I swear every girl goes through this around their mid twenties!! lol when that frontal cortex finally finishes developing we are like a whole new person and style😂
As a single mom, I completely understand how you feel. You never get a break. I promise, it will get a little easier when he gets older and can start doing some things by himself.
She didn't say single, she said SAHM. I don't think they have broken up. Either way, I give all the props to the Single Mom's and SAHM's. I could never do it.
Being a mom is definitely exhausting. Being a stay at home mom is even harder. I get why people say it’s a luxury…it is in a sense on bonding with your kids and not missing milestones ect but it’s definitely exhausting and monotonous too. I feel you girl!
I am so proud of you Cristina. You can really tell you are having a metamorphosis, and realising where you want to be heading, and taking those steps. We are all so excited to watch this journey with you, inspiring us as always 😊🌎❤
I just wanted to tell you 1) you’re doing an amazing job you are an amazing mother aziz is so lucky to have you. ❤ 2) there’s nothing wrong with putting him in daycare 1-2 days a week or even everyday for a couple hours to have time for yourself. It benefits you and him. He will socialize and learn. You will be able to do whatever you want during that time. Love watching you ❤
I wouldn't go all blonde, you have beautiful hair and bleach really messed it up. Not to mention you gotta be on it for retouches and for a stay at home mom is hard. I am in the suburbs of chicago and being a SAHM it does get lonely but it gets easier as the grow. You are doing great ❤ keep it up.
Do not go blonde. I am sorry but am only being honest. It will look ridiculous, highlights yes. I am a celebrity makeup and image consultant. Your hair is so shiny, natural and beautiful, you’re beautiful al natural! For real! Your skin will be so washed out, the balayage sounds gorgeous ! ❤🎉
Coming from a longtime blonde who just went back to brunette today! My hair is SO thin, even more with extensions now, and I’ve lost half of my length under a year. The bleaching and extensions have worn down my hair so much and it looks terrible :( Brunette is so beautiful and will always look healthier!
We got speak up more on deeper not so glamorous side about being a mom! The sad, lonely, tiring, and depressing side. Thank you for talking about the reality about being a mom and not just showing the nice and easy parts❤
When you have a child, it just makes you want to be better in every aspect of your life. I'm so proud of the changes you're making. I also think he would really like part-time daycare, and you could get a lot of work done and not feel as stressed. Can't wait for this new chapter in your life ❤. Your natural hair color is stunning!
Taking care of yourself mentally, physically and even relationally is the BEST thing you can do for YOU & Aziz!!! So happy, you seem very joyful and peaceful Cristina!
Fellow new mom here 👋🏽 when you said you feel like you live the same day over and over again I felt that ! Being a stay at home is so much harder then actually having a job.
The way you have transformed your life for your baby boy in the best ways is so beautiful and wholesome to see. I wish you and the baby happiness and fortune ❤️
The best advice I can give is surrounding yourself with other moms with kids to not feel alone. I did it pretty much alone with 3 children, all really close in age. It was so hard and put so much stress on all other areas of my life. Finding a moms group could definitely help with community. I'm not sure if you attend church, but that's how I found my saving grace. Takes a village to raise a child(ren).
I went from her and Arath broke up too no.. he is still with her too nope they broke up. Then i realize how much she is changing her life. This is amazing for her and whatever is going on with her life, i wish her the best!
Girl, i can relate to everything u say. I have 2 daughters who are 17 months apart. Once they both started school, i felt so relief. You have more time for yourself.
My husband works from 11am-12 at night so I'm with our baby boy alone all day and I feel so overwhelmed too he just turned 2 and we live in a small ass studio so It can feel cooped up in here. The days do feel so repetitive I'm always cleaning and washing dishes and feeling lonely is an understament to say the least. I catch myself asking what's my purpose but I try to center myself and take a deep breath when I feel this way remembering that my purpose right now is to raise my son and give him unconditional love and patience. I love your videos! I used to live in Cicero now I'm in rolling meadows but if you ever need a mommy and baby date were here for you girl! Take care love 🌺 You're an inspiration of a woman!
Being a mom is a beautiful purpose in this world. You’re starting a whole generation of people. I’m a career woman who yearns to be a mom because I think that is a much bigger purpose in this world. God bless you and your family. ❤
Cada persona decide cómo quiere pasar sus días y la perspectiva de cómo ve su día a día 👍🏼 si tú lo vez así solo das a entender que eres infeliz y solo te quejas pero no cambias Nada… yo hago lo mismo que tú y mi vida no es miserable puedo salir al parque o a donde quiera 👍🏼 puedo escuchar música puedo hacer zumba salir con amigas y llevarme a mi hijo y a veces trabajo 4 horas diarios
Raising childeren is hard (im a singel mother i just had baby nr 2 was alone) the are 7 & 9 years ol going to skool so i have lottle more my time. Im still blessed that i see them growing up. I get how your feeling dont know what your purpose is. If you can have so time for yourself to be you and not a mother or clearing the house You got this I live in the Netherlands so we cant get a Coffee or play date. You got this mommy ♡
Just want to be a reminder that your more than just a mommy but a person who is deserving of everything and especially to be heard. I don’t know much struggle you go through as I personally don’t have kids but as a daughter to a hard working single mother just know your son sees your efforts for him and loves you beyond comprehension 💗 Keep your head up mama you got this!
