Incest victim comes face-to-face with father

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  • @kittenspuppiespsychictarot3873
    @kittenspuppiespsychictarot3873 4 місяці тому +1782

    How is he allowed to live with a child if he's a registered sex offender? That doesn't make sense

    • @A.x3
      @A.x3 3 місяці тому +229

      The system is so broken. Poor child. Only a matter of time before he hurts that child too

    • @2380Shaw
      @2380Shaw 3 місяці тому +95

      Liberal prosecutors and judges in a liberal city

    • @timlewis7218
      @timlewis7218 3 місяці тому +49

      Increase sentencing now

    • @bluerain3282
      @bluerain3282 3 місяці тому +93

      @@A.x3The system is not broken. It’s made to protect white men.

    • @edda682
      @edda682 3 місяці тому +25

      @@bluerain3282 No, not anymore.

  • @davoid96
    @davoid96 4 місяці тому +1307

    WHO LET THIS MANIAC LIVE WITH A 4 YEAR OLD AFTER ALL THATS HAPPENED???? WHY WHY WHY WHY???????

    • @VeeAmericanEagle
      @VeeAmericanEagle 3 місяці тому +61

      The system is allll messed up

    • @firelordplayz
      @firelordplayz 3 місяці тому

      The 4-year-old's mother, who cares more about getting that D than her own child. Sadly, many women are that desperate.

    • @JulianaPhalange
      @JulianaPhalange 3 місяці тому +47

      The women in his life who know this about him are despicable

    • @shelaghmckenna2667
      @shelaghmckenna2667 3 місяці тому +46

      @@VeeAmericanEagle The system is run by people who do this themselves.

    • @iMatti00
      @iMatti00 3 місяці тому +2

      @@shelaghmckenna2667- Umm, if you’re saying well it seems pretty clear that you’re saying, then you have just shown that you have a lack of “capacity“, I will phrase it that way to be more polite. Kind of reminds me of someone who could say the same thing about a doctor that doesn’t cure every illness, but only person that would say that is someone who, again, lacks “capacity“. smh

  • @jewel65
    @jewel65 4 місяці тому +1214

    Why is he smiling like a lunatic in his mug shot? Truly evil!

    • @Dawn-zo2ny
      @Dawn-zo2ny 4 місяці тому +37

      So many people are wired up in that insane way, mostly males, IMO, where they smile doing the most horrendous things...i didn't think about that too much until i started watching youtube when videos of people like that are on the side...It's extremely disturbing, especially when it looks like they are enjoying whatever they are doing, immensely...i heard some people feel a sense of power from doing terrible things, and they are so selfish that they don't think of the repercussions of the others...Definitely seems like the epitome of evil while smiling at that stuff...

    • @joeycarter2678
      @joeycarter2678 3 місяці тому

      Probably because he knows fully that S Dakota doesn't protect children.

    • @sadeatthewhip1846
      @sadeatthewhip1846 3 місяці тому +24

      I know! He looks deranged! Wtfffff

    • @user-us7jo3sv8n
      @user-us7jo3sv8n 3 місяці тому +16

      Bizarre and foul.

    • @JimmyHeight
      @JimmyHeight 3 місяці тому

      Because he got to bang a young beautiful woman???

  • @alexchannel8400
    @alexchannel8400 3 місяці тому +473

    The person whose biggest job was to make her safe betrayed her. Awful.

  • @lucymildon7544
    @lucymildon7544 4 місяці тому +690

    You realise his 4 year old daughter now is going to be abused

    • @firelordplayz
      @firelordplayz 3 місяці тому +64

      It's the mother's fault.

    • @MsJanet2023
      @MsJanet2023 3 місяці тому +96

      I don't understand how he's allowed to have a stepdaughter!? Aren't they required to NOT be around kids!???

    • @kelammo
      @kelammo 3 місяці тому

      The child probably has been abused since coming into his orbit. I’m sure.
      There’s no rehabilitating sex offenders- especially those who harm children.

    • @jeffbebe5085
      @jeffbebe5085 3 місяці тому +1

      They dont care. That's a conservative Trump state. As long a he has a rapist banner in his front yard he will be fine !!!!!

    • @beckinfidelis3916
      @beckinfidelis3916 3 місяці тому +15

      It's not even his own daughter! Of course he will abuse her 😢 he's capable of doing it to his own daughter! 😩 I don't understand how that could be allowed under the terms of his parole! There are people who did very little, did nothing to their own kids or knowingly did anything to a minor who are banned from having contact with their own children. For example, a man arrested for solicitation and the s€x worker turned out to be under age. It can be hard to tell, of course they may lie about their age, but it wasn't assault and they didn't know. This man knowingly and OVER YEARS committed long-term abuse! He shouldn't be allowed to live in a home with a young girl. 😫😫

  • @joeycarter2678
    @joeycarter2678 3 місяці тому +635

    Is the judicial system in S Dakota insane?? He was out in 2 years? AND, he's allowed to have custody of a 4-year-old?? What is wrong with S Dakota??

    • @carylynne6574
      @carylynne6574 3 місяці тому +51

      It's disgusting how they're waiting to see how it pans out
      That's another child being left to protect herself when it's the State's duty!

    • @fulanichild3138
      @fulanichild3138 3 місяці тому +46

      It's not just s. dakota, it's everywhere It seems like crimes against children are hardly considered crimes at all.

    • @luvyatubers
      @luvyatubers 3 місяці тому

      ​@@fulanichild3138because many lawmakers keep punishment light in case they get caught. If u r rich its OK. Are Eggsteins criminal clients in jail?

