My cousin was a side chick for 20 years, then the man dumped her for another side chick 🥴. She also had a baby for him (on purpose). It’s hard to feel sorry for her at all; in fact I don’t. I don’t know what she expected. She was mad at his wife for not divorcing him. Some people are a mess and then act confused when it don’t end well. 🙄
Speaking her truth! No one has the right to tell her that she can't sing about her life-it's the road she has walked, it is her story. I enjoyed the video.
The thing I love about this song is that she gave Arionne what she wanted, recognition….give her her award!!!!! She earned it! Recognize her! Side chic of the year award! 💯 Come get this second best grammy! Play stupid games and you win dumb ass prizes!
Mel is not getting on social media talking trash she is dissing them thru her music and getting paid. Now that's what you call a boss ! Proud of you Melody
This is alchemy! Using that fucked up energy and transmuting it into manifestation! You could have cried and given up but you bossed up again ! It ain’t kill you goddess it activated something else inside of you!! I’m Uber proud of you miss ma’am!)
After Arione interview with Tasha I had to come back and listen to this song again… Mel you spoke nothing but facts… she definitely deserve that award hands down 😂
This is what leaving a toxic relationship will do for you. Mel done bossed up. She’s in a good place. Her kids are good, she getting that 💰bag and she taking care of business. I pray that God keeps on blessing her and praying that when the time is right and if her desire is to be remarried again that God will send her a good man. Love you Melody. Keep staying strong 💪🏽 🎵 🎶 🎼 🎙 🎤 🗣❤️❤️❤️❤️
She’s winning in all aspects of her current life and that in itself is why Coleslaw and Peanut Head tight clothes wearing Martel is mad mad. They aimed to break her. She outsmarted both of them. Oh Chile……they gon learn today. Go Melody Go.
OMG! Coleslaw and Peanut Head! I love it! Now that God told Mel to Go! Peanut Head is trying to hurt her more by showing his baby! Mel doesn't care. She isn't mad at the baby or Coleslaw, that's why she gave her The Side chick of the Year Award! The baby is innocent, and she won't stop her children from being around their sibling.
@@phyllisgarrison3561 Mel give zero f@#$s about Peanut and Coleslaw. They are making her a big bag. Her songs are epic. Martel thinks he can get under her skin but she got his tail when she openly admitted to being with someone else when the separated. She got under his skin when he saw her at a restaurant. She gets under their skin every time she announce a new venture. She is doing big things and neither Peanut or Coleslaw like it and cant stop her.he is the one who have a lot of explaining to do to his kids.
I read a comment earlier today from another UA-cam video where a 50+ year old lady wrote about learning a life lesson late in her season from Melody Holt. This lady is Grace Under Fire, and God is giving her beauty for ashes. Inspiration!
To all the side chicks in the world no your self-worth. Melody is putting a message out to you all, listen and learn. It never ends well have a good day!
I love her voice and how she turned her Pain into a POSITIVE ASPIRATIONS FOR WOMEN WHO ARE GOING THROUGH THEIR OWN PAIN. SHE TURNED HER 🍋 INTO SWEET LEMONADE!! YOU GO MELODY!
May God continue to bless you and your kids. Thank God for taking the mask off your haters you film with. Their hearts are so harden that they can't hid it anymore. God has your back Mel. 😇🌏🥰
Good example of brains, beauty and boss. This woman has raised the bar. This is another way things can go when your world seems turned upside down, knowing God can put the words in your mouth and the crazy under your feet. We must remember it's God's world, we are participants in it, the good AlwaYs out weighs the bad Go Young Lady, do your thing....
Go Mel. That rapping was on point. Happy holidays to you and your children and happy belated birthday to Suga Mama. Love you girl. Keep that beautiful head up and pay dust to the haters.
MEL!!! You checked them, but in the most classy, calm and discrete manner. You didn’t cuss them out in this song, no profanity, no vulgarity, you simply gave an award to whom it was owed! That was classy yet playa right there. Kudos MEL! Keep rising!
