THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT: Are men allowed to cry?

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  • @thomasparg1981
    @thomasparg1981 Рік тому +13

    41 year old man here. I definitely wouldn't mind crying. But I don't know how anymore and I can't even remember the last time I cried. Your videos have been a big help lately, so I wanted to thank you. Going through strange times. I seemed to not find my place in this world and I have always struggled with it. But I did find God which has been the best thing that ever happened to me. Life still feels strange but now with God, things look more hopeful.

  • @nasirzaman8063
    @nasirzaman8063 Рік тому +1

    Pain of emotions must be released rather than concealing them

  • @margaretfrankiewicz5754
    @margaretfrankiewicz5754 Рік тому +2

    I was once told God knows every tear we cry. I think he keeps them bottled in a jar until later.

  • @lar6263
    @lar6263 Рік тому +10

    Sad thing is,so few in today's society care enough to comfort😢

  • @Riouxcrux
    @Riouxcrux Рік тому +6

    I shed tears all the time, I try to live in my subtle energy rather than allowing them to build.
    Expressing our true emotion is a blessing and feels amazing.

  • @nicholson392005
    @nicholson392005 Рік тому +7

    To me being able to cry was the best gift I gave myself to heal from childhood trauma and abuse, I can relate to this

  • @kmchale23640
    @kmchale23640 Рік тому +9

    I recall the first time I heard Rabbi Jacobson say that when a person suddenly cries for no apparent reason it means their soul is crying out. That really caught my attention for some reason...and then I wanted to find out exactly what it was that was troubling me. I think I found out. Knowing, or at least having some idea, can save you a lot of time...and a lot of suffering.

  • @sasaradetic2202
    @sasaradetic2202 Рік тому +5

    Danger of overdoing the emotions is called Self-pity. Just as joy can become arrogant joking, harassment.
    It is the middle path Jesus is talking about. Learning the balance.
    God bless you.

  • @thinknumbers7718
    @thinknumbers7718 Рік тому +10

    They who sow in tears shall reap with songs of joy. Thanks for such as a great shiur so raw and so real.

  • @kieronwalters3120
    @kieronwalters3120 Рік тому +3

    My father died a few weeks ago. I was frightened of him all my life,nothing was ever good enough. Because of his bullying I had stroke. It's his funeral tomorrow and I have not had any inclination to cry. Just numbness.

    • @Relax-j6n
      @Relax-j6n 2 місяці тому +1

      Very normal! Hope you heal from the trauma and abuse!

  • @Life_42
    @Life_42 Рік тому +4

    Tears of awe and happiness most of the time. Extremely rare tears of sadness.

  • @johnadriandodge
    @johnadriandodge Рік тому +3

    Shalom
    I cry every day, inside and out!

  • @EllisonBallard-m4y
    @EllisonBallard-m4y 6 днів тому

    Again, thank you. Apha male for biddening tears is a hurt from many men I know. I am a man, and cry maybe more than I should. But, a lot of men that forbid crying are near suicide is my belief, as they are holding pain inside. 83 yrs old, on earth thank you for wisedom of G*D Almighty HaShem. Shalom. Rabbi, your teaching has saved many souls. Thank you.

  • @TheIronSmith-s9e
    @TheIronSmith-s9e 22 дні тому

    I cried today for my brother's birthday..... He would of been 47 today he died when he was 38... love and loved him dearly...... I say its like tears of love... Oxymoron i know, but tears of love is calming. Crying is calming..like how you put that. Thank you.....my inarticulate ways..

  • @lormanias
    @lormanias Рік тому +4

    Yeshua is the perfect example of love towards Yahweh.
    Jews must emulate him.

  • @janvanblaricum6731
    @janvanblaricum6731 Рік тому +1

    Tears are more than a prayer, for tears come from the Heart, can not be faked!

  • @lar6263
    @lar6263 Рік тому +8

    This too applies to me,my children and family.STALKED ABUSED,ATE UP WITH CANCER,I CRY EVERYDAY...IN JOY,SORROW, DEPRESSION,AND PAIN.Real men cry ....I was taught that the Lord holds our tears and stores them...waiting for the day to rain his blessings on us.AMEN ☦️✝️🛐🙏❤️‍🔥

    • @Commonchaffinch2
      @Commonchaffinch2 Рік тому

      RSO oil can help esp topically , it doesn’t give psychoactive effects that way. For killing cancer.

