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They are patient in dealing with you in order to gain your confidence. And slowly ,but surely they earn your sympathy & confidence as you fall in love with them. And sh*t (sorry) always happens to them-- Losing jobs, child is sick in hospital, getting robbed, family member dies-- then they need money to get them put of their problem. They will always start with small amounts, then it gets bigger. By that time you head over heels in love. And they always, but always strange enough have an accent.... I remember how Dr Phil tried to convince that one poor victim that the voice was NOT an Italian accent ,but an African one. She was nearly in tears as she told Dr Phil that "he knew nothing", but yet the "lover somewhere overseas" did not even recognise her voice when she phoned him from the Dr Phil show. This, Dr P told her, was bec of them working in groups and dealing with many victims at the same time..... SAD.
When Jessica left California, it took her one day to arrive in Florida by bus?? How stupid can these scammers be? They obviously never been in the US lol!!
They did not with me I refuse to send any money Hell I don't give to people on the street. Remember what PSA's Taught s when we were younger never give or take from stranger. Also they are still strangers if you not meet in person.
Sorry that you had to experience such heartless people. I have also tried to be scam by someone from west Africa pretending to be a doctor from denmark. I watched these scamer alert and found the real person. The scamer didn't get anything from me. I was lucky. There are good people out there. We all learn lessons. There is someone special out there for you. Good luck. Learn from this and grow stronger and wiser.
Thanks for giving your experience.I also a victim of a scammer from England he told(Native Italy) and Los so much money.. now I'm in a debt..so everyday crying because it is very difficult to live now...the money which the scammer get is the tears of my and my children..God never excuse him
I just got scammed last night for $50 he said he was from the Army and he couldn't video chat me so I figure it out it was a scam be careful out there people they are very good at scamming people
That was so sad , i feel for this man , i am a woman , i fell so much in love with the man in the photo , i am finding it so hard to forget him , even though i know he was a victim too who had his photos stolen by these cruel people . They dont know how much they ruin lives . I did lose money but the hurt i feel is worse than the loss of the money .
No i have'nt , i know who he is , where he is , his work phone number , e mail , his job . It is now over 2 years ago now , since i was scammed . It still hurts , i would love to speak to him , tell him his photos are being used by scammers . He proberbly knows anyway . I am tempted to write or phone , and tell him but he may get angry , i have seen videos of men and women who are being used by scammers , they are constantly being told and they get quite angry . I know he is an American , of mature years , as am i , ( im not American but i am of mature years ,. ) He is a very handsome man . I still have photos of him , i have deleted a lot . He may even read this and not realise that its him im talking about . Google took me straight to his work place , i saw 4 cars outside , one could have been his . I have got his business advert on google , also many photos of him at sports events , i shall never forget him , it was love at first sight . Yes, it can happen . I know its all impossible , he does'nt even know i exist . Even if he did , im sure he would'nt be interested , im sure he is married or in a relationship . So , no , not going to do anything about it , not a good idea . I dont want to upset his life as the scammer did mine .
Hi I had the same experience I really felt for that person I wrote him to tell him about someone stole his identity because I wanted to check with him and he answered me but I feel the same way where I would like to meet him one day It is difficult to live someone who don’t even know that I exist
Yes , it really hurts , i know how you feel . I keep telling myself that i dont really love him im just lonely , i am a widow , lost my husband over 3 years ago , it was about a year after my husband died that i received his friend request , ( obviously from a scammer , which i did'nt realise at the time , never heard the word scammer before ) i fell instantly , crazy , i felt so guilty feeling like that so soon after my husbands death . But i could'nt help it . The pic that 'got' me was of him talking a selfie in his car , lovely white hair and beard and a lovely smile . I was smitten . He wore rimless glasses . There were many other pics of him , so he obviously put a lot on the internet . I even have a video of him driving in an open top car . I think he knows he is gorgeous . !! Thank you for giving me the chance to write this , it helps a little but i cant get him off my mind . When i watch American films there are scenes of America and i wonder if he has driven on tha road or walked on that path . Silly , i know . I would love to have closure and speak to him but i know it wont happen . Did you try to find the man that was sent to you . I know my mans photos were sent to someone else , but the scammer used a different name .
By the way , i think you were brave to write to him . Im tempted but too nervous . I am 80 and feel i should know better , but age has nothing to do with feelings .
California to Florida by bus in 1 day ? i am so sorry people fall for this shit 1 sob story after another.. damn mules getting tricked too. WTF? people
I've learned my lesson is this happen also to me in fast 4 months ago. Don't let anyone talk if it is asking for a money and especially they don't want to show you even in video call. It's better meet in a person. God bless
It is unthinkable how many people at one time are taking the bait of these scammers. They must work in groups where the messages are not from the same person. The phone/phone number must remain in one place so whoever is working that day can carry on all the conversation. Many people who have been scammed say that the voice (if they can even get them on the phone) sounds different from time to time, like it's not the same person. They must have cheat sheets on every fish on the hook, so whoever is manning that particular phone can just look at the fact sheets and not sound completely clueless. But even then they still "forget" things you've told them because it's not the same person. Test them out, and see, when you test their memory, if you get long silences while they consult the info sheet. Maybe they will just punt with, "Why do you ask me that?" Or, "I would rather talk about you and me." Or, "That's not important. Did you eat today?"
The same thing pretty much happened to me as well, so I can totally understand how this guy felt after what he had gone through once he realized that he was scammed.
Damn, this sounds very similar to my experience to someone saying they were a woman, except no children . People would call me all hours of the night, but would never talk and she lived with her cousin. This was a couple years ago. I still get pissed off at myself for being so stupid..
