My Wife's Confession Changed Our Lives Forever | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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A MARRIED COUPLE who opened up their relationship after 10 years are now using social media to coach other swingers. VistaWife and VistaHubby, as they are known to their online fans, met as teenagers, and at first, had a 'normal vanilla relationship.' Then, three years ago, she came out to him as bisexual. Keen to explore things further, they checked out a swinging website a friend had mentioned - and were surprised to find that the people they saw on the site were far from the pre-conceived ideas they'd had in mind. From there, they met up with another couple for their first foray into non-monogamy. Since then, they have been happily swinging - usually together, but occasionally they will sleep with other people separately. In a bid to normalise the lifestyle, VistaWife began speaking out on social media, even setting up her own website where she shares tips and tricks, from how to spot a fake profile to how to handle jealousy. And though she has received a huge amount of support, not everybody is accepting. She said: "We get comments on TikTok saying swinging is just affairs and we're going to end up getting divorced. But marriage is not just about sex, and we're emotionally monogamous to each other. It's okay to want more."
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Just because you're bisexual doesn't mean you have to sleep with everyone, or use that as an excuse to cheat. Maybe that's just me though.
That's how bi women try to cheat, they pretend being bi
Nah cause I HATE that misconception. I’m madly in love with my bf n don’t feel the need to b with women because I’m with him. Just cause I’m bi doesn’t mean I gotta fulfill some random “need” there is no need
@@Its420somewheree that's exactly how it works, you'll cheat eventually when your hunger is not fulfilled
I agree.
You can be monogamous and be bisexual. I never even bother telling anyone I date because they assume things or become insecure, when in reality I'm only attracted to the person I'm with. Unfortunately, in my case lol. It really doesn't mean we'll sleep with anyone.
I’m married and bi sexual and so is my husband and both of us are perfectly happy to have only each other. I hate using sexuality as an excuse to sleep around.
Same. When I told my family I was bi they asked if I was just sleeping with anyone who breathed. I laughed as I am kind of a prude and like taking things super slow in any kind of relationship. When I get married they will be the only person I want to be with the rest of my life. My other half and I am theirs. Doesn't matter male or female. Only time will tell.
Come on y’all.. relax and stop judging others
@@rachelglasheen682 I think this couple can do what makes them happy. At least I was commenting on that this is what people think a lot of bisexual people are like. Some are some aren't. But every sexuality has a spectrum. I just got a lot of this stigma when other people found out. Like my roommate giving my number to the whole football team saying I was down for orgies and threesomes. Or thinking I will be down to do things with other girls while they watch. It can get dangerous when people found out that isn't the case. Kind of traumatic when you are a freshman in college. Lol
Now I just roll with it and make jokes about it when people think this or other things that just isn't me. But ngl it does get old.
The problem is that everyone thinks sex is the most important thing. Our culture worships it as something beyond every other aspect of a relationship. And that is entirely wrong. Sex isn't the definition of intimacy. People explore emotionally with their friends and family... what's wrong them doing the same sexually if their partner is on board? Try taking a step back and being less judgmental. This isn't using anything as an excuse. This is asking to explore things in the midst of a type of comfort and candor that should be unique to marriage. :)
Well for him another woman right.
Am I the only one who feels like having another person never works out. Cause someone will always like one person more.
No, you're wrong and doesn't work like that.
@@vistawife9756 Until it does!!!
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I think that is why they are just swinging rather than being polyamorous, which makes it a lot less likely for deeper feelings to develop.
That's true I guess they got to be open by that
It's all fun and games until one partner likes another person more.
Bingo!! She wants something he can not give her!! Run buddy run!
Exactly. It NEVER ends well. Someone is always left out
@@neomahloane4223 He will get left out and she will get the house and whatever else she wants... It never works out ever
Just as it happens in "monogamous" relationships except in those you cannot really talk about it with your spouse when you are feeling yourself more attracted to other people 🤣🤣🤣
Yup! My brother in law and his previous wife invited her best friend into bed with them...8 months later, their marriage failed ( after 13 years of marriage and 3 boys) and my brother in law married his ex wife's best friend. Totally destroyed the boys. Just a big old mess.
