My mother used to wake us up at 7:00 am every Saturday to clean. We had to wash our sheets, dust everything, then wipe the walls and baseboards and clean the carpet. I turned out to be an obsessive cleaner and my sister turned out to be a slob. Same raising, different results. You never know.
Its clear that the older daughter is helping. Sometimes it is overwhelming even for a child with helping minds. And sometimes parents dont let their child to help and let their emotions win and lead to this type of situation.
@@burntbeansoup Seriously you can't expect your kids to do all the work you wont do. You teach them by setting a good example and laying out your expectations of them.
@@burntbeansoup That´s what I wanted to say! My mother was a tidy person, but never really told us to tidy our rooms or clean or own stuff - we learned to clean and tidy as adults, when we moved out. It took a while for both of us. And no, I´m not saying it´s my mother´s fault.
Those kids are old enough to put to work cleaning their rooms and help tidy the rest of the house. Three people should be able to clean it up and keep it clean !!!
I completely agree. I understand the pathology of a mental illness encroaching on your environment, but even the most affected can be taught and supervised to clean up and maintain. I am beyond shocked and more than a bit angry at the teenage daughters who seem to think it's just mom's job to tidy up where they live. They live like pigs, but I think pigs are cleaner. This family is all smiles, so I really don't understand trying to hide behind "I'm depressed". BS. I have Multiple Sclerosis which has put me into a wheelchair. I still live in a clean house, two beds, two baths, and I have two cats. They have a clean little window seat where they can lounge on a sunny window, lots of toys and two always clean litter pans. I have a full kitchen, living room, and a sunny plant-filled porch and not a bit of dirt. I prefer to live as a human being, not rutting in my filth, neglecting my home and my animals so that we need to be bailed out with an extreme cleaning haz-mat team. This family is disgusting. I wonder how long she will have her university job once she makes the airwaves. If a 73 year old woman who can't walk and doesn't have cleaning help can maintain a lovely home, so can that obese and lazy woman and two healthy teenagers. This is lazy. There's just no excuse for living like a pig. NONE. I suspect this is a council flat, what Americans call subsidized or income adjusted housing, i.e., they are not ever going to have to pay their fair share for housing. I would support them being served with an eviction, because I suspect they can all live quite well under a bridge! If that sounds cruel, too bad. I'd love to walk again; but I can. Still, I am clean. That pig of a woman and those two lazy kids waddle through filth and think they are entitled to help? Please. My opinion.
If the mom isn't modeling/demonstrating those habits, they're not going to develop them innately. Some children will learn it for themselves (out of pure necessity or resentment), but many grow up to do just as they were shown by their parents.
GHETTO RATS COME IN EVERY SHAPE , SIZE, COLOR!!!! ABSOLUTELY PATHETIC!! MENTAL ILLNESS ISN'T THE ISSUE!! THE ISSUE SHE WOULDN'T!! NOTHING CAN STOP SOMEONE IF SHE WANTED TO CLEAN!! SHE DOESN'T WANT TO!! YOU GOI G TO CLEAN IT!! SHE WILL YTASH IT EVERY FIRST AND CLEANING SADLY WILL BE DONE BY THE CHILDREN!! SHE USING EVERY EXCUSE SHE CAN COME UP WITH!! PATHETIC!!!!!
The grandparents like to spoil the kids with stuff according to the mother. My friend Dorothy had this situation. She asked her parents to treat the kids to experiences instead of buying stuff. Take them out to lunch, a movie, a weekend vacation. Takes lots of pictures (easy to do these days) She said that her kids now have a lifetime of memories. The occasional toy, object is great but make it really meaningful. Don't clutter up their lives with stuff that they are going to feel guilty about throwing out.
Grandparents don't spoiled kids with toys or clothes, save the money for there education, a car. Open a bank account and put the money for there future
Fr these ignorant comments have me frustrated especially the ones saying the kids should have been helping like kids mirror their parents behavior even if they’re older teens.
@@Em0slagggThey are not 5 year olds,so if they mirror what their mother does,so if she jumps in a well,will they also?Give me a break,grown kids,walking around in garbage won't even lift a finger to clean up their own mess,what a pathetic excuse,so it's your comment that is ignorant here.
@@Em0slaggg Exactly, it's hard to build a healthy mental health when you're in a bad environment. Kids learn from their parents. I hope she gets better, as well as her children. Depression is really difficult to manage especially when you have no one to help you.
I have been up early, moping floors, folding laundry and cleaning the kitchen. Just a normal day. I just finished lunch and thought I would relax a little and watch some UA-cam. And this video pops up as a suggestion. I am exactly 1 minute in and have decided to put the iPad down and go clean some baseboards instead. Thank you for the motivation!
Children learn from what their parents model for them. If parents are unable to create a clean environment around them, the children will initially adopt the same behavior. Therefore, it’s completely absurd to claim that one has taught their children how to be tidy just because they themselves are tidy. Additionally, even children with very clean parents can tend to develop hoarding behavior, especially when the parents constantly clean around the children and the children don't have to participate.
I have adhd and stuff like this is the reason I have a daily routine on my fridge for household chores. I do two tasks per day, along with at least one load of laundry, and since I started that, my home has been so much easier to keep clean.
Right? and the girls can share the master since it would be bigger and mom in the smaller room. I’m a single mom and have been sharing with my youngest daughter for years. She just got her own room recently when my oldest moved out
I can't imagine it either but it's not the girls'fault. It's the mother who didn't set the ground rules and has overindulged them, perhaps to compensate for not having their father in their lives.
Those girls need to help around the house and share a room so the mum can have her own space! The 10-year-old acts like a 4-year-old. It's shameful that mom is sleeping on the living room couch and doesn't take one of the bedrooms for herself.
Mom is overwhelmed by everything. She needs small steps-put away 20 things each day, clean only the 2 tub faucets, bag 20 pieces of clothes to give to a thrift store. A million things to do but she has to start somewhere.
They could chuck all the livingroom furniture and get her a new couch and chair plus loveseat especially from a charity shop. The girls need to share a room so their mum can have a room.
I agree , maybe the eldest girl won't like it , but they should think of their mum , she needs a room as well ! That way the living room , REALLY becomes and stays the living ( family ) room 👍👍👍
@@Ballerina2025 exactly right. I dont think the teenager is going to be much help. However her room wasn't touched because it was clean already. So hopefully they can all keep it clean .
