That's really a wise teaching, really appreciate what you said here .....I was brought up with a "do as you're told , because I said so, bullying father" I'm assuming in this moment it really separated me from my own decision making process and caused me to doubt myself. it made me seek an outside authority to take advise from and also to blame in case I got it wrong to shield me from the punishment I was trained to expect from making a mistake.
I agree and to add another thing is “do it for you and fo it for yourself, that which you feel would benefit you” is also keep sharing to a minimum. Many reasons for this but one stands out as the false expecation that another may be as thrilled as you are for your idea and taking a bit of the fight, the fight you had designed for your self anyways.
Sharing what you intend to do can trigger a dopamine reward that makes you less likely to do it. So I definitely agree that you shouldn't tell everyone what you're planning to do. Just do it.
That's really a wise teaching, really appreciate what you said here .....I was brought up with a "do as you're told , because I said so, bullying father" I'm assuming in this moment it really separated me from my own decision making process and caused me to doubt myself. it made me seek an outside authority to take advise from and also to blame in case I got it wrong to shield me from the punishment I was trained to expect from making a mistake.
Yeah this happens a lot with bullying or strict parenting. "Because I said so" destroys critical thinking
I agree and to add another thing is “do it for you and fo it for yourself, that which you feel would benefit you” is also keep sharing to a minimum. Many reasons for this but one stands out as the false expecation that another may be as thrilled as you are for your idea and taking a bit of the fight, the fight you had designed for your self anyways.
Sharing what you intend to do can trigger a dopamine reward that makes you less likely to do it. So I definitely agree that you shouldn't tell everyone what you're planning to do. Just do it.
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