Expected vs Authentic: Which Life Will You Choose?
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- Опубліковано 9 вер 2024
- Join us on a thought-provoking journey as we explore the age-old conflict between societal expectations and living your authentic truth. In this episode, we dive into:
The pressures of conforming to societal norms
The power of embracing your individuality
Practical tips for breaking free from expectations
Inspiring stories of those who've dared to be different
Get ready to challenge your beliefs, spark meaningful conversations, and discover the courage to live life on your own terms.
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Listening to this podcast was so crazy to me because I just finished Ecclesiastes and so much of what it's taught me was said here:
- Life is like smoke , we invest so much on things that have no lasting meaning.
- Death is an equalizer,poor or rich ,you will die . Accept that and just live your life.
- Try to enjoy the simple things in life ,they will fulfill you.
- Live life as it is not as you think it should be.
- "Dead flies make the perfumer's ointment give off a stench"- a little bit of sin or going off, will affect you long term.
- Fear God and keep His commands, that's your duty as a human
I love how Thato allows his younger brother Lebo to be himself, if I didn't know that you are brothers I would say you guys are good besties ❤❤
'let's act like our lives are worth living' 💯
Yoh Thato I relate so much to the concept of seeing a balanced life with a partner. I’ve been battling with my abstinence journey(for religious purposes) mind you it’s been 4 years now and I recently started meditating on how easier life would be if I had a partner. Even my failures would be less stressful because I would have someone to motivate me to keep pushing.
The living in isolation chat resonates so much with this generation, a lot of people, myself included, live so much in their head and that takes away the whole concept of community. We end up fantasising about life and not actively existing around people. I will try and incorporate watching historical stories maybe they could help.
Love this episode, so relatable.❤️
This notification slaps better than a bank notification 😂❤
I have to agree😭❤️
Don't lie
A statement from someone that has a huge sum in their bank😭
I swear 😂🤞🏾
Factsss
Oh sana whatever Lebo said I needed to hear this 😭😭 I feel like I’m stuck and see no purpose of living 💔
From now onwards I’ll live and not just exist man ♥️🥹
Now this is the consistency we need hear Thato, meditate on that please
tell him!!!
I honestly gain so much from these podcasts keep it up .
Bro
This podcast is made for ama 2000❤❤❤
The topics y'all touch on 😮, I'm in awe. Many young man like yourselves hardly want to delve into these kinds of conversations. Big up my G's. ❤
Theeee best podcasters in SATAFRIKA... One thing about your talks, they always make one self-reflect and learn something about self. I appreciate the depth and vulnerability you both bring❤
40:00 notice this people only know their grand fathers and 3 generations back not counting how many siblings their grandfather or siblings of great-grandfather had. and this disconnect usually happens because had less impact in life back then. your parents will be remember because he's gonna be the reference of a good life path.
I love what Thato said in regards to the ways of our forefathers, about the importance of community and the concept of protecting and distributing the wealth within the communities we have.
I am impressed each day by Lebo’s takes on life, keep those thoughtful nuggets coming.
As Thato is speaking about dogs I remembered that we haven't seen Narobi in a while.... is she still around?
“can you please just do tomorrow”🥺
For most of us knowing the type of life we want to live has gotten lost in the noise our loved ones have beeen making since we were little on how life is lived.
IMO chances are most,like myself at one point, do not know what they want for themselves. Jim Rohn said that to solve this problem of not knowing what you want,start by identifying what you don't want for yourself.
Mna I'll live a life where I never worry about finances, the people around me also. I have the ability to travel and experience things,people,cultures etc.. But most importantly I'll be a great father and spouse.
43:04 "There is So Much More To Life"❤.
Thanks Lebo👊
If I ever met one of you I’d hope its in a setup where we can have an open conversation. Such good thoughts!
You guys have been so consistent I'm actually impressed 🙌🏾❤️
Its so amazing and funny that every episode i watched aligns perfectly with my current "becoming" stage and it always prepares me for my every week therapy session😂❤
This consistency >> Thank you guys!!💕
Pink looks so good on Malume
I got so much, had to self introspect. Thank you. I enjoy all the episodes I've watched, but this one?! Thank you guys❤❤
First thing I hopped onto after a hectic day at work ❤
Very relatable and fun to watch 💯 you guys are killing it, I have to say I'm not a fan of podcasts but this one is the one, Keep them coming gents 🙌💯
You guys are really growing in a positive direction. Thank you for sharing pieces of yourselves with us. ❤️
What you guys are creating is world class. You will definitely be remembered!