True, but I think that at the teen’s age, she’s getting a bit past room-sharing. Teens need some space of their own for privacy. If both girls’ belongings were together with two beds or a bunk bed, multiple dressers, half a small closet each…it would again become crowded and non-functional in short order. They already gave up probably about 50-75% of their belongings and have what is most important to them. Now ask them to get rid of more? If there are any (normal) sibling or family disagreements, everyone has their own calm space to retreat to. Now, the girls can put a mattress or sleeping mat/bag on the floor to have a friend sleep over for a night. If they’re in the same room, that becomes impossible. In a few years if the oldest daughter moves out, Mom will get her own space back. When the kids are at school during the day, Mom has privacy. When they are sleeping at night, Mom has privacy. When the girls want to hang out in their rooms, Mom has privacy, or if Mom needs her bedroom space, there’s somewhere to shoo the kids to. When everyone is out scouting, they’re out. When they do have time to be together, they have the living room and kitchen to enjoy together. Personally, I wouldn’t mind this setup if I were in the same circumstance. It’s now way better than before and all three will be better able to maintain it. This will also go a long way towards lifting depression, as will having people over, and feeling “normal” again. I hope they’re all healthy and happy now and in the future. 😊
I agree they need to share room they have beds with dressers under the bottom they also have headboard shelves. The girls can get a square desk. They need no more than that
Does this show not understand that hoarding is a mental health condition? It was once thought that hoarding was a type of OCD, but since 2015 it has been classified as a disorder of its own, a unique mental health problem. Unfortunate title for this video; it predisposes viewers to judge in terms of "laziness" vs. illness. Prolonged depression can also cause a person to feel exhausted and take away any motivation to act. Shame or guilt or dread of exposure gets in the way of asking for help.
Did any of you see the US Show "Hoarders" on A & E (Arts & Entertainment). Some of these folks are mentally depressed, while others are traumatized. One lady lost her stuff in a Fire, while another Lady admitted she bought alot of clothes to make up for what she didn't have growing up. Also look at Kim & Aggie, they worked with a Bachelor who was a Mama's Boy and may have had a slight case of Asbergers's. On Saturday I clean my house with My Mother like nobody's business. My Sister has OCD (she lives in another state) but she doesn't tolerate any mess whatsoever.
I think hoarding still is some kind of OCD? People who suffer from it tend to be very specific about certain items and have great memories about what they have and “obsess” over them being thrown away, keeping anything they deem in anyway useful.
Shaming a family with mental health conditions is so messed up. They are not lazy, they need help. Proud of you girls for reaching out and taking care of yourselves. ❤
Some people cannot relate to situations they haven’t personally experienced. Unfortunately some people cannot even experience sympathy…. Only criticism.
I can remember at the age of 5 standing on a stool and doing dishes! My older sister used to vacuum, dust and do the kitchen floor every week for Mom. Mom would do laundry and iron. We weren’t aloud to clutter!
It is a gross mistake to call this woman lazy. She reveals that she has the illness of depression yet in spite of that reached out for help to make life better for her and her children. Episode needs a more accurate title before she and the kids are shamed.
My heart goes out to this sweet lady. I understand being completely emotionally crippled by depression. My own mama passed three years ago and I’ve been struggling so badly since. If I was already in bed for 30 yrs, I can’t even function now. I was in icu with Covid for 9 weeks. I have trouble taking care of my own hygiene. My husband completely resents me. He is sick of me. I can’t even be honest with him about my feelings or thoughts that I fight, I don’t know why I’m still even here. He simply doesn’t relate to me. This said, thank you for helping this mama out. What a beautiful thing🌻
zoiefinnian. TRUST ME WHEN I SAY. "HE" ☝️. HAS THE ANSWER FOR YOUR HEALING & ITS LOVE OPEN YOUR HEART TO HIM ☝️. & ALLOW HIM TO LOVE YOU. 🙏✝️🕊️✝️🕊️✝️🕊️✝️& THE HEALING WILL COME ☺️💖
Debbie has two daughters, ages 16 and 10. These two daughters can't clean???!!! Sad, if I see my Mom is struggling to clean and is depressed I would step in and help my Mom with cleaning. Why doesn't Debbie put a full size futon in the living room for herself to sleep on? Then get a wardrobe to put her clothes in. In Debbie's home, who walks the dog?
Let's not forget it's been this way for over 10 years. One child was a toddler, the other maybe 6 when this started. They have not been taught how to keep house and that mess is far too overwhelming for cold to clean.. or 16 year old who grew up in it and thinks it is normal.
By the looks of it, the dog has never been on a walk. When we grew up, I am now 60, we were cleaning scrubbing walls and baseboards when we were not at school or accordion practice. I just spent 22 hours every day for 14 days cleaning a smokers home. Each ceiling fan took me 8 hours to scrub the one inch of STICKY DUST off the blades and SOS PADS to get the STICKY SLUDGE off of the bulb covers. My shoulders are torn, swollen hands with pins and needles for the last 3 days from scrubbing the walls, baseboards, closet mirrors, bathroom mirror and all my boxes in thee back room covered with one inch of dust because there is a large hole where the air conditioning unit is and doggie door melted 30 years ago so the flap does not cover the large hold in the door which is the room where all my possessions are. Fingers are tingling and burning.
I agree about Mom having her own Private Space. This all comes down to Self image The Mother has damaged emotions & what she doesn't realize is her girls will follow in her path if she doesn't start taking care of herself & try to get help to Heal the wounded emotions to feel healthy enough to believe she deserves herd own bedroom 🙏🕊️✝️. Prayer for her Healing & the two girls as well ☝️🕊️✝️🕊️✝️🕊️✝️🕊️✝️🙏
After my mom got divorced, she started working and my oldest sister and I, we both were in charge to clean our house and I was only 10 so those girls are big enough to help to clean in the house
To the person who says the oldest daughter should have her own apartment and be married she is only 16 years old that is too young to be married. But yes the girls can help with picking up everything. And help clean
I thought kids become different from their parents (usually as a form of rebellion). Honestly thought that the kids' room was going to be spotless. The way ThEy aRe HaPPy sMiLeZ does not show depression to me, I think lazy More So.😮
@@bleebleeblahblah oh i have depression and care giver burnout and when around people i look very happy and bubbly. The worse i feel the more i laugh around people. A friend unalived himself after a nice and happy meetup with friends. Its a defense mechanism to appear happy and smiley. Watch out for your " over" happy friends....😢
In addition to the toys on the floor in the daughter's room; I also see various trash. Just pure laziness for these kids to just throw their trash into the floor instead of putting it in a trashcan. Unbelievable.
Yeah unfortunately nobody cheers and calls you "inspirational" for managing to get out of bed that day. With mental illness the more you overcome the more people expect.
@@painpatientsaddiction3640 I always measure my depression by how active and motivated i am. Because think about it. If your ankle is broken, you are going to just sit around and do nothing but watch UA-cam all day. Your ankle might not hurt while you are sitting there but it will if you walk around. Also I measure it by if I procrastinate on harder things or become obsessed with one thing while letting everything else fall into neglect.
I like on this show that they get the homeowners really involved, teaching them where & how to keep cleaning. Very helpful crew, very receptive woman! I hope she & her girls can keep it up.
