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  • @jesselle_
    @jesselle_ Рік тому +1019

    Shid y’all talking about if she had a choice, her husband barely had a choice to confront him and protect her if it was assault. Very little changed between slavery and sharecropping. May that woman’s soul rest in peace ♥️

    • @kennys.2827
      @kennys.2827 11 місяців тому +14

      Or maybe she wanted it or just complied because of the power dynamic

    • @thedayaftertomorrow9502
      @thedayaftertomorrow9502 11 місяців тому +82

      I actually find it offensive the way they're trivializing what was very likely SA of a BW at a time when BP (especially BW) barely had any rights with this love is love nonsense. It's sick.

    • @lapislazulii141
      @lapislazulii141 10 місяців тому +7

      They love ⚪️ then as they do now

    • @Domino1972
      @Domino1972 10 місяців тому +7

      like he said 'desire is color blind' Affairs like this happened all the time.

    • @luckylucy6704
      @luckylucy6704 10 місяців тому +36

      @@thedayaftertomorrow9502 Oh I'm almost certain that it was SA. SA of sharecropper's wives by WM was one of the most common forms at the time. Acknowledging that doesn't mesh with the agenda apparently.

  • @medusagorgon9
    @medusagorgon9 Рік тому +2087

    This made me very sad. I doubt it was consensual. The timeline alone speaks volumes. The men were out in the field practically every day, all day. It would be easy for a man to assault a lone woman (without basic human rights) and get away with it.💔

    • @alittlepieceofearth
      @alittlepieceofearth Рік тому +161

      Agreed. Especially if that man had power.

    • @lisalking2476
      @lisalking2476 Рік тому +27

      💔

    • @shaninnmarie
      @shaninnmarie Рік тому +137

      This is exactly the reason you will never hear me (a white woman) claim to be Cherokee in any way. My Native American ancestor was a Cherokee woman from the Kansas/Oklahoma area. The problem is that my ancestor dates to around the time of the Trail of Tears.

    • @Iprsmrk
      @Iprsmrk Рік тому +49

      This was what I thought immediately.

    • @Iprsmrk
      @Iprsmrk Рік тому +13

      This was what I thought immediately.

  • @britavega
    @britavega Рік тому +583

    The fact that they’re making it seem like an affair when he said, the 2 men were in on deceiving the husband in order to take advantage of his wife is wild. This is why some people stay in a world of delusion

    • @ndo533
      @ndo533 Рік тому +20

      When did he say that ? I didnt hear that part

    • @britavega
      @britavega Рік тому +8

      @@ndo533 listen to it again

    • @Ernestrobinsin
      @Ernestrobinsin Рік тому +3

      upsetting

    • @starsINSPACE
      @starsINSPACE Рік тому +25

      ​​@@ndo533I think they are referring to the part where Walker Head and Whit Torbet were involved in why the husband Nathan was working 80 miles away from home. If Emily stayed back in the other county then she was alone more which could have been unsafe and if she went with Nathan to Butts county then she was closer to Walker, which could also have been unsafe. I know farm workers today have terrible problems with living on farms or nearby accommodations. I can't imagine it being better in the 1800s.

    • @victorhopper6774
      @victorhopper6774 11 місяців тому +6

      there are a number of possibilities. some worse than others

  • @courtneyholland6215
    @courtneyholland6215 Рік тому +420

    Uncovering family history is a journey in itself

    • @lovejones0686
      @lovejones0686 Рік тому +7

      This is very true. I've always said that I wanted to delve deeper into my family history. I've hit a road block and always wondered how much it would cost to use a genealogist for help.

    • @courtneyholland6215
      @courtneyholland6215 Рік тому +1

      @@lovejones0686 I hit several road blocks

    • @astralyeti
      @astralyeti 4 місяці тому +1

      they created a fairly tale here, not the actual history

  • @inhairitancestudio6108
    @inhairitancestudio6108 Рік тому +829

    Ciara saying she believes it was consensual makes me think she didn’t understand what he said initially, is delusional, or lying for the cameras. Girl what?!

    • @queenstatus3049
      @queenstatus3049 Рік тому +51

      Exactly!!

    • @taliadavis4297
      @taliadavis4297 Рік тому +38

      Sometime we cant conceive the magnitudes of a thing so we only see it as it would be Lively in the present

    • @jodiebaylor9583
      @jodiebaylor9583 Рік тому +118

      In her eyes you could see that she wasn't following what was being laid out before her.

    • @chaneestatengamble2259
      @chaneestatengamble2259 Рік тому +30

      @@taliadavis4297I can relate to this.
      My Husband strongly believes his Maternal Great-GrandParents were of consensual circumstances.
      And, yet, in terms of my Paternal lineage particularly of my Native x German side, I highly think NOT.

    • @jrniiji7847
      @jrniiji7847 Рік тому +94

      She looked confused the majority of the time. You could tell she didn't fully understand the terminology he was using. Her face said she couldn't keep up with what's actually going on.

  • @Drawingboredi
    @Drawingboredi Рік тому +202

    Cici's reactions 😂😂😂" hm hm hm hmmm"

    • @belizegal29
      @belizegal29 Рік тому +22

      That tickled me.😂😂😂

    • @jameshakelley4872
      @jameshakelley4872 Рік тому +14

      I felt that😂❤

    • @jelly5
      @jelly5 10 місяців тому +1

      Her participation was probably mandatory but she knows better.