Whatever works for them, great! But I want to clarify that bisexuality and non monogamy are two VERY different things. I'm bisexual and have been only with my husband since we started dating. Being bi doesn't mean you need a male and female partner.
Yes exactly! The way I describe it to people is I’m attracted to men and women equally just like I’m attracted to people with blonde and brown hair. That doesn’t mean I’m going to cheat on my blonde partner with a brunette and vice versa!
@@emilyslaton2100 that's a wonderful way to put it! I'll have to use your example myself 🤗
I would like to have such a wife.
gentlemen and ladies who are not jealous.
I wish to live together with my partner many colors . 🌹.
It's a great feeling to share your wife.
very lucky to have such a wife.
I wish to same .
Pray 🙏 for that always 🙏
Monogamy is real love 💕
@@emilyslaton2100 Yes, the cheating is also a control mechanism, you agree to it or you're losing her..
Does your husband know?
"hearing monogamous ppl's problems that could be solved with swinging" did sis really post that on tiktok .. really reveals the state of mind going on there yikes. monogamy is cool
I think this is very closed minded thinking of you
@@rachelglasheen682 Why is it closed minded? Because you don't agree with it?
You'd be surprised how many people doreally well and stay together longer and have very strong marriages becauae of swinging
@@HazeFC. what is close minded? To me close minded people are people that have beliefs and dont choose to acknoledge or educate themselves about other beliefs. Or art open to new or different ideas. So the commemt above that states i cant believe ahe said ....... the generation or world or whatever it was ahe said is closed minded. If ypur open minded it would have been. I dont know if i agree with that statement but good for them. Or maybe "i see she said that it can help couples thats wonderful". Oh oh orrrr do some research and possibly ask other poly or open relationship couples in the swinger community so that you can respond with facts instead of nasty, closeminded, ignorant and lgbtq+ hate opinions and comments. You dont have to agree with how the people in the world are changing you just have to know about it and educate yourself.
@@nikkic8886 I have no reason or interest in educating myself on swingers, when have I been nasty to anyone? I'm not surprised though, I see this same response with a certain group type, so quick to jump down my throat and you don't know where I stand, aren't you equally being closed minded by not educating yourself on my beliefs? Each to their own, but you can't call someone close minded because they don't agree with your views or opinions
It's scary how our generation now starting to normalize cheating.
They destroyed the concept of gender, what do you expect, depravity is virtue.
Not really cheating thought, is it? It's consensual with full communication...
@@vistawife9756 Its cheating. Who cares if he knows about it, you're giving yourself that which is to the husband to strangers.
@@KevinGeneFeldman It's not cheating if it's consensual. Cheating is a violation of the relationship.
@@KevinGeneFeldman you’re deluded snd narrow minded. Cheating and polyamory/swinging are not the same thing 🙄
Even though the couple is entitled to live however they want:
Bisexuals can and do have monogamous relationships.
Heterosexuals (and gays) can and do have non-monogamous, and/or open relationships.
yuuurp. pansexuals too! monogamy is completely possible, + much more common even, amongst non hetero folks.
Sounds like they're simply swingers or have an open relationship. It doesn't matter their sexual orientation. I'm not sure why sexual orientation is mixed in this. To be fair to them they did mention her orientation in passing only.
@@ariefraiser140 Right. The headline frames it like her confession of bisexuality was the impetus for breaking their sexual monogamy (which is fine for them) but it's like that's not how bisexuality or sexual orientation works.
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Well you got the entitled part right.
I wanna make a joke implying their parents seperately named them vista husband/wife at birth without knowing each other but I don't have the energy to put it together properly so this is what you get
Find the energy, we wanna hear it!
Worked for me 🤣
Maybe we are crossing a threshold of overexposure here, I understand the concept of the channel but some topics have had so much exposure that they make it seems like more people are into this than there really are. I for one have absolutely no interest in this kind of lifestyle, it actually boggles my mind that some people do, and I do belieive the vast majority thinks the same.
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I agree 💯
“We are monogamous” 🤔🤔😳😳 they seem very confused. If you are sticking something in someone else you ain’t monogamous 🤦♀️🤦♀️ what has this world come to
If you actually watched the video I said... "We are emotionally monogamous" Dummy....
@@vistawife9756 There’s no such thing!!! You can’t be monogamous and have sex with other people, that’s pretty much the first rule. What a joke!!!
