we tend to embrace our culture.marrying someone because of skin tone is a damn excuse
@taburnmusic6634 most african continental men and women feel the way you described. They are quick to run to white
If she is white she will obey and never question you about anything, more importantly you can cheat on her right in her face.
Good for you...that Kenyan man was and probably still is duft....
Stay with your own.
No strange women can be good for men who doesn't look like us.
You are Right I’m Mozambican 🇲🇿 woman I really agree with you may we continue to lift up our culture….best Regards 🇨🇭🇨🇭🇨🇭
African women are absolutely adorable, they're soft spoken,very feminine,mild tempered,and very cooperative. I love chocolate women.
Until they meet a black American man who treats them like a doormat. African women are like that because our culture creates men who complement us. They marry us and take care of their families. Black men don't want to settle down.
May be East African women not west africa women
@kcchrustop how you determine that ? Cos East African have the phenotype and features close to white self hating man
@@kcchristopand why is that? West African women aren’t traditional as well as East African? Well I don’t think west African women are worried about ur opinion cos they still marrying and raising children in a complete home with father figure providing for them. So move along self hating animal
@kcchristop I am Ethiopian woman. You are self-hating. Your ancestors are from weat Africa
My wife is a dark skin African and I’m from the US I wouldn’t change it for the world
They are colorist, and passport bros are spiritually dead.
They need to take a long hard look at themselves in the mirror before they talk about other people, especially women who they love to criticize. They must be crashing bores to date, they talk more about women,than women talk about women😅
There are like 10 marriages I know between Black American men and West African women and that includes Nigerian women. The parents were on board. I’m also a Cameroonian woman married to a black American man. We do marry each other. Then again I grew up in the DMV. My parents never had a problem with me marrying a Black American man but I was turned of to dating some of them because of the cheapness, anti-blackness or colorism they perpetuated towards me. I’m not prejudice and I am only receptive towards men who treat me well regardless of ethnicity.
It’s not common
@@tyronelorenzovalentio3414 It's not as uncommon as you think. I have a Ghanaian friend whose mother told her to date a black American if she was going to date an American because she wanted only black grand babies.
...and these are supposed to builders of their communities? So they will build their community by giving away their resources to non-black women? That's the height of irresponsibility, and the main reason a real African woman won't even be checking for you.
You can't handle a bride price in a little known Igbo village in Nigeria, so go chill.
For real 😂
@sonofnok2153 I get it. Much like the the entire continent of africa that gives away all its resources to foreigners and not to their own people, but when it comes to marriage they do the right thing 🤔. Got it
@@mikejones-wn1sw
Oh no you didn't get it. Will never get it in a million yrs. Matter of fact, you're not meant to get it.
Anu mpama!
@@sonofnok2153 and don't care to get a contradictory people such as yourself. You can have all those african women to yourself. It's a good thing. Why be upset if no one desires the women you created but you
@@mikejones-wn1sw
You know why you will never get it? You noticed you the only species who is doing this fuckery?
Leave your women behind, going all over the world giving away resources, spreading your seeds which is gonna be aborted anyway, while at the same time bashing your women?
Don't you know that a specie that does not reproduce itself is bound to go extinct? Yet you cry about how "we need to build our community"?
I'm not the one who's crying about not having "a community".
That sister said it. SELF HATE, IGNORANCE, ETC. Plain and simple!!!!
Self hate were not the same tribe black American men and women are Hebrew. We come from God.
Oshea I love your honesty about how some passport bros dislike African women. It’s a phenotype thing
It's a self hatred thing
Which phynotype cuz Africa has so many different ethnic groups. Africa is more than west Africa 😪
@@missethio7394central/southern/east Africans all came from coastal west Africa(just like black 🇺🇸) . They’re all the same race and/or r closely related. When the say “Africans” that’s the group they mean. They need to deal with their self hatred and keep the rest of us out of it 😂😂
@@MoYessir lol
@@MoYessir In Africa we have so many different ethnic groups and they all look different from one another. People in Africa have traveled, migrated and settled around in different regions. We have Bantu ppl, Cushitic ppl, Nilotic ppl, Khoisan ppl, Yoruba/Hausa ppl etc. in west Africa there is the Fulani tribe who are of Cushitic ethnicity which is why they look identical to ppl of horn Africa (Somali, Djibouti, Eritrea, Ethiopia). Like I said when it comes to Africa it’s all about ethnicity. We are not a monolith as a continent. It’s stupid & racist to even think that
I agree, most passport brothers look for women of light to white shade. I had a AA man tell my man in front of me that he only date exotic women, which he didn't consider AA women exotic. So I believe they have this fake perception that lighter is righter. I know factually that that is false, but everyone doesn't use rational thinking. I choose to just continue to date the AA men who are smart enough to know women are individuals.
Yes, these pp bros do not strike me as particularly bright.