I have been watching you from when you were in your 27k subs. I have watched your business adventures, your accomplishments, becoming a mum… it’s is heartbreaking to see a broken family. My heart aches for you. May god bless you with super natural strength. Id also like to say that I’m so proud of you. You are a good mum. And I love the changes, I love the growth.
You are so amazing and grown so much I remember hearing you talking about working at mcdonalds, saving up becoming a dancer and now you’re doing real estate and being an amazing mommy! You are so blessed!
Girl you are very mature about how you handle being a mom I have so much respect for you and admire you for that keep being an Allstar in life you got this !!! As long as your baby boy and you are in good health nothing else matters
Being a new mom is tough but I’m so proud of you 🌷 Having “Mommie Blues” is like a rollercoaster 🎢 It’s normal, trust me 💕Continue to go to the park with the baby and keep yourself busy doing things You love ❤️ You got this, Mamas💅🏼
Black or highlights for sure!! You should make content giving advice or showing how to start a business/owning properties just being an adult fr! A lot of us women need guidance from realistic experiences! ♥️ You’ve come such a long way and we can tell what a great mom you are!
Cristina tant que ces changements te font du bien, te font evoluer c'est très bien. Il n'y a que toi qui sait ce qui est le mieux pour toi. Sois heureuse avec ton prince Aziz. ❤😘
Thank you Christina for acknowledging the hardships of stay at home moms that work. It’s a feat of its own. Keep with your work and passions, vlogging and property flipping it gives life more variety! ❤😊
We women are so strong 💪🏼 It becomes so overwhelming when having to deal with , children, work, cooking, cleaning, and running a circus lol on a daily basis 😩 Just know you are doing an amazing job and have achieved so much. But like the saying is: Possibilities are endless❤wishing you all the best luv🥰
Personal opinion I think a light brown / light caramel lived in balayage would look BOMB on you! Not high maintenance but that pick me up change you might be looking for! Either way girl, you're killing it! Keep going!! 🙌⚡️
Perhaps you should consider putting Aziz in a daycare facility for half a day. This will give you an opportunity to do a few things. You'll also meet other mothers and you'll be able to arrange play dates for Aziz as well. Just something to think about ❤
Also helps them learn alot. From sharing to not getting all the attention. These things really need to be taught especially to boys so they wont be narcissists and jealous attention craving men. Its healthy for you and the babes!!❤😊😊
Cristina I am so proud of you. Perhaps having a housekeper 2x a week to help? Or perhaps going to a gym class can help boost your overall health, self esteem and day to day activities :) love you and you got this!
i can understand the anxiety with going out with your little one. some of my friends rather stay at home with their kids but then they are too overwhelmed and depressed, just like you said. i know it is hard and sometimes their mood changes in a second. but it is so worth it. you will have great memories together. i am alone with my 15 months old almost every day. we are at the park 2x a day and trying to make friends. we are always searching for new parks in our area. we started going on bus rides recently and it’s so much fun. and much easier than going by our car as it takes a million years to get him there lol. i still dont have a enough willpower to take him to zoo though lol. it will get better if you try little by little, i promise. my tip? SLEEP WHEN HE NAPS!!! i dont care about the mess anymore. my husband finally gets it.
13:05 now that Aziz is older, you can start a sleep schedule eat schedule etc for everyday routine, then start waking up way earlier to get yourself together before he wakes up ( or when you’re almost done ) and you go do whatever it is. Then, come back and try to do a “ big “chore a day, but keep up with every day BS( Aziz can “ help mommy “ with his toys or whatever. If you teach him now he’ll do it later just cuz). Kids also tend to pick up habits and routines of the adults around them. If you have a dishwasher, just rinse everything and put it as you go in the dishwasher until it’s full and ready to go. Laundry, collect as you go and separate, do every other day a load, drying and folding in between . After folding day you can do the other load of the week etc. Big cleaning on a Sunday but if you keep this as a routine you’ll have at least Sunday’s off eventually. Maybe even the weekends.
My wife suggested since your a brand new mom she thought high lights might be good so you have change but not as drastic as blonde. Plus you won’t have roots like blonde and it can be drying when you go that many shades lighter than your natural color. You’re doing a great job as a mom. 😊
Never defrost meat with warm water or hot water because it creates bacteria. Always defrost in cold water. Also, a great tip that I learned is to take the meat out of the packaging and put the meat inside a clean plastic bag or a Ziploc bag. Close it up tight and put that bag inside a container with cold water. It really really works. Try it and you’ll be doing that from now on lol
I have been watching you for years and the transformation is incredible.You are an amazing mom and your house is beautiful and you keep it so clean.These years feel long but they are so short enjoy every minute.
Hi Cristina! I vote the same for your hair! It is sososo beautiful!!! I can understand wanting for a change, but I absolutely love your hair color so much. Good luck with your tattoo removal process. I am going through mine. It’s been a slow process (four years with eight sessions) but I am really happy to rid of them :). Glad you are healing well from your surgery. Keep glowing girl!
