End of Pride Month Q & GAY - PART 2! | Thomas Sanders & Friends

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  • Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
  • Trying to meet the deadline of Pride month, quite a bit of important conversation was left out of the original edit of Pride Month Q & Gay, and that didn’t sit well with us at all, so we present those conversations to you now! I was lucky enough to have an amazing group of individuals volunteer their time to make another video similar to the Having Pride video we did in 2017, taking questions from some of you and talking about our own personal experiences. We barely scrape the surface of issues, but we hope some things we say are encouraging to some of you out there! Hope you enjoy!!
    I want to give another GINORMOUS thank you to the amazing people who came out (lolz) to be a part of this video, including Terrence and Chandler, who traveled great distances to be a part!
    Chandler has an AWESOME channel where they tackle similar issues! You'll definitely want to check them out!
    Chandler's Links:
    / chandlernwilson
    / chandlernwilson
    / chandlernwilson
    You can also watch the video I did on Chandler's channel!
    • TRANS TERMINOLOGY ft T...
    If you're interested in seeing any more of my other awesome friends, their links are listed down below!
    Joan's Links:
    / thejoanglebook
    / thejoanglebook
    Leo's Links:
    / theleoanderson
    / theleoanderson
    / @leothegiant
    Paige's Links:
    / paige484n
    Quil's Links:
    / quildarling
    / quildarling
    Talyn's Links:
    / tallykat3
    / tallykat3
    / tallykat3
    Terrence's Links:
    / _msft9
    / ibterrence97
    / originalshortdude
    I also want to thank Kenny, who operated Camera B for the video!
    Kenny's Links:
    / kajaproduction
    / britcheslil
    / thatkennyguy1
    / thatkennyguygames
    Also, a HUGE thank you to Camden for taking the helm editing this video!!
    Camden's Links:
    / camdenfoote
    / camdenfoote
    And a BIG thank you to Lev & Camden, who helped create the thumbnail for the video!
    Lev's Links:
    / elevenths
    / thelevv
    Camden's Links:
    / camdenfoote
    / camdenfoote
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  • @pumpkinoligarchy6626
    @pumpkinoligarchy6626 5 років тому +443

    “Hey, so, I think I may like you.”
    “That’s interesting because I think I like men” Savage

  • @robinthebirb
    @robinthebirb 5 років тому +847

    "This faulty logic-"
    Logan: *Gasp*
    "stands with your inner morality."
    Patton: You called, Kiddo?

    • @krisdeltarun
      @krisdeltarun 4 роки тому +11

      Spritelil I saw that exact same thing in my head

    • @cmd0317
      @cmd0317 4 роки тому +7

      *stands with*
      OWO

    • @raenon-binary6565
      @raenon-binary6565 4 роки тому +8

      Omg I ship Logan and Patton

  • @itsnotevenfunny
    @itsnotevenfunny 5 років тому +708

    "Hey I think I like you"
    "That's interesting because I like men"
    Me: *Clapping in the background*

  • @sharahc7855
    @sharahc7855 5 років тому +1267

    Terrence’s friend girl: hey I think I like you
    Terrence: that’s interesting cause I think I like men

  • @UnorthodoxSoundwave.
    @UnorthodoxSoundwave. 5 років тому +1774

    Joan: "I told people I have crushes on them with the expressed purpose of getting rejected so I can move on."
    Talyn: "Yea, Joan tried on me. _Didn't work!"_
    Oh my gosh I can't even. That was so adorable!

    • @nataliaolguingutierrez8582
      @nataliaolguingutierrez8582 5 років тому +88

      I died when Talyn said that. they're so cute!

    • @strawbee.s
      @strawbee.s 5 років тому +14

      ikr!!

    • @ashleypearce3859
      @ashleypearce3859 5 років тому +28

      Wait help this might sound dumb but have they/ did they ever date?

    • @cottonmills4280
      @cottonmills4280 5 років тому +27

      Justin Y. Joan and Talyn are dating right? I was so confused during the video.

    • @septicphan
      @septicphan 5 років тому +8

      Justin Y. So freaking cute

  • @boop9379
    @boop9379 5 років тому +2039

    Alternate title: Joan and talyn being acespec icons for the better part of 13 minutes

    • @xzonia1
      @xzonia1 5 років тому +55

      They were amazing! And it is important for aces to remember that it is okay to not want sex. Do what is right for you, and be honest with your partner.

    • @Hubbblesgirl
      @Hubbblesgirl 4 роки тому +4

      Ruby Gee same!

    • @stonyforlife9846
      @stonyforlife9846 4 роки тому +3

      Ruby Gee andddd 3 secs :)

    • @regnirps2185
      @regnirps2185 4 роки тому +27

      I wish there were people who could be more verbal about the ace spec because the stuff the both Talyn and Joan talked about was so so so important

    • @brook1560
      @brook1560 4 роки тому +10

      Me and my ace/aro self: WOO!

  • @beanie_babe_xo6799
    @beanie_babe_xo6799 5 років тому +787

    Joan: "I'm demisexual"
    Me, also demi: **looses shit due to pure excitement**
    Tayln: "Now I identify as Demi-"
    me: **yall already know**

    • @enby_andy
      @enby_andy 4 роки тому +51

      @margarida rato My understanding is a demisexual person is someone who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection or bond with another

    • @prometheuswolf126
      @prometheuswolf126 4 роки тому +19

      Ace chanting starts*

    • @enbywithcats
      @enbywithcats 4 роки тому +22

      **screams in demiromantic**

    • @SticktheTwig
      @SticktheTwig 4 роки тому +3

      SAME! Hello fellow demi

    • @wellhellothere572
      @wellhellothere572 4 роки тому +3

      Ahaha! Another Demi!