@@vistawife9756fatherless behavior. enjoy your divorce and kids growing up the same way you did and turn into even bigger degenerates lol
@@vistawife9756 your rude
@@vistawife9756 By sleeping around you are literally having emotional connections with other people and you're delusional if you think you're not. You do you but you seem awfully defensive 🤔
This one is oddly boring.
All these people who want to be seen as different are main stream and boring now.
If this makes them happy that’s totally fine. My only problem with it is that I wish she hadn’t lead with I’m bisexual and want to try swinging. Many people already think that bisexual people will cheat on their partners cause we’re attracted to “everyone.” I’m bisexual and have always been in a monogamous relationship. I wish she had just told him that she would like to try swinging and not made it seem like BECAUSE she’s bisexual she wants that lifestyle. I just worry that it perpetuates misconceptions when it’s presented in that way.
I’m sorry did I have a stroke? Vistawife? Vistahubby? What-
They identify as Windows Vista, It's a new thing.
#VISTALIFE
Windows Vista Sucks
This is so vanilla. Why does this have a whole video? Lol. So many people are in open relationships. She is bi? Is this 1940? Why is that such a shock lol. I'm confused. I thought this was going to be "my wife is secretly a con artist" or "my wife confessed that she was an MI5 agent"
Lol
I agree. This one bored me
Ah yes women and their typical progressive projection 😂
@@sushilsharma4202 is being an MI5 agent progressive? Kewl.
Ikr. I was so let down when she revealed her “secret”
Personally, I cant' just freak anybody. I'm real funny about energy. I really CANNNOT see how people have sex with multiple people. I definately need a mental connection before I even find someone attractive. Not bashing them. I just don't see how people can just disregard energy. Is sex that dire and serious? Just hella strange.
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Each to their own but never in a million years for me 😂😂😂
Same here....
Same xp
Yeah lol
Fr
Agreed
Whether you're open or closed, monogamous or not someone is going to have a problem with it. Live your life to the fullest and most importantly, BE HAPPY!
“Vista??!!” lol 😂
"I want to explore that side of things"
Sign your partner is already actively cheating.
More like trying not to? Stop judging others and listen
@@rachelglasheen682
Don't enable dishonesty and cheating. If you can't handle a monogamous relationship, you need to be forthcoming with your significant other and end it before things go badly.
Sure, there's the rare occasion where the significant other is okay with some kind of change to an open relationship, but that is statistically very very rare (despite what the media tries to assure people of).
Definitely not. To me that's such a stupid thing to assume. My partner and I have had many conversations like that and I've never cheated, I also will never. Cheating is disgusting but don't just assume if people want to explore, that people cheat.
@@rachelglasheen682 You are just judging people who think differently.
What has happened to the days when people kept their private lives private? She reveals that she is bisexual meaning she is into women how does it resolve to swinging. They can and will do what they want.
If people kept their lives private, you wouldn't be entertained on UA-cam by any other creator!
@@vistawife9756 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 right???
Ok, im over here thinking shes maby trans, a convict, some missing body part, or even some strange addiction .
This just seems normal to me idk why its so huge to be its own video.
Your wife wanting to cheat with women cause she wants to explore her female attraction is normal??? Man we truly are lost
Lmao i also was revving up for a conviction history
@@BiigiieCheeese Fax
Excuse to cheat that’s all it is and he fell for it 🤷🏻♀️
Nope not for me at all… I couldn’t imagine sharing something as sacred as my husband with someone else or being able to share myself in that way… but that could be my Venus in Capricorn placement….
* I don’t judge these people either if that’s what makes them happy.*
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Most guys wouldn't mind as long as the girl wants other girls.
Facts as long as I'm invited to the party I'll remain a happy man
making love is making love. That’s just excuses
Yeah really...of course the guy wouldnt mind.
@@HK-uj9qc In all actuality I have had this situation before and had some fun, Though in actuality a grown mature man ready to love and cherish his life partner should want a person all to themselves.
Which is indeed the point I am at in life. I have had my fun and now I am ready to cherish and treat a girl right. But yes young men would like this situation.
@@th1789 crap like this is NOT making love. Its just plain fukkkking.