Lawd have mercy!! I was looking for a song about side chicks for my page and LAWD, I FOUND IT! (laughing), I'm reading the comments and cracking up! #teamwife, YES!!!!!!! Whoever this coleslaw is, she picked the right one 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Nice to meet you, Melody S. Holt! I pray, that through this shame and disrespect, God has granted you his secret place, and restored everything that was lost! He will do it! My story? I actually became a better woman! What the devil meant for harm God turned it around for my good! God is more than Amazing!! And who was the foolish man that played you like a cat, when clearly you are Queen! Shame on him, I hope he has learned his lesson as well. It appears to be a year so I pray you're on a better path, and even if your husband isn't sorry for his disgraceful action and behavior please forgive him. It's hell holding on to poison. We all reap what we sow, don't let him or this make you miss the blessings (you won't even have room enough to receive), that God has for you. It's so amazing that I can look at my now (ex) husband and his now-wife, and smile. I have zero ill feelings for him or her, and I truly wish them the best, and GIRL, I can take NO credit for it! God by his Holy Spirit changed my heart! And I give him, all PRAISE AND GLORY for being my rock, giving me my voice and power as his daughter, and a new life. I am free! I am now trying to help women and girls find their voice (it's not in the ear of someone's husband), side-chicks are glamorized, but not in God's Kingdom, her path leads them to the dead! Blessings
Mel God has called you to "NATIONS" 🙏 sharing your real life pain to expose your gifts 🎁, skills and talents ( and you have lots of them). Sometimes we don't understand the "why", it's all in God's plan. I'm super excited 😊 for you ❤ continue to let God use you for the one's felt and feared there was no hope or possibility how to move forward when you've experienced divorce, breakups...etc Mel this "AWARD" goes to you, you , you, New Artist of the year AWARD 👏 🙌 👌 ❤ 👏🙌😊❤💯
I have been in the worst way, but I was not as smart as Mel, she turned it into goal, no sitting around crying getting fat and developing high blood pressure and wondering how you gonna move forward. Lessons learned Mel thank you.
Now THIS is how you present an award! I'm so proud of you. I'm over here smiling from ear to ear. You should get an award for handling yourself with so much elegance and grace. You continue to keep it classy. You-you- you-you-you-you-YOU! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Talking about turning lemons into lemonade - if Martel and his side piece were mad at tell tale signs they are really going to be pissed now 😂 they didn’t know that they were going to make Mel’s pockets fat as theirs got empty
Omg, Mel, this video is everything. "YOU DESERVE THE SIDE CHICK OF THE YEAR AWARD THAT SHIT GOES TO YOU" popping Mel you did that once again keep shining sis I think I said it right lol oh and your house is so so freaking beautiful.
You You You You are absolutely Elegant, Brilliant & Phenomenal Melody S Holt slammed dunk all over again. Love it Love it Yasss! God bless Melody S Holt & children always. 👑💃🏽🎁
It’s good to hear music that speaks the truth, a lot of women have been through this weather in a long term relationship or marriage, Mel you made a song for all of us Thanks.
In my opinion she’s better off obviously ❤❤❤she is literally everything and was everything and did everything she could. She stayed strong and was still capable of class and not once did she portray the victim 😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰💛💅🏾
Melody has COMPLETELY made a statement with this one!!!!She is definitely winning and moving forward-WHAT'S OBVIOUS NEEDS NO EXPLANATION.#BESTCHICK#BOSS$ITCH
God has given you..." beauty for ashes". Melody, miss ma'am you are winning! When "God said go" he had your back and He has been elevating you ever since. You are the example of what God has in store for you when you listen to his voice. So proud of you Mel 🙌🏾🙏🏾💓
Go Melody!!! I love all of your looks. Keep the confidence Queen. You wear it well! And you also inspire others to stay confident no matter what!! We can wait to see a man treat you the way you deserve!!
So proud of you girl. You're the perfect example of putting yourself and your kids 1st b4 any man. You deserve better and I'm excited for your future, it's bright girl. 🥂💯❤👏🏽💰🔥
So proud of you Melody!!!! Martell could have been right there supporting and holding down his Beyoncé like Jay do (since he wanna talk that Beyoncé mess) but instead he lost her!!!! You BADDDD girl!!!!! That’s that UNBREAKABLE woman type of strength and I adore you for it. Not because of the strength to leave Martell, men like Martell make it easy to leave them. I’m talking about the strength to handle the aftermath with the grace and class that you have!!!! Big ups to you Melody!!!! Sending you SOOOO much love and positive supportive energy!!!! No matter how anybody tries to tear you down there are those who absolutely adore, admire, respect, uplift and support you!!! You the SHIT woman! No cap! 😘💙💜❤️
Yassss she's my inspiration, I love her and the woman in her she does everything with so much beauty and class, keep on keeping on and helping all the ladies that have endured what you have mastered, with God's grace and Mercy, love always to you and your beautiful babies Melody♥♥♥ GOD got you!
No one should stay with a malignant narcissist who is so disrespectful of a wife, mother, business partner and queen. Melody did the right thing to end the toxic relationship. Ecclesiastes 3 applies. Someone who is honorable, pious, and faithful is who we all need to look for in a mate.
Miss Vanessa xxxx! I'm assuming this is you, Mel's Mom. God certainly did well by you as you held your daughter through all the painful madness. 🙏 You raised her to always walk with God and she has instilled that in her children too. All the mess Martel dished out on your child, was her thorny path to freedom and peace. Martel's nasty tantrums were loaded with sarcasm and cruelty coz he wanted to crash her into silence and submission. Who knew that without Mel he had no self-worth? I'm happy Mel washed away the name Holt. Clear and bold message. "It's Not Right, But it's OK" - I can see Mel doing a Whitney song passionately!!⚘⚘
Moved to a new city, dropped outta school, slurped on his wife's sloppy seconds, put in 5 years of hard labor he was handed over to you, only for you to make your way to become sidehen of the decade. Come get your award baby, it goes to you, you, you 🎉
Pretty much it will be 10 yrs soon. Awe hell naw!!!! No ring, no property, no nothing but a baby and she still taking selfies off to the side. Wow, unreal!!
