Question ? I’ve heard it said through many videos that people don’t dress up for their spouses . What should couples do when spouses come home late or work odd hours that would require the other person to be “dressed up” during hours they should be asleep. Should that person lose sleep just to look a specific way and then end up looking stressed and old from lack of sleep. I’m just curious how this works out. I know many people whose spouses get off from work in the middle of the night . Should they wake up and get dressed 🤷🏾♀️ Anywho I focus more on cheaters holding themselves accountable . There are spouses who go through all of what was described here as reasons people cheated . What’s the reason those particular people choose not to cheat as a result of what the other person “did or failed to do” or how they were “feeling”? Cheating is a choice and reflection of character, beliefs, and morals . Hold people accountable 💯 This is a fallen world .
No offense I don't think he's talking about that type of situation or moment to be "dressing up" he is speaking in general. Not looking for the moments where it makes zero sense to be waiting all dressed up looking nice. There are days and times that people don't work and or have down time that they can then put the effort. Let's not be a professional misser of the point
What if the spouse that is demeaning and is underinvested in the relationship and division of labor is the one cheating? I feel like mostcof these are you did X so I did Y. I know I failed my wife at times and she failed me at times, it’s just hard wrapping my head around the “real” why ps:Job doesn’t get enough credit
Question ? I’ve heard it said through many videos that people don’t dress up for their spouses . What should couples do when spouses come home late or work odd hours that would require the other person to be “dressed up” during hours they should be asleep. Should that person lose sleep just to look a specific way and then end up looking stressed and old from lack of sleep. I’m just curious how this works out.
I know many people whose spouses get off from work in the middle of the night . Should they wake up and get dressed 🤷🏾♀️
Anywho
I focus more on cheaters holding themselves accountable . There are spouses who go through all of what was described here as reasons people cheated . What’s the reason those particular people choose not to cheat as a result of what the other person “did or failed to do” or how they were “feeling”? Cheating is a choice and reflection of character, beliefs, and morals .
Hold people accountable 💯
This is a fallen world .
No offense I don't think he's talking about that type of situation or moment to be "dressing up" he is speaking in general. Not looking for the moments where it makes zero sense to be waiting all dressed up looking nice. There are days and times that people don't work and or have down time that they can then put the effort. Let's not be a professional misser of the point
What if the spouse that is demeaning and is underinvested in the relationship and division of labor is the one cheating? I feel like mostcof these are you did X so I did Y. I know I failed my wife at times and she failed me at times, it’s just hard wrapping my head around the “real” why
ps:Job doesn’t get enough credit