Why is Everyone So Tired in Retirement?

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  • @bernie9728
    @bernie9728 Рік тому +611

    I retired 7 year ago and I still get up at 6:30 every morning. The first thing I do is start the coffee maker and head downstairs. Turn the TV on and watch the news. I then go up stairs to get my first cup. The hardest part of being retired is remembering what day it is. I love it.

    • @blimeylimey13
      @blimeylimey13 Рік тому +52

      First mistake is watching the news 😂

    • @Bob-xj8jl
      @Bob-xj8jl Рік тому +44

      No problem remembering the day of the week here, it's always Saturday

    • @ceciliapetrowsky2572
      @ceciliapetrowsky2572 Рік тому +27

      Why do you get up so early? One of the joys of being retired is sleeping in.

    • @jstar1000
      @jstar1000 Рік тому

      Who watches the news? I quit that nasty garbage way back when Obama one his first election, never ever watch a second of any news from the MSM at all and don't even come close to missing it.

    • @ga6589
      @ga6589 Рік тому +26

      @@ceciliapetrowsky2572 I've always been a morning person. I've been retied for 9 years and still get up at 5:00 AM. Sounds crazy, I know, but I love mornings and that's when I get the most done.

  • @johnmoore9862
    @johnmoore9862 Рік тому +37

    I retired 5 years ago, I still love looking out of my bedroom window at 7.00am watching people go to work.

  • @servantsoldier5207
    @servantsoldier5207 Рік тому +51

    No daybook No calendar No clock No boss and I take my 1pm-3pm retirement nap daily! I rest well and stay active!

    • @applebomb4091
      @applebomb4091 9 місяців тому +1

      can't wait!! perfect retirement nap too.

  • @nala3038
    @nala3038 Рік тому +403

    The problem with retirement is you never get a day off

  • @Earthtime3978
    @Earthtime3978 Рік тому +14

    You’re lucky to have each other, that’s almost everything in retirement. Others don’t have that. There’s another world out there of financial fears and loneliness .

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +2

      Thank you for your kind words.

    • @caseybc6342
      @caseybc6342 7 місяців тому

      My wife is almost 10 years my senior. Which is why I want to work part time next year. Then retire in 2 years.

  • @fredbuchwitz9031
    @fredbuchwitz9031 Рік тому +35

    I’m 78 now and have no intention of retiring. Being an artist there is no difference if I retire. I only work when I get inspired the rest of the time I love socializing with friends.

  • @nyxjones5797
    @nyxjones5797 Рік тому +22

    13 years ago my father retired at 60, and started playing golf 4 times a week instead of only on weekends when he worked. The result is that he's in better shape than I'm.

  • @ibuprofenPill
    @ibuprofenPill Рік тому +22

    I retired at 50 and it’s beyond awesome!

  • @DMUSA536
    @DMUSA536 Рік тому +39

    Exercising isn’t so much of extending your life expectancy, but being healthy as you age.

  • @appresley4071
    @appresley4071 Рік тому +14

    In my seventies, walk everyday, often up to 10 miles, play 9 hours of tennis over the week.
    Yet I often have a nap in the afternoon.

    • @Fegga1955
      @Fegga1955 5 місяців тому +1

      Wow,bow to you.Keep it up

  • @lolalyle9333
    @lolalyle9333 Рік тому +8

    I worked since I was 14 til 62. I raised 4 kids. I get up when I want go to bed when I want. I don’t want to be restricted. We all gotta die of something.

  • @rhondawaller4457
    @rhondawaller4457 Рік тому +27

    I work partime at the job I retired from. I got board ! You HAVE to stay busy, you need to get up and move ! Take a walk, pick up a weight ! Eat and sleep right ! Stay connected with people and the world

  • @nancyechelberger6347
    @nancyechelberger6347 Рік тому +34

    For me retirement meant relaxation, doing what I want and when I want. Household chores are enough activity for me. Since I retired I eat when and what I want also. Doing what I want when I want is so liberating.

    • @RetiredLovingIt
      @RetiredLovingIt Рік тому +2

      @Nancy Echelberger we absolutely love retirement! It is very liberating! 😊

    • @RetiredLovingIt
      @RetiredLovingIt Рік тому +2

      @@Neil-ht8fv there is nothing like retirement! We wished we had retired sooner!

    • @tobylopez445
      @tobylopez445 Рік тому +1

      real freedom and the best part is that we get paid for it!

  • @tomrunning357
    @tomrunning357 Рік тому +27

    What I did was get a cabin on a lake (work camp) before I retired to keep me busy filled with projects and some quality leisure. It is everything I need and allows me to have a place to gather with friends and family.

  • @piehound
    @piehound Рік тому +24

    One big reason is workers who survive into retirement have been " living " and working for years and years sleep deprived. It's no surprise to me after years of abusing the body this way (sleep deprivation) many have developed sleep related maladies such as insomnia, disrupted circadian rhythms, and other sleep related problems. It comes with the territory of existing in a post industrial age. Corporate work schedules, city dwelling, and commuting don't give the individual much opportunity to recharge adequately from the stresses of such an unnatural " lifestyle."

    • @brianmcg321
      @brianmcg321 Рік тому +1

      This is it exactly. Your body is trying to heal after years of abuse. It doesn’t happen overnight.

  • @RG-hf4et
    @RG-hf4et Рік тому +38

    Sleep apnea is a very common problem. Does your partner snore? Do you sleep with your mouth open? This can be the cause of your tiredness during the day!

  • @Florida_Joe75
    @Florida_Joe75 Рік тому +55

    Great video. I retired last year at 55. Best decision ever....

    • @Chris-L-sr
      @Chris-L-sr Рік тому +12

      I retired the day after my 55 th birthday and loving it,every day is Saturday 😁😁

    • @valerie718
      @valerie718 Рік тому +2

      I’m thinking about retiring next year at 55. Did people ever tell you that you were too young to retire? That’s what I’ve been told. How did you take it?