Totally agreed about title ...depression is a very very serious illness..that she can even work is a success...get busy girls and help your mom and yourselves¡.....good for you Debbie for getting help!..❤ it is hard to even do that.....also...being shocked is for dramatics only...
NEVER WAS THE KITCHEN SHOWN ..... ( Although I can imagine what it must have looked like , but did they tackle the kitchen as well ??? ) Other then that , this was a TREMENDOUS MAKE OVER AND DEEP CLEAN 👍👍🎉🎉🎉 I'M JUST VERY IMPRESSED ! CREDITS TO THE TEAM & family themselves . I hope they'll make a weekly effort to keep up these standards ( the 2 daughters can most definitely help out , as they're old and wise ( and able ! ) enough ! Great show , also extra thumbs up , for the fact this was a TALL ORDER , being a home , high up , in a flat building 👍👍👍👍👍🌞🌞🌞 The future looks bright once more for this mom and her 2 daughters ! Nice that her cousins can come around once more as well ( and that they both helped out ! ) 👍🧡🌈
Mom may be depressed but those girls have unfortunately followed her example… hope the clean up will motivate them to keep up the new status of their home, they’re really not used to tidying and cleaning up! I hope mom got some help and control on her depression🙏🏻
I think they should revisit this family in 6 mo down the road to see if they are keeping the place clean & organized, I have a feeling it will be right back to where it was, I highly doubt the kids learned ANYTHING from just watching someone ELSE clean up their messes, the youngest should NOT be Allowed to be writing on walls, & should be taught to know better, You would THINK Mom would have Stopped her from doing that, Plus both of these girls should have been taught HOW to keep their rooms clean & Organized, But, I doubt that will ever happen unless they Want it to!
My daughter draws on the walls all the time just get washable markers as long as it comes off. It is okay; are walls are clean as hell you wouldn't even be able to tell.
Kids really do learn what they live! You are their mother, lead by example! I get depressed and have a chronic illness but, I work from home on the computer and keep my house very clean! Teaching children to put things away after you use them, keeping clean, and being even sort of organized should be taught from the time they can walk! If these people, most are overweight I am too, would get up, move and clean their house everyday, they wouldn't have time or energy to be depressed. I know these 3 old farmer guys in my area. They grew up together and all are in their 90 s and still farming!! I recently asked one of them what keeps them going, motivated, and healthy. The man replied, "because we, me and my 2 old friends, always have a goal to finish/complete for tomorrow"!!! What an extremely true statement for all of us to live by❤. We can learn many useful and valuable things from our older generation ❤.
Just start throwing shit away lmaooo 😅 That’s what I do when I start to get overwhelmed about clutter. Sophie’s toys would be trashed or donated…trust me she won’t know the difference. She wouldn’t even be able to pinpoint what’s gone.
I'm calling BS on the "two day" thing. That blue bedroom got repainted. There was all kinds of flaking paint next to the window, gone now. Yes, they scrubbed off the markings, but you can tell it was repainted after that. When did all that happen? In the space of the last few hours of the second day?
It's not helpful to shame and judge this family when the hosts were watching the pre-cleaning video. Her family members that showed up to "help" were pretty condescending, too. She's not lazy. She's suffering a mental health crisis. And, BTW, Witch Hazel used to clean a flat screen TV with damage the screen. It's better to use a damp cloth to dust it off.
Yeah, unfortunately, that part of the world's education system is pretty subpar. This is also why there's a lot of ignorant comments in the comment section. Some cultures breed a lack of curiousity and critical thinking. In its place are just judgemental assumptions. Condescending people are unaware of the complex science behind mental illness and assume everything is super simple and straightforward. But if it was super simple, then there wouldn't ever be a problem.
It's bad that this woman is living this way but what is super bad is that her daughters are being taught, by example, that this is an acceptable way to live. I wonder if they will EVER learn there is a better way to live.
Please don't call these people lazy. This is a symptom of depression. And possibly ADHD. It must be treated with a professional. It can become so overwhelming and discouraging for others. I know all about that. I live with parents who have one room that is hideous. I do my best to clean my bathroom and tidy my bedroom. I've been challenged by depression and anxiety. ADHD. She needs help.
If they have the energy to make the messes, then they have the energy to clean the messes. Maybe if the place was kept clean she wouldnt be so depressed. If I leave one thing out of place it upsets me. Hoping for the best for them. Good luck everyone..
Currently cleaning my ex-husband hoarder house. I couldn't get past the kitchen. I grew up very Italian with plastic covered furniture. He grew up in a cluttered house. We got divorced because of his hoadering. I gutted out the attic 3 times only for him to fill it up again. He collects CDs and albums. There are over 50 thousand CDs crammed in a 3 story house. Found 4 crock pots why? He doesn't cook. I found expired food from 2008. Covered in mice poop. Mice poop and pee covers the entire kitchen it is a biohazard. I threw out 20 trash bags from a corner of the kitchen. I kept this house immaculately clean we've been divorced for 15 years in that time the house went into disrepair. Every time someone in his family dies he gets their junk. Old pots and pans old bath towels he has 4 trash bags of dead peoples bath towels. I want to trolled him so frustrated. My last resort is having his family see how bad it is. Giving him a choice get the place cleaned or I call social services.
This is actually a roomy apartment when the clutter is gone. Too many stuffed animals and beauty products. Consolidate the shampoos, and conditioners. Too many partial bottles. Get a good Dow spray Scrbbing Bubbles around the fixtures and all through the bath. Leave it sit 10 minutes. I JUST got rid of the last stuffed animals 🧸, to my grand-niece, age 3. She loved them. One day in high school my daughter detestedly said, “Get rid of these!!” And so I did, except the ones I liked...❤️. I’m using Witch Hazel on my car dash!
Sometimes it can be. I went through a depressive stage and did not clean my apartment for a few months. Thankfully I was able to get out of that stage and not let it go on for years. I know the difference when I'm lazy vs feeling depressed and overwhelmed to do anything. Everyone struggles differently
People being so judgmental in the comments, no need for it, they got the help they needed and I’m sure the girls will help because they have a looked at what the house looks like when it’s clean and I’m sure they prefer it that way💕 they haven’t hade a good example for over 4 years on how to keep clean but this is a good start.
🙄 another factor to keeping your house clean is don’t wear your shoes into the house - what’s the point of scrubbing the floors if you’re just going to walk around in your dirty shoes that god knows what you step in from outside.
Yup the daughters are old enough to help in cleaning and keep the house uncluttered. Growing up my Mom would go ballistic if we dont clean or if she sees clutter when one can take away our plates and wash it right after using; clean as you go in some areas. My mom would threatened if we dont clean after ourselves esp if it is our personal things lying around the house that she will throw it. 😂😅 I love organizing and cleaning after everything. We have 2 shih as well and when they pee and poo, i immediately clean right away. So it doesnt smell like we have dear doggies at home. Im on top of it. One has to trained themselves and put their mind with the habit of cleaning.