Tina my love! You have so much going on, and you remind me so much of myself. 0mph to 100mph growing up. It’s truly a blessing, remember to pace yourself. Don’t focus on building the whole house, just focus on laying down one brick at a time ❤ xoxoxoxo
As a SAHM who is also going through a divorce, it is NOT a luxury AT ALL! & I HATE that ppl say that & describe it that way & that’s how ppl feel & that’s why we’re looked at as if we don’t do anything. It is absolutely thee hardest job there is & some studies & research even suggests that is the equivalent or even worse than a 9-5 bc the job literally does not stop. It’s the best decision I could have made though for my son & no person can ever make me feel less than as a mom & a person to be with my son everyday making sure he is safe & loved & so much more. S/o to all of us SAHM out there & whether we have assistance or not, we got this 💯💪🏾 YOU GOT THIS GIRL ❤
@@Sharylanne idk what she’s doing. Just sharing my experience also being a SAHM like her. I said also in the terms of myself being a SAHM & going through a divorce at the same time as having to be a SAHM. Dont think she is married btw. Hope that helps.
Hi Cristina! I am also stay at home mom, my son is now 7. My husband works all day . I try to make my day fun with my son and I enjoy to see him happy! I also like to dress up and do makeup so I always find time to do that because it puts me in a good mood. Do the best you can and keep a positive mindset! As for your hair, keep it dark , go black! Sending love and light from Maine, USA❤❤❤❤
Maybe look into groups in your area for moms! Or start your own! I’ve seen some influencers do that and it’s a great way to meet new people that are going through what you go through. I’m not a mom but I can imagine how much harder it can seem to make new friends. Just being an adult in general is hard. keep the good vibes going and looking forward to more content :)
Me too I can relate to doing things alone and feeling alone as a mom. Thanks for sharing because tbh it is hard and very lonely. So hearing this from such an influential person is relieving especially when you been trying to get the words out it’s crazy. You also made me feel like it’s ok to go days without showering sometimes maybe to get other stuff done around the house that are just as important as well. I take a shower 2x a day and I still feel like a dusty because either the whole apartment is upside down or some of the house. I guess it’s all about balance at the end of the day. “Pick your poison “😅
Don’t let your mind stop you for what you want to do push your self , I know is exhausting but you just said you had dreams of taking the baby places do it , they grow so fast so fast take advantage , you are so smart talented , creative , beautiful and about your hair yay changes are always good Can’t wait to see what you decided to do !!
I’ve been feeling like I want to change up my hair and style for a while now so I finally did a color analysis to figure out what colors naturally compliment my skin and its been helping me soooo much when I go shopping and to pick out my hair color cuz now I don’t waste money or buy clothes that I end up regretting later also I’ve been deep diving into my personal style and it feels so good to prioritize myself… Sending you love and I’m excited to see this new chapter for youuu ❤
I'm a stay at home mom of 6 , not showering for days can be sign of depression. Showering everyday is a must for me. I use it as my alone time , after a long day . The only times I've felt like not showering I was falling to to post partum .
@@s.r6331 that's what I'm saying . And when I home alone husband works late , I wait till I put them all in bed and then shower . Or if my youngest won't sleep I bring his chair in the restroom with me and I give him toys . Where there is a will there is way
Girl YES. Take care of yourself 💘 us moms put ourselves on the back burner so much and it’s easy to go in a downward spiral. You’re doing an amazing job with your son. It’s okay to put yourself first sometimes and give yourself extra care. From mom to mom, I can sense you definitely need some extra self care & im happy you’re finding yourself in the process! 💘
I really missed seeing your videos! Try to keep yourself as busy as possible. It can be hard doing it alone. I’m glad you have things to look forward to. Also not showering for a days might be a sign of depression. Pp depression is so common and happens to a lot of moms. Just remind yourself of how far you’ve came and never give up on your dreams. Please make more videos 💕
First, the outfits are fire! So cute, so simple and your body looks so good!! Your hair is gorgeous and healthy, try some highlights and then see how you feel. You have such a beautiful face, you could even go icy gray and look good. Aziz is a doll baby! You should feel so proud of yourself! Keep moving forward and you will be unstoppable!❤
u should get hair extensions that they have highlights in them n blend them whit your natural hair at lease you know if you d'ont like it you could always remove them. just to prevent the damage.
Your such a baddie, and to see you now in motherhood is amazing. I’ve been a mom for a long time even before you were a mom & I’ve enjoyed your videos and now your a mom I relate to wym. I’m a SAHM & it can be hard, but with time it’ll get a little easy. Sending you and your baby so much love & peace 🙏🏽🤍
Girl you are doing AMAZINGLY ❤ I know sometimes it doesn't feel that way but you are. You've always been a boss babe and you will make all this work and overcome the struggles just like in the past. Best advice... enjoy the moments babes he will grow so fast so ease the pressure on yourself it will be great I promise❤
Oh my God baby girl this comment section is vicious I think I speak for many when I say we are proud of you you inspire us your personal life is your personal life and you’re allowed to drop a loungewear sponsor even though you’re updating your outside clothes wardrobe done with these people get to your head they have way too much time on their hands
You are such an amazing mother and a inspirational women because no matter what your always looking a the bright side and always have such a positive attitude but I definitely think you would rock ginger hair 💗🫶
I’m loving this new era of you! Excited to watch the changes! You got this, you are doing a great job especially as a young mommy!! I say keep your hair dark!
