I would totally go along with her idea, all the way til about 30 minutes into the party. At this point, I would excuse myself to the restroom and re-emerge with the rubber chicken dangling out of my Barbie dress. Game. Set. Match.
i feel like any time i see a black guy with pants on, or at a job, hes culturally appropriating white people....blacks are long time loin cloth wearers. thats well known.
If the relationship is important to this guy, then one possible solution is he could negotiate to do the girlfriend's couple's costume idea in exchange for something else that is important to him that the girlfriend is not super excited about. You know, I will let you "win" this one in exchange for you letting me "win" that one.
She wants to do reverse ken and Barbie. Maybe for her that’s just dressing down. And for him. It’s like full drag. Are we sure she isn’t getting pleasure from his embarrassment. Her reaction almost makes it seem like she’s thinking he’s trying to do the same.
I cant see why any dude would accept reverse ken and barbie unless he was desperate to keep his girl or on the spectrum a lil bit if not full blown closeted. And i cant see why any girl would want her guy to dress up as barbie unless she either wanted to embarrass him or test how much power she had in the relationship.
@@AwesomeJerkface I have a hard time believing "Crazy outgoing party dudes" are in a long term relationship where they let their girl dictate how they dress on haloween.
@@callanc3925 good point. But maybe a person like that would be more open to doing a grandiose costume. Maybe they have a Halloween party social meta-culture that involves complex costume building.
@@AwesomeJerkfaceNow you're imagining a "Crazy outgoing party dude"....who cosplays.... Yo have you met actual people before or...? Whats going on here? Are you from an alternate universe where people like this exist or were you just very high when you posted this?
Yeah this threw me for a loop. If my gf thought that way I couldn't imagine being with her and not finding that out in 6 years? Crazy to think he put up with those differences or it never came up.
My fiance and I did gender bent Jack and Wendy Torrance from The Shining a few years ago, but it was fully planned and discussed ahead of time and we were both comfortable and into it. Asking someone to cross dress if they aren’t comfortable with it is super fkn not cool.
There was a kid at one of the parties i went to in high school who was dressed spot on like Easy-E, and i kid you not, i thought he was actually black the entire night until i finally talked to him lol he also won the prize for best costume of the night.
If they actually wanted to pull this off, a good compromise would be to dress as the main characters from Rocky Horror Picture Show. Best of both worlds, plus Dr. Frankenfurter commands RESPECT
She doesnt actually think it's offense to all women, come on She's just throwing a fit because he doesn't wanna do her idea. She's being dramatic. Its his fault because of the last 6 years, he probably just gave her whatever she wants. Anytime he pushes back, he probably just ends up crumbling to her will.
100 percent was never about his costume idea, but more of it wasn’t exactly what she wanted is what it sounds like since she’s not willing to compromise🤷♂️
So the "Neighbors" costume joke. just dump her and make her go solo as Ken. Zac Efron wears it when meeting her parents *and its not neighbors its from "That Awkward Moment" *correction again* THAT AWKWARD MOMENT - Party Scene - In Theaters Jan 31
Serious issue with the gf demanding he dress like a barbie. She has absolutely no respect for this dude and is obviously intentionally effing with him. Time to GTFO.
Her idea is overly corny and (to this guy) emasculating. He definitely googled lazy offensive/ toxic masculinity themed costumes. Dude just doesnt like haloween and would rather just stay home over wearing a themed coatume. And if he has to go out , he wants the easier option for drinking. No ideas on a compromise but perhaps he chooses the theme. She chooses the couples costumes to complete that theme
Should have done a rocker with a comically large oyster and said jam out with your clam out call it women's empowerment or something and called it quits
Stav go back to working out with your brother, those videos were gold, and you were actually trying to help yourself. get back at it, its fine you failed, fail and fail again. good luck dude
What the girlfriend is doing is presenting an ultimatum, which is a form of manipulation. If she's doing this over a Halloween costume then I fear that this boyfriend may have more than a costume to worry about.
