Shy people actually are the most talkative people You have to just give them time and when you are into them you'll know that they're very upon and kind
As a VERY shy person I can definitely relate to this. Not to mention when your shy all people talk to you about is how shy you are and how you should talk more.
Then when you talk, someone interrupts you and talk louder and you naturally be quiet. Then when you want to say what you wanted to say, the topic of the conversation already changed
Exactly, people be like “you looked depressed”. Personally if you talk to me more than once I would be happy to be your friend i got 0 contacts on my imsg so if you reply to me more than one time we are automatically friends 💀😭
Im very shy, although when I open up to the people I'm comfortable around amd trust, then I get quite talkative. Not when there's alot of people though.
I’m shy with social anxiety and can’t talk to anyone I haven’t talked with before, but once I get to know you I will talk on and on for hours with you and am actually pretty social around people I know very well
Yep I withdrew from many classes during my undergraduate years in college due to the fear of public speaking. I was able to overcome that during my mental health counseling internship that required me to facilitate different group sessions with 20-30 adults 4 times a day. Now I work as a mental health counselor and I continue to do the same.
**Exam day** Teacher: Ok start Everyone: *Starts* *Teacher start shouting: EVERYONE MAKE SURE TO READ THE QUESTION AND WRITE FASTER YOU DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME!* Me: *Heartbeat stops*
Omg this is so true it happened to me when I did my test for maths and got 5 out 44 bc everyone started but not me and I started panicking so that's how I ended failing💀
Teacher: *walks in the classroom* Teacher: everyone today is reading class and ALL of you will be taking turns to read. *When it's my turn* Me: oh ok- My mind: *SOMEONE CALL THE DOCTOR*
>Finds part I have to read and rehearses it so I won't mess up that bad >practiced the wrong part anyways >sweats and stutters I don't miss school all that much x'^D
@@doodoodoodle me when it's my tun to read: heart ♥ pumping with fear but want to get this over with,...., *reads as loud and clearly* Afterwards: I felt like I was stuck in a balloon by myself with no air in it and had to hold my breath
Things that I hate as a shy person: -public speaking -my teacher telling me to go Infront to answer a question -when the teacher tells me to read louder -when my friends force me to go to the teacher and tell what happened -afraid to ask the teacher something about a question (every time i need to, I get all sweaty lol-) And many more-
People normally get sweaty and/or awkward, but when I was asked to do those a lot of times tears used start coming Outta my eyes lol, obviously I'm not sad nor happy, just for some random reason, that makes it even more awkward for me I had to say that I have an infection and then they ask me to wash my face and come back 😂, thankfully I don't have that problem now, but still I am shy
i've always been that person who doesn't usually talk and when i talk, my voice isn't as loud as i hear it so people tend to ask me what i'm saying or if i can speak louder. Then when i get the confidence to talk loud, not to the point of shouting, i sound like i'm being rude or disrespectful... that's why i just avoid ppl lol
*Walks to front of class to start presentation* Teacher: Everyone pay attention *sweats a little bit* *Starts presentation* Random person: We can't hear you *speaks a little louder* Teacher: EVERYONE PAY ATTENTION *heart drops*
And then u stand there akwardly. And your not able to talk and try to get ur self together again. And u end up getting the worst voice crack ever. Or u make a weird noise.
These are things people have said multiple times to me throughout school: “Talk, I want to hear your voice.” “Why are you so quiet?” “Can you speak?” “I don’t think I’ve ever heard you talk before” “You talk so low” “I can’t hear you”
@Nobita-kun16 🦫 damn, I try to avoid talking as much as I can in school, and when I have to talk, I time it precisely so that nobody mentions the fact that I just talked. It’s though.
@@calicofries im shy and I find it embarrassing- like once it was raining and I refused to bring one 💀 Idc how wet I get, I’m not bringing one, I have no idea how it’s embarrassing, it just is 😅
For me it’s the opposite cause I’m so insecure about my upper arms area cause I have something called Keratosis pilaris and some days it’s more noticeable than others.
@@leszz I have keratosis Pilaris too! Don’t be ashamed about it. I used to envy classmates who had smooth upper arms, but now I like the bumps. We are all unique and special in our own way and should never be ashamed of physical appearances!