I lived with my boyfriend for 1 year. At the end of that year I said “No marriage plans, no woman or living together.” Guess what? We’ve been happily married ever since. Nobody is gonna waste the time God has given me here on Earth.
💕💕💕🐸🐸💕💕💕. Come on Soror!!!💕💕💕🐸🐸💕💕. : My sincerest apologies in my tardiness on arriving to the party. I listened to this 5x: your Lyrics are🔥. Sending unyielding Love, Support, & Peace. U did that Bsby💕💕🐸🐸💕💕 Dr SABuchanan, MD
Bahhhhaaaaaa. All I can do is LMAO at Coleslaw and The Clow because the ONlY winner is Boss Lady Mel. Go Mel!!!!!!! The song is great now people lets get this song to go Platinum.
Yesssss, I love it! Stay strong and beautiful and I hope that you find happiness. Smokey Robinson made the song "Tears of a Clown" I bet someone's crying those tears
NEVAH, hopefully all the sidechicks and wannbe sidechicks, who think it is cool to break up famiiles and destroy children will learn a lesson from this. Leave a marriage if you must but dont bring other people to help you destroy it. Bravo to Mel for rising to the occasion. Now watch big ears come out with a song to compete with Mel. Now what would his song be about,? I know condiments .
Come get this AWARD!!!!! Yasssss! I'm not understanding how he even went for something like that girl... she can't even compare. Her antics are that of a 18 year old. Keep shining Ms. Melody!!
Yes Mel!!!! I just love how she keeps it classy. Let Martell and Coleslaw have the mess. It takes a lot of growth and strength to overcome such a dramatic event/change in a persons life and Mel is showing us what she is made of. Don’t play with a Scorpio woman.!!! But on a real note God is good. Stay blessed Mel
I need Melody to create a song on how she’s the Sugar Honey Iced Tea❣️ BIG YOURSELF UP SIS! In all actuality they did you a HUGE favor! Imagine living your life 20 more years with a narcissist?!
Mel!! I love every song you are releasing. You have an anointed voice, you are a beautiful mother, singer, daughter, producer, business leader. I am loving how you are thriving!! OMG THIS SONG IS FIRE!!! Congratulations for SONGS OF THE YEAR!!!
So proud of you, Mel! Continue to focus on your growth and your kids and God will continue to pour out his Blessings. I can so relate to what you went through. I’m so glad you didn’t let it break you or make you bitter. You’re beautiful! Continue to shine superstar 💫
Lawd! When I found out the horse Mel is sitting on was the representation for Arionne I hollered soooo freaking loud! Now I can't unsee it because they do resemble!
Idc idc idc I don’t wanna hear haters saying ooh she gonna keep going making songs about her ex and coleslaw aht aht don’t do it don’t do it!!let Melody S Holt Live hunni y’all wouldn’t tell some of the greats who have done it to stop making hits that speak about past relationships & side chicks look at Auntie Mary being doing it for decades look at sis Keyshia doing it for years as well and so many more, only differences is we got to see more of Mel’s personal life play out in front of the world which for me is more of a reason for me as a fan to rock with Mel and these hits she’s giving us, as a fan seeing it nearly firsthand I know that what she’s singing about is raw, pure truth so please uplift this black Queen and support her and leave the negativity at the door she’s doing something a lot of women don’t get the opportunity to do or are too ashamed to do and that’s share HER story, speak HER mind YALL BETTER PUT SOME RESPECT ON HER NAME!!!And no I haven’t been hurt, I haven’t had this experience I just love seeing women shine after the storm #U,U,U,U,U,U,U#SideChickOfTheYearAwardThatShitGoToYou#
Any woman who will happily play sidechic to a married man for 5 years deserves this award hands down!?!
Happily! Was confronted and everything and STILL chose to continue
My cousin was a side chick for 20 years, then the man dumped her for another side chick 🥴. She also had a baby for him (on purpose). It’s hard to feel sorry for her at all; in fact I don’t. I don’t know what she expected. She was mad at his wife for not divorcing him. Some people are a mess and then act confused when it don’t end well. 🙄
The song is DEFINITELY fitting to Coleslaw.
agree
Thank you say that again
Melody out here making sure Arione don’t ever forget who’s husband she messed with and making Martell regret it every second. Go Mel!!!
Power to you Queen
If the shoe fit, wear it! You better sing Mel!❤❤❤
Yesssss!!
That whole entire part.
I don't blame her 💃🏿✨
Speaking her truth! No one has the right to tell her that she can't sing about her life-it's the road she has walked, it is her story. I enjoyed the video.