  • @soIeils
    @soIeils 5 років тому +431

    2017 : what is an lgbt+
    2018 : I’m a straight ally! LGBT+ rights!
    2019 : *biromantic asexual screaming*

    • @edeniics
      @edeniics 4 роки тому +17

      😂😂😂
      *cough* asexual agreement *cough*

    • @milesorkilometers7990
      @milesorkilometers7990 4 роки тому +13

      why is this me
      I'm a panromantic asexual

    • @millyhubbard7982
      @millyhubbard7982 4 роки тому +10

      Can I just say thank you to Joan and Talyn for opening all our eyes to this... I thought I was normal (with an inkling that I wasn't) until they started talking about the ace spec. Now I identify as asexual, and this is all down to them two

    • @pandoraleigh3421
      @pandoraleigh3421 4 роки тому +6

      *asexual agreement noises*

    • @erin8432
      @erin8432 4 роки тому +5

      Mood lmao, once I found out about the community there was a solid half a year where I just thought I was a good straight ally and then I suddenly realised that girls are hot as fuck...

  • @_mel_9953
    @_mel_9953 5 років тому +2140

    May: Pride Month (Overture)
    June: Pride Month
    July: Pride Month (Reprise)
    August: Pride Month (Finale)
    Rest of Year: Pride Intermission

    • @nickspicer959
      @nickspicer959 5 років тому +66

      Rest of year: pride month undercover

    • @KennyBye
      @KennyBye 5 років тому +30

      actually, september is when my city’s pride parade is so it’s basically like the encore after the finale for me

    • @Wendy-je9zf
      @Wendy-je9zf 5 років тому +6

      oh, I like you

    • @_mel_9953
      @_mel_9953 5 років тому +1

      Chantel Smith I like this better than what I had originally haha, I’m changing it to this😂

    • @basilblue32
      @basilblue32 5 років тому +2

      YES my Bday month is pride overture

  • @pushpadesilva655
    @pushpadesilva655 5 років тому +466

    "Yeah Joan tried that on me, DIDN'T WORK"
    awwwwww bless y'all

    • @KinjiroTheThunder
      @KinjiroTheThunder 5 років тому +5

      I'm assuming that the context of what they said is that they did NOT reject Joan......?

    • @wynterjoy
      @wynterjoy 4 роки тому

      @@KinjiroTheThunder They're dating 😁

  • @fluffyquartz9668
    @fluffyquartz9668 5 років тому +200

    I saw this and screamed, “THERE’S A SECOND ONE!?!?”

  • @Case.Case.23
    @Case.Case.23 4 роки тому +69

    “Yeah Joan tried that on me,buT IT DIDNT WORK”
    I don’t think anyone could replicate how wholesome those two are,like I seriously love them and their relationship it’s so healthy and adorable-

  • @gachaotaku8200
    @gachaotaku8200 5 років тому +1621

    “That’s interesting because I think I like men.”
    - Terrence 2k19
    TERRENCE STAHP!

    • @ItzzeeA
      @ItzzeeA 4 роки тому +18

      Zìrråh_Büg that was so funny

    • @arandomgeek4876
      @arandomgeek4876 3 роки тому +3

      that was so funny

  • @kshort948
    @kshort948 5 років тому +688

    Thank you for including the talks about asexuality, esp demisexuality. It doesn't get talked about a lot in LGBTQ+ discussions.

    • @ryn6744
      @ryn6744 5 років тому +22

      K Short
      Yeah the asexual and aromantic spectrums don’t really get talked about that much and no where near enough

    • @musicmaniac5246
      @musicmaniac5246 5 років тому +17

      @@ryn6744 Honestly, it's probably due to the exclusion movement. Which is crap, because, well, Aspec people are LGBT+!!! (It's not up for debate y'all). But Aspec identities should be talked about and discussed more, because so many younger teens and young adults get into physical relationships that they may not be entirely comfortable with but y'know, "sex is the norm!" or whatever. It's very frustrating, for me at least (and I'm not even Ace!!! I am the biggest Pansexual out there!!), so I can't imagine how frustrating it is for actual Aspec people.

    • @drewlmao
      @drewlmao 5 років тому +1

      Maybe demi doesn’t get talked about because it’s not lgbt lol

    • @musicmaniac5246
      @musicmaniac5246 5 років тому +9

      andrew something Y...yes it is?? Demi is on the Asexual-Spectrum, which is considered LGBT+.

    • @drewlmao
      @drewlmao 5 років тому +1

      Music Maniac if you’re straight, cis, and you say you only feel sexually attracted to people you have a bond with, that’s not lgbt

  • @chente2707
    @chente2707 5 років тому +281

    The ace/aro conversation made my heart full because my girlfriend is ace (btw i'm a gay female) and we had a conversation about what she was comfortable with doing at the beginning of the relationship and we aren't physical other than the occasional kiss and honestly i'm perfectly fine with it because she's comfortable and happy with it and we are still going strong! (Almost 15 months!!!) She's so lovely and i love her!! Happy pride, even tho it's over pride for ones self and others never ends! Love yourself and others!!!!!!!

    • @crow7611
      @crow7611 4 роки тому +5

      I'm personally aro ace but at a more extreme point to where the thought physically gross me out and those emotions don't click for me it makes me happy to see others who are like me as it makes me feel like i'm not faking

    • @notjamin
      @notjamin 4 роки тому +9

      it makes me so happy to hear about allo people who are in relationships with people on the asexual spectrum because I often worry that being ace will make it impossible for me to find love

    • @salem-01
      @salem-01 4 роки тому

      Chente27
      Happy pride, happy pride

    • @staticscreams4824
      @staticscreams4824 4 роки тому

      @@notjamin yeah I realized I was ace and the guy who had a crush on me was like ew hahaha

    • @thegoldenbro78
      @thegoldenbro78 3 роки тому +1

      It's nice to know others agree that you shouldn't make compromises if I'm not comfortable w/ It then that's that

  • @cas7356
    @cas7356 5 років тому +270

    Joan: I'm Demisexual and Panromantic
    Me: I HAVE THE SAME SEXUALITY AS JOAN HOLY SH---

    • @Hazyla
      @Hazyla 4 роки тому +6

      Small_ Cryptid noice

    • @lillyaske5038
      @lillyaske5038 4 роки тому +4

      Me too!! God, it feels nice for other people to share a sexuality and relate to others

    • @ryanachilles6782
      @ryanachilles6782 4 роки тому +2

      Same! It's so exciting to find other people similar to yourself :)

    • @iamafrog3231
      @iamafrog3231 4 роки тому +4

      Same! I got so excited when they said that they were panromantic because even though I identify as omniromantic it was nice to hear that from someone other than my brain

    • @irenanovotna364
      @irenanovotna364 4 роки тому +4

      It was so lovely to hear, because I identify as Panromantic too and it's amazing to see people like you!