    • @nicolejttmom6061
      @nicolejttmom6061 3 місяці тому +21

      ​@@fulanichild3138I was a defense attorney and prosecutor in California. The punishment for sex crimes against a child is, thankfully, very strict. With sex crimes against minors, which used to not be taken seriously at all, it usually takes a determined individual to petition the legislature for changes in the laws.

    • @jackee1054
      @jackee1054 3 місяці тому +30

      Well, for starters, Kristi Noem is in charge of things. Same broad who shot a dog....do you honestly think she cares anything for the vulnerable? Kids, dogs, the elderly.....they're all at her mercy there.

  • @bethhayes1
    @bethhayes1 3 місяці тому +637

    My own father sexually abused me from about 3 to 12 or 13. Also my younger sister and any girl he could get his hands on. He never had to pay any price for it. Im 68 now and it still haunts me. It scars you for life You just learn how to be a survivor. Sadly, it is SO prevalent and SO sick in all societies and cultures!

    • @cherylmccray7463
      @cherylmccray7463 3 місяці тому +58

      I'm so sorry 😞

    • @wishingyoupeace
      @wishingyoupeace 3 місяці тому +36

      I too am so sorry that happened to you. So unfair.

    • @gladyswooden8952
      @gladyswooden8952 3 місяці тому +31

      I am so sorry that this happened to you. It broke my heart to learn that all these years later, this terrible act still is stealing your joy and peace. I am sending you BIG HUGS and AGAPE to you and others whom have suffered and are suffering. My prayers are with you all!

    • @Faizasmith-pj4dz
      @Faizasmith-pj4dz 3 місяці тому +19

      I'm so sorry ❤

    • @midknight1968
      @midknight1968 3 місяці тому

      I know in my skin what you know I hate they call it incest is Rape of a minor is Pedophilia not " incest " that makes sound like a 2cway road. Evolve beyond this people words have powers!

  • @shadowbeast2276
    @shadowbeast2276 Рік тому +357

    What's the point of sentencing someone to 10 yrs if he's out in less than 2 years

    • @marcelb4320
      @marcelb4320 Рік тому +4

      Oh they rey be the longest 2 years ever

    • @theflanman1986
      @theflanman1986 Рік тому

      Insanity. But when you realize so many in power in government and large companies are involved in child crimes it’s not surprising. It’s pretty terrifying that this is the reality of of our world.

    • @2380Shaw
      @2380Shaw 3 місяці тому +14

      If he's out of prison early alive those prison guards didn't do their jobs well. They could have informed the other inmates what he did and leave him alone in a cell with a murderer

    • @RighteousMonk-m1m
      @RighteousMonk-m1m 3 місяці тому

      Is that a human? 🤔🤮

    • @DavidThomas-me6pi
      @DavidThomas-me6pi 3 місяці тому +3

      Pretty insane isn't it?

  • @TheJustcauz
    @TheJustcauz 2 роки тому +541

    Is no one worried about the 4 year old in his care now? 😳

    • @heposlis2409
      @heposlis2409 Рік тому +93

      Exactly
      Wtf is this system we are living

    • @solasticum4422
      @solasticum4422 Рік тому

      Google or CRTC is promoting incest in Canada. I am being shown images and videos promoting it.

    • @garywilliams3419
      @garywilliams3419 Рік тому

      @WIFE OF JESUS (Tila TaKillYa) Jesus never did shit, grow up!

    • @PrettyEyeZ.1007
      @PrettyEyeZ.1007 9 місяців тому

      This!!!! ​@ADVICEFROMTHIEN
      Need Jesus, spirit guides ect.
      Generational curses are real!
      Black majik is real af!
      It's up to me to break mine. I'm hurrying to accept my JOURNEY.

    • @user-wuroods_adventures
      @user-wuroods_adventures 5 місяців тому +16

      FRR like wtf is wrong with this world???

  • @dinaturmataroc2486
    @dinaturmataroc2486 4 місяці тому +324

    What about that four year old

    • @firelordplayz
      @firelordplayz 3 місяці тому +13

      Ask the mom.

    • @AnnaLexi
      @AnnaLexi 3 місяці тому +16

      *_Right?!! I’m worried he’s doing something to her too.._* 😟

    • @SpclOps20
      @SpclOps20 3 місяці тому +2

      @AnnaLexi - I’m sorry, what were you saying?
      ( . Y . ) 😁

    • @Trumpisgod
      @Trumpisgod 3 місяці тому

      @@AnnaLexiyou clearly have daddy issues too. Look at your channel 😂 the desperation for attention 🤣🤣🤣

    • @thegingerrunner9448
      @thegingerrunner9448 3 місяці тому +6

      ​@@SpclOps20Creep.

  • @geraldstamour1312
    @geraldstamour1312 3 місяці тому +244

    As a sexual abuse survivor myself, I give Miss Haggin all the credit in the world for her courage in exposing the evil that she experienced!

    • @AlbertWilfred
      @AlbertWilfred 3 місяці тому +2

      Men dont get abused

    • @HandsomeDevil13.
      @HandsomeDevil13. 3 місяці тому

      @@AlbertWilfredYou need a brain transplant with all these dumb comments you've been making

    • @Jake-xu1ts
      @Jake-xu1ts 3 місяці тому +2

      @@AlbertWilfredpardon me? You haven’t lived my life and for you to say that, maybe do some research

    • @Runny117
      @Runny117 3 місяці тому +2

      @@AlbertWilfred wth. yes they do

    • @geraldstamour1312
      @geraldstamour1312 2 місяці тому +1

      @@AlbertWilfred Abuse doesn't discriminate based on gender.