I think you should try the highlights first they look do pretty and I think like a caramel color highlight with your dark hair would add so much depth. You look so gorg❤❤
Honey, You are constantly having surgery on your body and you are never satisfied. You will always have something else to do, going into operating rooms, bones in your feet, dentures, hair, injections of fillers, etc. This will not stop. Invest in mental health or in therapies that can check what is happening to you so that you do not accept yourself and work on your interior in all aspects so that you feel confident about yourself. It may be more difficult and not everyone may be aware of how important it is. My wishes for you is that you have the strength and clarity to ask for help for your mind and spirit, you deserve it even more so having a beautiful baby. A huge hug and kiss.
i went through a huge change like this after i quit drinking where i recently changed my entire wardrobe to more like elegant sort of minimalistic and classic style. I think that tends to happen after big life events. you will feel so much like yourself when your growth is reflected in your outward appearance. not that you have to spend a lot of money, just a few changes for yourself to feel up to date. love you!! been watching your videos forever your son is sooo adorable
I have so much respect for stay at home mums …. When I go to work for me it’s like a time when I can rest and be calm and relax .. as soon as I get home at 5 pm it’s chaos til midnight …
I am removing my tattoo, best decison i ever made. It takes about 1-2 years tho because you have to wait in between sessions. Its been fading im so excited for the cleaner look. Uou eill be so happy when its gone, ita a journey and worth it
How much did you end up paying for the removal? I’ve been wanting to get rid of a tattoo I got in high school, but I’m scared the cost of getting it removed is going to be a lot!
@@brendabuitron5438 I got an unlimited pass to go as much as possible until it is all faded, they usually suggest about 10-14 sessions. I'm at 5 and it started going away, and I paid $2000
So I got an unlimited pass, this allows you to get as many sessions until it's gone, so it was a cheaper deal, I paid $2000. They suggest 10-14 sessions for it to be fully gone and I'm at 5. So it's a bit cheaper to get the unlimited pass because you don't know how many sessions you would need. I think a single session was $250.
I swear every girl goes through this around their mid twenties!! lol when that frontal cortex finally finishes developing we are like a whole new person and style😂
As a single mom, I completely understand how you feel. You never get a break. I promise, it will get a little easier when he gets older and can start doing some things by himself.
She didn't say single, she said SAHM. I don't think they have broken up.
Either way, I give all the props to the Single Mom's and SAHM's. I could never do it.
Wait... why did she like your comment. Maybe they aren't together
@@Web19814 Wait isnt she getting his name tattoo removed from her hand????? Seems like they did break up
@love_nyc_ yeah, but it seemed like she was getting rid of it because she doesn't want tats on her hands. However, maybe she got rid of him too.
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Being a mom is definitely exhausting. Being a stay at home mom is even harder. I get why people say it’s a luxury…it is in a sense on bonding with your kids and not missing milestones ect but it’s definitely exhausting and monotonous too. I feel you girl!
I am so proud of you Cristina. You can really tell you are having a metamorphosis, and realising where you want to be heading, and taking those steps. We are all so excited to watch this journey with you, inspiring us as always 😊🌎❤
Get highlights first and if you like them go blonde! The gradual process will be more forgiving on the health of your hair ❤️
I’m glad someone who knows hair health commented 💕🙌🏾
I just wanted to tell you 1) you’re doing an amazing job you are an amazing mother aziz is so lucky to have you. ❤ 2) there’s nothing wrong with putting him in daycare 1-2 days a week or even everyday for a couple hours to have time for yourself. It benefits you and him. He will socialize and learn. You will be able to do whatever you want during that time. Love watching you ❤
I think that your natural color looks so good on you. Being natural is what I personally consider “classy”.
i agree
100%
She can get half head blond highlights if she wants a change but full blond is not going to look the best in my opinion
I wouldn't go all blonde, you have beautiful hair and bleach really messed it up. Not to mention you gotta be on it for retouches and for a stay at home mom is hard. I am in the suburbs of chicago and being a SAHM it does get lonely but it gets easier as the grow. You are doing great ❤ keep it up.
balayage would look nice!!
that’s so nice💕
Do not go blonde. I am sorry but am only being honest. It will look ridiculous, highlights yes. I am a celebrity makeup and image consultant. Your hair is so shiny, natural and beautiful, you’re beautiful al natural! For real! Your skin will be so washed out, the balayage sounds gorgeous ! ❤🎉
Coming from a longtime blonde who just went back to brunette today! My hair is SO thin, even more with extensions now, and I’ve lost half of my length under a year. The bleaching and extensions have worn down my hair so much and it looks terrible :( Brunette is so beautiful and will always look healthier!
I've been out for long while. So is the baby's daddy no longer in the picture?😮
"when everything is clean I feel like my life is super together" my spirit animal lol
Same 😂
Same here ❤
Yeeesssssss! It’s like a placebo for my health
I’m 7 weeks pregnant 😢 life is so hard man😢 god bless everyone ❤
We got speak up more on deeper not so glamorous side about being a mom! The sad, lonely, tiring, and depressing side. Thank
you for talking about the reality about being a mom and not just showing the nice and easy parts❤
Aziz looks bigger 🥹 they grow so fast 😭😭 he looked so cute vacuuming!