    • @Commonchaffinch2
      @Commonchaffinch2 Рік тому

      I’ve personally witnessed it doing more than traditional treatments in killing cancer. God bless you on your journey to Heaven!

  • @ling-qw2gh
    @ling-qw2gh Рік тому

    During Covid, I was at a toxic company with boss that bullies. I didn't cry for 2 years. This year, I moved and cried about 20 times already. From the crying I healed a lot and next step is to learn to transcend the tears. Thank you Rabbi again!

  • @Christopherurich33
    @Christopherurich33 Рік тому +2

    My actions are not based off my emotions I am king of my emotions and actions

  • @bettykos
    @bettykos 4 місяці тому

    Yesterday..😢..music will move the soul.

  • @4i20
    @4i20 Рік тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @maryw4609
    @maryw4609 Рік тому +1

    Thank you rabbi Jacobson this was an extremely beneficial lessons on tears😢

  • @Life_42
    @Life_42 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Rabbi Simon Jacobson!

  • @calebcampos3054
    @calebcampos3054 6 місяців тому

    Thank you Rabbi, This is Her Excellency The High Saint Malou, thank you for this and for your life here on earth, that we share one sky is meaningful to me. Thank you.

  • @VondaBoo
    @VondaBoo Рік тому

    Had a good cry today 😌 thank you. My soul always let's me know when I need a good cry and I listen and release and let go.

  • @Christopherurich33
    @Christopherurich33 Рік тому +3

    If you say you don't cry your a liar everyone cry's even the toughest warrior cry's

    • @Relax-j6n
      @Relax-j6n 2 місяці тому

      Narcissists are so stubborn, they put on a facade and appear to be emotional and empathetic when in truth, they're not. [Which is super frightening to children].

  • @henriquepontedaluz1961
    @henriquepontedaluz1961 Рік тому

    Fernando Pessoa, wrote:mar salgado, quanto do teu sal São lágrimas de Portugal ,Por te cruzarmos. Just a glimpse of the intrincated sadness, that we can pass.trough together, until We see the iluminated shore. Thank you again Rabbi.

  • @handofgrace5066
    @handofgrace5066 Рік тому

    How profound and beautiful the wisdom you shared with us about tears!!! Tears are the cry of the soul
    for love and understanding, or the overwhelming gratitude when we experience love that is greater than
    our sense of self, or the blessing of being forgiven, or sadness and joy that is born of loving memories,
    or of union with the Divine Light of infinite love in the fullest measure of acceptance and peace. I wish
    to experience the Divine nature of God's pure love and be reborn in it's Truth. I believe that is the rebirth
    in the Spirit that Yeshua/Jesus came to reveal to us and bring us into the experience and healing power
    of that pure love.
    I never realized the beauty and important role of tears until I listened to you. I really appreciate all that
    you shared with us. You are such a beautiful caring and insightful person. Thank you so much for your
    teaching videos May you be blessed. ❤

  • @Vincent-we6wn
    @Vincent-we6wn Рік тому

    Tears scaur the Heart clean.
    Tribe of Simeon

  • @nasirzaman8063
    @nasirzaman8063 Рік тому

    Best way of expression is eloquence if one can manage

  • @manimal_x
    @manimal_x Рік тому

    Don't be sad folks, there's power here.

  • @miriamzajfman4305
    @miriamzajfman4305 Рік тому +2

    Unfortunately often people numbing there pain with antidepressant 😪

    • @DeniseSkidmore
      @DeniseSkidmore Рік тому +1

      My doctor heard my father died and immediately tried to prescribe. Sadness at that time is entirely normal and should be worked through, not suppressed.

  • @Christopherurich33
    @Christopherurich33 Рік тому +1

    Some are conditioned better than others

  • @Sharp_Calidore
    @Sharp_Calidore Рік тому

    My friend taught me that crying was a show of heart, when i got beat up in sparring and was so upset

  • @oliverman6168
    @oliverman6168 Рік тому

    Thanking you kindly Rabbi.

