Healthy is the new skinny 🌈
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
- One topic that comes up often is body image. People ask a lot about body image and they talk about how it's really hard to love themselves and love their image and love who they are when they're exposed to beliefs or advertisers or the world around us or the culture making us feel that we are not perfect or that we're not beautiful and things like that.
So first of all, I completely get you. I completely get you, but what I do want to say is that the advertising world, the images they put out are not real. They are fictitious. They're truly fictitious characters and when you walk around the street, you do not see people that look like that when you look at some of these magazines like Vogue or whatever magazines, Cosmopolitan and when they have the models for all the ads for the big brand names or when you see the billboards or when you watch the ads on TV for products and clothes and things like that. Many of those models are just ... They're not real people and a lot of it has been Photoshopped. So that's the main thing that I want you to know.
Actually, the main thing that I really want you to know, the most important thing is I want you to know that your body is your body. It's your body. Nobody can tell you what to do with it. So whenever people are telling you that you've gained weight, you need to lose weight, you need to get rid of your body hair, your facial hair, your this, your that, it's your body. It's nobody's business except yours, truly, whether you choose to have makeup or not have makeup.
See, another thing that confuses people is they say to me that if they're trying to be authentic, should they stop coloring their hair? Should they stop coloring their roots? Should they stop wearing makeup? Is it not authentic? Are they being fake by wearing makeup?
Here's the thing about what it means to be authentic. Being authentic means being who you are and that means if you feel like wearing makeup, then wear makeup. If you feel like dyeing your hair purple, then dye it purple. If you feel like putting in those rainbow streaks that Cyndi Lauper used to have in the '80s, then do it. It's your hair. It's your body. Nobody can tell you what to do with it.
So the main thing I feel, the most important thing is to know that it's your body, for you not to judge your body. Everyone else is. So please don't judge your own body and also love your body, love yourself and accept where you are right now. To me, healthy is so much more important than skinny. Really, it is because skinny doesn't mean healthy...............
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That part about money where you talked about buying a home and making ourselves comfortable first in order to be of service to others , i just needed that💗💗💗....for long had been in a dilemma as to whether i should buy a beautiful house for myself or not ...i used to think it would be greedy of me😓😓....thank you sooo much anita...we empaths really need to take care of ourselves first🙏🙏🙏
I love you, Anita! Started listening to you when I was pregnant. Your inspiring talks and your lovely voice really transformed me. I guess my baby loves your voice too now!
I love her voice too, so soothing, heh. Imagine how good she'd be at hypnotism like QHHT! Super 😉🖖
Hi Anita!:)). I’ve heard ur story long time ago from dear Wayne Dyer but it’s been few months that I follow ur UA-cam posts. U came in the right time to my life. Thank u for ur gift of being u and sharing ur beautiful soul w us.... I won’t go to details but I just tell u when thing get hard and I feel pressure just hearing ur voice relaxes me. Thank u and love u!🙏
Thank you for all of your videos and lessons! I have been learning a lot. I wanted to add a comment regarding “skinny” people. I am one of them and I struggle daily to keep and put weight on due to illness. I am very self conscious of this because I feel unattractive being so thin. I get a lot of comments from people suggesting I should gain weight or eat more because they assume I am thin on purpose. It is hurtful because it just reinforces how bad I already feel about my weight.
Christine H I have been through this too and I have found that when I just let go of the pressure to be a certain way and eat for myself, I find myself settling into a natural, healthy weight. And having been through what I have, I never thought that would be possible again. So don’t lose hope and keep doing things that nurture your body and you’ll find your way back to your innate intuition for self care! 💖
Hi Anita, thanks for all your compassion and wisdom, love your videos they are so helpful and your reassurance is such a welcome gift ♥️🌺😊
I love your messages. They are making a huge impact on my life and giving me the courage to be me!!!! Keep up the GREAT work! You are an inspiration!
Anita - I've heard you say this a million times - "Ask yourself 'If I loved myself...'" I finally just got it. Anything I cannot feel connected to, I can finally connect to it when I put on the lens of "If I loved myself." Haha... I don't know why it took me THIS long to get it. But wow, what a different perspective. Keep doing the good work, Anita.
I love you! Your messages are powerful. I read your book when you first published. I need you in my life now. Thank you for sharing your heart and mind and knowing with us all. I will listen to your other videos. ❤️
There is sooo much love here ❤️ Thank you beautiful soul. You bless us so much!
I would love to make UA-cam videos, but my mental health issues cause extreme rage at times when I can't accomplish things, like computer work. So I'm learning how to cope with stress n OVERCOME my fears n achieve my goals.... at least that's the idea!? Haha I have no clue how to acclimate to society's needs after my scandalous intro to Fame, but I'm gonna figure it out. Thank you so much Dear Anita for helping me believe in my uniqueness and giving me lots of healing practices this year, I'm loving these CHANGES, n I'm only halfway through.