U don’t know anything
Anyone who hate one gender of their race needs to seek mental health first before choosing a partner. Nobody says who can’t love others, it’s just you can’t be hating and degrading your own. Saying I love this because I hate that is problematic.
Exactly ! And their delusions think other groups of women would welcome them with open arms. African women see the value in our own men, we are not desperate for run away men who can’t fix their community just hopping from one community to another. There’s no pride in that
Passport bros are just sick in the head
It should tell you a lot about who they are. If you hate your own women who give birth to you what does that say about your mentality
Great topic Oshay real black issues discussed in a civilised intelligent way
No lies detected. Great discourse. What you said about East African women in particular Somali /Eriterean women is true. In general they are protective of their culture and women and phenotype. Somalis in particular. If he is AA or any other, he must be financially above and beyond to marry into the culture. Uncomfortable truths , time to connect.
I can confirm that because I am Ethiopian woman
We can be racist to ourself, it’s bigger than what people think. Self hatred.
Spot on, we have been mentally beaten down to the point of hating the image we see in the mirror and it's very sad.
i was bullied for being light skin, by black people!
RPNDWORLDWIDE
No you can't be "racist" to yourself. That's such a basic misunderstanding of racism. It's called "selfhate". Racism is *between* races. Hating another race. If you're the same race you hate yourself
Looking at the statistics on black on black violence, we disproportionate abuse and mistreat each other far more than the other ethnic groups treat us; the self hate is horrendous!!!!
@@lifealliancegroup
Every group commits more crime against themselves. I sympathize with the sentiment though, that there's too much harm from black people against each other. But it's silly to automatically attribute that to self hate
I Love All My Black Women From All Countries❤❤❤❤
Thank you Freeway1975 for being so positive and real. I'm a Southern Black American woman who was raised in a two-parent household with a father that always provided and I'm a daddy's girl. So I grew up respecting myself and I know how to respect and treat a man. I'm pretty sure whoever calls you husband now or maybe in the future will be a lucky woman.🙏🏽🥰
Do you love Black American women? 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻
@laurenclark1990 Ma’am is you’re reading comprehension bad🤨🤔
@@laurenclark1990aren't black american women black?
@@laurenclark1990Yes we do! We love our Sister’s. It’s the modern woman that we reject
Passport brother are people who cannot find what they are looking for in a partner in there country. They typically have a problem so even if they find a partner abroad it won't last. Typically they have problem with relationship which goes with them everywhere. Having a college degrees don't mean you are capable of having a relationship.
Typical woman who dosen't know what she's talking about.
In Japan Passport Bros are called Losers Back Home
Passport Brothers should speak for themselves. You just cant make generalizations about Bm as a Bm I reject that.
Right, I married a Haitian woman and no disrespect to my wife but I see many African women as worthy of marriage
Oshay hates passport bros when it comes to africa. He knows he cant tell the truth about the conditions in africa because hes an outsider and could be killed for talking down but he has balls babbling from africa about african american men and who we choose to date. Dude aint had one marriage or long term healthy relationship but always crying about who other Black men sleep with. Him and umar are entertaining characters. if he wants an african woman so much he should marry one and stop buying prostitutes
And, there are MANY Black American women, who are deserving of marriage, as well. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻
Interesting how generalizations against Black American women are considered to be alright! 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹
Is a narrative that Austin's trying to push to get away from passport brogues because he messed it up for his cell Diamond Brazil so he's going to throw the group under the bus and O'Shea has no problem with that because he is based in Africa and he needs controversy but he knows most people really don't care the reason why most Americans don't go to Africa because of the extra $800 for all the shots for yellow fever and malaria and other stuff like that
Job well done my brother, I appreciate your effort to navigate the uncomfortable truths of our peoples ....
Always remember from birth Africa and stories of Africa has been and still are projected throughout the world in a negative light so people have these preconceived notions and stigmas in their minds they would have to go there in person with an open mind and heart to arrive at their own conclusions, keep up the good work
😂 LoL funny cuz the African women they hating on are Nigerian women and seriously as a Nigerian man I can boldly say that our women are not even going to give in to y’all 😂.
We dont want them bruh its okay. By all means do yall.
Who in the hell want a lawd mouth Nigerian woman. I'm black American and I never heard any us bring up Nigerian women or African women in general. We talk about brazil, DR, Columbia never Africa
@@poloststyles2669sounds about right. Most black men aren’t attracted to Afrocentric features so of course they would go for the most mixed white looking people in the diaspora. It makes perfect sense actually
We good 👍 not hating please stay in Nigeria please
Bro I've seen Nigerian women with wigs just placed on their heads😂😂😂😂 ain't nobody checking for them lol
Black women are the most beautiful on the planet! Hands down!
That's enough jokes
When are we going to discuss the economic state of black men and how that affects their mating habits/strategy.
So, it's only Black American MEN, who are part of Black America? You all don't have a Black American, feminine counterpart? 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼
When are you going to look in the mirror and ask why you choose Black men in the economic state they are in. I personally don't know any broke brothers because I choose not to be around people constantly borrowing and begging. I also know PLENTY of beautiful hard working sisters that cant rub two dimes together but they dont choose broke men.
