Season 7: SS3 - Denyque and Diel on love lost and lessons learnt.
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- They lost at love but won at wisdom. Denyque and Diel share their stories and their love lessons tonight in our Safe Space.
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Thank you for being so candid, we need more honest people like you two. May God bless and direct you both in His will and nobody else’s. You guys rock❤❤
Love you Simone, awesome episode, truth supersedes fanaticism and pretense and this show is nothing but authentic. ❤
Whenever Den does an interview I always have to stop and listen, I literally don’t want to miss a word. You go hon!
Denyque's interview was so mature. Her introspection and work on self is inspiring. Diel, I really pray you become the man of God your parents see in you. Overall, I pray that both young ppl, HEAL and will be able to love again.
Simone, i hope you see this comment. I was really touched by watching this episode. I can, on so many levels relate. Denyque spoke about so many things that personally “got me in tears”. Growing up, I really didn’t receive that “love” from my parents. Daddy lived abroad and mommy died when i was 14 (just when i began to understood myself). I didn’t know or understood what self love was for my teenage
years, l had a lot of self doubt, had a little self esteem and my confidence was in shambles. I was angry most times and was mad at the world. It got even worst when i started to get mistreated by family and loved ones. I consider myself “scarred” by my past but i still try to push forward.
Becoming pregnant with my daughter helped me to start loving myself. After having her, i loved myself even more and because of that, i learned to love my daughter with all my heart. She is my gift from god. Having her gave me purpose and drive.
It is important that parents play a vital role in their children’s life….this role i believe can build that child’s self esteem, confidence, self love and all the good things. I make sure to try and give my daughter all of what was missing when i was growing up and even more.
I am far from perfect but i have come a far way from where i was. I thank god for not giving up on me.
People would look at me sideways when I said RESPECT over love any day and twice on Sunday...now it's coming up more and more and I like where the conversation is going ❤ take time with yourself people😊
I tell that to my child's father and he could not understand how an individual would say that. These men don't know what love is
@@Nadzmotivation9910 I promise you it’s not a men or women thing. It’s just a willingness to emotionally and spiritually evaluate yourself and speak the truth you find afterwards.
Den, big up yuhself!
Diel, love does not conquer all, but love betta be apart of the ingredients. Love by itself naw guh work. Man caa live by love alone.
Love does conquer all! Love covers a multitude of sin and the greatest weapon!
I LOVE me some Denyque. She has such a beautiful mind and spirit and her outfits are always FIRE!!!
Diel is speaking from a place of hurt, he's still not over his heartbreak. He's a hurt person trying to get over his hurt by expressing himself from a place of hurt. He still loves her
Denque have become a woman that I admire so much
Love is NOT a feeling Diel. Love is a PRINCIPLE. And yes, love conquers ALL. A failed relationship isn't enough reason to give up on God.
Den is such a pure soul. Can feel her energy
This episode tops all episodes. I think EVERYONE should watch this. Diel and Denque....I am grateful for your vulnerability and authenticity. It's appreciated and Simone for allowing them to be in this space. Loved this. Blessings
Enjoyed this session .. It is especially refreshing to hear a man be vulnerable, owning his role in the breakdown of a relationship and growing from it ... Everything he said resonates with me on a daily basis ... I hope they are both able to heal in their own way to bring them peace
I believe love is more than just a feeling, what we think love is, it is not. Love takes a lot of work, love is knowing how to take care of someone even when they have wronged you. Love is supposed to overcome hate, fear and all obstacles. Having a child can teach you what real love is. They do wrong, you can't hate them. It is not just the feeling.
Listening to this and I realize God gave me such a blessing! Getting married young at 22 and still married at 34! Prior to getting married I never really felt this heartbreak in which they speak about. So even though the topic doesn't reasonate, I am reminded that this relationship thing is real work and I should hold dear to me the man I call my partner. Thank you for sharing young people!