What happened to the sacredness of marriage, this is just cheating, adultery given another name,God is not happy with this
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What about child brides that are forced to marry and be raped by man that are old enough to be their grandfathers. What’s marriage too. Is that also sacred?
@@veroniquecastel9582 who hurt you?
@@veroniquecastel9582you obviously have some mental health triggers here. You should be more careful what you peruse on social media
Isaiah 5:20
King James Version
20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!
This man needs to realize that his wife is not satisfied at all with him ! She tricked him , she waited until she got the ring and then once he was trapped with a lot to lose she pulls this crazy nonsense 🤔
Benefit of an open relationship "trust" is that to say when you were monogamous there wasn't trust 🤔?
You're telling me every monogamous relationship has trust hahaahahahahaha
@@vistawife9756 Your Husband is weak , he is a Beta Male , you should have just married a girl because that is not a real man 🙅🏿♂️
@Say Less She did marry a girl😅
@@sayless7936 you could have made your point without being sexist...
@@RPKD88 Weirdos 🤦🏾♂️
Can we just not ignore "Vista" for a second...Is there a reason why they use this name? If they are going for anonymity then going on a UA-cam show is the wrong way about it.
They’re possibly just private about their legal names? idk this is the first time i’ve seen this channel not use actual names. not exactly sure since they must have a large following...
Ngl, I'm really so uncomfortable with the nonsensical energy they created. 🙂
Continue to be uncomfortable mwhahahaha!
You're marriage isn't all about sex, you're life is all about sex!!
😂😂 savage
Clearly, someone isn't getting any^^^
@@vistawife9756 sorry but you proved my point :)
@@vistawife9756 marriage isn’t only about sex
Who cares if their life is all about sex? As long as the sex is consensual and legal then good for them.
The people who find the most success in the lifestyle are couples who have zero chemistry together, like these two.
It's cheating, if you love someone you wouldn't want to sleep with someone else
She claims she’s monogamous… what a joke
Cheating is when you lie and sneak around and isn't consensual. We don't do that. It's not cheating.
@@vistawife9756 no cheating is stepping outside your marriage
@@vistawife9756
Let marriage be honorable among all, and let the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge sexually immoral people and adulterers.
God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
@@vistawife9756😂
I don't understand being in relationship and sleep with another people in the same time? It doesn't make anything sense lol
Purely sex. Omg this is not an life style or good relationship.
We have the best marriage and lifestyle!
@@vistawife9756 yes you have good marriage life but it's purely sexual adventure.
it's a shame she didn't tell him this before she got married and why would she want to do this in her marriage He s very foolish because she's realy homosexual and finally she will leave him she's selfish marriage is one women and one man not every thing else these 2 are disrespecting the true meaning of marriage arangment this will end in disaster
Dude, you're talking out of your a*s!
@@vistawife9756 lets be real, you only like using women as sex objects and are most likely more sexually attracted to women but you also want the benefits of being in a commited relationship with a man
To me, you don't get married ad THEN decide you want to date other people. Why the heck did you get married then!? I'm a very weirdly "traditional" punk wife/mother/grandmother who treats my marriage as just the two of us, no outside "partners".
You can be married and have an open relationship, or swing etc.
So this is just normalized cheating? 🙄
Who's cheating?
@@vistawife9756 you poor thing, having to answer to all the narrow minded and god-bothered people 😂
Why even get married if you're going to do this.
This is like the 3rd video in this channel i saw a woman is excused of cheating on (and manupulating) her husband because she "can't control herself" or "born that way" -_-
How does a wife tell her husband she is sexually unhappy in the marriage?! She tells him she is bi...lol
Fr
I am all for people doing whatever they want with their life. HOWEVER, this was sh*tty of her to spring this on him AFTER they were married. She should have told him before and let him decide if that is the ride he wants to jump on. That isn't fair to him.
What is sh*tty about talking about s*xual fantasies with your husband in bed?
@@vistawife9756 I didn't say that sharing sexual fantasies with each other in bed is sh*tty. What is sh*tty is you knew this about yourself before you got married. You knew it was an itch you would eventually need scratched. And there is nothing wrong with that sweets. However, it would have been more fair to your partner to discuss that type of relationship before getting married and letting them decide if that is the type of thing they want. Now it's like he has to figure out how to deal with it rather then have the fun excitement about it because you were both on the same page from the start. If that makes sense.
