How To Love and Heal Yourself

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  • @NotReallyRebecca
    @NotReallyRebecca 11 місяців тому +201

    "Youre never by yourself, youre with yourself" i really love that

    • @aaronmyrie
      @aaronmyrie 7 місяців тому +4

      Love this! This man has some killer quotes!

    • @padmehrkordlar3699
      @padmehrkordlar3699 7 місяців тому +4

      Really love the quote

  • @joeftheloaf2561
    @joeftheloaf2561 11 місяців тому +130

    Been dealing with this shit these past couple months, it's ended my relationships and put me in a depression. I found this channel, started therapy and read Tuesdays with Morrie. Life is hard but it is so very good, I'm glad to have this life and every experience in it.

    • @whokilledmercy1497
      @whokilledmercy1497 11 місяців тому +4

      we're sitting in the same boat

    • @Havetosucceed
      @Havetosucceed 11 місяців тому +2

      I have been dealing with this for a phew years now tryna get better tho.

  • @han7014
    @han7014 11 місяців тому +36

    Ur gon go big I can feel it

  • @JR-hf6ud
    @JR-hf6ud 11 місяців тому +47

    Truly appreciate you. Growing up in a toxic household not learning how to handle situations or approach them just feeling disconnected with my parents your videos help me work on myself.

  • @AlexandraSalpi
    @AlexandraSalpi 11 місяців тому +44

    bro you literally work on your channel a lot

    • @eugenef0zzy
      @eugenef0zzy 11 місяців тому +11

      Fastest growth and production quality, consistency I’ve witnessed in a UA-camr

  • @festivefish1103
    @festivefish1103 10 місяців тому +6

    This video made me cry so much, thank you profoundly

  • @jearbear.
    @jearbear. 11 місяців тому +12

    hey man you probably won’t see this but i really needed your videos they helped me a lot man i’ve struggled loving myself and i perceived myself as a horrible person because of the past but i know im not perfect

  • @sassosama
    @sassosama 11 місяців тому +35

    Brother this is exactly the video I needed today, thank you, really

  • @staypositive738
    @staypositive738 11 місяців тому +5

    30 year old here and I can feel everything you said because I’m dealing with a lot but physically I take care of myself it’s just other things like finances and wanting to give my kids a better lifestyle just feel like I’m failing but I keep going

  • @theofficialgod
    @theofficialgod 11 місяців тому +16

    you know i always come on here and listen to davis and makes me feel better . honestly, i sometimes always feel like a lose with all this love thing and connection to/with people. makes me act scenes in my head and this ends up fucking me up. not even google really helps with nothing. i hope someday i will be able to fully function without looking at myself as a less-of-a-person to other 'cool' guys out here. man, it is difficult when nobody knows you but you and you cannot help them understand you. but thanks davis. since i discovered you, i try as much as i can to work on myself. and even though somedays i fail, i hope i will see a happier me when i get at the finish line look back and thank myself for all i did for myself.
    life... here we go again.

  • @adelineproverbs3139
    @adelineproverbs3139 5 місяців тому +4

    This young man’s words hit so deep. Such wisdom. There’s such healing in your voice. I pray God bless you to help many people🙏🏾🥰

  • @xlacix3091
    @xlacix3091 11 місяців тому +8

    Man I love you and I love me I wish I can hug you thru this screen I needed this, it felt like I was having a conversation with a friend that gets exactly how I feel knows how to help me find the things I simply can't find myself, thru the negatives. The positive light that helps me find the positive thru the negative and I love you for that, thank you so much, I got this ❤😊

  • @exitus0561
    @exitus0561 11 місяців тому +9

    Damn shimon, I've been struggling with trying to get in a relationship with a girl for the past weeks, I struggle to express my feelings the right way, as I have insecurities whether I look good enough, social skills etc... Because of you and your vids, I always remind myself that this is the first time I'm trying to do this and that I'm just a human, yeah, wish me luck I guess, and thank you, the first video I saw from you popped up at my lowest, and it really helped me.

