4 Years Sober | Onwards and Upwards
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- Опубліковано 4 січ 2020
- A huge amount of people showed an interest in my 3 Years Sober video so I thought it would be a good idea to do a follow up 1 year later.
Did I succumb to temptation?, did I allow others to persuade me to partake in the demon drink once again?
Find out in another scintillating episode of an angry, middle-aged, grey man wandering atop a hill reminiscing on life.
Obstacles in 2019 - 08:57
Plans for the channel (and life) in 2020 - 16:12
When you wake in the mourning and think great I didn’t drink, is one of the best feelings there is .
Amen to that!!!! Last night I had a dream I was drinking and smoking, I was so relieved I was sober this morning.
Without a doubt
@@potatoe21cr I feel you! Same here!!
I didn’t drink this New Year’s Eve. All my friends & family did. It was amazing to wake up to a new decade completely fresh and clear minded!
Watching this while drinking a beer.... sobriety is overrated... the mastery of alcohol is one of the greatest joys.... Once you master it then drinking or not drinking doesn't matter... Grab a 6 pack throw it in the fridge and make it so you only drink once a week and it lasts 6 weeks. Right now alcohol is controlling you and you are avoiding it but that means alcohol has won...
I still watch the 3 year video over and over whenever I feel like drinking.
Got a lot of respect for you man. I’m barely 4 months in and it’s rough. It’s all in the mind though.
Thanks a lot bro. Stick with it man. It is worth it in the long run
It is tough! But it gets easier the farther away you get for that daily addiction. At the end of a year you start feeling the freedom from the "Hangxiety" that feeling of waking up sick, ashamed and worried about how many people watched you make a fool of yourself. Believe me, I did that for 30 years. Lost my family, lost my job, lost my self-respect. Then I quit 35 years ago. I can tell you the feeling of freedom from that addiction is worth every day of stress one goes through to get there! This man sounds so much like me its wild! I think there are so many of us in his group. We just think it's all our fault we can't handle the hooch. Fast it we are all just victims of the addiction purveyors!
@@chrisrodenmusic I have two sons. Both have had issues with booze just like their old man. I have been working with the older on for 5 years now and I think he has it under control. I say under control because it takes years to actually beat it. I advise my Son to think of the addiction as your most evil enemy. Learn to hate it. Get mad at it when it creeps into your urge to try again to be a "Normal" drinker. Personally I don't think there is actual a "Normal" level of drinking. I think any person who drinks might on any given day start to develop a problem drinking pattern. Personally, it cost me my first family, a job and the loss of all my self-respect and a constant sense of weakness. But not anymore, I have vanquished that bastard evil addiction. Keep up your quest to beat that devil. You have already come a long way so just keep going!
In a similar vein friend. Godspeed. These videos are 100%
Ive been sober for 9 years and I'm still watch these vid to prevent relaspe.
I quit drinking fourteen years ago. It was the easiest thing I ever did. All of a sudden you aren't sick and broke anymore.
im 16 months sober stay strong brother
You too bro 👊
'F**king people everywhere man'
*Turns in opposite direction*
I really felt that.
Great video man, the truth. Straight edge for life
Well done mate there's definitely more to life than just a bottle.
There certainly is
Enjoying your videos. Funny intelligent and insightful. Congratulations on your success
Yup totally I quit for a year and a half and then my dog pasted and then I went back to drinking and didn't give a FUCK about anything not even MYSELF for about six or seven months but I'm certainly not drinking anymore and refuse to let anything or anyone make me grab a bottle ever again because I know if I do I will be lost forever
"Do you wanna excel at life, or be the dickhead at the party".
Epitetus eat your heart out!! 🤣🤣🤣
Love it!
Congrats and thank you for these vids. Two months into my 8th year. Stay strong ! "First you take a drink, then the drink takes a drink, then the drink takes you."
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Congrats on your journey. 8 years+ is a long time.
Thanks for checking out the channel and congratulations on 8+ years. That is amazing.