Sexuality doesn't always stay the same. He could have said he wasn't comfortable with it and they could have talked about it. If he's okay with it, what's the problem. Relationships don't stay the same, they never do, they always evolve and if yours doesn't, then life must be boring.
Great post! My ex wife and I were into the lifestyle over 12 years. We started off with seeing other women at 1st. Thens she started seeing couples on her own, weekend get aways at the last min, and taking off to there place at night. The last threes years of our marriage she was alsways on the chat lines looking for couples and other men to hook up with. We broke up for 3 months she went to live with a gal she worked with and her husband. You have to be VERY strong to be in a open relationship, jealousy is part of it - no lie
Gross
You played yourself
Have a blessed day 🙏🏼
This is so messed up
Its great that they're happy and whatever works for a relationship works, but this is why I've never come out as bi to anyone. So many people have this mindset that being bi means you're also poly or also want to sleep with other people. I used to know a guy who said he'd love to date a bi girl so they could have threesomes. Great for him and whatever, but monogamous bisexuals exist, too.
Emotionally Monogamist! What???
It would be so much nicer to see regular people and not social media folks who likely have ulterior motives of growing their brand
Why are people opening up their relationships on social media?
What a Sad and stupid world we live in
If they are swingers, does that mean he takes the guy? Lol just wondering
@Rocket in my pocket....I love the way u talk
Nah its always the woman who has to be bisexual and be open to FFM threesomes
you know that you can be bisexual and still in monogamous relationship right? no offense to this couple but i'm tired of seeing people using their sexuality to defend their promiscuity
If my wife wanted to swing it’s time for a divorce.
Its never fair on the mans side while shes out getting plowed hes got to really work just to get a date thats why i could never do this.
I usually go by the principle "To each their own", but with public exposure to their personal life, they are actually propagating this. May be its just me but with swinging, cuckoldry, polyamory etc, all I see is a bunnch of people who are oversexualized and are desperately trying to mix being single and being in a relationship aspect. I have rarely seen the male counterpart in such dynamics being happy in the long run. Again, may be its just me
Basically, her man isn't satisfying her in bed. I remember a guy telling me that's when a marriage is about to end, when you begin looking at others to fulfill a certain need. Whelp, they're adults and they have freewill.
Her husband couldn't satisfy her in bed fully cuz he doesn't have boobs and a vagina and that seems to be what she's sexually curious about. There's only one way to tackle that craving and he seems like a loving husband for not trying to change her but let her explore it.
Let her age watch as this fantasy dies
My husband does satisfy me. We don't need to swing to keep our marriage happy, it's something we do for excitement and kicks.
@@johnny420 You are amazing!
@@johnny420 She didn't say she's only hooking up with women tho, the hubby literally said they sleep with other couples. I highly doubt he is giving it to another man 🙄🙄
A couple that I know of ended up doing that - now they are divorced cause the husband liked the other woman more than his wife 😥🤦🏻♀️😜
As long as it is consensual, legal and partner approved, go for it. It's your body. Just be aware that other baggage may come along with it.
It seems like people like these have issues with their own personality and being trustworthy. Why even get into a relationship with someone if you dont got your priorities straight?. But the guy is also at fault for not even caring to dig deeper into his wife's weird attractions.
What do you mean by his wife's weird attractions?
Married for legal financial reasons basically. People can be life partners and have an emotional connection, never married.
Being married doesn’t mean you can’t also be poly
@@RainbowRantz okay.
If she’s also sleeping with men than it wasn’t ever about sexuality but just promiscuity. Why can’t people just have fantasy’s/role play and keep it to themselves in the bedroom.
Because eventually that becomes a total bore
If you know you don’t want to be with one person, why get married to them? And what’s worse is they don’t tell their partners right away and wait until years in the marriage when they can’t back out easily so they have to just accept it.
People like this make me sick!
Agree
How do you know that their case or anyone else’s? Why can’t you have both? It don’t need to be so ridged just because someone says so. It can work if you can communicate and set boundaries. Don’t judge others when you have nothing to compare what you know to.
