#1 way to never feel intimidated again : psychological liberating direction
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- Опубліковано 30 тра 2024
- Do you want to know #1 way to never feel intimidated again: In this video you will know the crystal clear direction how to stop being intimidated again from the very root cause up. Because only when we solve the actual root cause of being intimidated, we can solve the root cause together with its symptoms once and for all.
Intimidation is when someone tries to frighten into doing what they want.
Welcome to this video, I’m Tom Nuyens from the Alive Academy.com
I used to be intimidated throughout my childhood. Together with having been laughed at for having been very skinny,
was my main reason of wanting to become strong and muscular.
But even with an eventually gained outer tall, strong and muscular appearance, I kept feeling intimidated by for example by a girlfriend that was half of my size, muscles and weight.This way I learned that trying to solve my inner issues, by looking for an external muscular mask for example, doesn’t work.
Therefor we must understand the root cause why we feel intimidated.
Enjoy the video!
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I've been extremely bullied my whole life by my uncle and today is the first day I started talking shit back and I haven't told anyone but I'm scared and I know he'll try to fight me soon so wish me luck brothers
Good luck
Good luck destroy him
Some people are assholes. All the best.
Update?
I would tell him firmly to "STAY AWAY FROM ME!" and don't even speak to him ever again. I would make it known clearly that you want him to stay away. After that, never look towards him, speak or be around him ever again.
I remember in my freshman year of high school I was made fun of for a zip up hoodie thing I wore that day. My father noticed I was even more withdrawn than usual for a young teen that embarrassed about everything involving their folks. I told him what happened and he gave me the best advice I ever received in my entire life. His exact words were “Fuck them. If they don’t pay your bills, their opinion doesn’t matter.” It was like a light switch went off in my head and from then on any negativity, insults, whatever just bounced off because people like that were beneath my notice and not worth my time. It’s hard to talk smack if you just ignore the fools.
I once had one get violent and push me but I picked up a chair and hit him with it. Was worth a 5 day suspension. Even got a high five from my dad when my mom wasn’t looking. Never had any issues after that. Don’t be afraid to march to your own tune. Ignore fools that don’t bring value to your life and never be afraid to speak your mind. It’s very liberating indeed.
Thanks for sharing. Your dad is a great dad
You just articulated one of the main failures schools and workplaces have when handling bullying and that is giving equal credence to the bully's lies, denials and excuses and meting out punishment to both the bully and the victim.
EPIC
@@SmeagstheGremlin fair enough
Am I a teen still 18 same problem
I've never felt this understood all my life.
Same here. Felt like he was inside my mind.
Why is this video so underrated? This was so awesome
I know right?
Thanks for expressing your appreciation! I'm glad it is serving you this way!
I am right there with you, Shreyanshi. I've been watching for a time and Tom's messages are simple but powerful.
I have never come across anyone who explains with such an easily understood language ! Thank you for sharing and caring!!!🙏❤️🔥✨️🌈🦋 Bless you
They are too busy watching black-pilled charisma videos made by fake gurus.
This here is real. You can't escape your inner judge.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. I’m normally a confident person but we make it all too a common habit to see our selves through others. This video gave me insight into how life should be
yyesir.
I'm glad it served you this way 🍀
I've always gotten bullied and I really relate to what you're saying about seeing from your own eyes and having lost that. I'll try to be more present and pay attention to how I feel. I think I lost my centeredness and get caught up into everyone else's eyes and I find men who always pick on me and try and pick fights or intimidate me. I'm like a homing beacon for them. But I think it's true I always find distractions from my feelings and always look for something to do, never resting. I also spent so many years lifting weights and training jiujitsu and stuff and to be honest it hasn't changed anything. I still get intimidated, only how I react has become with more anger than fear. But in the end I'm still intimidated and uncomfortable and reacting, it's just the reaction changed from being scared to being angry and wanting to fight. Which is not what I want. I don't want to get into fights with random angry men every day. I want to feel happy, safe, at peace, calm. I don't know if it's through more training that I can get that. Maybe it's a combination of training more martial arts but also more meditation and mindfulness and being honest about how I feel. I dunno.