Wow, that's a good quote for any stimulant
@@ruburtoe1 I have been to only three AA meetings in all these years, right at the beginning, and heard this quote. Can't tell you how many times it has reminded me, I can have zero drinks.
And at 44 years of age, F. Scott Fitzgerald's body, deteriorated from years of alcoholic over-indulgence, gave way and the drink did, ultimately, take him. I've had many a drink in the Commodore Bar, the bar located in the building where he lived. But now, I'm 13 months sober and about 30 minutes from my next AA meeting. Life is vastly better.
Randomly stumbled across your 3 year post while doing a road trip back to California, couldn’t have come at a better time. Heard some things I wanted to hear and heard some things I needed to hear. Quit 2 days ago, going to give it a solid run. Thanks for posting
One day at a time, stay busy.
Well done Danger Nurse......your not alone on your journey
Cheers bro. Glad you got something from the video. Keep it up man, it is worth it in the long run and make sure you keep me updated with your progress.
I quit on January 2nd 2020, so pretty much at the same time you did. Well done!
I like the rambling as much as the knowledge...
More, more, more please
Inspired! I was 5 years sober, then 18months drinking again. Today is day 1 sober again. Thank you for the inspiration.
You did your deceased friend a great honor by not taking that drink.
Great job!!!
I’m just like you bro, 2 years sober, been walking 2-3 miles a day, I’ll start jogging real soon.
I never could drink just 1, all or nothing, I drank all my life, don’t miss it one bit, get up in the morning feeling good.
Congrats on the 2 years! If you hadn’t tried moving iron, check it out.
I hear ya bro. Glad you are enjoying the videos
Great book The Joy of Movement loved Rich Roll podcast about sobriety and being positive and conquering anxiety, Jan 10 2020 youtube
You’re a natural at this, it’s your calling, got 60 days sober today, and your channel is helping to keep me going
That's made my day, watched all your vids over Christmas pleased you'll be doing more.
Very inspirational. The part about honesty was the best.
Thanks for making the videos. They're really good mate.
Great work man, didn't skip ahead, watched the entire video, thanks a lot for the update! Subscribed
Enjoying your videos. Love the themes, love the unvarnished impromptu approach.
Im glad that I found your channel keep up the good work you are a true inspiration
Thank you for this video. I look forward to seeing more.
Discovered your channel last night and can't get enough .
Fantastic content x
Congratulations! Keep up the hard work brother! I admire your authenticity. I'll be looking for more content!
I just found your channel a few days ago and really liked it. After watching your videos I scaredly noticed, that you didn't release a video for quite a long time. So I am even more excited, that you are back and just released a new one! Keep up the good work here and good luck on all of your future plans! Take care mate!
Thanks so much for the upload....i stumbled across your last video just before Christmas at a Dark time and it has helped me so much its been 4 weeks now and my whole way of thinking has changed thanks and all the best looking forward to the future ...
Your videos pop up in my feed at exactly the right time. Thank you.
Glad to hear that they are helping
Honestly I’ve watched three of your videos today: this one, the three years sober and your depression/finances. The way you speak about these things is exactly how I feel, I can relate to you saying that it may help people not feel so alone. It’s true. Very inspiring to hear how you deal with it. Thanks.
Inspiring stuff mate. Stumbled across your 3 Year video today, at a point where I've been feeling fairly awful about the direction my life is going, and it's really inspired me to try and turn things around. I've never really had a problem with alcohol but I have recently not enjoyed drinking much and the anxiety and depression that it sometimes brings out in me has become a more serious issue as of late, so the timing of this couldn't really have been better. To be honest I am not normally a fan of these type of 'self-help' youtube channels but you seem so genuinely down to earth, and just like a decent and normal human being that it's a pleasure to listen to your thoughts. I am going to give dry January a go, as you did, and see what impact it has. Thanks for the inspiration and keep up the good work.
Love your videos mate. Pretty much everything you say resonates with me, thanks for taking the time to do these. You’re a very inspiring chap yourself, never mind all your idols.