    • @kmiddleton4704
      @kmiddleton4704 10 місяців тому +3

      I know, right? She reminded me of the women in my family. I love her…

  • @LACED1987
    @LACED1987 Рік тому +411

    Be careful what you ask for. We all want to know our family history but the truth can be dark.

    • @mul7777
      @mul7777 11 місяців тому +14

      Or, in this case, white.

    • @vw1649
      @vw1649 10 місяців тому +5

      For some People very "DARK" indeed.

    • @carollilly2834
      @carollilly2834 10 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely 💕

    • @Thesensuoussiren
      @Thesensuoussiren 10 місяців тому

      Dark?

    • @Efrain279
      @Efrain279 10 місяців тому +3

      My whole life I thought I was black but my family was French and have slaves

  • @jjgems5909
    @jjgems5909 11 місяців тому +23

    Ciara has a beautiful speaking voice and she’s beautiful! I’ve always been such a fan and loved her music but I’ve never heard her speaking voice just singing

  • @FridaDina
    @FridaDina Рік тому +102

    Family ancestry can be a mystery or it can be revealing of some hidden truth. This show and their research are amazing.

  • @TheMyssLK
    @TheMyssLK Рік тому +53

    If she wanted to be impartial, she should’ve just said … I really don’t know

  • @malyroberts4054
    @malyroberts4054 Рік тому +1433

    I feel like both of them tried to put lipstick on a pig with this situation. Hopefully the full episode will provide more context because I don’t understand how they came to the conclusion that the affair was consensual 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Chokolatepeach
      @Chokolatepeach Рік тому +146

      Exactly!!!

    • @kimb6900
      @kimb6900 Рік тому +161

      I agree! It's fairytale thinking

    • @kenefa7466
      @kenefa7466 Рік тому +200

      And then with Nathan accepting the child as his own because he DEFINITELY knew…it gives more reason to believe it was bad circumstances. How long did he stay farming over there

    • @ezpic2
      @ezpic2 Рік тому +119

      She seems extremely niave…!

    • @mele9131
      @mele9131 Рік тому +244

      How could they not think that walkers family was the former owners of Nathan family given that they had the same name.

  • @chillwill9424
    @chillwill9424 Рік тому +224

    I know she could not really think that her great-grandmother had a choice or she was ok with it.

    • @sabrinashelton1997
      @sabrinashelton1997 11 місяців тому +9

      Why assume that? You can only be attracted to someone who looks just like you? Y'all are so odd.

    • @troywest1724
      @troywest1724 11 місяців тому +23

      @@sabrinashelton1997Did you see the timeline.. we all know what was happening back then. It’s not a mystery. I’ve noticed a pattern with people who think you. You probably think Jim Crow didn’t exist.

    • @sabrinashelton1997
      @sabrinashelton1997 11 місяців тому

      Oooh, Jim Crow, love him. Big fan, big fan. @@troywest1724

    • @thedayaftertomorrow9502
      @thedayaftertomorrow9502 11 місяців тому +12

      @@ABCDE.F.U. The probability is that she was SA'd. I don't know why people like you don't understand that downplaying our history only breeds more resentment.

    • @thedayaftertomorrow9502
      @thedayaftertomorrow9502 11 місяців тому

      @@ABCDE.F.U. Probably because you're lying and clearly no nothing about your supposed history. Type "A Georgia Sharecropper’s Story of Forced Labor ca. 1900" so you can learn about the high rate of SA among sharecropper's wives.

  • @13579hee
    @13579hee Рік тому +768

    There is no way of knowing if it was consensual or if he sexually assaulted her

    • @elliottoju495
      @elliottoju495 Рік тому +19

      It was most likely consensual

    • @TraceTrace25
      @TraceTrace25 Рік тому +229

      @@elliottoju495*likely not consensual.

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 Рік тому +51

      Its likely that it was coerced consensual.

    • @carmellabrown3335
      @carmellabrown3335 Рік тому +88

      Exactly, she was a little to quick to accuse her ancestor of adultery for me.

    • @ttp436
      @ttp436 Рік тому +8

      That’s what I think and is factual in many cases

  • @phylliskumi4355
    @phylliskumi4355 Рік тому +381

    That is a troubling conclusion. I don't believe this was consensual. Black women had no agency at that time.

    • @writepro1914
      @writepro1914 11 місяців тому +23

      What black women DID have back then...which every woman has always had...is desire and the ability to sneak around. Ever hear of the Creoles? Ever hear of Puerto Rico and DR? Are you arguing that r--pe was the cause of all these situations? Yall need to study history. You watch one or two race movies and you make these silly claims.

    • @bruhvibes5941
      @bruhvibes5941 10 місяців тому

      ⁠@@writepro1914Creoles and Carribeans were brought up in South European culture which promoted the idea of black women making white grandchildren

    • @EndeavoursRadio
      @EndeavoursRadio 10 місяців тому +7

      it was 1904 so black people were free. Who knows what really happened

    • @AwkBlackGirl
      @AwkBlackGirl 10 місяців тому +4

      ⁠@@writepro1914Or the white dude could have been jealous of the black man who he was taught he was better than based on the fact his white father owned this other man’s family. Like don’t be dense yourself. Your modern day issues with Black women doesn’t make r*pe in 1904 impossible. If she willingly slept with that man and “loved him”, her son would’ve been aware of his paternity. Yea there are women who slept with men to get ahead but there were few relationships between Black women and white men where they could be equals prior to civil rights. History books can tell you that too.