Depression is not being too lazy. I completely disagree with people whos judging anyone struggling with daily tasks. Have they ever lived bad situation? Were they ever in a bad position? Everything seems to be a mountain when you have mental disease. The person who put that title is not kind, not compassionate and it's not creating a safe space for anyone in needs of help! Because of that, they will be too afraid to ask for help. Shame on you! I didn't finish the video just because of that.
A 10 year old shouldnt have to literally clean the messes the mom has made a decade ago. If she was already struggling with cleaning with her first kid, she shouldnt have gotten a second one. And i dont know where the dad is, but if he's still alive he should be held accountable as well.
So having mental health problems is being lazy? Good grief this is what’s wrong with society always judging not wanting to cheer people on and have empathy for them. I’m sorry some of us are human and doing our best to not drown my house is a complete shit show and I cry everyday, but it’s awesome you call people lazy then wonder why so many people can’t take it anymore and just end it. It’s truly painful when people judge which is why we don’t ask for help people like you suck.
@@CopingwithGrattitudeI can definitely tell that thier mother is doing her best for her daughters. She's not lazy, she's depress, and overwhelmed on what to do.
My next door nighbor was like this. Feets of trash and clothes throughout the house. I went to look at the bathroom and the condition of the bath tub needed to be reported to CDC!!! 🤢👀She has kids that were big kids too. Lazy and nasty!! I use to ask them why wont they help their mother. I tokd them daily they should clean up! They just did not care. These ppl are just nasty and they are very confortable with things being disgusting and cluttered. Even if you get it cleaned for them they WILL NOT keep it cleaned. And that is a damn shame!! 😐👀👀🤢
You have 2 grown girls there's no sense in your house looking like that. I battle with depression every day and it's chronic, but I keep my home clean. I pray god helps you with your depression
My mother used to wake us up at 7:00 am every Saturday to clean. We had to wash our sheets, dust everything, then wipe the walls and baseboards and clean the carpet. I turned out to be an obsessive cleaner and my sister turned out to be a slob. Same raising, different results. You never know.
It's a thin line, actually, the difference.
@@alicefrmga just checking, are you the older of the 2 girls?
It's nothing new that kids grow up with the same parents, same school, same teachers, can be night and day.
Good ol Saturday chores we had to DEEP CLEAN 😂
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Daughters are old enough to lend a helping hand.
Its clear that the older daughter is helping. Sometimes it is overwhelming even for a child with helping minds. And sometimes parents dont let their child to help and let their emotions win and lead to this type of situation.
@@nayeemarashid8032 well said
Weren't taught to. Not their fault their mom is incompetent
@@burntbeansoup Seriously you can't expect your kids to do all the work you wont do. You teach them by setting a good example and laying out your expectations of them.
@@burntbeansoup That´s what I wanted to say! My mother was a tidy person, but never really told us to tidy our rooms or clean or own stuff - we learned to clean and tidy as adults, when we moved out. It took a while for both of us. And no, I´m not saying it´s my mother´s fault.
Those kids are old enough to put to work cleaning their rooms and help tidy the rest of the house. Three people should be able to clean it up and keep it clean !!!
I completely agree. I understand the pathology of a mental illness encroaching on your environment, but even the most affected can be taught and supervised to clean up and maintain. I am beyond shocked and more than a bit angry at the teenage daughters who seem to think it's just mom's job to tidy up where they live. They live like pigs, but I think pigs are cleaner. This family is all smiles, so I really don't understand trying to hide behind "I'm depressed". BS. I have Multiple Sclerosis which has put me into a wheelchair. I still live in a clean house, two beds, two baths, and I have two cats. They have a clean little window seat where they can lounge on a sunny window, lots of toys and two always clean litter pans. I have a full kitchen, living room, and a sunny plant-filled porch and not a bit of dirt. I prefer to live as a human being, not rutting in my filth, neglecting my home and my animals so that we need to be bailed out with an extreme cleaning haz-mat team. This family is disgusting. I wonder how long she will have her university job once she makes the airwaves. If a 73 year old woman who can't walk and doesn't have cleaning help can maintain a lovely home, so can that obese and lazy woman and two healthy teenagers. This is lazy. There's just no excuse for living like a pig. NONE. I suspect this is a council flat, what Americans call subsidized or income adjusted housing, i.e., they are not ever going to have to pay their fair share for housing. I would support them being served with an eviction, because I suspect they can all live quite well under a bridge! If that sounds cruel, too bad. I'd love to walk again; but I can. Still, I am clean. That pig of a woman and those two lazy kids waddle through filth and think they are entitled to help? Please. My opinion.
Agreed ! Stop with the excuses
If the mom isn't modeling/demonstrating those habits, they're not going to develop them innately. Some children will learn it for themselves (out of pure necessity or resentment), but many grow up to do just as they were shown by their parents.
Everyone is lazy as hell. They don't want to do the work to clean up and keep it clean. No one is disabled so everyone needs to get busy cleaning.
That would be the day!!!!!!!!! Two girls can have one room!!!!!!
She doesn't have the hoarder mentality... It seems like she was just overwhelmed and didn't know where to start.
Thats the hoarder mentality, it starts with depression, then overwhelmeness... then is spirals.
@@nyzechu you sound like a professional
@@CarnabooClarkehmm I’m not but I have seen how it goes in a spiral. People need kindness and compassion, and above all empathy.😢
She literally said that
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I hope that her daughters will start keeping their rooms clean and helping with household chores.
GHETTO RATS COME IN EVERY SHAPE , SIZE, COLOR!!!! ABSOLUTELY PATHETIC!! MENTAL ILLNESS ISN'T THE ISSUE!! THE ISSUE SHE WOULDN'T!! NOTHING CAN STOP SOMEONE IF SHE WANTED TO CLEAN!! SHE DOESN'T WANT TO!! YOU GOI G TO CLEAN IT!! SHE WILL YTASH IT EVERY FIRST AND CLEANING SADLY WILL BE DONE BY THE CHILDREN!! SHE USING EVERY EXCUSE SHE CAN COME UP WITH!! PATHETIC!!!!!
Brave woman reaching out publicly for help.
Why are those grown kids writing on the walls
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she was struggling but still tried to give both her daughters their own rooms🥹 what a good mom
Not good mother to have them live like that !
@ she’s trying her best clearly. depression is a debilitating condition.
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She isn't bad, and if you truly feel that way I hope if something like this ever happens to you you're gentler on yourself than you are on her.
The grandparents like to spoil the kids with stuff according to the mother. My friend Dorothy had this situation. She asked her parents to treat the kids to experiences instead of buying stuff. Take them out to lunch, a movie, a weekend vacation. Takes lots of pictures (easy to do these days) She said that her kids now have a lifetime of memories. The occasional toy, object is great but make it really meaningful. Don't clutter up their lives with stuff that they are going to feel guilty about throwing out.