Hi dear, you dont have to feel stupid...you just are a good man with a good heart...I have a similar experience with a guy...we was talking for 3 month and when was very close time to meet in person a terrible assault happened to him in Ukraine where he "was working" he convinced me to send him some money to get out of that country and I dont have the money he was asking because i am a person with work check to check like most people in USA But i sent him 2 google cards of 50 dollars each one...I investigated him in many ways and i discovered that he is an scammer...like you after this experience is very hard to believe in people ...but I hope one day I have the opportunity to meet a real person ...thank you for sharing your history God bless you.
when I get somebody like that I just tell them I get paid in the month time when it comes to that month I say it's the following month's they don't like that they get really angry that's What Makes Me Happy I love winding them up and I think that what everybody should do is is just wind them up up like a clock they will get fed up with it I had one not long ago but I soon got rid of them
I have met many scammers , and am always a step ahead of them, if you want to challenge them, ask them to call you on a video call when you hear that no we're not allowed to make video calls...just know you're dealing with a scammer....again they'll d love to challenge you by making fake video calls whereby they use a computer to make you think he is the one talking, when you see that block them.....It's true real people are there but the 419 have got a upper hand over real people. ...the other thing is the first question they ask is what do you do for a living? 😂😂😂
another red flag should be The fact that these people Introduce their “kids”. Most people are not going to put their kids out there for somebody they don’t know. More than likely it was not even a woman to begin with, it was probably several in a group of guys.
Yes but their grammar stinks which is a massive give away. I’m presently talking to a scammer from Lagos who was trying to sell me cryptocurrency on Words with friends game forum. He knows that I know he is a scammer but getting some interesting insights.
@@robertclare77 Ive been known to entertain some of these scammers and get a good laugh out of it but I wouldn't advise anyone else to entertain these Scammers as they have step up their game big time 😬
Ruthie Monroig exactly, I get many romance scammers and they are all military working abroad in Syria or Afghanistan. Within two minutes of chat they want to get you on WhatApp or hangouts.i honestly do not see how people fall for this? I’ve been in a dark place before after losing my wife at a young age but I’m not an idiot.
The Story about Jessica:: Shetold u she worked all over the world, so unless her ex knew her schedule, theres no way he could of found her that easily! FIRST red flag! If she was in an abusive relationship, as a nurse she would of had many resources & connections to find a way out! She also would of had quite enough money of her own, to get another place! 2ND red flag! Video chat were few & never clear! 3RD red flag! She didn't want u to come get her , but yet claimed she loved u & wanted u, her & Mary to be a family! That would of been the ultimate solution out of her situation, & hard for her ex to finf her, yet she said no, & asked for money instead, did that make sense to u? Anyone in that situation would of JUMPED FOR JOY & TOLD U TO COME GET HER RIGHT AWAY! How old are u? In life we need to develop our SENSE of logic & common sense! These were pretty STRONG RED FLAGS, which had no real logic or common sense! I DO UNDERSTAND HOWEVER, HOW OUR EMOTIONS CAN GET THE BETTER OF US & WE TRY TO JUSTIFY OR IGNORE OUR GUT INSTINCTS! IN THE FUTERE, GET OUT BEFORE UR TOO EMOTIONALLY INVESTED! BELIEVE ME, ULL GET OVER IT QUICKLY, UVE NEVER MET HER OR EVEN KNOW IF U WOULD GET ALONG! DONT LET THAT STOP U FROM FINDING LOVE AGAIN! I & MANY OTHERS HAVE ENCOUNTERED LOTS OF DIF TYPES OF SCAMMERS ON LINE, FIRST OR 2ND SIGNS OF ANY RED FLAGS, things that made no common sense or logic, thatS it.. BLOCKED! ADIOS STRANGER! THE BEST WAY TO MEET SOMEONE HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE OLD FASHION WAY! JOIN A GROUP, GO OUT WITH FRIENDS, GET INTRODUCED TO SOMEONE THAT KNOWS THE PERSON IS REAL & HONEST! = IN LIFE U SHOULD ALWAYS FOLLOW UR HEART, BUT MAKE DAMN SURE U TAKE UR BRAIN WITH U!! Otherwise, youll be unhappy most of ur life! All kinds of predetors out there, That's life! Don't become pray to anyone else again!!
sadly, people who are so desperate for someone to love them put on the heavily tinted rose colored glasses and see nothing but their self created fantasy.
The saddest part of this story comes at the end; the victim is told that the money is used straight into her "Jessica's" man, the leave from the army is probably a lie but it's hurtful enough there's talk about "Jessica's" man.
@@normawilliams4955 I wasn't laughing I was just asking a question because for the past 2 days the fake military guy kept asking if I been eating". I was like "Yeah" So I was just curious to why they ask that.
@@shaungriffin8109 Oh okay so they do ask everyone then? This was the first one who has ever asked me that. I have talked to a few scammers in the past.
I'm sorry for went thru that im.faithful person never do that to nice person like you .God bless you. I'm going thru stress with my neigbor next door pray they move..ok God bless
Debbie Kent ask for a video call if the person is legit he will talk to you through a video call! And never send money. If the person really cares for you he will be okay with you not sending money 💖and all this elaborate stories are false.
I had a guy chat via WhatsApp hmmm I received a note from WhatsApp saying his name could not be identified. He told me he was a medical engineer in Texas ? Things just didn't ring true. He said he loved me after only a week eeek and would call me his queen. I was wondering has anyone else had this experience
This is not his fault and should never feel stupid. This sweet caring man should feel empowered to put his feet on the floor each morning. Gaining knowledge of these hell brought slime who shouldn't be breathing our air, should be enough to lift his spirits. Heart gets involved but one day, through this experience, his life will turn around.
It would have been a bloke have a look at the Ghana story on four corners it shows you blokes pretending to be Sheila’s get yourself educated mate so you don’t fall for it again
You are right ---when you said stupidity! !! You had lots of warning that this was a scammerz!!! I like turning the tables on the scammers--I just keep telling the ccammrrs that I am sending the money---but never send anything ---unit thry get angry at me and just stop bothering ne!!! Next time sir---try this one on the scammers!!!
