Book a session with your new coach: mymentor.life For upcoming events: tonygaskins.com/events To join this channel as a member of The Blessed Tribe: / @tonygaskins
You're right when I met my husband I visited his place of worship and he saw me and when I was in my car driving away he ran out to my car to get my number ..we been married 21 years now so it's TRUE that they approach if they want u..he called me that same day when I got home. Love your videos
Last time I tried to pursue a man he told me I remind him of a 12 year old and there are prettier women out there. I'm not doing that ish again lol. I will be single until a man pursue me, period!
@@m.d594 her point is to get the word out... This is my FIRST time seeing it. She's beautiful and he obviously had issues...as a lot of these men do. It will help keep women from making the same mistake.
Tony got jokes. “A double amputee can roll the wheel chair and approach the woman. Fact: I know a double amputee and he does just that... “never pursue the man”. Amen
I don't care what he looks like, don't have, do have, smell good, don't smell good...if he want you, he will pursue. He will pursue you whatsoever he want from you. Whether good or bad intentions. Whatever he's intentions, he will pursue. You "ladies" have to found out why he's interested. What's his intentions. Take your time with these men. Don't ignore your intuition. It's never wrong.
If he wants you and is confident he can provide for you he will pursue. A man can want you real bad but his confidence level isn’t high enough to pursue you in the way he wishes to. Women are doing their thing and men are intimidated. A lot of these men are online dating because it’s easy to meet, date and hookup without having to provide for her. Unfortunately modern women have made it easy for men to conquer them. So they remain in a lazy approach to dating…they don’t want to date they want access to free sex.
You ain't lying about males being wired to chase what female they want: my friend's 7yo great nephew had his eyes on a little girl at school, he told his aunt that he had to be there by a certain time because another boy liked her also! He had processed the arrival time for the 3 of them and knew he needed to be there before his competition!! He also named his pet puppy after her! If a 7yo can make a plan and figure out what needs to happen for him to be with the one he wants, why can't these adult males do the same thing? "Because they don't want you! "
If a man pop out of his mouth asking me for money I’m leaving... I never ever in my 30 something years had a man to ask me for money nor have I never pursued a man but I noticed that military men always approach me in which I run 🏃♀️.. My parents didn’t raise no fool.. Ladies stop doing so much when it comes to getting a man.. God will send you your husband
Tykitta Hunter The ones I know are liars. Many of them are married due to the extra pay they get. But they operate like their single. I run as fast as I can from them.
M Robin girl I’m not expecting anything but peace that’s about it. I never said I was approaching to military men I stated they are approach and attracted me... so, how am I expecting money?
Your client is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. Ladies now a days are so DESPERATE that they are more than happy to pursue the man. I’ve had the men say exactly the same thing to me many times. “Well its a two way street” that’s the end of that.
They want you to pick them up, call them first, send them pics, do things for them, pay for the date, AND even come up with the ideas for the dates for their approval, don'twant to spend time or money. They act like chikdren
The men.. Want this is gross, a lot thrn come from poverty and single mom homes seeing their moms work n dating al types of different men in n ut house
I met a man in a grocery store. He said I was beautiful. I thanked him and kept it moving. He eventually stopped me and asked if I was married. We exchanged numbers. He took days to text me. When he did I didn’t respond. I blocked his number.
I have been told quite a few times that I am too old school, need to change my way of thinking about dating, and will end up being alone if I continue to require more from men. But, I realize that when I have God in my life, He will never let me be alone. And He will send me the right man who will love me like Christ loves the church and meet my expectations and standards. Too many women with the new school of thought; then we don’t understand why there are so many breakups, broken hearts, and divorces...smh...Living in UNBiblical times, but God will reward those who don’t lose faith in Him-period! For now, I will just concentrate on pleasing God like Paul said about the true purpose of single Christian men and women! Can’t go wrong there!