50 year olds with face tats and like 7 different "look at me" accessories drive me nuts. Putting so much effort into looking off putting is hard to wrap my head around.
compromise is key. she could jam out with clam out.
This!
ahahhahaha
Yes, full battle of the bands clam chicken showdown
You should be a marriage counselor
Reverse it
80’s rocker Ken and Barbie is definitely the compromise 🤝
Chad 200iq moves
Stavi has strong cherubian energy
joie de vivre
The Greek background helps a lot
😂
Cherubian Stuttered
It’s the pose too I think
Stavvi sitting like the king of the world makes me so happy
I know he's in his glory...its great
I would totally go along with her idea, all the way til about 30 minutes into the party. At this point, I would excuse myself to the restroom and re-emerge with the rubber chicken dangling out of my Barbie dress. Game. Set. Match.
I thought Stav would be on board with the rocker costume when he's out here with his CPAP machine like Walmart Bane developed an eating disorder.
😂
Of courwse
that's a 1000 islands stare right here
Walmart Bane holy fuck
If she pushes reverse Barbie & Ken then you should push regular Pam & Tommy… with a rubber chicken.
My ex-husband dressed up as Mr. T, with blackface, when he was a 14yr old kid in 1985....... 🤣
Yeah that's not black face
@@j5892000 No not exactly like it was done in the minstrel shows of the past. He just made his face brown with make-up.
@@j5892000that’s literally blackface.
i feel like any time i see a black guy with pants on, or at a job, hes culturally appropriating white people....blacks are long time loin cloth wearers. thats well known.
@@randomdude5938But prolly a sweet costume tho.
If the relationship is important to this guy, then one possible solution is he could negotiate to do the girlfriend's couple's costume idea in exchange for something else that is important to him that the girlfriend is not super excited about. You know, I will let you "win" this one in exchange for you letting me "win" that one.
He could do the same outfit but with a pocket watch. “Rock out with my clock out.”
Gonna need a follow up for this one boys
He sounds so defeated 🤣 🤣 i love it
If she still isn’t down with your humor after 6 years and says ANYTHING like she says about “offending” anyone. You run, and you run fast.
She wants to do reverse ken and Barbie. Maybe for her that’s just dressing down. And for him. It’s like full drag. Are we sure she isn’t getting pleasure from his embarrassment. Her reaction almost makes it seem like she’s thinking he’s trying to do the same.
I cant see why any dude would accept reverse ken and barbie unless he was desperate to keep his girl or on the spectrum a lil bit if not full blown closeted. And i cant see why any girl would want her guy to dress up as barbie unless she either wanted to embarrass him or test how much power she had in the relationship.
@@callanc3925 I don’t know. I kind of agree. But some crazy outgoing party dudes could maybe make it work. Or if someone is doing a character.
@@AwesomeJerkface I have a hard time believing "Crazy outgoing party dudes" are in a long term relationship where they let their girl dictate how they dress on haloween.
@@callanc3925 good point. But maybe a person like that would be more open to doing a grandiose costume. Maybe they have a Halloween party social meta-culture that involves complex costume building.
@@AwesomeJerkfaceNow you're imagining a "Crazy outgoing party dude"....who cosplays....
Yo have you met actual people before or...? Whats going on here? Are you from an alternate universe where people like this exist or were you just very high when you posted this?
Ben talking about how every kid in 3rd grade dressed as Steve Urkel while looking like he's still in costume is perfect.
I never get a costume 😅..guy is literally every day dressed up in a costume
Who
@@evaunitzero1guy
Is that adam ray?
Offended after 6 years? Cmoooooooonnnnnnnnnn
Common modern relationship moment
@@__-bz7wh so happy I got married to a fun person and isn't like all these girls now a day.