To Diel, I pray your parents prayer for you...I miss your gospel music :)
I got married at age 21 this year will be 7 years of marriage and it's real hard work.. but I'm determine to go until old age
@@mumzB let's do this! :)
I pray you continue having great relationships, God bless your marriages continuous
I share the same sentiment like Diel that love is not the may ingredient that makes a relationship great. It takes RESPECT, honesty, trust and healthy communication with hole heap of consistency ❤
Love is everything Diel said, trust, honesty, long-suffering, forgiveness............ love is not fairytale feelings. Love is a display of mature and healthy actions in a person- trust, honesty, forgiving.
Love is not just a feeling. It is more than a feeling. Therefore the "act of loving" someone is greater than just butterflies in the chest, but its the positive choices we make towards someone even when we do not feel like it.
Great session. Definitely resonate. Respect goes hand in hand with honesty. Communication, prioritization, physical boundaries and ultimate respect. One love.
2 young and admirable ole souls😍😍 D & D your pointers are on point.🙏🏽 More blessings,healthy communications,and love abundantly .💞🙏🏽💞 #1safespace#BlessupSims
It’s so unfortunate a relationship like this has broken down without solid interventions from both sides of these young people. Relationships are hard but with God as the foundation and proper directions from elders we can make it. Diel as a young man I appreciate your honesty. All in all nothing is too hard for God 🙏🏾
Denyque needs a talk show fr
Very honest young man....only God knows true love. We say we love yet we hurt each other. Companionship is what we need and what we can get from each other.
God is love. You build your house on God. From there the respect and trust flows. This is foundation. When God gives you a person, you fight for that relationship through prayer first.....then through your communication and compromise. Love is real. It is more than a feeling. The decision to love includes feelings......when the feelings change......the decision stands. Best Foundation for a relationship is being in love with God first and being in a relationship with Him. Remember its too broken person coming together no Mr. Or Ms. Right. I pray for you both. What is impossible with man is very possible with God.
Amen
I feel this episode and it's causing me to do some more deep soul searching
Accountability is very important indeed!
Omg can't stress this enough
Love is a commitment to the person you are with to work on the relationship everyday whether they upset us or we are in a bad mood we are still committed to each other because of that love. Having honest and hard conversations with our partners in a lovable and respectful manner and also at an appropriate time is key to lasting relationships as well. Sim thank you for your safe space and all your guests for sharing their journey with us. I hope our society can learn and be better at talking things through being honest and better at communicating with each and being supportive. ❤
I love my girl den. There is so much to take away from this session.
Diel, please read 1 Corinthians 13. You can't get a Christian marriage without following Christian principles throughout (from dating, to courtship, to marriage, and beyond). Please don't have anymore children out of wedlock. Continue to love and care for your son. Return to Jesus Christ fully, let Him heal and restore you. When you are clear on your divine purpose, you will receive your God-ordained wife. God bless. 🙏🏽
On point
Ameennn
Amen
AMEN WELL SAID SO TRUE
Im confused. Isn't he married to Denique?
I have learn and unlearned so much from this program .Thanks Simome.👍🙏🙌
Missed this broadcast and only just now watching. Beautiful interviews and poignant sentiments. I wish them both the best in their relationship journey. I loved seeing Diel and his ex together and how they were so supportive of each other's projects. Unfortunate that it ended, but as they say, "if it is to be, it will be". Love and light, guys. And Sim, continue to use your space to be an absolute blessing!
Aaah Diel I always love seeing you sings, there is something when you minister, I admire you so much congratulations on the birth of your son ❤. Please come back to the Lord can't Wait to hear more gospels from you, will be praying also 🙏🙏🙏
"If you constantly seek validation from outside, you will never find it within" .... HIT HOME HAAARRRDDDD!!!!!!
Diel, its love that makes you keep consistent.. its love make you do all that u listed .. so yes love conquers all ...
Very bright girl I had the pleasure of knowing her...as a student at Belair School
This was wholesome to watch. I have a special love for people who have rebuilt themselves after being broken. I can definitely relate to most of what they've said.
Love isn't just a feeling. It's doing. Trust, respect etc come from a place of love. As the bible says, the greatest is love.
