Lily cries: parents don’t really care -> tells Laura to ‘cut it out’ Laura cries: parents freak out and now need 2 grown adults to take care of a single temporarily blinded 20 year old -> tells other younger daughter to leave
Bro they kicked Lily out because Laura was literally horrified of staying in the same house as Lily. But yes, the parents did a horrible job at helping Lily
Right so your gonna tell me since they told Laura to cut it out, the punishment for blind her sister should of been by telling her “stop blinding your sister” that doesn’t make any fucking sense
But it's her sister Siblings usually make fun of each other not caring about the age because they are close Like an older friends to a quite younger friend, if you're close enough things like that become normal to happen
Honestly, the mom seems to be the one A-hole in the first story. First off, Lily expressed her not liking all of Laura's comments, which makes sense. The parents handled it in a way that was quite bad. Also, their solution of "sending their daughter away" was also a bad move, they wouldn't really solve anything. The way the sisters interact with each other is the one that really stands out, since, Laura isn't that nice, and I would expect a sibling to be able to know how bad their siblings eyesight is. Of course, there could be different assets that affect how each child behaves. I'm willing to talk about it as long as everyone is civil
To be honest, i kinda see why someone would be scared and crying in fear when one day you see thanks to your glasses but then the next day you lost your eyesight. But this was also caused by the fact that she bullied her little sister, sure it was a 15 years old relationship, but it was her first one, that is what hurts someone the most, but here there are the other variables, how long were they together? I can suppose they were happy together in order for her to be really sad, but how did they interact between each other? Nonetheless tho, i think the parents did the wrong moves, especially because they couldve stopped the whole thing from happening
Laura is the ahole It was her sisters first relationship and imagine being a 20 year old start tellin your littles sister that you wouldnt be surprised if he left her for someone prettier And in lilys shoes welp if im that ugly no need to see me then And the parents like your eldest is literally bullying the youngest and doesnt even care after being told off while when the youngest retaliates and expresses that she feels bad for what she did u send her out????
the parents did absolutely nothing to help the situation. Laura the older sister comes for a visit and starts bullying her younger sister instead of being supportive of her situation. if I was the father I would ask Laura nicely to cut it out once or twice and if she still kept doing it I would just tell she could stay with her aunt instead cause her crappy attitude is not welcome here. why should Lilly have to put up with being bullied and then expected to leave the house she lives in cause her older sister who is only visiting has a bad attitude. if Lily already destroyed the glasses cause Laura wouldn't stop I would just tell Laura maybe next time you should watch your mouth and the best I would do is toss her a pair of my glasses if I had any. Laura is 20 she should know better, it is about time she grows up instead of picking on a heartbroken kid.
@@XanafiedcatGaming “toss her a pair of my glasses if I had any” Different people have different prescriptions. One person can be nearsighted and another could have cataracts.
Honestly I feel like Lily wouldn’t have even broke Laura’s glasses if her parents stepped in sooner. Like “if you don’t stop you’re not welcome to stay here for the weekend anymore.” And maybe actually follow through with that. But the second Lily has enough and tries to get revenge they punish HER?!?!!
@@gamerboypanda2658 you act like lily fucking stabbed her eyes. Glasses can be brought back. "LiLy bLiNdEd HeR" no she just took away your glasses that can be bought back, laura was already blind. Y'all sound like kids when they overexaggerate a story to sound like they're the victim of a terrible crime.
Lily was crying due to her emotions being hurt and he told her to stop. Laura was crying because she can't see without the lenses that are lost outside. Laura was scared her sister was going to do something while she was blind
Right. I’ve only been on that sub once and I read this story abt a lady who’s coworker kept calling her Skinny Minnie or smthn like that, basically body shaming her for being skinny, even though she asked her to stop repeatedly. So, op started calling the coworker (who was an overweight lady) Chunky. In that case I feel like op is justified
Pretty sure they only wanted her to step away from the situation so that Laura wouldn't freak out more. I mean, she was begging her parents to get Lilly away from her. Besides, we don't know if he actually yelled at her.
As someone who is blind in her right eye (can not see anything without my glasses), I would deserve to get my lenses thrown out the window if I did that to my sister. What the eldest did is called abuse and could cause the youngest to not love for a long time, I know she is only 15 but that is when you learn the most in life, that's why it would be so impactful for her if the abuse continued for much longer.
exactly, Lily's revenge was justified. it is not like Laura was permanently blinded or anything. she sounds like the type that bullies others and turns into a crybaby whenever someone stands up to her and does something about it. siblings fight, it just happens. Laura should have expected some sort of revenge for her bullying. plus if her vision really is that bad it is just common sense to bring a spare pair of glasses if you have any, it was pretty stupid of her to not bring her spare pair of glasses with her.
Lily, crying herself to sleep because of her adult sister verbally abusing her. Parents: don’t do shit. Laura, glasses broke, cries out of *fear*. Parents: looses their shit and kicks their 15 year old out the house.
Like hell They kick the girl that is LIVING there Not the one that went there to VISIT! 🙄 Like bruh The 20 year old is a adult I always fight with my siblings and they always break my glasses, and my eye sight is shit but I don’t cry..of course I be upset but I don’t cry about it 🤨
So for the first one, I wanted to say this. 1st of all, I feel that someone that has an age gap of 5 YEARS and is probably in college should’ve been much more mature, and the op said that the younger daughter went to bed in tears. I feel like someone that is that much older should not of been such a jerk, and the parents should’ve gotten more in her way, but that’s just my opinion.
Honestly yeah, it shouldn't be offensive to not want to be pregnant because you don't want to go though what your sister went through. Just like how one of the reasons I don't want to be pregnant myself is because I don't want to end up with a weakened bladder like what my Mum has and need to go to the toilet every hour or so.
I don't think she's a a-hole but she shouldn't have said it the way she did like "I don't want to be pregnant bc it would ruin my body" is different than "it would ruin the perception I have of my body", she said the first one to the uncles, I would've been kind of hurt too if iw as her sister Like imagine ur sister has told u ur body was beautiful and it was still pretty even after pregnancy but then told other people that after seeing ur experience she wouldn't want to "ruin her body", so she's not the a-hole but her sister has reasons to be upset, I think they just need to talk it out and it will be fine
LMAO "She was too scared to be in the same house as Lily" Not surprised. Imagine you, as an ADULT, torment and bully a teenager who's devastated already because she just had a bad life experience. Laura's probably just a bully in general, and now she knew she's vulnerable to her victim because of the lack of her vision. Being in the same environment as your victim while being weak and exposed: a bully's worst nightmare. And I mean, yea.. it was a pretty bad thing to blind her.. but I'm sure it wouldn't have happened if she wasn't a piece of shit. But overall, it was the parents' fault. They seen Lily cry, they did nothing, so Lily punished Laura herself lol.
i don’t think she should just break her glasses but laura should not have been bothering a literal 15 year old and not expecting anything to happen back to her
i think with the pregnancy one the aunt sounds like she’s a blabber mouth. i’ve had issues like this is my family before, and i blame it on the blabber mouth. they always blow things out of proportion
if the aunt had a problem with the comment she should have addressed it with the person who made the comment instead of tattle taleing like a five year old
Lily is the victim bc if she's getting tormented day after day over someone she obviously missed and Laura like yea ur blind but it's karma like- dude wth and lily did admit to it and it's not as bad as killing someone so I'm on lily's side
I’m convinced they are all a holes, like yeah Laura does get karma, but is basically blinding someone and ruining something that they need that is expensive af to replace (I know this bc my dad has glasses) justified revenge for getting bullied over a teen, A TEEN breakup. But the mother should have tried to get Laura to stop more than just telling them to cut it out. Then again, Laura was bullying her sister over something she was upset about.
The damage that Lily caused wasn't permanent and isn't gonna affect Laura emotionnaly, But what Laura did affected Lily and could cause her to an even worse mental breakdown since it was litteraly emotional abuse. I say the parents and Laura are the A holes.
The first one... Lily basically regretted what she did and felt really bad. Also chances are she acted upon her rage and realised how bad it was only when she calmed down. But hey, telling her to stay with someone else could help HER in that she gets some distance between herself and her mean sister. Though what they did to make Laura stop was clearly not enough. The second one... yeah post-pregnancy bodies CAN be ruined... not just in appearance but health-wise. Mum has what we (as in, my dad came up with the saying and I copied it) call "cheap Japanese plumbing" and has to go to the toilet every hour or so. Not wanting to be pregnant because of stuff like having body dysmorphia or a weakened bladder is fair enough. The third one... sounds like a big misunderstanding. It can be hard to be very close when you don't have much in common, particularly when there isn't much you can do together.
Laura does something to Lily and Lily cries, the parents just let her go to bed crying and gave up on getting her to stop. Lily does something worse to Laura and Laura cries so Lily gets kicked out of the house? Lily couldn’t like stay in her room or something so Laura wasn’t near her...?
ok but like laura is a full adult and she's tormenting lilly, a 15 year old. i get that children's relationships are kinda dumb and pointless, but laura doesn't need to bully her that bad. just comfort her and go damn.