Right its her life her story. Make it do what it do. Making that mess make money. SHE'S A SMART WOMAN
Facts
Absolute truth
Facts!!!
@@pamelathomas5324 Yasss👏🏾 I like, “let the mess make money”!!! That’s a T-shirt. Make it before I do. 🤗
Preaching her pain AND getting PAID!!!
Melody ate that up and left no crumbs.....❤yes girl
#teamwife Love y’all and keep your heads up! We’ve got this 💪🏽😘
Yes 30 years and counting #teamwife
Keep Shining Super ⭐️ 🌟 so happy for you Melody!!!! Peace and Blessings to you and the children
So proud of you.
My favorite line for my ex …. He a 🤡 and his b** a clown 🤡 too
God say Go! We got this for sure#Team Melody🤩😘❤❤
The thing I love about this song is that she gave Arionne what she wanted, recognition….give her her award!!!!! She earned it! Recognize her! Side chic of the year award! 💯 Come get this second best grammy! Play stupid games and you win dumb ass prizes!
Exactly !!!
Now she wanna sue for wanting to be famous for messing with someone who was married. Hahaha
Yessss! Come get your award!
Well said!!!!💯💯💯💯
Well said!
I loved that she turned her pain into POWER… Super Dope Women…. LOVE IT
She sure did, now she can move on and leave them both in their desperate lust for fame at any cost.
Amen to that sister yes lord he said go and be great
This aint power this is obsessive
Yesss!!💪🏽❤💯
She is still feeling it. All of your music does no have to be about Martell. You are still giving that life. Let it die.
Still playing this BOP in 2024 ☺️
YESSSSSSSS MEL!!!!!!! It's the rap for me!! God's divine protection is all over you sis, keep thriving!!
Right!..killing her with the classy bars😂😂 I love it!🤍💯
Love your story iive it you put words together 💯💥
AMEN
She went Meg thee stallion‼️
This is the most epic shit ever! The definition of “pay me for my pain”! Who’s laughing now!!😭😭🤣😭🤣😂😂😂😂👏🏽🙌🏽🔥🥰
You got that right! 💯
FOR REAL, NOW WE HAVE A SONG FOR THESE SIDECHICKS
Purrrrrr 💵💰
Factssss
Mel is not getting on social media talking trash she is dissing them thru her music and getting paid. Now that's what you call a boss ! Proud of you Melody
If turning lemons into lemonade was a person lol She looks great and I hope she finds all the happiness she deserves
This is alchemy! Using that fucked up energy and transmuting it into manifestation! You could have cried and given up but you bossed up again ! It ain’t kill you goddess it activated something else inside of you!! I’m Uber proud of you miss ma’am!)
Ase'
yup Scorpio be rising like a phonixx
Beautifully stated!
This is what healing looks like
She’s stronger & better. I’m so proud of her! She is the bounce back queen
This is what we wish Shirley would have told Barbara's trifling, rachet, behind! Love this! Go Mel!
I’m screaming 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Too funny!!😆😆
Melody Holt said the best revenge is her paper.. Wow!🤩..
You mean Rogers
Omg! Im sooo excited!!!
🔥🔥🔥
Me too 😆
Congratulations Mel!!
❤️❤️❤️
Yes!
Keep shining Mel... we celebrate your drive and perseverance
Y’all are all BoMB!
Congratulations to Melody for taking a horrible situation and turning into an opportunity to heal and get some coin lol.
@@melodysharirodgers we know lol but you are more the bomb hunni
You the real MVP! Keep your head up!
@@melodysharirodgers I love you Melody!😇
Melody Holt is rising so high on all the pain she has been through. And going straight to the Bank. I'm so proud of her.❤️
Yes! Melody Is Smart & Beautiful!
You going to pay me for my pain baby!!
After Arione interview with Tasha I had to come back and listen to this song again… Mel you spoke nothing but facts… she definitely deserve that award hands down 😂
Yep, it was earned 🏆
Yep she definitely deserves this award... you you you... thats a real clown 🤡
That's why she did the interview anyway lmbo.......ok drop the mic on em boo
I agree me too!! Lol!! And she was pissing me off in that interview acting like a victim no sidechick u ain't no victim!!!!
Hahahaha facts
Melody inspired me with "God Said Go" to leave a toxic marriage!! I am so happy now!!! Bossing UP!
I wish I would have long ago. Seeing her do it inspired me. I'm going to leave and move on.
I feel like cryiung, a lot of us have experienced that pain and did nothing, this woman cried, and fought her way out to the top and rising.
Ooook….
This is what leaving a toxic relationship will do for you. Mel done bossed up. She’s in a good place. Her kids are good, she getting that 💰bag and she taking care of business. I pray that God keeps on blessing her and praying that when the time is right and if her desire is to be remarried again that God will send her a good man. Love you Melody. Keep staying strong 💪🏽 🎵 🎶 🎼 🎙 🎤 🗣❤️❤️❤️❤️
God's got a boaz in the making for you mel. Stay blessed
Yessss!