Period! She is back! 🥰
I love your dark hair! you can pull off both, but I say keep it dark
Black hair looks so good on you ❤ def keep it dark
When you have a child, it just makes you want to be better in every aspect of your life. I'm so proud of the changes you're making. I also think he would really like part-time daycare, and you could get a lot of work done and not feel as stressed. Can't wait for this new chapter in your life ❤. Your natural hair color is stunning!
Taking care of yourself mentally, physically and even relationally is the BEST thing you can do for YOU & Aziz!!! So happy, you seem very joyful and peaceful Cristina!
I love how clean you keep your apartment 😭😭😭 everything is organised and has its place. I cant wait to move!! goals
Fellow new mom here 👋🏽 when you said you feel like you live the same day over and over again I felt that ! Being a stay at home is so much harder then actually having a job.
The way you have transformed your life for your baby boy in the best ways is so beautiful and wholesome to see. I wish you and the baby happiness and fortune ❤️
The best advice I can give is surrounding yourself with other moms with kids to not feel alone. I did it pretty much alone with 3 children, all really close in age. It was so hard and put so much stress on all other areas of my life. Finding a moms group could definitely help with community. I'm not sure if you attend church, but that's how I found my saving grace. Takes a village to raise a child(ren).
I went from her and Arath broke up too no.. he is still with her too nope they broke up. Then i realize how much she is changing her life. This is amazing for her and whatever is going on with her life, i wish her the best!
❤️❤️❤️❤️
He isn’t even attractive and he still hasn’t married her… he’s a waste of time
They broke up ?
@@ladyJ_000she let him get away with this
They broke up?
Girl, i can relate to everything u say. I have 2 daughters who are 17 months apart. Once they both started school, i felt so relief. You have more time for yourself.
My husband works from 11am-12 at night so I'm with our baby boy alone all day and I feel so overwhelmed too he just turned 2 and we live in a small ass studio so It can feel cooped up in here.
The days do feel so repetitive I'm always cleaning and washing dishes and feeling lonely is an understament to say the least.
I catch myself asking what's my purpose but I try to center myself and take a deep breath when I feel this way remembering that my purpose right now is to raise my son and give him unconditional love and patience.
I love your videos!
I used to live in Cicero now I'm in rolling meadows but if you ever need a mommy and baby date were here for you girl!
Take care love 🌺
You're an inspiration of a woman!
Being a mom is a beautiful purpose in this world. You’re starting a whole generation of people. I’m a career woman who yearns to be a mom because I think that is a much bigger purpose in this world. God bless you and your family. ❤
Cada persona decide cómo quiere pasar sus días y la perspectiva de cómo ve su día a día 👍🏼 si tú lo vez así solo das a entender que eres infeliz y solo te quejas pero no cambias Nada… yo hago lo mismo que tú y mi vida no es miserable puedo salir al parque o a donde quiera 👍🏼 puedo escuchar música puedo hacer zumba salir con amigas y llevarme a mi hijo y a veces trabajo 4 horas diarios
Raising childeren is hard (im a singel mother i just had baby nr 2 was alone) the are 7 & 9 years ol going to skool so i have lottle more my time. Im still blessed that i see them growing up.
I get how your feeling dont know what your purpose is.
If you can have so time for yourself to be you and not a mother or clearing the house
You got this
I live in the Netherlands so we cant get a Coffee or play date.
You got this mommy ♡
Just want to be a reminder that your more than just a mommy but a person who is deserving of everything and especially to be heard. I don’t know much struggle you go through as I personally don’t have kids but as a daughter to a hard working single mother just know your son sees your efforts for him and loves you beyond comprehension 💗 Keep your head up mama you got this!
black hair will looks amazing on u Tina ❤❤❤
I have been watching you from when you were in your 27k subs. I have watched your business adventures, your accomplishments, becoming a mum… it’s is heartbreaking to see a broken family. My heart aches for you. May god bless you with super natural strength. Id also like to say that I’m so proud of you. You are a good mum. And I love the changes, I love the growth.
The parents love their child and support him… that’s not a broken family…. She doesn’t need your fake pity… go on some where with the fake support
Girl, money piece balayage would look very nice on you. It would give a nice sun kissed glow to your hair ❤
You are so amazing and grown so much I remember hearing you talking about working at mcdonalds, saving up becoming a dancer and now you’re doing real estate and being an amazing mommy! You are so blessed!
Girl you are very mature about how you handle being a mom I have so much respect for you and admire you for that keep being an Allstar in life you got this !!! As long as your baby boy and you are in good health nothing else matters
Being a new mom is tough but I’m so proud of you 🌷 Having “Mommie Blues” is like a rollercoaster 🎢 It’s normal, trust me 💕Continue to go to the park with the baby and keep yourself busy doing things You love ❤️ You got this, Mamas💅🏼
You looked beautiful before all the surgeries and procedures. Your natural you is where it’s at.