Such vital information on communication and faith in the most High ❤We all needs to be loved and it will be reciprocate
Oohhh my Denyque,you’re so strong n courageous beautiful inside out❤
Watch ministering take place on every level. You guys spoke to the spirit man. Love this episode.
some people be suffocating them self to keep a relationship alive
Diel, I don't know your ex, but I wanted to cry when hearing her words. I hope nothing but happiness for you guys.
I really wish you and her work things out though Diel and find each again. I loved seeing you both together
Buoy I really respect this program eno!
Gives us a space where we can just be open to discuss real things.
Who ever came up with this concept deserves an award
Love is enough. Love encompasses all those things.
I enjoyed this episode.....such beautiful take-a-ways from Diel and Denyque
Damn...these two have some more love to give to each other.....wow..
I too read ‘Year of yes’ by Shonda Rhimes and the chapter that stuck out to me was ‘saying yes to no’ because I was a OG yes man I’m in recovery now
How can i get this book
True love always wins! Denque & Diel I love the content!
True love wins everytime ❤ so much to take away from this interview. Amazing
So much emotions and wisdom in this interview ❤
Fantastic Interviews! One though, Diel needs to know love is not just a feeling.
I think they should give their relationship another try they have so much powerful inspiration I was in a relationship for 34 years and it just fade out we leave each other without saying it is over and I learn so much from you guys and sometimes we want the relationship that mom and dad have and we don't know what thy go through
Wow
Love his vibes...i say to my friends & family time & again, respect over love.
My Pops taught me this " Spoken words can never be revoke. Think before you speak" Written words can never be erased. Don'nt write it. A picture lives on . Don't allow anyone to take compromising pictures of you. I had video to that. He was'nt around when video was invented.
Love every bit of this episode so wholesome and informative ❤
Good show! I sat and watched it and didn’t pause it for one second. I think many of us were not taught what a good relationship entailed and we were seeing many toxic relationships around us. Also I would suggest that people work on themselves before going into relationships
Great show..really loved this episode 💜
luther vandross would say because its love. my step dad use to play these songs over me, at a young age it stays with me, you can not beat love it comes up on you with great memories , forever for always
Yes Trust is more than Love..!! Love is just the extra icing in a relationship..!!
I just ❤the strength you empower God bless girl ❤
Wow. Powerful. One of my favorite episode.
Level of maturity and thing unwavering. There were alot of take aways and even making me considering things where think my relationship is at or is not and what need to do as I value myself more. Thanks Simone for this.
Nuff blessings to you both Denique and Diel.
Love this interview ❤
This is real lessons there is a lot to be learnt.very intersting.i pray God's blessings be with you all.
Great episode. I want to share my comment on two points- one where Diel said love is nothing and then circled to say we all just want love.
I've heard it over and over that love isn't enough and truthfully I started to believe it. But the truth is... How we feel isn't enough. Like the wind our feeling will come and go. But, love, love itself is stable. A parent doesn't always like the way his/her child behaves but it doesnt stop their love for the child.
Love is backed by actions but when we refer to love we're talking about how we feel. So, sometimes how we feel is how we love. I can only share from my experience because like I said I genuinely started to believe that love wasn't enough and I had to ask God to let me see what love is. Love is enough- we all need to learn how to really love.
The points about respect, trust and connection are valid. I also believe those are rooted in love.
Beautifully said
@@natalie21xoxo 🌷
This was such a wonderful episode as it not only highlighted these personal experiences, but societal issues and social influence. Most Jamaican boys are taught to suppress their emotions, which inadvertently creates long term and short term issues in different types of relationships. “Don’t cry, be a man.” However, your body needs to process thee options as you’re a human being, and preventing that process, is damaging. Thanks Sim!
Denyque I'm soooo with you on your points.
Thank you for this video ,thank you for sharing denyque
When d mother voice come onnn!!!!! My God why mi buss out a bawl
He is so right, relationships take a lot of work, communication l, trust and commitment. My husband and I have been together since high school and we are now in our 30s and still together. It has been years since we have an argument cause we understand each other.
Diel I felt every word.I had this fairytale imagination thing, planning where we gonna life, how our house is going to look etc......