  • @paddyyyyyyyyyyyy
    @paddyyyyyyyyyyyy 11 місяців тому +12

    Appreciate this, I always feel like I'm coasting through life and not working towards anything. Looking at decisions from the perspective of "is this helping me?" seems valuable and I'm going to implement this in my life.

  • @mopthefloorrr
    @mopthefloorrr 11 місяців тому +7

    This video made me shed my first tear since things went downhill, I love you man❤ you have my respect.

  • @ErasylLaFlame
    @ErasylLaFlame Місяць тому +2

    Me and my girlfriend broke up 4days ago,we are in the same class everyday and seeing her having fun with the other boys and with her friends while im feeling heart broken really hurts.Not gonna lie seeing her having fun with other boys makes me jealous and it hurts,it really hurts cause i still love her.I lost my all the intention for the things i love doing. Im feeling really empty since day we broke up.I dont have anyone to talk about this and it is really hard.She was everything i needed, i had but now i lost her.I really love playing basketball and playing basketball makes me forget every problem that i have.Bball is my therapy for real.But right now it’s november and it is really cold outside and i dont have an open gym to play. So i dont know what to do.I feel lost.I think i can pass through this pain and heartbreak in one day.But it is really hard right now i think just need some time.

    • @TL-jl9iz
      @TL-jl9iz 10 днів тому +1

      Im sorry to hear about your break up and it sucks that she’s in the same class with you and you still see her everyday . I want to let you know that once one door closed , another will open. It’ll take some time - everything takes time and YOU WILL GET THROUGH IT !. Trust. Don’t be so hard on yourself . Better things are coming your way .
      I see that you like basketball - You can always layer up your clothing and play basketball outside because you will eventually work up a sweat ! how about playing a video game like NBA2k or go to an arcade? Perhaps google the closest sport complex near you ? Maybe be more open and try new things you’ve been curious about ? The sky is the limit ! Don’t be afraid to try new things , put yourself out there !

  • @FwDaxx
    @FwDaxx 11 місяців тому +6

    only recently found out about this channel and its help me improve so much, to the point where i was able to fix myself and even get my first job interview today 🤞

  • @danei1020
    @danei1020 11 місяців тому +11

    Hey man, I am taking a time to write this! Since I started watching your videos my life and my perspective has changed completely. I am learning how to love my self and figuring out what causes was leading me to make me feel the way I feel. After a while people started to notice that changed and in order to help them too I shared what I learned from this pure and real guy and even showed them his videos, which by the way the loved and even got started in their journy of their own development! Man, I just wanted to thank you for sharing your knowledge and experiences, which we can all relate, and help us throughout this crazy thing called life bro! Don't ever stop doing this! God bless bro❤️

  • @gkdsoldier-xo
    @gkdsoldier-xo 11 місяців тому +2

    Going thru a breakup from 2 days ago, your videos are helping a ton. I just wish I knew this sooner so I wouldn’t have been the reason my girl dipped. But I’m learning a lot, so much. Appreciate you

  • @weiyuan20
    @weiyuan20 11 місяців тому +12

    Thanks Shimon. I really needed this today. I was on the verge of losing. Thank you so much.

  • @papa_bliss
    @papa_bliss 11 місяців тому +5

    i can't really express how grateful i am to you for the work you are doing, this stuff will actually help people

  • @Mysticbarbie_
    @Mysticbarbie_ Місяць тому

    Thank you so much I needed this reassurance…I’m crying watching this but as I wipe away my tears I realize the pain I’m feelings is temporary it’s up to me to fill this cup up with love
    Thanks for sharing

  • @olivers.can.of.olives3139
    @olivers.can.of.olives3139 3 місяці тому

    I love the perspective he gives on life but I also love this comment section seeing all this ppl wanting to grow is so encouraging

  • @Mermydon021
    @Mermydon021 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for this. I am in a dark place and have been for a while. I have been consistently working on myself and everything has gotten harder and hopeless. I am going to keep moving forward and appreciate your words.