For me it's the opposite, not only does my coat protect me from the cold but in a way also from my insecurities (ex: my upper body). So I just feel really safe in a coat, it's my safe spot ^^
@@alisonmccain Part of it is that I’m homeschooled so I don’t have a locker and don’t want to stand out more than I already do. But also, I think I can probably go without a coat until it reaches 15 F (about -9.4 C) I just gotta wear enough shirts
honestly as a shy person you just gotta know me, and once im comfy with you im the most talkative person alive and my cousin and friends tell me this lmao I have extreme social anxiety btw
same, it manifested because I was so embarrassed once when I was a still a kid and it brought down my self-esteem and confidence. I'm loud af when I'm with my friends though
I’m a very shy person and I can relate to all of these. If you are trying to give up on being friends with someone shy, don’t. Give them time. Once they get to know you they will become crazier
As a professional shy person I can confirm this is true once I get comfortable with people i will act crazy but in a funny way and possible do something stupid lol
This is my best friend practically summed up into one, we are polar opposites she hates drawing attention to herself and being loud, but I wore sunglasses in the rain whilst walking to lunch to make people laugh so yk :))
It's just like my bf's and my relationship, she is the shy one and I am the one who encourages her to get out of her room (to hang out) or talk to her classmates. I know she is uncomfortable with the people she doesn't know well, but once acquainted she opens up like the prettiest flower really fast :D
This is so relatable and I hate public speaking, talking to someone who works at a restaurant, or ordering food cuz they always ask me to speak louder (ノ｀Д´)ノ彡┻━┻ Edit: Tysm everyone for all the like ☺️ hope you have a wonderful day
One time I was at school we were doing work in a group and the teacher asked me to read one of the papers to my group and to her so I read it and she asked “can you speak louder” I stayed quiet for like 7 seconds and said for the other person in my group to read it I just can’t
@@teddybearcupcake6616 bro you got enough courage to ask the other person to read it while the teacher was watching you? 😂 I couldn't have done even that😐😐
Bruhh whenever I say anything to *anyone* They’re like “what? Huh? I can’t hear you, speak louder” Istg I will literally feel like I’m yelling but apparently I’m talking in a normal voice ; - ; *everyone always talks about how quiet I talk, everyone… it’s annoying*
My social anxiety hits with anything. Once I get to know someone, I talk and talk and talk- I can't even order my own food because I don't know the person that is ordering for us. My mom and dad, as well as my little brother have to do it for me. If I'm alone, or with my friends, I will actually talk to someone. My dad actually put me in counseling for it. I went to one a long time ago, and I'm in another one now
If you can try exposer therapy and (if you try it) do not forget to encourage yourself and give yourself credit for the little things. You might need to take breaks and that is ok too.
I relate to all of these. Except I'm not shy, just extremely socially ackward and anxious. Once I let my guard down and actually interact with people they usually go like "wow you really talk" lol
Yeah it is just don’t talk and just ask What’s the worst that can happen are they going to kill you No just stay quiet and you won’t get asked questions
@@dangermax2888 clearly you've never been a shy person. When you dont talk, you get asked why you're always quiet, when you do talk, atleast for me, someone tends to talk over you, or you're told to be quiet right away, and as a shy person, I can say that you're usually embarrassed to ask questions because depending on the answer it could make you feel really dumb for asking
Same even when the teacher is like "dOn't bE aFraId tO aSk iF yoU hAvE a qUesTiOn" I just stay quiet and wait after class to ask. Makes me feel more comfortable and like I can talk openly when it's one-on-one
@@tinab3895 Same. I'm usually very shy to even talk to a teacher when alone. One time I wanted to ask my math teacher about the syllabus but I was to shy so my friend went to the teacher and said that I had a question to ask and after that I did ask.
Yeah ! I can relate this ... "I'm shy. Most people don't take the time to get to know me. They don't take the time to explore the real me. So i'd like to thank everyone who has. Everyone who didn't missed out."
wait you forgot one when you’re taking a test and at the rate you’re going at, you’ll finish super quickly but literally no one else is so you go suuuuuuper slowly on the last few questions you’re on until you see more people finishing-
I myself am shy and it’s rude to make fun of shy people bc I still to this day get my classmates saying “Remember when you wouldn’t talk?” you just have to give them chances.
I don't even tell the teachers to not erase the board when they ask us if we're done writing everything down.. today when the math teacher asked, I began saying the word no, and halfway through I realized no one else was saying no too as usual, so I just cut it off right there lmao.. even though I'm sure that brought upon me way more attention than what I would've gotten if I just told them not to erase it..
