J.Howell - Why You Hurting Me (Official Video)
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- Опубліковано 19 тра 2021
- "After the passing of my grandma, I needed to write a song that channeled the pain I was feeling but also captured the beauty that my grandma exuded to all those who got to experience her".
"This song emphasizes the need for someone to self-reflect and reaffirm to themselves their value and worth. No matter how much you love someone, if they are not ready or willing to make it work then you need to accept it and move on."
"I wanted the video to illustrate me alone with my thoughts and music. Sometimes we have to be alone and engage in those tough conversations with ourselves, and remove all distractions, even the person you want to be with the most."
Download Now: song.link/i/1565625870
𝙼𝚎𝚛𝚌𝚑 𝙰𝚟𝚊𝚒𝚕𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚗𝚘𝚠: www.jhowellmusic.com
(LYRICS)
What If I told a lie
What if held your heart in my hands
What if just loan my love
What if I
What if I didn’t care too much
What if I dropped the ball on us
What if I found somebody better instead
If you don’t love or care no more
deep in your heart like you use to
let me know i’ll be gone
gone this time for sure
I need you to hurry up and get over here
cause my mind and my body slowly fading
I’m trying not to be so impatient
But you hurting me
When you say you care
But you don’t understand
My time is precious and I’m not waiting
i’m with you next day it’s like we’re strangers
why you hurting me
you don’t gotta apologize
i’m not trying to start a fight
i just want to reconcile it
baby let me all inside
tired of trying to read ya mind
this time want you just be honest
Baby don’t lie to me
promise you’ll never leave
baby don’t let these feelings past
what’s it gone take for you to see
that your the only one for me
there’s no place i’d rather be yeah
If you don’t love or care no more
deep in your heart like you use to
let me know i’ll be gone
gone this time for sure
But I need you to hurry up and get over here
cause my heart and my body is slowly fading
I’m trying not to be so impatient
But you hurting me
When you say you care
But you don’t understand
My time is precious and I’m now waiting
i’m with you it’s like we’re strangers
why you hurting me yeah
why you hurting me
why you hurting me
- Shot By: Hoca Studio
Director/ DP @thangfilms
1st AC @vishvesh_bakshi
Editor @christianchambers
“RedRoom” EP
song.link/jhowellredroom
“My Everything”
song.link/i/1506246262
RedRoom ACOUSTICS
album.link/i/1515370397
J Howell will FOREVER be a whole ass vibe/mood! 🔥💯
Mannn!!! Going through a break up and listening to this!!!😶
This song is beautiful 😍
What you say..I just put someone else on to him.
F
Lol 😂
FACTS
It hurts when someone makes you feel like you're so special today and treat you like shit the next day 😭... to everyone hurting right now, you deserve better!
No that feeling
Right
Thanks so much dear
So true they don’t deserve you
Facts
Song hit so different when you’re really going through it 😞♥️♥️
100% FACTS!!!!! My girl/BM/ Fiance broke up with me in August took our 3 kids and went to her moms just to be able to chill with her ex from years ago and go out but it didn't go as she planned. So in September her and our 3 kids came back home. She still texted her lover back and forth up until Oct. 30th but as of Nov. 1st he's supposedly out of her system from what she told me. J. Howell songs feels as if he's singing bout your own personal relationship good or bad.
Yes it does… I never thought my boyfriend could hurt me to the point where my heart is just aching
That part! Riiiight!
Truth that's me
@@brandyedwards7673 anyone is capable of hurting you……
When you love someone so much. No matter what they say or do. You still rely to hold on to that lil piece of hope.. please God strengthen me oh God.
You took the words right out of my mind/thoughts.
No lie!
🥺🥺🥺😔😔😔💔🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yesss I felt that. Sadly, I still have hope but I don't think it will work out. It seems like he keeps lying. He needs to understand we can't go on like this.
Use that last piece of hope for the strength to get threw and move on to the next chapter life has in store for you.