Mary Dehaan no one is stupid. People are just looking for love after a divorce or a bad break up. Sometimes people don't love themselves enough or don't know their self worth. God puts obstacles in place to learn from the lesson, if you don't learn you keep getting the same obstacles until you reflect and learn. Some people will get this and some people will stay on the hamster wheel. Never judge people until you know their stories, we are all going thru something we maybe to learn from. Much love to all victims all around the world men and women 🌹❤🌎❤🌹God bless
No one is stupid. People are just looking for love after a divorce or a bad break up. Sometimes people don't love themselves enough or don't know their self worth. God puts obstacles in place to learn from the lesson, if you don't learn you keep getting the same obstacles until you reflect and learn. Some people will get this and some people will stay on the hamster wheel. Never judge people until you know their stories, we are all going thru something we maybe to learn from. Much love to all victims all around the world men and women 🌹❤🌎❤🌹God bless
I know,I just don't believe how many desperate people there are out there,who in their right mind sends money to someone they have only spoken with online?.
That is so bad, what i heard from your story is so true i come across with that but the lucky thing with me that we cant send money to any other big country, and this is the reason why we not aloud to send money to any other country.
So sir its allowed to video call of there why the marines department email in me there asl.not allowed so even the marines department is scammer too sir
U WERE a LUST struck PUPPY! ALRIGHT! Lol U learnt a very valuable lesson! U cannot love someone uve never met, uve never touched , get a IDEA of how u feel around them, their character & personality! Even then, u can't be certain if the person is genuine! That's why I'm a firm believer that we all should develop our sense of logic & common sense! EVEN MORE SO, listen to our GUT INSTINCTS ( cause some scammers can be very cleaver) BUT OUR GUTS NEVER LIE! TRUST NOTHING ELSE! ITS UR MOST POWERFUL TOOL IN LIFE! So, even before they start asking for money, if ur guts are in knots, don't ignore or justify them, if something doesn't sound quite right or it sounds too good to be true, IT IS !!!!!! THE MOMENT MONEY IS INVOLVED...........RUN FOR THE HILLS, AS FAST AS U CAN! HEROES ONLY EXITS IN FAIRY TALES!
It's so bad to learn that all these scammers are out nonstop taking advantage of the weaknesses of the people when they sensed victims can fell for them then ask for money. My wish is that all over the world, scamming issue will be
military people can and do video call. I had a friend deployed to Afghanistan, he was my neighbor, he video called me from there. If someone is telling you they can't they are a scammer.
Why in the world when so many have news clips on their parents that I mean that would be a first clue with me but I fell for this twice so I can’t blame you
NORA LEWIS .....you are correct....Holy Spirit will tell you. ..one scammer tried it with me...the whole nine yards, he said he was a doctor in the army stationed overseas, a widower, lost his wife in a plane crash, was grieving, etc. (TRYING TO PLAY WITH MY EMOTIONS). knowing me I took it to the Lord in prayers and all I heard was...its a Lie and no lie is of the truth So I played with him for a few weeks, by then he had applied for his vacation to come back home to marry me, what Kind of house I want to live in, we would build a home for homeless kids as he I told him in a conversation that was my passion.. ( TRYING TO STEAL AND CORRUPT MY PURPOSE) One day he asked me to receive a box that was filled with gold, jewellery etc as he trusted me only and no one else in this entire world, so I said a big fat NO, Nope, not me , as I am not greedy person and I am contented with what I have So I flipped the script on him, I told him I was between jobs and had no money and for him to send some cash for me as I had my monthly bills to pay He promised to send me a few hundred dollars the next day via western but he wanted my exact address, so I told him I could receive money from western union if he only have m name and the city I lived in. . There was no way I was going to give him any personal Information. . Lol I waited and waited and waited the next day . nothing came, so I texted him and asked him what happened. ..he had an excuse of course.. Then I confronted him, rebuked him and told him about Jesus that I served ,that He always leads His children in All truth and that he was a LIAR and is serving the father of lies At first he tried to deny it but then I asked him who do you think I should beliveve you, who is such a Liar and being used by the devil or the precious Holy Spirit that lives in me? It was at the point he apologize to me, asking me to fogive him , etc etc. And told me that indeed I was a virtuous woman.. I then shared the Gospel of Jesus Christ with him, told him of Christ's wonderful gift of Grace, prayed with him and told him to choose wisely., as God had given him a chance to hear the true Gospel.. Then I blocked him. ... If you are born again and have the Holy Spirit in you, He will show and tell you and guide you in Alll Truth, just like Jesus promised In John 16 #staywoked #Jesusisalive# HolySpiritisreal
Victims of scammers shouldn't feel stupid. They should rejoice that they aren't evil and learned the truth about the evil of scammers. This young man should get involved in a local church and activities, and pray for God to bring a Godly woman into his life. He shouldn't judge all women by this scammer. That's tantamount to thinking all people are thieves after being robbed. It's important to grow from situations.
Many scammers pretend to work for the WHO world health organization, nearly half of all fake doctor profiles in fact say this. We want people to be aware and know what to look for if they meet someone online that claims they work for them
@@ScammingScammers I see. It is weird ; since the inception of the internet I would think the world would know of scams. Bottom line is that it is the people whom are to blame. Whenever you see a beautiful male & female , on dating sites you know you are being scammed. If you must know , I have a few friends whom I can’t mention their organization’s , but ( Dating Sites ) all along are created to scam & make money. A lot of them come from Nigeria as it is a business and they have chat rooms where there are 15 people in front of computer’s scamming people on dating sites. Anytime people ask for money and keep making excuses , ask for Western Union it is like a ( Nigerian ) scam. It very sad people want love so bad they allow this. Me , too make a point I have joined several dating sites and only once did I actually meet someone. That was 15 year’s ago when dating sites we’re better , but still created to make income. One just need to be careful and smell a rat as their is a infestation on the dating sites.