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Thank you for making the world a better place and advancing spiritual evolution of human beings! 🙏
Hello dear Anita. Thank you so much,! So good to see you happy and shining. 😀 Hope that Danny is doing better.
WhenI was younger I was not happy with my look and believed that I would never be loved for what I was.
Thank you, Anita! I look forward to attending one of your classes soon! Great advice about opening our 'receiving channels'.
Thanks so much for the Celeste Barber tip! She's great. No wonder she's so funny though, she's Aussie! Us Aussies love our self-deprecating humour, lol. Aussie, Aussie, Aussie - oi, oi, oi 😁 Blessings from Western Australia 🙏👸
Not an evening goes by that we don't listen to 2 or more of your videos. They are helping us so much get through this time. Your voice is totally soothing and I never feel afraid when your voice is on the speakers. from Marcia and Peter Hewitt of Bullsbrook Western Australia
Dear Anita, thank you for this Video. 👍 ⭐ 🌟 ⭐ 🌟 ⭐ 🌹🍀💖
Thank you from my heart Anita, you answer the questions in the way it gives me tears, cause you just hid it right on the spot. I did have, as many people has, a lot of struggle, but I have learned through it all. I can see the butterfly coming through the pupa. Thank you for all the help you give people. I'm thankfull that you choosed to come back.
Wow! Thank you Anita. U were speaking directly to me here. Got me into tears again. It has become a tradition now. Lol.
What abt wen people sense smthin different abt me, am 27 , from Delhi, India , am young not putting up pictures wd a boyfriend, wen I meet new people make friends be it a dance class or gym or any work place , wen they are talking about their life n asking me about mine, in my story comes a gap that I am not able to fill n talk about. They r talking abt their current bf or gf n their exes. Wen they ask me about mine , i hv nothing to tell. Then they start guessing things. n i feel like a liar, i feel compelled. N then end up disliking myself. Even if I dont want to focus on this about me , but everything in life wherever i go, it happens so that I end up thinking abt it. I wish for a day wen nobody has to ever come out n it all be as cool n normal fr evryone to hear that one is gay as it is to hear one is straight.
Am not complaining about anything though, am deeply grateful that my parents my family accepted me. Smthing I never imagined was even possible. Although after a failed marriage but they got it, they understood n accepted me for me.
Thank. You. Well said. I saw in a flash the say on the wall like this: LOVE is spoken and lived here. Blessings
Thank you Anita very powerful, also thanks to mention Celeste Barber, she is realy funny and a strong woman
Dearest Anita. Your words & presentation is like having a best friend in my bedroom. Having you for support and encouragement is proved to be Mentoring at its best. I cannot express the amount of Insights your words & energy have on me. You know me so well. Thank you so much for being here for me & soon to be millions of others. Much love & gratitude. Joss.
Again, your words reached me exactly when I needed them most. Thank you and bless you
Yes, this video hit me on such a personal level too.
This is another amazing video, thank you so much Anita, you have really helped to change my attitude to life, I love you and everything you stand for 💜✨🌺
So grateful for your teachings! We listen to your videos each evening and feel so blessed!!! love from Peter and Marcia Hewitt of Bullsbrook, Western Australia.
Anita I’m so blessed to found you I’m 69 years old I had near death experience when I was 27 old while having surgery in the hospitalI I still trying understand my encounters I hadShare my experience with my family with my family but they had told me that is was because of heavy medication and I was delusional, I’m feeling very confused after so many years ago I’m still searching for my purpose in life journey to why I’m coming back to Earth. Hopefully you can help me. I felt like I knew you for ever. I’m originally from Thailand and I lived in US for a long time. Looking forward to hearing your comments. Love you and Danny Jaclyn B.from SC
I love you SO much Anita, you are an absolute blessing to this world. Thank you times a zillion. Gratitude overcomes me.
Anita, I always feel so good watching your videos. You seem to speak about just what I need to hear. Today it was body image, a lifelong challenge for me. Thank you so much for your time in making these videos. They are so, so helpful. I wish I could put you in my pocket and take you to work every day!
Thank you Anita for giving us so much love through your presence, wisdom, authenticity and unique perspective of the world. The idea that ego is not "bad" has been very helpful to me, something I'm still trying to incorporate and understand on a deeper level as well as allowing ourselves to mainly spend time with people who are loving and appreciative towards us. I still struggle a bit with that one, there are a couple of people in my life that can be quite unkind, likely due to their own pain and frustration. I feel torn between the idea that life has put these people in my life for a reason, to learn and grow from as well as the knowledge that none of us are perfect, we all do our best, and life is not always a walk in the park and the notion that it is healthy to give myself permission to limit or cut my time with people who are unsupportive and draining. They both make sense, no? ❤️
U r super amazing Anita, all the words that u said, I was not expecting that. Wow! Thanku so much. Coming from you is really comforting and heart-warming for me. As u r also a motherly figure to me now. Lots of Love & Respect.