    • @melianna999
      @melianna999 Рік тому +3

      @@valerie718 Everyone is different. I retired at age 63 and my friend is 76 and still working.
      She does only two days and says she like it.

    • @Florida_Joe75
      @Florida_Joe75 Рік тому +1

      @@valerie718 Yes. Mostly due to envy / jealousy. Everyday is a vacation. I don’t know how I got errands, etc. done each day when I was working 60-70 hour weeks. You’re not guaranteed great health/energy at 65-70. When you’re 75+ you don’t tend to spend a lot of money due to low energy, etc.

    • @dazmurph
      @dazmurph Рік тому +4

      ​@@valerie718hi, an age is just a number, some it will be too early as they are just not ready, some will never retire even if they can. If your ready go and enjoy the rest of your life whichever way you want 🙂

  • @RetiredLovingIt
    @RetiredLovingIt Рік тому +15

    There is just nothing better than retirement! Keeping your health is extremely important in retirement. We can’t allow ourselves become couch potatoes. New subscribers here.

  • @yorkiemom4272
    @yorkiemom4272 Рік тому +5

    Very helpful, and I am already doing some of this. My husband passed away in this my first year of retirement, which really threw me into deep depression. I was eating when I wanted and what I wanted, sleeping during the day, increased my sweets and alcohol, isolated myself, and sat in front of the TV. Worse, I was on my phone over 8 hours a day. I finally went to my doctor, went to a grief counselor, hired a life coach... and still trying to figure things out. Thank you for this video.

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +3

      We are sorry for your loss and really appreciate you sharing this and love the rebound you are making in your life. Keep the momentum on changes and also continue to feel through the grieving process.

  • @peterricksugges5698
    @peterricksugges5698 7 місяців тому +4

    Sleep heals your body. Taking a 4 pm nap is good for your body as well.

  • @a_ya_la
    @a_ya_la Рік тому +20

    I watched my parents when they retired and they stayed busy. My Dad went out everyday and he had a part-time job. My Mom she would go out in the morning and come back home at 3:00pm to fix dinner. ❤ I am going to do the same.

  • @ga6589
    @ga6589 Рік тому +48

    I've been retired for 9 years now and have more energy than I ever did! I also don't need as much sleep. My husband says the same thing. We keep active and both agree that retirement is a new lease on life. I remember the days of coming home from work and being utterly exhausted.

    • @brucerowe2895
      @brucerowe2895 Рік тому +5

      As you get older keep moving. After 75 you wake up and feel like a truck ran over you legs, when you get moving it goes away.

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +4

      Thanks GA. I agree, keeping active makes all the difference in the world. You will hear me in videos talk about my physical wellness vision which is "To be physically independent at the age of 90" This vision is what motivates my exercise, my nutrition and my morning routine. Its not always easy, but we all can do the best we can to insure a longer more fulfilling and healthier life.

    • @caseybc6342
      @caseybc6342 7 місяців тому

      I am at that point of exhaustion. Turning 60 soon and being a high school teacher for 37 years has taken a toll on me mentally and physically. Hoping to go part time next year. Hope that feels better.

    • @ga6589
      @ga6589 7 місяців тому

      @@caseybc6342 I was an elementary teacher for 35 years and was fortunate to be able to retire at 60. I'd always thought I'd work until 62, but I simply didn't have it in me to continue. Going part time should ease the stress for you- best wishes!

  • @Bird111648
    @Bird111648 Рік тому +15

    I’ve been retired for 12 years and I will tell you that no structural thing to do make it bad. I sleep very little,retirement is the hardest thing I have ever done. I retired because of my health issues and over time my health has gotten worse. I get up early and my routine is getting up early, going to bed late, today my habits are several hours on UA-cam. My wife and I don’t have to worry about anything. And yesterday I am tired all the time. And yes your advice is appreciated

    • @brianmcg321
      @brianmcg321 Рік тому +3

      Join the YMCA and make that your new job.

    • @romanromanowski9038
      @romanromanowski9038 Рік тому +5

      If you are tired all the time , you are either out of shape or your diet does not provide all the necessary nutrients , magnesium, potassium, zinc...

  • @justnow5809
    @justnow5809 Рік тому +9

    Yes, I was telling my friends "how come I'm so tired after retirement? " Thanks for the advice....

  • @dave5833
    @dave5833 Рік тому +4

    I go from about 8:00 am until 4/5 pm and I am still tired. We never eat fast food, or out or late. I am 75 years young. Like your content thanks.

  • @jwj4400
    @jwj4400 Рік тому +10

    We watch a lot of TV, I do play the guitar, I work on new songs, and recordings, my wife doe's crocheting and other hobbies. We ride bikes most every day. We don't have many friends, and find it hard to make friends that have similar interest. Our children live in other cities and states, so we don't see them as often. It's a work in progress every day, to stay busy.

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +3

      It sounds like you guys are doing all you can to stay active. Its not always easy but keep up the great work.

  • @jolenevandolah6932
    @jolenevandolah6932 Рік тому +36

    Wow, so happy to have discovered you. I retired during the pandemic and it felt blissful to not be on a schedule and to indulge in "laziness", But I'm having trouble pulling myself out of it and getting on any sort of schedule or routine. Your advise is spot on! Even though I know these things, it's nice to be reminded and encouraged. Thank you! I'm subscribing so I can continue a healthier journey in retirement.

    • @RetiredLovingIt
      @RetiredLovingIt Рік тому +4

      @Jolene Vandolah we retired April 2020 right in the pandemic. We love retirement and it’s been a great adventure!

    • @cathynewyork7918
      @cathynewyork7918 Рік тому +2

      @@RetiredLovingIt I retired in the pandemic also in 2020, sold my car, and moved from Los Angeles to New York City. I am having a great retirement adventure also. Love it!