Reasons I regret being shy in high school: -I don’t have anyone’s number since I am too nervous about talking to ppl in group chats -Avoiding dates from girls cuz of my fear -nobody knows when I need help -everyone would rather pick someone over me because they socialize more -I feel lonely because everyone assumes I want to be by myself all the time
I was like that too everybody hated me in school and thought I was nerd and don't talk to anybody they were calling me freak But then I switched my class and introduced myself absolute different person Now in my new class everybody thinks I'm very talkative and not shy they don't know anything about my past 😊 I'm very happy in my new life right now ☺
@@nurtacimamquluyeva8507 I also want to change class and start everything from the beginning and introduce myself as a not shy person, if I did it in my class everyone will be like omg omg which would make me more nervous
@@jamesmiller9764 yes it's not late just change your class and start a new life you won't regret it But at first it'll be hard because everyday you have to act like a film actor but after few months you'll get used to it and you won't be shy even in your normal life)
I once walked up to my teacher and asked for help and she explained it in a very hard way to understand and took a long time explaining it so then she said, you understand? I was like Yep, but I actually didn't, and I didn't know how to ask again, so I guessed 🤣
As a very shy and nervous person I face a lot of problems 😅 For our speaking skills test we have to read a chapter and it's role no. wise, so the more my role no. comes closer the more nervous I get and when it's my turn, due to all my nervousness I just start reading at supersonic speed. Commas, full - stop yeah they don't even exist.
Me: *goes to friend house for sleepover* Their mom: "are you hungry dear?" Me: "no..." *ends up going home starving because I'm scared to ask for anything*
As someone who struggled with separation anxiety and being selectively mute as a kid I totally understand the struggle of being “that shy kid”. I’m still super shy and I get anxious around others, but it’s all about practice. Also therapy helps a ton
Okay I’m shy because of my social anxiety 😥 and I had a PowerPoint presentation in front of my new class for the first time…sooo yeah I can relate so much
I relate but instead of smiling awkwardly i have managed to teach myself to avoid social expression when talking with people I'm not close too or people i just don't know. I am the walking 😐 emoji when talking to people lmao
a coversation when i went to my friend's house like a month ago: her dad: anyone wanna play board games me: su- my friend: no dad theyre soooo boring her dad: come on we have her over me: ye w- friend: no daddd **friend walks away** **her dad whispers** : u want to play right??? me: well uh- friends: comes back and pulls me to her room **her mom sipping tea and watching all this**
I'm really shy and I don't talk much in class that some of my classmates think I'm mute, but luckily most of my teachers are understanding and good, they help me boost my confidence too
I can relate so here's a story nobody asked for: I'm really shy around people and I really struggle with socializing so I'm quiet most of the time. I know there's nothing wrong with this BUT here's the thing: There is THIS ONE PROFESSOR that borrows my pens and doesn't give them back and I'm too shy to ask him. He has taken three so far😭
I'm gonna be honest, I've been pretty shy with stuff like that in the past, but if people take my stuff I'll call them out on it. I believe the last time I struggled with situations like that was back in 2017, now my shyness has dialed down a lot ever since. Do your best to build up the courage and ask him nicely.
I grew up almost completely socially isolated and became socially anxious, shy, and asocial because of it :) I related to all of these, especially the last one 😭 but srsly parents, teach ur kids how to socialize, having social issues is so terrifying and frustrating..
I was never socially isolated and I have the most social anxiety out of everyone I know. My parents always pushed me to socialize but I never would. It’s not on parents, some people are just born that way and it’s fine
I never really ask my teacher if I didn't understand something, like, let me figure this out by myself but at the end of the day, I still didn't get it. Also, everytime I was asked to read aloud and someone said "read louder, I can't hear", I still read with the same volume as before and surprisingly they heard me. Like how? Confusion level up.