  • @hallinguyen2169
    @hallinguyen2169 5 років тому +1255

    joan: i told people that i had crushes on them for the express purpose of getting rejected so that i could move on.
    talyn: yeah, joan tried that on me, DIDN’T WORK!
    ya’ll i stan their relationship SO MUCH

    • @xavvyr
      @xavvyr 5 років тому +6

      halli nguyen !!!

    • @nicoandcole5624
      @nicoandcole5624 5 років тому +19

      I think we all do

    • @sophie-vx5xf
      @sophie-vx5xf 5 років тому +48

      I shipped them and had no idea they were together (?).

    • @sarmaangel
      @sarmaangel 5 років тому +20

      @@sophie-vx5xf wait are they in a relationship? Cuz for the longest time I thought they were but everyone kept telling me they weren't. Now I'm even more confused

    • @sophie-vx5xf
      @sophie-vx5xf 5 років тому +11

      @@sarmaangel it sounds like it, I'm still confused though

  • @dmay6637
    @dmay6637 5 років тому +490

    Female: "hey I think I like you!"
    *That's interesting because I think I like men*
    (Edit: Thanks for the likes jeez 😂)

  • @LineAro69
    @LineAro69 5 років тому +680

    Me going up to my friend, nervously: Hey... can I be called August instead? And uhh... they/them pronouns please???
    My friend: Oh yeah sure! Is it okay if I correct people if they use the wrong pronouns for you?
    Me, surprised: Wow- YEAH! Yeah totally please do! I don’t think I’d ever ya know... be able to do that myself.
    Her: Aww it’s okay, August. You be you!

    • @ineedaname2064
      @ineedaname2064 5 років тому +42

      Scribbles Darling I love the name August 😍

    • @junoumatie
      @junoumatie 5 років тому +34

      I wanna have a friend like this!!! Im so glad you were able to come out!!
      You do you boo!! 🤗😊

    • @reynbow9841
      @reynbow9841 5 років тому +24

      That was so wholesome and I love that you have such a supportive friend

    • @LineAro69
      @LineAro69 5 років тому +14

      Clare Oswalt thank you so much 😊

    • @LineAro69
      @LineAro69 5 років тому +10

      Marshcream Aw thanks

  • @rowlaskren1282
    @rowlaskren1282 5 років тому +99

    I’m going to cry-
    Gavin is so precious and I can’t

  • @chromixgalaxy3341
    @chromixgalaxy3341 5 років тому +1730

    “That’s interesting because I think I like men. “ -Terrence
    GOODBYE IM W H E E Z I N G
    Edit: wtf where did all these likes come from

    • @tiaw2318
      @tiaw2318 5 років тому +14

      Funniest thing I've heard all day

    • @razamaza1631
      @razamaza1631 5 років тому +20

      Here is the timestamp
      5:21

    • @tiaw2318
      @tiaw2318 5 років тому +12

      @@razamaza1631 I love Thomas' laugh afterwards...its adorable

    • @razamaza1631
      @razamaza1631 5 років тому +10

      XxFanderxX 89 his laugh literally cannot be anything but adorable lol

    • @rachelwalker3017
      @rachelwalker3017 5 років тому +1

      Could you imagine that poor girl's reaction? Instant heartbreak 💔

  • @abbyhens5374
    @abbyhens5374 5 років тому +1946

    Thomas: *posts end of pride month video near end of July*
    This is why Thomas is relatable-

    • @Ghostinaboat
      @Ghostinaboat 5 років тому +6

      Agreed lol

    • @eggbloom7943
      @eggbloom7943 5 років тому +20

      every month is pride month

    • @haydenphoenix1024
      @haydenphoenix1024 5 років тому +22

      @@eggbloom7943 when I explained pride month to my parents they both looked at me and said "isn't every month pride month?"

    • @rinisafool
      @rinisafool 5 років тому +9

      [Everyone liked that]

    • @bobbioleary1266
      @bobbioleary1266 4 роки тому +1

      Thomas said its still pride moth baby

  • @beth6609
    @beth6609 5 років тому +239

    I recently started identifying myself as asexual and I was really unsure of how to bring it up to this guy I'm dating but this video really helped me, so thank you xx

    • @thegoldenbro78
      @thegoldenbro78 3 роки тому +6

      Just bring it up when you feel comfortable w/ it a the time and if be explain it.if he understands then good

    • @alastor1776
      @alastor1776 2 роки тому +1

      Good for you. You go guy gal or non-binary pal

  • @ThePinkiePrince
    @ThePinkiePrince 5 років тому +118

    This actually made me cry. Seeing people I look up to talk about being on the Ace spectrum like me, really means a lot. Thank you for sharing. ❤

  • @aaaa642
    @aaaa642 5 років тому +1006

    “Let’s start with crushes who are real”
    Me: *_thoma-_*

  • @Mud_Pies
    @Mud_Pies 5 років тому +333

    Why am I just now figuring out that Joan and Talyn are a couple?! They are so cute!

    • @xanthewoolrych5904
      @xanthewoolrych5904 5 років тому +30

      so glad it's not just me! They are sooo cute but I swear its never been mentioned before?

    • @cosmicmess489
      @cosmicmess489 5 років тому +17

      I think Joan/Tayln (or both) posted it on one or both of their social media.