You have a good heart I might of did the same thing as well. But playing as a fool it's hard to put trust in to someone with someone taking a vanage of shame on them God well get them some how
Thanks I just wanted to make sure because there are someone with the name of Anna Amalia that all ways get it wrong and tell my all sort of things and I think she ore he is a scammer
California city is a small desert town that it’s self was a scam. Back in the 60s A real estate scammer was looking for investors to buy property in California city making it seem as if it will be a booming town in a few years. A lot was done to entice investors with promises that the town would be a desert resort in the future. Decades later, there was still nothing really out there and the real estate scammers started targeting immigrants promising the American dream. There was a multi part exposé on California City in L. A. Time. It’s very interesting. The scammers would have a meeting with potential investors in a meeting room in California City. They hired an IT person to mess with the network so none of the potential investors could go to the internet to verify the claims they were making. It’s illegal to do what these people wanted and the IT refused to do what they asked and he was fired. There are a lot of shady characters involved in the California city development. there was A class action lawsuit. Investors lost a lot of money on fake promises and they will never recover their losses even though they won the lawsuit.
It doesn't work all the time but it's a good start. Asking for video chat is the first thing to do, 99% of the time they will find an excuse or the video chat will last few seconds - bad connection! I never found the real person whose pictures were stolen and believe me I looked everywhere. About 20 guys tried to scammed me, they have all the same scenario and of course an accent. They also always make mistakes on their FB pages but you have too look into details. There's always red flags from the beginning. I always feel for the victims because you can get really caught emotionally. It's sad.
@@valeriel5890 I once asked a scammer to put a time and date in front of her face ?? It worked but what was happening was a catfish scam ? Two women ?but this you could tell because of two different attitudes one was narsistic the other ok but somewhere they must have been connected so I blocked both
Back in the 60s my mom read Romance and True Detective magazines. Of course I devoured them as well. This channel is that new magazine, and I'm loving it. True personal stories with pictures, and read in a very nice professional voice. New subscriber.
Oh yeah! I remember those books, my mom used to have those also and I would read them all the time!
"Have you eaten?" is a common West African greeting.
These scammers are so freaking patient. They will carry on the relationship as long as possible
Andrea sure
That's how they get rewarded...
And people are such idiots they fall for the most insane bullshit 😢😢😢😟😟😟
They are patient in dealing with you in order to gain your confidence. And slowly ,but surely they earn your sympathy & confidence as you fall in love with them. And sh*t (sorry) always happens to them-- Losing jobs, child is sick in hospital, getting robbed, family member dies-- then they need money to get them put of their problem. They will always start with small amounts, then it gets bigger. By that time you head over heels in love. And they always, but always strange enough have an accent.... I remember how Dr Phil tried to convince that one poor victim that the voice was NOT an Italian accent ,but an African one. She was nearly in tears as she told Dr Phil that "he knew nothing", but yet the "lover somewhere overseas" did not even recognise her voice when she phoned him from the Dr Phil show. This, Dr P told her, was bec of them working in groups and dealing with many victims at the same time..... SAD.
I am a Victim and they Call you Bad Names if you Can’t send Money, They Turn Very Evil Very Fast
When Jessica left California, it took her one day to arrive in Florida by bus??
How stupid can these scammers be?
They obviously never been in the US lol!!
it takes 2 to 4 days to take a bus from califronia to florida
@@richcerasale8909 Lmao!! I live in Florida. Whenever I go to NY, I take the plane. It takes me about 2 1/2 hours
And yet people still believe them. Smh
These scammers exploit our emotions; always needing money.
They did not with me I refuse to send any money Hell I don't give to people on the street. Remember what PSA's Taught s when we were younger never give or take from stranger. Also they are still strangers if you not meet in person.
Your voice is really terrific. Love your channel.
Thank you so much!
It’s interesting that he said he will not trust a woman again, even though odds are that the scammer was likely a man.
If it is a very good Looking profile of a female most of the time 100% even females are played by men over there.
Sorry that you had to experience such heartless people. I have also tried to be scam by someone from west Africa pretending to be a doctor from denmark. I watched these scamer alert and found the real person. The scamer didn't get anything from me. I was lucky. There are good people out there. We all learn lessons. There is someone special out there for you. Good luck. Learn from this and grow stronger and wiser.
Thanks for giving your experience.I also a victim of a scammer from England he told(Native Italy) and Los so much money.. now I'm in a debt..so everyday crying because it is very difficult to live now...the money which the scammer get is the tears of my and my children..God never excuse him
These scammers manipulate your feelings and always asking for money all the way.Never send money for someone you have never seen.
Never give money period unless you know them well in person
I just got scammed last night for $50 he said he was from the Army and he couldn't video chat me so I figure it out it was a scam be careful out there people they are very good at scamming people
I'm sorry. If you don't give money to your own family, why did you give to stranger.
That was so sad , i feel for this man , i am a woman , i fell so much in love with the man in the photo , i am finding it so hard to forget him , even though i know he was a victim too who had his photos stolen by these cruel people . They dont know how much they ruin lives . I did lose money but the hurt i feel is worse than the loss of the money .
Havé you tried to meet the man from the picture?