@@rachelglasheen682 How do I know??! Well… in case you’re dense…they made a video about it… and I see so many couples who decide after many years of marriage, to finally tell their spouse about them wanting to date other people.
Even with clear communication and boundaries, relationships like this rarely work out because one person will always feel left out. If you want to be with multiple people, be honest from the beginning and don’t get married to one person!!
@@Najia93 100% agree and ur right
@@rachelglasheen682 i think the thing is that, one person has agreed to monogamy from the beginning and when one person wants to start seeing other people there will be a certain betrayal and level of hurt going on there. If you start a relationship off with it being open there isn’t that cheating or betrayal factor. And why are you commenting on every post that I see? Why so defensive?
This just shows that they both need something to tag their relationship but are incapable of settling with each other.
We've been married for 10 years, you clearly lack an open mind, I don't blame you though. It's probably your upbringing.
@@vistawife9756 he had a right upbringing while you didn’t. I don’t blame you for being twisted as well. Emotionally monogamous, Lmao stop coping and assume your stupid acts.
@@El_Pepitooo you clearly can’t think for yourself and just go along with whatever society says. You sad little sheep following the crowd. Vistawife hasn’t done anything wrong and being poly has nothing to do with your upbringing.
Its sad what marriage has become. Commitment, duty, sacrifice. Today it seems just about a big day and a ring. Just be a couple and don't get married. People mixing up like, love and lust. She likes him but doesnt love him or you wouldnt want to be with anyone else. And being bi doesn't mean having one of each. People are lost seriously.
What about child brides that are forced to marry and be raped by man that are old enough to be their grandfathers. What’s marriage too. Are you okay with that?
I came out 20 years ago, and back then my best friend came out as bisexual and decided to date me. She asked me if that mean she could date me and a guy as well.... had to make sure to explain to her that just because she was bi it didn't mean she got to date a boy and a girl at the same time lol.
But maybe it does if she wants to.
But she can. That's the point.
Does your dad know about your state btw?
You'll be daring anything
So we’re pretending being bi is some crazy new concept? What’s the point of this video…
She is giving bi people a bad name, not all bi people are hoes
You're a good guy. Find a new wife. It's a difference of she was single. But you're married. Eventually she could leave you to a woman. This is violatile
Uh just because you’re bisexual doesn’t mean you have to cheat! I am a bisexual woman married to a man for 23 years now and while I am still bisexual I am not unfaithful in any way. Good grief this gives us bisexuals a bad rap.
Is it cheating if he approves though?
And besides you clearly have no morals in the sense that you're B. So what's stopping you from cheating if your husband agrees?
Does your husband know btw? And is he too?
If he agreed to marry you then why would he have a problem with you being with other W?
This is sad
Sicking!😌😌😌🤢🤮
That's not love... that just pure lust.
This is truly disgusting
Whats the reason to get married when you are not following yhe first rule of marriage ' to commit fully to each other '
These things don't work long term.
They work for heaps of people
@@Kermit_Da_frog916 usually it becomes jealous and toxic one way or another for someone in the relationship. Divorce rates are absolutely sky high, no one faithful in the slightest nowadays
@@Kermit_Da_frog916you're wrong. It doesn't work well. It works for one partner but not both
100% soon they will divorse.
Her: Im bisexual
Also Her: I have my husband and a side dude
Thats not bi-sexual tho. THAT is just cheating.
You not get the part where they both get to have that? There’s no cheating involved.. everyone is consensual. Hence the term “ethical non monogamy”
@@rachelglasheen682 Imo: There’s something off about people who are willing to “share their soulmate” with others on a s*xual level
Sinful
I pray you find The Truth.
This isn't love. It's lust.
lots and lots of LUST!!
I do love my husband too hehe!
@@vistawife9756 That's really not anything to boast about. Marriage is sacred and if you're not worried about hurting yourself, think of him. Telling someone they're not enough but you love em, isn't love. It's likely you enjoy the control
@@Angelssing2her grow up you and enough with the deluded god talk. They’re both consenting adult. You need to hush and run along.
Hopefully they don’t have children. If she wants to sleep with other women then its best not to bring up any childrens.
They actually do have kids and I can only imagine how confused the kids must be .