Yeah this threw me for a loop. If my gf thought that way I couldn't imagine being with her and not finding that out in 6 years? Crazy to think he put up with those differences or it never came up.
"King Kong ain't got shit on me!" -Denzel
"I'm king Kong in this motha fucka!"
-Eldis
I've decided that the sexy couple's costume my wife and I are going for is Niles and Frasier Crane.
Why not the dad and his chair?
omg that king kong comment killed me hahah. I was rolling
be dennis and dee from always sunny
That’s the most Portland guy that has ever Seattle’d
There’s something wrong with her.
Please PLEASE run
Please.
King Kong ain’t got SHIT on Eldis Washington 😂
I love how Stav is all king of the castle over here like "go let my cpap machine guy in" hahaha
Dump that chick NOW it's not gonna get better it's gonna stay worse.
Single people always say break up now lmao
@ultimatehater69 Lol nah was married to a great one a long while but she passed unfortunately. I know of which I speak actually.
@@scottpeterson4946 ok fair enough lol I feel like a dick
@@Dicklefart nah don't feel like that man. We're all good here!
@@scottpeterson4946DUDE you fucken destroyed him that response regardless.
I truly hope the guy that called watched this. Solid advice, comedy gold.
eldis denzel washington costume LMFAO
They should just be 2 gay Ken's 😂😂😂
He should change it up last sec. and go as her.
That's gay
Yea and just be annoyingly contrarian and offended all night lol. Actually a decent bit
Also great muckraking reference
Dude should dress as a single dude and leave Mussolini behind.
NO TATE NO PETERSON LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOO
My fiance and I did gender bent Jack and Wendy Torrance from The Shining a few years ago, but it was fully planned and discussed ahead of time and we were both comfortable and into it. Asking someone to cross dress if they aren’t comfortable with it is super fkn not cool.
Buddy needs to run
Great insights and advice from Ben here
As a girlfriend, wear the costume you want, dude. Your idea is better
Let's be honest, neither idea is a home run
idk this feels like a trap
Definitely a trap
@@AwesometownUSA 😂😂😂
@@gorelord88trap confirmed boys abort thought.
Seattle is one fishmonger less due to this episode
This is great thanks fir the template
There was a kid at one of the parties i went to in high school who was dressed spot on like Easy-E, and i kid you not, i thought he was actually black the entire night until i finally talked to him lol he also won the prize for best costume of the night.
Has Stav already given up on the weightloss?
Stavvy should do voice acting with that laugh.
If they actually wanted to pull this off, a good compromise would be to dress as the main characters from Rocky Horror Picture Show. Best of both worlds, plus Dr. Frankenfurter commands RESPECT
C pap machine goes bye bye if you slim down Stavy
Stav you should go on the therapy gecko show!
Homie is so right about his girlfriend having issues with her own views and the "feminism" she hears about.
I think it’s probably she just wanted to make an unoriginal idea “original” although it’s kinda lame either way lol
I assumed that was Ben on the voicemail.
She doesnt actually think it's offense to all women, come on She's just throwing a fit because he doesn't wanna do her idea. She's being dramatic. Its his fault because of the last 6 years, he probably just gave her whatever she wants. Anytime he pushes back, he probably just ends up crumbling to her will.
Tommy and Pam 😂
Ayo what's the intro/outro music called? Shit slaps
100 percent was never about his costume idea, but more of it wasn’t exactly what she wanted is what it sounds like since she’s not willing to compromise🤷♂️
Yea. She sounds insufferable and he sounds borderline whipped.
Why stav a Halloween hater 😂. It should be HIS holiday
So the "Neighbors" costume joke. just dump her and make her go solo as Ken. Zac Efron wears it when meeting her parents *and its not neighbors its from "That Awkward Moment" *correction again* THAT AWKWARD MOMENT - Party Scene - In Theaters Jan 31
Look at our rotund modern Aristotle !❤
I’m not heterosexual 🎉
IM KING KONG IN THIS MOTHERFUCKER
Meet in the middle.