These men track women on Instagram too and they always want to know “what do you do for a living” this question is designed to Set you up to be scammed
K.M. Ardrey really sorry to hear that, I don’t share that info, my response is “I don’t do nothing for a living” then they say “how do you support yourself” then and only my Blocked game is activated and I report to Instagram it’s a Scam page and days later Instagram reports back to me as confirmed that it’s a Scam and the page is removed, I’ve seen where the same guy creates a new page with the same pics and I just Repeat the process 🤗
@@michellelogan9177 Idk if the men I met were scammers, but I've had men & "love" interests that I knew personally ask me the same question and never thought anything of it until now. I thought it was just to make sure I can take care of myself, and that I was independent & building my own etc. But the more I see it's setting yourself up to take on a masculine role & be a provider for someone you're ultimately seeking love, security & protection from. So in reality, it doesnt allow space for a real man to exist & I was emtertaining men with other motives in mind. I still have a lot to learn though but glad I never ended up stuck in relationships like that. I was starting to think I was crazy & hard to love when in reality, I wasn't meeting quality men. But your take is interesting. They were trying to scam me on the low to be the provider 🤣. I need to work on my response for questions like that & stop believing everyone has good intentions iust because I do. Smh
19Honey87 M Amen! Never answer any questions, unless you’re saying “I’m doing well” bottom line it’s not their business because you’re both are strangers to one another
im on 2 diff dating sites but i never give out even my actual name or email address let alone my number! just typing until they realize they cant get no where with me lol what kills me is i state CLEARLY on my profiles that i will never meet them or will give or accept phone numbers, yet they still reach out to me lol. i suppose they fall into 2 groups: those that dont believe me and think that they can change my mind and those who do believe me but dont take me seriously
LISSEN. There is not enough sweet willy or sweet talk in the world to make me give a man 2THOUSAND dollars you got to be plum crazy. 2 THOUSAND?? You crazy slap crazy
These men have game lol .. never say never...I have never gave a man money .. but some of these man this is a job for them lol and they date for a living lol
Met a nice guy in grocery store yesterday, he approached me he was very respectful, we talked briefly and exchanged numbers. He text later and the subject of work schedules came up, he asked mine and I told him 7-3 I asked his and he said none at the time but he supposed to start work next week, after that there was nonthing else to talk about end of story lol
When Tony said the man called him mother to check the phone.. I was crying. These dudes do that. I must admit, I was once thirsty and shot my shot at men. I will never do that again! Thank you Tony
One almost got me Tony. I talked to that man daily. He claimed he got stuck in Indonesia and the bank was holding his money because he didn't have proper documents. I swear I believed him. I didn't give him my banking info like he asked. He got mad. I blocked him and moved on.. But it's definitely a thing. I almost Got GOT.. Be careful ladies.. Its real.
My thing is....if women have never seen or met the man ..and even if they have met .....however if they have never met ..how do they send money to someone they have never ever met when they wouldn't do it for a friend or family member ?????
I ended friendship due to on line FOOLISHNESS Young lady drove all the way to my house over 85 miles for me to read documents copies man's passport Note she had been on line dating this stranger for months and lying about it sending him money and his so call attorney money to help him was fake the passport had over nine errors his Facebook only two pictures It was an Nigerian Group of African man that sit back and get money from vulnerable women He told her he was gonna visit her in a helicopter there he worked for oil company and needed to get him out of prison it was crazy He would scream her on the phone talk to her so badly I witnessed this with my own ears and eyes She told me she would leave him alone I looked in her phone only to find that she had been sending him money for months All be called she wanted love They prey on women which tell them all their business ones that say I was abused as a child ,marriage. Women you will be surprise I tried to show her on UA-cam how it's done she still believe him I dropped her as a friend/business partner because if she could believe a stranger I wouldn't want that stranger somehow find out where I live And/or connecting me to her. Another incident happened where some young adults were visiting in town met these men wine and din one girl went with the man went to hotel because she didn't feel being" loose booty " luckily her friend track her cell phone went with the police got there Note coolers over 8 labeled with all that would go in each container kidneys ect. This young 24year old woke up in tub of ice this is an true story my family went to school with her. Note things happen every day that never make the news. For the love of God be careful everyone. BLESSINGS
I’m just so sick of women and their desperation speaking for us all. Like how hard is it to respect yourself and require that from those who you choose to share moments in life with. It’s frustrating because the loose bootys are getting higher in number and men notice that so even the good one’s are on the fence ugh . I’m not even interested in being with someone right now but I honestly feel the pickings will be so thin
Whatz good yall👋🏼👋🏼I just told a man on fb a woman is not suppose to chase a man. He was so happy a 21 yr old was hitting on him being 40. I knew then something ain't right with him.
Thank God you know what a red flag looks like. 🙃 I met a guy who expected me to drop everything and meet him within 15 minutes at a store we met instead of a proper date #1.) 😕 #2.) He cared nothing about my time and what I could be doing, and actually told me he was mad because I didn't show up .. SMH ! 😖
Haven't dated in 20 years. ooooooh its rough out here. These are some new types of men nowadays...well grown boys. But, I'm old school and know what I did to get married the first time. I kept my legs closed and made it super hard because I am hard to get. Stay strong ladies. Stop falling for these tricks. I just turned down a guy today to send pics of my body. Almost cursed him out. I wasn't going to text him back...he messaged see that's why I like you. You are a good woman......look how they act. Keep your legs CLOSED!!! Good luck and be blessed.
Righr ...so much games ....and for what ....sex with these guys probably only last a few minutes anyway ...and once they get that what else is there ....
@@clarkclarke literally had this convo with the guys at work. I work with all men. They want me to give all these losers a shot. But I was like you wouldn't tell your daughter or mother to do that if they were in my shoes. Smh black men don't even want to cherish their own no more. That hurt the most that they want to see me potentially dogged out.
it feels uncomfortable because as women we aren't wired to do the pursuing. We are meant to be pursued. I swear I cringe when I see videos of women actually proposing to men. I'm like nooo please stop. It's scary how roles are reversing.