Yea like bro its lily's 1st relationship and shes 15, you should expect her to get hurt so much by a break up and what did the older and more mature sister did? She made her feel worse by saying "He probably left you for a prettier girl" instead of emotionally supporting her and making her feel better smh
@@TheArabianNerd She took away her glasses. I understand that's super terrifying but they are replaceable. Saying "He left you for a prettier girl" and that she didn't blame him is horrible. That's called abuse. Jesus. If i did that to my younger sister, i would deserve worse.
@@TheArabianNerd she didn't gouge her sisters eyes out, she broke some glasses. I'm half blind in one eye, and I know how scary it is to not be able to see, but if I ever acted so horrible to my little sister, I would expect so much worse in return. Plus the parents had blatant favoritism
@@str3wbs319 she's blind, and that's physical and mental torture, while the abuse lily got was not that much, you could just ignore and stuff, and the parents are probably the ones to blame, if they took care of both, this wouldn't happen in the first place and both would be more rational, and it's not Laura's fault that her younger sister got kicked out, overall everyone there is pretty much a bad guy in their own "innocent" ways
A couple things not really addressed in the first story, Lily, the girl who “blinded” her sister, was 15, she probably didn’t know how serious the impact of her actions was, not to mention she was very emotional after going through a brake up, now matter how serious a relationship between 15 y/o’s is, it clearly meant a lot to her, while Laura, the girl making fun of her sister after a brake up, was 20, she is emotionally mature enough to know when someone is genuinely sad and low-key depressed, having just gotten through a brake up, and not to tease them about it, the only one in this story I would label an asshole is Laura, she strikes me as a spoiled princess. Idk though, maybe I shouldn’t be basing her emotional maturity on me (cuz I’m also 20), cuz I went through a lot of shit in my childhood and am now very emotionally open to others and sympathetic to others’ problems, no matter how little, so idk but I’d expect more from an older sister. The parents are also the problem, if this happened to me and my brother when we were younger (my brother is 6 years older than me) my parents would’ve just told me to apologize to him. Why was she “crying in fear” of her sister who’s 5 years younger? Genuinely, in my household a simple “now go there and apologize” from the parents would’ve sorted the situation, their parents clearly didn’t teach them the true meaning of an apology, otherwise she wouldn’t be fucking scared of her 5 year younger sister...
I completely agree with you on this one. Age matters a lot in this. It's so sad, that so many people don't acknowledge the responsibility of a grown up Infront of a minor
True! I have an older brother about the same age difference between Laura and Lily and when I was about 8-15 he would insult my body, my hair, etc etc etc and my mother would laugh along our of nervousness because she was afraid of how he would react (he was quite violent at times so I kinda understand) but if I even tried to get revenge on him, I would be punished. I’m older now but I still struggle with lots of things like body image issues and struggles with eating because of fear of being “ugly” (even though I no longer agree that weight has anything to do with beauty and I have gotten a lot better) none of the things I ever did to my brother effects him anymore and we couldn’t been friends if my brother decided to be kind to me but now I don’t talk to him at all. I see stuff like this and it makes my blood boil, I could never do what Laura did to one of my younger siblings and if I ever did I wouldn’t blame them for getting revenge (Thanks for listening to my Ted talk I hope you all have a lovely day!)
@@_very.human.looking.alien_ exactly, and im very sorry that happened to you, i hope youre doing better now! but emotional abuse leaves a deadly impact on anyone that has experienced it whether they seem like they've moved on from it or not. taking away someones vision for a few days is nothing compared to the amount of insecurities that lily is probably dealing with from then, to even now. those words stay with you forever, especially being told that you're ugly and the reason why your bf left you. that can make you never want to even be in a relationship again. laura is messed up, and so are the parents. i think they shouldve threatened laura by saying that if she didnt stop she would have to leave, instead of kicking lily out over something that isnt that serious.
So the same logic can be said that a 12 year old was called stupid and it hurt his feelings so he cries and decides to break the legs of the guy who told him he was stupid.
As someone who has astigmatism and CANNOT see a thing unless it's in my face... I wouldn't be crying in fear. Honestly she either must be manipulative or a huge wuss. She's totally taking advantage I bet and did it just to give the younger sister more crap to feel bad about now
About the sister thing, Lily just got out of a relationship, she was already in a really bad state, and what Laura did wasn't just a "sister thing", she shamed her, ruined her self esteem, and just emotionally abused her when she was at her most sensitive state. You don't poke a starving grizely bear after a seagul took his christmas present. What Lily did was self defense, and regreted what she did amediatly (idk how to spell) when she saw Laura suffering, I don't remember in any part of the story seeing Laura showing any regret, or the parents taking Laura (or even Lily) to their aunt because of what Laura did. The parents can't take a side like that. If he would've taken her to "stop the fighting" it would've been ok, but telling someone who was mentally abused that he was the bad guy for getting revenge and throwing them out of your house is just making the person feel more like a useless unloved pile of shit, even more than what Laura did. It's like justifying what Laura did. So yeah, I think he is the asshole in this case, not because what he did, but because of the reasoning behind it.
imo the pregnancy story is such an open and shut case: yeah the post-birth sister is sensitive but isn't op's fault that she misunderstood. op was talking about herself when asked a question. it was the sister's fault for taking it the wrong way. yeah people need to be mindful of what they are saying at times but op clearly said in a question addressed to HER: "that the pregnancy would possibly ruin MY body"
im late, but it isnt the sisters fault. its the aunts fault. it sounded like when the aunt talked to the mom abt it, she put her extremely out of context and said she was shaming her sisters post pregnancy body. and i can get being emotional abt that, so technically it was just a misunderstanding. so idk, but the op is not the asshole.
The parents of the first one reminded me of school when it comes to bullies dont care when people bully someone but when the victim fights back they get all confused and then take action.
Lily is kinda not the a hole. Remember that Laura is 20. A adult. Plus getting exiled by your parents for throwing you sisters glasses because she saw that lily was crying, and she still taunteded her. If I were lily i would not throw throw them, but hide them
vision is important I have a darkphopia(is that how do you say it) and it is very scary to not see so just imagine waking up to not have your vision clear
I feel like everyone was the asshole in the first story. The older one was definitely preying on her sister's fresh wounds, so the sister retaliated savagely. However, instead of trying to mediate the problem, the dad just tried to get them apart, which was just a short-term solution, and was never going to solve it
I think the dad and mom are the aholes for not teaching either of their children emotional boundaries. Fresh emotional wounds have to be treated to heal, not repeatedly stabbed . And in the same way, I know people who are terrified of losing their sight, and taking away someone's eyesight, even temporarily can be seriously upsetting and damaging. The adults have now created a situation in which their children cannot coexist even for short periods of time, and honestly I don't know how someone could really fix it without first stopping the blows between them. As for who was sent over to the Aunt's house, I think the father might be justified in that he knows both his kids better than us and he could figure out what needed to be done to supplement the situation right now better than we could.
Wait - forgot to mention that since breakups are things that take time, a short term solution would go a long way in solving the conflict, and making sure that everything simmers down while the father sits down, and realizes how he failed as a parent, and what he can do to better teach his children how to be real human beings.
1. Teen breakups are cringe I would make fun of my sister if she was in that case ngl 2. Separate them for the time being was the best option cause Laura is going back to her dorm or something like that and by the time they meet each other again they would have been good again.
@@TaeDawgMadFresh ofcourse teen breakups are cringe but it hurts the people in the relationship. In this case lily, she was crying for a few days and her 20 yo sis was bullying her? She deserves being blinded for a few days even tho it was a step too far.
Last Story: NTA. The mom tried to get into her daughter's interests. It did not work out. Maybe they should find something new to find some common ground. No reason to cry about it and make a big fuss. I do not have any common interests with my parents. I am more into video games, drawing, and computers. My mom has more common interests with my sisters. I am fine with it. I live in my own world. Just like pegasus said just have to accept it and move on.
The family was over reacting like crazy, as if she said that her daughter can die or something ass intense when she basically explained "Oil and water don't mix together ; same for people". Especially when the mother tried multiple times when the daughter never seemed to actually care much. There are people out there that ressemble one another like a reflection and hate each other while we can have people with totally different personalities, interests etc that are fine with one another. Some people click, some don't. Even family.
I mean I get where you're comming from, but I think taking away vision would also count as psychological because she was terrified. Still I get where you're comming from.
@@crezupcuz228 I still don’t get how not being able to see(temporarily) is terrifying.at most I’d think of it as a major inconvenience she was crying over nothing
@@cowboy2006 It's not the fact that she's not able to see, but rather that she didn't know what her sister was gonna do to her whilst blinded. That's why she wanted her sister out of the house. I know that I wouldn't cry over my vision being taken away but I would probabbly be terrified of what my siblings would do if I had that kind of relationship.