Most black I know and see around are very well off economically...
@@BryanHamiltonBrizzle according to your standards.....look at the TOP richest men in the world....how many of them are black??? lol...blck men dont even know what wealth is....
A lot of black men are oversexed and all they want to do is talk about women, high school mentality never left them.
It's interesting to me that there is an assumption that all the negative comments are from African Americans and not from other groups posing as African Americans. Our divisiveness benefits someone. Maybe some try to exploit that. I'm African American and I have nothing but love and respect for our African brothers and sisters.
This.💯🎯
Very true. Lots of whites behind black pics here
I wish this was the case, but I see too many Black men ready to put down Black women at the drop of the hat.
I can't help but see it as self-hatred.
@@jefferycharles4849fuck all bm
I can honestly see Africans doing this.
I think the dating culture has a Western origin and is problematic and clashes with other cultured relationships which really boils down to mordan versus traditional differences, traditionally virginity is a number one factor in determining marriagabillity and can become a life and death issue for the female.
Facts
There has not been anything more aptly said on the internet in years!
@ShakorPicou and we know an well none of them are virgins. And that's from continent to continent. Miss us with that bs. African women are probably the top in paternity fraud.
Facts
My husband told me that the only thing BM want with BW is to “Hit it and Go”.
Black men don’t lead black women to church on dates. They wait black women out to only lead them to a 1/2 star rated motel.
Black men are the biggest whores on earth. So, when Jesus’ judges this world he is lowering the axe on black men too. You are NOT virtuous men. And, from what I see on the internet they are having sex with one another.
Also, they have vulgar sexual practices with foreign women. They can keep it moving.
I love this discussion. Keep it coming. Jonita...what up Chick?
If you collect 100 black ants and 100 fire ants and put them in a glass jar nothing will happen. But if you take the jar, shake it violently and leave it on the table, the ants will start killing each other.
Reds believe that black is the enemy, while black believes that red is the enemy, when the real enemy is the person who shook the jar. The same is true in society.
Men vs Women Black vs White Faith vs Science Youngs vs Old etc...
Before we fight each other, we must ask ourselves: Who rocked the jar?
Yup, Somebody is shaking the jar!!!
true never i heard that passport bro saying bad things about african women. someones creating drama...
I was dating a Nigerian girl, when I met her mom she said “is this the best you can do” she thought I was coming from a bad background but as we talked and she found out me parents (mom school teacher and dad works in the OR and I was going to college (2013) she opened up and started talking more and “accepting” of me
I'm pretty sure that some of the dislike stems from how many of the African American women are in the U.S. Many do act like men and many have been trained to not respect men in the U.S. So some of these men expect the African women to be the same. Plus many of these brothers have bee brain washed about Africa.
Why are SOME Black American women operating in masculine energy? Are they being nurtured, nourished, loved, and protected by you all? Do you even see Black American women as women? What are the historical connotations of that? Your comments are the results of putting Black American men's issues on the forefront, without any care or regard for your own women. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 You really don't know your own women. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻
You are brainwashed about your own Black American women. However, I guess you choose, which form of brainwashing you choose to accept. You don't know about your own HERstory of women; neither do you care. 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 Yet, the self-hating concepts against Black American WOMEN seem to be accepted. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸
No keep African women out of your mouths. You have no respect for your women whom you hate for being black. But will run to racist people for validation. Be quiet
Maybe the women had to be like men because they were left to bring up their children alone and have to act like the mother and father, had to go to work to feed the children and have a roof over their heads. I hear they have a lot of single parent families in the US, that can't be easy for the women and maybe some men.
This girl Tina, she said the most accurate points in the episode. Shout out to her
I love the look on Jonitas face during the split screen.
I often speak on how beautiful and rare the extremely dark women of Africa are but some Brothas have told me they just couldn’t do it. They say “that’s too dark for me.” To me that is the primary attraction because of it’s rarity and beauty. We really don’t see this in America. We may catch a glimps now and then.
TINA is so sexy (in my opinion). Her eyes,lips and complexion really set her off!
I don’t understand the man who could look at her and disagree but they are out here. 😕
There are very dark skin beautiful women in America, and they are catching hell because of their skin color. Your'e just not looking.
She hit the nail on the head, “anti blackness.”
Most African women are ugly.
Well, if they are "anti-Black" against Black American women, how do you think they will be around you? 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻
Everybody knows that's the reason.
@Myraisins1 exactly, can you explain the skin bleaching epidemic on the african continent
@mikejones-wn1sw
That is an issue but not a general problem the day me as an African get to meet a bleached Masai is the day I will believe Africans bleach. It is common in some tribes but you can not generalise it.