This is the whole truth. I didn't believe it until I saw it for myself. My friend's son is posing as a WOMAN and catfishing men out of thousands of dollars a month.
I never get approached, Lol. And it's not my style to ever approach a man. So it's frustrating for me because it leaves me with zero opportunity. At this rate, I might as well buy that rocking chair and get me cat.
Listening to u speak on red flags and such lets me understand that I have never had a healthy relationship. It's all always been nothing but games. I have been dating for over 15 years and I'm not bad looking at all. So many situations where I was in love in a relationship but turns out I was the only one. I was married once and have been single for going on eight years with no luck. I just stopped worrying about it cuz I could have went crazy. To be worried about things u can't control is a recipe for disaster.
Queen ofHearts 💯😩Happened to me too. After the second date this guy was like “I’m planning dates and showing you interest. What have you done? The only thing you’ve done is shown up for the date!” He was terrible. Always counted tit for tat. Only treated for 3 months hoping I’d start giving him money and being a fool for him. Smh
tab2go Yup. That’s what some of them do. It’s not going anywhere good after that. That’s a man who wants badly to be a woman. He doesn’t know his place. And he’s broke and will gladly spend all your money, drive your car, give you a hurt back from bad s$x and will leave you as soon as he’s bled you dry. No thanks!
This topic reminds me of a conversation I had with a good friend! I believe its EASY to meet men. There EVERYWHERE, give a honest respectful compliment & see who falls for the bait. HOWEVER I truly perfer a Man to approach me, to see a genuine pursuit & how a guy views you. Old fashion way! Yes! So I agree with Tony! It is free game!
The bible says a man that findeth a wife findeth a good thing. It didn't say a woman that findeth a man! You should never approach a man! The man should be the chaser. If he's not confident enough to persue me then I guess I'll just remain single. I've never chased a man and at age 51 I'm not gonna start now.
Sheree White That scripture puts the responsibility on the man to find a wife. So what if he is running across women who he don't see as someone he could make his wife. So now he goes back into the field to search for another helpmeet.
The book we Live by say “He that find a wife find a good thing and obtain favor of the Lord”. Let your husband find you! He should be the aggressor and you be the responder.
“He can roll that chair to you” 🤣. Literally lol’d at work listening to that. Tony you are so smart and have taught me SO much! I know the information is going to serve me if I ever find someone ☺️
Anytime a man ask you for anything RUN!!!!!!! It's true Tony, these men today are lazy... They don't want to put in the effort, but want you to go to bed with them. I'm glad this young woman asked this question, and for online dating HECK NO, I NEVER GAVE A MAN NOTHING, 2 THESSOLONIANS 3:10.
Love the videos Tony, keep schooling us ladies and the gentlemen that want to improve. Also * you might wanna fix your video header, looks like you got a typo*
Thank you so much for this Mr. Gaskins, I’ve not only been appreciating the Information you’re giving for free but also the flow of your sit down videos like this. Thanks again!
Hey Tony!! I just LOVE your videos. So much wisdom and humour to go with it. You are so right when you tell ladies to let the man pursue. This is something i practice as well. Lately, quite a few men have been pursuing through social media. This is usually how it goes. 1. They request me as a friend (FB or IG). I pray first to see if i should accept along with looking through their pages to see what they are about. 2. Once i get clearance from the Lord or if i feel he's ok, i accept. 3. They usually ask for my number. So instead, i conversate with them through messenger. This allows me to stay at a safe distance and see how their mind works. 4. I keep conversations casual yet to the point. And i always mix it up with Spiritual things to see where they are with their walk with Christ. 5. I kid you not, after this has gone on for about two weeks, they usually drop off. Mind you they pursue in the convo, but what gets them is when i ask them what is their purpose? They say usually say something generic. Then i talk about my purpose and what God showed me. Crickets. Then i dont hear from them. Then i know they werent the one. Because the man that God has for me will be in tune with God's Spirit will know his purpose. Or at least have a goal that he is working on that is greater than him. Even if he doesnt know how to articulate it, I'll know.
"I DONT CARE IF HE AN "AMPUTEE" HE WILL ROLL THAT WHEELCHAIR TO YA!! 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😅😅
Yes Indeed!! I like that.
🤣😂😂
🤣😆😂
Lol
😅😂😅😂😅😂
“Point, blank, periYAHD” - Tony Gaskins 😂
If he like you he will come and get you Ladies!!
Exactly. They will let you know.
Yup!... No need to do the work , he'll do it ...
@Linda Hines uh a man Linda Are you following what the topic is Love
So very TRUE! Nick. My Man drives a few hours round-trip to be w Me!