  • @10drowsy
    @10drowsy 8 місяців тому +1

    Many thanks for creating / sharing this videos and its many recommended "retirement lifestyle change / improvements" recommendations. re: Better Daily Routine (with less down time), Better Eating (with less Comfort Foods), Better self forced Exercise, Better Sleep, etc. etc. is great things. Especially in the long run. I retired 2 weeks ago (at age 60) and am slowly implementing your recommended lifestyle improvement changes. Just last night eating out on "weekly date night with my life partner" I said "nope - side order is tossed salad instead of usual fries". Slowly... One improvement change at a time. Thank you!

  • @jordyzelaya1459
    @jordyzelaya1459 Рік тому +6

    I live beachfront in Central America and originally retired in 2001. I can't wait to wake up in the morning to have coffee,check the wave-ocean conditions out front of the house. If I don't surf( which I prefer to do) I'll beachwalk music blasting,pausing to do exercises along the way,swimm after 5 miles. Return to the house before it gets to hot have lunch. Eat plenty of fruit,and veggies,no alcohol,no smoke,no drugs,drink plenty of pure water,and have a loving home life, Pura Vida desde Costa Rica 😎

  • @sarashann
    @sarashann Рік тому +8

    Great advice! I prioritize quality sleep as #1, then nutrition and physical activity, along with pleasurable socialization in the out of doors. Don't own a TV and choose not to spend money eating out. This is what works for me.

  • @jimyost2585
    @jimyost2585 Рік тому +7

    Poisons in the food supply (hormones, antibiotics, preservatives, pesticide residues, herbicide residues, excess salt, MSG, et al), poisons in the water supply (fluoride, chlorine, drug residues, et al), poisons in the air supply (chemtrails, air pollution, et al), and poisons in the media (mainstream news, subliminal messaging, et al). The combination of these things are making everyone tired, not just retired people.

    • @InMyBrz
      @InMyBrz Рік тому +1

      YES living and being retired in the USA is DANGEROUS to your health
      That is ONE reason many of us have moved overseas ; for a lot better quality of life and a more healthier one !

  • @samuelflorez1461
    @samuelflorez1461 Рік тому +3

    Hello I'm Samuel in South Arizona where it comes to 115 degrees, I retired 2 years ago , I do alot of what you spoke about , to see my NEWS I record it and watch it when I have time , Work out in the morning, have a cup of coffee , and workout , do my shopping or work in the yard , I feel happy , and also a movie , I record and watch it when I have time , I thank you two for your video and hope to hear alot more , Thank You from AZ , 😃

  • @MWS1960
    @MWS1960 Рік тому +7

    Been retired 9 months and I walk 8 miles a day….meet up with other retirees to keep the mind active. I don’t miss my corporate job which became way too stressful. I ride my motorcycle and drive my porsche for excitement. I’ll begin to travel when my wife retires next year. Loving it and I have no desire to go back to my corporate stressful IT job in tech 😡😡 still have my third son in school, but I walk with him in the evening which provides time to sync up. Never had time to do that before. I’ve lost 20 lbs

  • @lindamarconi2913
    @lindamarconi2913 Рік тому +2

    I stopped working at 59, officially retired and started collecting checks at 62, I'll be turning 64, I have mass energy! I do a lot of yardwork, climb the roof and leaf blow, saw of branches. I'm constantly painting rooms, I hang out with friends a lot of them. When I stopped working I went crazy with energy! Wooo

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому

      Sounds great. BUT, think about getting someone else to climb your roof and clean the gutters. I have heard so many horror stories of people falling.

  • @mangensukilufya1233
    @mangensukilufya1233 9 місяців тому +2

    Hi. Great. I am almost 65y.o. retiring in November this year. Usually when i am on leave i split my leave in 2. The 1st part i work on a project and the 2nd part i rest. This year i took 4 weeks full rest. After 2 weeks of resting i started having muscles aches. Then i started exercising 35 min 3 times a week. All the pain disappear. The lesson i learnt is BE ACTIVE INTELLECTUALLY AND PHYSICALLY. Actually i like reading then watching TV. TV is for documentary, sport and some news. Thank you

  • @mechanicman8687
    @mechanicman8687 Рік тому +4

    I have 18 months left…thanks guys!!!
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @advancetotabletop5328
    @advancetotabletop5328 Рік тому +10

    This is happening to me - sort of. I now have time I can sit down an do a hobby, painting, that‘s been on my To Do list for 50 years. But it’s great never waking up to an alarm to rush out to go to work for some company I could care less about (and could care less about me) nor wear a tie or dress up. Still, I‘m slacking off on stuff I *could* do, and have certainly noticed!

  • @michaelwayne7887
    @michaelwayne7887 Рік тому +13

    I've met many ppl who were soon retiring and who went way out of their way to proclaim that they would be very "busy" doing this or that after retirement. They need to profess that they will be doing something 'meaningful' with their life after retirement....There is this weird stigma that ppl feel a need to justify their existence after retiring, somehow maybe fearing judgement from other ppl, or feeling guilty that they CAN retire while others cannot. I dunno ... Some ppl who CANNOT retire for one reason or another will say "Oh, I would get too bored" or "What do you DOOO all day?!!?" I refuse to let people who only WISH they could retire dictate what I do with mine. I tell ppl I do whatever I want whenever I want and I don't feel one shred of guilt that I'm not 'accomplishing' what other ppl think I should be accomplishing. I worked for MY retirement, not others' ideals of what retirement is.

    • @Dbb27
      @Dbb27 Рік тому +3

      Great comment. Got me thinking!

    • @Person-mh6xq
      @Person-mh6xq Рік тому +2

      Love your post!! I feel exactly the same. Exactly.

    • @Dbb27
      @Dbb27 Рік тому +1

      @@Person-mh6xq I re-read the post again today. I’m so down on myself for not accomplishing anything every day. I think I need to print this and put it on my bathroom mirror!! 🥰

    • @christinebourlioufas1336
      @christinebourlioufas1336 11 місяців тому

      Well said!