I can relate to this content considering I lived 6 years in Puerto Plata Dominican Republic and recently relocated to Durban South Africa, the dialogue amongst the panel is spot on..informative & entertaining vlog 👍🏽
DR vs South Africa. Which one do you pick?
@@ronpl8473 Both places have there strength’s & opportunities for improvements, yet me personally Durban SA all the way👍🏽✌🏽
Have you married yet since that's what y'all say y'all looking to do as passport brothas or as the lady said glsmourize sex.
@@coolbreezeinpuertoplata4470 Nice
My best friend is from west Africa and he just came back from South Africa. Dude says I go there I’m probably getting married on the spot. Says the women there are very beautiful and the bodies are glorious 😂 I’m taking the trip
As a Black American man, most of us dont come in direct contct with African women. The population of Africans in America is small, and we dont know them as well. But to be honest there are some negative stereotypes of Africans in general that may play a roll in dating.
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Yessir africans hang with africans and thats okay. Different people different culture all good for them but we good round here
@@hellisgood666not true l hang around with everybody as long as we understand each other. I treat everyone on an individual bases.
@@patiencekonney4922 Me too but as far as the majority africans hang around their own. No one can deny they hang out on their own and most of their parents tell them dont hang with black americans. its cool with me
There are A LOT of negative stereotypes about Black American women. Yet, a number of your brethren will believe them, in order to justify hatred against your own women-Black American women. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸
In Jamaica many be bleach they skin to look "good like a white woman"
And yes many man do it to look pretty pretty like Michael Jackson and Vibez Kartel.😮
World over.
I run the biggest passport bros fb group 20K and I can assure you no one is hating on African women lol
lets do a show lol
Never heard passport bros say anything bad about African women. Oshay slick. Austin loving africa.
Historically black men in the states have always been called out for not being attracted to Afrocentric features. They’ve always been known for chasing white girls and dating out their race so I definitely think African woman would be on the bottom of their list. They will look for a white Spanish girl or a mixed looking girl instead. Also african woman don’t really find American men attractive for marriage because of the cultural differences. African woman are more likely to marry Caribbean black man then an American western black man
African women don’t go for a Caribbean man if they are trying to date outside their culture they would always choose a white man first. Secondly I don’t think Ados men have an issue with Afrocentric features or whatever that means. I believe they are not attracted to their women bc of how their women are as a culture. Notice how most men in America don’t want an Ados woman. I’ve never lived in America I’ve only been there for a bit and I could understand why Ados men don’t want their women in marriage anymore. The women there lack so many skills & I find it weak that they blame it on features & color. Who thinks like that? Like what?? Most men just want a traditional woman no matter what the woman looks like and like I said Ados women don’t have the skills they had once
Caribbean women will go for an African man rather than Black American.
@@missethio7394 yeah that’s truee but it’s also a culture issue as well. Africans have a lot of cultural beliefs and stuff that they do as tradition which American men don’t really know about since they are American
@@islandsun8235 and vis versa Africans and Caribbean’s match well most of the time since the cultures and beliefs are soo similar
@@missethio7394 That's cap. Caribbean and African are closely similar in culture. Even some of the foods are similar. American people just stand out due to their proximity to Euro culture. There is more of a superiority complex than a pride complex when concerning looking down on African. And they are attracted to the mixed or ambiguous look. Men and women.
If you'd watch the podcast, you wouldn't give that reverse response.
The majority of Western women from U.S.A., U.K., and Canada are masculine! The Passport Bros. exist for a reason!
Yeah many are going to have sex and if they are not then many wouldn't be having sex outside of marriage?
Life is serious. Many ignorant people tend to trivialize the lives of others. Knowledge is key.
African women seem very objective towards black Americans
LOVE you guys!! 🔥🔥🔥 🖤from the LDN!
SALUTE TO THE CREW!✊🏾 GOOD TOPIC!
Most passport bros go to non-black countries. There’s a reason for that.
What reason?
I’m sorry I STRONGLY disagree. I love me some women from the motherland. And Africans proportionally show me more love stateside than Ados/Foba. My wife is African. Ain’t no way. Lol.
Inspiring young lady. Her pride in Ghana resonated.
I love my black women wherever they are
No u don't just date in America
Trust me deep down you would rather be with a mixed biracial hally berry than a nina Simone. U only like African women when they have" good features".
I'm not judging you I'm just stating facts.
How sad for you.
I hope you get tested
I agree with Oshay's points about colorism, but some of the parents of those women in Latin America or South America, will still look at black American men in disdain.
Blck amarican men are not viewed as a prize no matter where you go in the world. Even in Africa.
So true, my mum and her Uncles were very colonists, did not like Black menat all
The conversation ended where it should begin. So this is what it is globally we all hate ourselves and each other. This is where our healing will begin. Thanx for at least trying to tackle it guys ❤
Who doesn’t
Sis sorry but not each and every bw is cute and friendly looking like you. U have to understand that. Don't judge
@@lorenzbeaumacc1175
she's not judging, selfhate among black people isn't limited to ugly people, lol. it's race based
It's an individual thing. I'm a blk woman, I envy every woman which means I hate every woman and see them as a threat. Even when I was married I was jealous of other women eyes, dimples, clothes, hair, smiles, you name it.