    • @oombug1564
      @oombug1564 5 років тому +14

      It was never mentioned on this channel but they've posted on social media and you can see them kiss and stuff in the background of videos

    • @deeznuts-zm9ze
      @deeznuts-zm9ze 5 років тому +6

      Emo Pancake Y E S

    • @lydmilalytvynchuk3915
      @lydmilalytvynchuk3915 5 років тому +5

      Same

  • @dreeraven5838
    @dreeraven5838 5 років тому +16

    “Get tested!”
    This has been a
    GSA
    PSA
    ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @InsideMyHead95
    @InsideMyHead95 5 років тому +34

    Comment: “I thought I was straight until I fell in love with my best friend.”
    Me: “oh MOOD.”
    Comment: “Have any of you had a crush on your best friend?”
    Everyone: *groans of understanding*
    Me: *is validated*
    🤣

  • @olliistrytheirbest4631
    @olliistrytheirbest4631 5 років тому +343

    “we can really relate to one another”
    i literally just pictured 2 people at a pride parade at like 2 ends of the whole group like
    “aaayyyyeee”
    “AAYEEE”
    like pointing finger guns at each other 😂

    • @archerwarren4984
      @archerwarren4984 5 років тому +5

      Like the Spiderman meme lmao?

    • @basilmemories
      @basilmemories 5 років тому +7

      ...that's not how you do it?

    • @quinnmoreno653
      @quinnmoreno653 5 років тому +13

      Finger guns r literally my savour like
      Awkward situation - finger guns
      Telling someone u like them - finger guns
      When u just feel like being extra gay - finger guns

    • @Abbsizzle
      @Abbsizzle 5 років тому +8

      Finger guns are gay culture. Thats just it.

    • @olliistrytheirbest4631
      @olliistrytheirbest4631 5 років тому +3

      Pebble Storm go right ahead

  • @alexisklementis1369
    @alexisklementis1369 5 років тому +541

    Omg I had no idea that Joan was also a demisexual. I am both demi and pan so it means so much to me to know that and have a kind of role model to look to.

    • @osheaj1000
      @osheaj1000 5 років тому +4

      What’s Demisexual?

    • @mialucilas.1031
      @mialucilas.1031 5 років тому +3

      Same

    • @annastraea
      @annastraea 5 років тому +4

      Aw same!! Hearing Joan express that made me so happy!!

    • @teeli.
      @teeli. 5 років тому +4

      Alexis Klementis
      I'm a demi too! Hell yeah!!

    • @phoenixablaze649
      @phoenixablaze649 5 років тому +6

      Agreed! I'm still figuring it out (not having dated anyone doesn't exactly make it easy but hey, what can you do?) but I've got a strong feeling I'm biromantic demisexual. It's really great seeing other people that I look up to that are demisexual as well because you don't see demisexuality as much in modern media as you see other sexual identities on the spectrum. Idk if that made any sense but yeah 😅
      I also just love Joan a lot. Their personality is a lot like mine and their humor is so similar to mine a lot (knowing how much they contributed to DWIT made me really happy 😄).

  • @KeithSomthing
    @KeithSomthing 5 років тому +97

    Why is Terrence such a big mood 😂
    Girl: So I think I might like you.
    Terrence: interesting bc I think I might like men.
    5:13

  • @aeonaf.6923
    @aeonaf.6923 5 років тому +152

    OMG TALYN AND JOAN ARE TOGETHER! I ship it! New ship name either Taloan or Jolyn! Also its technically a gay ship since they are both non-binary!

    • @moyiaalice9447
      @moyiaalice9447 4 роки тому +6

      Aeona F. why does it if have to be a gay ship??

    • @jqyxv244
      @jqyxv244 4 роки тому +1

      @@moyiaalice9447 why you gotta hate on the gays?

    • @moyiaalice9447
      @moyiaalice9447 4 роки тому +9

      •Lil Bear• I’m a lesbian, and it’s kinda weird that it has to either be a gay ship or a straight ship, like it doesn’t matter, their both really cute together

    • @thegoldenbro78
      @thegoldenbro78 3 роки тому

      AAAAAAH

    • @thegoldenbro78
      @thegoldenbro78 3 роки тому

      @@jqyxv244 I don't think that was hate I think it's just the term non-binary,having no gender or being fluid

  • @joysh
    @joysh 5 років тому +81

    "There's so many beautiful people."
    _Joan_

  • @nayararivera1397
    @nayararivera1397 5 років тому +59

    "And she was like, hey, I think I might like you, and I was like, that's interesting because I think I like men" omg yes😂

  • @sabrinafarrar6125
    @sabrinafarrar6125 5 років тому +17

    I’m so glad you included Joan and Talyn’s experiences on the ace spectrum. Aces are very underrepresented, and I almost never hear stories about people like me. It was nice to hear other people’s experiences.

  • @thephandmphamilywithalvefo3307
    @thephandmphamilywithalvefo3307 5 років тому +32

    “And this particular picture of her”
    Thomas: *laughs* *sees the pic and realises how beautiful she is* OOoOoooooO!

  • @brynr2953
    @brynr2953 5 років тому +292

    Seeing so many nonbinary and asexual people in one space is so validating ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @stargazingIdiot
      @stargazingIdiot 5 років тому +8

      Bryn R yessss! talyn and joan with their ace spec escapades. like i already resonated with them both being non-binary and then that?! also chandler has a GOOD sense of style. i wish i had their style

    • @lethalpositivity
      @lethalpositivity 5 років тому +2

      that's why I love this whole freaking group. it makes me know that I'm not the only one in the world who feels this way

    • @lethalpositivity
      @lethalpositivity 5 років тому +4

      stargazingIdiot don't you mean ACECAPADES

    • @bluerosestudios1855
      @bluerosestudios1855 5 років тому +1

      @@lethalpositivity yes.

    • @lilajanick
      @lilajanick 5 років тому +2

      Totally agree. Just hearing people talk about demisexuality in a way where it’s not a sin or it’s not weird or it’s not “not really LGBT” makes me so happy. Bless these people!

  • @Unovakid24
    @Unovakid24 5 років тому +46

    I used to think being trans was so alien, but when my girlfriend taught me that it's totally normal, it really changed my life
    (To be clear, I'm not trans, i just thought the idea of being trans was weird)
    Oh and P.S. Talyn, if you see this, i love your style!