    • @ellismeah8110
      @ellismeah8110 8 місяців тому +2

      I worked most of my working life working shifts , years of 7 nights a week early mornings never seeing day light in the miserable wet winters, many people die before they even get to retire, so embrace retirement and feel free to enjoy anything you desire ,because no one lives forever and you're along time dead

  • @timwright5466
    @timwright5466 Рік тому +3

    As an English retired man you two really epitomise hard earning hard working Americans but my life your still ramped up ..I hope you calm down soon ..

    • @caseybc6342
      @caseybc6342 7 місяців тому

      I see what you’re saying.

  • @stevendorsey4882
    @stevendorsey4882 Рік тому +9

    I have never lost the habits of my workng life. I get up early (6am), study, exercise, and then tackle all the projects I have. I run 5-10 miles a day, lift weights 3-4 days a week, play pickleball with a great group of friends for a couple of hours five days a week. And I eat (and have done so for over 40 years) a strict vegetarian diet.

    • @bigvalley4987
      @bigvalley4987 Рік тому +1

      You ate an exception. Great for you💯

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +1

      Nice going Steve. Im sure all your friends are inspired by the way you are living your life

  • @geoffreykeating8172
    @geoffreykeating8172 Рік тому +9

    Most people arrive at retirement exhausted from working entire life , REST is the bodys way of healing itself

    • @caseybc6342
      @caseybc6342 7 місяців тому +1

      I’m a teacher of 37 years and I’m soooo tired. I feel like I’ll sleep for the first year of my retirement.

    • @geoffreykeating8172
      @geoffreykeating8172 7 місяців тому

      @@caseybc6342 Agree you will probably sleep 1st and 2nd year but 3rd year will be a little better , that was my experience when I retired a few years back 😎👍🇨🇦

  • @mmc3731
    @mmc3731 Рік тому +18

    I’m retiring soon and have a game plan set in place. I adopted an extra pet (had 1 young puppy, now I have 2); I have 2 months May & June bus trips for seniors. That’s aside from my normal home chores.

  • @ivanvarykino8202
    @ivanvarykino8202 Рік тому +17

    I'm practicing retirement and admit i have the tv on now many hours a day which adds up per week. But it just keeps me company in the back ground while i run around the house and get stuff done. Lost my wife 2 yrs ago and still have 2 teen daughters at home. But they're busy with school and work. No netflix binging for me. Just all the old classic sitcoms.
    When daughters leave for college, I'm getting a motorhome and hit the road to explore by bike, by foot and kayak. Hopefully I'll find a partner in crime by then for some real adult company.
    TV is not a substitute.

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +3

      I love the idea of the motor home. You will run into people on the same travel quest and hopefully make some new and exciting relationships.

  • @Dana-ml7sy
    @Dana-ml7sy Рік тому +7

    The chances of seeing a Dr in the U.K. when you have no obvious problem is really difficult. I got sudden onset diplopia & I had so many blood tests & MRIs than I’ve ever had in my lifetime. Nothing sinister although the actual cause wasn’t found it was noted my red blood cells are slightly out of whack but after 5 months I’m still awaiting an appointment so it can’t be that serious. In the meantime my eyesight corrected itself. Then one early morning loo trip resulted in me fainting & the cause still wasn’t found after tests. I’m 68 & retired & personally attribute these issues with tripping up while exercising, walking, 6 months earlier when I broke my elbow, wrenched my shoulder & then broke my foot a week later. The elbow & shoulder still pains me a year later & Im just getting back my daily chores routine 11:09 . So much for exercise!

  • @sahmad9910
    @sahmad9910 Рік тому +6

    I retired and took up volunteer work to keep me busy. It also keeps me active. Don’t miss the morning and evening walk. Give up carbohydrates. Spend some time with grand children. Sleep cycles occasionally get disturbed, but then return to normal. I avoid sleeping pills.

  • @Truthfinder1
    @Truthfinder1 Рік тому +8

    Great video!!! I’m 61 years old. I plan on retiring first week of November of this year. I cannot wait for every day to be a Saturday. Listening to your comment on having plaque in your arteries. One of the things doctors won’t tell you about is you probably had calcification in your arteries. You probably need to take vitamin K2 MK 7 at least 180mcg daily. Hope you have a blessed day.

  • @whacked00
    @whacked00 Рік тому +4

    Great video. I am 61. Still working. I put on 20 lb in past year. Just got told I was pre diabetic. Gotta get my act together.

    • @caseybc6342
      @caseybc6342 7 місяців тому

      Let’s both retire. In the same boat!

  • @petegibson863
    @petegibson863 Рік тому +3

    Hi , I retired in October 2020 , sadly due to a skin cancer which required that I have my right ear and surrounding soft tissue surgically removed , not ideal , but if I had not had the surgery I would no longer be alive ! Six surgeries later , the journey is nearly complete , I am seeing a prosthetic technologist and will be the proud owner of a new ear by the end of June , normal again ! My wife is a few years younger than me , so she is still working , but we both get up at the same time , 3.45 am , shower , breakfast and then I drive her to work , do some deliveries for her to customers , take our dog for a walk twice a day , 20 minutes each time , drop coffees off to my wife and her staff and then drive home . I have a routine of chores that I do weekly , general housekeeping , eg , laundry , dishes , make the bed each morning , clean our home and mowing lawns etc , the thing that I miss the most is my friends , they all live about an hours drive away from where I live and during the day , I can can become very lonely and feel isolated , during my normal weekday , I won't speak to anybody until I pick my wife up from her work at 2.00 pm , I have always loved interaction with friends and that is now no longer a part of my life . My wife and I go to bed roughly the same time each evening , 7.00 pm , with the early alarm call , the works for us , so I have a lot of positives in my new life , but being lonely is a shocker , we love our weekends but Monday's we do not enjoy so much ! Thanks for your vlog , only found it this morning , so have subscribed .