Thanks for your radical honest comment. Radical honesty is the key to lasting change. I agree that the change has to come from within, rather than from trying to become bigger and stronger on the outside. To help you get clarity in the inside out approach check my 4 videos @ www.alive-academy.com. Enjoy your complete liberation from the inside out. 💎🍀🙏❤️
Sir, if every therapist was like you, there would be no more "mental illness". Best of blessings to you !
does not work like that
If everyone KNEW and APPLIED what he says **
Gotta admit from the minute u started showing the arrows, the lists of things at 10 mins 》i burst into tears... its me i feel like your talking to me. Childhood things throughout my older years, bad choices of others effect your small world and your too young to deal with it. So blocking it off and numbing it with netflix box sets or old movies, but i always need to suffocate my brain. Wish i could talk to u properly! Thanks so much. Needed the cry i think. 😭😭🇬🇧
This is very valuable information, but sadly enough most people have so many issues, they cannot see clearly, and with the suppressed suffering endured, they continue sinking, hoping that one day someone will save them. Here's hoping that more and more people start waking up. All the best to all 💛
I feel like i'm not good enough to have friends, i hang out with people that dislike me, it hasn't always been the case. I found therapy tough and ineffective, and costly, so i'm utterly clueless as to what to do. Also unemployed, extremely uncomfortable with my appearance, haven't ever held a proper job, extremely socially uncomfortable, i'm 30 now, there are also a handful of people who i occasionally run into who completely dislike me, yet whenever i see them i'm always polite and presentable, i find them very strange. I love to draw and paint and would like to make a career from that. I have a lot of talents, but yet i have always found working one of the biggest obstacles for me, due to my social discomfort, dislike of most people and discomfort with my looks, i cannot articulate my frustration...From Ireland, want to move to Spain.
I can kinda relate to some of these, If you are truely unhappy where you are, you should probably move, start over, have a fresh start.
Lemme give you some advice.Get rid of your smartphone or atleast all social media.You'll be bored for a few days but later you will enjoy the small things like the only time you talk to your mother during the day or the morning coffee.Youll have more focus on what you want to do in life be it art or anything else.
See a psychiatrist get on ssri's if you need to.Get over this phase of depression and put massive effort into self improvement. Imagine your father figure or your ancestors looking over to you and screaming at you every time you want to give up "DONT BE A PUSSY"
•Wake up every day stronger than yesterday wipe your tears and face your fears.
•You can rise up from anything you can completely recreate & re-invent yourself,Nothing is permanent ,you're not stuck, you have choices ,you can think new thoughts ,you can learn something new, ,you can be a opening for the universe,you can surmount adversary,dream new desires, create new habits ,all that matters if you decide today and never LOOK BACK.
I know how you feel don’t be too hard on yourself,don’t give toxic people a full time position in your LIFE!!.It starts with you and don’t externalise your happiness,go within as happiness is within but start small and don’t have too bigger expectations immediately but build consistently.write
i’m happy when-?
write your happy list lol
you want to live a life that moves you & makes you happy first
peace🕊
Sounds like autism tbh.
AT 11:59 I still don't have any proper idea of the use of this video as there is NO proper tool or insight to how not to be intimidated???
The abundance mindset is the actual mindset we should face our lives with. Instead we choose to cling on to the fear mindset which we see in the surroundings. Always believe in yourselves and keep learning cuz others they are just better at hiding. And You are free You are abundant and here to give everyone and yourselves.
The secret is to be assertive.
When we learn to feel independently fulfilled, past the eyes of others, being assertive will be a natural consequence. If you like more in depth videos regarding this direction, make sure to check my 4 videos @ www.alive-academy.com
This helped me feel calm and realize that deep down I intimidate others because I’m scared of my own abilities to defend myself if they ever wanted to have an altercation. Im a fighter thats had training and spars but i haven’t been in a fight before so I have a constant fear that ill lose no matter my training. I now realize I’m just overthinking and distracting myself instead of working harder to improve my abilities. Im going to change myself for the better so i can work harder and enjoy life. Thank you!
i have definitely improved as a person, i wanted to thank you again :)
Overthinking isn't the issue for me. NEGATIVE overthinking is.
An overthinker is actually someone who still listens to his inner judge (core in the video) and criticizes himself. That is a quality in my book.
The flaw is when you stop thinking and let others think for you.
@@human7491 well said
@Grimm.420 I feel the same way you do 😮💨I do kickboxing but I still hold back 🙂I hope everything is better for you now.
Thank you for sharing and you are very welcome! 🙏
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This man just drew my whole life in 14 minutes. This man needs more recognition. Why haven’t I herd about him? This was crazy! The best video I ever sat through. We love you and need you! ❤️💯
same here. that animation is my life.
That animation is everyone's life.
@@summerfag3k876 The solution ultimately has to come from inside you. We can learn about things and read different advice and opinions on solutions to our problems but at the end of the day you need to put that all in a pot and make your own soup.