No i have'nt , i know who he is , where he is , his work phone number , e mail , his job . It is now over 2 years ago now , since i was scammed . It still hurts , i would love to speak to him , tell him his photos are being used by scammers . He proberbly knows anyway . I am tempted to write or phone , and tell him but he may get angry , i have seen videos of men and women who are being used by scammers , they are constantly being told and they get quite angry . I know he is an American , of mature years , as am i , ( im not American but i am of mature years ,. ) He is a very handsome man . I still have photos of him , i have deleted a lot . He may even read this and not realise that its him im talking about . Google took me straight to his work place , i saw 4 cars outside , one could have been his . I have got his business advert on google , also many photos of him at sports events , i shall never forget him , it was love at first sight . Yes, it can happen . I know its all impossible , he does'nt even know i exist . Even if he did , im sure he would'nt be interested , im sure he is married or in a relationship . So , no , not going to do anything about it , not a good idea . I dont want to upset his life as the scammer did mine .
Hi I had the same experience I really felt for that person I wrote him to tell him about someone stole his identity because I wanted to check with him and he answered me but I feel the same way where I would like to meet him one day
It is difficult to live someone who don’t even know that I exist
Yes , it really hurts , i know how you feel . I keep telling myself that i dont really love him im just lonely , i am a widow , lost my husband over 3 years ago , it was about a year after my husband died that i received his friend request , ( obviously from a scammer , which i did'nt realise at the time , never heard the word scammer before ) i fell instantly , crazy , i felt so guilty feeling like that so soon after my husbands death . But i could'nt help it . The pic that 'got' me was of him talking a selfie in his car , lovely white hair and beard and a lovely smile . I was smitten . He wore rimless glasses . There were many other pics of him , so he obviously put a lot on the internet . I even have a video of him driving in an open top car . I think he knows he is gorgeous . !! Thank you for giving me the chance to write this , it helps a little but i cant get him off my mind . When i watch American films there are scenes of America and i wonder if he has driven on tha road or walked on that path . Silly , i know . I would love to have closure and speak to him but i know it wont happen . Did you try to find the man that was sent to you . I know my mans photos were sent to someone else , but the scammer used a different name .
By the way , i think you were brave to write to him . Im tempted but too nervous . I am 80 and feel i should know better , but age has nothing to do with feelings .
It's so sad! There are real genuine people out there .
Don't send money to strangers.
California to Florida by bus in 1 day ? i am so sorry people fall for this shit 1 sob story after another.. damn mules getting tricked too. WTF? people
The scammer has no clue how long it takes to get to Florida from California. They obviously didn't do their research or never been to the US Lmao!!!
I've learned my lesson is this happen also to me in fast 4 months ago. Don't let anyone talk if it is asking for a money and especially they don't want to show you even in video call. It's better meet in a person. God bless
The same happened to me also. Never wanted to do a video call
@@kathleenlawlor3383
I asked Daniel John lngram lot please let me see him now he asking for iPhone
This person Daniel John lngram I don't have to say anything just cm block
It it happened to me last night I got a $50 card for this guy saying he's in the Army and he need it for a Wi-Fi
These Scammers are so well rehearsed 🤔
There are hand books on how to scam ppl...step by step..that's why the story line sounds so similar...
It is unthinkable how many people at one time are taking the bait of these scammers. They must work in groups where the messages are not from the same person. The phone/phone number must remain in one place so whoever is working that day can carry on all the conversation. Many people who have been scammed say that the voice (if they can even get them on the phone) sounds different from time to time, like it's not the same person. They must have cheat sheets on every fish on the hook, so whoever is manning that particular phone can just look at the fact sheets and not sound completely clueless. But even then they still "forget" things you've told them because it's not the same person. Test them out, and see, when you test their memory, if you get long silences while they consult the info sheet. Maybe they will just punt with, "Why do you ask me that?" Or, "I would rather talk about you and me." Or, "That's not important. Did you eat today?"
The same thing pretty much happened to me as well, so I can totally understand how this guy felt after what he had gone through once he realized that he was scammed.
Damn, this sounds very similar to my experience to someone saying they were a woman, except no children . People would call me all hours of the night, but would never talk and she lived with her cousin. This was a couple years ago. I still get pissed off at myself for being so stupid..
Don’t Be Hard on Yourself, It Happens To The Best of Us🤗
World Health Organization is a United Nations' agency, Doctors Without Borders is an ONG. It is not related.
I understand how he felt. That's how I felt at first when I was talking with my Scammer. Luckily I never gave her any money
This is so sad. We are human and do stupid things. No one is beyond being scamed. I don't think people realise the emotional aspects of being scamed.
that's one reason I don't like when people show their kids online. People could use this pictures for bad things like that.
You are right ! I try to warn people and they get so mad at me
@@sunnyday7843 i understand you.
If it sounds like a Hollywood movie ,then it is a Hollywood movie .
Yes it happened to me to lost lot money i was scam it do happen real life just be careful
So sorry to hear that .
Hi dear, you dont have to feel stupid...you just are a good man with a good heart...I have a similar experience with a guy...we was talking for 3 month and when was very close time to meet in person a terrible assault happened to him in Ukraine where he "was working" he convinced me to send him some money to get out of that country and I dont have the money he was asking because i am a person with work check to check like most people in USA But i sent him 2 google cards of 50 dollars each one...I investigated him in many ways and i discovered that he is an scammer...like you after this experience is very hard to believe in people ...but I hope one day I have the opportunity to meet a real person ...thank you for sharing your history God bless you.
Cmon!!! This Jessica is full of lies, thats a scam. These scammers are really something money $$$$$$ hopefully they caught. Scammers go get a job
when I get somebody like that I just tell them I get paid in the month time when it comes to that month I say it's the following month's they don't like that they get really angry that's What Makes Me Happy I love winding them up and I think that what everybody should do is is just wind them up up like a clock they will get fed up with it I had one not long ago but I soon got rid of them
I have met many scammers , and am always a step ahead of them, if you want to challenge them, ask them to call you on a video call when you hear that no we're not allowed to make video calls...just know you're dealing with a scammer....again they'll d love to challenge you by making fake video calls whereby they use a computer to make you think he is the one talking, when you see that block them.....It's true real people are there but the 419 have got a upper hand over real people. ...the other thing is the first question they ask is what do you do for a living? 😂😂😂
another red flag should be The fact that these people Introduce their “kids”. Most people are not going to put their kids out there for somebody they don’t know.