WHY IS THIS MAN BEING OVERLOOKED? HE’S GIVING REAL RNB INSTEAD OF THE BULLSHT BEING PLAYED NOW..GIVE IT HIM HIS RESPECT IN THE INDUSTRY💯
It’s crazy how he’s singing about being in pain but hearing that immaculate voice, seeing that clear skin and him in all white feels so peaceful 😩💜🌻
This man songs🥰🥰
Maybe it’s the clarity that despite the pain , he’s done . This last chance for the other person to change or he is done putting himself in that position to be in constant pain . Loving deeply but the hurt sometimes is just too much , no matter how pure your heart is you can only take so much . The clarity of knowing what he wants and finally being able to ask for it demand it and mean it to be strong enough to leave if the other person doesn’t step up .... lol idk just a thought ...
@@davidpineda4654 you actually made sense there lol didn’t think of that perspective, thank you
That part
IKR🫥
Love is the most powerful experience one can ever feel. When you have a heart that knows how to love with no limits and you take the risk to be vulnerable giving one person the power to either hold your heart close to theirs or tear it apart. It’s a risk that’s worth taking even to feel the love for just a moment. This song hit my heart to the core, a tiny bit of hope can go a long way but it’s not okay to be toyin with.
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Wish I could like this comment a million and one times!!!🥰❤
Damn!!!! This is so true
That’s so true it can hurt ur soul or uplift it what a risky chance to take!!
Wow 👌 beautifully written.
GIVE THIS MAN A FEW GRAMMYS!! 🙌💪💪💪
SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!!!
Agree agree agree
Yassssssssss❤
I agree 💯
"I'm with you, next day it's like we're strangers"... This song just expresses everything I've been feeling.
This is why I love youtube...every so often you come across jems like Mr.Howell. This was beautiful...thank you!!!!
Hopefully this lead u to his last album, red room? And all the golden never gets old , songs on it! Or "everything" song literally everything he sings sounds like a gift from God, R&B music industry had slowly burn down n I thought we'd lost it , but. , j. Howell definitely is the artist R&B was dying for to come along! I wish we'd go back to music like this, also jazmine Sullivan, snow allegra, HER, are all awesome R&B artist as well. All of the ppl I spoke about and j Howell, might just be able to bring back R&B music , because I'm so tried of all the a** twerking, WAP, n trap, stunning music thats so over played n hype. Like ok we get it, yall out here selling, drugs, toting guns, gang banging, while thots shake the sweaty WAP on you n you making it rain on her cuz you got so much money that you just dont give af ! Lol like how many songs can rappers put out about exactly that scenario and ppl say its hott, from fake auto tunes voices, n beats all sampled from someone else. CAN WE DO PSA *** ATTENTION **** WE, THE PPL, OF THE WORLD WANT, NO, NEED, NO DEMAND, YALL ARTISTS START BEING ORGINAL, WITH YOUR REAL VOICES AND OWN SONGS , ABOUT POSITIVE, ENJOYABLE, BABY MAKING, LOVE SONGS! WE DONT WAMT TO HEAR ABOUT HOW U CAN TREAT A GIRL LIKE A WHORE AND UR MONEY HABITS! WE WANT TO HEAR HOW YOU SHOW SOMEONE LOVE AND TREAT PPL WHO YOU CARE ABOUT! HOW YOUR LIFE IS GOING GOOD, OR BAD, BUT NOT ABOUT WTF U BOUGHT, OR HOW YOU GOT HEAD FROM A THOT! WE WANT TO HEAR BEAUTIFUL VIBING TYPE R & B THAT JUST MAKED U FEEL GOOD WHEN YOUR LISTENING TO IT! FROM ARTISTS LIKE J. HOWELL , JAZMINE SULLIVAN, HER, SNOWA ALLEGRA , YOU KNOW PPL WHO CANT ACTUALLY SING A LIVE ACOUSTIC SONG OR ENTIRE ALBUM AND WHEN YOUR DONE LISTENING TO IT. YOU HIT