Black or highlights for sure!! You should make content giving advice or showing how to start a business/owning properties just being an adult fr! A lot of us women need guidance from realistic experiences! ♥️ You’ve come such a long way and we can tell what a great mom you are!
youre glowing up girl!!! setting the standards for your life and for you son!! business owner and real estate: youre doing great mama
Been watching you for years. Such a sweet, humble person ❤
Cristina tant que ces changements te font du bien, te font evoluer c'est très bien. Il n'y a que toi qui sait ce qui est le mieux pour toi.
Sois heureuse avec ton prince Aziz. ❤😘
Thank you Christina for acknowledging the hardships of stay at home moms that work. It’s a feat of its own. Keep with your work and passions, vlogging and property flipping it gives life more variety! ❤😊
We women are so strong 💪🏼 It becomes so overwhelming when having to deal with , children, work, cooking, cleaning, and running a circus lol on a daily basis 😩 Just know you are doing an amazing job and have achieved so much. But like the saying is: Possibilities are endless❤wishing you all the best luv🥰
Id keep your hair dark with highlights. It looks great on your skin tone....but always gorgeous. What makes YOU feel best is what you should do, Mama!
Personal opinion I think a light brown / light caramel lived in balayage would look BOMB on you! Not high maintenance but that pick me up change you might be looking for! Either way girl, you're killing it! Keep going!! 🙌⚡️
Perhaps you should consider putting Aziz in a daycare facility for half a day. This will give you an opportunity to do a few things. You'll also meet other mothers and you'll be able to arrange play dates for Aziz as well. Just something to think about ❤
Also helps them learn alot. From sharing to not getting all the attention. These things really need to be taught especially to boys so they wont be narcissists and jealous attention craving men. Its healthy for you and the babes!!❤😊😊
This!! And he has contact with other kids daily and will make friends and learn life in a community 🥰
Day cares are dangerous
Cristina I am so proud of you. Perhaps having a housekeper 2x a week to help? Or perhaps going to a gym class can help boost your overall health, self esteem and day to day activities :) love you and you got this!
i can understand the anxiety with going out with your little one. some of my friends rather stay at home with their kids but then they are too overwhelmed and depressed, just like you said. i know it is hard and sometimes their mood changes in a second. but it is so worth it. you will have great memories together. i am alone with my 15 months old almost every day. we are at the park 2x a day and trying to make friends. we are always searching for new parks in our area. we started going on bus rides recently and it’s so much fun. and much easier than going by our car as it takes a million years to get him there lol. i still dont have a enough willpower to take him to zoo though lol. it will get better if you try little by little, i promise. my tip? SLEEP WHEN HE NAPS!!! i dont care about the mess anymore. my husband finally gets it.
I’m so happy for you !! Change is good. I personally love your dark hair but I think a haircut can be so empowering and uplifting.
You’re doing so good mama! being a parent is so hard and overwhelming.always a blessing tho.take care of yourself 🫶🏽
13:05 now that Aziz is older, you can start a sleep schedule eat schedule etc for everyday routine, then start waking up way earlier to get yourself together before he wakes up ( or when you’re almost done ) and you go do whatever it is. Then, come back and try to do a “ big “chore a day, but keep up with every day BS( Aziz can “ help mommy “ with his toys or whatever. If you teach him now he’ll do it later just cuz). Kids also tend to pick up habits and routines of the adults around them. If you have a dishwasher, just rinse everything and put it as you go in the dishwasher until it’s full and ready to go. Laundry, collect as you go and separate, do every other day a load, drying and folding in between . After folding day you can do the other load of the week etc. Big cleaning on a Sunday but if you keep this as a routine you’ll have at least Sunday’s off eventually. Maybe even the weekends.
I love getting fresh flowers for the house. Something I like to do when I reset the house.
My wife suggested since your a brand new mom she thought high lights might be good so you have change but not as drastic as blonde. Plus you won’t have roots like blonde and it can be drying when you go that many shades lighter than your natural color. You’re doing a great job as a mom. 😊
Never defrost meat with warm water or hot water because it creates bacteria. Always defrost in cold water. Also, a great tip that I learned is to take the meat out of the packaging and put the meat inside a clean plastic bag or a Ziploc bag. Close it up tight and put that bag inside a container with cold water. It really really works. Try it and you’ll be doing that from now on lol
Repackaging is not a good idea. Keep it in the original packaging while defrosting
I have been watching you for years and the transformation is incredible.You are an amazing mom and your house is beautiful and you keep it so clean.These years feel long but they are so short enjoy every minute.
Hi Cristina! I vote the same for your hair! It is sososo beautiful!!! I can understand wanting for a change, but I absolutely love your hair color so much. Good luck with your tattoo removal process. I am going through mine. It’s been a slow process (four years with eight sessions) but I am really happy to rid of them :). Glad you are healing well from your surgery. Keep glowing girl!
Tina my love! You have so much going on, and you remind me so much of myself. 0mph to 100mph growing up. It’s truly a blessing, remember to pace yourself. Don’t focus on building the whole house, just focus on laying down one brick at a time ❤ xoxoxoxo
I completely understand! I LOVE being a mom but doing everything is the hardest job of life💕
You got this girl! It’s a big transition for you and things will get better. You’re always moving forward and we love seeing you do it.