Grandparents don't spoiled kids with toys or clothes, save the money for there education, a car. Open a bank account and put the money for there future
Those girls are both old enough to clean! Need to stop buying stuff and thin out what they already have.
Agreed
Those girls should have been the ones cleaning the walls. They wrote on the walls.
user-eo4up7ob3c. I BELIEVE THAT IS WHAT THEY JUST DID. WERE YOU WATCHING OR JUST JUDGING 🤔
The older girl’s room is clean
@@BeverlyMurphy-j5mGiving an opinion is not judging,and shouting out your comment with capitals, doesn't make it more worth reading.
Depression is very real, very hard & manifests itself in many ways. I hope she is doing better now.
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Fr these ignorant comments have me frustrated especially the ones saying the kids should have been helping like kids mirror their parents behavior even if they’re older teens.
@@Em0slagggThey are not 5 year olds,so if they mirror what their mother does,so if she jumps in a well,will they also?Give me a break,grown kids,walking around in garbage won't even lift a finger to clean up their own mess,what a pathetic excuse,so it's your comment that is ignorant here.
@@Em0slaggg Exactly, it's hard to build a healthy mental health when you're in a bad environment. Kids learn from their parents. I hope she gets better, as well as her children. Depression is really difficult to manage especially when you have no one to help you.
It isn't fair to call this lady lazy, she's clearly struggling here, nobody would ever choose to live like this. I hope she's doing better now.
I agree with you. This is overwhelming for anyone. Thanks for speaking with compassion.
Yea the title pissed me off. Yes, they’re helping her but they’re also exploiting her. They could have done the title with some dignity.
LAZY!!! 😂😂😂 Over 10 years please and she have 2 kids old enough to clean 🙄
That is pure laziness
But she is choosing to live this way.
I have been up early, moping floors, folding laundry and cleaning the kitchen. Just a normal day. I just finished lunch and thought I would relax a little and watch some UA-cam. And this video pops up as a suggestion. I am exactly 1 minute in and have decided to put the iPad down and go clean some baseboards instead. Thank you for the motivation!
Yes, I will be doing my own shower too.
Her daughters are old enough to help. That is how I raised my daughters.
Agree!
Children learn from what their parents model for them. If parents are unable to create a clean environment around them, the children will initially adopt the same behavior. Therefore, it’s completely absurd to claim that one has taught their children how to be tidy just because they themselves are tidy. Additionally, even children with very clean parents can tend to develop hoarding behavior, especially when the parents constantly clean around the children and the children don't have to participate.
I have adhd and stuff like this is the reason I have a daily routine on my fridge for household chores. I do two tasks per day, along with at least one load of laundry, and since I started that, my home has been so much easier to keep clean.
Cant the 2 daughters share a room? And the mom have her own room?
Agree
💔 Los sacrificios que hacemos las madres 💔
@@carob8711 it is not right. It's not a sacrifice. It's having no control over your children. It's not raising them right.
@@makt122 It’s not valuing herself. 😢
@@CopingwithGrattitude exactly
I love her attitude! Donating so many stuff, she´s so lovely! You can see that she is really trying to fix everything. I hope she´s doing well!
Seriously i could not insist on having my own room if my own mother didnt have a room and was sleeping in the living room. Thats just messed up.
Right? and the girls can share the master since it would be bigger and mom in the smaller room. I’m a single mom and have been sharing with my youngest daughter for years. She just got her own room recently when my oldest moved out
I had also hoped the girls would share the bedroom. Sad mum can get her own private space!! Nooo
I can't imagine it either but it's not the girls'fault. It's the mother who didn't set the ground rules and has overindulged them, perhaps to compensate for not having their father in their lives.
Those girls need to help around the house and share a room so the mum can have her own space! The 10-year-old acts like a 4-year-old. It's shameful that mom is sleeping on the living room couch and doesn't take one of the bedrooms for herself.
Mom is overwhelmed by everything. She needs small steps-put away 20 things each day, clean only the 2 tub faucets, bag 20 pieces of clothes to give to a thrift store. A million things to do but she has to start somewhere.
The girls could be sharing a room so mother has a proper bedroom.
They could chuck all the livingroom furniture and get her a new couch and chair plus loveseat especially from a charity shop. The girls need to share a room so their mum can have a room.
I agree , maybe the eldest girl won't like it , but they should think of their mum , she needs a room as well !
That way the living room , REALLY becomes and stays the living ( family ) room 👍👍👍
@@Ballerina2025 exactly right. I dont think the teenager is going to be much help. However her room wasn't touched because it was clean already. So hopefully they can all keep it clean .
True, but I think that at the teen’s age, she’s getting a bit past room-sharing. Teens need some space of their own for privacy. If both girls’ belongings were together with two beds or a bunk bed, multiple dressers, half a small closet each…it would again become crowded and non-functional in short order. They already gave up probably about 50-75% of their belongings and have what is most important to them. Now ask them to get rid of more? If there are any (normal) sibling or family disagreements, everyone has their own calm space to retreat to. Now, the girls can put a mattress or sleeping mat/bag on the floor to have a friend sleep over for a night. If they’re in the same room, that becomes impossible.
In a few years if the oldest daughter moves out, Mom will get her own space back. When the kids are at school during the day, Mom has privacy. When they are sleeping at night, Mom has privacy. When the girls want to hang out in their rooms, Mom has privacy, or if Mom needs her bedroom space, there’s somewhere to shoo the kids to. When everyone is out scouting, they’re out. When they do have time to be together, they have the living room and kitchen to enjoy together. Personally, I wouldn’t mind this setup if I were in the same circumstance.
It’s now way better than before and all three will be better able to maintain it. This will also go a long way towards lifting depression, as will having people over, and feeling “normal” again. I hope they’re all healthy and happy now and in the future. 😊
They're 8 stories up ..
I agree they need to share room they have beds with dressers under the bottom they also have headboard shelves. The girls can get a square desk. They need no more than that
I’m so happy because of this beautiful woman. It’s very hard to be depressed and single mom. All the best for you girls 💕💕💕
Does this show not understand that hoarding is a mental health condition? It was once thought that hoarding was a type of OCD, but since 2015 it has been classified as a disorder of its own, a unique mental health problem. Unfortunate title for this video; it predisposes viewers to judge in terms of "laziness" vs. illness. Prolonged depression can also cause a person to feel exhausted and take away any motivation to act. Shame or guilt or dread of exposure gets in the way of asking for help.
It was a disgusting headline and cruelly inacurate
And what's wrong with her daughters? Are they depressed too?
Did any of you see the US Show "Hoarders" on A & E (Arts & Entertainment). Some of these folks are mentally depressed, while others are traumatized. One lady lost her stuff in a Fire, while another Lady admitted she bought alot of clothes to make up for what she didn't have growing up. Also look at Kim & Aggie, they worked with a Bachelor who was a Mama's Boy and may have had a slight case of Asbergers's. On Saturday I clean my house with My Mother like nobody's business. My Sister has OCD (she lives in another state) but she doesn't tolerate any mess whatsoever.
