UKI's red flag in a person
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
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My red flag is if they treat others disrespectfully.
thats not even a red flag thats just basic human decency 😭
Unfortunately, I've met people who don't have that 😞
My red flag is if the person is controlling asf.
yeah that's fair
@@fivetreehouses I guess I should specified by saying manipulative
This is really difficult for me, bc I can't look people in the eye 😅😢
I agree with Petra 😄
Petra????
@@fivetreehouses oh, I'm sorry, Elira, not Petra 🤣
damn new petra update just dropped
she a dragon now
@@fivetreehouses And she just stuck in my mind 😅
@@fivetreehouses That's a hugeee update. Like a penguin evolved in to a dragon 🤣🤣
Some early relationship red flags that might help out some folks:
- they don't ask questions about you(your job, opinions, routines, experiences etc.)/they only talk about themselves
- they are getting too "grabby"/too close
- they insisting on paying for your meal/drink all the time
- they are impatient(both at the meeting and with texting)
- they act like they are your main priority(they don't undestand that you can't text/hang out while you're working or when you are just busy/not in the mood)
- they disrespect your friends and family, and they always control who you hang out with
- they speak ill about others or nag all the time
- their everyday life stories are too dramatic or are too interesting(nobody have such an interesting life, so they're just lying to you)
- it's always "the way they want, or there is no way"
- they are pushing you to have sex or to go out
- they pushing you to not use protection while having sex
- you have to remind them all the time to respect your boundaries(if they know something it making you upset/uncomfortable, but they still do these things it means that they don't give a damn about how you feel. they are mature enough to understand human boundaries but they still choose not to respect them)
- they are getting angry/irritated easily
- they are looking through your stuff/phone without permission
- they make you feel insecure on purpose
- they don't respect/hurt your pets
Adding with my version:
- They ask for money even though you've only known them for a short time (and worst, you haven't met them in person at all). This is actually common in online dating. Both love scammers and douchebags are similar
- They hurt others and feel proud about it. Some even try to justify it using their gender, job, culture, etc.
- They are nice to you but not to others. This is not a romance fiction, this is real life
….When you realize a guy you were with had too many of these red flags 😶
@@crazygamer_1082 run, buddy, run
Whats wrong with them paying for your meal...? :,)
@MayaSaleh-fb9ug many men (very shitty and controlling ones) love to pay for a meal/drink on a date and then think that gives them permission to demand sex. They treat a relationship like a transaction. There is nothing wrong with sex work, but going on a date with someone is not the same as paying someone for the sex they agreed to have. You do not pay for access to your partner's body or genitals. They are not objects for sale
me and my autism are shaking
Literally I’m like I can never make eye contact but it’s not out of malice it’s because I can’t 😭
Yeah, me too but I have a hack that works for me. I usually look at the nose bridge of the person I'm talking to. To them it looks like I look into their eyes but I actually look elsewhere on their face so it doesn't stress me as much as keeping eye contact
Ok but as someone with autism just add to convo. Theyll get it theres ways thru it dont worry my pals
me fr.
but I sometimes try to look at the space between the nose and the eyebrows so it looks like I'm looking at them but not at the same time
Nah cause I was thinking this 2 my adhd and autistic friends could never
I have the same thing as Elira. I can't, for the life of me, maintain eye contact. Like if I see the person I'm with make eye contact with me, I immediately divert my eyes to somewhere else. Though I do talk to them, i just cant look at their eyes for long😭
me too it makes me so shy TwT
"Keep your eyes on me"
-Uki
Ok but as someone autistic and has anxiety. Uki is on to something like listen listen. I get distracted easily and nervous but it lies in the conversation. Like its why when someone says soemthing i do small things like "yeah" "oh wow!" Or "thats crazy i wouldve never got that" or add comemntary in between to show interest. Now if someone continuously disregards me when im talking is a huge red flag. Like for example if im talking about liking the color blue and when im done they immedieatly change the topic as if they were waiting for me to finish and while i tdy to comment about theyre stuff they continue to ingore my comments like naur u dont care about how i feel in this convo
He should've said like when they are not paying attention instead of eye contact. I can pay attention to ppl, listen to them but eye contact is kinda hard for me.
My red flag is if someone is if they are full of themselves trying to be superior than everyone (I normally don’t date people because I got my own problems with romance as a whole) but that is my red flag
Sounds like Uki likes men that are not shy, but are rather dominant and caring. Which actually fits him.
My anxiety doesn't let me hold eye contact for to much when I'm on a one on one convo with someone 😭 It's why I have so few close friends
I literally never look at people and I get along with people plenty. And never had trouble making friends.
I don't want to make it sound rude towards you, I just mean to say I don't think the eye contact is such a big factor. There are other ways to engage with people and their conversations. And they compensate more than enough for me.