REPEAT AND POUR ANOTHER DRINK, CUZ U HAPPY, N RELAXED AND ARTIST LIKE THIS TOUCH YOUR SOUL AND CAN MAKE UR WHOLE DAY BE GOOD, OR EVEN ENTIRE WEEKS, BECAUSE HOW IT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD WHILE LISTENING TO SUCH MASTERPIECES! WE NEED POSITIVE QUALITY R&B TO COME BACK, SO WE CAN ALL BE HAPPY, AND LOVING EACH OTHER, BUILDING ONE ANOTHER UP! NOT LISTENING TO THE BS THEY GOT OUT NOW, THAT MAKES U READY FOR SOMEONE TO TRY U SO U CAN SNAP. CUZ IT DONE GOT U SO HYPE THAT U LOOKING FOR SHIT TO GO WRONG! OR HOW ALL WOMEN ARE PHAT A** AND ONLY THOT ABOUT FOR A MOMENT N ON TO NEXT ONE TO BELITTLE TOO! WHAT WE LISTEN TO DEFINITELY EFFECTS OUR MOODS, N ENTIRE VIBE FOR PPL. SINCE WE KNOW THIS, WE MUST BRING BACK SLOW JAMS AND R&B , so we can all start to heal, love each other n move forward, n build up, not year each other down n compete with one another. . Sorry for book, but real shit, I'm being serious j Howell saving R&B 1 song, 1 album at a time. U 100% got my support and free advertising cuz I stay riding around bombing your songs! 😜🤷🏼♀️😂🙏🏻
@@michellethomas109 Ive been blasting his tunes for months now...like I said a real jem
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I hadn't even heard of him before yesterday
thanks !!!!
He can sing a nursery song & I would listen to it 🥰😂😂💯 N my kids grown 🤭
😭 right!
Lol facts
Stop playing 😂👌 he needs to 🙌😩❤️
Right
lol
He sings like an Angel. I love his voice so much. Amazing vocals ❤
This song has become my very story this week..being in a marriage and constantly trying to be the bigger and better person never feels good when your the only one doing it...this song hits differently when u put yourself in the song.. the words are perfectly harmonized and the Lil orchestra of instruments at the end just makes my heart melt...😢😢
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im going through the same situation Tosha , it really hurts !!!!!!
Me too and it’s exhausting, I’m so heart broken I don’t think I will ever get back to being me ! I tell ya though , the pain that in feeling right now i don’t , I CANT GO THROUGH THAT KIND OF HURT AGAIN . I will never get close to another as long as I live
I hope you find the peace and happiness you deserve!
@@user-co4cr1ts4j Don't become jaded Beloved. The guard that you place around your heart seems like a defense but it's a prison that you built.
Love again - FULLY and COMPLETELY...
The beauty of life is knowing the one you love so much could hurt you but they choose NOT 2...
All fall short - sometimes love hurts but love is NEVER TOXIC...
Be Healed...
Wasn't expecting for this song to be my current situation. Now I'm crying.
Facts
You took the words right out my mouth...
I'm sorry. I do know how you feel, just know it gets a little better everyday. Be encouraged
That's because that's real
Big facts
I listen to his whole album without skipping
Me 2!!! Great album and voice!!! Can't remember the last time I was able to listen to an album without skipping
Evening, what's the name of his album?
OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!
A new album?
Yes
I apologize if I ever hurt someone
This dude deserves his shine because he is the new king of R&B soul...like who sings about what many people are feeling and it be real
Grown man sh!t here. All his songs are on point. His music takes me back. His voice is unique and very distinct.
This is how I feel ... In my relationship I just want more then anything to have an equal love I want the same love I give it's too hard on my heart on my soul to keep trying if things won't get better , I'll have to leave ... 💛💛💛💛💛 .. I don't want to leave ..