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +2

      Hi Pete. Thanks for subscribing. I am sorry about your cancer and it seems like you have a path forward for that. I think the loneliness is something to also focus on. If you search our channel for relationships, and then loneliness, you will see we have a few videos on those topics which might help. Maybe reach out to some of your old friends and set up a few calls to check in. Even planning a weekly zoom coffee call might be helpful. Good luck and keep us posted. Mark

    • @petegibson863
      @petegibson863 Рік тому +3

      Hi Mark , Thanks for the reply and suggestions , unfortunately all my friends and ex work colleagues are still working , life seems to have its way of intervening , friends all have family commitments evenings and weekends , and I feel that the longer you are out of their lives , the more your friendships begins to wane , I think it is the same the world over , people are busier now , work , family and the killer , social media , I have tried my best to stay I touch with one and all , phone calls and texts slow down , and you don't wish to become a nuisance in their day to day lives , so there it is in a nut shell so to speak . I am very lucky in other ways , I have a wife and two lovely daughters that love me , so I feel truly blessed , thanks once again Mark , take care .

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +1

      @@petegibson863 maybe you can look into some social clubs or communities. A local YMCA or an organization that needs volunteers. It all takes effort for sure.

    • @petegibson863
      @petegibson863 Рік тому +1

      Hi again Mark ,
      Thanks for the suggestions , have been in to see several volunteer organisations , meals on wheels being one of them , they all seem to have a glut of people wanting to assist , will be in touch with me if and when , so still waiting for the phone calls ! It was worth the thought though , cheers .

    • @caseybc6342
      @caseybc6342 7 місяців тому

      I’m a few years younger than my retired wife. She’s not super active and it’s lonely for her while I’m at work all day and then tired. I can’t wait to retire and be with her in 2 years.

  • @anoshya
    @anoshya Рік тому +3

    I’m 71 and rarely get tired as I do one hour in the gym everyday and meditate …I see these as the teenage years…also just playing tennis was not enough for me as I had to,push myself further with aerobic exercise

  • @vicgallimore6756
    @vicgallimore6756 Рік тому +6

    Depends on age at retirement, I worked until I was 75, now 80, aI have had both hips replaced, triple bypass, body has been knocked around by rugby, and various sports my whole life and yes, I am feeling tired, I never had a sedentary office job, my life was all action. so I suppose everyone is different.

  • @skylongskylong1982
    @skylongskylong1982 Рік тому +4

    Have a routine, otherwise you start to suffer from apathy.
    Think how many hours you wast per day, watching TV, and looking at your smart phone.
    Above is O.K in moderation, but the cliche just another ten minutes, springs to mind.

  • @dogbarbill
    @dogbarbill Рік тому +9

    MY biggest issue with sleep and being tired is because the vast majority of my working life I was a night shift person. Still am for the most part. Going to bed at 9 or 10pm is pointless for me, all I do is lay in bed for hours. When I finally DO fall asleep, I end up sleeping til late morning or noon. Trying to stay up all night, in order to stay up all day, in order to go to bed at night to sleep makes me feel miserable. Trying to turn your clock around after years of it being a certain way has, for me, been a never ending struggle. I retired in January 2020 about two months before the pandemic locked everything down, and it's still a struggle.

    • @melianna999
      @melianna999 Рік тому +1

      Try prayer. Helps.🙏

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +1

      Hi Bill. Im sorry to hear you're struggling with sleep. That happens to me on occasion. One of the things that has helped my is meditation. And I was the last person on the planet that thought they would ever meditate. But I have been using the app Headspace for five years now and its been so helpful.

    • @wendybatista5615
      @wendybatista5615 Рік тому +2

      I'm the same way I go to bed at 1am and cannot change that for the life of me

  • @davidrumbelow
    @davidrumbelow Рік тому +2

    We, 72 and 71 walk every day for about an hour in the morning. Then I walk daily with my dog walking friends. We do our own housework. Also try to have only one meat meal a day. Winter we get up at 7 am , summer between 5 am to 6 am to beat the summer heat. I still keep a dairy. For men have a prostate check at least twice a year. We have a check up every 6 months .

  • @janetramnauth5023
    @janetramnauth5023 Рік тому +4

    I had to retire at 55yrs. I am 60+ now . My health is optimal. I hv gotten lazy and don't hv a routine anymore. I am working on changing this.

    • @stevenhull5025
      @stevenhull5025 Рік тому +2

      Janet I have just turned 70 and have a lower leg amputation. Tomorrow I'm off to the airport, rented my house, sold everything and decided to travel Asia, Africa and beyond. We only have a few short years before the grim reaper pays a visit so now is the time. Wish you well.

  • @peterricksugges5698
    @peterricksugges5698 7 місяців тому +3

    Walking everyday helps. You don’t need to be a marathoner. 20 minute walks.

  • @rosieroberts6738
    @rosieroberts6738 Рік тому +4

    I am a NEW SUBSCRIBER!!!
    I am almost 63 years YOUNG!!!
    My husband is 9 months younger.
    We’re both still working.
    I am now only working 2 days a week.
    My husband is full time, because of Insurance purposes.
    We’re currently seeing a Retirement Fiduciary & a Specialist on Social Security.
    We can’t wait to retire.
    Probably at age 65.
    Thank you for sharing your AWESOME inspirations!!!😊😃😁

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Rosie. We are grateful you are here. If you are on Facebook join our community in there. Retirement Transformed. I think we have a link in the notes below

    • @billybrown7953
      @billybrown7953 Рік тому

      Retire now, still work invest your SS in gold and silver.

  • @louisd95714
    @louisd95714 Рік тому +4

    I don't even have to watch this video to know why. It's because, when some people retire, they tend to move around much less, and because of moving around much less, they tend to feel even more sluggish than they would be if they were still working. In addition, not being active is a recipe to poor health. The more activity one does, both physical and mental, the more healthier and active that person can be.