  • @mimhanziyaChenge
    @mimhanziyaChenge 4 місяці тому

    You're healing hearts and souls with every moving second and frame of every motion picture you post on here bro. I appreciate you and it's all love from me

  • @rakeimtanner4449
    @rakeimtanner4449 11 місяців тому +4

    Respectfully, the name of the idea of self-love is a misinterpretation. The idea is right, but it should be called "self-love." You're the only soul in your body. You'll go crazy having conflicts or interactions with imaginary versions of you.
    Its like saying water needs to moisturize itself, when in actuality, you just need to take out the things that dry you out from within, whether you were directly belittled or berated or whether you indirectly fostered an inferior mindset from media, society, expectations, etc.
    We inevitably pick up on negative things that mostly will not serve us in the long run (unless you're able to cautiously utilize that negativity). Yet, it's always our responsibility to sift out those drying agents sucking the joy out of our lives if we demand a better quality of life.
    Awesome video!

  • @AthleticCoast81
    @AthleticCoast81 11 місяців тому +95

    Hes back lezgo

  • @Harry10016
    @Harry10016 11 місяців тому +6

    Keep it up king really good to hear Your voice I think I am at the point where I am about become better person matter fact I am a better person ❤️

  • @fredcomms_
    @fredcomms_ 9 місяців тому

    Man you're one of the wiser people i've ever saw online, thank you for the videos you make, they help a lot and they help a lot of people man

  • @GoddestPitcher
    @GoddestPitcher 5 місяців тому +1

    (FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Healing g is Unlearning of Stories Eu have Told you Urself and about Urself that Destroyed Ur Sphere-it

  • @slhuks
    @slhuks 11 місяців тому +3

    i just seen your acc and i love your advice bro you really changed how i view things and how others do to. thank you

  • @lavlav20302
    @lavlav20302 8 місяців тому

    i’m 13 years old and going through my first real heart break and shimon is helping me more than anyone right now

  • @thehealtrix
    @thehealtrix 11 місяців тому +2

    You really have to be the change you want to see…amazing perspective shift✨👏🏽

  • @brunorodrigues6735
    @brunorodrigues6735 11 місяців тому +1

    Man, Shimon always coming up with the best content at the best moment, needed that today, tks for the video, much love❤
    The tribe is on the rise

  • @aaryabhardwaj9255
    @aaryabhardwaj9255 11 місяців тому

    Every video i learn something new, you are a blessing to me in this time of need man, thank you

  • @mannequinwithadinosaurhead
    @mannequinwithadinosaurhead 11 місяців тому

    i just found you shimon a couple weeks ago & although i’m a girl, i still truly appreciate your content. you’re helping so many people, keep it up! 🖤

  • @AnthonyGarcia-uv6vz
    @AnthonyGarcia-uv6vz 2 місяці тому

    Thank you brother , this is what I needed to hear , it’s been so long

  • @milanardito9249
    @milanardito9249 11 місяців тому +1

    This video is a real gift, thanks for your work 🙏

  • @nathansantiago4820
    @nathansantiago4820 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this video, one of the most realist videos I’ve ever watched. Much love to you bro, God bless you!

  • @GeorgeHope-s4h
    @GeorgeHope-s4h 11 місяців тому +2

    Really making a positive impact on my life big brother

  • @James-z5q1t
    @James-z5q1t 2 місяці тому

    Well said!!!! I love you my friend thanks for sharing. I needed this today!!

  • @dominiquehorton4100
    @dominiquehorton4100 5 місяців тому

    Your like the family member I never had but needed

  • @Chris-zs9uu
    @Chris-zs9uu 11 місяців тому

    Since I've been watching his videos I've been growing and changing ❤

  • @VW-emann
    @VW-emann 11 місяців тому

    The way you restructured the idea in the beginning was high quality

  • @kingeone1574
    @kingeone1574 11 місяців тому

    dude thank so much your videos have been helpiing me through the hardest chapter in my life this far your videos give me hope. hope that i will make it i can do this and i already have thank you so much.