Tony, You make me smile So big when you do the Contrite woman voice... lol ❤
You're right when I met my husband I visited his place of worship and he saw me and when I was in my car driving away he ran out to my car to get my number ..we been married 21 years now so it's TRUE that they approach if they want u..he called me that same day when I got home. Love your videos
Niiiice and beautiful love story 😍🙏
Thank you ❤
That's so romantic
Simply Jenn ..but 21 years ago. The convo is about how the game has changed.
@@kristinabrickey4446 When he says that a man who wants you willl approach you, he's talking about today
I don't think all of these men are spoiled. Alot of them were poorly raised and narcissistic
Nobody Will Marry yes they are
@Nobody Will Marry Me, Why did you choose to call yourself Nobody Will Marry Me?
You’re name will be your fate 😳
@@m.williams3497 Yes...I was gonna say...please change that!
It's a sarcastic you tube name, lol
Last time I tried to pursue a man he told me I remind him of a 12 year old and there are prettier women out there. I'm not doing that ish again lol. I will be single until a man pursue me, period!
Massagebyamaja LLC ouch!!!
@@adabekeethefirst8705 lmao it was brutal
It’s ok to look young. You’re very pretty, his loss! A man that arrogant wouldn’t make a good husband anyways 😂
I’ve seen you comment this before. You need to let this go. It’s okay your still valuable girl. Always will be.
@@m.d594 her point is to get the word out... This is my FIRST time seeing it. She's beautiful and he obviously had issues...as a lot of these men do. It will help keep women from making the same mistake.
I don't chase, don't date, the game is real out here, these men are pimpin to get paid by manipulative talking.
@TravelingDiva2018 That is awesome!!! I wish I was at your level now.
TravelingDiva2018 I love that !!!
Tony got jokes. “A double amputee can roll the wheel chair and approach the woman. Fact: I know a double amputee and he does just that... “never pursue the man”. Amen
Amen!
That lady voice take me out every time. *smack* “EOOOOOOOO”
Tara Thomas seriously!! 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Yesss! That lady voice..I'm here for it..😂.oh and the advice to😊
Mannnn...🤣🤣 I crack up everytime
Me toooo sis!! Me too!!!
I don't care what he looks like, don't have, do have, smell good, don't smell good...if he want you, he will pursue. He will pursue you whatsoever he want from you. Whether good or bad intentions. Whatever he's intentions, he will pursue. You "ladies" have to found out why he's interested. What's his intentions. Take your time with these men. Don't ignore your intuition. It's never wrong.
I agree.
If he wants you and is confident he can provide for you he will pursue. A man can want you real bad but his confidence level isn’t high enough to pursue you in the way he wishes to. Women are doing their thing and men are intimidated. A lot of these men are online dating because it’s easy to meet, date and hookup without having to provide for her. Unfortunately modern women have made it easy for men to conquer them. So they remain in a lazy approach to dating…they don’t want to date they want access to free sex.
You ain't lying about males being wired to chase what female they want: my friend's 7yo great nephew had his eyes on a little girl at school, he told his aunt that he had to be there by a certain time because another boy liked her also! He had processed the arrival time for the 3 of them and knew he needed to be there before his competition!! He also named his pet puppy after her! If a 7yo can make a plan and figure out what needs to happen for him to be with the one he wants, why can't these adult males do the same thing? "Because they don't want you! "
If a man pop out of his mouth asking me for money I’m leaving... I never ever in my 30 something years had a man to ask me for money nor have I never pursued a man but I noticed that military men always approach me in which I run 🏃♀️.. My parents didn’t raise no fool.. Ladies stop doing so much when it comes to getting a man.. God will send you your husband
Those military men are something else.
Shawn J y do u run from military men?
Tykitta Hunter The ones I know are liars. Many of them are married due to the extra pay they get. But they operate like their single. I run as fast as I can from them.
PrettyTaurus 😂😂😂😂
M Robin girl I’m not expecting anything but peace that’s about it. I never said I was approaching to military men I stated they are approach and attracted me... so, how am I expecting money?
Tony has literally helped me more than all the Narcissistic Abuse Survivor coaches combined!!!
Your client is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. Ladies now a days are so DESPERATE that they are more than happy to pursue the man. I’ve had the men say exactly the same thing to me many times. “Well its a two way street” that’s the end of that.
I holla everytime I hear Tony's female impersonation voice! Too funny!
🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ME TOO🤣😆
Right I be looking forward to it now🤣
@@carm1709 right! Everytime I hear " Ummmmmm"............I start laughing my butt off!
@@sharronwilson50 right I be get the message then burst into laughing
They want you to pick them up, call them first, send them pics, do things for them, pay for the date, AND even come up with the ideas for the dates for their approval, don'twant to spend time or money. They act like chikdren
Oh how the turn tables...
The men..