You are uneducated .@rosalialima7
I think hoarding still is some kind of OCD? People who suffer from it tend to be very specific about certain items and have great memories about what they have and “obsess” over them being thrown away, keeping anything they deem in anyway useful.
Shaming a family with mental health conditions is so messed up. They are not lazy, they need help. Proud of you girls for reaching out and taking care of yourselves. ❤
Some people cannot relate to situations they haven’t personally experienced. Unfortunately some people cannot even experience sympathy…. Only criticism.
😅😅😅😅
I can remember at the age of 5 standing on a stool and doing dishes! My older sister used to vacuum, dust and do the kitchen floor every week for Mom. Mom would do laundry and iron. We weren’t aloud to clutter!
I’m glad she asked for help 💕 I hope they all do their part to keep it clean and organized
It is a gross mistake to call this woman lazy. She reveals that she has the illness of depression yet in spite of that reached out for help to make life better for her and her children. Episode needs a more accurate title before she and the kids are shamed.
nah shes just lazy you can see it
@@Uhh.thankyou No she isn't, fuck you.
Utube puts the clickbait on. I don’t think its in their control
@mewho6592 this is an individual's channel who copied the episode and put a clickbaity title. No need to get too heated and come with bullet points 😂
@@Uhh.thankyouagreed
My heart goes out to this sweet lady. I understand being completely emotionally crippled by depression. My own mama passed three years ago and I’ve been struggling so badly since. If I was already in bed for 30 yrs, I can’t even function now. I was in icu with Covid for 9 weeks. I have trouble taking care of my own hygiene. My husband completely resents me. He is sick of me. I can’t even be honest with him about my feelings or thoughts that I fight, I don’t know why I’m still even here. He simply doesn’t relate to me. This said, thank you for helping this mama out. What a beautiful thing🌻
zoiefinnian. TRUST ME WHEN I SAY. "HE" ☝️. HAS THE ANSWER FOR YOUR HEALING & ITS LOVE OPEN YOUR HEART TO HIM ☝️. & ALLOW HIM TO LOVE YOU. 🙏✝️🕊️✝️🕊️✝️🕊️✝️& THE HEALING WILL COME ☺️💖
You are definitely here for a reason. You have purpose. ❤
Thank you
Hugs ❤
Please reach out to a friend or contact a therapist in your area, you matter and deserve a healthy tomorrow 😊
Debbie has two daughters, ages 16 and 10. These two daughters can't clean???!!!
Sad, if I see my Mom is struggling to clean and is depressed I would step in and help my Mom with cleaning.
Why doesn't Debbie put a full size futon in the living room for herself to sleep on? Then get a wardrobe to put her clothes in.
In Debbie's home, who walks the dog?
No excuse for the daughters…
Let's not forget it's been this way for over 10 years. One child was a toddler, the other maybe 6 when this started. They have not been taught how to keep house and that mess is far too overwhelming for cold to clean.. or 16 year old who grew up in it and thinks it is normal.
Exactly! I started helping my mom clean the house when I was barely 5 years old!
By the looks of it, the dog has never been on a walk. When we grew up, I am now 60, we were cleaning scrubbing walls and baseboards when we were not at school or accordion practice. I just spent 22 hours every day for 14 days cleaning a smokers home. Each ceiling fan took me 8 hours to scrub the one inch of STICKY DUST off the blades and SOS PADS to get the STICKY SLUDGE off of the bulb covers. My shoulders are torn, swollen hands with pins and needles for the last 3 days from scrubbing the walls, baseboards, closet mirrors, bathroom mirror and all my boxes in thee back room covered with one inch of dust because there is a large hole where the air conditioning unit is and doggie door melted 30 years ago so the flap does not cover the large hold in the door which is the room where all my possessions are. Fingers are tingling and burning.
Poor dog probably depressed too. It doesn’t know any better.
why can't the girls share a room and mama can have a room too
I agree about Mom having her own Private Space. This all comes down to Self image The Mother has damaged emotions & what she doesn't realize is her girls will follow in her path if she doesn't start taking care of herself & try to get help to Heal the wounded emotions to feel healthy enough to believe she deserves herd own bedroom 🙏🕊️✝️. Prayer for her Healing & the two girls as well ☝️🕊️✝️🕊️✝️🕊️✝️🕊️✝️🙏
mama is soft why don't the 3 clean this tiny place
Spoilt
B/c mom doesn't have strong boundaries. There are a lot of layers going on here.
After my mom got divorced, she started working and my oldest sister and I, we both were in charge to clean our house and I was only 10 so those girls are big enough to help to clean in the house
Does anyone else find it unbelievable that there's no roaches or mice?!😮
You can see mice poop around the couch. Ugh
@@debishaw9355🙄
Trust me they have mice 🐁
Why are the girls not in there scrubbing also. My kids had to clean their bathroom and rooms.. their stuff, their responsibility
Following their mother’s footsteps of managing house cleaning!
Why didn't they get that child to clean her walls
Exactly!! Brat drew all over the walls, in Sharpie no less!! She should've had to work to remove it!
And laughed about it 🤦🏽♀️ yuck
@@RS54321 Mr Clean works on crayon but idk about sharpies
Those girls should be right in there as well so they learn how to clean properly and not allow clutter.
Absolutely 💯, those girls need to be in there helping their mom clean and letting the team show them how to properly put things away!
Agreed
Sophie should have scrubbed that “artwork” from the wall!
Right!!
A new start for the family. Wonderful!!! All the best for the family.
They did a marvelous job! Hopefully this will give the family the motivation to keep it that way!
To the person who says the oldest daughter should have her own apartment and be married she is only 16 years old that is too young to be married. But yes the girls can help with picking up everything. And help clean
She SHOULD be able to clean her room, though. Now that it is clean, she can help maintain it.
I thought kids become different from their parents (usually as a form of rebellion). Honestly thought that the kids' room was going to be spotless.
The way ThEy aRe HaPPy sMiLeZ does not show depression to me, I think lazy More So.😮
@@bleebleeblahblah oh i have depression and care giver burnout and when around people i look very happy and bubbly. The worse i feel the more i laugh around people. A friend unalived himself after a nice and happy meetup with friends.
Its a defense mechanism to appear happy and smiley. Watch out for your " over" happy friends....😢
This poor woman needs help with her daughters thank GOD someone is helping them!!!😢😢
Supernanny
Awww, good luck Ms Debbie! We all struggle with one thing or another so you’re definitely not alone.
In addition to the toys on the floor in the daughter's room; I also see various trash. Just pure laziness for these kids to just throw their trash into the floor instead of putting it in a trashcan. Unbelievable.
Moms fault. She’s not teaching them .