  • @amesblitz339
    @amesblitz339 Рік тому +423

    "Victim of incest" isn't the best way to describe her. She's a survivor of CSA (Child S*xual Abuse), committed by her father. This lady is very brave and strong, wishing her the best in life from here out.

    • @meeko72
      @meeko72 Рік тому +16

      @@anckO. some people who have suffered sexual assault or harassment use the word victim, while others use the term survivor ... just let them be. whatever they consider themselves is not a concern of urs. sexual abuse is traumatic. they could have been killed, given up, or killed themselves. if someone wants to call themselves a survivor let them be.

    • @patavinity1262
      @patavinity1262 Рік тому +5

      ​@@meeko72 Nonsense. Words have an objective meaning and no individual gets to change them to suit his or her own preferences.

    • @bidd7680
      @bidd7680 Рік тому +8

      ​@patavinity1262 and who are you to say what other people want to call themselves has this happened to you ?

    • @gracedavies6730
      @gracedavies6730 Рік тому

      @@patavinity1262literally stfu u talk to much

    • @jeant6502
      @jeant6502 Рік тому +8

      ​@@patavinity1262 Why it's so big deal to you? And honestly 'survivor' make sense as not all people who experienced being sexually abused victimizes themselves forever, some were able to overcome or move past from it.

  • @kitt7477
    @kitt7477 3 місяці тому +160

    Sex offenders , rapists are given plenty of deals. Only in America.

    • @ShadovvV
      @ShadovvV 3 місяці тому +4

      LGBTQ +P
      See how the works. Increments..

    • @ryanpaul1403
      @ryanpaul1403 3 місяці тому +1

      @@ShadovvV Nope! You're an idiot.

    • @likeasoldier777
      @likeasoldier777 3 місяці тому +4

      You realize that people serve less time for murder in some countries?

    • @nateclipps
      @nateclipps 3 місяці тому +1

      @@ShadovvVThis was a straight man? Lol most pedos are literally STRAIGHT MEN lol

    • @nateclipps
      @nateclipps 3 місяці тому +13

      “Only in America” uhm no… America has the harshest 1st world sentences. Countries like Britain and hell even Sweden are more lenient.

  • @MalinoisMadness888
    @MalinoisMadness888 3 місяці тому +223

    So many people failed this woman. Her mother, then her father, and then our justice system
    Two years of a ten sentence, for crimes against a child? Violent or SA crimes, should carry a mandatory term. No good behavior, no early release

    • @gilla2092
      @gilla2092 3 місяці тому +6

      The man who attacked me at 6 and my sister at 4 only served 2, and got off with good behavior. I didn't know we were praising predators for listening in a box that is already meant to be a punishment

    • @AlbertWilfred
      @AlbertWilfred 3 місяці тому

      It was a fair sentence, the father did a something regrettable of course but you cant just ruin his life for a mistake.

    • @IDONTGIVEAF-ew6bw
      @IDONTGIVEAF-ew6bw 2 місяці тому +2

      @@AlbertWilfredbut HER life is ruined forever. So yes we can ruin his as well. Also hurting a CHILD is never a mistake. You’re a grown adult who knows right from wrong. It’s disgusting that you are defending an ADULT over a child

    • @Sam-z3w3h
      @Sam-z3w3h 2 місяці тому

      U tjink sge was failed by trusted ppl, i know someone had it way worce

    • @gilla2092
      @gilla2092 2 місяці тому

      @@AlbertWilfred good god you are exactly why the man who attacked me only got 2 years. Stay AWAY from children. Stay AWAY from having children

  • @sharongibson1161
    @sharongibson1161 3 місяці тому +66

    Disgusting to do that to ANY child, especially your OWN daughter😢

  • @derfer007
    @derfer007 3 місяці тому +238

    What the hell is wrong with our justice system!?!?

    • @shelaghmckenna2667
      @shelaghmckenna2667 3 місяці тому +10

      It's stocked with people who do this, to set precedents in case they themselves are charged.

    • @iMatti00
      @iMatti00 3 місяці тому

      @@shelaghmckenna2667​​⁠- Umm, if you’re saying well it seems pretty clear that you’re saying, then you have just shown that you have a lack of “capacity“, I will phrase it that way to be more polite. Kind of reminds me of someone who could say the same thing about a doctor that doesn’t cure every illness, but only person that would say that is someone who, again, lacks “capacity“. smh b

    • @iMatti00
      @iMatti00 3 місяці тому

      I would doubt that he is allowed to be around children. Sometimes there are old laws on the books that allow it if you’re married or something, but otherwise I would think the truth is he probably just didn’t admit he was around the new little girl. Idk

    • @ShadovvV
      @ShadovvV 3 місяці тому +2

      Because apparently the only thing involved here was "oral" sex. There was never any mention of actual sex or anything forceful, so that's why his sentence was likely shortened.

    • @tsilva2183
      @tsilva2183 3 місяці тому

      Here in NY- Everything.

  • @janicemackie611
    @janicemackie611 3 місяці тому +76

    If his new wife is aware of this and she still allows him to be around her 4 year old daughter…..I feel very sorry for that little girl…

    • @yolandatubin8126
      @yolandatubin8126 3 місяці тому

      Some women just desperate to have man ANY man…..shame folks can have a kid a do what they want to said child behind closed doors…

    • @fromheaventoearth5779
      @fromheaventoearth5779 Місяць тому +4

      Alot of moms could care less. I know a few, in real life, who let this happen to their daughters. Weird stuff.