More than likely it was not even a woman to begin with, it was probably several in a group of guys.
Uugghhhh my heart breaks for him
Aaaw, poor guy. So undeserved to be cheated like that.
There are scammers that can text well without misspell words 🤔beware
Your. So lovely💝💝
Ruthie Monroig they are really getting good at what they do and are getting better at their English
Yes but their grammar stinks which is a massive give away. I’m presently talking to a scammer from Lagos who was trying to sell me cryptocurrency on Words with friends game forum. He knows that I know he is a scammer but getting some interesting insights.
@@robertclare77 Ive been known to entertain some of these scammers and get a good laugh out of it but I wouldn't advise anyone else to entertain these Scammers as they have step up their game big time 😬
Ruthie Monroig exactly, I get many romance scammers and they are all military working abroad in Syria or Afghanistan. Within two minutes of chat they want to get you on WhatApp or hangouts.i honestly do not see how people fall for this? I’ve been in a dark place before after losing my wife at a young age but I’m not an idiot.
Most scammers are semi illiterate but you get odd ones who are smart can spell etc
Yes they all say get what's app
The Story about Jessica::
Shetold u she worked all over the world, so unless her ex knew her schedule, theres no way he could of found her that easily! FIRST red flag! If she was in an abusive relationship, as a nurse she would of had many resources & connections to find a way out! She also would of had quite enough money of her own, to get another place!
2ND red flag!
Video chat were few & never clear!
3RD red flag! She didn't want u to come get her , but yet claimed she loved u & wanted u, her & Mary to be a family! That would of been the ultimate solution out of her situation, & hard for her ex to finf her, yet she said no, & asked for money instead, did that make sense to u? Anyone in that situation would of JUMPED FOR JOY & TOLD U TO COME GET HER RIGHT AWAY!
How old are u? In life we need to develop our SENSE of logic & common sense! These were pretty STRONG RED FLAGS, which had no real logic or common sense!
I DO UNDERSTAND HOWEVER, HOW OUR EMOTIONS CAN GET THE BETTER OF US & WE TRY TO JUSTIFY OR IGNORE OUR GUT INSTINCTS! IN THE FUTERE, GET OUT BEFORE UR TOO EMOTIONALLY INVESTED! BELIEVE ME, ULL GET OVER IT QUICKLY, UVE NEVER MET HER OR EVEN KNOW IF U WOULD GET ALONG!
DONT LET THAT STOP U FROM FINDING LOVE AGAIN! I & MANY OTHERS HAVE ENCOUNTERED LOTS OF DIF TYPES OF SCAMMERS ON LINE, FIRST OR 2ND SIGNS OF ANY RED FLAGS, things that made no common sense or logic, thatS it..
BLOCKED! ADIOS STRANGER!
THE BEST WAY TO MEET SOMEONE HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE OLD FASHION WAY! JOIN A GROUP, GO OUT WITH FRIENDS, GET INTRODUCED TO SOMEONE THAT KNOWS THE PERSON IS REAL & HONEST!
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IN LIFE U SHOULD ALWAYS FOLLOW UR HEART, BUT MAKE DAMN SURE U TAKE UR BRAIN WITH U!! Otherwise, youll be unhappy most of ur life!
All kinds of predetors out there,
That's life! Don't become pray to anyone else again!!
sadly, people who are so desperate for someone to love them put on the heavily tinted rose colored glasses and see nothing but their self created fantasy.
Well, that just makes too much sense! He's still living like a teenager & thinking like a child.
The saddest part of this story comes at the end; the victim is told that the money is used straight into her "Jessica's" man, the leave from the army is probably a lie but it's hurtful enough there's talk about "Jessica's" man.
I never tell them the truth at all 😂😂😂
Watching out for scammers they are everywhere on social media
What's with these scammers asking if you have eaten or not? Such a stupid question.
Kelly Cosnowski
I think it’s just part of them acting like they care about the person they’re scamming. I had a few of them ask me if I ate or not.
Not funny at all
@@normawilliams4955 I wasn't laughing I was just asking a question because for the past 2 days the fake military guy kept asking if I been eating". I was like "Yeah" So I was just curious to why they ask that.
@@shaungriffin8109 Oh okay so they do ask everyone then? This was the first one who has ever asked me that. I have talked to a few scammers in the past.
They ask about eating because in Africa , that is the sign of interest for someone, i am married to an African, very good man and a doctor of medicine
Poor guy I feel bad for u it happen to me too
Be careful of the scammers
Also if they just show pictures of the injuries that could be any one.
How to report a scamming? Or its pointless...
Always happy to investigate and post if you need help. Never pointless. Our inbox is open at Facebook under Scamming scammers Action
I'm sorry for went thru that im.faithful person never do that to nice person like you .God bless you. I'm going thru stress with my neigbor next door pray they move..ok God bless
I think I'm going to get off of Facebook get off of all of it
I got off of everything.
Yes miss beautiful.
I don’t think FB is at fault. I think we just need to be more careful.
Go for it...I did and I'm much happier. :)
Debbie Kent ask for a video call if the person is legit he will talk to you through a video call! And never send money. If the person really cares for you he will be okay with you not sending money 💖and all this elaborate stories are false.