My primary hate target was and still is women.
Looking at nature, animal kill their own kind too, baby birds kick their sibling out of the nest so they can get more attention or food.
@@lorenzbeaumacc1175 wow thanx I didn't know I was cute and nice looking. Normally it really doesn't matter how we look. We all look the same
Great content!
Great conversation
It's not the fact that their lighter. It is because they're mixed, looking.
True, someone dark like Chili from TLC or Tatiana Ali from Fresh Prince of Bel Air is acceptable to many supposed black men who don't prefer fully black "looking" women.
They are dark-skinned but obviously mixed, with very long hair.
Also, it doesn't have to be an issue to have that preference either. There are varieties of looks, so obviously it cant be wring "per se" to prefer them.
As long as you don't have to pay for it with brokenness, imho.
Please don't take what Oshay says as gospel -- this is just his opinion. (It would have been nice to include some stats.) BM-WW marriages have the highest divorce rate of all marriages, but BW-WM have the longest lasting marriages -- even longer than WM-WW. I think a lot of Black men today are just confused. They think whiteness/proximity to whiteness is feminine, or that such women are "malleable" as Oshay says, but obviously Black men are misguided in this view, or divorce rates between BM-WW wouldn't be the highest.
It seems Black men have been brainwashed by western media -- the standard of beauty and femininity is the white woman, and Black women, particularly darker Black women, are at the opposite end of that color spectrum.
Given the number of "Karen" videos online, (def not "malleable"), one would think Black men would see the fallacy in their reasoning -- but they don't.
They hate themselves so how can they love someone that looks like them!
Hm maybe in America because interracial marriage between African women and white men in general ends up in divorce. Same for African men and white women. And both end up coming back to their roots
That's why most black women don't care when we see bm and ww date or marriage. Because their divorce rate is high. If u notice bm are quite when they get a divorce or break up with a non black woman. They be quite 😅. And we know 95 percent of the time non black women is getting the same bm as bw get. 😅
@@sammajor2075 You're missing my point. Long marriages between BW-WM, I would posit, is because they marry for love of the person -- it's not a fetish. Whereas many BM-WW marriages are the result of a fetish. Many of those BM are marrying a color, not the person, which results in a high % of these marriages failing.
Re divorce, Black women as a demographic are educated and are highly represented in the workforce, and therefore are capable of supporting themselves -- divorce doesn't frighten them. Also given that most Black women, by far, marry Black men, it's Black men they're divorcing in large numbers. The common denominator in WW-BM and BW-BM divorce rates is Black men.
Also why so many discussions including African American women with no African American women as guests?????
Thumbnail is funny either way.🤣
The longer people of African descent stay in Babylonian countries, the more the colonial mindset take root in their minds. But I'm glad to say that African is slowly but surely uniting. I hope this will spark the turning point for our brother and sister in foreign countries to go back to the continent of their origin to unit with other Africans where they will be loved and appreciated.
I don’t think anything about these “Passport Bros”. I have no use for a bunch of self-hating guys.
Sis this is not how we think
@@khalil_SRT don't explain shit to them. They think what they think. Don't change anyone's mind.
They think that way for sure but won't admit the truth.
@@khalil_SRT Thank you for the reply brother. How do you think? I am a little older as could be out of touch with some of the views.
@@WaynesWorld12 why you so mad? No need to use profanity.
I am African American. I've been a "passport Bro" for 18 years and happily married to a West African woman for 16 years. Africa is our redemption and inheritance.
😂😂🤣Oshay killing me the way he was looking to see what Tina would say when he was calling out those countries.
Once we love ourselves and each other we will all be just fine. We will even convert ourselves into #SuperPowerStatus!
Great discussion. The underlying issue here in the USA is colorism even though they try to down play it. Even Beyonce's father was honest about it.
Africa has all shades of people my friend the narrow and shallow reasoning of African Americans waiting to be told everything I don't know by who should stop if u can't find out anything by yourself who will find out for u??
@@billjames1216 Exactly 💯
True but it's not just in America. According to WHO, there's an epidemic of skin bleaching in Africa with Nigeria having the highest rate. I've seen several African women on UA-cam complaining about their men having a preference for light skinned women, Ethiopian women, etc even though these men are themselves dark skinned.
@ellg3441 you sound crazy. America has an issue with colorizim? We don't have a skin bleaching epidemic. But africans do. So do carribeans. Stop projecting
@@ravena3253 It's all the promotion that is shown on Mainstream Media. We have to push back by loving and embracing the skin we were born in. Let us not allow other people inflict their insecurities onto us.
It’s genuinely sad how we as a ppl have fallen for the anti-black lies that were told about us. We gotta work on getting rid of this foolishiness, because we all know that we didn’t just suddenly wake up one day and start hating ourselves.