Same, my English teacher told me that I’ll be alright and that he wouldn’t ask me again if I read a short paragraph and the kid behind me said “Where do I read from? I couldn’t hear her so idk where to start!” And I got really nervous and looked at the teacher, he said “No no it’s alright, you did perfectly fine,” and smiled. I felt a bit better but I couldn’t say anything for the rest of the lesson due to embarrassment…
The hungry me when my bestie's parents are home: "Aren't you hungry? It's almost like one o clock..." "No, why are you? You can go and eat if you want to." "nonononooo just asking..." *dies in hunger* But when her parents are not home: "I'M STARVIIIING! Do you have something to eat?" "You know where's the kitchen." "Okay! :]" *accedantly eats EVERYTHING in the fridge* "Whoopsie."
i'm so shy that everytime I walk inside my class in the morning, I'm afraid of saying "hi" because I don't want to interrupt anyone's talk. but later I feel bad because I'm afraid of looking unfriendly-
"when you tell your friend that you're hungry and they tell their mom you're hungry" it doesn't even help that i'm picky and there are only certain things I'll eat.
I remained mostly quiet in my classes however one day other kids were talking over the teacher so I yelled " BE QUIET AND PAY ATTENTION!!!" And caught everyone off guard
I seen a kid cry infront of the classroom when he had to give a presentation. It was crazy. i use to be shy, but you grow out of it when you been through the ringer of life. You become a bad ass adult so nothing to be worried about. Stay up shy people speak up, stand up for what you believe in, and you will all be ok.
I cry every time there’s a presentation🤠 It really sucks cause then my partner has to do it alone while I feel super bad about it and cries even more.🤷♀️
Nah I hate when I go over my friends like “I’m hungry want a snack?” So I’m like sure and then they tell their mom that IM hungry and want a snack. It pisses me off.
@@inspectorbean4331 I HONESTLY DON’T KNOW 🤣🤣 Actually it was probably the fact that my bestie was in my class, cause she really brought out the outgoing side of me to the class.....And I haven’t changed since
I'm embarrassed to bring headset, sunglasses, and the jacket, my umbrella is compact and can be retracted, it easily fits in my bag, so I'm not that worried about it
i get really nervous when people say that, and, when i sit in the back of the class and when the teacher calls me to answer some math question everybody gonna be looking at me and thats when i start getting really shaking a lot and stutter a lot.
I relate to this so much I have major anxiety with speaking infront of classes and I'm very insecure. When I speak infront of the class my eyes start watering and blurring up, I shake a lot, my voice starts braking, I get sick and light-headed and almost faint. I'm in 9th grade and I've been dealing with this my whole life I can't get over it.
I had this for years and took a public speaking class to work on it (signing up was terrifying). The thing that helped me, besides just practice, was they videod me speaking. Watching the playback I realized I looked much more confident than I expected. A lot of it was in my head. I'm still not a great speaker, but am not as intimidated by it as I used to be
When I was in 6th grade my teacher wrote a math test on the board. I couldn't see it and when I told her she dragged my desk, with me still in it, to the very front of the room, right up against to the chalkboard, in a dramatic fashion. I have terrible vision and still couldn't see the math test questions on the board but was too shy and embarrassed to say anything so I just squinted as hard as I could and guessed. I got every answer wrong because I got every math problem she wrote on the board wrong 🤦
Our history teacher of the 8th grade always used to pick the shy students to read out the text and would always ask them to lead louder even though their voice is audible to everybody in the class, in an attempt to "bring them out of their comfort zone". Like its okay lady, we can all listen to them, what do you want them to do, shout or scream? 🙂
Shy people actually are the most talkative people
You have to just give them time and when you are into them you'll know that they're very upon and kind
My mom sometimes asks Me why I talk so much when I’m around her and not others,idek the answer to give her 😑
@@mang1223 same
Me but I don t talk much
@@mang1223 same
Yes.
As a VERY shy person I can definitely relate to this. Not to mention when your shy all people talk to you about is how shy you are and how you should talk more.
Then when you talk, someone interrupts you and talk louder and you naturally be quiet. Then when you want to say what you wanted to say, the topic of the conversation already changed
Exactly, people be like “you looked depressed”. Personally if you talk to me more than once I would be happy to be your friend i got 0 contacts on my imsg so if you reply to me more than one time we are automatically friends 💀😭
Right
Am i a banana to you?
@@saifullahmohdnurnikman2176 no you're just Apple to me
When ur friend is getting yelled at while your at their house:
| 👀 “uhm. What a nice wall.”
|
Ikr
bro the window is so nice
lol XD
Did the ceiling just got painted last week? Looks nice *Ignores the screams of death*
@@ellexioo_4872 💀pls-
"Read louder I can't hear you"
What I want to say: "Hear better, it ain't my problem"
Frrr😂💀
Even if you are reading louder also
HAHAHAH
What I want to say after what you said :
"You are the person that I am supposed to listen so read louder, it's not my problem that you are shy."