I had a guy chat via WhatsApp hmmm I received a note from WhatsApp saying his name could not be identified. He told me he was a medical engineer in Texas ? Things just didn't ring true. He said he loved me after only a week eeek and would call me his queen. I was wondering has anyone else had this experience
This is not his fault and should never feel stupid. This sweet caring man should feel empowered to put his feet on the floor each morning. Gaining knowledge of these hell brought slime who shouldn't be breathing our air, should be enough to lift his spirits. Heart gets involved but one day, through this experience, his life will turn around.
I had this problem yesterday I just block them
It would have been a bloke have a look at the Ghana story on four corners it shows you blokes pretending to be Sheila’s get yourself educated mate so you don’t fall for it again
Why would he never trust another woman when he was talking to a man? 😭😂💀
As long as theres scammers iTunes will make a fortune
Thanks for sharing!
I will never be deceived
You are right ---when you said stupidity! !! You had lots of warning that this was a scammerz!!! I like turning the tables on the scammers--I just keep telling the ccammrrs that I am sending the money---but never send anything ---unit thry get angry at me and just stop bothering ne!!! Next time sir---try this one on the scammers!!!
They get surprisingly mean and loud real quick!
Mary Dehaan no one is stupid. People are just looking for love after a divorce or a bad break up. Sometimes people don't love themselves enough or don't know their self worth. God puts obstacles in place to learn from the lesson, if you don't learn you keep getting the same obstacles until you reflect and learn. Some people will get this and some people will stay on the hamster wheel. Never judge people until you know their stories, we are all going thru something we maybe to learn from. Much love to all victims all around the world men and women 🌹❤🌎❤🌹God bless
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I’m sure that they give English classes to those scammers
I feel bad for the guy but he also seemed desperate and annoying “by wanting to come over”
No one is stupid. People are just looking for love after a divorce or a bad break up. Sometimes people don't love themselves enough or don't know their self worth. God puts obstacles in place to learn from the lesson, if you don't learn you keep getting the same obstacles until you reflect and learn. Some people will get this and some people will stay on the hamster wheel. Never judge people until you know their stories, we are all going thru something we maybe to learn from. Much love to all victims all around the world men and women 🌹❤🌎❤🌹God bless
How sad omg!!!so sorry
Hmm same victim of scam. I remember my fast
😢😢😢poor man. I really understand you ,i know how felling and i knew how painful is.😢
Never met her but sure, 1000 bucks. As soon as she asked for the 100 card I'd be gone! I guess there is a sucker born every minute after all.
I know,I just don't believe how many desperate people there are out there,who in their right mind sends money to someone they have only spoken with online?.
Always check backgrounfd.
Lori Mendenhall -- always check SPELLING ...
That is so bad, what i heard from your story is so true i come across with that but the lucky thing with me that we cant send money to any other big country, and this is the reason why we not aloud to send money to any other country.
Why do these people only do research AFTER they send money?
Let me see when u don’t hear from a scammer for a couple days and then they delete their profiles next hmmmm
Report this Sheila to fbi she’s a money launderer and can be charged
Chyrel Muzic....what will she be changed into????
This guy went CSI on this scammer but how unfortunate these victims had to meet this way. 😕
Always check to see person feel real check there story see true before you doing anything
You never get the money back
I felt bad for him, just be cautious next time .Time will heal you.
How did you go find the photos what few websites did you go on...
Lwayyy Hayden
Google images is a good way to reverse image search and tineye is also helpful.
@@shaungriffin8109 I did go to that before, but it did not work. If it doesn't work, what does that mean?
Some stolen photos don't come up in search it means they are not "known" people or popular stolen ones. You can also try yandex images and tineye.
How did they video chat
So sir its allowed to video call of there why the marines department email in me there asl.not allowed so even the marines department is scammer too sir
It's a scam there is no marines department you email. Military people can video chat. A scammer will say they can't
U WERE a LUST struck PUPPY! ALRIGHT! Lol
U learnt a very valuable lesson! U cannot love someone uve never met, uve never touched , get a IDEA of how u feel around them, their character & personality!
Even then, u can't be certain if the person is genuine! That's why I'm a firm believer that we all should develop our sense of logic & common sense! EVEN MORE SO, listen to our GUT INSTINCTS ( cause some scammers can be very cleaver) BUT OUR GUTS NEVER LIE!
TRUST NOTHING ELSE!
ITS UR MOST POWERFUL TOOL IN LIFE!
So, even before they start asking for money, if ur guts are in knots, don't ignore or justify them, if something doesn't sound quite right or it sounds too good to be true, IT IS !!!!!!
THE MOMENT MONEY IS INVOLVED...........RUN FOR THE HILLS, AS FAST AS U CAN!
HEROES ONLY EXITS IN FAIRY TALES!
It's so bad to learn that all these scammers are out nonstop taking advantage of the weaknesses of the people when they sensed victims can fell for them then ask for money.
My wish is that all over the world, scamming issue will be
Military soldier not allowed to video call sir
military people can and do video call. I had a friend deployed to Afghanistan, he was my neighbor, he video called me from there. If someone is telling you they can't they are a scammer.
Why in the world when so many have news clips on their parents that I mean that would be a first clue with me but I fell for this twice so I can’t blame you
Smh . They never stop
Sorry to hear this happened. Seek Jesus and your eyes will be opened to every horrible thing in this world. God bless
Thanks for your kind words 💝💝💝
J
NORA LEWIS .....you are correct....Holy Spirit will tell you. ..one scammer tried it with me...the whole nine yards, he said he was a doctor in the army stationed overseas, a widower, lost his wife in a plane crash, was grieving, etc. (TRYING TO PLAY WITH MY EMOTIONS).
knowing me I took it to the Lord in prayers and all I heard was...its a Lie and no lie is of the truth
So I played with him for a few weeks, by then he had applied for his vacation to come back home to marry me, what Kind of house I want to live in, we would build a home for homeless kids as he I told him in a conversation that was my passion.. ( TRYING TO STEAL AND CORRUPT MY PURPOSE)
One day he asked me to receive a box that was filled with gold, jewellery etc as he trusted me only and no one else in this entire world, so I said a big fat NO, Nope, not me , as I am not greedy person and I am contented with what I have
So I flipped the script on him, I told him I was between jobs and had no money and for him to send some cash for me as I had my monthly bills to pay
He promised to send me a few hundred dollars the next day via western but he wanted my exact address, so I told him I could receive money from western union if he only have m name and the city I lived in. . There was no way I was going to give him any personal Information. . Lol
I waited and waited and waited the next day . nothing came, so I texted him and asked him what happened. ..he had an excuse of course..