A TIDY HOUSE IS NEXT TO IMPOSSIBLE WHEN YOUR DEPRESSED. EVEN SHOWERING BECOMES HARD. REMEMBER, UNLESS YOU HAVE BEEN DEPRESSED, YOU WON'T UNDERSTAND.
Yeah unfortunately nobody cheers and calls you "inspirational" for managing to get out of bed that day. With mental illness the more you overcome the more people expect.
@catherineblair1221 never saw kitchen, or big sis room...
People tell me I'm depressed but I don't feel like I really am although I do struggle ever since my mom has died
@@painpatientsaddiction3640 SOMETIMES IT TAKES ANOTHER PERSON TO SPOT WHAT IS WRONG WITH US.
@@painpatientsaddiction3640 I always measure my depression by how active and motivated i am. Because think about it. If your ankle is broken, you are going to just sit around and do nothing but watch UA-cam all day. Your ankle might not hurt while you are sitting there but it will if you walk around. Also I measure it by if I procrastinate on harder things or become obsessed with one thing while letting everything else fall into neglect.
Without mental therapy
This cleanliness will never last
WASTE OF TIME POSSIBLY
Those kids need to get off their backsides
MDD diagnosed here and I cant imagine letting my child grow up in such filth. No excuses for that especially now that the girls are older
Love it! Gotta love the hosts sitting around drinking and commenting…..
I've followed her since obsessive compulsive cleaners..I always get motivated 😊Thanx for your uppies!!!GODblz Bsav...
I was wondering if it was the same lady!!!
I like on this show that they get the homeowners really involved, teaching them where & how to keep cleaning. Very helpful crew, very receptive woman! I hope she & her girls can keep it up.
My mom always said you have 15 minutes to do a chore and really if the 3 of you do 15 minutes a day each the flat will look great everyday.
Totally agreed about title
...depression is a very very serious illness..that she can even work is a success...get busy girls and help your mom and yourselves¡.....good for you Debbie for getting help!..❤ it is hard to even do that.....also...being shocked is for dramatics only...
The channel is called “Filth”. It’s not exactly a clinical approach to a serious mental illness. 😂
Grandparents spoil the grandchildren with toys….. it would be better if they could spend that money to hire people to provide a clean home.
Absolutely amazing transformation!
I noticed that all nasty people and hoarders have pets. If you can't keep your home up how are you caring for children and pets?
NEVER WAS THE KITCHEN SHOWN ..... ( Although I can imagine what it must have looked like , but did they tackle the kitchen as well ??? )
Other then that , this was a TREMENDOUS MAKE OVER AND DEEP CLEAN 👍👍🎉🎉🎉 I'M JUST VERY IMPRESSED ! CREDITS TO THE TEAM & family themselves . I hope they'll make a weekly effort to keep up these standards ( the 2 daughters can most definitely help out , as they're old and wise ( and able ! ) enough !
Great show , also extra thumbs up , for the fact this was a TALL ORDER , being a home , high up , in a flat building 👍👍👍👍👍🌞🌞🌞
The future looks bright once more for this mom and her 2 daughters !
Nice that her cousins can come around once more as well ( and that they both helped out ! ) 👍🧡🌈
Debby hasn't cleaned since her oldest was born. I don't blame you Deb. I've been there and hardly picked myself up.
Mom may be depressed but those girls have unfortunately followed her example… hope the clean up will motivate them to keep up the new status of their home, they’re really not used to tidying and cleaning up! I hope mom got some help and control on her depression🙏🏻
I think they should revisit this family in 6 mo down the road to see if they are keeping the place clean & organized, I have a feeling it will be right back to where it was, I highly doubt the kids learned ANYTHING from just watching someone ELSE clean up their messes, the youngest should NOT be Allowed to be writing on walls, & should be taught to know better, You would THINK Mom would have Stopped her from doing that, Plus both of these girls should have been taught HOW to keep their rooms clean & Organized, But, I doubt that will ever happen unless they Want it to!
My daughter draws on the walls all the time just get washable markers as long as it comes off. It is okay; are walls are clean as hell you wouldn't even be able to tell.
I stopped that by adding a wall painted with chalk paint and told my kids this is YOUR wall to write on or design something. It worked well. 🩷
I dont feel okay with the mum sleeping in the living room, thr girld can share a room.
Kids really do learn what they live! You are their mother, lead by example! I get depressed and have a chronic illness but, I work from home on the computer and keep my house very clean! Teaching children to put things away after you use them, keeping clean, and being even sort of organized should be taught from the time they can walk! If these people, most are overweight I am too, would get up, move and clean their house everyday, they wouldn't have time or energy to be depressed. I know these 3 old farmer guys in my area. They grew up together and all are in their 90 s and still farming!! I recently asked one of them what keeps them going, motivated, and healthy. The man replied, "because we, me and my 2 old friends, always have a goal to finish/complete for tomorrow"!!! What an extremely true statement for all of us to live by❤. We can learn many useful and valuable things from our older generation ❤.
So True!❤
Wouldn’t have time to be depressed??? You have zero compassion and understanding for someone who claims to have depression/illness.
Just start throwing shit away lmaooo 😅
That’s what I do when I start to get overwhelmed about clutter.
Sophie’s toys would be trashed or donated…trust me she won’t know the difference. She wouldn’t even be able to pinpoint what’s gone.
I do the same 😂
Her kids are old enough to clean
Their mom needs to teach them, guide them and enforce cleaning
You guys are amazing and deserve a great deal of credit. God bless you all.
They have a lift ...not like they have to take the stairs .take the garbage out daily
I'm calling BS on the "two day" thing. That blue bedroom got repainted. There was all kinds of flaking paint next to the window, gone now. Yes, they scrubbed off the markings, but you can tell it was repainted after that. When did all that happen? In the space of the last few hours of the second day?
They are very nice family! I like their smiles. I hope they will keep it clean after this fresh restart.
It's not helpful to shame and judge this family when the hosts were watching the pre-cleaning video. Her family members that showed up to "help" were pretty condescending, too. She's not lazy. She's suffering a mental health crisis. And, BTW, Witch Hazel used to clean a flat screen TV with damage the screen. It's better to use a damp cloth to dust it off.
Yeah, unfortunately, that part of the world's education system is pretty subpar. This is also why there's a lot of ignorant comments in the comment section. Some cultures breed a lack of curiousity and critical thinking. In its place are just judgemental assumptions. Condescending people are unaware of the complex science behind mental illness and assume everything is super simple and straightforward. But if it was super simple, then there wouldn't ever be a problem.
It's bad that this woman is living this way but what is super bad is that her daughters are being taught, by example, that this is an acceptable way to live. I wonder if they will EVER learn there is a better way to live.
Please don't call these people lazy. This is a symptom of depression. And possibly ADHD. It must be treated with a professional. It can become so overwhelming and discouraging for others. I know all about that. I live with parents who have one room that is hideous. I do my best to clean my bathroom and tidy my bedroom. I've been challenged by depression and anxiety. ADHD. She needs help.