As a SAHM who is also going through a divorce, it is NOT a luxury AT ALL! & I HATE that ppl say that & describe it that way & that’s how ppl feel & that’s why we’re looked at as if we don’t do anything. It is absolutely thee hardest job there is & some studies & research even suggests that is the equivalent or even worse than a 9-5 bc the job literally does not stop. It’s the best decision I could have made though for my son & no person can ever make me feel less than as a mom & a person to be with my son everyday making sure he is safe & loved & so much more. S/o to all of us SAHM out there & whether we have assistance or not, we got this 💯💪🏾 YOU GOT THIS GIRL ❤
So she’s divorcing?
@@Sharylanne idk what she’s doing. Just sharing my experience also being a SAHM like her. I said also in the terms of myself being a SAHM & going through a divorce at the same time as having to be a SAHM. Dont think she is married btw. Hope that helps.
Hi Cristina! I am also stay at home mom, my son is now 7. My husband works all day . I try to make my day fun with my son and I enjoy to see him happy! I also like to dress up and do makeup so I always find time to do that because it puts me in a good mood. Do the best you can and keep a positive mindset! As for your hair, keep it dark , go black! Sending love and light from Maine, USA❤❤❤❤
Maybe look into groups in your area for moms! Or start your own! I’ve seen some influencers do that and it’s a great way to meet new people that are going through what you go through. I’m not a mom but I can imagine how much harder it can seem to make new friends. Just being an adult in general is hard. keep the good vibes going and looking forward to more content :)
Me too I can relate to doing things alone and feeling alone as a mom. Thanks for sharing because tbh it is hard and very lonely. So hearing this from such an influential person is relieving especially when you been trying to get the words out it’s crazy. You also made me feel like it’s ok to go days without showering sometimes maybe to get other stuff done around the house that are just as important as well. I take a shower 2x a day and I still feel like a dusty because either the whole apartment is upside down or some of the house. I guess it’s all about balance at the end of the day. “Pick your poison “😅
Aw, precious Aziz. He’s grown so much. Wish you all well ❤
I looove your growing over the years, you have never loose that sparkle 💖✨
Keep it up girl you are doing a great job, súper mom!
Don’t let your mind stop you for what you want to do push your self , I know is exhausting but you just said you had dreams of taking the baby places do it , they grow so fast so fast take advantage , you are so smart talented , creative , beautiful and about your hair yay changes are always good
Can’t wait to see what you decided to do !!
I’ve been feeling like I want to change up my hair and style for a while now so I finally did a color analysis to figure out what colors naturally compliment my skin and its been helping me soooo much when I go shopping and to pick out my hair color cuz now I don’t waste money or buy clothes that I end up regretting later also I’ve been deep diving into my personal style and it feels so good to prioritize myself… Sending you love and I’m excited to see this new chapter for youuu ❤
I'm a stay at home mom of 6 , not showering for days can be sign of depression. Showering everyday is a must for me. I use it as my alone time , after a long day . The only times I've felt like not showering I was falling to to post partum .
it can be a sign of depression but also you gotta remember if babygirl by herself, she cant shower cos she need to watch Aziz
@@CloeCorpseI'm pretty sure you can do those things while they take naps.
@@s.r6331 that's what I'm saying . And when I home alone husband works late , I wait till I put them all in bed and then shower . Or if my youngest won't sleep I bring his chair in the restroom with me and I give him toys . Where there is a will there is way
Girl YES. Take care of yourself 💘 us moms put ourselves on the back burner so much and it’s easy to go in a downward spiral. You’re doing an amazing job with your son. It’s okay to put yourself first sometimes and give yourself extra care. From mom to mom, I can sense you definitely need some extra self care & im happy you’re finding yourself in the process! 💘
Im so glad she went to a thrift shop! ❤ U can get so many unique pieces without over consumption thats so crazy on SM these days.
So proud of you!❤ So young, beautiful young lady inside and out❤Your son is so cute and you are such a good Mom❤❤
So excited for you girlie! Love the videos! Your natural hair will be the classiest option!
I really missed seeing your videos! Try to keep yourself as busy as possible. It can be hard doing it alone. I’m glad you have things to look forward to. Also not showering for a days might be a sign of depression. Pp depression is so common and happens to a lot of moms. Just remind yourself of how far you’ve came and never give up on your dreams. Please make more videos 💕
That pink set is the epitome of class. Super sophisticated.
It’s like you just had Aziz yesterday and he’s walking now! So precious ❤
First, the outfits are fire! So cute, so simple and your body looks so good!! Your hair is gorgeous and healthy, try some highlights and then see how you feel. You have such a beautiful face, you could even go icy gray and look good. Aziz is a doll baby! You should feel so proud of yourself! Keep moving forward and you will be unstoppable!❤
Get a balayage ✨
I have been watching your videos since day 1. & I am so proud of you! You never give up. Such a good mommy. ❤
u should get hair extensions that they have highlights in them n blend them whit your natural hair at lease you know if you d'ont like it you could always remove them.
just to prevent the damage.
