My Thanksgiving ruined years ago. A in-law told me I cannot sit at the main table at Thanksgiving, and to go sit at the kids table basically. And the obvious reason behind this was because I wasn't a business prospect to him. I didn't want to join his team of the business that he's in, and/or perfers other family members to sit there. And then I'm not sure if this was a different Thanksgiving, I think that this other event happened on like another family dinner type thing at the in-laws. But another in-law overstepped her boundary I was trying to teach me how to raise my kids. And was not taking no for an answer. And then an unnamed person would not stick up for me or defend me. I've been so traumatized since, I've never returned to Thanksgiving with them or a big family dinner.
Sorry,that is a really awful thing for relatives,blood or by marriage to do to you. I pray that you will able to deal with them and May Jesus Bless You❤🕊️☘️✝️
One thing we’ve had to do with my in laws is set boundaries. They can be quite intrusive and I don’t appreciate it. My husbands brother is divorced and has been for years. They have shared custody. We we’re constantly waiting on his ex to either pick up the kids or drop them off. We could never get a definitive answer as to weather or not they were coming for dinner and did I need to set places for them. Finally I spoke up and told my husband I couldn’t take it anymore and I was tired of always waiting on them. This is my holiday to and I will no longer cowtow to ur brother and his ex nor do they get to determine the timeline. He spoke up. Now if they come they come if the don’t they don’t and I really don’t care. I won’t wait. Dinner is at 4. If ur here ur here if ur not ur not….
Do you always eat dinner at 4? Seems like you’re changing a normal schedule. It’s sad you don’t care about seeing the kids. They are all better off not coming
@@LesterF-wl8gk Not sure why you replied to me, I’m not the one who doesn’t care 🤡. reread the comment, nothing general about it. FYI- kids are victims of divorce since you mention it, all the adults should focus on them. Lots of people have difficulties on holidays w shared custody, the last thing they need is for family to make things worse.
Because those outside children of my home will not dictate MY families schedule. It's the parents responsibility to be healthy people for those kids. Nobody has to cater to someone else's family responsibilities. We made a plan.. in OUR home. No the outside families, I do not care. I do not care about seeing other kids more than I care demonstrating what I'm trying to to my kids. My family won't be hindered because of anothers unresponsiveness and irresponsibility.
@@liviadiemer3032 generally, a persons brother is considered family 🤔 and if you don’t think so, like I said, they are better off not coming. In this Bible story Jacob cons his own family, no one kicked him out lol
I have a question Mark and to anyone. I had a weird thought on the mark of the beast along with hearing some things. The forehead symbolizing the mind, the hand symbolizing the work. If we are not with him we are against him. This society is full of sin, we stay and live in it because if we were to leave it, it would be so hard. We stay in it because it provides food in the markets, homes to stay sheltered. But is what the lord provides for us from the land what we should have faith in and put works in? Anything you could think someone could want is now a thing. Think of a new creation it’s so hard because we have it all. Fallen angels and Satan put so much influence into new technology with secrets only they would know. Making faith less about the pure world and more into things made by man. Then number of man being 6. We must worship something and it will be what we think and what we work for.
Sir you feel peace from inside when wish peace for others. But if treat others as human animals you don't feel happy even if you are in holidays. On the other hand the Gaza people feel happy with little bread in their hands🙄
My Thanksgiving ruined years ago. A in-law told me I cannot sit at the main table at Thanksgiving, and to go sit at the kids table basically. And the obvious reason behind this was because I wasn't a business prospect to him. I didn't want to join his team of the business that he's in, and/or perfers other family members to sit there. And then I'm not sure if this was a different Thanksgiving, I think that this other event happened on like another family dinner type thing at the in-laws. But another in-law overstepped her boundary I was trying to teach me how to raise my kids. And was not taking no for an answer. And then an unnamed person would not stick up for me or defend me. I've been so traumatized since, I've never returned to Thanksgiving with them or a big family dinner.
Sorry,that is a really awful thing for relatives,blood or by marriage to do to you. I pray that you will able to deal with them and May Jesus Bless You❤🕊️☘️✝️
This is such awesome advice! Thank you, I can’t wait to see more of your UA-cams!
I dread seeing my mother for the holidays ☃️🎄😫😭
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One thing we’ve had to do with my in laws is set boundaries. They can be quite intrusive and I don’t appreciate it. My husbands brother is divorced and has been for years. They have shared custody. We we’re constantly waiting on his ex to either pick up the kids or drop them off. We could never get a definitive answer as to weather or not they were coming for dinner and did I need to set places for them. Finally I spoke up and told my husband I couldn’t take it anymore and I was tired of always waiting on them. This is my holiday to and I will no longer cowtow to ur brother and his ex nor do they get to determine the timeline. He spoke up. Now if they come they come if the don’t they don’t and I really don’t care. I won’t wait. Dinner is at 4. If ur here ur here if ur not ur not….
Do you always eat dinner at 4? Seems like you’re changing a normal schedule. It’s sad you don’t care about seeing the kids. They are all better off not coming
@@LesterF-wl8gk Not sure why you replied to me, I’m not the one who doesn’t care 🤡. reread the comment, nothing general about it. FYI- kids are victims of divorce since you mention it, all the adults should focus on them. Lots of people have difficulties on holidays w shared custody, the last thing they need is for family to make things worse.
Because those outside children of my home will not dictate MY families schedule. It's the parents responsibility to be healthy people for those kids. Nobody has to cater to someone else's family responsibilities. We made a plan.. in OUR home. No the outside families, I do not care. I do not care about seeing other kids more than I care demonstrating what I'm trying to to my kids. My family won't be hindered because of anothers unresponsiveness and irresponsibility.
@@liviadiemer3032 generally, a persons brother is considered family 🤔 and if you don’t think so, like I said, they are better off not coming. In this Bible story Jacob cons his own family, no one kicked him out lol
I have a question Mark and to anyone. I had a weird thought on the mark of the beast along with hearing some things. The forehead symbolizing the mind, the hand symbolizing the work. If we are not with him we are against him. This society is full of sin, we stay and live in it because if we were to leave it, it would be so hard. We stay in it because it provides food in the markets, homes to stay sheltered. But is what the lord provides for us from the land what we should have faith in and put works in? Anything you could think someone could want is now a thing. Think of a new creation it’s so hard because we have it all. Fallen angels and Satan put so much influence into new technology with secrets only they would know. Making faith less about the pure world and more into things made by man. Then number of man being 6. We must worship something and it will be what we think and what we work for.
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Just know that all the secular holidays in America are pagan. All of them
Wrong
Especially if they are all liberals!!
Y'all call y'all self's cristian's celebrating pagan holidays.
Sir you feel peace from inside when wish peace for others. But if treat others as human animals you don't feel happy even if you are in holidays. On the other hand the Gaza people feel happy with little bread in their hands🙄