Story of my life too 😔😔😔
This song made that decision for me. I'm not turning back, although he's always been the one my love and heart belonged to.
Heart breaking 😭
Bless your heart, I definitely understand. It hurts because you keep showing what you want to receive 💯 and somehow they still don't get it. You leave once you realize they won't get it.
Just leave. You'll thank yourself for it later. If they don't know your worth, they'll realize it when your gone. Better hope somebody better doesn't come along because they'll never get you back 💯
What if when he's finally READY, She's finally DONE 💔
OMG this song is so freaking powerful and when you're in a space that allows you to hear it, it truly hits home
Absoutely beautiful...and honestly luvs, I don't feel like J Howell is singing solely for profits, I feel like he truly enjoys singing from his soul and his heart.
Even if it was for profit he deserves it
Absolutely Sista and he's singing for me and my situation right now too. That's how you know he's singing for the heart❤️
And that's how come I adore him as an artist
@@tamikaanderson1670 Agreed!
Hello
Let's fall apart together.
and that violin at the end hitting hard.
What's the name of the violin tone
Mannnn i stg😭😭😭😭😂
God is in control I put him first
I found this song two days ago and I’ve never felt more connect to a song before. It’s saying all the words I wish I could. It’s like I’m fighting for love. Damn
What was the song before?
I know the feeling all too well
Every word is sung with so much passion....what a beautiful instrument you have J. Howell. Please Never stop singing❤️🤎
Young , gifted and black!!!!! His soul is filled with sweet vocal clarity. I love his delivery..❤️
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hands down THE BEST R&B artist I've heard in over 10 years! Thanks for bringing real R&B Soul Music back to it's original roots! You're the R&B Jesus to the music industry! 💯 bruh u have to sing at my wedding!
Straight up,foreeeel silk!!!!!!
Wow!!!!!!!
Yes indeed
I agree with u!!
Totally Agree💯
He sings like an angel! Every word penetrates the soul.
These words spoke straight to my soul. Exactly how I'm feeling right now.
Hello
And it comes out on the day I graduate😩 God is good😭👏🏾👏🏾🗣
Congrats
Congratulations!🎉
Congratulations🎊🎉
Congrats!!!
Congratulations
I hit the like button before he started singing. 💯
Right. Lol
Me2 😂😂
So did I 💞
Me too
So did I
R&B definitely ain’t dead you touching my soul I’m happy to have found you 🙏❤️
Living in this real time and being one who lives within his thoughts this song really hurts when you going through it but it also helps build your strength up
Mah boi💯couldnt put that shit any other way
i agree really going through a terrible marriage, crying my eyes out over the words in this song.
I knew it... made me cry ☹
Why my single ass set a timer for J Howell knowing dang ole well that between his voice and the relevance to the lyrics I was gonna be bawling 😭😭😭
You and me both 😩😩😩😩
How am I suppose to work right now...
Lmao I’m talking bout bawling 😭😭😩 my lash tryna stay on im just Ova it🤣🤣🤣🤣Why He Do Us Like Dis every time🥺
😭😭😭😭❤
I cannot believe I’m tearing up like I’m experiencing heartbreak at this very moment😩😩. This just means you can pull out those deep suppressed emotions no matter what phase we are in our lives! You’re phenomenal!!!!! 🥰😍😍😍
WOW? AWESOMENESS 👌 GREETINGS FROM JAMAICA 👌 🇯🇲 NYC
OMG... he gives me Stokely vibes from Mint Condition. This is now on my playlist ❤️
Man every song i done came across hits hard and home like its my exact situation. Like he stole the diary of my soul and wrote songs with it.🔥😭😩❤️💔😑
J. Howell , is gonna have me up listening to him while I get dressed for work lol .... looking like a Disney princess prancing around the house. (Scene where Snow white is singing to the forest animals🙌💕🤣🤣😂💯💯💯💯💯💯💕) I can't wait 👑💕💯
Girl Yesss..Me too Sis..