Want this is gross, a lot thrn come from poverty and single mom homes seeing their moms work n dating al types of different men in n ut house
@@hangukhiphop speak for yourself. I like when a man does all that. Shows me his personality, not what i want
I met a man in a grocery store. He said I was beautiful. I thanked him and kept it moving. He eventually stopped me and asked if I was married. We exchanged numbers. He took days to text me. When he did I didn’t respond. I blocked his number.
You probably should've given him grace, that's pretty normal.
WOW GOOD GIRL!!!! I felt proud for you hahahaha LOVE.
WOW GOOD GIRL!!!! I felt proud for you hahahaha LOVE.
I have been told quite a few times that I am too old school, need to change my way of thinking about dating, and will end up being alone if I continue to require more from men. But, I realize that when I have God in my life, He will never let me be alone. And He will send me the right man who will love me like Christ loves the church and meet my expectations and standards. Too many women with the new school of thought; then we don’t understand why there are so many breakups, broken hearts, and divorces...smh...Living in UNBiblical times, but God will reward those who don’t lose faith in Him-period! For now, I will just concentrate on pleasing God like Paul said about the true purpose of single Christian men and women! Can’t go wrong there!
These men track women on Instagram too and they always want to know “what do you do for a living” this question is designed to Set you up to be scammed
Yep..I learned the hard way that I should keep that info private🤫
K.M. Ardrey really sorry to hear that, I don’t share that info, my response is “I don’t do nothing for a living” then they say “how do you support yourself” then and only my Blocked game is activated and I report to Instagram it’s a Scam page and days later Instagram reports back to me as confirmed that it’s a Scam and the page is removed, I’ve seen where the same guy creates a new page with the same pics and I just Repeat the process 🤗
@@michellelogan9177 Idk if the men I met were scammers, but I've had men & "love" interests that I knew personally ask me the same question and never thought anything of it until now. I thought it was just to make sure I can take care of myself, and that I was independent & building my own etc.
But the more I see it's setting yourself up to take on a masculine role & be a provider for someone you're ultimately seeking love, security & protection from. So in reality, it doesnt allow space for a real man to exist & I was emtertaining men with other motives in mind. I still have a lot to learn though but glad I never ended up stuck in relationships like that. I was starting to think I was crazy & hard to love when in reality, I wasn't meeting quality men. But your take is interesting. They were trying to scam me on the low to be the provider 🤣. I need to work on my response for questions like that & stop believing everyone has good intentions iust because I do. Smh
19Honey87 M Amen! Never answer any questions, unless you’re saying “I’m doing well” bottom line it’s not their business because you’re both are strangers to one another
Be Blessed, the problem with women, they feel they have to buy s man to have him, don't be stupid, I hate stupid people,
Good! I don't and never will go to dating sites or pursue a man😂.
im on 2 diff dating sites but i never give out even my actual name or email address let alone my number! just typing until they realize they cant get no where with me lol
what kills me is i state CLEARLY on my profiles that i will never meet them or will give or accept phone numbers, yet they still reach out to me lol. i suppose they fall into 2 groups: those that dont believe me and think that they can change my mind and those who do believe me but dont take me seriously
LISSEN. There is not enough sweet willy or sweet talk in the world to make me give a man 2THOUSAND dollars you got to be plum crazy. 2 THOUSAND?? You crazy slap crazy
Queen ofHearts 😂 Yeah, ain’t no way on God’s green earth
😂😂😂😂😂
Get the baby powder and slap yourself. Lol
These men have game lol .. never say never...I have never gave a man money .. but some of these man this is a job for them lol and they date for a living lol
Met a nice guy in grocery store yesterday, he approached me he was very respectful, we talked briefly and exchanged numbers. He text later and the subject of work schedules came up, he asked mine and I told him 7-3 I asked his and he said none at the time but he supposed to start work next week, after that there was nonthing else to talk about end of story lol
He sound like a player.
Girl. He needs to get himself together and then date.
the fact that he texted you instead of calling you should have been a red flag
@@rdot8869 Right a broke one at that lol
@@louwil67 Same thing I told my coworker
When Tony said the man called him mother to check the phone.. I was crying. These dudes do that. I must admit, I was once thirsty and shot my shot at men. I will never do that again! Thank you Tony
You are definitely getting me ready for the next brother that approaches me!!! Blessings to you Tony!! Your one of the true KINGS!!👑
Girl you lnow thats true
@@nickbry7357 Yes Girl!!🙌🏾
PERIOAAAD...point blank..😂😂
@@rozh8321 LMAO!!