Congrats fella, sounds like you’ve not just hurdled problems but have used them to climb higher and get stronger in yourself. Look forward to more videos and progress.
I just came across your channel today and it was a pleasant (and well needed) surprise. Great content in here and your delivery is on point. Well done mate! Subscribed.
Good to see you back mate, your video's definitely help me, you put things in life into words perfectly, thanks bud👍
Thanks very much. Glad you're digging the channel
Hey I really ilked your 3 year sober video. Your video skills have improved since then. Congrats on 4 years!
Thanks a lot
Brilliant video again and good effort on the running definitely keep that going. I love running too. Good luck on the half Marathon 💪🏻👍🏻
You're a true soldier, mate.
Your commentary and perspectives are truly priceless. I have been subscribed for some time now and I'll recommend your channel to some people I know with addiction issues.
Well done, and keep it up!! This decade WILL be great for you, and you're gonna help a lot of people in the process.
You are such a breath of fresh air. You said so many things that resonated with me, made me laugh out loud, and I absolutely relate to so much that you said. Thanks for being so genuine and vulnerable. That is a really rare thing in this world!!! Also, the hardest thing for me about being sober is the old "friends" either giving me crap or just not being supportive. This isn't always addressed in other forums, and I'm glad that you talk about that so candidly. I feel better after realizing how common that is!
Great thanks for the update after 6 months of no updates wondered what had happened to you, keep on with the updates in 2020 - love your videos!
Thanks a lot. If people are interested in watching them then I will keep on making them. Have a great 2020 bro
Thanks for the update! Just watched the "3 year" video a few days ago. Keep it going. I will too.
Truly inspirational. I love the way you have set your goals and then describe your plans on achieving them. Many thanks for the help you have given me. God Bless you.
Hey, your obvious honesty and sincerity is gold..your last 3 year sober and this one are really helping me its like im listtening to myself and my created reality..thx!!!
Well done. Keep up your positive mindset. Will look forward to your future videos and subjects.
Makes so much sense, your videos. Subscribed yesterday as 2020 is an important year for me and have set my own goals. So combining your knowledge and testimony will help out a lot for me and many others. Please dont give up this time, you're a great guy to listen to and I relate to 99% of it. Cheers bro
Thanks a lot bro. I have a lot of videos planned for this year so stay tuned
Nice one dude. Great video and I look forward to following the story, as i start on my, similar journey. All the best for 2020...
Your 3 year sobriety vid came into my recommended channel on 3/1/20. I just had to watch it. The first minute of your chat was like you were describing me, though I am fortunately not anxious or down in the dumps so to speak.
You have inspired me to knock it on the head and today (12/1/20), see's out my first week of no alcohol. It's been great and so far, very easy to do. Sleeping however has been terrible.
So please accept my thanks for making that video and thanks YT for putting it on my list.
Well done!!! Congratulations on your FOUR YEARS of sobriety!!
Your much inspiration to many many folks who battle this demon, including myself at 19 years. I still have and probably always will struggle at certain points of the year (Xmas for example)
My father always told me an old saying which you’ve probably already read or heard.
ONE drink is too many, and ONE HUNDRED is not enough. Much truth to that!
I sense still some anger in your delivery, but as time passes, through sobriety you will grow to loose that and be much more at piece within.
Keep up the outstanding work!
Greetings! I’m one of the new bunch that saw your 3 year sober video recently, it was suggested to me by UA-cam as I’ve been watching different sobriety videos to help me understand what a close friend is going through currently, they are at 125 days.
I’ve never been fond of alcohol so I don’t drink, which I’m grateful for as I do believe if I did then I’d have a problem with it myself.
After watching a few of your videos and then seeing you hadn’t posted in a while I was hoping all was ok, so I’m glad to see you post this update today.
I also recognised the pylons on the Hill right away, I’m over in Tewkesbury, used to spend Sunday mornings up their with my Dad as a kid.
All the best for 2020, I look forward to following your videos and journey further.
Dave
Thanks a lot man. Glad to hear your friend is sticking with it. It can be tough but it is ultimately worthwhile.