The bad guy is definitely Laura. A 20 year old abusing a 15 year old. She is almost a full grown adult. When you are a teen, your prefrontal cortex is no fully developed, so she sticks with her emotions. She is a minor. (The girl is 20. she should be in college)
@@noonewilleverknowme7170 It's a couple of days and she's in her home with their family. The harder part will be the trip back. Also not bringing her spare pair was a stupid move. Anything can happen at any time. Assuming you're safe because you're only staying there for a couple days is really dumb, especially something like spare glasses. Where's the difficulty in bringing those with you.
@@noonewilleverknowme7170 dude she's a 20 year old and her sister is 15 she can take care of herself or she can go move out to a place where they would accept her she is a fucking adult
Lilly isn’t in the wrong Laura is 20 and was bullying a 15 year old and she simply got revenge on the manipulative asshole. Also it’s not like lily gauged out her eyeballs she just threw the lenses away you’re making it seem like Lily permanently took away her sight
@@yadziamercado4197 yes!!! Amen. I also have pretty bad vision and I can't see without my glasses. But if I mentally abused my LITTLE MINOR sister... I would deserve it.
@MonteMehPup RBLX I agree but same goes for Laura too. Like your own last sentence of the comment goes for her. I was emotionally abused and told that no one will love me and that only caused trauma.
I wear glasses. If I woke up one day and found out they were missing, I wouldn't start having a mental breakdown and getting my sister kicked out of the house, especially if she apologized.
@@gamerboypanda2658 She's 20 and she's throwing a hissy fit to get her 15 year old sister kicked out of the house. Unless she murdered the cat, I see nothing that justifies that.
Luckily I can still see. It's not like I'll be entirely blind. If my sibilings did that to me, then I'm buying a BB gun with the bullets in it lol. I can still see that well even without my glasses.
I can't sympathise with the older sister. Don't be a bad person and expect nothing back. All she had to do was not torment her younger sibling yet even after warnings from her parents she still kept going. She is the older one. She should be mature enough to understand that. She is in the wrong
I’m going to side with Lily. She may only be 15 but having your ADULT sister say something like “he deserved a prettier girl” or “I don’t blame him” would be damaging and extremely upsetting. Getting kicked out after being emotionally abused would be even more upsetting cause now she has to deal with the guilt of something that wasn’t that big of a deal where’s I doubt Laura is going to be affected long term by being blind for a few hours, it’s not like lily stabbed her eyes out or anything, and plus, she’s 15! 15 year olds do stuff like that and she felt really bad after seeing what she did and I’m pretty sure Laura wouldn’t like it if lily said the same things to her after a breakup. I think Laura is immature and her mum babies her for some reason (P.s though I don’t believe you should blind people for fun, I feel like Laura kinda deserved this cause 1. It’s not permanent, she’s going to get her glasses in like, a few hours and .2 it didn’t hurt her mentally or physically she was just a little “scared” so I feel like she was deserving of the punishment. Plus, this wouldn’t have happened if the parents didn’t spoil Laura and told her to shut up :/)
What I find funny is that a 20 year old grown woman is "scared" to be in the same house as her 15 year sister for throwing out her glasses. Not even stabbing her, just throwing out her glasses. I don't care how much "blind" she is, but it's one thing to be terrified of not finding your way and another thing to be scared of a teenager for throwing out your glass in revenge.
So a adult bullying a child which can lead to depression and suicide and the child blinding her temporarily which can lead to fatal accidents, the mother needs better children wtf
honestly I'm on lilly's side that was a life lesson for laura many people say dealing with your family is practice for dealing with people in the real world and in these times bullying someone the way laura did may cause them to retaliate in a way that will stop you from seeing the light of day for more than a couple of weeks and while the action itself wasn't exactly equivalent to what laura did it sounds like the effect was.Laura got some emotional distress in exchange for the life long trauma and mental issues she may have caused lily. Besides there are people who are born or rendered completely blind and live like that with no problems and while it makes life difficult for laura it doesn't cause any real harm and is completely reversible. it doesn't make lily right to lash out like that because that kind of behavior is almost always wrong but that's really just what laura gets.
Well whos the real bad guy here the 95% grown women who emotionally abused a teenager going through a breakup the the point she cries herself to sleep or a teenager getting her 90% grown sister back by pulling a harmless prank that didn't permanently impair he vision whilst feeling bad.
Laura is 20 yrs old and tormenting her 15 year old sister because of a break up. that's pathetic like putting her anger on her sister is really pathetic.
9:07 if you look close enough you can see someone get yeeted It personifies the glasses which also got yeeted in the first story. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk
Imo, Lilly wasn't the a-hole at all. Laura is a fully grown 20 year old woman and verbally abused a 15 year old child for a breakup that she was already devastated about. Even if Laura was blind for a day or two, she can still get replacement glasses. Lilly would probably be traumatized by her sister rubbing salt in her wounds emotionally. The parents are the a-holes actually, they should have kicked out Laura since she was the adult and what she was doing was probably worse. Or taken more action to stop her from teasing Lilly so Lilly didn't feel the need to do that.
Lily was in the right simply put. Laura was an adult who should have known better, but she was emotionally abusing her sister to the point where Lily locked herself away. A simple "stop that" won't do anything to solve the problem so Lily, took action herself which is what her parents should have done before things ended the way they did, afterwards she felt bad about what she did but Laura didn't. I'm 18 and I was born blind in my right eye and losing my other eye terrifies me since I already have bad vision in the left as well, but I would gladly break my own glasses or take my own eye out if I treated anyone I cared about the way Laura did, especially when they were going through something hard.
So she took her sisters lenses that she literally can't see with is justified by the fact her sister picked on her? Edit: ok I understand the situation.
@@thisisstar4881 No its not okay to break her glasses but I'd be pretty fed up too if my parents did nothing about a grown ass adult bullying me at 15.
@@thisisstar4881 She made her cry herself to sleep ( and just cry in general) and wouldn't leave her alone. Especially in a bad state. She insulted her by saying she isn't pretty enough. That's bullying.
in my opinion, it's Laura's falt for not foreseeing such an outcome. If you are going to be an asshole to your younger sibling for no reason you should definitely expect retaliation.
@@Remix2366 mentally torturing a 15 year old and the parents don't give two shits Gets her glasses popped out which lily didn't even know would do much damage Parents kick her out
Im on lily's side here. What she experienced can and might be emotionally traumatic which could lead to her scared of dating. If that house was her childhood house it should be easy to navigate around for the meantime.
Laura verbally abused lilly to a level where i think can be counted as trauma which is irreplacable but when lilly standed up to the lauras verbal abuse that probably caused a trauma and broke a replacable thing the parents threw her out for a day and lilly was the one living there the one causing trouble and abusing her sister was laura i think this is victim blaming and favoritism and also lilly regretted it afterwards while laura did not have any kind of redemption at all
In the first story I honestly think the parents are also the AH. Maybe the biggest AH of them all. They didn't seem to care AT ALL when Laura was bullying Lily, but when it's the other way around she gets kicked out of the house? I'd say ESH but Lily slightly less so because she 1. Is 15 2. Didn't start the situation 3. Regretted what she did and I don't remember Laura ever apologizing for her shitty behavior Sure, what Lily did was more extreme and she should be punished fot it but Laura had another pair of glasses so it's not like she's gonna be blind permanently. There's a big difference between grounding your kid for a couple days and kicking them out for a couple days. I think I know who's the favorite daughter in that house...
In the first story Lily shouldn't have been kicked out . While it isn't okay to just throw away someone's lenses like that , Laura was also messing with Lilly and got absolutely no repercussions but a simple "cut it out" . At 15 and 20 they should both be (somewhat) mature , so the parent should've had them talk it out and resolve their problems from there . All you're doing by kicking lily out is showing that you prefer Laura over her and can eventually lead to some sibling hatred .
Lily was right, the parents should have stepped in so that didnt happen. Lily had to do something to stop the literal mental abuse, so she did. The only victim is her.
For the first one, she should have not been tormenting someone who was crying for days, idk why the parents immediately switched from sympathizing for one child and then immediately to the other when that child literally mentally tortured her sister.