Thank you Anita for THIS video! This was speaking from direct soo loving beingness. It is so uplifting, encouraging and from devine love itself. Thank you Anita and Danny for your so beautiful and pure love.❤️♥️
Another brilliant video. So thankful for all of your wisdom & light. & I checked out Celeste's page & have been cracking up laughing! Thank you...needed your words + her funny videos right now. Been a very emotional/transition time for me & all of your videos & recommendations are always perfect for what I need to hear & see. You're incredible, and so grateful for you, Anita! Much love, Christina
I'm so glad Spirit lead me to your Channel. You are so encouraging and I thank God for you!🙏
I agree , health starts with total self acceptance. I feel it allows love to circulate through me. And ~ from there, I will always do well. It is dangerous to go around carrying self loathing. It’s toxic. It’s telling your body, “ I hate you “ .. very sad. Not good at all.
About 'healing' the body image: I recently watched the documentary 'Embrace' by Taryn Brumfitt on Netflix. After I finished watching, I knew this film had changed me forever. It was released in 2016 but still so incredibly relevant (also for men). I was shocked to learn that so many people dislike or hate their bodies and suffer because of massive brainwashing by the media. People start to think something is wrong with them, they get stuck in this body image obsession and feel unworthy. Feeling unworthy literally blocks anyone from living a rich and loving life.
You are right: your body is your concern. And like Taryn says: your body is your vehicle, not an ornament.
Thanks Anita ...I love you.its wonderful listening to you
Thank a lot Anita for such lovely videos and gem of information. I love watching all your videos and frankly i am now truly understanding what self love means to me. I am feeling super empowered and deeply connected with my self now. Thank you so much dear....looking forward to meet you in person some day.
Bless you, my dear sister!
Dear Anita and Danny ..... I love love love you sooo much. Anita I thank God that he directed me to you with my “healed cancer” post 4 surgeries / chemo/ radiation . The implants they almost encouraged me to get caused difficulty but I’m blessed that they have been removed. I am a young 63 - being a nurse for 42 yrs ..... but no longer.
I too see why I got cancer and other health things
Over the last few years. I never knew I was an EMPATH ....always feeling such deep pain and unbearing criticisms all my life. I have felt deeply connected to source since a young age. My tears flow with love for you. I still have chest discomfort and have tried many many things. I trust and believe it is for a reason and that my path is still evolving.
I know you are so busy .... but would be thrilled hearing from you. Want to see you in person .... worrying about leaving my dog alone LOL..... yup that s me. By some miracle we can connect. I am so not tech savvy. Going to oncology to ask for a pain injection in my breasts today . I know a miracle will happen. Guess it’s hard for doctors to believe pain is not real . May God continue with your work .... I know I will somehow hear from you. Much love ( sorry for my long winded ness ). QUESTION : pls speak on chronic pain. Nursejanet7@gmail.com. (Miracles 55) 😘
Janet,
I hope that you are feeling better. I feel for you, regarding your breast pain.
Please ask your Oncologist about fat grafting to help your sensitive nerves/tissue removed area. I do not know where you live, however, in the United States insurance [by Federal Law] will cover you for any reconstruction or correction from breast cancer surgery.
Please look into resources that can help you. Scar tissue can slide over the breast bone area or a muscle area, and there are fibers of nerves under the skin that is very sensitive. Please look into fat grafting into your scars and also for under the "sliding" skin
I hope that this information helps you in some way. 💚
So happy that Danny will be well. This subject is super important. ;)
Than you for these amazing videos , always trying to help people making understand some issues so important to go ahead on the life .
Hi Anita,I am in the middle of reading your book "What if this is heaven". Last night, I finished chapter when you and your mom were shopping in Pune the city in India. I had butterflies in my stomach, reading segment when you saw a gorgeous skirt hanging i the window of a very small,nearly invisible shop in the middle of such a busy city and the owner of the shop red your book "Dying to be me" and she so wished one day to meet you ???!!!! WOW !
Thank you Anita - you are the real deal for me - authentic and open to life and sharing your perspectives-
Love ❤️💕
Thank you for your empowering videos ❤️
First: Special thank you to Danny to improve the "asking hearing questions problem",now we can read it,it's perfect !
Second: Thumbs up for this video.
Third: I like your speech regarding money Anita.
Forth: Oh man,it is hot in LA,right? :-)
Anita, how do we value ourselves? You’ve spoken about this in your last book’s introduction, but I just don’t understand what it truly means or how to do it. You said all we had to do is love ourselves and value ourselves.....and that’s all we really need to remember.