@LawMakerBluan kill that nonesense. Most Brothers marry Foundational Black American women. Or they will get a women from the carribeans or Latin America. Most just don't desire continental african women. That is not self hate, because we are not even the same people. I doubt anyone is losing sleep over some african woman
@@mikejones-wn1sw Go be mad somewhere else troll. I don’t entertain any Black person that sows division between our ppl
Wym we not the same people ??
@@JuneThevolver where are you confused at. FOUNDATIONAL BLACK AMERICANS are not african. The out of africa is a false theory. If you can trace some african people to your genealogy then more than likely your not one of us. There us a reason why we don't desire to be with african people in general. This whole scenario is a forced one. It not anti black for my people because we are the only ones who actually embrace the term black and we marry and have children with Foundational black americans at a 99 % rate . and people in general. Just because we don't desire afrjcans doesn't mean we hate black people. He just have a strong dislike for our enemies. We also don't have a epidemic with skin bleaching like other ethnicities
@@mikejones-wn1swhat do you mean not the same people? Latins and Caribbeans are fine but aren’t they different? They have different culture speak different languages and have different beliefs the same as Africans so how come you don’t classify them as being different? That’s soo interesting 😂. Anyway it doesn’t matter cause most African woman don’t marry outside African men unless they white
😂Try coming to Africa for the first time in 2006. Working and living, there, home was Turkey, but that place was developing as well, but definitely better than the part of Africa that I was in. I between a rock and a pointier rock! However after leaving Africa in 2015, and returning in 2021! I appreciate the past experiences because I am aware of the progress at almost every level. It's good, but it ain't great, yet! 😊
Racheal is spot on! Love from the USA.
Absolutely 💯
11:40🎯 I from Detroit and a buddy of mine made a comment about a basketball players wife on TV. He said he was doing good because he had a "light skinned wife". 😕 "light skinned wife"? I thought about it and he was attempting to throw shade at me and my brother because our wives are dark skinned (which I always loved dark skinned women😍) and their women are light skinned. It's really sad. colorism is the reason.
So inadvertently the light skinned women must be downgrading with their black self 🤣. So they uplift a skin color and downgrade theirs- the mental illness is real 🤣
I'm glad colorism is being put on front street.
How did African women get in the conversation involving Passport Bros?
of course someone is shaking the jar
The one thing that am concerned about at the moment is a fact sheet of what resources are in each and every African country.. how much is being taken by the west, how we can get it back and distribute it amongst our people. Africans need to claim their sense of pride.
Good analysis Oshae You have become more thoughtful and good at this.
I have seen your content over the last 4 plus years and generally did not like it.
You have evolved.
Bravo.
African American men rarely marry so Iadrican women definitely don’t expect them to get married
This is not gonna last long, just like it didn’t last long in Latin countries
I think the envy of "white beauty" has damaged the psychological make up of black people. We need to transcend spiritually, above this imposed ceiling of supposed beauty. That's where colourism, straight wigs or human hair extensions comes from. Where the need to lighten the family tree comes from. I was blessed with a chocolate, afro-haired beauty with brains and humility.
Your soulmate can be any colour, shape or size, but just seek with the inner eyes.
And they make them pay for things!
In Houston our African and african American communities blend. We do go to church together and most nigerians i know married american ..
Passport bros sole intention IS to meet women abroad. There are so many UA-cam videos on it
Passport bro are sex tourists, they are not looking for "Traditional wives". They way the talk about women on some of these You tube videos, sounds like they are looking to buy a car, to going to get a slab of meat. Gross.
I wouldn't trade my african women for nothing in the world most feminine caring woman I meet in my life I wouldn't go anywhere else but Africa
We are all damage and need to be fix. How can we get a long as a people. That's something I would like you people to talk about. My sister Rscheal said it, it is our problem we need to fix it
We see passportbros come over to Africa and still find the lightest brightest African. They rarely find dark or brown women . The only passport bro I like is PassportAction. That bro travels for fun and definitely loves his blackness.
Whats the problem with that tho?? If they find themselves a woman from the continent (OR ANYWHERE ELSE)???
Nah that’s a lie these men usually go for more traditional feminine women wether they dark or light. I believe every man no matter their ethnicity just wants a traditional woman doesn’t matter what she looks like. American women have lost their way which is why a lot of their men are unfortunately single & unmarried
As a dark skinned woman... I'm so tired of this narrative! I cannot be every negative stereotype known to mankind placed on me!
@@wendyparks8317ignore shallow, dim-wits, toxic, inferiority complex, self-hating, bitter people who don’t feel good about themselves and they are in every RACE and INCOME bracket as they are always projecting their insecurities on others
That's not true. Actually the majority of BA men married with african women living in the continent, their women are dark skin. Everything I meet a BA in thr continent with an african women, the woman is dark skin
I've been a passport bro sense before it was considered some kind of movement and I LOVE me some African women mmmmm yes!!! Stop fronting man!!!