  • @ggeorge4144
    @ggeorge4144 3 місяці тому +30

    My father was a child molestor and ruined the lives of dozens of young girls, some as young as three years old. This was back in the 40's thru the 60's. He finally got caught but was a big shot in that town and was sentenced to visit a priest once a week for a year. There is no justice in this sick country.

  • @joshscott3184
    @joshscott3184 3 місяці тому +46

    What a brave woman. Imagine the strength it took to share this story with the world.

  • @sandywhat2429
    @sandywhat2429 3 місяці тому +119

    It’s tragic when the only parent you have is messed up and too many kids are in this position.

  • @AKAKiddo
    @AKAKiddo 3 місяці тому +31

    Betrayal is the worst thing a parent can do to a child.

  • @nickcrncich7255
    @nickcrncich7255 3 місяці тому +95

    10 years!!!!!, released after 2?????? He deserved life in prison nothing less!!

  • @obbzerver
    @obbzerver 9 місяців тому +113

    How was the father even allowed to be in proximity to any child let alone have custody of a child? There's something wrong with the woman he married if she didn't immediately throw him out or leave him.

  • @2nd_of_3
    @2nd_of_3 3 місяці тому +91

    As a survivor of childhood abuse.. there’s often Nobody to go to. By 5 I was dissociative and ABSOLUTELY aware there were NO safe adults.

    • @user-st4mj4to3h
      @user-st4mj4to3h 3 місяці тому +7

      I'm so sorry that happened to you

    • @gowest5145
      @gowest5145 2 місяці тому +2

      @ohbebe So sorry that happened to you.

    • @yolandagrabowski6043
      @yolandagrabowski6043 Місяць тому

    • @yolandagrabowski6043
      @yolandagrabowski6043 Місяць тому +1

      ​Jesuss said, those who do his will are his family. So if you're blood relatives don't care about you, they're not your family. @ohbebe

    • @megdigshair
      @megdigshair 6 днів тому

      I understand how you feel and I am so sorry.

  • @JenSync
    @JenSync 2 місяці тому +13

    What a strong, beautiful young lady 💜

  • @Glum1964
    @Glum1964 3 місяці тому +37

    Less than 2 years in prison. Someone needs to pay a visit to this guy.

    • @tapsars7911
      @tapsars7911 3 місяці тому +5

      Somebody needs to pay a visit to the parole board officers ...........

    • @tapsars7911
      @tapsars7911 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@NathanBd-zw5ptGrow up baby boy 😂

  • @Kathy-ue7nf
    @Kathy-ue7nf 2 місяці тому +16

    Lived this, surviving day by day

    • @user-io1fh5pz8y
      @user-io1fh5pz8y 6 днів тому +2

      Now 69 y.o. and have lived with the secret until I was 65 before spilling the beans. My family was destroyed and I lost my mom since she picked him over me. So be it. I have the weight off my shoulders and my life goes on.

  • @chrissyt6959
    @chrissyt6959 2 місяці тому +8

    Why would the reporter ask her, "Do you think it's your fault?" What a hurtful and rude question. Very insensitive.

  • @Ladeliciadelinda
    @Ladeliciadelinda 3 місяці тому +13

    The system is truly broken. There are probably hundreds if not thousands of kids in the same position, never getting their freedom from child abuse.

  • @pamkriner5945
    @pamkriner5945 3 місяці тому +12

    Kudos to you for speaking out. Absolutely none of this was your fault or responsibility. I hope this will give courage to others who are affected.

  • @crystalrusmisel1832
    @crystalrusmisel1832 3 місяці тому +27

    I was 7 when my abuser first targeted me. He was 15 and his mother knew what he was doing she walked in on it while babysitting me. Instead of doing something about it by doing the right thing she pulled me to the side cleaned me up and convinced me I would get in trouble that I would be taken away from my family. After a year of abuse he got caught messing around with another neighborhood girl and was moved away. I lived with the shame and guilt my whole life. He took the cowards way out and offed himself.

    • @scurvy789
      @scurvy789 3 місяці тому +7

      I’m really sorry. Please know it’s not your fault. And I am glad you are safe from him

    • @jujitsu3839
      @jujitsu3839 3 місяці тому +5

      Why do you live with shame? It’s not your fault what happen to you

    • @hrsinghpoint2240
      @hrsinghpoint2240 2 місяці тому

      Hi

    • @bigbro8817
      @bigbro8817 3 дні тому +1

      This is a huge problem in the white community

  • @GruppeSechs-bn2mt
    @GruppeSechs-bn2mt 5 місяців тому +59

    I figured she'd have more to say about her dad marrying a woman with a 4 year old child other than it's a "victory" that they pulled the kid out of her daycare.

    • @YouTubeStalker
      @YouTubeStalker 3 місяці тому +19

      Ya I was wondering about that comment too. You think she would be hell bent on helping to protect that little girl knowing what she went through

    • @dorino9057
      @dorino9057 3 місяці тому +7

      Well, it’s up to the parole offices about that I can understand her, not wanting him there after being abused for years It can be very triggering

    • @derfer007
      @derfer007 3 місяці тому +5

      Yeah, that comment didn’t sit right with me. Why isn’t she concerned about the little girl as a potential victim?

    • @juanitadudley4788
      @juanitadudley4788 3 місяці тому +1

      I agree. But, we don't know how it was edited.