The Lilly and Laura one is so dumb cause Lilly is literally a child she’s like 15 and Laura is 20 why is Laura bullying a 15 to the point she’s going to sleep crying in tears when she got her heart broken and now has to deal with her sister obviously she’s in a sensitive position and she is a child so of course she will think of getting revenge so she went and took the glasses and THREEW em, now glasses are replaceable but what Laura did wasn’t and she didn’t even say sorry. She deserves it and I wear glasses and I think Laura was being over dramatic- Lilly even felt bad which I don’t know why
I think Lily is in the right. It's Laura's own fault that she tormented and emotionally tortured her sister and I would sys she deserved what she got, however I myself wouldn't go so far as to pop out her lenses. I do think there's some favouritism going on, with the father doing nothing when Laura was tormenting, however when it switches and Laura was crying, he kicked out Lily
As a younger sibling, what Lily did was totally justified. I’ve been verbally abused by my older brother since i can remember, and my parents would always say that he’s just taunting me. If it was only this time Lily was insulted by her sister, i don’t think throwing the lenses out the window was the best idea (they cost a lot of money, coming from someone that wears glasses); but if this was a common thing that happened multiple times before, then yes, fuck them glasses and Laura is the one who’ll be paying for those
I personally would make Lily get a job or something to pay off how much the glasses cost after she is over her break up. Cause glasses cost a lot. And Laura would stay, seeing as she was blind and I can't kick her out blind and since she is an adult the punishments I could give her are limited. But after she would apologize to Lilly and she wouldn't be welcomed in my house for a year. To be fair the moment Laura was picking on Lily I would tell her to shut or get out.
so those parents rather Lili having emotional Issues, almost falling to depression and huge Insecurities bc of her nasty sister fault than Laura got what she deserves? Definetly they are massive TA to Lily
idk i wouldnt call the mom the A hole either no one is the A hole they just simply cannot relate me and my dad have the same problem but honestly id rather have him be honest than try to understand games at the year of 44
You say that as if it was impossible to understand games at 44. My great grandpa bought his first gaming console at age 65. Turned up with it one day. But yeah, I'm totally with you on the being honest part. If it's just not his thing that's fine. Parents and kids don't need to have shared interests to live each other, right?
Ok for the first one, I have seen a friend go through heartbreak and it was really hard. As bad as I felt for her, I knew she felt worse, so I have a general idea of how bad it can get. So I don't think it was right for the sister to say all those things, especially since she is 20 and should know better. Breaking the glasses was a bad thing to do and I wouldn't exactly say she deserved it, but I can see why she did it. I think both the sisters are wrong in this, and the parent should probably support both and just keep them in different places in the house. I don't know, I'm not that smart.
Honestly the older sister claiming she scared of her little sister is so obviously a way to manipulate their parents it’s not even funny. If I saw a 20 year old picking on a 15 year old I’d probably hope they go blind too. Only difference is little sis had the willpower to keep it temporary instead of just dumping bleach in her eyes
i personally think kicking out Lilly isn't a good move either: -Lilly went overboard so she got punished by her parents going overboard or -Lilly didn't go overboard and the punishment was unjustified
In the first story, it seems to me like the older of the two is an asshole. She was telling her sister that it was her fault they broke up and that if he wanted to end the relationship for a prettier girl then she wouldn’t blame him. Sounds pretty emotionally abusive to me. We also have to keep in mind that she’s 15 years old. Of course she’s gonna be dramatic. It’s probably one of her first breakups and she doesn’t fully understand how to deal with it. But going in and telling her that it was her fault is never gonna help. I completely understand why she broke her glasses. She wanted revenge and like the OP said, she felt awful for doing it. But sending her away because her OLDER sister of FIVE YEARS is scared of her for breaking her glasses isn’t how you deal with that.
That blindy had it coming I'd do the same with no regrets she's the best example of "its all fun and games till it happens to us" and a 19 year old crying over something so little her mom said damn how sensitive are these people 😂😂
ppl here be like aita 🙂
No
Maybe
Yes
I like trains
weird
She took "an eye for an eye" seriously
An eye for two eyes!
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op reference?
A eye for an eye glasses for lenzes
Lily cries: parents don’t really care
-> tells Laura to ‘cut it out’
Laura cries: parents freak out and now need 2 grown adults to take care of a single temporarily blinded 20 year old
-> tells other younger daughter to leave
They sound like my parents it literally makes me so mad
Favoritism at its finest
Bro they kicked Lily out because Laura was literally horrified of staying in the same house as Lily. But yes, the parents did a horrible job at helping Lily
Right so your gonna tell me since they told Laura to cut it out, the punishment for blind her sister should of been by telling her “stop blinding your sister” that doesn’t make any fucking sense
@@ismael4394 they should have scolded her. thats it. But kicking her out because the exagerated spoiled sister said so...
I mean, glasses are replaceable, but traumatic emotional torment, ehhh, idk
Lets replace it with physical torment
@@carlhobeychi2155 lets break the glasses again
@@guppy-2436 yeah! Let's blind her again
Hehehe!
Ngl glasses are expensive
@@normalday4306 so is therapy
bruh laura's 20 and was bullying a 15 year old, like bruh
imagine being that sad
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Imagine lacking that much of a life.
But it's her sister
Siblings usually make fun of each other not caring about the age because they are close
Like an older friends to a quite younger friend, if you're close enough things like that become normal to happen
@@mohamedelhediissa289 Joking with each other is a thing, bullying is another.
Honestly, the mom seems to be the one A-hole in the first story. First off, Lily expressed her not liking all of Laura's comments, which makes sense. The parents handled it in a way that was quite bad. Also, their solution of "sending their daughter away" was also a bad move, they wouldn't really solve anything. The way the sisters interact with each other is the one that really stands out, since, Laura isn't that nice, and I would expect a sibling to be able to know how bad their siblings eyesight is. Of course, there could be different assets that affect how each child behaves. I'm willing to talk about it as long as everyone is civil
To be honest, i kinda see why someone would be scared and crying in fear when one day you see thanks to your glasses but then the next day you lost your eyesight. But this was also caused by the fact that she bullied her little sister, sure it was a 15 years old relationship, but it was her first one, that is what hurts someone the most, but here there are the other variables, how long were they together? I can suppose they were happy together in order for her to be really sad, but how did they interact between each other? Nonetheless tho, i think the parents did the wrong moves, especially because they couldve stopped the whole thing from happening
Laura is the ahole
It was her sisters first relationship and imagine being a 20 year old start tellin your littles sister that you wouldnt be surprised if he left her for someone prettier
And in lilys shoes welp if im that ugly no need to see me then
And the parents like your eldest is literally bullying the youngest and doesnt even care after being told off while when the youngest retaliates and expresses that she feels bad for what she did u send her out????
@@GrassyTheGoat well they should know what to do
the parents did absolutely nothing to help the situation. Laura the older sister comes for a visit and starts bullying her younger sister instead of being supportive of her situation. if I was the father I would ask Laura nicely to cut it out once or twice and if she still kept doing it I would just tell she could stay with her aunt instead cause her crappy attitude is not welcome here. why should Lilly have to put up with being bullied and then expected to leave the house she lives in cause her older sister who is only visiting has a bad attitude. if Lily already destroyed the glasses cause Laura wouldn't stop I would just tell Laura maybe next time you should watch your mouth and the best I would do is toss her a pair of my glasses if I had any. Laura is 20 she should know better, it is about time she grows up instead of picking on a heartbroken kid.
@@XanafiedcatGaming “toss her a pair of my glasses if I had any” Different people have different prescriptions. One person can be nearsighted and another could have cataracts.
Honestly I feel like Lily wouldn’t have even broke Laura’s glasses if her parents stepped in sooner. Like “if you don’t stop you’re not welcome to stay here for the weekend anymore.” And maybe actually follow through with that. But the second Lily has enough and tries to get revenge they punish HER?!?!!
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Yea but being blind and getting bullied are 2 different things
@@gamerboypanda2658 isn’t mental torment unreplaceable
@@gamerboypanda2658 you act like lily fucking stabbed her eyes. Glasses can be brought back. "LiLy bLiNdEd HeR" no she just took away your glasses that can be bought back, laura was already blind. Y'all sound like kids when they overexaggerate a story to sound like they're the victim of a terrible crime.
@@EveTheRaviolo agreed
The Guy when Lilly was crying: Whatever
The Guy when Laura was crying: LILLY GET THE F OUT!
@@NiftyA_Official not funny
@Aiman Maraidi idk man maybe we should vote him out he's acting a bit sussy right now
Lily was crying due to her emotions being hurt and he told her to stop.
Laura was crying because she can't see without the lenses that are lost outside.
Laura was scared her sister was going to do something while she was blind
@thonk It's glasses you can get another one plus she is 20, get a life bro
Laura was practically blind.
There are actually a lot of Aita story’s where they’re ACTUALLY not the a hole
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Right. I’ve only been on that sub once and I read this story abt a lady who’s coworker kept calling her Skinny Minnie or smthn like that, basically body shaming her for being skinny, even though she asked her to stop repeatedly. So, op started calling the coworker (who was an overweight lady) Chunky. In that case I feel like op is justified
Like the 1st one, i say they werent the a hole
@@kfc_deepfriedrat6292 maybe
@@kfc_deepfriedrat6292 I think so
When Lily is crying: Laura pls stop
When Laura is crying: LILY GET OUT OF THIS HOUSE
Pretty sure they only wanted her to step away from the situation so that Laura wouldn't freak out more. I mean, she was begging her parents to get Lilly away from her. Besides, we don't know if he actually yelled at her.