I had a bisexual girlfriend before and we had a third female we brought into the relationship and that turned into another female so it was three women and myself we would all have sex.. the problem is it turns into jealousy when there's that many people.. and there's always feelings involved so you have to be really careful when you do something like this.. they were all freaks so the kind of sex we had was absolutely nasty and freaky and fun
What happened then?
@vistawife so is it okay for either one of you to go off with someone else at different times? Rather than go with another couple and switch?
Vistawife?? Whts tht, and he's obviously happy cuz she's the bisexual one, but I do believe if it was the other way around he would kinda feel jealous
Monogamy is a relationship with only one partner at a time which can be emotional or sexual or more often both. If someone else is boning your wife or otherwise fulfilling her sexual needs, then she will develop emotions for that person. Sex becomes an expression of love.
If you’re reading this you’re 🅿️
“Marriage is completely different to sex and swinging”. Well yeah but that’s because married people take vows to each other, one of those vows is to be faithful. Think it’s quite simple to deduce what’s happened here, husband and wife manipulate “surprise” of her bisexuality into taking themselves off to swingers parties. She enjoys the excitement of cheating but coming home to a man she cuddles in bed at night. He could do better. Maybe he just decided it was exciting enough to let it happen in the marriage, easier than divorce. I wonder how it would work if the boot was on the other foot? Would if for instance her husband should turn out to like men, would she suggest he swing with men, be a bisexual, and stay with her and stay married? It’s not a stigma with women to say “I’m bi” because in a lot of guys head that equates to “Oh good I get the chance to watch my missus trying it on with a woman”.
So it’s a open relationship
Even you think having a safe sex, still have a chance to get STD.
You risk yourself and also risk your partner’s health.
Anyways.
She might bring someone later on and ask him to live together I think.lol
why do people get so obsessed with submitting about themselves
Is she wanted to be in the poly relationship she could have just said that. But no man she could have just done this before she met him instead of just waited the last minute when they got married because now that's going to probably ruin their marriage. I don't know man this is kind of little sus to me
He's a beetch and she's a narcissist.
So far it seems to be working well for them. Hopefully one of them doesn't "catch" feelings for someone else.
As someone that is bi, I’m committed to my partner regardless of sex and gender. But however, sexuality shouldn’t give you an excuse to cheat. Some people will just use polyamory/swinging (nothing wrong with being with more then one person) as an excuse to cheat on their significant other. As long the couple is open and aware of each other’s needs, that’s cool. But again there’s a difference
Live your life enjoy your life y'all be happy I'll be safe
I agree with their lifestyle,but i don’t agree when the husband said “nature intended us to swing” i think it’s kind of disrespectful because not everyone needs a third person in their life or swinging to feel fullfilled tbh,i’m in a monogamous relationship and i wouldn’t have it any other way!
Where is love ?!
Sad. Is this what marriage is now? No commitment, a foundation driven by sex? Jeez, it seems like the more we “progress” the deeper we head into chaos
Exactly, it's depressing.
i'm bi(romantic) and poly. i'm also demisexual, which is on the asexual spectrum. being bi doesn't give any random commenter the right to say that it is 'wrong' or 'weird' that these people opened their relationship. being poly and being bi are not the same, and you can want both, or just one, or neither. it's just sexuality. giving it so much power is ridiculous. these people are being healthy and happy and safe and communicating their emotions and needs effectively and honestly. that is such an important, and really vital, part of any relationship, sexual or not. some poly people don't even have sex, ever. it is simply a term that means to have multiple partners.
your husband's adorable, ma'am. I would never let him go
Good luck with all of this, dealing with 1 person is hard enough for me
No. And don’t bring children into your mess.
The bottom line to this story is don't get married young and experience life and sex with other people before getting married . That what i did got marry late in My 30's
Why can't I be married and experience it all at once? Who says I have to be single ;)
Nowadays everything has to be had that's wished for. Never happy. If she is Bi-sexual, and she got dealt the card of husband, then how is that not enough? Oh no, she needs to fiddle with ladies now. Why? It's literally saying after you got married as a hetero 'oh I haven't tried other people yet, I am hetero and need to still explore more people'.
I don't think she loves her husband too much or he would be enough. She can still swoon over actresses or singers or other ladies, but does she need to have s ex with them?
awesome!