Thus show >>>
Thato need to drop the "Skin care routine"
Coz I mean
Lol I think Lebo should sing for us on the next podcast. That dance with my father again, sounds so fancy😂
Besides Lebo being handsome…. I have been asking myself if i should even continue with this degree cause i really feel like i am gonna die young so is it even worth it even if i don’t die young i am going to die after all this hard work for me to die…I can’t even say i am working so that my kids live a good life I don’t want kids.
So sorry you feel that way, you're not gonna die young. Psalm 91❤Count me as that internet cousin rooting for you to get that degree
Is there a reason you feel you are going to die young Mpumi? Get the degree for yourself, you also deserve a good life.
Get that degree baby. Live in the present. Don't ever worry about death. The purpose of life is to live. it's not in your hands.
@@agnesaggy1571❤❤
@@sinegugumalungisa9945thanks ❤ will definitely continue I was really contemplating on deregistering fr
Woah woahh woahhh, hold it!
Thato Ramp-mpa-mpaa-dayyy, composed music😅🤣??
sad reality for other who were kids of the great grandfather who were nothing back then, and had disconnect from their history ARE struggling with their identity and how to be in a society, and their spiritual being. you wouldn't know about this because you got you parents guiding you and giving you the information about your bloodline.
I love watching you guys.
I wanted to ask, how do you know for real what your purpose is? Like, you got all these skills you got and you curious about everything. Now, how do you know which of those skills is your god-given purpose?
I'd appreciate the response either here or maybe have a conversation about that when you guys shoot another episode.
Thanks
I'd say whatever makes you feel alive, the one thing that you do and it doesn't feel like a chore or something to get out the way, I believe it's something you were meant to do.
I'm a non believer, so naturally I don't think purpose is 'god-given'. I think that we define that for ourselves based on your environment, interests and passions. The purpose of life is to live, you really don't need to overthink it. Love the reply above.
@Naledi_Writes thank you so much. It makes sense. These skills make me feel alive, does that mean I do all of them until I master all of them, or do I pick one and master that one first? And if I do pick one, what if the ones I am putting a pause on are what I was born to do.
Like it's a mess.
@MentalFacility-u7o I hear you. how do you define that?
@@SibusisoMdiniso Giving you my personal definition won't be helpful. Your purpose is whatever you want it be. I understand that maybe you won't grasp this because you think it's outside of yourself. It really is not. You are not 'born to do anything', you are born to live.
Some people will go through a traumatic experience, and make healing their purpose by become psychologists or therapists... The Steve biko's purpose become freedom fighting because they recognized the injustice that was happening around them and wanted that to chage. People start foundations and ngos cause they recognize the inequality and lack of others, and, others collect pokeman cards because that's what they like. Others choose becoming parents... You are overthinkinking this so much.
40:00 theres a problem alot of people who have a good life neglect information about their own history and causes the next generation to have a disconnect and suffer because you didn't care about passing down the history of your family
BEAUTIFUL EPISODE! as always 💗
Life is worth living ❤
I love this podcast, like i really really love it 😭❤
My life is worth living 💌
43:55 😅❤ pick up yourself 🔥🔥
Great insights 💙🌿
This is refreshing ❤
I always tell people that when I die, don't waste money for the funeral preparations . I genuinely do not mind even being burried in a cloth. When I am gone don't be crying for months, forget about me and live your life. I GENUINELY MEAN IT 😅
🤣😂
Phenomenal topic 🙌🏼
Waiting 💃🤭
needed this!
Yaaaaay vlogs 😮💨🥹🎀
Lebo is so funny omg 😭
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐!!!!!!
Asalways 10/10
One thing about Thato, he doesn’t rate Gontse
S/O to Ragnar Lothbrok🤝
Thato what do you mean you are single😮 when I heard that I was like heeee😮😮😮
Gents why you hiding the amount you've spent, ain't we suppose to be transparent 😂
writing my literature review while i listen so this pod
Million Dollars Worth of Game😂
Every week podcasts? What happened to the lifestyle content bro? Damn😢
isn't Brenda Fassie still relevant guys???😭😭😭
Thato, when you spoke about friends that want success for you, you didnt mention aboLucas. Hawu
I’m loving these new thumbnails ❤️🩹
What did we do to deserve such consistency!!?🥹 I love you guys. La ukwa? Kudu kudu!❤
love love love the podcast you guys but i think you could do better with the segues into ads🥹