You married yet since you been a passport brothas for a long time? You should have found a submissive wife by now. Or you just having as much sex?
Geeez! It’s like dentistry getting a answer from Tina!!!!!
I have a extreme appreciation for the beautiful Nubian women and all their shades.
Most of those negative comments are from foundational black Americans.
I think some men go to countries where their reputation is not ruined, already.
Some people may be dating due to stereotypes of women, but totally ignoring that they need that unequal perception/reality for it to function. Certain dynamics between the two parties come into play.
There is always "need" or desperation on one side. Is it still "attractive" to a passport bro, if the lady in D. R is akready doing well?
Is it the "well to do" Brazilian women from wealthy families they are interested in?
Not sure how likely it would be, that they would be interested in those upper-class, educated, well travelled and accomplished circles in D. R, Thailand , Brazil, Mexico etc. The dynamics would be different.
Also, black American abroad is actually an American-black.
Their race is minimised because what is important about them, when abroad, is rather their nationality. Dollars=access="success", basically.
It's not even wrong to prefer something different, traditional or "exotic", but it's unhealthy, if you need to have active unresolved issues, to do it. Also, if the lady imprives her lot in life during the relationship, would these passport bros feel threatened by it? I don't know.
Life is just too short.
In America, boys are raised and taught to share with their sisters, so they know women here know their rights and will not tolerate selfish stuff from our brothers. Men hunt for a woman who they don't have to share anything with, no cooking, no cleaning, no back talk...just free as a bird.
ODJ has so much wisdom!
At skinlightingOshayBlack is not loading 😭
I’ve only watched upto minute 6 but I wholly and absolutely agree with Tina’s take on the problematic passport bro culture. I totally dislike the commodification of women by these kind of men, and it pits women against each other. So for example, as an African woman, am I supposed to feel ‘better than’ my black American sisters because I’m supposedly ‘more feminine’? Also, it’s a healthy breeding ground for a ‘pick-me’ attitude.
Also, Self-hate with these passport bros is real!! The so-called problematic American (black) women birthed these same men and are their relatives. Why hate your own or prefer other over yours? And yes Oshay, colourism too
you have a lot to say for just six minutes of watching
Life has always been a competition. It's not wrong for any gender to seek the best qualities they can get in a partner. If alot of men find those qualities to be more prevalent in African women than African American women. Then that's just their preference. It's not about explotation or pinning anyone against anyone. Life itself pins the strong against the weakest. Men have always known this. And operate accordingly to try to be the best.
How does a brideprice culture NOT facilitate a "pick me " society. The self hate and greed allows any half dead, perverted, old white man to come and buy an African wife. You really need to look at your own culture of putting women on sale.
Exactly!!!!
I agree completely the way they talk about AA women you would think they didn't birth them, disgusting, to say the least.
The anti-gay legislation recently passed by Uganda set the precedent for other African nations to follow! Ghana, Tanzania, Kenya and many more countries in Africahave mandated, or, are in the process of mandating, laws to address and prevent these individuals from establishing their network on the continent. African chiefs, leaders and lawmakers are not blind and certainly not naive to what is being attempted on the African continent by western agents of dissension. My commentary is uncomfortable for some to discuss and consider, but nevertheless, it needs to be brought out in the open and addressed for the preservation of African culture and the protection of African women and children! 🖤...♥️...💛...🤍... ! A wise person once said that 'those who forget history are doomed to repeat it'...!
eldercraft8912
But they won't implement anything similar for europeans coming as sex tourists and also exploiting underage children in africa. The fact that the only thing africans can appear to unite on is attacking gay africans is an embarrassment not a win and shows our displaced priorities. We won't go after any european legacies or institutions but only what we personally find distasteful. But this distaste was also brought to us by the west mainly right wing white christians 😄.
Uganda wasn't looking at any of these things until a group of white missionaries (western agents) in uganda became active on the issue. Why are we suddenly banning something we've never felt the need to ban? This is false african empowerment. Stand up against any white person as an african that's in africa and most africans would attack you in their defense, call you "racist" etc. This whole idea that this is a display of african identity or 'african values' is a sham. Letting people be who they are isn't hurting anyone
eldercraft8912, Iam so thankful that the African leaders stood up against America's attempt at introducing a self annihilation platform to Africa.👍👍👍
If a passport bro wants to step out of their comfort zone to meet new people, experience new culture, invest. If it is just to sleep around, then that is an issue
Men should stop going for their preferences instead go for standards ✍🏽
How.? Where.? I have only heard positive things.?
Right this is the first
Exactly this is not a thing.
As soon as I can ill be over in Africa looking for a wife.
Wise man speaks
It is a lot harder than you think. Marrying an African woman requires going through screening by family members. You have to be really successful to overcome the negative black American stereotypes that may hinder acceptance
6:50 Yes, you are correct... Glorified, S3X Tourism!