Laura was scared of lily didn’t want to be close to her so to keep this situation in check the mother sent lily to another house for both to cool off
@@feister2869 what would she be scared of. She immediately regretted it and what was she going to do
but you cant jus play with someone visions
@@snowflake4087 and you can play with someone's mental health
I mean.. at least Laura isn’t gonna mess with Lily anymore 💀
I guess🤷🏿♀️
I'll make a mental note to never mess with lily golly
i mean Laura can dish it but she cant take it
I mean that’s like taking the wheelchair of a handicapped person
@@juststarting3698 she had it comin
Every AITA be like” AITA for killing my friends dog because it looked at me weird”
NTA you killed that dog in self defense
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Actually if you search by hot/rising about maybe 50% of AITA's are NTA's/go either way. Most of the non debatable ones are completely stupid though
Pfft...
It was for food
As someone who is blind in her right eye (can not see anything without my glasses), I would deserve to get my lenses thrown out the window if I did that to my sister. What the eldest did is called abuse and could cause the youngest to not love for a long time, I know she is only 15 but that is when you learn the most in life, that's why it would be so impactful for her if the abuse continued for much longer.
And people are defending Laura
Ikr
exactly, Lily's revenge was justified. it is not like Laura was permanently blinded or anything. she sounds like the type that bullies others and turns into a crybaby whenever someone stands up to her and does something about it. siblings fight, it just happens. Laura should have expected some sort of revenge for her bullying. plus if her vision really is that bad it is just common sense to bring a spare pair of glasses if you have any, it was pretty stupid of her to not bring her spare pair of glasses with her.
@John the cat she was crying in fear because she can't see.
yeah, and they're acting like she killed her pet or something by saying she was scared to have her in the house-
Lily, crying herself to sleep because of her adult sister verbally abusing her. Parents: don’t do shit. Laura, glasses broke, cries out of *fear*. Parents: looses their shit and kicks their 15 year old out the house.
Exactly
Like hell
They kick the girl that is LIVING there
Not the one that went there to VISIT! 🙄
Like bruh The 20 year old is a adult
I always fight with my siblings and they always break my glasses, and my eye sight is shit but I don’t cry..of course I be upset but I don’t cry about it 🤨
Lol their parents are the a hole
@@BirbDaddyGram right but she’s also blind how would they kick out their blind child? They should just kick neither of them out??
@@BirbDaddyGram people are acting like they left lily homeless they just told her to go with aunt for like 1 day
So for the first one, I wanted to say this. 1st of all, I feel that someone that has an age gap of 5 YEARS and is probably in college should’ve been much more mature, and the op said that the younger daughter went to bed in tears. I feel like someone that is that much older should not of been such a jerk, and the parents should’ve gotten more in her way, but that’s just my opinion.
Imo, the second one I think she’s not the a-hole. She didn’t mean it, and it wasn’t really offensive.
I agree.
Indeed.
Same
Honestly yeah, it shouldn't be offensive to not want to be pregnant because you don't want to go though what your sister went through. Just like how one of the reasons I don't want to be pregnant myself is because I don't want to end up with a weakened bladder like what my Mum has and need to go to the toilet every hour or so.
I don't think she's a a-hole but she shouldn't have said it the way she did like "I don't want to be pregnant bc it would ruin my body" is different than "it would ruin the perception I have of my body", she said the first one to the uncles, I would've been kind of hurt too if iw as her sister
Like imagine ur sister has told u ur body was beautiful and it was still pretty even after pregnancy but then told other people that after seeing ur experience she wouldn't want to "ruin her body", so she's not the a-hole but her sister has reasons to be upset, I think they just need to talk it out and it will be fine
LMAO
"She was too scared to be in the same house as Lily"
Not surprised. Imagine you, as an ADULT, torment and bully a teenager who's devastated already because she just had a bad life experience.
Laura's probably just a bully in general, and now she knew she's vulnerable to her victim because of the lack of her vision.
Being in the same environment as your victim while being weak and exposed: a bully's worst nightmare.
And I mean, yea.. it was a pretty bad thing to blind her.. but I'm sure it wouldn't have happened if she wasn't a piece of shit.
But overall, it was the parents' fault. They seen Lily cry, they did nothing, so Lily punished Laura herself lol.
i don’t think she should just break her glasses but laura should not have been bothering a literal 15 year old and not expecting anything to happen back to her
Well it is a 15 year olds relationship it is a joke
@@gamerboypanda2658 that doesn’t mean that you should bully them
@@apocalypticblox2346 that doesn’t mean the bullied should blind the bully and ruin something they need that’s expensive af to replace.
@@Snoebal I never said I agreed with that part, did I?
@@Snoebal I’m not sure if mental torment is replaceable unlike glasses.
the second it feels like everybody in their family is a snowflake
Pretty much.
@@pluto4540 so i am my sister?
@@nikolasmad9 HOL UP.....
@@theinceptor3672 step sister don't worry
@@nikolasmad9 Owh okay, then. Enjoy..
Can't relate. My sister is the best, both as a sibling and as a wife.
A Turtle also can't relate
HOL UP-
Bruh
HOLD UP-
How cute 🥰💕🥰
i think with the pregnancy one the aunt sounds like she’s a blabber mouth. i’ve had issues like this is my family before, and i blame it on the blabber mouth. they always blow things out of proportion
if the aunt had a problem with the comment she should have addressed it with the person who made the comment instead of tattle taleing like a five year old
Imagine blinding someone to get revenge. Bet she didn’t see that coming.
ba dum tss
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I mean I would be terrified of Lily after that.
@John the cat because I was being a jerk to her and she blinded me. Who knows what she would do to me.
@John the cat I am not defending the bully. She is in the wrong too but she can't just essentially blind her.
That's taking it too far.
The family in the 2nd story is literally Twitter like wtf
Facts
twitter in nut... *a family*
@@zodycoder nut
Facts.
True I heard that story and immediately remembered Twitter
Lily is the victim bc if she's getting tormented day after day over someone she obviously missed and Laura like yea ur blind but it's karma like- dude wth and lily did admit to it and it's not as bad as killing someone so I'm on lily's side
I’m convinced they are all a holes, like yeah Laura does get karma, but is basically blinding someone and ruining something that they need that is expensive af to replace (I know this bc my dad has glasses) justified revenge for getting bullied over a teen, A TEEN breakup. But the mother should have tried to get Laura to stop more than just telling them to cut it out. Then again, Laura was bullying her sister over something she was upset about.
@@Snoebal pog.
@@Idkwut2_put pog in the chat
I remember reading this on Reddit and the entire comment section was just insulting the shit out of both the dad and the daughter lmao.
@@noonebossesthegarnet2890 which daughter? Laura the moron, or Lily the victim?
The damage that Lily caused wasn't permanent and isn't gonna affect Laura emotionnaly, But what Laura did affected Lily and could cause her to an even worse mental breakdown since it was litteraly emotional abuse. I say the parents and Laura are the A holes.
The first one... Lily basically regretted what she did and felt really bad. Also chances are she acted upon her rage and realised how bad it was only when she calmed down. But hey, telling her to stay with someone else could help HER in that she gets some distance between herself and her mean sister. Though what they did to make Laura stop was clearly not enough.
The second one... yeah post-pregnancy bodies CAN be ruined... not just in appearance but health-wise. Mum has what we (as in, my dad came up with the saying and I copied it) call "cheap Japanese plumbing" and has to go to the toilet every hour or so. Not wanting to be pregnant because of stuff like having body dysmorphia or a weakened bladder is fair enough.
The third one... sounds like a big misunderstanding. It can be hard to be very close when you don't have much in common, particularly when there isn't much you can do together.
Laura does something to Lily and Lily cries, the parents just let her go to bed crying and gave up on getting her to stop. Lily does something worse to Laura and Laura cries so Lily gets kicked out of the house? Lily couldn’t like stay in her room or something so Laura wasn’t near her...?
aita: i pushed my brother off the roof since he was standing there
Minecraft Multiplayer in a nutshell
NTA
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nah, NTA
NTA you have him a reason to skip school
Damn what kind of cartoon sister relationship is this
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"He broke my gamer mouse so I broke his head. AITA?"
NTA
NTA
@@wramg agreed, everyone has a head but not everyone has a gaming mouse
Why did you not snap his spine in half? NTA but like bro... kinda under punished tbh
NTA but instead of breaking his head you should of killed him and sold the head on the black market then you would be able to get a new mouse
Why, just why
This is why I don't want siblings
Idk siblings 10+ years older are pretty chill
@@insertname4929 I have 2 sisters my same age and they still bully me
@@insertname4929 are you sure about that?