I love walking round the hill. I find it much easier to access my thoughts when I am up there.
I see your videos as very useful. I like to share them with my sponsor and friends adjusting to sobriety. I'm 10 months sober yesterday. Hell yeah great video!
2 more months and you get that year long trophy! 🤘 rock on
Thanks a lot. Great to hear that the videos are resonating with people. Genuinely makes doing this channel worthwhile.
Well done to you Ben 👍 I saw your 3 year sober video the other day and it is very inspiring I have to say. I have made the decision to follow in your footsteps for similar reasons. I look forward to seeing your ‘5 year’ video next January. All the best for 2020.
You're the man, helped me decide to do my first sober year. I related to almost everything you spoke about in the 3 year video. Already the best thing I've ever done. Just wanted to say thanks
Congrats on 4 years! So worth it. Life is so much better since I quit drinking.
Thanks a lot
I came across your 3 year sober video and within 3 minutes became a subscriber. I appreciate your honesty, and manner of fact style and most of all your commitment to inner strength. I finally found someone who understands. Thank you
Wicked channel mate, I recently Subbed after seeing your 3 year video show up in my feed.
I very much enjoy seeing someone speak from the heart. It’s definitely the ultimate no bullshit approach. Also, I think your cuts, edits, and overall production are spot on... which obviously makes your message all the more enjoyable to watch and absorb.
I’m loving this community you’ve created and look forward to watching it grow in the future.
Gentlemen, Ladies... let’s have a fantastic 2020!
Thanks a lot man. Means the world to me when people resonate with the videos and I will have plenty coming out this year.
Have a great 2020 yourself
I've said it before, but I cant say it enough.. thank you so much for your videos, I genuinely believe I'm going for the home run this time, and your uploads are going to be a big part of it. Good luck for the continuation! I'm already in such better shape, physically and mentally! I laugh at the harsh comments that people have posted, use them as fuel brother, you're absolutely smashing it!
I really enjoyed watching this and your three year videos. I'll be along for the journey. Looking forward to a life of sobriety with your videos as a source of encouragement. I share the same issues that you and many others struggle with. 👍✌
Alcohol also surrounded almost everything I did in life and it started to bore me too. I wanted to be a better father and be healthy too so I decided to quit drinking and smoking.. It was difficult and was in my head all the time for a few months. I have now reached a point where I can have a drink(just one or two) with someone close who might enjoy it and then not drink again for months to come. Anyhow good luck on your journey. Best to stop counting and just move on with life and enjoy and tick your bucket list off.
Cheers man. Great to hear you can control your drinking. Maybe it is something I can do but, quite frankly, I would rather not risk it and just stick to the path I am on. Good on ya bro.
I applaud you, or your metabolism or your genes. |I cannot tell you what an alcoholic seizure is like because you really need to be in the hospital when it happens. If this channel is for people who are in a place where changing habits is all it's about, fair play to you. But this guy has been walking for four years. Rich Roll did 100 days of detox boot camp and is still doing mega ironman endurance runs at the age of 52 and is intensely invested in being a better person. So far I do AA phones -- good listener -- swim everyday because yes meditation and workout, best I can do so far; take out my dog into the great wide open 3x day; do my best every day.
Thanks alot brother!! Congratulations on your sobriety!! I listen to you every morning and I've passed it on to my friends. You are a true inspiration brother!! This year will be the year I never drink again! And I will be thinking about you when I feel weak and depressed. Keep up the great work brother!!!
I came across your video just tonight man, I just quit drinking, so many of the things you say I relate with and at 22 years old alcohol is the epitome of my friend group. These videos help so much and I’m happy for you as well! It’s inspiring and I plan on staying sober no matter how hard it gets. Thank you brother
I feel like there's no coincidences when this video came to my UA-cam TL it's quite inspiring for me cause I quit drinking almost 5 months ago and most of the situations you mention here are true, and in moment of weakness is good to remember what took us to this place in our lives. Thank you so much for the inspiration. Greetings from Mexico city.