Thank you, Anita! Would love to see a conversation between you and Jill Bolte Taylor (neuroanatomist who gained surprising insights from her own stroke) Her book, Whole Brain Living, has a beautiful and valuable perspective that complements your perspective, Anita, and vice versa.
I am really agreed with the concept of money...I also want to do something related to helping people or something related to soul ...but today I am stuck in IT corporate world just to earn better money which actually make me feel low sometime ...and I don't know how can I make my way towards my dream goal...
Anonymous writer TBC that was really nice ..thank u so much for your support
Anu Jain I too stuck in the IT Corp. What if you are not stuck, what would you do to achieve ur dream?
Anonymous writer TBC interesting link. I feel that the world will be much different if we swap the resource between rich and poor people. But how we do it determine the end result... Most giver will enjoy giving and receiver will learn that they can receive the happiness indirectly from others receiving their joy. This message isn't taught well in most western world and even in Asian this ancient value is forgotten by young people.
stock1337 well your question makes me feel like ohh! Some one is there to ask me wat I want and I really want to spell out all that I have in me .. hahaha...but really if I would have money to fulfill my dreams I really want to make a place of mine full of nature and open to all the human beings specially for the people who are stuck in their life somewhere like me ..so that we all can learn to love ourselves have some space out from this city world, doing yoga , connecting to God and much more fun, and obviously I would like to spread this special message of love by Anita to all the people around India and other places...
Anu Jain the spreading love part maybe somewhat lesser of challenge for us, as we are in the IT field. Hehehe. You have a great vision of your dream. Have you consider setting up a project plan ? Maybe super simple or even a place holder. At the very least it can serve the reminder to ourselves against the heavy life we have.
I am on a similar quest like you. Maybe we should gather more liked mind people to craft a plan together. Say what is ur Facebook or contact? We can chat more there
God I love this woman
God bless you, Anita
In Ufology, people are always having to come out of the "space closet", lol, or how about coming out of the "consciousness closet", heh. Our inner self or soul/spirit is far more important than the superficiality of our organic space suit, lol. I'll check out Celeste and I'll put my 15 year old daughter onto it, she'll love it and will also help me to subtly drive that point home. Thank you and Blessings 🙏👸
Love your voice :)
I had sexual abused when I was child by my farther. No one help and support me that time. I have professional therapy now. It’s was 35years ago. I still suffer trauma and flashbacks. I’m so sick and tired being victim. I know it’s hard to answer but please give me advice, if you have.
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what to do when there is no vision... and we are in the cero zone? I became 60 and I found that I have done everything in life?..Aniita can you give us yours words...there are many of us...thank you..I love to see your videos..
Anita, how do I know the Universe supports me in every way?
U are here 💕
Aloha... i need to publish my illustartion book... what s on the way? How to see feel, hear, clearly precisely my Inner voice so I can go with the flowin ease with lot of breez & nice cheez, & publish this book which is going to serve EveryoneZ life & more? Thxi ... alohA
What if it's opposite of being fat say you were really skinny growing up and you didn't like being skinny and you are actually picked on being skinny is it okay to accept yourself as skinny
Yes, always!! I'm skinny as well, and in my case loving myself means accepting that and embracing it. If I wanted to be more muscular it'd be okay too, as long as I do it in a healthy way, but accepting the way you are rn is the first step even if you want to change your body.
What if you are neurotic and skinny? I guess I just love myself that way is the answer.
Hello Anita, maybe it's too late to ask you my question. I try anyway, we never know. I have big big issues with money. I always had. All my life. I'm 50, and since 2 years, i'm doing something I love to do, i never imagined I could do something with my hands, and I would like to sell my creations. But I just don't. I don't. I'm making the websites, the photos, everythings, because I can't pay anyone for doing it. I tried to learn how to do. And I don't want to come back to my old life, struggling for everything, especially for money. The thing is, I can work so hard sometimes (7days in a week, 11 hours a day) OR I can work as I like, creating on my own rythm, making something beautiful. Both have the same result with me : no money at all. No money. I know why, I know the messages my parents sent me, I know the energies and people around me who don't want me to succeed, I'm making big changes, very big changes in some parts of my life, but nothing change. I don't have any money. And it's really stressfull. No house, no car, barelly paying food or rent... Something is blocked, and I can't move it. I'm so tired and so scared. I don't know if you can help me, but if you have a councel, it would be nice. Thank you. Sylvie
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My question today is...
Why do I still gossip. It drives me nuts. I catch it only minutes in now & stop that train of thought but why do i feel the need to gossip instead of share the information as you do. My joy is to talk like you all the time. I am way, way more humorous than you though.And I adore & respect your beautiful direct way... I Am so funny that usully Were all laughing at ourselves, I put the humor into Enlightenment. Hopfully we meet someday.xxx Joss
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