    • @stacey4u2luv
      @stacey4u2luv 3 місяці тому +3

      Depends on her thought process about that if she was not wanting to see his face anymore on one hand it is a victory that she does not have to see and deal with him anymore. which she should not have to be traumatized and forced to see him at her place of work anymore. It is up to the law and child protection to deal with protecting that other child. That is the disgraceful part as you would think as a registered sex offender that they would not allow that. What kind of mother would remain with him after hearing what he did to his child would remain with him and go along with simply removing her child from that daycare. Hopefully that has opened her eyes and she gets out of the relationship. Hopefully, something good for that little girl comes out of it with her speaking up.

  • @jaeshiki
    @jaeshiki Рік тому +188

    She’s so brave for speaking about it like this. Fighting !!!

    • @fessali5726
      @fessali5726 Рік тому +2

      She’s brave but let’s not take attention away from this sick culture. He did 2 years in jail. 😢 this deserves capital punishment.

    • @jaeshiki
      @jaeshiki Рік тому +8

      @@fessali5726 WTF HE ONLY DID 2 YEARS?!?!

    • @jaeshiki
      @jaeshiki Рік тому +1

      @@fessali5726 I THINK HE DESERVES A DEATH PENALTY

    • @fessali5726
      @fessali5726 Рік тому

      @@jaeshiki I agree. The sob should be hung in public. And the judge that let him out should be sent to jail.

    • @transcendant3231
      @transcendant3231 Рік тому

      There are Americans promoting incest through apps and it is occuring in Canada where incest is illegal. And they are using dream invasive technology that is wired on power lines. It's the opposite of a brainscan. Like how a TV works. Welcome to Manitoba, Canada and who brought it here? Or invented it?????

  • @carolmaresca450
    @carolmaresca450 3 місяці тому +20

    That young child needs protection

  • @Tipperary757
    @Tipperary757 Рік тому +93

    I hope she can heal. She is very courageous. I'm glad she is able to see clearly now. So difficult for her to discuss. So many terrible men in this world. Terrible betrayal.

    • @therealbeyoungho
      @therealbeyoungho Рік тому +3

      women too, but I agree.

    • @orientalgirl8926
      @orientalgirl8926 9 місяців тому +1

      did i understand it right that her father has a 4 year old kid??? i do not know if i misunderstood this? if not this is a crime again! if he is allowed to have contact to her!

    • @SS-iw2nq
      @SS-iw2nq 4 місяці тому +1

      @@orientalgirl8926The Father married a woman that already had a 4 yr old daughter. He’s not the biological Father but it’s still bad he was around the child.

    • @grogsmashrock7240
      @grogsmashrock7240 3 місяці тому

      @@therealbeyoungho man just stop

  • @whats3219
    @whats3219 3 місяці тому +42

    She seemed relieved that the 4 year old was removed from the daycare. So, now the 4 year old is probably home with dad more, probably getting abused just like she was. Wouldn't she have been safer at the daycare? Most people who were abused by their parent would be really worried about their half sibling or step sibling or whatever the 4 yr old is, or even a child of no relation in the care of that monster.

    • @xoangelicaf0523
      @xoangelicaf0523 3 місяці тому +8

      Yea I didn’t understand her being relieved abt that maybe it was edited

    • @leeham6230
      @leeham6230 3 місяці тому +5

      That was clearly a bad edit.

    • @yolandagrabowski6043
      @yolandagrabowski6043 Місяць тому

      My uncle put his daughter up to invite me to stay the night at his house while his wife was at work. I was thirteen. It was dark in there. He had us sit on him like a train. We had to take turns in front to kiss his face. He tried to force his tongue in my mouth. I wouldn't even let a stranger do that to me. One time, he asked if I will have sex with him after telling me what a condom is used for. He said I'm lucky, I'm his niece. Or I'd have to get pregnant by him. 🤮💯

  • @tammyhurst6729
    @tammyhurst6729 3 місяці тому +19

    Victims of incest never, ever, forget and lack of trust, even years after therapy, remains.

    • @yolandagrabowski6043
      @yolandagrabowski6043 Місяць тому

      When someone says they understand and tells you to grow up,they don't understand.

  • @taliajolly8929
    @taliajolly8929 7 місяців тому +34

    this woman gives me hope , she's so brave for telling her story. I myself am an abuse victim and I'm about to go to court in a week to put him in prison. never stop fighting

  • @KATHYBOYD-zv7ow
    @KATHYBOYD-zv7ow 3 місяці тому +9

    BEEN THERE, 3-13 NOW I HAVE P.T.S.D. HE'S NO LONGER LIVING. IT'S SOMETHING THAT NEVER GOES AWAY, BUT GOD HAS BLESSED ME TO STILL BE HERE AT 71 YRS. OVERDOSED MANY TIMES. BUT GOD LET ME KNOW I WANTED TO EASE THE EMOTIONAL PAIN. 🙏🙏🙏🙌🦋

  • @crystalstigall9778
    @crystalstigall9778 3 місяці тому +13

    Just imagine what that poor four year old is going to endure, and her p.o.s mother will stick by him until yet another victim grows up and has nothing but trauma!!! It truly makes me sick!!!

  • @doctorsartorius
    @doctorsartorius 3 місяці тому +16

    Look at him grinning in his mugshot. I doubt he was still grinning when the inmates discovered what he's in for.

  • @jackee1054
    @jackee1054 3 місяці тому +20

    Well, honey, he was at all your games and practices, etc. because he wanted to make damn sure you weren't talking to anyone about what was going on. It's not because he was being supportive. I am so glad you came forward.

  • @MondoBeno
    @MondoBeno 3 місяці тому +12

    If someone like him says they "think they've earned forgiveness," don't believe them!