Yeah I don’t have them either. But it can get a little lonely tho. Just saying
@@KxshouTOtW No not really, I only have 1 older brother, but we didn't really cross paths much so we didn't have problems with each other.
ok but like laura is a full adult and she's tormenting lilly, a 15 year old. i get that children's relationships are kinda dumb and pointless, but laura doesn't need to bully her that bad. just comfort her and go damn.
Yea like bro its lily's 1st relationship and shes 15, you should expect her to get hurt so much by a break up and what did the older and more mature sister did? She made her feel worse by saying "He probably left you for a prettier girl" instead of emotionally supporting her and making her feel better smh
@@icandoanythiing she almost made her sister blind
@@TheArabianNerd She took away her glasses. I understand that's super terrifying but they are replaceable. Saying "He left you for a prettier girl" and that she didn't blame him is horrible. That's called abuse. Jesus. If i did that to my younger sister, i would deserve worse.
@@TheArabianNerd she didn't gouge her sisters eyes out, she broke some glasses. I'm half blind in one eye, and I know how scary it is to not be able to see, but if I ever acted so horrible to my little sister, I would expect so much worse in return. Plus the parents had blatant favoritism
@@str3wbs319 she's blind, and that's physical and mental torture, while the abuse lily got was not that much, you could just ignore and stuff, and the parents are probably the ones to blame, if they took care of both, this wouldn't happen in the first place and both would be more rational, and it's not Laura's fault that her younger sister got kicked out, overall everyone there is pretty much a bad guy in their own "innocent" ways
A couple things not really addressed in the first story, Lily, the girl who “blinded” her sister, was 15, she probably didn’t know how serious the impact of her actions was, not to mention she was very emotional after going through a brake up, now matter how serious a relationship between 15 y/o’s is, it clearly meant a lot to her, while Laura, the girl making fun of her sister after a brake up, was 20, she is emotionally mature enough to know when someone is genuinely sad and low-key depressed, having just gotten through a brake up, and not to tease them about it, the only one in this story I would label an asshole is Laura, she strikes me as a spoiled princess. Idk though, maybe I shouldn’t be basing her emotional maturity on me (cuz I’m also 20), cuz I went through a lot of shit in my childhood and am now very emotionally open to others and sympathetic to others’ problems, no matter how little, so idk but I’d expect more from an older sister. The parents are also the problem, if this happened to me and my brother when we were younger (my brother is 6 years older than me) my parents would’ve just told me to apologize to him. Why was she “crying in fear” of her sister who’s 5 years younger? Genuinely, in my household a simple “now go there and apologize” from the parents would’ve sorted the situation, their parents clearly didn’t teach them the true meaning of an apology, otherwise she wouldn’t be fucking scared of her 5 year younger sister...
I completely agree with you on this one. Age matters a lot in this. It's so sad, that so many people don't acknowledge the responsibility of a grown up Infront of a minor
True! I have an older brother about the same age difference between Laura and Lily and when I was about 8-15 he would insult my body, my hair, etc etc etc and my mother would laugh along our of nervousness because she was afraid of how he would react (he was quite violent at times so I kinda understand) but if I even tried to get revenge on him, I would be punished. I’m older now but I still struggle with lots of things like body image issues and struggles with eating because of fear of being “ugly” (even though I no longer agree that weight has anything to do with beauty and I have gotten a lot better) none of the things I ever did to my brother effects him anymore and we couldn’t been friends if my brother decided to be kind to me but now I don’t talk to him at all. I see stuff like this and it makes my blood boil, I could never do what Laura did to one of my younger siblings and if I ever did I wouldn’t blame them for getting revenge
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@@_very.human.looking.alien_ exactly, and im very sorry that happened to you, i hope youre doing better now! but emotional abuse leaves a deadly impact on anyone that has experienced it whether they seem like they've moved on from it or not. taking away someones vision for a few days is nothing compared to the amount of insecurities that lily is probably dealing with from then, to even now. those words stay with you forever, especially being told that you're ugly and the reason why your bf left you. that can make you never want to even be in a relationship again. laura is messed up, and so are the parents. i think they shouldve threatened laura by saying that if she didnt stop she would have to leave, instead of kicking lily out over something that isnt that serious.
So the same logic can be said that a 12 year old was called stupid and it hurt his feelings so he cries and decides to break the legs of the guy who told him he was stupid.
@@ismael4394 you know broken bones take longer then 2 days to heal, correct..?
As someone who has astigmatism and CANNOT see a thing unless it's in my face... I wouldn't be crying in fear. Honestly she either must be manipulative or a huge wuss. She's totally taking advantage I bet and did it just to give the younger sister more crap to feel bad about now
About the sister thing, Lily just got out of a relationship, she was already in a really bad state, and what Laura did wasn't just a "sister thing", she shamed her, ruined her self esteem, and just emotionally abused her when she was at her most sensitive state. You don't poke a starving grizely bear after a seagul took his christmas present. What Lily did was self defense, and regreted what she did amediatly (idk how to spell) when she saw Laura suffering, I don't remember in any part of the story seeing Laura showing any regret, or the parents taking Laura (or even Lily) to their aunt because of what Laura did. The parents can't take a side like that. If he would've taken her to "stop the fighting" it would've been ok, but telling someone who was mentally abused that he was the bad guy for getting revenge and throwing them out of your house is just making the person feel more like a useless unloved pile of shit, even more than what Laura did. It's like justifying what Laura did. So yeah, I think he is the asshole in this case, not because what he did, but because of the reasoning behind it.
imo the pregnancy story is such an open and shut case: yeah the post-birth sister is sensitive but isn't op's fault that she misunderstood. op was talking about herself when asked a question. it was the sister's fault for taking it the wrong way. yeah people need to be mindful of what they are saying at times but op clearly said in a question addressed to HER: "that the pregnancy would possibly ruin MY body"
what does op mean
@@TheArabianNerd original poster
im late, but it isnt the sisters fault. its the aunts fault. it sounded like when the aunt talked to the mom abt it, she put her extremely out of context and said she was shaming her sisters post pregnancy body. and i can get being emotional abt that, so technically it was just a misunderstanding. so idk, but the op is not the asshole.
Aunt was honestly putting words in her mouth what was she doing idk, and she the type to tell every other family member her bullshit...
She went for the critical weakness everyone knows you cast sight on the blind to win you don't blind them even more.
I woulda gone for the knees and the eyes but everyone has their own strats tbh
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The parents of the first one reminded me of school when it comes to bullies dont care when people bully someone but when the victim fights back they get all confused and then take action.
EXACTLY it’s so fucking annoying
Lily is kinda not the a hole. Remember that Laura is 20. A adult. Plus getting exiled by your parents for throwing you sisters glasses because she saw that lily was crying, and she still taunteded her. If I were lily i would not throw throw them, but hide them
vision is important I have a darkphopia(is that how do you say it) and it is very scary to not see so just imagine waking up to not have your vision clear
"Laura was crying"
Me: ah yes the sweet sound of revenge
I feel like everyone was the asshole in the first story. The older one was definitely preying on her sister's fresh wounds, so the sister retaliated savagely. However, instead of trying to mediate the problem, the dad just tried to get them apart, which was just a short-term solution, and was never going to solve it
I think the dad and mom are the aholes for not teaching either of their children emotional boundaries. Fresh emotional wounds have to be treated to heal, not repeatedly stabbed . And in the same way, I know people who are terrified of losing their sight, and taking away someone's eyesight, even temporarily can be seriously upsetting and damaging. The adults have now created a situation in which their children cannot coexist even for short periods of time, and honestly I don't know how someone could really fix it without first stopping the blows between them. As for who was sent over to the Aunt's house, I think the father might be justified in that he knows both his kids better than us and he could figure out what needed to be done to supplement the situation right now better than we could.
Wait - forgot to mention that since breakups are things that take time, a short term solution would go a long way in solving the conflict, and making sure that everything simmers down while the father sits down, and realizes how he failed as a parent, and what he can do to better teach his children how to be real human beings.
Lily didn’t do anything wrong, it’s not like she permanently blinded her or made it so she can’t do anything
1. Teen breakups are cringe I would make fun of my sister if she was in that case ngl
2. Separate them for the time being was the best option cause Laura is going back to her dorm or something like that and by the time they meet each other again they would have been good again.
@@TaeDawgMadFresh ofcourse teen breakups are cringe but it hurts the people in the relationship. In this case lily, she was crying for a few days and her 20 yo sis was bullying her? She deserves being blinded for a few days even tho it was a step too far.
Last Story: NTA. The mom tried to get into her daughter's interests. It did not work out. Maybe they should find something new to find some common ground. No reason to cry about it and make a big fuss. I do not have any common interests with my parents. I am more into video games, drawing, and computers. My mom has more common interests with my sisters. I am fine with it. I live in my own world. Just like pegasus said just have to accept it and move on.
The family was over reacting like crazy, as if she said that her daughter can die or something ass intense when she basically explained "Oil and water don't mix together ; same for people". Especially when the mother tried multiple times when the daughter never seemed to actually care much.