  • @milleraminmusic
    @milleraminmusic 5 місяців тому

    congrats on 400k man, i love you ❤️

  • @shereses.3298
    @shereses.3298 10 днів тому

    I wish me and this gentleman could have a conversation in person

  • @patterpie7940
    @patterpie7940 11 місяців тому +1

    beautiful reminder, didn’t know I needed it right now

  • @DanielManzo-qf7zf
    @DanielManzo-qf7zf 7 місяців тому

    Scary how accurate u are

  • @officialemrahcan1652
    @officialemrahcan1652 4 місяці тому

    Thank u hope this advice will hjelp me out and Are solution to my problem and inner feeling of sadness

  • @channelization3796
    @channelization3796 4 місяці тому

    You be spittin game foreal bro. Shout out to you❤

  • @ankitsaha7732
    @ankitsaha7732 11 місяців тому

    Thanks simon. I was very tired of myself now I will now self reflect myself with this video

  • @Chewchew-n4j
    @Chewchew-n4j 2 місяці тому

    If you haven’t already, could you make a video of how to remove or better a self sabotaging mindset? For some reason, I get the sudden urge to completely ruin my life by continuously choosing the wrong choices and even starting new horrible habits I would’ve never thought I’d ever do (vaping, smoking, worsening my ed, etc.) I have enough discipline to stop myself from doing anything but some times it’s hard to fight it off. I’m not sure what else to do.

  • @ThatOn3Nova
    @ThatOn3Nova 2 місяці тому

    I love you too Shimon! Also, I’m 20 and in Indy. Just throwing that out there 😊💜

  • @bestsony4933
    @bestsony4933 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m the most lonely guy on planet earth, lost my dad at age 3 and my mom abandoned me and my sister at 7, no friends and when I got a friend she made me feel more lonely because she just disappeared from my life I’ve been looking for her 60 days now 😞

    • @xx-fw1lv
      @xx-fw1lv 2 місяці тому

      I feel sorry for you man

  • @Jaurmaurmaur
    @Jaurmaurmaur 11 місяців тому +1

    Hey Shimon, really loved this video it hit deep and helped me with some stuff. Do you think you could make a video on how to deal with anxiety? Sometimes I feel like my nerves get in the way of me really being myself around people. Something I and I'm sure many other people could some help with.

  • @okboofboi9579
    @okboofboi9579 11 місяців тому

    The tribe is on the rise 200k soon

  • @malicksow6120
    @malicksow6120 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, really needed to hear this 🙏🏽

  • @LwandileChronicles22
    @LwandileChronicles22 11 місяців тому +1

    U never disappoint with your videos sharing common and good advice .Thanks bro u always make my day ❤😎😁

  • @JaskhoTheDriver
    @JaskhoTheDriver 10 місяців тому

    Peace and love brother

  • @adrianoestanqueiro414
    @adrianoestanqueiro414 11 місяців тому +1

    Love your vibe and content you make the conversation so relatable
    Love from Luxembourg

  • @fridge9308
    @fridge9308 10 місяців тому

    your videos always calm my mind man, thanks alot great advice as usual

  • @cozytherapy7771
    @cozytherapy7771 11 місяців тому

    damn im only 8 mins in and sobbing
    edit: I said I loved myself out loud and my mom was like " wow you're so selfish" even tho i tried to tell her loving yourself means that you just value, respect and honor yourself. sheesh, I'm trying my very best though to love myself and not let anything get me down :') I bet that I'll come back to this video again soon tho. I'm gonna start regulating my emotions and taking track of how i truly feel to work on those inner healings I need thanks man I really needed you. laterally manifested this talk last night by just asking out loud for someone to educate me on this type of healing.

  • @redterminate
    @redterminate 11 місяців тому +1

    thanks for everything you've done for us, Shimon Davis.

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  11 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for listening

  • @dhivyadharshini2083
    @dhivyadharshini2083 Місяць тому

    Thank you for this video i needed to hear this ❤️

  • @danield7065
    @danield7065 11 місяців тому +1

    I love your videos bro, THANK YOU SO MUCH❤

  • @maisiow
    @maisiow 8 місяців тому

    Not even 10 seconds into the video n u get me crying

  • @nomadzeilo
    @nomadzeilo 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, king.