  • @markadams3047
    @markadams3047 3 місяці тому +7

    Abuse is horrible the hell this poor girl went through this man should have been locked up forever.

  • @blazefairchild465
    @blazefairchild465 Рік тому +35

    Such a strong young lady ,May her life be happy forevermore! Her daughter is so cute ,just like a doll❤

  • @godlygirls62
    @godlygirls62 11 місяців тому +73

    Damn it. I know what she went through.
    My "father" started molesting me at age 4. I stopped it at age 12.
    When I was 12, I told my mom. She out of here you liar".
    Weeks later, I had no choice but to pull a knife from a kitchen drawer and threaten to kill my "father".
    I went no contact with my mom 2 months ago.
    I got tired of her constant criticism. Telling me things like, you need to loose weight. You got gray hair (Im 63 by the way), I would or wouldn't do this or that. This person or that person is evil. Hold in your stomach like I do. Don't talk to this one or that one. They are evil.
    I had a moment of epiphany when I told her 2 months ago I'd be driving my own car to church and no longer riding with her because she was habitually late.
    Her response was "there might be something wrong with you".
    When she said this, something in me snapped. I thought to myself, "of course there is something wrong with me. I have major depressive disorder, Bipolar II, complex PTSD because your husband sexually abused me from ages 4-12 and you didn't stop him".
    I thought to myself, she's calling people at church evil, and sneaky every Sunday on our way home from church. People whose names are doesn't even know, but she didn't know her husband was molesting me from age 4-12"?
    She knows exactly why I've gone no contact, yet her narcissism and inability to acknowledge the horror of what I went through won't allow her to pick up a phone and say I'm sorry, so that I can start healing

    • @e-52shreyashinde34
      @e-52shreyashinde34 10 місяців тому +12

      I feel so sorry for you and you did the right thing, don't give narcissists attention....i understand you too because same happened with me. From since when I was 3-12 years old. It stopped when I told my dad that i started getting my periods. I opened up about this to my brother and mother at 14 and her reaction was "we can't do anything now, don't share this with anyone" and she basically forgot everything and never spoke anything about it later. I'm now 20 and sadly I still stay with my family including my dad but i don't talk with him that much, and after i graduated I'm never going to look back and break contact with everyone and start a new life.

    • @Albundy11373
      @Albundy11373 4 місяці тому +7

      @@e-52shreyashinde34you really shouldn’t be living with your father but he wouldn’t do anything for now if he thinks you’re capable of speaking out. Telling the authorities will be your choice and I know it might not be an easy decision. Hope all goes well. 👍

    • @mbatista5891
      @mbatista5891 3 місяці тому

      ​@@e-52shreyashinde34you can do something about that creep. Please report him to the police so he can go to prison where he belongs. Hopefully your egg donor will get charges too for being complicit to sexual assault against a child.

    • @Dolcevita_bakes
      @Dolcevita_bakes 3 місяці тому

      @@e-52shreyashinde34You need to tell someone. Why let them get away with this? You don’t have a friend you can stay with? If you have another family member or a friend tell them what happened tell him that you can’t be around him every single day. This is got to be affecting you mentally to constantly be reminded of what happened by staring at him every day if I were you I was right now don’t wait stay with a friend and call the authorities, he shouldn’t get away with it. He did you. I pray that you heal someday and find peace, but I think that starts with him being held accountable for what he did to you.

    • @joevarga5982
      @joevarga5982 3 місяці тому

      Where was God when this was happening?

  • @marythomas5358
    @marythomas5358 Рік тому +65

    These men will invariably re-offend, there is no cure for paedophilia. It is a crime that should carry the death sentence.

    • @bidd7680
      @bidd7680 Рік тому +10

      Yeah he will if not has already do the same to his other daughter.

    • @collectiblesnrandomstuff544
      @collectiblesnrandomstuff544 Рік тому +1

      It’s a disease , it’s not the persons fault

    • @Rexorazor
      @Rexorazor 11 місяців тому

      There are more Pedophiles in the world than LGBTQ people combined.
      Yet they're the abnormal ones huh.

    • @istoleyourtv7823
      @istoleyourtv7823 11 місяців тому +10

      I think it's more of a mental problem, it deserves a punishment but they're better ways to solve it than the death penalty, an example is like 60 years in prison or something so Big Tyrone can show them how it feels to be molested.

    • @user-fu5tg7vi2z
      @user-fu5tg7vi2z 5 місяців тому +7

      ⁠@@collectiblesnrandomstuff544 I really hope you’re joking😨

  • @greenbrain8725
    @greenbrain8725 2 місяці тому +3

    She told the abuser’s parole officer, then the new victim of the abuser was “removed from daycare” and THAT is supposed to be some kind of victory? WTF?

    • @RobynLampe-u4j
      @RobynLampe-u4j 6 днів тому

      This was a victory for her, knowing she wouldn't have to face him and ruin into him every single day at work.... so yes it was a victory. Stop blaming her and blame him and this girls mother.

  • @a.walters123
    @a.walters123 2 місяці тому +4

    She is so well adjusted and intelligent for all she’s been through ❤ absolutely amazing person.

  • @panchogonzales6409
    @panchogonzales6409 2 роки тому +82

    The AH was smiling in his mug shot, put him down.