  • @Judy122550
    @Judy122550 Рік тому +4

    I am a new subscriber. This video is me I retired 7 years ago & do NOTHING ANYMORE ! I am sick of me I am addicted to the computer I do nothing . I use to be a very active person apart of me died when my 6 herniated disc gave out & scoliosis /narrowing of the spine with this pain . It hurts to walk I go this Friday hoping to get a Radio Frequency Ablation that will help 04/21/2023 If not I somehow have to find a way out of this . I want to be me again ! i am so happy your channel came up on my screen . Even perhaps getting a routine for bed may help me mentally. You both have a lovely day !

    • @connierodenburg129
      @connierodenburg129 Рік тому +1

      Praying for your complete healing and rejuvenation Judy.

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому

      I am so sorry about your illness Judy. I do hope that the Radio Frequency Ablation helped. And I hope the bedtime routine helps with your sleep. We are happy you are here.

  • @jomichat1975
    @jomichat1975 Рік тому +15

    Loved it. Loved your video and advice. I've been retired for eleven years now, and I've been doing all the things you say we shouldn't. And guess what: Yes, I feel tired. I always thought that the problem with "retirement" is that you don't get to have a day off. It's always the same.
    As of tomorrow... I'm going to try and set myself into a routine. Thanks.

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +1

      That sounds great Jo. Let us know what your new routine looks like and has it changed how you feel?

  • @gilbertahsam643
    @gilbertahsam643 Рік тому +3

    I have been retired since 2002 my first yr I didn't do anything and I got so sick and gained so much weight I almost died. I changed my diet and I exercise everyday. I don't drink anymore and haven't drank since 2004 to 2023. I am always doing something everyday

  • @wendybrown5935
    @wendybrown5935 Рік тому +3

    Facinating, I retired 5 years ago then my husband retired 6 months ago, I don't stop all day and never sit down, my husband does not move off the sofa all day. Feel like I'm a full time carer lol😆😆😆

  • @stephenromey6348
    @stephenromey6348 Рік тому +2

    I live in a community here in FL near Naples. This is not a retirement community, but most people are retired here. Now, these are generally upper middle class to wealthy people. No poverty or middle, middle class here. What I see are people who look absolutely terrible - they do play golf (many of them anyway), but they look very depleted - overweight, poor skin quality, tend to be less energetic as only a few will you ever find walking for the sake of sunshine, fresh air and exercise. So, why does this occur? The simple answer is absolutely terrible food choices - seed oils, process foods, junk foods, copious alcohol (not too much smoking). Yesterday, one of my seasonal neighbors asked me to take some food that they had in their freezer and refrigerator before they left for their summer residence. They offered me junk that I had to refuse - farm raised salmon, tons of processed foods from Cosco, and stuff that I just don't prefer to eat. I took some organic coffee. I was shocked at the quality of food that they consumed - btw, the wife is a physician by training.

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому

      Stephen we appreciate you sharing this story. Jody and I recently watched the documentary “What the Health” and we went to bed that night thinking we were now vegans! We did more research in the morning and I would say we are now flexitarians. We have been eating less meat, more chicken and fish. But now we are moving to plant based where we can get loads of protein, and supplement that with fish and some chicken. I recommend everyone watch this documentary to get a perspective that is helpful as we navigate and change what we put in our body’s. We are filming a few episodes on what we eat in Retirement over the next few months. Thank you again for your perspective.

  • @vivieneng9882
    @vivieneng9882 Рік тому +4

    After retirement, I am so tired, doing house work every day and also taking care of dogs. I sleep 4 to 5 hours every day. That is why I so tired.

  • @bonniegaither3994
    @bonniegaither3994 Рік тому +24

    Lack of routine is my biggie. I’ve discovered I need routine. 😳😭

    • @JT1358
      @JT1358 Рік тому +5

      Same here - I retired early with ill health and allowed myself way too much downtime to recover. The longer you leave it the harder it gets to establish your new routine. Get stuck in and do it within a couple of weeks.

    • @billybrown7953
      @billybrown7953 Рік тому +6

      I'm 63 and still pump iron 5 days a week and extra abs on Saturday. Buy what you need at home or join a gym. Weight lifting is the best thing to combat old age . I love looking in the mirror and thinking that I look better today than during many years in my life and look better than the majority of Americans who have let themselves go.

  • @kayakutah
    @kayakutah Рік тому +4

    I know, right? I'm 70 and got in 88 days of skiing this season in Park City Utah with record powder days. And that was all on telemark gear. I could hardly stay up past 9PM! It's a living heck as we say in Utah! Now I have to drive all the way to Moab for mountain biking because of all this snow.
    Oh, wait, the first topic was too much down time. I thought it was too much downhill time.

  • @kimbers1238
    @kimbers1238 Рік тому +5

    My son who is 35 says he's tired every time I talk to him. Yes I get tired of him saying he's tired everyday

    • @caseybc6342
      @caseybc6342 7 місяців тому

      Maybe he has a physical or mental health issue going on. That does seem young to be exhausted.

  • @orangeguy3314
    @orangeguy3314 Рік тому +3

    Go to the gym. It will turn back your body to a better point. Of course if you are just starting out at a gym. It will take you a little bit of time until body shows the results. Like six months, but that includes 4 times at the gym and not just walking around. Most time the upper body needs the most work. So, just don't think walking will do it.

  • @markscott5421
    @markscott5421 Рік тому +2

    Was put on disability in 2009 due to heart attacks. So doc's refused to release me to go to work so I kept busy doing things around the house, got up with the wife as she was still working took her to work, grab a coffee to take home and worked on projects as needed. Now that we are both home, I still get up go out to get coffee for us, and just let the day unfold. Make all dr and dentist appts in the am so they are out of the way earlier in the day. Funny thing is other relatives and friends think I have plenty of time to do things for them on a moment's notice. Just kills me when we have to tell them sorry not home on a day trip to a state park or other stuff. One family member said you're retired all you do is sleep and stay home....uhhhhh no we don't. With the way employers treat people today so glad I don't work after hearing the horror stories of the workplaces.