We are really in a microwave society
You mean should we? The answer is NO SIR
TONY STAUPPPPPPPP “Tell him you dating Jesus, and technically you’re not lying so” 😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💀💀💀💀💀
He said tell him you got a boyfriend 😊 they don't need to know it's Jesus🤦🏽♀️
brownsugarglamour 😭😭🤣🤣
brownsugarglamour 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
One almost got me Tony. I talked to that man daily. He claimed he got stuck in Indonesia and the bank was holding his money because he didn't have proper documents. I swear I believed him. I didn't give him my banking info like he asked. He got mad. I blocked him and moved on.. But it's definitely a thing. I almost Got GOT.. Be careful ladies.. Its real.
My thing is....if women have never seen or met the man ..and even if they have met .....however if they have never met ..how do they send money to someone they have never ever met when they wouldn't do it for a friend or family member ?????
clark clarke it’s the emotions
Dang.
God saved you sis, he wouldve wiped you out!!!
I ended friendship due to on line FOOLISHNESS Young lady drove all the way to my house over 85 miles for me to read documents copies man's passport Note she had been on line dating this stranger for months and lying about it sending him money and his so call attorney money to help him was fake the passport had over nine errors his Facebook only two pictures It was an Nigerian Group of African man that sit back and get money from vulnerable women He told her he was gonna visit her in a helicopter there he worked for oil company and needed to get him out of prison it was crazy He would scream her on the phone talk to her so badly I witnessed this with my own ears and eyes She told me she would leave him alone I looked in her phone only to find that she had been sending him money for months All be called she wanted love They prey on women which tell them all their business ones that say I was abused as a child ,marriage.
Women you will be surprise I tried to show her on UA-cam how it's done she still believe him I dropped her as a friend/business partner because if she could believe a stranger I wouldn't want that stranger somehow find out where I live And/or connecting me to her. Another incident happened where some young adults were visiting in town met these men wine and din one girl went with the man went to hotel because she didn't feel being" loose booty " luckily her friend track her cell phone went with the police got there Note coolers over 8 labeled with all that would go in each container kidneys ect. This young 24year old woke up in tub of ice this is an true story my family went to school with her. Note things happen every day that never make the news.
For the love of God be careful everyone. BLESSINGS
Between Snapped and American Greed I dont know how I still go out or have social media lol its crazy out here
Don't forget wives with knifes..lol
ID channel🔍
😂😄😁👍🏾
This 💯😂😂
single and celibate five years and proud of it
I’m just so sick of women and their desperation speaking for us all. Like how hard is it to respect yourself and require that from those who you choose to share moments in life with. It’s frustrating because the loose bootys are getting higher in number and men notice that so even the good one’s are on the fence ugh . I’m not even interested in being with someone right now but I honestly feel the pickings will be so thin
Your videos have helped me my confidence so much Tony !!! I felt like a gazelle my whole life but now I know that I am lioness.
Men hate getting rejected🤣🤣
LMBO....Tony, and his lip smacking imitating women.....😁😁😁
He is so funny! But seriously, he is a Great Life Coach!
Lol he be cracking me up rolling his eyes and head with an attitude
He is hilarious. I be cracking up 😂😂😂😛
So true... never pursue!
Whatz good yall👋🏼👋🏼I just told a man on fb a woman is not suppose to chase a man. He was so happy a 21 yr old was hitting on him being 40. I knew then something ain't right with him.
And he might be lying About the 21 yr...
@@RN1BSN They do lie...smh
Thank God you know what a red flag looks like. 🙃 I met a guy who expected me to drop everything and meet him within 15 minutes at a store we met instead of a proper date #1.) 😕 #2.) He cared nothing about my time and what I could be doing, and actually told me he was mad because I didn't show up .. SMH ! 😖
@@sandraotero5951 you dodge a bullet. Pray for discernment....you'll get it too. God bless you.
@@CaramelKissez amen
Amen Tony! 🙏🏾 No pursuing over here. These new-age Men are trippin'!
That “oohhhhh” gets me every time! 😩😩😂😂
Good afternoon Tony, thank you for another great video!
inspire me me tooo ohhhhh 😝
Me too!!!
Haven't dated in 20 years. ooooooh its rough out here. These are some new types of men nowadays...well grown boys. But, I'm old school and know what I did to get married the first time. I kept my legs closed and made it super hard because I am hard to get. Stay strong ladies. Stop falling for these tricks. I just turned down a guy today to send pics of my body. Almost cursed him out. I wasn't going to text him back...he messaged see that's why I like you. You are a good woman......look how they act. Keep your legs CLOSED!!! Good luck and be blessed.
Righr ...so much games ....and for what ....sex with these guys probably only last a few minutes anyway ...and once they get that what else is there ....
@@clarkclarke literally had this convo with the guys at work. I work with all men. They want me to give all these losers a shot. But I was like you wouldn't tell your daughter or mother to do that if they were in my shoes. Smh black men don't even want to cherish their own no more. That hurt the most that they want to see me potentially dogged out.
I met my friend on Facebook dating site, he is 70 and I am 65 we both are still working and he treats me like a queen 4 months now.