@@terrysingleton4129 ABSOLUTELY ‼️‼️‼️
Yesss, I totally agree with you!
For Facts
She’s winning in all aspects of her current life and that in itself is why Coleslaw and Peanut Head tight clothes wearing Martel is mad mad. They aimed to break her. She outsmarted both of them. Oh Chile……they gon learn today. Go Melody Go.
Coleslaw and Peanut Head lol
True!! I'm happy she's didn't put a look a like coleslaw in the video although she could've put coleslaw and Martell in it.
OMG! Coleslaw and Peanut Head! I love it! Now that God told Mel to Go! Peanut Head is trying to hurt her more by showing his baby! Mel doesn't care. She isn't mad at the baby or Coleslaw, that's why she gave her The Side chick of the Year Award! The baby is innocent, and she won't stop her children from being around their sibling.
@@phyllisgarrison3561 Mel give zero f@#$s about Peanut and Coleslaw. They are making her a big bag. Her songs are epic. Martel thinks he can get under her skin but she got his tail when she openly admitted to being with someone else when the separated. She got under his skin when he saw her at a restaurant. She gets under their skin every time she announce a new venture. She is doing big things and neither Peanut or Coleslaw like it and cant stop her.he is the one who have a lot of explaining to do to his kids.
Yyyaaasss!!
2023 and still listening to this
ME TOOOOO!!!!!❤❤❤❤
Listening again in 2024!!❤❤❤
Here
ALMOST 2025 IM HERE LOL
This woman is 🔥 every thing she touches turns to gold ✨️ 💛 😊God bless you melody and your beautiful children.
Melody singing for thousands of us. Such a healing song for some of us.
My ex had a side chick and a baby and was lying about until the side chick bought the baby to the house and he was speechless!
I read a comment earlier today from another UA-cam video where a 50+ year old lady wrote about learning a life lesson late in her season from Melody Holt. This lady is Grace Under Fire, and God is giving her beauty for ashes. Inspiration!
To all the side chicks in the world no your self-worth. Melody is putting a message out to you all, listen and learn. It never ends well have a good day!
‼️💅🏾
I really don’t understand why some women feel like it’s cute being second to somebody who’s married or in a relationship
10 months later… and I’m still enjoying this BOP 🎶
She is only expressing herself....its called healing.
Great job 👏🏾 I PRAY MEGAN THE STALLION GET ON THE TRACK FOR THE REMIX !!!! ❤️ This SONG is 🔥
Me too. I love both of them
That would be fire 🔥
I would love to see that
Me too!!!!!! would be so dope!!!!
That would be FIRE🔥
I’m so happy for Melody. She deserves all of these blessings pouring in!
Take your bow honey. I didn’t think you could top telltale signs but I was wrong!!! Great job Mel
I KNOW RIGHT!!!!!!
@@therealtor1889 Facts! She did THAT!
I love her voice and how she turned her Pain into a POSITIVE ASPIRATIONS FOR WOMEN WHO ARE GOING THROUGH THEIR OWN PAIN. SHE TURNED HER 🍋 INTO SWEET LEMONADE!! YOU GO MELODY!
I was going to say she needed somebody to rap on this songs Until I heard her rapping.. Yes Melody you did that
May God continue to bless you and your kids. Thank God for taking the mask off your haters you film with. Their hearts are so harden that they can't hid it anymore. God has your back Mel. 😇🌏🥰
This is how to turn that pain around. Talk about glow up of the year. You glowing Mel🥰🥰😍😍
Good example of brains, beauty and boss. This woman has raised the bar. This is another way things can go when your world seems turned upside down, knowing God can put the words in your mouth and the crazy under your feet. We must remember it's God's world, we are participants in it, the good AlwaYs out weighs the bad Go Young Lady, do your thing....
Awesome too cute 😍 ❤️ ❤️
🤗❣️💯
Triple threat.
Go Mel. That rapping was on point. Happy holidays to you and your children and happy belated birthday to Suga Mama. Love you girl. Keep that beautiful head up and pay dust to the haters.
I can't wait for you to end up with the man you were meant to be with. Someone that loves, respects and appreciates you.
How dare Arian try to say they’re using her for ratings. Melody is telling her story, HER story.
Agreed
MEL!!! You checked them, but in the most classy, calm and discrete manner. You didn’t cuss them out in this song, no profanity, no vulgarity, you simply gave an award to whom it was owed! That was classy yet playa right there. Kudos MEL! Keep rising!
Team WIFE! Congratulations Mel!!! I just purchased 2 of your 💄. Wishing you continued success!
Yes team wife all day!!
What's the name of her lipstick site?
What lipsticks?
I purchased 3 last night! They’re already otw! Love Mel!