  • @DaisyWilts
    @DaisyWilts 3 місяці тому +31

    As a victim of incest myself.., I understand her totally

  • @deborahbaker4770
    @deborahbaker4770 4 місяці тому +15

    My father sexually abused me I was 18 month’s when my mother found out my Uncle caught in a position that you don’t see a toddler and father in I blocked it out somehow until I got older either ( 10 or 11 ) if the dream’s I’m having are what really happened it’s disgusting he didn’t go to jail and he married a lady who had two boy’s my mother told me that he was fired from his job because he wouldn’t leave the men alone hopefully he didn’t do anything to her boy’s he also had two kids with his wife a boy and a girl I’m hoping the same thing for them. I was born in 1958 it could have started in 1959 but it was in the early 60’s before 1964 that my mother found out he’s dead now from cancer 👍🏻👍🏻🎊🎉

  • @Yourockrock24
    @Yourockrock24 3 місяці тому +10

    Released after 2 years? Thats disgusting. He will reoffend. They always do.

  • @iantawashington-allotey9913
    @iantawashington-allotey9913 3 місяці тому +6

    This is crazy. I hope she realizes that the way he treated her has nothing to do with her and everything to do with him. I pray she goes on to have a beautiful life.

  • @winonacampbell536
    @winonacampbell536 3 місяці тому +8

    Once again the victim is repeatedly victimized. The criminal is glorified. How could a woman knowingly have a a relationship, more less marry a sex offender!?! He should not be allowed to be around children, nor reproduce.

  • @Gluttonite
    @Gluttonite 3 місяці тому +14

    Castration Without Representation.

  • @bluemoon7363
    @bluemoon7363 3 місяці тому +6

    South Dakota might be full of people who celebrate incest and sexual abuse since their laws don’t punish such horrible crimes 😞

  • @vlynn8816
    @vlynn8816 2 місяці тому +4

    The justice system does not value women in this country.

  • @shawnbooth4990
    @shawnbooth4990 3 місяці тому +8

    What is deeply concerning here is that he has another child! What is keeping him from doing the same thing to his 4 year old daughter??!!! He needs to be behind bars!!

  • @honeykin7890
    @honeykin7890 3 місяці тому +5

    I know exactly what you went through, I had a different relative. I am sorry this happened to you. To this day I kept quiet too, no one would believe me. When this happens, as a child, your ruined for life and nightmares don't stop. I went thru many hospitalizations', meds, therapy and prayers. I still fight thoughts of suicide even at the age at 72! Pure lifetime torment!

    • @audreyheart2180
      @audreyheart2180 5 днів тому

      “You are strong, and the word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one.” -1 John 2: 14
      I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. - Romans 8:18
      For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given, and the government will be upon His shoulders. And He will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of His government and peace there will be no end. He will reign on the throne of David and over his kingdom, to establish and sustain it with justice and righteousness from that time and forevermore. -Isaiah 9:6-7

  • @Mei_hope
    @Mei_hope 3 місяці тому +11

    2 counts of rape? and got parole..omg.it should be life imprisonment😢

  • @lizbrown6943
    @lizbrown6943 2 роки тому +61

    What success? The child removed from daycare then what?

    • @caryns6373
      @caryns6373 2 роки тому

      He shouldn't be allowed having baby's or near a baby

    • @hatchettharley3186
      @hatchettharley3186 2 роки тому +21

      That's what I was wondering.

  • @wishingyoupeace
    @wishingyoupeace 3 місяці тому +8

    So humiliating for this young woman. What a sick man. This ruins girls’ lives. What a jerk.

  • @Ackermanmedia
    @Ackermanmedia 3 місяці тому +4

    Good for you!! You nailed it when you said you have worked really hard to not be lie your parents, I know that feeling in a big way.

  • @iantawashington-allotey9913
    @iantawashington-allotey9913 3 місяці тому +8

    I thought he had to stay away from children

  • @Lisa-lu1gt
    @Lisa-lu1gt 2 місяці тому +7

    Just sickening

  • @daniellemayhew1010
    @daniellemayhew1010 Рік тому +31

    What kind of disgusting woman would be with that monster (especially when she has a little girl) I don't think so Hell no

  • @biggucciprincess
    @biggucciprincess Рік тому +51

    ONLY 2 YEARS?! WTF?

  • @bigal7561
    @bigal7561 Рік тому +18

    I'm so sorry for you young lady. I'll pray for you. You're so smart and articulate. I can see you having a wonderful future. God bless.

  • @YouTubeStalker
    @YouTubeStalker 3 місяці тому +7

    Get that child away from that man

  • @cptairwolf
    @cptairwolf Місяць тому +5

    Who marries a monster like this with a 4 year old daughter knowing what he's done to his own child? Absolutely criminal that these men aren't kept in prison where they belong.

  • @Carol-rz6og
    @Carol-rz6og 10 днів тому +2

    These stories are so sad, but what is incomprehensible that no adult got involved and helped the child.

  • @rickihosein
    @rickihosein Рік тому +23

    Women who get married to men like this are sick...also, why was he allowed to have a plea deal...it should be a life sentence automatically...disgusting!

    • @ManicMindTrick
      @ManicMindTrick 9 місяців тому +5

      If the sex offender doesnt tell the woman she might never know.

    • @rickihosein
      @rickihosein 9 місяців тому

      @@ManicMindTrick ...that's true!...but, didn't she say, it was a small town and people knew...or maybe, I got that wrong!!

  • @isabellrc
    @isabellrc 3 місяці тому +2

    Wherever you are dear heart, I hope you are continuing your healing journey. You have so much to offer to agencies; police forces, justice systems, social services schools, organizations with same interests.
    You are a wonderful person

  • @paulnguyen2227
    @paulnguyen2227 3 місяці тому +8

    Something nobody should ever go through straight pathetic and disgusting

  • @reginaldmiller1378
    @reginaldmiller1378 16 днів тому +2

    Sex register offender but still legally to have custody to his children ?? Yes the court system failed her totally

  • @MERRY24601
    @MERRY24601 2 місяці тому +4

    Wtf is out of prision and allowed to be around children!!!!