  • @nancycejarimanifestingfrom
    @nancycejarimanifestingfrom Рік тому

    Honestly men suffer a lot and no one talk about it... its so sad

  • @zeronothing000
    @zeronothing000 Рік тому

    Cried yesterday two different times.

  • @kieronwalters3120
    @kieronwalters3120 Рік тому

    Thank you.

  • @guarionexx79
    @guarionexx79 Рік тому

    Thank you Rabbi for the comforting words. And thank you Abba for such an amazing creation you created in your likeness as is Rabbi Jacobson!

  • @421sap
    @421sap Рік тому

    Thank you ...

  • @Sharp_Calidore
    @Sharp_Calidore Рік тому

    what a beautiful story

  • @akai.christo
    @akai.christo Рік тому

    Thank you Rabbi Jacobson
    ✡️🙏♥️🔥
    Wish you and everybody here a beautiful day!!
    💪🙂👍

  • @IamwhoIam333
    @IamwhoIam333 Рік тому

    YES
    Just today

  • @nasirzaman8063
    @nasirzaman8063 Рік тому

    Important topic

  • @nasirzaman8063
    @nasirzaman8063 Рік тому

    Yes

  • @johnbryan5608
    @johnbryan5608 Рік тому

    Can’t remember.

  • @54032Zepol
    @54032Zepol Рік тому

    As macho man Randy Savage once said "all men cry even macho man himself and it's ok for men to cry but no one likes a quitter! Cry all you want but don't quit!"

  • @ChaosAttractor13
    @ChaosAttractor13 Рік тому +1

    I hope so, I cry all the frigging time.😅

  • @kathleentootell5469
    @kathleentootell5469 Рік тому

    I think I cry too much 😢

    • @Relax-j6n
      @Relax-j6n 2 місяці тому

      There's no such thing! Keep crying! It's very healthy! You were rejected, abused, traumatized, or all three. Please forgive me for touching a raw nerve or adding salt to your wounds.

  • @archiehendricks6093
    @archiehendricks6093 Рік тому

    Thoughts about all these victims of narssist.
    The life coaches have smiles on face, but a sadnest within.
    It was something jacob dealt with his father inlaw.
    These narssist focus is not on good for all.
    I think their vison is self thru otheirs , ? Is this a spirit influencing them.
    I try to avoid narssist but just like jacob , there are times when can ot always depart from them when you want.

  • @darinjames3313
    @darinjames3313 Рік тому

    Jesus wept....thank you Rabbi...I think even the Budda did.....

  • @Carlitos1993
    @Carlitos1993 Рік тому +1

    No

  • @mistellechambless8673
    @mistellechambless8673 Рік тому

    I’m a little teapot…

  • @ellenteddy3564
    @ellenteddy3564 Рік тому

    What do you mean you cant enjoy a nice cigar and a scotch and let it happen ... Nazi's did.

  • @ellenteddy3564
    @ellenteddy3564 Рік тому

    Money is not the excuse, Rawandans and the Kamire rouge did it in extreme poverty, for fun ..
    So, dont make this about money..

  • @stephenwilson9872
    @stephenwilson9872 Рік тому

    Not pampered and. Idolized

  • @pinokiopinokio4335
    @pinokiopinokio4335 Рік тому

    Ask that Jeweish from Auswitz?

  • @stephenwilson9872
    @stephenwilson9872 Рік тому

    I am a GOD of WAR

  • @coyotebones1131
    @coyotebones1131 Рік тому

    Definitely, thanks Rabbi. I try to visualize a wave when I feel it, and let it have its beginning, and end. Sort of like experiencing cravings ✌️

  • @archiehendricks6093
    @archiehendricks6093 Рік тому

    Thoughts about all these victims of narssist.
    The life coaches have smiles on face, but a sadnest within.
    It was something jacob dealt with his father inlaw.
    These narssist focus is not on good for all.
    I think their vison is self thru otheirs , ? Is this a spirit influencing them.
    I try to avoid narssist but just like jacob , there are times when can ot always depart from them when you want.