  • @mightyyoshiyt6772
    @mightyyoshiyt6772 11 місяців тому

    We need to get this man to 1 mil

  • @D.schmoke
    @D.schmoke 11 місяців тому

    You know, your content is good when I let BOTH the ads play. Go off

  • @happier5448
    @happier5448 11 місяців тому

    I really love your videos. Been binge watching them like it’s Netflix. Can you make a video about comparing looks to others? I struggle really hard with this to stop it’s like an addiction 😔

  • @palakmehta365
    @palakmehta365 9 місяців тому +1

    You're my voice of reason

  • @YASİNERSİNAYKAÇ
    @YASİNERSİNAYKAÇ 11 місяців тому

    It has reminded me one of the Malcolm x speeches you know he said who taught you to hate yourself it was impressive

  • @iz_gutz
    @iz_gutz 2 місяці тому

    bro you pointed everything out

  • @formysanity6428
    @formysanity6428 25 днів тому

    ❤new comfort video thank u❤

  • @Aceface332
    @Aceface332 3 місяці тому

    Thankyou so much I neeeeeded thiss baddd

  • @nicolamerlini4128
    @nicolamerlini4128 11 місяців тому

    Your videos are great but i would add a bit of music. While listening to your wise words I heard a song playing on the radio and it matched perfectly the feelings you were sharing and it felt like a perfect moment. :)

  • @fuad71031
    @fuad71031 11 місяців тому +1

    Love you too brah

  • @bigslime9418
    @bigslime9418 11 місяців тому +2

    Love the videos ❤

  • @fateshow5303
    @fateshow5303 11 місяців тому

    Man this hit hard.

  • @Superspeedbunny46
    @Superspeedbunny46 10 місяців тому

    thx jimi hendrix

  • @jered7634
    @jered7634 10 місяців тому

    thanks shimon davis

  • @asmaamc3344
    @asmaamc3344 10 місяців тому

    You are changing meee 🥹🥹🥹♥️♥️♥️

  • @BaMbAm95271
    @BaMbAm95271 11 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this dude

  • @samuelreigner932
    @samuelreigner932 Місяць тому

    love these videos ❤

  • @babooska48
    @babooska48 11 місяців тому

    Thank you bro ❤️

  • @Ryanlynn222
    @Ryanlynn222 10 місяців тому

    You speaking ❤❤❤

  • @LoydBakker
    @LoydBakker 11 місяців тому

    This one helps out a lot 🙌

  • @nickshafer7428
    @nickshafer7428 2 місяці тому

    Thanks

  • @astrox2713
    @astrox2713 11 місяців тому

    Hi bro, i'm a young 14 y.o. boy and I really love your videos. I think It would be a great video idea to "teach" us guys to talk with random girls to become Friends with them . I Hope you read this comment, and if you do, Remember that you Will Always have my support!

  • @johnrainsman6650
    @johnrainsman6650 10 місяців тому

    Oh, yeah? Try me. My ASD made me make mistakes so many times. I once heard a guy say people with ASD were inferior human beings with inferior minds and personalities.

  • @mevizyn
    @mevizyn 11 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @daonedontneedaton
    @daonedontneedaton 11 місяців тому

    thank you.

  • @aaronmyrie
    @aaronmyrie 7 місяців тому

    Yo Shimon, whats good? What's been a couple of your favourite books to read for loving yourself? Sounds like you read

  • @oo-oi5sy
    @oo-oi5sy 11 місяців тому

    love u bro

  • @chenzea7668
    @chenzea7668 11 місяців тому

    Thanks you

  • @TheKeryI
    @TheKeryI 10 місяців тому

    Please i need to know that background music, its so calm and chill. Id love to listen to it : D
    can anyone help ?

  • @CameronPorter-t1n
    @CameronPorter-t1n 5 місяців тому

    Hey man, im dealing with overthinking and thinking my partner might cheat on me and i was hoping you could help me

  • @FEYONE
    @FEYONE 11 місяців тому

    great vid!

  • @jamieaboytes105
    @jamieaboytes105 11 місяців тому

    i love your videos