There are people out there that ressemble one another like a reflection and hate each other while we can have people with totally different personalities, interests etc that are fine with one another. Some people click, some don't. Even family.
Honestly sounds like there are missing details in the last story. No one would react like that if that’s all they said
Laura: literally using psychological torture
Lily: popped out the lenses of a pair of glasses
Imo, psychological > material
I mean I get where you're comming from, but I think taking away vision would also count as psychological because she was terrified. Still I get where you're comming from.
@CjGamesAndStuff tell that to the person in the comments with one blind eye. I know that they’re somewhere in here
@@crezupcuz228 I still don’t get how not being able to see(temporarily) is terrifying.at most I’d think of it as a major inconvenience she was crying over nothing
@@cowboy2006 It's not the fact that she's not able to see, but rather that she didn't know what her sister was gonna do to her whilst blinded. That's why she wanted her sister out of the house. I know that I wouldn't cry over my vision being taken away but I would probabbly be terrified of what my siblings would do if I had that kind of relationship.
@CjGamesAndStuff bro she only took her glasses away, shut the fuck up and go find them
The bad guy is definitely Laura. A 20 year old abusing a 15 year old. She is almost a full grown adult. When you are a teen, your prefrontal cortex is no fully developed, so she sticks with her emotions. She is a minor. (The girl is 20. she should be in college)
But that dosent justify blinding someone Laura was a jerk but she could easily injure herself especially because she dosent have a cane or a guide dog
@@noonewilleverknowme7170 It's a couple of days and she's in her home with their family. The harder part will be the trip back.
Also not bringing her spare pair was a stupid move. Anything can happen at any time. Assuming you're safe because you're only staying there for a couple days is really dumb, especially something like spare glasses. Where's the difficulty in bringing those with you.
@@noonewilleverknowme7170 dude she's a 20 year old and her sister is 15 she can take care of herself or she can go move out to a place where they would accept her she is a fucking adult
@@uzi_-_ first of all she was staying there for a bit she already moved out but how does that justify blinding someone
@@noonewilleverknowme7170 you dont think straight when ur 15, going through a breakup and geting verbally abused by ur sister
My mom and I are pretty different but we still bond over a few things. Example, gardening and murder documentaries/shows.
Same for me and my mom. Gardening, pets and true crime documentaries
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@@waqasyounus4399 Ah yes, the pneumonia caused by the inhaling of volcanic ash, and one of the longest words ever.
I predict that Lily will be moving out and cutting all ties with Laura and the parents as soon as she reaches 18.
Lilly isn’t in the wrong Laura is 20 and was bullying a 15 year old and she simply got revenge on the manipulative asshole. Also it’s not like lily gauged out her eyeballs she just threw the lenses away you’re making it seem like Lily permanently took away her sight
You right. I got astigmatism so my vision's shit. But if I did that to my sister, and she threw my glasses' lenses out, I deserved that honestly.
@@yadziamercado4197 yes!!! Amen. I also have pretty bad vision and I can't see without my glasses. But if I mentally abused my LITTLE MINOR sister... I would deserve it.
@MonteMehPup RBLX well think about that before bullying a child
@MonteMehPup RBLX I mean don't be a bully then. Crying about your glasses after tormenting someone way younger than you- connect the dots
@MonteMehPup RBLX I agree but same goes for Laura too. Like your own last sentence of the comment goes for her. I was emotionally abused and told that no one will love me and that only caused trauma.
I wear glasses. If I woke up one day and found out they were missing, I wouldn't start having a mental breakdown and getting my sister kicked out of the house, especially if she apologized.
Welllllllllllll
You aren't her tho
Cuz you're mature, Laura isn't
@@gamerboypanda2658 She's 20 and she's throwing a hissy fit to get her 15 year old sister kicked out of the house. Unless she murdered the cat, I see nothing that justifies that.
Luckily I can still see. It's not like I'll be entirely blind. If my sibilings did that to me, then I'm buying a BB gun with the bullets in it lol. I can still see that well even without my glasses.
I can't sympathise with the older sister. Don't be a bad person and expect nothing back. All she had to do was not torment her younger sibling yet even after warnings from her parents she still kept going. She is the older one. She should be mature enough to understand that. She is in the wrong
Worst Sister Ever??? Ah yes, this floor is made out of............floor 😂 In all honesty, these ppl were awful the more and more I kept hearin these 🤣
"Wait, -28. Is that even possible?"
Me: at my friend's house, staring at his -800 grandpa
Wha-
I’m going to side with Lily. She may only be 15 but having your ADULT sister say something like “he deserved a prettier girl” or “I don’t blame him” would be damaging and extremely upsetting. Getting kicked out after being emotionally abused would be even more upsetting cause now she has to deal with the guilt of something that wasn’t that big of a deal where’s I doubt Laura is going to be affected long term by being blind for a few hours, it’s not like lily stabbed her eyes out or anything, and plus, she’s 15! 15 year olds do stuff like that and she felt really bad after seeing what she did and I’m pretty sure Laura wouldn’t like it if lily said the same things to her after a breakup. I think Laura is immature and her mum babies her for some reason
(P.s though I don’t believe you should blind people for fun, I feel like Laura kinda deserved this cause 1. It’s not permanent, she’s going to get her glasses in like, a few hours and .2 it didn’t hurt her mentally or physically she was just a little “scared” so I feel like she was deserving of the punishment. Plus, this wouldn’t have happened if the parents didn’t spoil Laura and told her to shut up :/)
What I find funny is that a 20 year old grown woman is "scared" to be in the same house as her 15 year sister for throwing out her glasses. Not even stabbing her, just throwing out her glasses. I don't care how much "blind" she is, but it's one thing to be terrified of not finding your way and another thing to be scared of a teenager for throwing out your glass in revenge.
So a adult bullying a child which can lead to depression and suicide and the child blinding her temporarily which can lead to fatal accidents, the mother needs better children wtf
honestly I'm on lilly's side that was a life lesson for laura many people say dealing with your family is practice for dealing with people in the real world and in these times bullying someone the way laura did may cause them to retaliate in a way that will stop you from seeing the light of day for more than a couple of weeks and while the action itself wasn't exactly equivalent to what laura did it sounds like the effect was.Laura got some emotional distress in exchange for the life long trauma and mental issues she may have caused lily. Besides there are people who are born or rendered completely blind and live like that with no problems and while it makes life difficult for laura it doesn't cause any real harm and is completely reversible. it doesn't make lily right to lash out like that because that kind of behavior is almost always wrong but that's really just what laura gets.
as someone who is rendered blind without my glasses, laura deserved every second of not being able to see.
Well whos the real bad guy here the 95% grown women who emotionally abused a teenager going through a breakup the the point she cries herself to sleep or a teenager getting her 90% grown sister back by pulling a harmless prank that didn't permanently impair he vision whilst feeling bad.
I'm convinced Pegasus has never met a 15 year old ever
Dude at one point he was 15. So yeah he must've.
They kick her out of the house just because Lily took Laura's glasses off? It was just a revenge, at least she apologized not like Laura
broke
Laura had nothing to apologize for
@NeoXShiro Prd. not that. Infact,apologies solve nothing
@NeoXShiro Prd. either do nothing or return the favor
@NeoXShiro Prd. that's an option
Laura is 20 yrs old and tormenting her 15 year old sister because of a break up.
that's pathetic like putting her anger on her sister is really pathetic.
9:07 if you look close enough you can see someone get yeeted
It personifies the glasses which also got yeeted in the first story.
Thank you for coming to my Ted talk
Imo, Lilly wasn't the a-hole at all. Laura is a fully grown 20 year old woman and verbally abused a 15 year old child for a breakup that she was already devastated about. Even if Laura was blind for a day or two, she can still get replacement glasses. Lilly would probably be traumatized by her sister rubbing salt in her wounds emotionally. The parents are the a-holes actually, they should have kicked out Laura since she was the adult and what she was doing was probably worse. Or taken more action to stop her from teasing Lilly so Lilly didn't feel the need to do that.
Lily was in the right simply put. Laura was an adult who should have known better, but she was emotionally abusing her sister to the point where Lily locked herself away. A simple "stop that" won't do anything to solve the problem so Lily, took action herself which is what her parents should have done before things ended the way they did, afterwards she felt bad about what she did but Laura didn't.
I'm 18 and I was born blind in my right eye and losing my other eye terrifies me since I already have bad vision in the left as well, but I would gladly break my own glasses or take my own eye out if I treated anyone I cared about the way Laura did, especially when they were going through something hard.
Lily is in the right I've seen that one before and in the comments more back story was told and she had been tormenting her sister all their lives
So she took her sisters lenses that she literally can't see with is justified by the fact her sister picked on her?
Edit: ok I understand the situation.