10 days in... long way to go for me but your 3 year was what inspired me to set the day. Gave me even more drive to keep going today when i saw the 4 year vidio this morning. Look forward to new videos my friend. Keep it up!!!
Thank you for these videos. I’ve just started my journey to sobriety and listening to your videos as I go about my day helps me to not feel so awfully alone. You’re really helping.
Thank you very much for the kind words Alexis. Glad the videos are helping you stay on track 👍
I just wanted to send all the bests for 2020! I found your channel yesterday as I am back on the wagon after pirouetting off it for too many times.... :-(( I find it really helpful to watch people get better!
I like your nose and sense of humour! :-)))
Congrats on the 4 years! I agree,there's no such thing as "I'll just have one drink". Cause if you have one drink,you'll want all the drinks. It's a trap. Happy for you,that you're going strong,and best of luck with all the plans you have for this year!
Cheers for your support brother. It means a lot. Have a fantastic 2020 bro 👊
Your video popped up on my UA-cam search yesterday and wow. I've subscribed now and you are so motivating to me. I'm on day 5 having many issues all related to alcohol and starting my first run this morning. Please keep uploading as it gives me an extra strength to succeed. I'm 37 and been drinking 20 years now, longest dry spell about 6 weeks. Thanks freetoby. I'm more motivated than ever now. Much respect to you.
You and I just started at the same time. Stay busy and it’s doable.
Great to hear that you are making positive changes in your life and it means the world to me that people are getting something from these videos. I have a lot of videos planned for this year so I hope you will enjoy them
Keep it up man it gets better and easier . 6 years sober myself life is beautiful.
Well done mate. I love your honesty. It's like watching myself speak to me. I did 8 weeks sober last year, fell right off it in Nov using my 1yr wedding anniversary as an excuse! I'm getting there but not there yet.
I started this morning with your video a few months back that included depression. I am fortunate that I never had a problem with alcohol, but my 31 year old son has since the age of 15. Your work here is of great value, you are changing hearts and minds. Please don't give up and don't stop making these videos, just look at the comments and the number of people that you are supporting and encouraging.
I simply cannot say enough positive about these efforts, you are making a difference on a global scale, one person at a time and likely one day at a time. Thank you.
I look forward to hearing more about your thoughts on minimalism, financial responsibility and healthy feeding.
Just discovered your videos last night. Really resonate with all the stuff you talk about..alcohol, social pressures, accountability etc. I gave up drinking a few years ago after crippling anxiety, low motivation and self esteem. I really dont miss it one bit, although always battling other negative vices, but I feel lucky as like yourself I've lots of hobbies, passions and interests to keep me fulfilled. Definitely boredom and lack of direction make it hard for people struggling to keep off it. Keep on sharing your message mate, it helps people and has given me a healthy reminder and reassurance. Cheers
Well said, I concur.
Cheers bro. Means a lot to hear you get something from the videos. Having hobbies and interests are so important so it is great to hear you have a lo going on. Everyone I know who is really struggling with alcohol issues are usually people with zero interests in anything so it is clearly a key factor
Well done mate on your 4 years,I can relate to everything you say,just done 6 years life is great,good luck for the new year,keep the videos coming.
Congrats on the 6 years!
Thanks a lot bro. Congratulations on your 6 years and I assure you, I will have a lot of videos this year
Well done for 6 years.
Very inspiring brother! Thank you for sharing your story!
Thanks man, this video has helped me, I was feeling very alone and dejected after f**king up once again with alcohol. I have done 4 months sober and a few times for 1 or 2 months, And that feeling of not being chained to a mental Anvil all the time was amazing. I do truly believe I have it in me to turn my back on the booze burden forever. A video like this is an inspiration to me. Good work and Thank you
subbed earlier today after coming across your 3 years video, only to discover you're now on 4 years! well done dude!!
4 years! Amazing, well done man, can only dream of that.
I love it...Congratulations dude.