If only he was singing to a woman
That would be a great video concept as well.💯
I screamed😂😂😂😂im with you sista❤🤷❤
Lol
Artists of the year....🔥💥
This man is such a goddess with such a beautiful voice and he knows exactly what to say for those who are the broken-hearted!!💯🔥💯
This song hit the heart.. This is exactly how I feel and what I'm going through.
Same
Hope life have got better for you😊
This man CAN DO NO WRONG!! his music has gotten me through one of the toughest times in my life ❤️ his voice is powerful.
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Same Shauna👌❤️, got me through a Hard place....
Omg he bout to speak from my heart ‼️❤️🎯
Exactly I've been were he's at
17 Years 3 children and wrongfully convicted served 2 years of a 25 year sentence until all charges dropped only to find out she walked out and left me. Lost my kids family and all. Yet she calls me every day telling me she loves me but will not come home and pain of hoping when you know she isn't coming back. While I have sleepless nights while she lay with another man has broken my heart. I wished I never loved her cause my heart just won't let her go. I feel like a prisoner to my own heart. I play this song over and over and each time the pain just get deeper and deeper.😭😭
Don't let her string you along. Reality hurts but you'll be able to see better days, eventually 😌
OMG!!!!!! 😢😢😢😫😫😫 I'm so sorry that happened to you. You will find someone better.
Pray🙏 brother .
Man i when to prison on some bullshit and my family left me too and we talk every day and feels keep playing over and over I never new what love was till I met her and all I can say is wow love really hurts
Time to play a song that's uplifting and makes you feel good!
Amazing how over night someone can become a stranger..... .
Man who hurt you cause you be singing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 for ever listening to you
It’s not fair how beautiful his voice is🥰
It's the "I need you to hurry up and get over here", for me! I felt that, HURRY UP AND GET OVER HERE!❤❤❤😘
I just heard this song and feel in love with it❤my current story,I’m in love with a man that’s playing with my heart I don’t know what he wants from one minute to the next, my heart is in a million pieces because this is the first time I am truly in love and I’m 38 years old I’m hurting bad
His voice is so soul touching 💜💜💜
Yes he hard
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Yes indeed, J.Howell always understands the assignment. Have me in my feelings and I’m single asf 😂😭
Word😭😂😂😂
AWESOMENESS 👌 GREETINGS from JAMAICA 👌 🏠 🇯🇲 NYC
When you sung this at your concert in Memphis it touched my soul I felt every word. ❤️ you J.
I love violin❤️
All y’all who dislike this song crazy !!! It’s the violinist at the end for me😩
You said it!!!
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yeah same here..love it
The name of the song already resonate so go tf awffffffff😩😌💥💥💥💥💖
Sang baby!!! Bad young man so much feeling and heart in his songs, makes you cry with joy, pain and love
68 yrs old and loving these young singers. Touching my heart ❤️💜❤️
Just had a disagreement with my husband . Time to reconcile 🙏🏾 This song came out just in time .
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😊💛
Just lost my best friend to cancer a month after being diagnosed, I’m up trying to figure out all the emotions I’m feeling at this point . Here comes this song to sum it up in a nutshell.
✨🙏✨
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I’m so sorry 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
🥺🙏🏽✨
Sending cyber love and hugs to you babe ❤️❤️
Baby his music speaks to my soul. 🔥🎧🎤 Been on repeat since I woke up ‼️
me too !!!!!!
His voice is everything❤️❤️❤️
I already know it’s a banger! I already feel like crying 🩹🩹
🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Yo I’m dead😂
🤣🤣
His voice is simply amazing, the fluctuations his voice takes. Sometimes it sounds like three different people are singing and, I love it😭😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It’s either you mess together or fight together you get to choose what kind of LOVE you deserve ❤
This young man has such a beautiful and powerful voice! So Blessed!