Be Blessed....I cant chase a man...as a woman it feels completely uncomfortable...Thanks for another great one👍
@Ms. DaniLaB plus I don't want to be the man in the relationship that's why they have more testosterone than we do
it feels uncomfortable because as women we aren't wired to do the pursuing. We are meant to be pursued. I swear I cringe when I see videos of women actually proposing to men. I'm like nooo please stop. It's scary how roles are reversing.
Working on myself. BE BLESSED!!!!!
🤗🙋2..self love in progress❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾4 all of us..be blessed❤
Me too, no time for games.
“Conviently don’t trust the government” 😂😂
This is the whole truth. I didn't believe it until I saw it for myself. My friend's son is posing as a WOMAN and catfishing men out of thousands of dollars a month.
D Laberry 👀👀 wow!!!
😯😯😯😯
It's a real thing. So sad.
Woooooow
Lol
Tony I can't you are pure comical but honest .😭😭😭😭🙏🏾
That phone call to mama took me out!
@@grapeslushpm lady tell me about it 😭😭😭😭
🗣 TEACH TEACHER! Be blessed! 💫
This is true a man just said it to me.
I have come back to listen to this video 36374637 times.... every time I need to hear it. EVERY SINGLE TIME. Thanks Tony!
I try to listen to your videos with a serious manner, but between you sounding like Plies and your backwoods country antidotes I just can’t! 😂
I never get approached, Lol. And it's not my style to ever approach a man. So it's frustrating for me because it leaves me with zero opportunity. At this rate, I might as well buy that rocking chair and get me cat.
Lannie Dee I feel you 😩😭
Maybe you can join some meet up groups .. volunteer...etc .. you will get to see and meet folk
Hey Tony gives tips on how to become more approachable look for that video with that title.
@@clarkclarke i will actually consider that. thank you much.
@@msvonne6044 i will look for that. I appreciate it.
CANT WAIT TO WATCH THIS AFTER I TAKE MY EXAM. BEST WISHES MR. GASKINS AND THE BLESSED TRIBE
Blessing on ur test
Listening to u speak on red flags and such lets me understand that I have never had a healthy relationship. It's all always been nothing but games. I have been dating for over 15 years and I'm not bad looking at all. So many situations where I was in love in a relationship but turns out I was the only one. I was married once and have been single for going on eight years with no luck. I just stopped worrying about it cuz I could have went crazy. To be worried about things u can't control is a recipe for disaster.
Tony. A man asked me where have I ever taken HIM! What have I SHOWN him? HUHHHHHHHHHHHHHH?????
Girly boyssss!!
Queen ofHearts 💯😩Happened to me too. After the second date this guy was like “I’m planning dates and showing you interest. What have you done? The only thing you’ve done is shown up for the date!” He was terrible. Always counted tit for tat. Only treated for 3 months hoping I’d start giving him money and being a fool for him. Smh
Sis, he was a whole Lesbian. Who asks a woman that 🤷🏾♀️
Lynnette René Doby 💯
Kal Sura a guy I dated said I’m a hard working man.. I should be treated.. when are you going to take me out???
tab2go Yup. That’s what some of them do. It’s not going anywhere good after that. That’s a man who wants badly to be a woman. He doesn’t know his place. And he’s broke and will gladly spend all your money, drive your car, give you a hurt back from bad s$x and will leave you as soon as he’s bled you dry. No thanks!
Lookin like "Who shot John and forgot ta kill'em?" 🤣😂🤣🤣
This is so true! I've witnessed a family member get swindled out of their money from an online swindler. Great video, very insightful.
This topic reminds me of a conversation I had with a good friend! I believe its EASY to meet men. There EVERYWHERE, give a honest respectful compliment & see who falls for the bait. HOWEVER I truly perfer a Man to approach me, to see a genuine pursuit & how a guy views you. Old fashion way! Yes! So I agree with Tony! It is free game!
Work on yourself Ladies!!! The 3 B's and do not persue a man, that puts you into masculine energy.
@@dcg31free body
Brain
Brand.
Thank you Nessa...Brand, Body and your Brain
Tony !!! How many characters do you have in you !?!? 😂😂😂
I am here for it.. Funny to me.. Lol 🤣🤣😂
Love when he impersonates the females...Lol
Tony, that oven-bake microwave analogy was the cleverest thing I’ve ever heard!! THANK YOU FOR THAT, BE BLESSED 👏🏾👏🏾💙
brownsugarglamour I l loved that too ❤️
I agree!!!
The bible says a man that findeth a wife findeth a good thing. It didn't say a woman that findeth a man! You should never approach a man! The man should be the chaser. If he's not confident enough to persue me then I guess I'll just remain single. I've never chased a man and at age 51 I'm not gonna start now.
Sheree White That scripture puts the responsibility on the man to find a wife. So what if he is running across women who he don't see as someone he could make his wife. So now he goes back into the field to search for another helpmeet.