    • @cgreer9010
      @cgreer9010 7 місяців тому

      You know it wasn't

  • @christinebryant8354
    @christinebryant8354 Рік тому +50

    Ancestry is deep to it core. We’re going through our family tree now five generations back took us back as a black family to 1797 our white family members fifth generation great grandmother and their 10 children is crazy. One of those children was the father of my great grandmother.

  • @Pou1gie1
    @Pou1gie1 Рік тому +355

    The problem with both Ciara and the host saying this was consensual is that Black ppl did not have agency during that time, nor were the laws on their side. So, even if it was technically consensual, it still wouldn't be consensual the same way that a boss having an affair with one of his lower level workers isn't consensual. There is a power differential that doesn't allow either person to be on the same level when it comes to agency.

    • @mrsaye499
      @mrsaye499 Рік тому +28

      thank you! this!
      He shouldn't have even uttered that out of his mouth.

    • @PrincessAmmanii
      @PrincessAmmanii Рік тому +23

      My thoughts exactly! His question very much gave “leading the witness” 🙄

    • @Frodojack
      @Frodojack Рік тому +20

      Of course black people had agency in the early 1900s. They didn't have agency when they were enslaved, but slavery was abolished in 1865. Black people in early 1900s Georgia were oppressed under white supremacy and Jim Crow laws, but being oppressed is not the same as not having agency. It was also the same time period as George Washington Carver and W. E. B. Dubois. Historically black colleges and universities grew after the Civil War, with one in Atlanta starting in 1865 and by 1903 there were eight in Georgia. I do agree with the rest of what you wrote. If it was an affair it probably wasn't consensual, or it could have been r@pe (which I think is most likely). Extramarital affairs were rare in the South during that time period, especially interracial ones, making one between them unlikely.

    • @1voiceCriesOut
      @1voiceCriesOut 11 місяців тому +3

      Thank you ​@@Frodojack it would have been 1904 a long way from slavery

    • @peacehappyb237
      @peacehappyb237 11 місяців тому +1

      Exactly.

  • @letsdothis4108
    @letsdothis4108 7 місяців тому +33

    For them to assume she had an affair and never consider she was violated is incredible.

  • @Gavin_Gavalli
    @Gavin_Gavalli Рік тому +370

    I highly doubt it was consensual! Men came and took what they wanted back then I’m shocked she didn’t give her great great grandmother the benefit of the doubt

    • @hello_04
      @hello_04 Рік тому +18

      She’s programmed with misogynoir

    • @mrsaye499
      @mrsaye499 Рік тому +19

      It's disrespectful and embarrassing. They know how to pick them for these shows.

    • @jm2307
      @jm2307 Рік тому +14

      Playing devil’s advocate is much more common than giving Black women the benefit of the doubt unfortunately

    • @mul7777
      @mul7777 11 місяців тому +12

      What? Her white great great grandfather was born 1 year before slavery was abolished, so he didn't grow up around slavery. He grew up during Reconstruction period which was a prosperous time for blacks. Is it that hard for you to conceive that maybe she had an affair?

    • @se_me1756
      @se_me1756 11 місяців тому

      @@mul7777You really believe that a year made a huge difference in how black people were viewed and treated????
      You believe everything changed overnight? Mentalities??
      You believe that most black people were prosperous during reconstruction???
      You really do not know history at all.
      Black people were “free” but it took another 100 years before they would receive rights!! And even after that they were mistreated.
      Black people were being attacked and lynched after enslavement. Their homes were burned. They were terrorized daily.
      And black women had NO voice. Even if “consensual” it may have been survival.
      Yes, a love story is a possibility but we don’t know that and neither does Dr. Gates or Ciara.

  • @dablkcarriebradshaw
    @dablkcarriebradshaw 10 місяців тому +37

    Ciara looking like why you putting all my family business out here like this

  • @advice4u409
    @advice4u409 Рік тому +626

    It is very dangerous to assume that BW had that level of agency to consent. Dr. Gates loves a we are the world moment🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @TQO81
      @TQO81 Рік тому +16

      He can’t say that if he doesn’t have any proof, use your head fr.

    • @advice4u409
      @advice4u409 Рік тому +24

      @@TQO81 I don't understand what you're referring to or your aggressive tone (use your head).

    • @mrsaye499
      @mrsaye499 Рік тому +16

      It's disrespectful.

    • @Mx.HasberryPresents
      @Mx.HasberryPresents Рік тому +25

      @@TQO81you literally can as there was a clear power imbalance during the time

    • @BLACKCREEKSOFALABAMA
      @BLACKCREEKSOFALABAMA Рік тому +5

      And he’s a know liar remember when he did Ben Affleck

  • @TooChe27
    @TooChe27 Рік тому +159

    As much as I NEED to believe the event was consensual……….😢 I’m tired of this pain.