Hey, just came across your channel the other day. Really appreciate the words man. Just subbed. I'm going through the on and off the wagon stage. I used to drink every day then about a year and a half ago I decided I wanted to stop. I was sober for 4 months then started again for a few months then off then on again, only on weekends. Most recently I went 3 months and made it through Christmas and New Years then I slipped up last weekend and got hammered when I cracked under peer pressure at a friends bday. Right back on the wagon now. Its really incredible how much more I excel at every aspect of my life when I dont drink. Save money, exercise more, got employee of the month ect. The dream is stay off of it. I feel so horrible for up to a week after a day of drinking these days. Depression, anxiety and all that. Listening to you definitely helps put things into perspective. Lots of big opportunities coming up for me over the next few months and I will be much better off heading into it all with a sober mind set. Look forward to more videos from ya.
I also recently lost a friend back in October. It was due to drinking. He had just recently got married as well. It felt a shitty thing to do to have a drink in his honor considering it the drinking that killed him. I use it as fuel to better myself. I was on that path myself. Condolences on your loss mate.
Did you think of or have a Discord group going on? That would be a useful community tool.
Nice to hear you back and see the countryside behind you, lovely gentle winter light.
Sorry to hear your obstacles of late. Amazing how normal they are yet send most of us in a TaleSpin. Good to hear good health was a mainstay through them. Look forward to more of your walks 😊 Best wishes for your 2020.
Thanks a lot Delia. Glad you are enjoying the videos and there will be plenty more this year. Have a fantastic 2020 :)
You should be really proud of your massive achievement, hope to be able to follow in your footsteps.
Thanks a lot. Good luck with making improvements in your life and keep me posted with your progress
You are a great communicator and motivator. Your channel is going to be a great help to thousands of us who want to stay on the wagon.
Thank you.
Thanks a lot. Means a lot to hear that and thank you for checking out the videos
Speak all you want mate. Congrats on the 4 year mark. I've been still thinking about the diet and more of the time on losing weight despite a few habits like alcohol but I had been progressing back up again.
Thanks a lot Greg. You seem to be doing great. It looks like you have a lot of things going on in your life which is the key to success in my opinion.
Anytime, well I did gain a bit more weight due to Xmas and being busy with my band with the multiple gigs from all that work since we are a very busy and productive band. Gone back to drinking more water and still trying to eat more on the healthy stuff.
Great words man.your honesty is your greatest tool.keep it up.I'm coming up on six months free myself.And really enjoying the freedom of having my life back.onwards and upwards.
Great job man! I'm 23 and have just made the decision a few weeks ago to give up drinking. Its just not fun to me anymore, and not worth it either. Glad to hear you made 4 years, keep it up!
Im enjoyed watching your story !! 5 years sober here !! this is what you need to hear for all of us quitters!! Thank you for sharing
hahahah, love u man! great intro :D :D :D god bless you
Respect to you, great message. I’ve got a fair bit of time under my belt 2010 I love being sober. After a few years I discovered emotional sobriety which took my sobriety living to the next level. Agree re friends who have to go, sad but true. Thanks for vid.
Masive respect for you true inspiration!!👍🏻 dont stop making the videos
Thanks a lot man. I will have a lot of videos coming out this year for sure
@@BenjaminLeeWright 🤘🏻👍🏻
I saw your 3 year sober video recently.. And I honestly don't know why but for some reason it struck a chord with me.. And after many years of drinking and many goes at stopping I finally have given up the booze.. I am 12 days clear now and I just know deep down inside that this is the time.. I have it beaten and I will never take an alcoholic drink again.. My marriage was on the rocks as well as my health and since stopping I feel great and have started an exercise routine and am building bridges with my wife and am optimistic for the future.. Sure its a long road but this time I want to make it and I know I can.. Keep up the videos and the good work they are doing for people. Its great to know that there are many people out there going threw the same thing. I get great strength from that.. :)
176 days for me currently, long may it continue and your feelings and thoughts from last years video totally resonate with me.