@@cece656 Thanks! Just purchased 4 of the lipsticks. ❤👄💄
Yes! When the thing that was supposed to break you, worked out for your good. I’m rooting for you Melody. Blessings
That part!
Lawd have mercy!! I was looking for a song about side chicks for my page and LAWD, I FOUND IT! (laughing), I'm reading the comments and cracking up! #teamwife, YES!!!!!!! Whoever this coleslaw is, she picked the right one 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nice to meet you, Melody S. Holt! I pray, that through this shame and disrespect, God has granted you his secret place, and restored everything that was lost! He will do it! My story? I actually became a better woman! What the devil meant for harm God turned it around for my good! God is more than Amazing!!
And who was the foolish man that played you like a cat, when clearly you are Queen! Shame on him, I hope he has learned his lesson as well. It appears to be a year so I pray you're on a better path, and even if your husband isn't sorry for his disgraceful action and behavior please forgive him. It's hell holding on to poison. We all reap what we sow, don't let him or this make you miss the blessings (you won't even have room enough to receive), that God has for you.
It's so amazing that I can look at my now (ex) husband and his now-wife, and smile. I have zero ill feelings for him or her, and I truly wish them the best, and GIRL, I can take NO credit for it! God by his Holy Spirit changed my heart! And I give him, all PRAISE AND GLORY for being my rock, giving me my voice and power as his daughter, and a new life. I am free!
I am now trying to help women and girls find their voice (it's not in the ear of someone's husband), side-chicks are glamorized, but not in God's Kingdom, her path leads them to the dead!
Blessings
Mel God has called you to "NATIONS" 🙏 sharing your real life pain to expose your gifts 🎁, skills and talents ( and you have lots of them). Sometimes we don't understand the "why", it's all in God's plan. I'm super excited 😊 for you ❤ continue to let God use you for the one's felt and feared there was no hope or possibility how to move forward when you've experienced divorce, breakups...etc
Mel this "AWARD" goes to you, you , you, New Artist of the year AWARD 👏 🙌 👌 ❤ 👏🙌😊❤💯
I like this… This is fire 🔥 I am sure a lot of women who been cheated on can relate. Side Chick of the year award 🥇 Lol 😂 loving it 😍
I have been in the worst way, but I was not as smart as Mel, she turned it into goal, no sitting around crying getting fat and developing high blood pressure and wondering how you gonna move forward. Lessons learned Mel thank you.
@@soniaharrison1016 I'm sure she went through that too and then got out of that rut. It's natural and normal, you're good
This is a woman that has truly turned her pain into happiness 😊
Now THIS is how you present an award! I'm so proud of you. I'm over here smiling from ear to ear. You should get an award for handling yourself with so much elegance and grace. You continue to keep it classy. You-you- you-you-you-you-YOU! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Me tooo I love the confidence ❤️❤️❤️❤️🤞
❤❤❤powerful message and restoration 🎉🎉🎉
Talking about turning lemons into lemonade - if Martel and his side piece were mad at tell tale signs they are really going to be pissed now 😂 they didn’t know that they were going to make Mel’s pockets fat as theirs got empty
Omg, Mel, this video is everything. "YOU DESERVE THE SIDE CHICK OF THE YEAR AWARD THAT SHIT GOES TO YOU" popping Mel you did that once again keep shining sis I think I said it right lol oh and your house is so so freaking beautiful.
She is singing this to the other woman who was the side chick to come get the award Mel was the wife she wore the ring and a crown.
I thought she was saying this $#!+ goes to you! 😜😜😜😜🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 keke get that $#!+ coleslaw get that $#!+.
When she started rapping that was it for me😍😍😍.....Team Mel anyday of the week or year🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌. #NoComparison #TeamWife #Number1 #Never2
omg, i'm jamming this. Even introducing this on my TV Show here in Memphis!!
Dm me about your show if love to check it out
@@Deputydawne sure no problem
Yes, I'm still enjoying this song.
This award need to be mass produced. There's at least a few in every city, town and neighborhood.
You You You You are absolutely Elegant, Brilliant & Phenomenal Melody S Holt slammed dunk all over again. Love it Love it Yasss! God bless Melody S Holt & children always. 👑💃🏽🎁
I Am Team MeL,All The Way! Proud Of You, Healing Is A Beautiful Thing! God Bless You Melody 🙌❤️💜🥰
Everyday, all day....Pretty, Classy & Sexy
Team Mel. I like it. All facts
It’s good to hear music that speaks the truth, a lot of women have been through this weather in a long term relationship or marriage, Mel you made a song for all of us Thanks.
Yes she did!
I wish I had it to sing when the sidechick in my life tried to make me miserable for her longterm sidechick relationship she had with my husband.
I LOVE her classy approach!! Tell them about themselves and make money on it!! Love you Melody!!
In my opinion she’s better off obviously ❤❤❤she is literally everything and was everything and did everything she could. She stayed strong and was still capable of class and not once did she portray the victim 😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰💛💅🏾
I am extremely proud of you. Blessings, blessings and many more blessings coming your way.