@summerfag
No solution to the lazy **
When someone tries to bully me, I am scared of myself because I know how truly beast I am & how far can I go.
When someone looks at me for more than 2.5 seconds I feel intimated and feel something is wrong with me
Me too
I'm 17 and who gives a damn? I don't care about them?
Be true to your own nature... You really nailed it ✨
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You are magnificent. Thank you for all your valuable, insightful eye opening information. God bless your beautiful soul.
He explained a very extremely complicated topic in 14 minutes.... That's more then awesome!
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i wish i can be kind to those i feel intimidate me, they probably aren’t their best self rn
When we learn to become independent of intimidation, we sure can respond with kindness without obeying. If that is what you want to learn to be able to, I suggest you to watch my 4 videos @ www.alive-academy.com
This is exactly whats happening with me ...totally forgot how I used to be😔
The breakdown in this video is by far the best that I’ve seen. I have shared it with my loved ones thank you
This was going further in depth more than I was expecting.
I don't sub to many channels on one video. But this is one of the channels i know is golden. Thanks for explaining clearly yet in great detail. I needed this.
THIS MAKES SENSE!!! WISH I HAD WATCHED THIS BEFORE SOONER!!!
One of the best physiology video I have ever seen
This video was what I needed to realize I'm actually going through the right path. I have felt lost for so long. After suffering abuse for so many years, I finally learned how to lead a happy life. Thank you for the video.
This is why meditation is so damn amazing because you try to strip away everything and just see your core... and with psychedelics? oh boy.
Im extremely fussy about what other males I'd want as friends, I'd happily be friends with this guy.
Top advice. 1 new subscriber
This is the exact thing we need to do. Do deal with the root cause. No tips No tricks simply tackling with inner turmoils . Thanks you so much.😍
Watching this video while crying since I got intimidated by someone. Thank you so much for the information. It's definitely what I needed to watch. 💜
You're so welcome Danielle!
it's not fair what happened to you and it's their fault for intimidating others
Dropping a comment just because i saw how underrated this video is , LOOKS LIKE WE WERE MEANT TO SEE THIS TREASURE
This video is wonderful thank you! In the world we are living today, it seems that this truth is kept hidden , this is the Truth of our suffering and it have to be shared
This video is literally what everyone needs, thank you so much lad! i needed this
Thank you! 🙏
Very clear and valuable explanation, thankyou for taking the time to create 🙏🧘♂️
I don't know how to thank you........ Your animation is the answer of what I've been searching anxiously for two three years.... I could never realy figure out what had gone wrong with me but, again how to thankyou, your animation jas made everything make sense
The gift of pure being.
Indeed, the gift we all have ❤️💎🙏🍀 Enjoy!
Amazing! Never watched a detailed explanatory video that answered all my questions about the issue itself!
Thank you!
Thank you for the Video. Now can understand my feeling more.
very much wisdom here. Thankyou my man.
this is crazy 😳 thank you
Thank you for this video!! This is a great piece of information that can be applied to a lot of people. It was very concise and explicit in explaining how to rid the unexercised demons of our past. I agree with you 110%👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🙂
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Sir, thank you. This is so clearly explained.
This is a great video, thank you for making it! The visual representation of this concept really helped to stick it in my mind
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What a great illustration!! Thank you!
You are so welcome! Thank you for sharing your enthusiasm! ❤️🍀🙏💎
One of the best I have seen. And it's underrated...
Thank you!
I is this soo much better than any therapy i have ever had!!?? Thanks for these powerful words!
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Bravo. Wow. Incredible work
This the best explanation. Thank u!
Thank you for understanding my pain
Thank you for pointing out how as people we all can end up doing things to hide the facts that we are not feeling forfeited.
I only came to this after having someone try to bully me into doing what they wanted by trying to frighten me into doing what they wanted me to do.
I have a greater understanding and have noticed 2 issues that I have on this list that are not helping me.
Many thanks, Jonathan William Fay 😊
thank you for your comment! 🙏
I’m so glad I found you ✊🔥
I love you brother, thank you for helping me get free. I just found this video and subscribed.
Wow.. You are brilliant. Thank you. You have open up so many blogs in my life. Wow I am so grateful. I found your channel. Thank you
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This is a very nice video and I love your voice!
wow. this was an eyeopener, this explains alot!