That's right ✅ 👏. Women should not shoot their shot when it comes to men.
Heyyyy Tony!! And my Queens!!
Hey Queen
Hey Queen
Hey Queen 👑
Never ever pursue a man 🗣🗣🗣 preach🗣🗣🗣 A Queen who has self worth and character don’t pursue a man period 👍🏾
It is a norm for men wanting and expecting women to chase them and approach them.
Dating sound scary..
IT IS
Yes. It does sound scary.
This video got me over here crying laughing 😂 True but hilarious!
The book we Live by say “He that find a wife find a good thing and obtain favor of the Lord”. Let your husband find you! He should be the aggressor and you be the responder.
“He can roll that chair to you” 🤣. Literally lol’d at work listening to that.
Tony you are so smart and have taught me SO much! I know the information is going to serve me if I ever find someone ☺️
I refuse to date online, if I can’t meet a man the old fashion way then 🤷🏽♀️
How are able to meet men nowadays then? Especially if you don't club hang out like that🤷🏾♀️
Yep!!!!!!
Netflix Love is Blind. Finale is next week Thursday.
Love that show so far!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
that show is cringey but i watched it 😆
These topics are such a blessing
You are telling the truth!!! I appreciate your videos. Keep being a blessing.
Tony, you're telling the truth 🎯. Thank you 🙏🏾
Anytime a man ask you for anything RUN!!!!!!! It's true Tony, these men today are lazy... They don't want to put in the effort, but want you to go to bed with them. I'm glad this young woman asked this question, and for online dating HECK NO, I NEVER GAVE A MAN NOTHING, 2 THESSOLONIANS 3:10.
Every bit of this video was the truth! Thank you sir💯
This is absolute 🔥 Such great information. Thank you!♥️
Continued confirmation. Thanks. Keep blessing the people.
Very helpful info! Appreciate you Tony and thank you for all your service!
Bless you Tony and the family as always! Thank you for the knowledge.
Nothing but the truth Tony! Be blessed!
I ain't lying when I say I'm dating someone else. I have a weekly date night that I take myself on. I'm perfectly happy enjoying my own great company!
Be blessed. Thank you so much for your willingness to continue to share with us. I can't wait until tonight's workshop to receive this word.
Hello to the Gaskins Family and The Blessed Tribe. Thank You for the content.
Point... blank.. period!! Love all your videos.
Thank you Tony Gaskins...I really appreciate you!!!
Be blessed everyone... and you the blessed tribe as well
Thanks and stay blessed...i truly appreciate your time on here.🙏🙏🙏😇😇👍🌟💫💥💥🌟
Thank you for sharing your wisdom Mr. Gaskins it's definitely a blessing!😇 God bless you.
Thank you for speaking the truth. I felt like you are talking directly to me.
Love the videos Tony, keep schooling us ladies and the gentlemen that want to improve. Also * you might wanna fix your video header, looks like you got a typo*
I love it. Everyone can learn. I appreciate you
Hell will freeze 🥶 over before I chase!
Noooo! Never pursue a man. Never!
As soon as I start working again hopefully soon, I’ll coming to get coaching from you.
Thank you so much for this Mr. Gaskins, I’ve not only been appreciating the Information you’re giving for free but also the flow of your sit down videos like this. Thanks again!
Thank you Tony Gaskins for keeping it real with us women. You are one in a million . God bless you abundantly
Wanted to hear more. Thanks Tony for your insight. May you be elevated more.
Another Gem! Thank you Tony
Hey Tony!! I just LOVE your videos. So much wisdom and humour to go with it. You are so right when you tell ladies to let the man pursue. This is something i practice as well. Lately, quite a few men have been pursuing through social media. This is usually how it goes.
1. They request me as a friend (FB or IG). I pray first to see if i should accept along with looking through their pages to see what they are about.
2. Once i get clearance from the Lord or if i feel he's ok, i accept.
3. They usually ask for my number. So instead, i conversate with them through messenger. This allows me to stay at a safe distance and see how their mind works.
4. I keep conversations casual yet to the point. And i always mix it up with Spiritual things to see where they are with their walk with Christ.
5. I kid you not, after this has gone on for about two weeks, they usually drop off. Mind you they pursue in the convo, but what gets them is when i ask them what is their purpose? They say usually say something generic. Then i talk about my purpose and what God showed me. Crickets. Then i dont hear from them. Then i know they werent the one. Because the man that God has for me will be in tune with God's Spirit will know his purpose. Or at least have a goal that he is working on that is greater than him. Even if he doesnt know how to articulate it, I'll know.
Thanks for putting us single folks up on game Tony. Got it!🎯🦋
God bless you & your family sir!
Omg I love your videos you're so funny I always get a good laugh ROFL. Thank you Toni you always know what you're talking about!
Preach! Needed to hear this!!