Oshay sneakers getting raggedy due to walking on those dirt roads 😂
I love African women. My fiancée is from Djibouti. She’s of Somali descent.
Stop no somalia want marriage outside race
@@luulluuy Somalis are the same color as me. We will get married soon
@@OhhCyrus in your dreams there is no somalia women want to married outside race
@@luulluuy Baloney! I lived in Djibouti and plenty of Somali women married White French men. I’m American. My Somali woman is beautiful and will marry me even though her family disowned her. Love is more powerful and can conquer racism.
@@OhhCyrus she isn’t somalia maybe l know my people she afar Ethiopia ethic their no somalia family want their daughter to married outside race
I never seen nobody say that on UA-cam myself so I need to see that myself! And for Austin, he said "AMERICAN WOMEN" he didn't say what race of women so folks need to quit thinking he is talking about black women.....
Agreed; most passport bros are not interested in any American or European women.
All of the brothers I know here love African women. No negative comments in the Washington DMV area.
When you talk about certain topics I wish you had other panellist that know about it in-depth. The lack of familiarity is kinda obvious sometimes
TINA IS THE SH1$! ONPOINT! ON THE MONEY! I saw one of these Passport Bros and the brother was in Cuba talking about how he lives like a king. Then he talked about the women and how Latin women "claim" a man as theirs after one date and become angry and jealous if he gives other women his attention. He was trying to be respectful of the women, but there was no other way to view what was going on. He can have a different woman every night of the week. He's either a Ho or couldn't get enough play in his home country to be a Ho, so he travels to poor Latin countries and pretends to be prey for the prey. He's got money, he walks in a room and the most beautiful women in the world give him the look that let him know, it's okay. That can be any woman in general, but it became clear that when you have mixed cultures or even a darker Brazilian or Dominican with silky hair it's okay for a woman to want you because you can make their life easier with the money you have. As long as it's not a black woman that's trying to find a man of means. These black men are too good for black women. Most of them don't have two degrees and one doesn't make you a genius. Who can't travel on a dime with small savings, frequent flyer miles? How many of them have actually married any of these women? Not that they won't, but how many of these Passport Bros have married any of these women? Austin is right. Those black men don't like who they are and who better to blame for them being black than the black women that brought them into the world. If these women know how to treat a man it's because they have all the time in the world to work on it. They don't spend their days and nights working to the bone trying to take care of a family in countries where the cost of living keeps you behind the curve even when you're not trying to do it by yourself. Besides, the work opportunities aren't there for them. Those brothers are delighted that "they" are the work opportunities for those women. They'll make a man their whole world, especially if he can get them out of their countries. Black people in America, Europe, and Africa have to work hard to make it in this world. I don't care what race or nationality of women any of those men want. Don't take your issues out on black women. Every time I see strong black women express themselves on shows like this one, As an African American woman, I know that we as black women come straight outta Africa, because as different as we are, we are so much alike it's obvious, we didn't still any of our uniqueness, beauty strength, determination, and take no bullshit attitude. Those black men are the ones who will try to assimilate into the Latin culture in America before they realize America doesn't want them. They can't handle a black woman. ONLY A REAL MAN CAN DO THAT.!
You are someone I can understand. African in America. This is my experience....and they refuse to grow up.....50year old boy type of thing is serious and real...
Y'all need to just shut up and be silent. You don't want to fill traditional roles. Leave the passport bros alone. White men & others have done it for centuries. American bw don't want bm or marriage anyway so none of you should be on these sites bashing bm. They don't have to limit themselves to dysfunction. Bw in the USA "Don't need no man!" Request granted. African feminists need to be silent too. The passport bros aren't looking for you. Feminists = disturbed, unnatural, miserable, women.
Africa is a much harder place for western blacks to navigate unless they have strong family ties there already
It was easy for me
@@scraw3Yep, I went to Kenya almost 10 years ago and traveled solo. Zero issues at all…and things are even better now 🤷🏾♂️
Excuses 🤡
@@OL_Skool_Swole I'm going back to e. Africa and hopefully never return to the u.s. unless I got a very good reason
It cost 2k for a one way ticket to Africa right now. Most Americans don't have that in savings. Not only that why hop on a plane for 25 hours and spend 2k before you even get there when you can spend 2k on your flight and 1st month airbnb in Mexico, DR, Colombia? Makes no sense
I'm a Africa American and I just tell you the truth a just married a dark skin African woman. It's the culture African-American men they do not know the culture I just paid my wife's broad price it's all about understanding the culture. When Africa come to America they look down on they feel that we are spoiled because we was raised in the European society and they think African Americans feel they are better than them. And personally I wasn't it I've never felt that way I enjoy learning new cultures. And I understand why the broad prices and honestly I agree with it for my queen she was it's just insurance to the bride's family if the man abuse her or dies. Understanding is the key
I wouldn't associate or declare myself a part of anyone group that be hating on black women.