This is STRAIGHT FIRE! GO MELODY, you are talented... KEEP THEM COMING, WE ARE HERE FOR IT. CONGRATULATIONS!!!
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Truly so talented....
Melody has COMPLETELY made a statement with this one!!!!She is definitely winning and moving forward-WHAT'S OBVIOUS NEEDS NO EXPLANATION.#BESTCHICK#BOSS$ITCH
everyone with a platform should post this and tag Coleslaw on it today. It will be nice if we can get this song to number one today
😂😂😂😂😂
God has given you..." beauty for ashes". Melody, miss ma'am you are winning! When "God said go" he had your back and He has been elevating you ever since. You are the example of what God has in store for you when you listen to his voice. So proud of you Mel 🙌🏾🙏🏾💓
Go Melody!!!
I love all of your looks. Keep the confidence Queen. You wear it well! And you also inspire others to stay confident no matter what!!
We can wait to see a man treat you the way you deserve!!
Anit no way!! She better go her reward
So proud of you girl. You're the perfect example of putting yourself and your kids 1st b4 any man. You deserve better and I'm excited for your future, it's bright girl. 🥂💯❤👏🏽💰🔥
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Sparkling bright...
So proud of you Melody!!!! Martell could have been right there supporting and holding down his Beyoncé like Jay do (since he wanna talk that Beyoncé mess) but instead he lost her!!!! You BADDDD girl!!!!! That’s that UNBREAKABLE woman type of strength and I adore you for it. Not because of the strength to leave Martell, men like Martell make it easy to leave them. I’m talking about the strength to handle the aftermath with the grace and class that you have!!!! Big ups to you Melody!!!! Sending you SOOOO much love and positive supportive energy!!!! No matter how anybody tries to tear you down there are those who absolutely adore, admire, respect, uplift and support you!!! You the SHIT woman! No cap! 😘💙💜❤️
Yassss she's my inspiration, I love her and the woman in her she does everything with so much beauty and class, keep on keeping on and helping all the ladies that have endured what you have mastered, with God's grace and Mercy, love always to you and your beautiful babies Melody♥♥♥ GOD got you!
No one should stay with a malignant narcissist who is so disrespectful of a wife, mother, business partner and queen. Melody did the right thing to end the toxic relationship. Ecclesiastes 3 applies. Someone who is honorable, pious, and faithful is who we all need to look for in a mate.
The family is so proud of you! I love seeing the happy Melody we all know. Keep Shining!
Miss Vanessa xxxx! I'm assuming this is you, Mel's Mom. God certainly did well by you as you held your daughter through all the painful madness. 🙏 You raised her to always walk with God and she has instilled that in her children too. All the mess Martel dished out on your child, was her thorny path to freedom and peace. Martel's nasty tantrums were loaded with sarcasm and cruelty coz he wanted to crash her into silence and submission. Who knew that without Mel he had no self-worth? I'm happy Mel washed away the name Holt. Clear and bold message. "It's Not Right, But it's OK" - I can see Mel doing a Whitney song passionately!!⚘⚘
@@aqua4497 Thank you so much for the encouraging words. GOD IS SO GOOD & HE IS FAITHFUL TO HIS PROMISES!
@@vrt2019 Absolutely... Love and support all the way from East Midlands UK...
Thank you for doing a great job with Mel. She has been a blessing to me through her music. Great job Vanessa.😇🏆
Mel is drop dead gorgeous. Her music is 🔥 ❤
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Finally a song to put these side chicks in there place! Keep shining Mel ❤️❤️
1How?
2.and why do they have a place to begin with?
“Play your position I know it’s reserved “😂😂😂. Yassssss Mel👏🏾👏🏾
"Play yo position, I know it's Reserved"
This might be my favorite line! Love it Mel! Congratulations on another hit!
THAT'S DEEPPPPPPPPPPPP
"Yall really need to be together because yall both dirty, y'all both foul, talk both clowns "🤡🤡🤡 .
Thats my girl team wife all the way.love you mel.
This song could have gone gold ❤
Melody, keep running up that money 💰 bag sis. You are Winning every single time. 🏆 🔥 Team Mel. ❤❤
Fa sho 💪🏽
Moved to a new city, dropped outta school, slurped on his wife's sloppy seconds, put in 5 years of hard labor he was handed over to you, only for you to make your way to become sidehen of the decade. Come get your award baby, it goes to you, you, you 🎉
YESSSSSSSSS💯
It’s the words for me!
Pretty much it will be 10 yrs soon. Awe hell naw!!!! No ring, no property, no nothing but a baby and she still taking selfies off to the side. Wow, unreal!!
@@Theblackbumblebee yep she has nothing to show for it, she didn't expect it to turn out this way. You can never win when you play dirty.