    • @MISNM0
      @MISNM0 9 місяців тому

      🫂

    • @astralyeti
      @astralyeti 4 місяці тому

      it’s a disservice to your ancestors to believe fairytales over truths

  • @crush3095
    @crush3095 Рік тому +15

    The narrator's presentation style is so great for this show, always slow and emphatic

    • @SirLangsalot
      @SirLangsalot 8 місяців тому +1

      Very impressive: intelligent and empathetic.

  • @SuperDB215
    @SuperDB215 Рік тому +66

    Oh the drama… well… we don’t know what happen, but we can probably assume Nathan knew

  • @documentarygirl8
    @documentarygirl8 Рік тому +409

    Likely she was assaulted. Nathan probably knew that baby wasnt his cuz

    • @malyroberts4054
      @malyroberts4054 Рік тому +87

      And he probably knew exactly who the daddy was considering they grew up together. I’m saddened that Dr Gates CHOSE to simplify the relationship.

    • @ronaldcervantes1959
      @ronaldcervantes1959 Рік тому +8

      Y’all reaching

    • @ItsMyOpinion-sd2iz
      @ItsMyOpinion-sd2iz Рік тому +16

      That was very common

    • @JKAnu-yq1tr
      @JKAnu-yq1tr Рік тому +13

      Obviously. The baby was biracial lol

    • @BellaDonna2005
      @BellaDonna2005 Рік тому +10

      Seems to me that yt man FOLLOWED them there because Nathan and his wife had already moved.

  • @josettebassett3734
    @josettebassett3734 Рік тому +30

    It's like the Caribbean song,"Your daddy not you daddy but your dad don't know."

  • @ladylove4425
    @ladylove4425 Рік тому +250

    Back then married or not if a white man saw a black woman that he wanted he just have arranged or just took her After all she was someone's wife And how did her husband felt 😮😮😮😮😮

    • @holeefuk413
      @holeefuk413 11 місяців тому +5

      Or maybe she wanted it too.

    • @troywest1724
      @troywest1724 11 місяців тому +32

      @@holeefuk413Highly doubt that… especially with the history of those from Western Europe.

    • @kudjoeadkins-battle2502
      @kudjoeadkins-battle2502 10 місяців тому

      Not just any white man. But certainly ones in charge.

    • @theadvocate3006
      @theadvocate3006 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@holeefuk413NOT EVEN A LITTLE BIT👀

    • @foreignchocaliqdelux7897
      @foreignchocaliqdelux7897 8 місяців тому +1

      @@troywest1724no real black woman who loves herself wants a white man… but I think a white man can win over her heart

  • @toyachanel
    @toyachanel 11 місяців тому +16

    You can tell immediately what Ciara was thinking with that side eye !

  • @bmit5474
    @bmit5474 Рік тому +216

    I don't think that was love. In my personal opinion, they weren't that far off from the ending of “The Peculiar Institution,” and many southern whites still felt they had a right to the bodies of African-decent blacks.

    • @ko0974
      @ko0974 Рік тому +7

      Delusional watching too many reruns of roots

    • @Cherrylipgloss2025
      @Cherrylipgloss2025 11 місяців тому +2

      You seem delulu😂

    • @ctruth6185
      @ctruth6185 11 місяців тому +10

      @@Cherrylipgloss2025 You are ignorant of history or likely covering up as is customary with those of your ilk.

  • @Deezy_Ankh
    @Deezy_Ankh Рік тому +7

    I see u these things and feel gracious to know that i knew ppl that were alive during that time. My great great grandmother was born in 1905 or 1906. She passed at 106 years old and I was maybe 15 at the time. Crazy.

    • @WillBlindYouWithLight
      @WillBlindYouWithLight 10 місяців тому

      Right?!
      Our ancestors were breathing in the same air as so many historically influential people😮😮
      It blows my mind too

  • @MoroMoro1
    @MoroMoro1 Рік тому +27

    wow. really love this show, especially when they dig into african american participants lineage

  • @madeinussr7551
    @madeinussr7551 11 місяців тому +172

    Whats funny to me is all these very light skinned ppl are surprised when they find a white ancestor.

    • @kudjoeadkins-battle2502
      @kudjoeadkins-battle2502 10 місяців тому +11

      You think she’s very light skin

    • @MakeWay4CJ
      @MakeWay4CJ 10 місяців тому +50

      She’s light enough to have suspected a white ancestor.

    • @angiepronzola6622
      @angiepronzola6622 10 місяців тому +59

      Being light skinned doesn’t always equate to having white ancestry just like being dark skinned doesn’t mean you don’t have white ancestry

    • @kudjoeadkins-battle2502
      @kudjoeadkins-battle2502 10 місяців тому +16

      @@MakeWay4CJ most of us have a few

    • @OwedDebt
      @OwedDebt 10 місяців тому

      What's funny to me is all of these white people who don't know that their ancient ancestors are from Africa.

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 Рік тому +64

    So happy Ciara is learning about her family

  • @bilialeilan9038
    @bilialeilan9038 Рік тому +54

    These white men back then were going from one black woman to another. Consenual or not it was done with impunity.

  • @gabrielarmsted8020
    @gabrielarmsted8020 Рік тому +118

    I doubt this was consensual.

    • @HabitualLover
      @HabitualLover Рік тому +7

      This entire comments section doubts it, too 💯

    • @memcrew1
      @memcrew1 Рік тому +3

      @@HabitualLoverRiiiight, because we all know it’s “impossible” for a sister to find a YT man attractive.