🎵 I felt every word and every melody 🎵
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Neyo and usher put together kinda vibe.. I love this ❤ he sang from his heart
I’m such a huge fan of his music. Thank you for your honesty and beauty in music. You are saving R & B an impacting lives and hearts! I feel you. Don’t stop!!
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Wow, this what music has been missing . What a talent
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Hello
Very Beautiful Song J. Howell! We Have 2 Let People Know When They Are Hurting Us.. Treat People Like U Want 2 Be Treated.. Many Blessing's 2U My Brother.
I think a tear just fell from my eye!
J Howell music gives you those vibrations and energy you've been missing from real music🤞🏿I listen to this brotha faithfully.
So proud of you lil cuz❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The background music reminds me of August Soon as I get home.
I said the same thing
👏👏👏
Something about ya, is my favorite. Me and my fiancé was going threw a break up when I first heard that song. I wasn't in the mood to hear love songs, but I listened to that song about 20 times on repeat. Although we broke it off this song made me realize that its something about me.
I am obsessed with this mans voice you don’t hear music with real substance anymore. His music make your heart cry. I’m a forever fan❤️❤️❤️❤️
😍OMG HE BARED HIS SOUL IN THIS SONG. I LOVE THIS SONG. HIS VOICE IS SO POWERFUL. J. KEEP SINGING SONGS LIKE THIS YOU HAVE PUT YOUR STAMP ON R&B LOVE IT.💋💋
JH is such a soulful artist. His delivery and talent for music feels like a missing chapter from a personal space that reveals every hidden emotion.
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Now this is what we call real RnB, I felt every lyric
When you love someone so much, no matter what they say or do nor how they ghost you and come back just to ghost you again, you keep letting them in because of that love that has a hold on you. You still rely to hold on to that little piece of hope knowing he is not even worthy of your love. please God strengthen me oh God
OMG 😲😱🥰🥰😍😍😍 his voice is amazing why haven't I heard of him til now.... this song is beautiful
The acoustics 😍
YOU IS A WHOLE VIBE FOR ME I DON’T THINK Y’ALL UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH OF A BLESSING TO ME🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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He expressed my feelings perfectly!!❤️❤️
girl yes i been with my kids father for along time n i feel very lonely , especially ever since i had ovarin cancer n how it messed my life up .
He has an AMAZING VOICE!!!
I never comment on songs but I heard this song earlier and it captivated me...beautiful voice, melody, and lyrics...this song is my whole heart personified...🎵🎶💯🔥
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Can't wait to hear his beautiful vocals🎤..
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That voice put me to tears and this song is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥!!
I wasn’t expecting that voice to come out of that guy.
Whew! 😱 breathtaking!
Love love that song and that Man❤️❤️❤️
His voice is divine energy...he stole my heart ❤💙💜💖
No artist got better vocals than yours bro🙌. may the world recognise your talent
J. Howell is Awesome 🌹
He sure is 🌹
Discovered him last year during covid!! Love his music. 🥰
I Already Know This Gonna Be On Repeat!!! I'm 2Ready For It 2Drop ❤️Him
I absolutely LOVE this man. This must be what angels sound like because his voice is the best thing I have ever heard. Omg!!! Unbelievable💖
I whole heartily agree!❤🙏💯
Omg his voice ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️👌
Just want to close my eyes and listen to this man sing al day so beautifully done
I get goosebumps whenever J Howell sings!! Simply amazing
Mannnnnnnnnn why does he sound so good and his voice doesn't have to be all loud its smooth and groovy I love his music🤤🤤🤤😭😍😍😍😍😭😍😍😭😭🤤
Idk about "why you hurting me" ......then later sayn "promise you'll never leave." Idk where I sit with that but I can hear u sing all day J.Howell. Godspeed.
It's the complicated nature of the human experience surrounding true love, manipulation, hope-
#Perfectly Complicated
Yo , this got me in tears 😭 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. That ending of 🎻