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The animation was awesome 👍
Just discovered a new me. Awesome message.
feel like , just having spiritual meditation philosophy class
Woow Great video 👏👏👏
This is amazing 👏🏼 thank you
Very very good. As a recovering addict n emotional trauma it took years to get to the point of understanding all of this. I endured much suffering n only by grace did I survive. I now spend my time on a spirtual path coupled with trauma n addiction education to bring this same message to help others. I do it on a street level targeting homeless n suffering addicts. It is a long journey n much time n effort is required in healing BUT we do recover. Ur video is fantastic n the animation makes it easy n fun to understand. Great work brother
Thank you for your kind words 🙏
Thank you, sir. Very helpful video.
Helped me alot thanks you sm
You are saving lives ❤
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This is fantastic but sometimes people use distractions or stimulations unintentionally. If you don't get enough sleep, it requires you to rely on unnatural sources of energy and stimulation in order to get going. It's not a good habit and it can lead to worse habits, but it's not necessarily all that dysfunctional nor intentional. Unnatural energy leads to failure because you're ultimately not prepared for challenges that require deep natural strength.
Dude thankyou for the insight awesome
Any time!
So good. Very helpful, thank you
Thank you 🌟
Wow! 3/4 of the way in, and I had to pause and comment. A LOT of great info I had never come across before.
Animation was brilliant.
You have a new subscriber.
If you haven’t already, I would love to hear your thoughts on how to “value” the intimidator.
Cheers from Downunder
Thank you for using your animation to illustrate. Great logical presentation. Have a great day. Craig
Thanks Graig 🙏
Thank you , you calmed my temper down,
Wow! What a Gem! 😍
Man this made me cry brother. I've been this way since I was bullied in elementary and jr. high school. Then I lashed out and my life went bad and still is. I pray the Lord hears you and understands me and helps me feel free one day.
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My mother use to hit me for no reason. So now I’m afraid of standing up for myself and just being me. Now I’m learning how to not be scared by threats and intimidation 😭
I relate a lot
Superb Video Man. Thank you
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Thank you and Blessings.
Truth is pure and comes any time, place, or thing
Validation And respect from me
Thank you
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This is very realistic and helpful.
Thank you!
Very good thanks ✨🌚
VERY well said ❗👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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Great video
Great video!
Thank you!
Thank you. You are amazing ❤️
Thank you! 🙏
To quote Joe Rogan "whaaaaaaaaaow!" Awesome work! I would definitely pay you for classes.
Well this cleared up every other confusing video out there!
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Im very self aware but couldnt solve this issue. This explains why when i think of a guy i start getting intimidated.
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Thank you thank you thank you!!!
Excellent. Thank you.
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Wonderful explanation of the roots and consequences of our human core problem - BUT sadly explaining a problem does NOT automatically solve it. Healing our inner pain and embracing all our emotions is VERY HARD, especially when you have to deal with early childhood traumas. Just wanting to heal and feel your pain is not enough - in many cases you will need professional help and knowledge to know where to begin and which way to go. I really miss some words on the HOW to do what is recommended here
Because without that the headline "Psychological liberating direction" is quite exaggerated.....
Change your environment. THEN, apply what is said here.
Geode video! :)
Nah but seriously thank you for this, honestly kinda need it rn.
Also greetings from your neighbour in the north 🇸🇪🇳🇱
Thank you!
just yesterday, my auntie's daughter who's a year older at me(i am 18, shes 19), when i make a mistake, instead of me explaining she just tells me to back off, and approach me agressively and says to my face that i am dirty, and wants to elbow or hurt my face or something, and when i try to explain something she tells me to shut up, because of this i became confused and kinda pressured, then my auntie came to ask me calmly instead of being angry.
my english is bad so i hope you can read it😩
I'm so sorry you went through that. I hope your cousin sees through her wrongdoing, but try to avoid her if you ever come into contact with her again.
The only time this becomes irrelevant is when they other person is a psychopath. In that case they manipulate for pleasure not because of being disconnected.
Thank you so much.
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Nice bro🔥
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Every time you say 'we all' you should say 'most of us'
Logic 101!
Great self help video
Glad you think so!
Very helpful
Glad to hear that 😊❤️💎🙏🍀
Great video. I came across this in search of why I'm so intimidated by ppl (shopping..driving..). I know I don't carry self confidence because I don't feel like I behave like the most- The carefree, me-me type, selfish, nosey, arrogant, or definitely not the loud, over confident types. Which has become the most of society.
Is there room for me? 🤔 I may just search how to walk around with a sense of entitlement. Just curious! how ppl do it 🤯 and the WHY.😏😏
Great video again. Makes a lot of sense. And the covert part.
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