    • @underestimated1171
      @underestimated1171 11 місяців тому +6

      ​@@memcrew1Do you think that the wife was so spiteful of her husband that she would lay with his former owner? Do you think that the husband couldn't tell that the child wasn't mixed race?

  • @Faridapows
    @Faridapows 9 місяців тому +3

    She has the same candance as Jlo. Even when speaking she seems like she is performing an act. And the end just proved it
    Love is love? 😢

  • @tyfrier2434
    @tyfrier2434 Рік тому +19

    I would love to do one of these on my family. My family's roots are a jumble mess.

  • @kingmulahoo4925
    @kingmulahoo4925 11 місяців тому +12

    The same exact thing happened to my great great grandmother , and my family was from Guyana so imagine all over the world in places that were colonized this happened more than we know.

  • @DiamondEDC
    @DiamondEDC Рік тому +5

    When she said Walker, I was expecting to hear "Texas Ranger"

  • @kathrynbracht8398
    @kathrynbracht8398 Рік тому +21

    Wouldn’t it be beautiful if this time and money was spent on those people- like adoptees- who need a sense of their beginnings? I love this series, but it would be lovely if this energy was directed to those who could be healed through this information. ❤

    • @xoxoxok
      @xoxoxok Рік тому +4

      This is a beautiful idea! Find a way to present it

    • @tantig5923
      @tantig5923 Рік тому +4

      I am one of those descendants. 😢
      It has been a hard journey even through Ancestry.
      I have not been able to find any, as they say hints, of anyone but possible 3rd cousins.
      No 1st. And No 2nd cousins only two 3rd cousins on my link
      The matches then jump to 5th cousins and a lot of 6th-8th cousins 😮
      It makes you wonder what really happened to my grandparents they are not telling us?
      I did notice a lot of name changes coming to America.

    • @mstaz1688
      @mstaz1688 Рік тому +13

      Black Americans who descended from slavery deserve the time and money to trace the lineage. They are being healed through this information. 🙄

    • @kathrynbracht8398
      @kathrynbracht8398 Рік тому

      @@mstaz1688 I agree. My point is more about the celebrities - again, I love the series, just saying they could expand a little into that area, or some series coul.

    • @cedrimar
      @cedrimar Рік тому +2

      There's a British show with this premise called Long Lost Family. A tear-jerker every time!

  • @AlecQb-fc5yb
    @AlecQb-fc5yb 10 місяців тому +7

    Ciara is absolutely stunning

  • @leannwilson2668
    @leannwilson2668 Рік тому +42

    Walter is the Husband of my 6th Cousin twice removed - Meaning Sierra and I are like 8th 9th cousins - Mind blowing ❤❤

    • @lovelyrich54
      @lovelyrich54 Рік тому +6

      That is mind blowing but cool.So she would be your cousin in law to the 8 power is what your saying? 😂😂😂

  • @bruteluv
    @bruteluv Рік тому +17

    I think I was SA

  • @thediascott
    @thediascott 5 місяців тому

    This is powerful and quite emotional!!!

  • @GrandPrizeFitnesAJAY
    @GrandPrizeFitnesAJAY Рік тому +21

    She said the congenial answer. Love Ci ci for being quick on her feet.

  • @bigBsMom
    @bigBsMom 11 місяців тому +103

    Ummmmm ...
    Trust me on this: THAT was NOT a "consensual" relationship!!

    • @PhilipVaughn-ri8vb
      @PhilipVaughn-ri8vb 7 місяців тому

      Lol stickin to the script you are

    • @johndeaux3703
      @johndeaux3703 7 місяців тому

      😄 I know you want to believe the Hollywood version of reality. What percent of rapes are White on black per DOJ statistics? Like 0.0, but you want to believe that back then it was 100%. yeah, right

  • @woodswal
    @woodswal Рік тому +55

    I doubt it was consensual. I am not sure what made them think it was? 🤔

    • @zeroturn7091
      @zeroturn7091 11 місяців тому +3

      She was saying that to save face.

    • @jelly5
      @jelly5 10 місяців тому +4

      It's a narrative push.

    • @missygroove
      @missygroove 10 місяців тому

      ❤Exacly totally agreeing here 😮

    • @seewhathappenslarry8124
      @seewhathappenslarry8124 10 місяців тому

      @@zeroturn7091😅

  • @ItzD
    @ItzD Рік тому +86

    There is no way that was consensual, I wish PBS pushed back on that... There are a lot of African American descendants from SA victims, let's not revise history

    • @astralyeti
      @astralyeti 4 місяці тому +1

      it’s so disrespectful

  • @stickman1373
    @stickman1373 Рік тому +17

    Let's be honest this is just AMAZING!!!! WOW!
    I've heard stories and I can remember when my family had a reunion and I discovered that I had a cousin in North Carolina with my mom's exact name, I called her and explained to her who I was, and she said yes I've heard we have A LOT of family in North Alabama.... I then started hearing that I had white relatives that are kin to me!
    You just never know!

  • @TiffTALKS22
    @TiffTALKS22 10 місяців тому +2

    Ohh her reaction definitely seemed tempered for tv.😂 i think i need to see that full episode.