  • @laurens_hamilton_3865
    @laurens_hamilton_3865 4 роки тому +35

    Joan: “-Demisexual-Panromantic-”
    Me: *reads Demi and Panromantic definitions*
    Also me: *“Excuse me.”*
    Me, a previous pansexual: *“oh...that me...”*
    Welp I’ve learned more about myself.

  • @nick-ir2nj
    @nick-ir2nj 5 років тому +689

    They talked about the asexual spectrum so much my gods I'm tearing up.
    It feels so amazing to have the asexual spectrum acknowledged and recognized and having Joan and Talyn talk about how their relationship and them being demisexual and just-
    My panromantic asexual heart is so happy oh my gods.

    • @rayuk666
      @rayuk666 4 роки тому +36

      I think one of the best things about this is the amount of people on the asexual spectrum commenting. It makes me feel like I'm not alone.

    • @nick-ir2nj
      @nick-ir2nj 4 роки тому +22

      @@rayuk666 Same here. People always invalidate the asexual spectrum because it only makes up 1% of the population. But 1% of 7 billion people? That's a lot of people.

    • @damienjohnson7809
      @damienjohnson7809 4 роки тому +11

      Yeah we don’t get much representation which is why when people as big as Thomas talk about the asexual spectrum it’s great for our recognition

    • @charliem.8660
      @charliem.8660 4 роки тому +12

      I’ve always felt really alone with being asexual because a lot of people in my town don’t know what ace is....it’s actually great to see other people relate....

    • @nick-ir2nj
      @nick-ir2nj 4 роки тому +8

      @@charliem.8660 Yeah, it's a sexuality few people know about. I'm glad you found us.

  • @itzkai6539
    @itzkai6539 5 років тому +196

    UA-cam: uploaded 9 minutes ago
    Thomas Sanders Fandom: *1.1k likes*
    Me: yep makes sense but also WTF

  • @fatherlessbehavor
    @fatherlessbehavor 4 роки тому +30

    This video is literally the one that hit me like a rock with me figuring out what I am completely.
    In this video I thought I was ace, but this video showed me I'm demisexual.
    In the last Q & GAY video, I thought I was completely trans, but when everyone was talking, I realized that I'm transgender non-binary.
    Thank you so much! These two videos took off so much stress from me! Love all of you guys, gals and non-binary pals!

    • @thegoldenbro78
      @thegoldenbro78 3 роки тому

      Don't worry I'm still tryna figure out my gender as well

  • @alexanderhamilton5237
    @alexanderhamilton5237 5 років тому +22

    I’m asexual, and I used to have a girlfriend who always wanted to be intimate but I could never tell her I wasn’t comfortable with all that, so we ended it anyway because she thought I was just always so against everything for no reason.
    _so yeah it’s very important to tell them if you aren’t comfortable, i was a dummy and missed that step_

  • @lenaschubert5533
    @lenaschubert5533 5 років тому +279

    i really loved hearing about talyns and joans experience on the ace spectrum!

  • @trashcan3537
    @trashcan3537 5 років тому +971

    Me two years ago
    I’m straight,
    Me last year
    I might be bi
    Me three months ago
    I am definitely bi
    Me now
    ok, here’s the thing...........

    • @themitochondriaisthepowerh2074
      @themitochondriaisthepowerh2074 5 років тому +35

      I’m pretty sure I’m pan

    • @C8te8
      @C8te8 5 років тому +24

      This is so meee omg this is exactly how I am oh my gosh!!! 💙💜💖

    • @Vanderbats
      @Vanderbats 5 років тому +11

      Same

    • @unnaturaldisaster9093
      @unnaturaldisaster9093 5 років тому +14

      Have you been spying on me?

    • @Vanderbats
      @Vanderbats 5 років тому +37

      For me, I thought I was cishet, then I thought genderfluid, then I thought I was cis again, then I thought I was bi, then I realized I was a transguy, then I was like:hmm maybe im not bi, and I'll date guys and NB people, but I have no clue about girls, so for now I'm calling myself queer until I figure it out. Or I am just going to identify with that for eternity. Idk

  • @lydmilalytvynchuk3915
    @lydmilalytvynchuk3915 5 років тому +78

    If you have/had a crush on bff clapp you hand 👏👏

    • @stephanieshaw9081
      @stephanieshaw9081 4 роки тому +1

      👏👏👏👏

    • @londongirl2768
      @londongirl2768 4 роки тому +1

      👏👏👏👏👏

    • @robyngrenside5246
      @robyngrenside5246 4 роки тому +7

      *claps so hard my parents wake up and i get in trouble for being on my laptop at night* (it's fine this didn't actually happen but it almost did

    • @connyramos858
      @connyramos858 4 роки тому

      👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @alec1267
      @alec1267 4 роки тому +2

      *clap clap*
      We knew each other in kindergarten and went to the same school from K-9 and we got close in grade 6-9 then we drifted apart once high school came.
      In those three years of getting close and becoming besties, i found out i was bisexual and i was falling for her.... spoiler alert, shes straight
      I told her a few months ago and she was shocked at first but then she was like "okay cool"

  • @AgentLadyHawkeye
    @AgentLadyHawkeye 4 роки тому +8

    The Ace Awakening is so real and I'm so glad Joan and Talyn talked about that.

  • @tothemaximum115
    @tothemaximum115 5 років тому +658

    Me, an asexual person: *hears them talk about people like me*
    Me: is v happy.
    Edit: omfg thank you all so much for being so nice!

    • @alibryan8572
      @alibryan8572 5 років тому +11

      Omg same!!

    • @bonhll8070
      @bonhll8070 5 років тому +8

      i- IM SO HAPPY!!!!