  • @hermanrogers1325
    @hermanrogers1325 Рік тому +2

    I retired may 2018 and had been working every since my first day on duty in military at 19 years old and only missed a few days working in 45 years and never missed paying federal taxes state taxes and all the other tax’s and social security taxes so other people can afford to retire. So it is my time to retire and I do just what a cat does play tired all time and I love it.

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому

      Congratulations on your retirement and smart financial decisions along the way.

    • @caseybc6342
      @caseybc6342 7 місяців тому

      You have warned your right to rest.

  • @gord2358
    @gord2358 Рік тому +4

    I was feeling really tired for no particular reason and a friend suggested I might have a Vitamin B deficiency so I got a B100 Complex and it worked right away. Apparently it has a lot of vitamins that help your body to turn food into energy. I take one capsule every three days or so,

    • @melianna999
      @melianna999 Рік тому +1

      Right. If only doctors could "regulate" our body by checking what vit and minerals
      we need.

  • @ruthyoung1032
    @ruthyoung1032 Рік тому +3

    If you're retired and love animals the animal shelters always need help. That's what I do and I love it!

  • @brendadunston9895
    @brendadunston9895 8 місяців тому +2

    Well after working 40+ hours per week for to many years on someone else's schedule and not getting enough rest ever...

  • @SophieBird07
    @SophieBird07 Рік тому +4

    I’ve been retired for 9 years. I’m not tired. In fact I feel more energized as a rule. Perhaps because I live alone and I am not pulled in directions of compromise all the time?

  • @Leann-uj9rg
    @Leann-uj9rg 7 місяців тому +1

    I have to finish watching the video. Was wondering why on earth am I so tired. I was giving myself the rest of today to really do nothing much. Which now is the fourth in a row. I just completed a 36 year career not even a week ago. After hearing what you said in the beginning of the video, I feel normal. This laziness won’t be allowed to stick around. I won’t let it. 😊

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  7 місяців тому +1

      Taking a break can be helpful. But don't let it last too long.

  • @Thereishope664
    @Thereishope664 Рік тому +2

    I'm 65 and do Bodypump 3 times a week. It's brilliant for your core and will help your mobility. I highly recommend.

  • @w-peter
    @w-peter Рік тому +2

    I've seen a lot of people get very sick or die 2-5 years after retirement.
    unhealthy nutrition and lack of exercise are the greatest poison.
    always stay active, sleep enough and eat the right things.
    "who rests, rusts".

    • @stevenhull5025
      @stevenhull5025 Рік тому +2

      Pack a rucksack and travel the world

    • @w-peter
      @w-peter Рік тому

      @@stevenhull5025
      ............ exactly...... thats what is to do. 👍👍👍

  • @Nonduality
    @Nonduality Рік тому +6

    If someone's running a business, such as a UA-cam channel, how are they retired? They may have quit a career and started a small business, but is that retirement? If someone defines retirement as a time of life when you can do whatever you want, and if you want to work a job or start a business, how is that retirement? It sounds like changing jobs or careers, not retirement.

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +3

      Hi Nonduality. I appreciate your perspective. Jody and I hold onto five pillars of retirement. Physical wellness, mental wellness, relationships, spouse/partner relationship, and finally wisdom sharing. The wisdom sharing pillar for us is this UA-cam channel. It provides us with a high level of fulfillment. It does not feel like traditional work that we did for 40+ years to prepare for retirement. And we still make plenty of time to do the things we want to do. Its really fun for us.

    • @BoninBrighton
      @BoninBrighton 5 місяців тому

      @@RetirementTransformedyou talked about having ‘clients’ so you’re still working….

  • @pedrozatravel
    @pedrozatravel Рік тому +7

    I am not retired yet, but this is great advice. It is common sense but people forget and it is easy to get lazy quickly.

  • @bryanwhitton1784
    @bryanwhitton1784 Рік тому +3

    I can't walk that far. In the last years since I have retired I have had both knees replaced and am now getting MRIs because my back is giving me nothing but pain. Honestly, if this is growing old then I am ready to just get off.

  • @xikefocus
    @xikefocus Рік тому +5

    Those high blood pressure med also make people tire.

  • @elmergarcia5222
    @elmergarcia5222 Рік тому +12

    Retirement: Where every day is a Saturday and every night is a Friday night😊

  • @torreypanse1525
    @torreypanse1525 Рік тому +3

    the problem with doing nothing is knowing when you are done!!!

  • @RedEyeC
    @RedEyeC Рік тому +4

    Hobby or 2nd profession. In my case it's music - playing live, writing, producing. Got to have a hobby to stay active.

  • @stevencole7331
    @stevencole7331 Рік тому +4

    The problem with this mindset is many of these principals need to be started when your starting out your adult life . Buy the time you are retired the damage is done . I don't think you get 5 more years of life starting to walk at 65 . It had to be started much earlier in life . Now I am not saying you can't get a benefit of better health choices at retirement . Loosing weight will help your mobility and quality of life . Exercise will give you more energy and the ability to be more active but for longevity it's probably a bit to late in the game if you consumed the comfort foods for most of your life with little exercise . Actually young people should be watching this .

  • @Mmmmchocolate
    @Mmmmchocolate Рік тому +4

    I’m not even in retirement yet and I’m exhausted all the time.

    • @caseybc6342
      @caseybc6342 7 місяців тому

      We are exhausted from work. At least I am.

  • @ricamaerodriguez1738
    @ricamaerodriguez1738 2 місяці тому

    Great question! It’s fascinating how retirement can sometimes lead to fatigue despite having more free time. It might be a mix of adjusting to a new routine, mental fatigue from decision-making, or even the impact of less structure in daily life. Finding a balance with activities and rest is key! Would love to hear more insights on this topic!