  • @MAGAISKLAN
    @MAGAISKLAN Рік тому +33

    Almost all of us have White ancestry but it’s incredible she was able to find out her great, great grandfather’s name!

    • @bxboyupqllnight
      @bxboyupqllnight 11 місяців тому +3

      Wow

    • @ryannath85
      @ryannath85 11 місяців тому

      Really it's incredible to know a great great grandpa's name? I know my 10 times great grand parent's names.

    • @jelly5
      @jelly5 10 місяців тому +1

      Maybe 75%. They realized the value of the "one drop" rule.

  • @TurnAwayNow
    @TurnAwayNow Рік тому +8

    That's an interesting conclusion. 🤔

  • @deborahbrewster
    @deborahbrewster Рік тому +26

    "Desire is colour blind" is a wild statement.

  • @DiandraStarShine
    @DiandraStarShine Рік тому +70

    SHAME ON GATES BECAUSE HE KNOWS full well that, STATISTICALLY, it wasn't consensual! he can be so grotesque sometimes. why even ask the question out loud? why does he play dumb like that??

    • @chevalierdenoir754
      @chevalierdenoir754 Рік тому +1

      ?

    • @kimb6900
      @kimb6900 Рік тому +16

      I think he asked to see what she would say. But the problem I have with that is he agreed with her and didn't counteract with stats & probability of the reality of the times

    • @trinigul7339
      @trinigul7339 Рік тому

      The thumbnail summarizes this clip perfectly. Should have been Cici’s response to Gates’ disgusting whitewashing of history: whatchu say? Ugh!

    • @TheMyssLK
      @TheMyssLK Рік тому +1

      Definitely to keep the “optics” clear and transparent … I wonder who the majority of the audience is that watches this show?!? If it’s not a predominantly melanated audience, maybe that’s why he asked the way he did …

    • @ItsMyOpinion-sd2iz
      @ItsMyOpinion-sd2iz Рік тому +9

      He doesn't want to be cancelled,so at times he pretends to be ignorant

  • @d.m.5017
    @d.m.5017 Рік тому +14

    How ironic that D. Jeter is her cousin & her husband, Russell was wearing My NY❤🗽🏙💙Yankee's Uniform! I always had a feeling her family was frome here & not ATL originally. Great Show, Congrats on 10 Seasons Professor Gates. Brooklyn Love, From My Family 💘🗽🏙🇺🇸🇯🇲🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇮🇪🇹🇹🇮🇳🇵🇦🇨🇦🇬🇧💙❤🖤💛💚🧡

  • @Cappellano
    @Cappellano 8 місяців тому +3

    People in the comment section think they’re historians. We will never know if the relationship was consensual or not. Are we to assume that they only had one encounter?
    At the end of the day, the most important thing is that Ciara knows who her ancestors are.

  • @bsjacks
    @bsjacks 11 місяців тому +3

    Btw we all have 16 great great grand parents. 8 great great grandmothers and 8 great great grand fathers... They usually only highlight one or two... By the time you hit the 10th generation u have over 2000 ancestors in your family line.

  • @hailesalassierasterfari6218
    @hailesalassierasterfari6218 Рік тому +39

    Sharecropping no that was still slavery and I'm pretty sure it wasn't consensual

  • @traceyholt8223
    @traceyholt8223 Рік тому +13

    There was also a Walter Lafayette Head in Monroe Georgia at the time who married Amanda E James in 1889 but one of the census records have these two as being Black. Walker L Head married Maude L in 1888. On the 1900 Census, they had 5 children aged 1 to 9 years. Nathan Head married Emily Redding and on the 1910 Census, they had 7 children, Willie was the 3rd youngest. So both parents were married with a number of children.

  • @nataliemauzone4689
    @nataliemauzone4689 Рік тому +9

    Does PBS or an affiliate company provide ancestry services/findings for general public. If so, what is the cost ans process?

    • @EyeOfTheWatcher
      @EyeOfTheWatcher Рік тому +5

      they no longer prompt a single company and shy away from prompting any company, but more than likely they are using ancestry because it has the biggest database of people and has record connections.

    • @jelly5
      @jelly5 8 місяців тому

      Girl, it's a scam. This show uses celebrity to lure you into their "database" where they can tell you that your ancestors are from Africa or anywhere else but right here on Turtle Island (Americas) . They make up stories to give you some sort of legitimacy when it's a slant to keep the indigenous people asleep and never knowing themselves or their true power. The visuals are very clever, but they aren't TRUE 80% of the time. Whatever you can collect ON YOUR OWN (See The Research Guy - he can help too) is more factual and even these days since more of us are looking they're making it more expensive to research and less accessible.

  • @jg122487
    @jg122487 Рік тому +65

    In shock she thinks it was consensual! Smh

    • @EyeOfTheWatcher
      @EyeOfTheWatcher Рік тому +5

      because the truth might be too much for her.

    • @sjames1209
      @sjames1209 Рік тому +6

      She doesn’t seem to bright and this is why you probably don’t see her doing to many interviews just dancing around and making TikToks.

    • @jg122487
      @jg122487 Рік тому +2

      Smh just heartbreaking 💔

    • @celticmulato2609
      @celticmulato2609 Рік тому +2

      No one knows!