Denyque....Second to none 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
These young ppl are wise! Love it
i remember watching diel's tiktok or the first time. My first thought was the soul and amount of brokenness in this statement tells me he grew up in a solid home not perfect be solid. I follow Den in ig and i feel like its the first time i've hear her speak. These two are so young and solid i Pray God's blessings on their endeavors and relationships. Love them. Old souls they really are.
Diel’s ex really do still love him, she didn’t have the strength to do a vid. Lawd this was emotional! Simone u were built 4 this
Love Den so much ❤
Thank you so much for this topic and the two great person you interview.. I always tell my sis that seeking validation is never a good thing..... It will messes you up....
Hard to go through the challenges when it's with a narcissist.
Thank you Sim ❤
Hi, persons come to our lives for reason and season. He should seek Yah, to find out if this lady is who Yah wants for him. In mean time keep working on what's holding him back, praying that Yah will also heal the lady, cause he loves her bad, and sounds like she too loves him bad.
Put Yah in the midst and accept His guidance.
Nuff love to Denyque and Diel
Listen to me, I love denden like mybown blood sister, i have a distant connection with this girl its unexplainable, shes my girl in my head, shes one of the most talented person ever, her voice is unmatched, and the sweetest person ever, denden yuh know mi admire and respect you nuff nuff....all the success my darling
Very great interview 👏 ❤
I’ve been waiting for this episode 😭❤️ omg let’s gooo
The most beautiful interview ❤
Its my second time watching this episode. Thank you guys for sharing
I love this show❤️
❤❤❤ Denique you're my inspiration love you girl 🫂
Love is NOT a feeling. Like is feeling. Love is a decision to commit. That is why when challenges come, and they will, your reaction should be to work to achieving a favorable outcome.
I pray that God will re unite you with your wife once more, because you have both learnt from whatever mistakes and won't make them once more, I guess, just trust God, He will fix things❤🙏God bless you both, beautiful together.❤🙏
Love this show great message
Great show Sim🙏❤️
She is my best female artist she can really sing
Yes I agree with him women not taking crap again and Denique too most of this generation want to be with persons for what they can get.
This generation refuse to settle and so marriages aren’t lasting like back in the days. That’s all 😊
This statement has so many branches but I totally understand where you are coming from....
This generation is too MATERIALISTIC and that's it too...
Most times, we just cannot settle so I agree. If things are great, and people are on the same page we will stay together. But, what our generation will not do is settle for abuse and lack of respect.
I have been married for 3 years and we have been together for 10, and we are good as there is respect, love and consistency.
Looking at the past generation, why would a grandmother stay with a man and have 10 kids with a drunk who beats her? That was very prevalent yet death had to do them apart. It's also because women back them stayed home and had vision on how to get out. We are working women who desire happiness. We love ourselves and know what we want.
Understand that in this day and age ppl Wise up now where what our parents use to put up with bk then , watching this husband having an affair around the corner, started a new family and mommy would dkeep her mouth shut because she don't want to bring down scandal on herself and family because daddy is the bread winner aswell and mommy is just a house wife so if she talk too hard her children won't be able to go to school etc but this generation are independent ppl who don't give a dam , gold getter , business owners, flying all over the world and not settling for worse in the name of a married title with a motto that says for better or for worse. No no , happiness over commitment
Why settle though? Some marriages bk then we're never suppose to last. All now mi cah figure out why fi the love of God my madda stay with my puppa! Shi sudda divorce him from him inna him mummaa womb. Kmt. If its genuinely not working and you don't see what else you can do to make it work move tf onnnnnn. I rather to be miserable alone that with another person. You not taking care of my mental n spiritual health as I am doing yours I don't need you.
This episode was absolutely inspiring,heartfelt and honest
The people we watch on TV and idolized them but we don't know that they too are going through rough times in their relationship
I'm over 60 heart broken it hurt like hell but in the end I laughed 😊 that him should a gone long time but afraid of another 🎉
Oh how I waited for this ❤❤❤❤
Finally I get to watch this episode