  • @aprilstar3819
    @aprilstar3819 24 дні тому +1

    A thank you to this young woman for speaking out and telling her story.

  • @cipherP9
    @cipherP9 3 місяці тому +4

    She said it’s a victory that she got her little sister removed from the daycare. No, it’s actually screwed up that he has another little girl to traumatize. He only did 2 years for sexually abusing his daughter for 5 years?

    • @RobynLampe-u4j
      @RobynLampe-u4j 6 днів тому

      She is in no way her sister..... this is his new wife's daughter....

  • @johnbolony
    @johnbolony 20 днів тому +1

    What an amazing and strong woman. I feel so much anger towards her abuser and the system that let him out of prison after only two years.

  • @allengreg5447
    @allengreg5447 2 місяці тому +4

    Correction: Face to face, AGAIN!

  • @luvellecummingsiii9438
    @luvellecummingsiii9438 Місяць тому +2

    The one person who was supposed to proctect her failed. This is so disgusting on so many levels

  • @thinline8504
    @thinline8504 3 місяці тому +4

    my sister as a child told me this happened to her regularly, and she was afraid to say something... I never understood why my father loved my little sister more, and how he was always hugging her. she kept telling me daddy keeps touching me.. I ignored her as a child. now as an adult she's all fucked up, and always reminds me of what happened to her.... shits crazy...

    • @dafnneperez9577
      @dafnneperez9577 3 місяці тому

      Wao your mother must be a complete piece of shot for not figure out something was happening. It’s always signs…

  • @WWH88-u6u
    @WWH88-u6u 3 місяці тому +4

    Im sorry he did that to you. i love my 7 yr old daughter. Never would i even think like this towards my baby.

  • @beckierachal6175
    @beckierachal6175 2 місяці тому +2

    How can the justice systems be so soft on the abuser? That child or adult victim has no justice for the crime that has been committed against them. For every woman that has seek help for mental illnesses, a 1/4 of them has been sexual abuse during their lifetime!

  • @bellaggio1770
    @bellaggio1770 3 місяці тому +3

    He was released after TWO years into a TEN year sentence? What the actual PHUCK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @teddyjam8134
    @teddyjam8134 23 дні тому +1

    First of all, he should've served his entire 10-year sentence and should've been immediately thrown back into prison the second his parole officer found him in the presence of children.

  • @bluemoon7363
    @bluemoon7363 3 місяці тому +3

    It’s unbelievable that authorities don’t care about what this monster is allegedly doing to the little girl of the woman he married.

    • @gowest5145
      @gowest5145 2 місяці тому

      It's Baal worship and it is extremely hard to stop. Do you notice in these comments that a lot of people say it happened to them growing up? I think sexual abuse happened to most people and it is part of the MK Ultra. They managed to get the parents to torment their children by sexual abuse.

  • @kevinmorris941
    @kevinmorris941 2 місяці тому +2

    That's a lawsuit and a absolute full divorce for his new wife

  • @LittlePieceOfHeaven.65
    @LittlePieceOfHeaven.65 22 дні тому +3

    WT F* is wrong with the System letting this Monster out after 2 years and then and letting him live with a young child ??? and WTH is wrong with the Mother of that child letting a Predator move in??? INSANE !

  • @tylerk.7947
    @tylerk.7947 Місяць тому +1

    So he did two years in jail for repeatedly, raping his preteen daughter??!! he should be rotting behind bars for the rest of time

  • @gunter-ik2nj
    @gunter-ik2nj 2 місяці тому +4

    Sweet Home Alabama!😂

  • @margaretpate1096
    @margaretpate1096 2 місяці тому +2

    That 4 year old is in danger.

  • @jeffjones3040
    @jeffjones3040 3 місяці тому +4

    The cops love to insult young women.

  • @BMaima
    @BMaima 2 місяці тому +2

    wtf? 10yrs and out in 2yrs? So much about justice system.

  • @natalie9884
    @natalie9884 3 місяці тому +3

    Hope she reaches out to Dr. Phil’s team for the healing she needs longevity wise.

  • @NORIEGA200
    @NORIEGA200 3 місяці тому +2

    She is a very strong woman! Lots of prayers🙏🏾💜

  • @celieneohara521
    @celieneohara521 3 місяці тому +3

    Wait. She reported hr father with a new 4 year old step-daughter? And they were allowed to take the kid out of child care? THAT WAS HER SAFE SPACE! SO MUCH abuse happens where kids are kept away from people who might notice! WAIT! He's a registered sex-offender and he's allowed to live with a CHILD?? HE WILL RE-OFFEND. They ALWAYS DO!

    • @RobynLampe-u4j
      @RobynLampe-u4j 6 днів тому

      It's not her job to watch over this little girl... she has her own child to worry about. She did this for her own mental health and was trying to draw attention to the fact that he was even allowed on the daycare. So please don't go blaming the victim for something he and the mother are getting away with. Seriously people, she has been through way too much to read these comments and get upset by your stupidity.

  • @rosebud6485
    @rosebud6485 26 днів тому +1

    He was out in only 2 years and then married a woman with a small daughter?? He is sick and what the courts allowed is sick.

  • @bluerain3282
    @bluerain3282 3 місяці тому +3

    Wtf why aren’t they worried about the 4 year old?