    • @jg122487
      @jg122487 Рік тому +3

      @@celticmulato2609 spoken like someone who doesn't understand the institution of slavery. If she did say no, it wouldn't matter.

  • @theramden6025
    @theramden6025 3 місяці тому +1

    OT...President Carter's mother Lillian's maiden name was Gordy. Please do Berry Gordy, founder of Motown before he passes. I believe the Gordy name may be found on Ms Lillian's family tree.

  • @queenstatus3049
    @queenstatus3049 Рік тому +51

    What??!! Love is love! Everyone knows it was not consensual in 1902! Let’s just pretend they were in love. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @speakintothemicb
      @speakintothemicb Рік тому +10

      We do not know that. You are assuming.

    • @celticmulato2609
      @celticmulato2609 Рік тому +9

      Not every S$xual relationship was forced back then, lots of IR couples had their affair kept secret .

    • @chuckwadnofski7147
      @chuckwadnofski7147 11 місяців тому +2

      Maybe she was a gold digger like today.

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 Рік тому +3

    This is crazy 😱 you just never know the truth unless you search it.

  • @ItsMrstoyouboo
    @ItsMrstoyouboo Рік тому +23

    She know what it really was...dont play ma'am.

    • @jelly5
      @jelly5 10 місяців тому

      She has to play nice. This was mandatory for her to do, NOT selective. They have to reach every generation who doubts otherwise.

  • @amonee4971
    @amonee4971 10 місяців тому +1

    She just made me look at her differently

  • @mylesjohnson5326
    @mylesjohnson5326 Рік тому +3

    I’m from Monroe County ga!!!!!!

  • @ElleRochelle
    @ElleRochelle Рік тому +35

    Ciara i know you don't really think that was consensual 🙄

    • @ChichiThugmen
      @ChichiThugmen Рік тому +2

      It was all in the reactions her eyes say it all 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bre_me
    @bre_me 11 місяців тому +6

    You can’t control love but you can control how you act. Falling in love with someone else is not an excuse for cheating

  • @merveilmeok2416
    @merveilmeok2416 9 місяців тому +1

    The best detectives on the planet.

  • @nedraanderson2816
    @nedraanderson2816 Рік тому +7

    We are in the same question about my grandpa and uncle. We know that their siblings look nothing like them . Their parents and 4 other siblings look just like their parents. On an ancestry there are know one with the last name of our grandfathers last name or dna related. But a relative of the man that shows as a cousin of the man that is dna cousin of ours .

  • @leimanaabenes7
    @leimanaabenes7 8 місяців тому

    Awesome as always. 😘
    I noticed something: "You're Still the One." By Shania Twain. 😘

  • @kat5778
    @kat5778 Рік тому +60

    Disgusting Title.
    Probably NOT consensual.

    • @vieiradosreismariadelurdes9105
      @vieiradosreismariadelurdes9105 9 місяців тому

      What do you know? Probably "NOT" or Probably "YES". Only they them selfs knew about that. Nobody else.

  • @zsaknorpowe8061
    @zsaknorpowe8061 11 місяців тому +1

    why they got CC in the thumbnail like that?! lol

  • @mon6745
    @mon6745 Рік тому +43

    You need more tact in learning how to talk about and present what is more likely than not a non consensual relationship. I guess only men can sit there and smile at this when women all get sick in the pit of their stomachs because they know what happened

    • @CeeCheles
      @CeeCheles 10 місяців тому +1

      I thought the same thing. Too bad we can't go back and undo this filth 😞💩👹

  • @khufu369
    @khufu369 23 дні тому +2

    I didn't know Ciara rode the short bus.

  • @A.Shawnee
    @A.Shawnee 9 місяців тому +7

    Ciara always was a little slow 😂😂😂

  • @breezyseng
    @breezyseng 11 місяців тому +3

    Shes beautiful ❤

  • @PettyShabazz
    @PettyShabazz Рік тому +40

    I bet my life it wasnt consensual

  • @Multiversity_Inc_Studios
    @Multiversity_Inc_Studios 11 місяців тому +2

    You can see on Ciara's face that see did not like where this was going. The fact that they tried to pretty things up for some people who don't want to confront the truth makes me sure I will NEVER watch this show.

  • @freetheworld2671
    @freetheworld2671 Рік тому +6

    Was it consensual? It's like saying the sky is brown. No, it wasn't.

  • @wavingdragon
    @wavingdragon 8 місяців тому +2

    6:31 Ciara's forced smile says it all.

  • @candicee1865
    @candicee1865 Рік тому +8

    Consensual? I doubt it

  • @edithm.johnson6224
    @edithm.johnson6224 3 місяці тому +1

    I guess her great-great grandaddy was a stand-up guy like Russell. I bet he knew that child looked different for a reason. During that time, neither the mother or father was going to make waves and end up dead. The only alternative was just to love that child because the child had nothing to do with what happened.

  • @inhairitancestudio6108
    @inhairitancestudio6108 Рік тому +19

    Who was shocked? My great grandfather was white and I’m chocolate. The average black American is 1/4 European

    • @hereiswisdom
      @hereiswisdom Рік тому +2

      I dont think it's that high for most. The look for most is still African. You'd look more like Latinos from The Dominican Republic, Cubans, Brazilians etc. If you were that mixed. Most Black Americans look Nigerian.