Laziness is a symptom of depression.
One of the first things I see is a teenager sitting on the couch. Why isn't her sister helping her clean?
If they have the energy to make the messes, then they have the energy to clean the messes. Maybe if the place was kept clean she wouldnt be so depressed. If I leave one thing out of place it upsets me. Hoping for the best for them. Good luck everyone..
Currently cleaning my ex-husband hoarder house. I couldn't get past the kitchen. I grew up very Italian with plastic covered furniture. He grew up in a cluttered house. We got divorced because of his hoadering. I gutted out the attic 3 times only for him to fill it up again. He collects CDs and albums. There are over 50 thousand CDs crammed in a 3 story house. Found 4 crock pots why? He doesn't cook. I found expired food from 2008. Covered in mice poop.
Mice poop and pee covers the entire kitchen it is a biohazard. I threw out 20 trash bags from a corner of the kitchen.
I kept this house immaculately clean we've been divorced for 15 years in that time the house went into disrepair.
Every time someone in his family dies he gets their junk. Old pots and pans old bath towels he has 4 trash bags of dead peoples bath towels.
I want to trolled him so frustrated.
My last resort is having his family see how bad it is. Giving him a choice get the place cleaned or I call social services.
Those girls should be sharing a room! Mom needs her own room. So sick of parents kowtowing to their kids! 🙄
Haley has come a long way, really great how she handels filth now.
Those girls need to clean their own room hello!
This is actually a roomy apartment when the clutter is gone. Too many stuffed animals and beauty products. Consolidate the shampoos, and conditioners. Too many partial bottles. Get a good Dow spray Scrbbing Bubbles around the fixtures and all through the bath. Leave it sit 10 minutes. I JUST got rid of the last stuffed animals 🧸, to my grand-niece, age 3. She loved them. One day in high school my daughter detestedly said, “Get rid of these!!” And so I did, except the ones I liked...❤️. I’m using Witch Hazel on my car dash!
The gals are big enough to help!!!
I still believe keeping a filthy house is just lazy behavior!
You are absolutely right.
Sometimes it can be. I went through a depressive stage and did not clean my apartment for a few months. Thankfully I was able to get out of that stage and not let it go on for years.
I know the difference when I'm lazy vs feeling depressed and overwhelmed to do anything. Everyone struggles differently
People being so judgmental in the comments, no need for it, they got the help they needed and I’m sure the girls will help because they have a looked at what the house looks like when it’s clean and I’m sure they prefer it that way💕 they haven’t hade a good example for over 4 years on how to keep clean but this is a good start.
I'd die for embarrassment if I lived like this..
They are. It is crippling.
Shame on the person who titled this episode. This home owner has issues going on. Calling her lazy is extremely disrespectful.
Ikr that was rude as crap to title this the way that it is. Makes me angry AF. Depression is real people
🙄 another factor to keeping your house clean is don’t wear your shoes into the house - what’s the point of scrubbing the floors if you’re just going to walk around in your dirty shoes that god knows what you step in from outside.
Yup the daughters are old enough to help in cleaning and keep the house uncluttered. Growing up my Mom would go ballistic if we dont clean or if she sees clutter when one can take away our plates and wash it right after using; clean as you go in some areas. My mom would threatened if we dont clean after ourselves esp if it is our personal things lying around the house that she will throw it. 😂😅 I love organizing and cleaning after everything. We have 2 shih as well and when they pee and poo, i immediately clean right away. So it doesnt smell like we have dear doggies at home. Im on top of it. One has to trained themselves and put their mind with the habit of cleaning.
That's not small at all! I live in 350sq ft with a baby and my house looks nothing like this.
Make those two girls share a room so their mother can have one...absolutely ridiculous
This is like having a show called "Lazy" filming depressed people and getting mad when they don't just undo their depression
Depression is not being too lazy. I completely disagree with people whos judging anyone struggling with daily tasks. Have they ever lived bad situation? Were they ever in a bad position? Everything seems to be a mountain when you have mental disease. The person who put that title is not kind, not compassionate and it's not creating a safe space for anyone in needs of help! Because of that, they will be too afraid to ask for help. Shame on you! I didn't finish the video just because of that.
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Teach your children to do household chores
The older girl’s room is clean
The thing is i always came back to this channel to boost me up and get motivated to clean hahaha 🤣😂
I'm sorry, I get having depression and struggles, but allowing your house to reach that point it's just being straight up filthy and lazy.
A 10 year old shouldnt have to literally clean the messes the mom has made a decade ago. If she was already struggling with cleaning with her first kid, she shouldnt have gotten a second one. And i dont know where the dad is, but if he's still alive he should be held accountable as well.
I can see a place being cluttered, but the dirt is pure laziness.
While sitting around watching UA-cam judging the character of other people is ambitious
If she can work AND be a scout leader, she just doesn't LIKE TO CLEAN!!
Depression! Helloooooo
@@TheMwendaa Are those two young girls depressed too; if they are a good cleaning would help.
She is using depression as an excuse
Always start with clothes and trash. These are two of the biggest hurdles for everybody.
Stop making excuses for those 3 lazy people. It MAKES me so angry.😮😤
Than you don't understand mental illness and are not compassionate.
Finally someone knows reality.
So having mental health problems is being lazy? Good grief this is what’s wrong with society always judging not wanting to cheer people on and have empathy for them. I’m sorry some of us are human and doing our best to not drown my house is a complete shit show and I cry everyday, but it’s awesome you call people lazy then wonder why so many people can’t take it anymore and just end it. It’s truly painful when people judge which is why we don’t ask for help people like you suck.
Unless you are a broke, overweight, single parent don’t judge. She is doing her best with the tools she got. She is trying.
@@CopingwithGrattitudeI can definitely tell that thier mother is doing her best for her daughters. She's not lazy, she's depress, and overwhelmed on what to do.
she WORK FROM HOME!!!!!! She is absolutely bless to have the privilege to work from home and still don't want to move her body to clean.
That oldest daughter acts intilted and those girls could share a room ...
They will never keep it clean !!
My next door nighbor was like this. Feets of trash and clothes throughout the house. I went to look at the bathroom and the condition of the bath tub needed to be reported to CDC!!! 🤢👀She has kids that were big kids too. Lazy and nasty!! I use to ask them why wont they help their mother. I tokd them daily they should clean up! They just did not care. These ppl are just nasty and they are very confortable with things being disgusting and cluttered. Even if you get it cleaned for them they WILL NOT keep it cleaned. And that is a damn shame!! 😐👀👀🤢
What do you mean that Dog Harry! you provoking us Harrys😅🤣😂
You have 2 grown girls there's no sense in your house looking like that.
I battle with depression every day and it's chronic, but I keep my home clean.
I pray god helps you with your depression