@@thisisstar4881 picked on and harassed are different
@@thisisstar4881 No its not okay to break her glasses but I'd be pretty fed up too if my parents did nothing about a grown ass adult bullying me at 15.
@@thisisstar4881 i can't see too without glasses so what Lily did was right.
@@thisisstar4881 She made her cry herself to sleep ( and just cry in general) and wouldn't leave her alone. Especially in a bad state. She insulted her by saying she isn't pretty enough. That's bullying.
AITA: the subreddit where a-holes try to justify they aren’t
And or very self conscious people who don’t want to be rude people.
Actually, most of the time on the sub reddit they are not the A-hole, Pegasus just features the ones where they are
Reddit
@@BLACKMAMBA-og1lf Reddit.
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in my opinion, it's Laura's falt for not foreseeing such an outcome. If you are going to be an asshole to your younger sibling for no reason you should definitely expect retaliation.
I think Laura is the favorite child
Nah,she just did nothing wrong
She definitely is
@@Remix2366 mentally torturing a 15 year old and the parents don't give two shits
Gets her glasses popped out which lily didn't even know would do much damage
Parents kick her out
Im on lily's side here. What she experienced can and might be emotionally traumatic which could lead to her scared of dating. If that house was her childhood house it should be easy to navigate around for the meantime.
Laura verbally abused lilly to a level where i think can be counted as trauma which is irreplacable but when lilly standed up to the lauras verbal abuse that probably caused a trauma and broke a replacable thing the parents threw her out for a day and lilly was the one living there the one causing trouble and abusing her sister was laura i think this is victim blaming and favoritism and also lilly regretted it afterwards while laura did not have any kind of redemption at all
Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it (I know they’re not the same thing)
My friend got a boyfriend at 9, lasted till they were 12. They apparently “cheated.” It was miserable to watch lmfao
the fact that it lasted 3 years is incredible. that's longer than most relationships
@@Cameron-vr9ed Yeah that's ironic
I do feel like What laura did was more extreme than it’s made out to be. She basically called Lilly ugly and told her that she wasn’t good enough.
In the first story I honestly think the parents are also the AH. Maybe the biggest AH of them all.
They didn't seem to care AT ALL when Laura was bullying Lily, but when it's the other way around she gets kicked out of the house?
I'd say ESH but Lily slightly less so because she
1. Is 15
2. Didn't start the situation
3. Regretted what she did and I don't remember Laura ever apologizing for her shitty behavior
Sure, what Lily did was more extreme and she should be punished fot it but Laura had another pair of glasses so it's not like she's gonna be blind permanently.
There's a big difference between grounding your kid for a couple days and kicking them out for a couple days.
I think I know who's the favorite daughter in that house...
3:00 just punish the kid so she wont bully her sibling? then the other sibling whouldent fuck up the glasses. well deserved
In the first story Lily shouldn't have been kicked out . While it isn't okay to just throw away someone's lenses like that , Laura was also messing with Lilly and got absolutely no repercussions but a simple "cut it out" . At 15 and 20 they should both be (somewhat) mature , so the parent should've had them talk it out and resolve their problems from there . All you're doing by kicking lily out is showing that you prefer Laura over her and can eventually lead to some sibling hatred .
I also blinded my sister now I also can’t see my family anymore I got 50 years
free my man he ain't do anything
If you ever feel bad about yourself don't you are not like the clowns 🤡that Pegasus destroys!
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@@malekahmedsamir1337 no thats wrong!
I’m a terrible person. I have absolutely no sympathy for Laura lol. I’d high five Lily and tell the parents to go *bleep* themselves lol.
I’m more on Laura’s side lol
Nah man Lily made herself look more like an asshole.
imagine being 20 and bullying a 15 yr old
*Roblox is one of the best games ever made*
yah man
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Nah man
I like how your kinda everywhere and comment shit completely out of context
Nah man there are games that gives us nostalgia and lasting memories
Lily was right, the parents should have stepped in so that didnt happen. Lily had to do something to stop the literal mental abuse, so she did. The only victim is her.
Imagine a 20 year old being this immature. Literally
At the first one one of the parents should’ve brought the blinded one home for the glasses
For the first one, she should have not been tormenting someone who was crying for days, idk why the parents immediately switched from sympathizing for one child and then immediately to the other when that child literally mentally tortured her sister.
The Lilly and Laura one is so dumb cause Lilly is literally a child she’s like 15 and Laura is 20 why is Laura bullying a 15 to the point she’s going to sleep crying in tears when she got her heart broken and now has to deal with her sister obviously she’s in a sensitive position and she is a child so of course she will think of getting revenge so she went and took the glasses and THREEW em, now glasses are replaceable but what Laura did wasn’t and she didn’t even say sorry. She deserves it and I wear glasses and I think Laura was being over dramatic- Lilly even felt bad which I don’t know why
I think Lily is in the right. It's Laura's own fault that she tormented and emotionally tortured her sister and I would sys she deserved what she got, however I myself wouldn't go so far as to pop out her lenses. I do think there's some favouritism going on, with the father doing nothing when Laura was tormenting, however when it switches and Laura was crying, he kicked out Lily
You really don't need to have the same interests as your parents/kids to be close to them
But it goes both ways, point is you have a much easier time knowing someone when you share common interests.
The fact you cant say the word bully on it says something about how strict the tos is
I feel like laura was being a drama queen
As a younger sibling, what Lily did was totally justified. I’ve been verbally abused by my older brother since i can remember, and my parents would always say that he’s just taunting me. If it was only this time Lily was insulted by her sister, i don’t think throwing the lenses out the window was the best idea (they cost a lot of money, coming from someone that wears glasses); but if this was a common thing that happened multiple times before, then yes, fuck them glasses and Laura is the one who’ll be paying for those
What i don't understand is she didn't kick her daughter to the street she was at her aunt and it looks like the aunt is a good person
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@@malekahmedsamir1337 thanks u for the input
I personally would make Lily get a job or something to pay off how much the glasses cost after she is over her break up. Cause glasses cost a lot.
And Laura would stay, seeing as she was blind and I can't kick her out blind and since she is an adult the punishments I could give her are limited. But after she would apologize to Lilly and she wouldn't be welcomed in my house for a year.
To be fair the moment Laura was picking on Lily I would tell her to shut or get out.
@@NAME-yg8sl Lily is only 15 lmao- what kinda job is someone that age supposed to work
@@solus8685 look idk, I have watched TV and seen 15 year old get jobs. Is that just something that TV makes up?
I think the one really crying in fear here was Lily.
so those parents rather Lili having emotional Issues, almost falling to depression and huge Insecurities bc of her nasty sister fault than Laura got what she deserves? Definetly they are massive TA to Lily
idk i wouldnt call the mom the A hole either no one is the A hole they just simply cannot relate me and my dad have the same problem but honestly id rather have him be honest than try to understand games at the year of 44
You say that as if it was impossible to understand games at 44.
My great grandpa bought his first gaming console at age 65. Turned up with it one day.
But yeah, I'm totally with you on the being honest part. If it's just not his thing that's fine. Parents and kids don't need to have shared interests to live each other, right?
Ok for the first one, I have seen a friend go through heartbreak and it was really hard. As bad as I felt for her, I knew she felt worse, so I have a general idea of how bad it can get. So I don't think it was right for the sister to say all those things, especially since she is 20 and should know better. Breaking the glasses was a bad thing to do and I wouldn't exactly say she deserved it, but I can see why she did it. I think both the sisters are wrong in this, and the parent should probably support both and just keep them in different places in the house. I don't know, I'm not that smart.
Honestly the older sister claiming she scared of her little sister is so obviously a way to manipulate their parents it’s not even funny. If I saw a 20 year old picking on a 15 year old I’d probably hope they go blind too. Only difference is little sis had the willpower to keep it temporary instead of just dumping bleach in her eyes
i personally think kicking out Lilly isn't a good move
either:
-Lilly went overboard so she got punished by her parents going overboard or
-Lilly didn't go overboard and the punishment was unjustified
In the first story, it seems to me like the older of the two is an asshole. She was telling her sister that it was her fault they broke up and that if he wanted to end the relationship for a prettier girl then she wouldn’t blame him. Sounds pretty emotionally abusive to me. We also have to keep in mind that she’s 15 years old. Of course she’s gonna be dramatic. It’s probably one of her first breakups and she doesn’t fully understand how to deal with it. But going in and telling her that it was her fault is never gonna help. I completely understand why she broke her glasses. She wanted revenge and like the OP said, she felt awful for doing it. But sending her away because her OLDER sister of FIVE YEARS is scared of her for breaking her glasses isn’t how you deal with that.
That blindy had it coming I'd do the same with no regrets she's the best example of "its all fun and games till it happens to us" and a 19 year old crying over something so little her mom said damn how sensitive are these people 😂😂
lets be honest, the older sister in the first story 1000% deserved it
dont emotionally abuse anyone, kids