    • @Rebecca-hm6pw
      @Rebecca-hm6pw 5 років тому +9

      OMG OUR NUMBERS GROW

    • @ragiansteel8944
      @ragiansteel8944 5 років тому +12

      Hello fellow Ace! BTW how y'all feel about Zendya crush cause she made this gay ace fluster a little. She a beautiful cutie with a beautiful personality 😄

    • @terezakostacka3572
      @terezakostacka3572 5 років тому +5

      @@ragiansteel8944 Same here. She's georgous! 😍❤

  • @soap-bubbles
    @soap-bubbles 5 років тому +119

    Only Thomas can post a pride month video a month late. Gotta love them all ❤️

  • @lextheweirdo9063
    @lextheweirdo9063 4 роки тому +7

    Honestly, I could watch hours of the Gaydy bunch

  • @acedisgrace420
    @acedisgrace420 4 роки тому +15

    Fun Fact: I still can't get over Talyns Outfit...it's so fckn gorgeous, help

  • @quinngerber8237
    @quinngerber8237 5 років тому +160

    Me: *is working on a project*
    Thomas: *uploads*
    Me:"well I guess I can just stop working. This seems more important"

  • @TheRibottoStudios
    @TheRibottoStudios 5 років тому +210

    Last time I was this early Virgil hadn't even admitted he was a former dark side yet.

    • @flynn3104
      @flynn3104 5 років тому +5

      Ace Coordinator Mary I choked!! 😂😂

    • @TheRibottoStudios
      @TheRibottoStudios 5 років тому +17

      @@flynn3104 I can't wait to see what's next for our precious bundle of anxiety after THAT reveal lol. If anything happens to virgil we riot lol

    • @nananutdreamers4644
      @nananutdreamers4644 5 років тому +8

      Something is gonna happen to princy I just know it

    • @fignuttenlover7255
      @fignuttenlover7255 5 років тому +2

      To soon dude. To soon lol

    • @eowynnb
      @eowynnb 5 років тому +5

      This wins best comment

  • @martatomasich9048
    @martatomasich9048 5 років тому +29

    all the ace talk helped me so much, I have issues coming to terms with the fact that waiting is okay and this helped a ton. love you all keep doing what you are doing. (side note: I didn't know Joan And Talyn were together cUTE)

  • @nichole4995
    @nichole4995 5 років тому +10

    Can I just say that I started crying when they talked about being on the aspec? It was so comforting to hear someone say it's okay to not be comfortable with dating and that sorta thing. Thank you Joan and Talyn

  • @smurchison2
    @smurchison2 5 років тому +355

    I clicked at the speed of light

  • @Yknow6404
    @Yknow6404 5 років тому +221

    I was just saying how I could use some more gay in my life... and here we are :)

  • @toad_iscrying8184
    @toad_iscrying8184 5 років тому +12

    I was really happy that aspecs were brought because I am biromantic asexual and sometimes get excluded or forgotten about.

  • @stooki5879
    @stooki5879 5 років тому +12

    joan and talyn are the cutest couple i've ever seen

  • @hamstercrochet3005
    @hamstercrochet3005 5 років тому +185

    Oh my gosh I commented something, and then when I posted it.
    AND THEN THE VIDEO STARTED PLAYING AND IT SCARED ME WITH THE LOUD
    “WHAT IS UP EVERYBODY!”

  • @echoashenko
    @echoashenko 5 років тому +434

    I feel so very relieved to hear Joan talk about their experience as part of the asexual spectrum...! I was a little bit upset by the lack of representation of asexuals in general medias recently, mostly because it is reallly hard to find relatable experiences to my own and hearing them and Talin talk about it made me feel included in the lgbtq+ community which is super important to me.
    Soooo....yeah. Thank you so much for the add on !

    • @60sire
      @60sire 4 роки тому +2

      You should always feel welcomed in the LGBTQ+ community! No matter what sexuality or gender!

    • @pancon9947
      @pancon9947 4 роки тому +2

      I've always wondered if joan was ace because of their ring i was wondering if it was an ace ring

    • @mammoneymelon
      @mammoneymelon 4 роки тому +1

      @@pancon9947 omg hallelujah someone recognized it

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 4 роки тому +2

      I was wondering that too! I’m asexual and have been researching a lot about LGBTQ+ (hi welcome to Christian households) because I didn’t understand it. That’s the whole reason I have learned what I have. Watching this has shown that there isn’t just oppression and all the bad.

    • @AroaceChicken
      @AroaceChicken 4 роки тому +2

      i"m a demisexual and I get excited to find other demi's

  • @garbageboitm7960
    @garbageboitm7960 5 років тому +142

    CAN I JUST SAY BECAUSE OF JOAN AND TALYN TALKING ABOUT BEING ON THE ASEXUAL SPECTRUM I REALIZED THAT IM ACE
    HAVE A NICE DAY AND THANK YOU FOR COMING TO MY TED TALK
    Also instead of calling it a QnA they could have called it a QnGAY or a QUEERnA OR A QUEERnGAY

    • @salem-01
      @salem-01 4 роки тому +4

      Semi Gay They QueerNGay. That’s beautiful

    • @SeerOfTime577
      @SeerOfTime577 3 роки тому +2

      Semi Gay They One of us, one of us~ ;) That’s awesome, though!

    • @demonprincess5714
      @demonprincess5714 3 роки тому +2

      Awwwww that's great

    • @aberteau2
      @aberteau2 3 роки тому +1

      Lgbtq&a

  • @sammy38215
    @sammy38215 5 років тому +18

    You see, I love this. Best way to deal with this. They felt they didn't include what was necessary, and they just dealt with this without making to much of a big deal. Plus I'm happy to get more gaydy bunch content

  • @blueberrymoons5806
    @blueberrymoons5806 5 років тому +80

    Me : sees gay in title
    Me : *this will be good*

  • @sarahp6512
    @sarahp6512 5 років тому +112

    Thank you for taking the time to share the ace-spec conversation. It's so important and it means a lot to me.

  • @YveL96
    @YveL96 3 роки тому +7

    Talyn: Feminine Non-Binary
    Joan: Masculine Non-Binary
    Chandler: Right in the middle

  • @DinoBandit394
    @DinoBandit394 5 років тому +8

    Have I just been COMPLETELY blind to the Joan/Talyn relationship, coz I had NO IDEA but also, am not surprised

  • @mackenziebennett755
    @mackenziebennett755 5 років тому +72

    Thank you so much for acknowledging asexuality. I realized I was ace (and mostly aro) a little while ago and seeing people I look up to talk about their experiences makes me feel very validated. Love you guys so much.