If someone has social anxiety and trouble speaking with people in general, then yes, making friends might be harder. But it doesn't ride or die with the eye contact.
I actually mean that in a hopefully uplifting way. Like, don't let that stop you or think you have no chance because of that.
Lmao I have adhd and suck with eye contact but I also make sure to tell someone beforehand bc I understand it comes off as rude. But I can still listen and look around at the same time. It annoys me when obviously someone is occupying themselves while I'm talking to them, like looking at their phone, and then ask me to repeat myself.
It can be difficult to say to others that you have trouble with eye contact
@@Kittenlover113355I usually don't say that I don't keep eye contact. I just don't do it. People don't think I am rude.
Only once when the girl (a friend) I spoke to asked if I was looking at her cleavage and I was like lol no it's just my eye level, I was looking into space basically. But she didn't even think it was rude, just funny.
I was made aware/became aware that I always look elsewhere by my friend group but it's just a little fact, nothing that bothers anyone. We joke about it sometimes. But basically nobody cares. The only time we purposefully stare into each others eyes is when cheering, bc that's the culture here.
Fazit: just don't give a damn and don't overthink it. Ppl don't actually care. If in a business setting, maybe make sure to look at them at the start and end of the convo at least, the little trick for inbetween is to always look at documents in front of you. But in my line of work, which is science, we are all "thinkers" that have our own routines and ticks when brainstorming in meetings, nobody cares about eye contact....
Idk, I am rambling but my point is, don't feel unnessecarily over-perciebed bc of that. It's not such a big deal in my experience. Unless in your environment people actively point it out, I wouldn't even think about it.
I think there's a distinct difference between how someone doesn't make eye contact out of disinterest/disrespect and those who do that because of other reasons that they have difficulty controlling. Other parts of the body language usually shows it.
the end was the top of the cherry LMAO we need more of hex and uki istg
I do have the "look me in the eye" kind of problem, but I solve it by trying to keep my eyes on the person for 3-5 seconds and then look away towards their nose/shoulders/hair or anything close to their faces. That gives them the illusion that I keep looking at them without the psycho eye to eye staring!
God i love looking at ppl eyes when they talk 🤖
i realized how weak of a person i am cause i am a good listener but i dont like eye contact😭😭😭😭 i can mentain eye contact BUT I GET NERVOUS
How they treat service staff.
my red flags are:
1. if the person isn’t patient with me and rushes me into understanding (undiagnosed adhd (not self diagnosing))
And 2. disrespect towards me and others.
i can't look people in the eyes even if i am close with them, so i usually look at their forehead or make my eyesight not focus so they appear blurry. sometimes i look at them in the eyes for 3-5 sec because i know some people will consider not looking in the eyes rude when its just my anxiety
Maybe because you're too beautiful, Uki. Ans the other guy was shy?
I'm listening, but I never make eye contact :c I have autism, it's a literal disability lol
I don't look people in the eye, but not bc of social anxiety, I just don't feel the need to. It doesn't come naturally to me.
But there is still a big difference between not keeping eye contact and clearly spacing out or thinking about other things. You can tell when someone is thinking about something else or looking away in a spacing out way, versus not looking someone in the eyes or face, but still being present in the conversation.
I’m sorry Uki I just have autism😭😭😭
Ralatable uki
Oooo that's why people don't want to talk to me...I never look at them when they're talking 😂 I just can't, i feel weird. I don't have autism or adhd or something like that though. I just hate human in general
My red flag is people who never organise stuff
It’s funny cuz I have the same red flag as uki but I’m so hypocritical cuz I have trouble looking ppl in the eye aswell (new people) but if my friends or family don’t look me in the eye while talking I think they arnt listening😭😭
My red flag is unless the other person has atleast 90% similar interests with and has the same opinions,beliefs and morals then I probably won't be friends with them in the long run. I also wouldn't be able to date someone like them. I need someone that's exactly like me even tho they're gonna be a bit bossy aswell since I am too
My red flag is None
Cause as an INFP-T(myself and not every INFP), I always don’t see red flags on people cause im an airhead and oblivious AF
Heck, I don’t even know if im giving red flags to others
Wtf..
Wait... But what if ur autistic? (Can't maintain eye contact)
My thoughts exactly lmao
he said when you can't look at him at ALL like not even paying attention to him
You have to use your common sense. He's obviously not referring to autistic individuals.
As an autistic person myself, people can't think of every single minority that might also be applicable to a statement when they're giving casual conversations
@@DrunkenEros fr like i have social anxiety and eye contact is hard for me too but i get what uki was trying to say. he was talking about people who don't bother to pay attention to him. i'm sure if he's with someone who has trouble with maintaining eye contact and it's not in a "i don't care about what you're saying" way, it'd be different and he'd understand
I’m autistic. I hate eye contact.