Then I confronted him, rebuked him and told him about Jesus that I served ,that He always leads His children in All truth and that he was a LIAR and is serving the father of lies
At first he tried to deny it but then I asked him who do you think I should beliveve you, who is such a Liar and being used by the devil or the precious Holy Spirit that lives in me?
It was at the point he apologize to me, asking me to fogive him , etc etc. And told me that indeed I was a virtuous woman..
I then shared the Gospel of Jesus Christ with him, told him of Christ's wonderful gift of Grace, prayed with him and told him to choose wisely., as God had given him a chance to hear the true Gospel..
Then I blocked him. ...
If you are born again and have the Holy Spirit in you, He will show and tell you and guide you in Alll Truth, just like Jesus promised In John 16
#staywoked #Jesusisalive# HolySpiritisreal
Funny
Victims of scammers shouldn't feel stupid. They should rejoice that they aren't evil and learned the truth about the evil of scammers.
This young man should get involved in a local church and activities, and pray for God to bring a Godly woman into his life. He shouldn't judge all women by this scammer. That's tantamount to thinking all people are thieves after being robbed. It's important to grow from situations.
A potential employer will pick up money for you so you can get an apartment?
Wow she gave you so many red flags. I wonder if you did not have the money
Would you of actually seen red flags
Um- why was the ( WHO ) symbol flashed ??
Many scammers pretend to work for the WHO world health organization, nearly half of all fake doctor profiles in fact say this. We want people to be aware and know what to look for if they meet someone online that claims they work for them
@@ScammingScammers I see. It is weird ; since the inception of the internet I would think the world would know of scams. Bottom line is that it is the people whom are to blame. Whenever you see a beautiful male & female , on dating sites you know you are being scammed. If you must know , I have a few friends whom I can’t mention their organization’s , but ( Dating Sites ) all along are created to scam & make money. A lot of them come from Nigeria as it is a business and they have chat rooms where there are 15 people in front of computer’s scamming people on dating sites. Anytime people ask for money and keep making excuses , ask for Western Union it is like a ( Nigerian ) scam. It very sad people want love so bad they allow this. Me , too make a point I have joined several dating sites and only once did I actually meet someone. That was 15 year’s ago when dating sites we’re better , but still created to make income. One just need to be careful and smell a rat as their is a infestation on the dating sites.
i HATE SCAMMER
Out of his league
You have a good heart I might of did the same thing as well. But playing as a fool it's hard to put trust in to someone with someone taking a vanage of shame on them God well get them some how
I am not stupid. Now i have stopped texting
What a damn Storyline..ain't buying anything. 😡
If you dont belief the story its to bad because I do these are scumbags that are to lazy to work and steel from h Iw ever get in there way.
It seems you have never been scammed. Don't judge, it is sadly real, some are really good at what they do. That's their job!
Is this reply for me Tilla du Plessis ? Because Fatima wrote this not me
@@tilladuplessis2748 Not for you 🙃😉 For her. I had to say something like you. 🤗
Thanks I just wanted to make sure because there are someone with the name of Anna Amalia that all ways get it wrong and tell my all sort of things and I think she ore he is a scammer
California City??
There is such a town, scammers think it's a huge major city but in reality it's a small desert community.
California city is a small desert town that it’s self was a scam.
Back in the 60s A real estate scammer was looking for investors to buy property in California city making it seem as if it will be a booming town in a few years. A lot was done to entice investors with promises that the town would be a desert resort in the future.
Decades later, there was still nothing really out there and the real estate scammers started targeting immigrants promising the American dream.
There was a multi part exposé on California City in L. A. Time. It’s very interesting.
The scammers would have a meeting with potential investors in a meeting room in California City.
They hired an IT person to mess with the network so none of the potential investors could go to the internet to verify the claims they were making. It’s illegal to do what these people wanted and the IT refused to do what they asked and he was fired.
There are a lot of shady characters involved in the California city development. there was A class action lawsuit. Investors lost a lot of money on fake promises and they will never recover their losses even though they won the lawsuit.
Always Rev search a face first ?
It doesn't work all the time but it's a good start. Asking for video chat is the first thing to do, 99% of the time they will find an excuse or the video chat will last few seconds - bad connection!
I never found the real person whose pictures were stolen and believe me I looked everywhere.
About 20 guys tried to scammed me, they have all the same scenario and of course an accent. They also always make mistakes on their FB pages but you have too look into details. There's always red flags from the beginning.
I always feel for the victims because you can get really caught emotionally. It's sad.
@@valeriel5890 I once asked a scammer to put a time and date in front of her face ?? It worked but what was happening was a catfish scam ? Two women ?but this you could tell because of two different attitudes one was narsistic the other ok but somewhere they must have been connected so I blocked both
This people in the what app site his name is Daniel John lngram
A new in one week. Wow, I want to change my name
I wonder what mary real name is
God is good great we have nothing now many tries to scam me but i can't give any
background. Trust man wants buy you beer or wine users .drunks
What is money
I know how you fill it’s happens to me a lot of times
Judith Overton - you know "how to fill what"
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Sad 😔
Solo uso WhatsApp para contactarme con mi familia y amiga.
very sad