it's ok to be vulnerable and i hope you know that you're not alone! i love your channel and that means that i love the positive and fun things you have to share but i also appreciate you honesty and how open you are with the struggles in your life (which we all have, so it's nice to hear you're not the only one) haha. just don't be so harsh on yourself, don't carry such much guilt because you did your best. and lovely things will come soon, i'm sure of it xx
I felt the same so I quit my career to raise my kids. I don’t regret it. I had to change a lot and cut back on a lot but it was worth it. I do something now that allows flexibility so I can work when I can and still put my family first. You got this. It will take adjusting but worth it jn the end. So happy for your new journey ❤
I love your look today, the eyes with serenity are beautiful. Mum guilt is such a real thing. My son just turned 2 and I went back to work about a month before he turned 1 and being a full time working mum is HARD. I so wish I could just be with my son ❤️❤️
Moms are always running on empty. We need to take time to ourselves to re-energize to be able to give to others. I found myself always so exhausted not just physically but mentally & emotionally when I didn’t take care of myself. I wasn’t giving my family the best of me because I was depleted. I felt guilty taking a few hours to myself for self care but found that I felt better and was in a better mood when I did. You are a great mom. Taking time for yourself & your son will be the best thing. Wishing you all the best. ❤
I’ve worked since my kids were born. I was going to be a stay at home mom but it wasn’t for me. I was very fortunate that any job I had allowed me to be involved in everything my kids were involved in. But I still feel guilty that I worked. I thinks moms can’t win with how they feel!
This world is just not designed for most people and their happiness. The focus is on fitting in and making money and it is so frustrating! I so feel your pain regarding your birthstory and having no support and needing to go back into work so fast. It is one of many things I think about when considering having kids. We as women and mothers are always frowned upon, if you don’t want a career you’re lazy, if you work a lot you’re a bad mom, it’s like you can’t win😢 So I applaud you for taking a leap of faith and doing what you want to do now, and like you said, people who try and fail didn’t fail, atleast they tried and they won’t live with the regret of never even trying in the first place. And your son sounds like a lovely boy, honestly f everone with their standards regarding children. Let them live, I think the most important thing is that they are happy, healthy and kind. Who cares at what age they learned x y and z! Oh man this gets me so heated lol, I can go on and on but I will leave it at this. Sending you lots of love and strenght during the hard times❤️❤️
Take care of yourself first. No Mum guilt. Studies show as long as your child has your undivided attention for at least 30 minutes a day , they will be ok. If you and your partner remain your child’s key person or the caregivers don’t constantly change they will be ok.
This is very relatable. I hope you're able to focus on yourself and family.
it's ok to be vulnerable and i hope you know that you're not alone! i love your channel and that means that i love the positive and fun things you have to share but i also appreciate you honesty and how open you are with the struggles in your life (which we all have, so it's nice to hear you're not the only one) haha. just don't be so harsh on yourself, don't carry such much guilt because you did your best. and lovely things will come soon, i'm sure of it xx
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I felt the same so I quit my career to raise my kids. I don’t regret it. I had to change a lot and cut back on a lot but it was worth it. I do something now that allows flexibility so I can work when I can and still put my family first. You got this. It will take adjusting but worth it jn the end. So happy for your new journey ❤
❤❤ thank you Alex
I love your look today, the eyes with serenity are beautiful.
Mum guilt is such a real thing. My son just turned 2 and I went back to work about a month before he turned 1 and being a full time working mum is HARD. I so wish I could just be with my son ❤️❤️
It's really hard and doesn't seem to go away! But i'm sure you're doing your best ❤❤❤ stay positive!
Moms are always running on empty. We need to take time to ourselves to re-energize to be able to give to others. I found myself always so exhausted not just physically but mentally & emotionally when I didn’t take care of myself. I wasn’t giving my family the best of me because I was depleted. I felt guilty taking a few hours to myself for self care but found that I felt better and was in a better mood when I did. You are a great mom. Taking time for yourself & your son will be the best thing. Wishing you all the best. ❤
I’ve worked since my kids were born. I was going to be a stay at home mom but it wasn’t for me. I was very fortunate that any job I had allowed me to be involved in everything my kids were involved in. But I still feel guilty that I worked. I thinks moms can’t win with how they feel!
This world is just not designed for most people and their happiness. The focus is on fitting in and making money and it is so frustrating! I so feel your pain regarding your birthstory and having no support and needing to go back into work so fast. It is one of many things I think about when considering having kids. We as women and mothers are always frowned upon, if you don’t want a career you’re lazy, if you work a lot you’re a bad mom, it’s like you can’t win😢 So I applaud you for taking a leap of faith and doing what you want to do now, and like you said, people who try and fail didn’t fail, atleast they tried and they won’t live with the regret of never even trying in the first place.
And your son sounds like a lovely boy, honestly f everone with their standards regarding children. Let them live, I think the most important thing is that they are happy, healthy and kind. Who cares at what age they learned x y and z! Oh man this gets me so heated lol, I can go on and on but I will leave it at this. Sending you lots of love and strenght during the hard times❤️❤️
Take care of yourself first. No Mum guilt. Studies show as long as your child has your undivided attention for at least 30 minutes a day , they will be ok. If you and your partner remain your child’s key person or the caregivers don’t constantly change they will be ok.
Wow.. It's okay.. You did the best you could at that time..
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