    • @UnbiasedOpinions-uz7tp
      @UnbiasedOpinions-uz7tp Рік тому +16

      ​@@hereiswisdom This statement just shows how much you know about how black genetics work. I can name my white great-great grandfather and knew my mixed great-grandfather very well (he lived to 101 & died from COVID) and his 6 children (1 being my grandfather who was very light) range from all different shades, my grandfather's closest brother was darker than all (3 you can't tell have any white heritage at all). My mom is brown so is my dad and I, then comes my son, who is much lighter than BOTH of his darker brown parents. How? Genetics!

    • @EarthQueen-1111
      @EarthQueen-1111 Рік тому +11

      Exactly. I am 22% white, 75% black, and the rest is a mixture of everything. I believe this is common for AA’s

    • @janiecekeys4765
      @janiecekeys4765 Рік тому +2

      You are correct in your statement! Most descendants of transatlantic slavery in North America are around 30% European.

    • @Chloeeezyyy
      @Chloeeezyyy Рік тому +4

      @@hereiswisdomyou could have just looked up the stats and not looked dumb

  • @jdjones6563
    @jdjones6563 Рік тому +1

    PBS news hour dosen't let people comment. Why? I thought they cared about the people's opinions.

  • @ctya72
    @ctya72 Рік тому +4

    Oh they cleaned that up🤦🏾‍♀️🙄

  • @nailah96
    @nailah96 Рік тому +14

    She can choose to believe that, but I don't. In the year 1900s, in Georgia, where black people, despite it being post Emancipation, still did not have basic rights. I believe she was assaulted, unfortunately.

  • @asilva7193
    @asilva7193 Рік тому +6

    The timing makes it very clear what was happening here.

  • @ccbarr58
    @ccbarr58 9 місяців тому

    The man who raised them is the best.

  • @ANDTHEGODDESSSPEAKS
    @ANDTHEGODDESSSPEAKS Рік тому +14

    Viewers have discernment when ever you watch “programs” that you think are safe spaces and hold integrity. Our ppl will do and say anything for a check and anything to appease “others” and promote their agenda.(swirling and pacifying evil) Absolutely disgusting. I’m highly disappointed in the both of you.

  • @norahe1953
    @norahe1953 6 місяців тому

    This is my current wall! I have long suspected my great-great grandma was adopted but never had any confirmation. She was the 1st child of her mom, who was in her 40s, and her dad, who was the Postmaster. I have genetic links to ancestors going back 5 generations (the father of the mother of the mother of the father of my fathers mother) but I find it so strange that I can't find any DNA links to my direct female ancestor. This is the side of the family that looks mixed with something (dare they ever admit it) so it will always be curious to me

  • @pattiwhite9575
    @pattiwhite9575 Рік тому +29

    oh, I wonder. I am from a white family name of Head from Macon, GA area. Not a Nathian though. But, also a guy that had two properties in different counties and two seperate families at the same time during about the same time frame. Them Heads were tricky people.

    • @CurtisAhenkan
      @CurtisAhenkan Рік тому +16

      they were Heads for a reason then 🤣😅😆😄

    • @HabitualLover
      @HabitualLover Рік тому +1

      Shouldve been called Heels, huh? Kikikiki 😁

  • @nancyhammons3594
    @nancyhammons3594 10 місяців тому

    I don't know who Ciara Harris is, but I'm glad she didn't, on screen, lose control of her emotions like some others have done.

  • @JiveGray
    @JiveGray 11 місяців тому +3

    Mama's baby, Daddy's maybe was real even way back then. This is like the 5th - 6th time this has happened on this show.

  • @TheOnlyKhyro
    @TheOnlyKhyro Рік тому +2

    Why the Sugar coating this segment knowing it’s Black history month

  • @littleminna
    @littleminna Рік тому +19

    I love this program. Absolutely fascinating. I have a similar situation in my ancestry, my great-grandmother's birth record states she was an illegitimate child, so we don't know who her father was. Her mom married a few years later and it seems he adopted my great-grandmother, since she got his last name. But my family are convinced he wasn't her biological father. A relative of mine did some digging and found that around the time her mom got pregnant he worked at a farm where also a number of men worked. Anyone of them could possibly have been our ancestor then. Guess we'll never know. 😅

  • @ReggieWinston
    @ReggieWinston 11 місяців тому +4

    I’m betting the bank that wasn’t a consensual relationship

  • @NoOneSaint
    @NoOneSaint Рік тому +7

    Consensual yeah right, I really hope Ciara doesn't seriously fall for that and continues to look into that history on her own. She needs to look at what was going on at the time.

    • @skeezix8156
      @skeezix8156 11 місяців тому +2

      Made me think of the Public Enemy video Can’t Truss It

  • @Allinmyworld
    @Allinmyworld Рік тому +10

    I doubt if it was consensual bc the lady in question didn't seem to tell her husband this child might not be his. Probably took that one to the grave but very fascinating history here

  • @4everfaithfulun2Him
    @4everfaithfulun2Him 9 місяців тому +3

    The fact that yall created a narrative that this black family lived in the land of the white family as "share croppers" and not "slaves" shows me why i no longer need to watch these.

    • @Catchthiswaver
      @Catchthiswaver 5 місяців тому

      Imagine the next generation watching this and having no other historical context and believing it to be true