Your such a baddie, and to see you now in motherhood is amazing. I’ve been a mom for a long time even before you were a mom & I’ve enjoyed your videos and now your a mom I relate to wym. I’m a SAHM & it can be hard, but with time it’ll get a little easy. Sending you and your baby so much love & peace 🙏🏽🤍
This is so random but I feel like you’d do good asmr bc your soft spoken intro was relaxing lol
I was going to comment this!!
@@milagirlxx6230 I feel like revenue from an asmr channel would be really good too!
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Get your bag get in the ASMR community !!!!!!!
@@Latinaaqueen that’s exactly what I was thinking! The asmr ppl make bank 😮💨
Girl you are doing AMAZINGLY ❤ I know sometimes it doesn't feel that way but you are. You've always been a boss babe and you will make all this work and overcome the struggles just like in the past. Best advice... enjoy the moments babes he will grow so fast so ease the pressure on yourself it will be great I promise❤
Oh my God baby girl this comment section is vicious I think I speak for many when I say we are proud of you you inspire us your personal life is your personal life and you’re allowed to drop a loungewear sponsor even though you’re updating your outside clothes wardrobe done with these people get to your head they have way too much time on their hands
Aziz looks so much like you, he has a lovely smile. You’re coming back to being you again, which is exciting to see! Look after yourself ❤
‘Mommy’ looks good on you 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I’ve been watching you for years! You’re such an inspiration and a vibe! 💕 Keep your hair dark…it’s beautiful 😍
I would stay with your black hair color it is BEAUTIFUL
You are such an amazing mother and a inspirational women because no matter what your always looking a the bright side and always have such a positive attitude but I definitely think you would rock ginger hair 💗🫶
Change is good. Especially when you grow because of it. Keep taking care of yourself girl✨
I’m loving this new era of you! Excited to watch the changes! You got this, you are doing a great job especially as a young mommy!!
I say keep your hair dark!
I think you should try the highlights first they look do pretty and I think like a caramel color highlight with your dark hair would add so much depth. You look so gorg❤❤
Yup did it by myself 2 kids at 23, I honestly don’t know how I did. But you will get through it be proud of yourself and don’t be so hard on yourself.
I think jet black or highlights would eat 💯 Happy to see you posting more frequently Cristina! ☺️ Aziz is growing up so fast!
You’ve become one of the UA-camrs I can relate to most 💕 I’m living for your new style of content!!! Especially also being a mom of a one year old
Yes girl, being a stay at home mom is hard! It's literally no joke and I feel like I'm losing my mind over here. It really is lonely. ❤
Keep pushing thru girl! It’s really hard when they’re little, but it gets easier.. I promise! ❤
Honey, You are constantly having surgery on your body and you are never satisfied. You will always have something else to do, going into operating rooms, bones in your feet, dentures, hair, injections of fillers, etc. This will not stop. Invest in mental health or in therapies that can check what is happening to you so that you do not accept yourself and work on your interior in all aspects so that you feel confident about yourself. It may be more difficult and not everyone may be aware of how important it is. My wishes for you is that you have the strength and clarity to ask for help for your mind and spirit, you deserve it even more so having a beautiful baby.
A huge hug and kiss.
I agree 100%
I really thought some was wrong with me. My son is 7 mons and honestly these beginning stages make me say im cool on more💯
I think do a nice subtle balayage!
i’m excited that you’re posting again!
i went through a huge change like this after i quit drinking where i recently changed my entire wardrobe to more like elegant sort of minimalistic and classic style. I think that tends to happen after big life events. you will feel so much like yourself when your growth is reflected in your outward appearance. not that you have to spend a lot of money, just a few changes for yourself to feel up to date. love you!! been watching your videos forever your son is sooo adorable
Did i miss a chapter? Is dad not around anymore? Either way from one SAHM to another your doing amazing & Aziz is lucky to have you as his mama.
I believe he is but he is a truck driver so he’s always gone.
I love how mature and different she is
I have so much respect for stay at home mums …. When I go to work for me it’s like a time when I can rest and be calm and relax .. as soon as I get home at 5 pm it’s chaos til midnight …
You would rock black hair so much!! 👑 Love your content super motivational
I love this for you. I feel like I did this after having my baby. It was so necessary. Good luck with everything 💖💖
I am removing my tattoo, best decison i ever made. It takes about 1-2 years tho because you have to wait in between sessions. Its been fading im so excited for the cleaner look. Uou eill be so happy when its gone, ita a journey and worth it
How much did you end up paying for the removal? I’ve been wanting to get rid of a tattoo I got in high school, but I’m scared the cost of getting it removed is going to be a lot!
@@brendabuitron5438 I got an unlimited pass to go as much as possible until it is all faded, they usually suggest about 10-14 sessions. I'm at 5 and it started going away, and I paid $2000
@@brendabuitron5438me too!
@@brendabuitron5438 I'm also in Canada so you might want to check where you live :))
So I got an unlimited pass, this allows you to get as many sessions until it's gone, so it was a cheaper deal, I paid $2000. They suggest 10-14 sessions for it to be fully gone and I'm at 5. So it's a bit cheaper to get the unlimited pass because you don't know how many sessions you would need. I think a single session was $250.
The black hair you got done back in April was stunning😮😮😮♥️♥️