  • @PracticallyAPenguin
    @PracticallyAPenguin 5 років тому +99

    Awww... The note Gavin wrote was adorable!
    Also. Not to be weird but why are all of you so attractive?! It's not fair. Love yall!❤💛💙🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @phoebeh1966
    @phoebeh1966 4 роки тому +8

    Joan: *mentions Queen Latifah*
    Me: YESSSS QUEEEN LATIFAH!!

  • @imc4roline98
    @imc4roline98 5 років тому +6

    Love how Tayln has a metal straw, save the turtles everybody

  • @arrowwood
    @arrowwood 5 років тому +261

    [Edit For Those Who Don't Read Replies: Talyn's UA-cam channel is tallycat 3, go check them out!]
    JESUS TALYN! PLEASE TEACH ME YOUR MAGICAL MAKEUP AND FASHION WAYS.

    • @phoenixablaze649
      @phoenixablaze649 5 років тому +16

      Ikr! I love how Talyn does their makeup, their hair, everything! I just love their style altogether!

    • @Alison.taylor.c
      @Alison.taylor.c 5 років тому +12

      Right?! How are they just the most beautiful human lol

    • @alik9783
      @alik9783 5 років тому +4

      Is it just me or does Talyn's hair look more blue in the closer shots?

    • @nicoandcole5624
      @nicoandcole5624 5 років тому +2

      SERIOUSLY!!!

    • @jackiegonzalez6814
      @jackiegonzalez6814 5 років тому +2

      ACTUALLY I NEED THAT ICONIC LOOK

  • @frankmyiero6577
    @frankmyiero6577 5 років тому +60

    nobody:
    literally nobody:
    Thomas Sanders: (joke about puns) q and gay

    • @cookiesyruplover
      @cookiesyruplover 5 років тому +2

      omg if you didn't point it out I would've missed this!!! XD

  • @bookstosky
    @bookstosky 5 років тому +6

    That acespec talk was so nice and helpful !! Thank you Thomas, thank you to everyone for being so open with us !

  • @kaitenunicorn783
    @kaitenunicorn783 4 роки тому +9

    I feel so validated hearing about Joan’s and Talyn’s experience. I am also non-binary and on the ace spectrum. For the longest time, I just tried to have relationships and be intimate with people just because it was what I thought society expected me to do. I wasn’t ready and I hated it and I hurt myself and other people because of it. At one point, I thought I was going to be alone the rest of my life, because I felt like no one really understood me. Just lately, I found someone I really like and care about. They’re the most wonderful being and they’re also on the ace spectrum. We just started pursuing a relationship, it’s all very new but I couldn’t be more happy. Seeing another non binary, ace spec couple being happy and perfectly comfortable with who they are made my heart flutter and makes me hope for the future. Thank you ❤️ -Zal

  • @Syk5
    @Syk5 5 років тому +117

    My bi + ace spectrum little heart is so so happy right now ❤️💛💚💙💜

    • @beanie_babe_xo6799
      @beanie_babe_xo6799 5 років тому +1

      EY SAME!!!!! ♡♡♡♡♡

    • @Syk5
      @Syk5 5 років тому

      Luna_does_Makeup_ 22 eeyyyyyy 👉🏻👉🏻

    • @beanie_babe_xo6799
      @beanie_babe_xo6799 5 років тому +1

      Syk eyyyyyyyyyy 👈🏽👈🏽

    • @Maya-pl1iy
      @Maya-pl1iy 5 років тому +1

      Same here too!

  • @Ari-uk9bg
    @Ari-uk9bg 5 років тому +71

    This entire video called me out.
    Also Joan be out here making me cry

  • @littleman4613
    @littleman4613 5 років тому +29

    My friend outed me to the most popular person in class. He’s my best friend and I get frustrated about it to this day

    • @millyhubbard7982
      @millyhubbard7982 4 роки тому +3

      Just know that there are people who accept you, and if you need to talk I'll be here

    • @toastycafe
      @toastycafe 3 роки тому +1

      I’m really sorry that happened to you. It’s valid to get upset over things that happened some time ago.

  • @thetardisisblue1110
    @thetardisisblue1110 5 років тому +16

    THANK YOU for talking about asexuality
    just thank you :')

  • @ghostieswag8159
    @ghostieswag8159 5 років тому +178

    This makes me so happy- especially about the asexual spec things that helped me a lot. Thank you Thomas and company 💜💙

  • @ailurusky
    @ailurusky 5 років тому +12

    "Joan tried that on me! (confessing to get rejected) Didn't work!"
    omg they are so adorable together ahhh

  • @koansinor3867
    @koansinor3867 4 роки тому +6

    Oh my god thank you so much for bringing up"pan romantic" I have been struggling with the fact that I have never had sexual feelings for anyone but had always had romantic attractions, and once I heard this it just clicked for me.

  • @Yourfriendlyghostpal
    @Yourfriendlyghostpal 5 років тому +26

    Why everyone so pretty #prideinjuly
    ( zenda is yas btw ) I love these because it helped me think about my life from different points of view

  • @itsabelle_arts
    @itsabelle_arts 5 років тому +30

    “That's interesting because I think I might like men” MOOD

  • @raetheloner1796
    @raetheloner1796 5 років тому +95

    ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤For the Gaydy Bunch

  • @el2617
    @el2617 5 років тому +18

    JOAN IS ON THE ACE SPECTRUM!!! I AM SO HAPPY SOMEONE IS!!! I am Graysexual and Pantomantic. THOMAS!!, do you think maybe that you could have everyone say where they are on the spectrum. BUT only if they are comfortable!! I love you all!!!!😘

    • @thegoldenbro78
      @thegoldenbro78 3 роки тому +1

      Wait,if he's ace,and you are,and I am...
      THEN WHOS GIVIN A FRICK

    • @el2617
      @el2617 3 роки тому

      Completely forgot about this comment, but it turns out I'm actually an Ace and Agender Lesbian soooo. growth

    • @thegoldenbro78
      @thegoldenbro78 3 роки тому

      @@el2617 good for you,grow

  • @kathleenmacaulay3928
    @kathleenmacaulay3928 4 роки тому +7

    2017: discovers lgbtq 2018: is straight af 2019: still straight 2020: asexual genderfluid and bisexual

  • @R0Y4L_T
    @R0Y4L_T 5 років тому +114

    Friendo it’s July 22nd
    Y- whatever.
    Let him do what he wants.