Dress up as rocker Ken and she can go rocker barbie.
3:37 The answer is he should dress like the rocker, and she should dress like a rooster. Problem solved.
Shes wild for even suggesting that. Just go be a lesbian and leave this man his dignity
Bro stav giving away free feet shots bro capitalize only foots goddamn
why pay for the pups when you can get the litter for free?
Do it anyways, she'll learn.
Just leave her bro
Serious issue with the gf demanding he dress like a barbie. She has absolutely no respect for this dude and is obviously intentionally effing with him. Time to GTFO.
How bout they just go as ken and barbie why does he have to be trans😂
I once didn't go to a close friend of a friend party because wearing a long hair effeminate wig was required. No not dressing up like a lady.
She wants to reverse the Barbie and Ken to make her man wear a dress and demean him lmao.
You think it’s demeaning? Big oof. Sounds like you have some fragile masculinity.
Exactly, serious red flag.
Only listening to the question....huge red flag and maybe bail lol
She’s Marilyn Monroe you dress up like Kennedy pre Dallas
halloween parties are fun at any age, stavvy, quit being a buzzkill
Her idea is overly corny and (to this guy) emasculating. He definitely googled lazy offensive/ toxic masculinity themed costumes. Dude just doesnt like haloween and would rather just stay home over wearing a themed coatume. And if he has to go out , he wants the easier option for drinking. No ideas on a compromise but perhaps he chooses the theme. She chooses the couples costumes to complete that theme
Ya doing it anyway!! Women want men that go there own way
Hello Luigi
Should have done a rocker with a comically large oyster and said jam out with your clam out call it women's empowerment or something and called it quits
Sounds like a made up ragebait story tbh lmao. His costume is childish but no one would say it's offensive to all women around him.
Compromise: go as naked Ken
They’re totally underestimating how recently “empowered feminist” she’s feeling after watching a Barbie movie from Megacorp Mattel.
Two men discussing relationship problems is peak gay 👌
Yeah, heterosexual relationships are so gay
Offensive to all women. Haha what a joke.
Maybe he just doesn’t want to wear a dress.
Which is fine.
She clearly likes the idea of embarrassing him.
Stav go back to working out with your brother, those videos were gold, and you were actually trying to help yourself.
get back at it, its fine you failed, fail and fail again.
good luck dude
We were supposed to go to ur show in Detroit!!!! Wth happened
Detroit sucks, that's wth happened
Covy
Yeah i was looking forward to the show tonight
Why does it have to be reversed Barbie and Ken that’s so stupid just tell her you’ll do the costume but not reversed
What the girlfriend is doing is presenting an ultimatum, which is a form of manipulation. If she's doing this over a Halloween costume then I fear that this boyfriend may have more than a costume to worry about.
miserable fucking relationship
God we need Patrice ONeal
Horrible advice
Women wanting to dress up for halloween like we're 8 years old again is annoying. Can't she just sit in her room and play with her barbies? 😂
She speaks for all women lol
honestly quite insulting to women, shes basically saying theyre too weak to stand up for themselves.
Stav just remember you ain’t nick…
50 year olds with face tats and like 7 different "look at me" accessories drive me nuts. Putting so much effort into looking off putting is hard to wrap my head around.
Why do Black people get paired up for episodes vs. the alternative
First problem, stop dressing up for Halloween. You are not 10 years old
This dude's costume choices are sus af
Woman is “toxic”
Or just dont dress up for a children's holiday
You sound fun at parties 🎉
Who hurt you? Lol
@@boaplitas101 I bet they think birthday parties and cake is for children too
This guy hates fun
cmon bruh
Caller is Blue Collar as hell!
Im the caller!
Made him an offer he cant refuse
Bro said his costume is cute
Black face isnt just coloring your face black lol
What is it then? Legitimately just asking not challenging you