I lived with my boyfriend for 1 year. At the end of that year I said “No marriage plans, no woman or living together.” Guess what? We’ve been happily married ever since. Nobody is gonna waste the time God has given me here on Earth.
Yessss Melody you better sang!!!! This song is straight 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
What a surprise, she can sing.
💕💕💕🐸🐸💕💕💕. Come on Soror!!!💕💕💕🐸🐸💕💕. : My sincerest apologies in my tardiness on arriving to the party. I listened to this 5x: your Lyrics are🔥. Sending unyielding Love, Support, & Peace. U did that Bsby💕💕🐸🐸💕💕
Dr SABuchanan, MD
Let ran up all the numbers. I like this one
This is just PERFECT! MAKE every move a MONEY MOVE for your children and yourself! I 💯 💯 💯 love your HUSTLE!
Yasssss!!!! You are the Queen. Mel put on your crown and strut all the way to the bank!!! You did that!!!!
Bahhhhaaaaaa. All I can do is LMAO at Coleslaw and The Clow because the ONlY winner is Boss Lady Mel. Go Mel!!!!!!! The song is great now people lets get this song to go Platinum.
Yesssss, I love it! Stay strong and beautiful and I hope that you find happiness. Smokey Robinson made the song "Tears of a Clown" I bet someone's crying those tears
Now I see why ol’ girl mad and doing interviews now. This song slaps! Lol I love it ❤️❤️❤️
You better keep winning Mel!!💯🙌
SHE could never be YOU!!
Never ever..could she be you...Clearly
Never ever Never!!!
NEVAH, hopefully all the sidechicks and wannbe sidechicks, who think it is cool to break up famiiles and destroy children will learn a lesson from this. Leave a marriage if you must but dont bring other people to help you destroy it. Bravo to Mel for rising to the occasion. Now watch big ears come out with a song to compete with Mel. Now what would his song be about,? I know condiments .
Come get this AWARD!!!!! Yasssss!
I'm not understanding how he even went for something like that girl... she can't even compare. Her antics are that of a 18 year old.
Keep shining Ms. Melody!!
Exactly.....that's the sad part that not only did he mess up but who he mess up with. He deserves to be clown‼
@@sharonwalker1250 I know right! He cheated with someone who acts so elementary 🙄
Yes Mel!!!! I just love how she keeps it classy. Let Martell and Coleslaw have the mess. It takes a lot of growth and strength to overcome such a dramatic event/change in a persons life and Mel is showing us what she is made of. Don’t play with a Scorpio woman.!!! But on a real note God is good. Stay blessed Mel
Still on my playlist❤
Melody is beautiful and classy!!!!This is her way of coping with her indifferences in her marriage 🥰🥰
I need Melody to create a song on how she’s the Sugar Honey Iced Tea❣️ BIG YOURSELF UP SIS! In all actuality they did you a HUGE favor! Imagine living your life 20 more years with a narcissist?!
Mel!! I love every song you are releasing. You have an anointed voice, you are a beautiful mother, singer, daughter, producer, business leader. I am loving how you are thriving!! OMG THIS SONG IS FIRE!!! Congratulations for SONGS OF THE YEAR!!!
So proud of you, Mel! Continue to focus on your growth and your kids and God will continue to pour out his Blessings. I can so relate to what you went through. I’m so glad you didn’t let it break you or make you bitter. You’re beautiful! Continue to shine superstar 💫
Yassssss!
Lawd! When I found out the horse Mel is sitting on was the representation for Arionne I hollered soooo freaking loud! Now I can't unsee it because they do resemble!
This song should’ve blew up 🎉❤
You better sing Mel! All facts, no lies. You said what you said and I and here for it! Love you girl 💖💖💖💖💖
Idc idc idc I don’t wanna hear haters saying ooh she gonna keep going making songs about her ex and coleslaw aht aht don’t do it don’t do it!!let Melody S Holt Live hunni y’all wouldn’t tell some of the greats who have done it to stop making hits that speak about past relationships & side chicks look at Auntie Mary being doing it for decades look at sis Keyshia doing it for years as well and so many more, only differences is we got to see more of Mel’s personal life play out in front of the world which for me is more of a reason for me as a fan to rock with Mel and these hits she’s giving us, as a fan seeing it nearly firsthand I know that what she’s singing about is raw, pure truth so please uplift this black Queen and support her and leave the negativity at the door she’s doing something a lot of women don’t get the opportunity to do or are too ashamed to do and that’s share HER story, speak HER mind YALL BETTER PUT SOME RESPECT ON HER NAME!!!And no I haven’t been hurt, I haven’t had this experience I just love seeing women shine after the storm #U,U,U,U,U,U,U#SideChickOfTheYearAwardThatShitGoToYou#
This is so LIt! I'm looking forward to whole LP! Mel is bringing back real R&B.
Coleslaw getting served. Melody keeps elevating her $ game at their expense. Good for her. Brava!!
Girl come get this award.....