  • @hamham6640
    @hamham6640 5 років тому +189

    I needed this! My father is anti-lgbt+ and I’m questioning my gender and pan so yeah.

    • @KitKat-bb9tn
      @KitKat-bb9tn 5 років тому +14

      Dumb Trash Also Virgil be proud of who you are and don’t let your dad bring you down ;)

    • @hamham6640
      @hamham6640 5 років тому +4

      Fuxy Butterz I’m trying my best. Thanks for the advice (or whatever you wanna call it)!

    • @darkpawswalking1238
      @darkpawswalking1238 5 років тому

      Dumb Trash Also Virgil MOOOOOOD

    • @KitKat-bb9tn
      @KitKat-bb9tn 5 років тому +1

      Dumb Trash Also Virgil and that’s enough :)

    • @n4t347
      @n4t347 5 років тому

      Actually same

  • @jessicabrown4371
    @jessicabrown4371 5 років тому +4

    Thank you so much for uploading this. Talyn and Joan’s ace experience is so similar to my own experience and I feel so validated and understood. I still feel uncomfortable with my identity sometimes, but this helps a lot. 💜🖤

  • @kirbyblade2238
    @kirbyblade2238 5 років тому +4

    im really glad you uploaded this as an aspec person (ace and aro) i already really looked up to joan but this video just kinda furthered that. i really relate to a lot of what joan and talyn said.

  • @mollyfisherman7597
    @mollyfisherman7597 5 років тому +300

    Ahhh literally clicked as soon as I saw because these make me so happy please do more of these ♥️🌈

  • @kaylarosado9163
    @kaylarosado9163 5 років тому +41

    This is a letter for thomas and his friends:
    Thank you so much for uploading and making me smile, i know you probably wont see this which is okay, i just want to at least try to tell you how grateful i am for you guys.
    Ive been feeling rather in the dumps today, you uploading has already made me smile.
    please keep up all the good work, i know a bunch of people who love it
    thank you guys so much,
    im sorry the letter is so small, i will update it.

  • @chloe5688
    @chloe5688 5 років тому +3

    THE LENNY FACE THAT GAVIN DREW HAS ME SCREAMING

  • @pumpthebreaksprinceyyt759
    @pumpthebreaksprinceyyt759 4 роки тому +5

    “If you don’t have a crush on zendaya I don’t know what to tell ya”
    Thomas over here: *screams in gay*

  • @sarinabuell5854
    @sarinabuell5854 5 років тому +98

    Everything could be gayer, Thomas... Everything. And it’s not even that late, it’s only like 10:30 for me

    • @cosmicmess489
      @cosmicmess489 5 років тому +2

      Sarina Buell Maybe because slightly altered time-zones between Florida and *insert the state/place your living in right now*

    • @aeonaf.6923
      @aeonaf.6923 5 років тому +2

      @@cosmicmess489 HE UPLOADED TH IS AT 1 AM! IM IN HIS SAME TIME ZONE!

    • @sarinabuell5854
      @sarinabuell5854 5 років тому +1

      Oh my gosh Thomas is clearly not following Logan’s instructions for a proper, healthy sleep schedule lol

  • @melanienavarro372
    @melanienavarro372 5 років тому +55

    I am so glad to hear people from the Ace- Spectrum. It really helps me 💜🖤💜

    • @blakejeffries3365
      @blakejeffries3365 5 років тому +3

      I have no ding dang idea hi friend!! Fellow ace here 😂 hope ur day is going well!

    • @melanienavarro372
      @melanienavarro372 5 років тому +3

      @@blakejeffries3365 Nice to meet a fellow ace 💜🖤💜 Have a great day too

    • @nikiq04
      @nikiq04 5 років тому +3

      Ikr- it's so nice!!

    • @lonelyforestfae
      @lonelyforestfae 5 років тому +1

      Same here!!!

  • @sabrinakirchner242
    @sabrinakirchner242 3 роки тому +6

    I know that no one will see this, but I still want to post it.
    Watching this video when it came out was the first time I heard about the Ace Spec. I didn’t think about it for a long time. A couple months ago I started questioning my sexuality. For a few months I thought I might be bi. I was reintroduced to the term ace by a few other UA-cam videos, I don’t know which ones though. A few weeks ago, I realized I’m ace.
    Thank you for talking about the ace spec in this video and introducing me to the term for the first time.

  • @mykielhawke6685
    @mykielhawke6685 5 років тому +27

    My friend came out to me at church camp and she's 3 years younger than me and I love her to death. I told my gay friend I had feelings for him and were best friends :3
    AND I am a genderqueer panromantic asexual if it exists :3

  • @avilaw6396
    @avilaw6396 5 років тому +78

    Clicking at the speed of gay
    OMG!!!!! Everyone who liked this just made my day!!!❤️💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈

    • @fignuttenlover7255
      @fignuttenlover7255 5 років тому

      It's faster then light TBH

    • @avilaw6396
      @avilaw6396 5 років тому +1

      Fignuttenlover7 of course it is, just needs a bit of time to get into the textbooks

    • @fignuttenlover7255
      @fignuttenlover7255 5 років тому +1

      @@avilaw6396 jets will be going at the speed of gay and behind in the smoke trails it will be rainbows

    • @avilaw6396
      @avilaw6396 5 років тому

      Fignuttenlover7 that's a great idea!

    • @fignuttenlover7255
      @fignuttenlover7255 5 років тому

      @@avilaw6396 thank you! But honestly *it could be gayer*