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  2 місяці тому

      You make such a great point! The adjustment to a new routine and having more unstructured time can definitely lead to unexpected fatigue. It’s all about striking that balance, like you said. Are there any activities or routines you’ve found helpful in keeping your energy up during retirement? Would love to hear your thoughts! 😊

  • @harleyb.birdwhisperer
    @harleyb.birdwhisperer Рік тому

    I’m 78, spent the last 2 days trimming trees and taking up pavers and stacking them to prepare for a room addition. Cheated on my normal exercise routine, but I got alternate reps. You got your click.

  • @glendavis1266
    @glendavis1266 Рік тому +1

    Sleep is issue for many.

  • @JHall-dl1sb
    @JHall-dl1sb Рік тому +37

    It’ll be nice to have a partner to energizer the routine together as you two.

    • @jillsalkin7389
      @jillsalkin7389 Рік тому +4

      I hope you won't wait for that. Take care of YOU.

    • @mikeholt1248
      @mikeholt1248 Рік тому +5

      Jill Salkin- are you ever right! The hosts of this channel are both intelligent and well spoken but more importantly they get along well plus they have a common interest they enjoy. But for those of us who don’t have a partner with whom to interact, it’s far better to pursue your own interests first while still looking for that special person (note: be patient & be careful who you pursue…sometimes it’s better to be alone!)

  • @briankelly85
    @briankelly85 Рік тому +4

    because I am 93!

  • @marionbaker5562
    @marionbaker5562 Рік тому +4

    I'm retired and 68 and everyone else started going out to eat all the time getting fat .My friend said I'm getting so old l can't do anything anymore. I loved my friend ,so l told him the truth that he was fat .Now he can hike 100 miles with me in 5 days.

  • @raymond2704
    @raymond2704 Рік тому +3

    I'm busier with lots of activities now than when I was working. In fact, 24 hours are not enough. If you just laze around doing nothing, then definitely you'll feel tired but if you are engaged with various interests and activities, then this won't happen. I've been happily retired since 10 years ago, just ask me, my friend.

  • @mechthildhaeussler5736
    @mechthildhaeussler5736 Рік тому +4

    Yes please, something about sleep ... 66 year old female, never owned a TV, nor a car, never overweight, still running and cycling a lot, healthy diet etc. - but trouble sleeping and often sick (doctor helpless also ...)

    • @theresecook-bright1757
      @theresecook-bright1757 Рік тому

      Dope is NOT a solution unless you want to be a zombie or create a drug problem where AA and NA can help you overcome!Many meaningful friends there!!! The only requirement for membership is the "desire" not to use.
      Join your local Senior Citizens Center, community center, go back to school, spend time with upbeat friends, get involved with your church. Choose to be happy!!!!! It is a choice!!!!! Much to be grateful for....
      Isolation will age a person.

    • @connierodenburg129
      @connierodenburg129 Рік тому

      Look into magnesium

    • @Person-mh6xq
      @Person-mh6xq Рік тому +1

      I fell over at “never owned a TV or car!”

  • @johnniehall3692
    @johnniehall3692 Рік тому +9

    A task will usually take the amount of time available to do it 🤣 I have earned a PhD in advanced procrastination techniques since I retired 🤔. Actually, we exercise at least 4 days a week.. I've done it since my 20s. Just turned 73 and am looking forward to what's left. 🤔🙏

  • @randymillhouse791
    @randymillhouse791 Рік тому +1

    I will retire in 4 years. If I make it out of corporate BS. I must say though, the company I am currently with is a Godsend. Not without its issues, but a great team and way more profitable than the last HOLE I was in. But past baggage I can't seem to fully shake causes me STRESS! As the Kink's song goes: "Nervous tension man's invention is the biggest killer that's around today. Let the tension out or it will surely build and sadly strike you down someday."

  • @roberthuntley1090
    @roberthuntley1090 Рік тому +4

    I rapidly fell into a regular routine after I retired, so much so that I find bank holidays annoying because of the changes to the TV schedules.

  • @Hippy2021
    @Hippy2021 Рік тому +7

    I retired in September 2021. Too busy than ever. Retirement is a full time job with unpaid overtime. I don't watch TV much unless the daily news at 11m as always. But the 2hours daily walk, 1 hour swimming, 4 hours errands and groceries trip, a couple hours cleaning, fill up my day. Not to say a few trips to hiking a week along the coast and up mountain. It take all day when the weather is nice. All this busy job is unpaid and keep me up late everyday till at least 3 o'clock in the morning, daily. For some reasons, never feeling tired except the arthritis that flare up randomly at 70. Actually I eat ways less than the time I work in the office because too busy with my daily routine I mentioned above and I do OMAD over a year already. Save a lot money from buying food. Love retirement. I work for myself.

  • @esjabear1168
    @esjabear1168 Рік тому +3

    I'm 78 and in great health. I'm overweight, but limiting ANY sugar to once a week ended my early diabetes. My doctor was no help here. My heart doctor gave me blood pressure meds that caused serious brain fog. None of my doctors knew about the 11 common types of Magnesium, or they would have told me to use Magnesium Threonate for cognition. You get my point.

    • @onetuliptree
      @onetuliptree Рік тому +1

      My doctor memorized the list of things insurance will pay for, and that is all she knows!

  • @ellismeah8110
    @ellismeah8110 Рік тому +11

    Enjoy your retirement, because millions of people never make it to retirement age

    • @RetirementTransformed
      @RetirementTransformed  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for this Ellis. My dad retired at 65 and only lasted 15 years. It was sad to watch him slowly get old and eventually die at the early age of 80. He never recovered from losing his identity, losing all his work friends, and had trouble filling his days with anything that gave him purpose. He is part of the inspiration behind our channel.

    • @emmadunning8275
      @emmadunning8275 8 місяців тому +1

      Yes my dad of died cancer 52 and then my mum got cancer 60 and died a few years later. by time I was 35 both parents dead. lucky the ones who live to 80s and have 20 years of freedom together my parents were both teachers raised 5 children and never had tgeir own precious retirement makes me so sad the unfairness of life 😢

    • @ellismeah8110
      @ellismeah8110 8 місяців тому

      @@emmadunning8275 sorry to hear that,