Congrats on another year! I’m 2 years alcohol free. Really noticed some positive shifts the last few months. Looking forward to see the growth and progress over the next couple years
Great to hear man. Keep me updated with your progress
Today im at 31 days without alcohol, I wanted to quit for a month, but I feel so good now, that Im starting to think to quit for good!
Make it happen Matt. twenty years from now you'll look back and see what a monumental decision you made!
are you still off it?
Keep up the good work champ! Best regards from a sober sergent from denmark
Been three days for me, I hope I'm happier after 4 years. Cheer up you bastard! lol
saturday chilling, watching this video, while having a beer, feels like future commitment this year for sure. Like it
Kudos to you buddy, thats brilliant. Should be proud of yourself, and so loving your videos. I get so much , out of each one . That helps me that much more, in my own recovery. I have nothing but, total respect for you man . Cos what your doing , the videos you make . Makes a huge difference, to many people. Including myself, your really getting me through. My rough patch , during the whole lock down , and words can't express. How thankful I am, to you Ben . Your a legend bro.
Thanks for the kind words bro. Glad the videos are helping. It makes it easier for me to continue doing them 👍
@@BenjaminLeeWright your very welcome mate, your absolutely brilliant. At what you do and , making a huge difference and . Your born for it, and the difference you make is truly off the ricter scale. Your making such a difference, to us all and . So grateful to have you here bud.
Very inspiring mate. Only five days into my alcohol-free life (for good, not just the month), and I'll keep coming back to your vid whenever I need a kick up the arse. Subscribed.
Wish I had the time to walk around in the hills. More power to you mate for making the time!
Interesting bloke....likeable character ....glad your on a good path mate
Thanks a lot man
People relate to a guy like yourself....your a great communicator and you have something to say....we men go through stuff ...been in the mire myself ....you are articulate ...and a interesting guy...bring out a book fella ...your in the mold...of Ant Middleton the bloke off that SAS show on C4...like a mans man ...the ordinary guy trying to get on ...we need folk we can identify with ..good luck fella
Check out a writer....James Rebanks.....Matterdale ..farmer near Penrith...the Book ...The Shepherds Life.....a book on his life....from nowhere it was a best seller.....people took to him via social media then his book ...top seller world wide...like yourself a proper bloke ....I'm from Liverpool ...left a few months I'm now in the Lake District ...long story ...there's something you have ...and folk will relate ...tap into it ..
That is high praise indeed. I don't think I have that interesting a story to tell in all honesty but I will keep putting out videos and attempt to be as honest as I can be.
Thank you very much for the kind words bro 👊
Think your selling yourself short....with the bullshit and nonsense we go through and put up with...folk are turning to more authentic people who have something to say......you get a positive response on here from folk who have been in your place......you come across in a real no nonsense way ..but it's positive ...combining your chats with being in the out doors......thats good ...get to Coniston....or any Lake District ..spot ..and other locations ..the chat and the scenery ....is the key ...tell you something in these times of hype and social media....a man talking straight and someone who's faced his demons in these times your helping other men out ...don't underestimate yourself ...Divorce took its toll on me...not drink ...but listen don't underestimate the good your doing .....your really hitting on something with the talk and the outdoors you should build on that ....no harm in being a positive role model
Thanks. Great video. I had 2 years and 40 days, of being sober. Waking up every day, saying to yourself, “I made it another day”, is a great feeling. I threw it away for no good reason really. Right now I have 4 days sober. It’s all good. The beginning of the journey let’s you know you are definitely on a journey!
Excellent! Four years is a long time. Hopefully your videos will inspire others.
Jan 3, 2020, 4.5 thousand subscribers.Three days later 6.44 thousand. Well done your message is strong and many of us are sharing it with the people we care about. I'm sober for 35 years now! I subscribed to your channel because I know that what you are doing and what you will continue to do is the mark of a real courage and perseverance. Is it worth it? Oh, hell yes! The best part of my life has come since I quit.
Great video - very helpful! You did the right things at the funeral - your friend would have been proud!
just found your channel today, really liking ur content