@@Mr_Everest you are part of the problem I sm shy tho 🙉
Im very shy, although when I open up to the people I'm comfortable around amd trust, then I get quite talkative. Not when there's alot of people though.
Same 😌🥲😂
yea that means ur shy
Same
Same
Same
As a professional introvert, I can confirm these are true
I agree with you!!
lol same. professional introvert here too
As another another professional introvert I also comfirm
agreed 100%🤣🤣😂
As professional introvert #5, I too can relate lol
I’m shy with social anxiety and can’t talk to anyone I haven’t talked with before, but once I get to know you I will talk on and on for hours with you and am actually pretty social around people I know very well
Same
Me too
Same here
Same
Me too
As a shy person, whenever I heard the words participation or oral presentation in school, I had a mental breakdown 😂
Fr tho same
Omg me! 😭
Yep! That's me. I was so willing to even get a 0 on those projects, it's that bad!
Yep I withdrew from many classes during my undergraduate years in college due to the fear of public speaking. I was able to overcome that during my mental health counseling internship that required me to facilitate different group sessions with 20-30 adults 4 times a day. Now I work as a mental health counselor and I continue to do the same.
@@jenerella1609 Hey good for you! I still haven't overcame it yet 🥲
As an EXTREMELY shy person, this is very relatable and true
You're not too shy
Same
@@nope.6848 How the heck do u know
Same mate
Same
**Exam day**
Teacher: Ok start
Everyone: *Starts*
*Teacher start shouting: EVERYONE MAKE SURE TO READ THE QUESTION AND WRITE FASTER YOU DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME!*
Me: *Heartbeat stops*
Why is this so true !
I thought that said sharts I was so confused
@Galaxyfnaf And Dino *also silently shitting and pissing*
Omg this is so true it happened to me when I did my test for maths and got 5 out 44 bc everyone started but not me and I started panicking so that's how I ended failing💀
I liked it when it was 665 so now its 666 :>
Person: "read louder, I can't hear you!"
Me: for fuck sake bro I'm at 100%
Underrated.
True! It almost feels like they’re trying to test your shyness when they say that!
for fucks sake this is as high as my social anxiety will allow
fr like bro i aint a mega speaker.
im a mobile phone speaker.
@@moerustextingstoriesfr
Me being shy all the “time”
Me with my friends: Me giving them headaches with my story’s
stories
Facts
Lol
Same lol
Your soooooo quirky!
Teacher: *walks in the classroom*
Teacher: everyone today is reading class and ALL of you will be taking turns to read.
*When it's my turn*
Me: oh ok-
My mind: *SOMEONE CALL THE DOCTOR*
Same, I hated it 😖🥲
>Finds part I have to read and rehearses it so I won't mess up that bad
>practiced the wrong part anyways
>sweats and stutters
I don't miss school all that much x'^D
@@doodoodoodle me when it's my tun to read: heart ♥ pumping with fear but want to get this over with,...., *reads as loud and clearly*
Afterwards: I felt like I was stuck in a balloon by myself with no air in it and had to hold my breath
I just hate it especially being the 3rd kid to always be in the corner i just wish i would dissapear
@@cm_dash_ THIS
Things that I hate as a shy person:
-public speaking
-my teacher telling me to go Infront to answer a question
-when the teacher tells me to read louder
-when my friends force me to go to the teacher and tell what happened
-afraid to ask the teacher something about a question (every time i need to, I get all sweaty lol-)
And many more-
People normally get sweaty and/or awkward, but when I was asked to do those a lot of times tears used start coming Outta my eyes lol, obviously I'm not sad nor happy, just for some random reason, that makes it even more awkward for me I had to say that I have an infection and then they ask me to wash my face and come back 😂, thankfully I don't have that problem now, but still I am shy
Yes it always relatable I am 13 years old
Same
i'm related to that cus i'm always shy and i still hadn't change
Lol same
Me, who has social anxiety: "Haha, I do that"
We all fear having a voice crack during attendence.
Forget spiders, this the scariest thing in the world
Fr me
that's why I always practise quietly before the teacher calls on me ToT
The fact that I did a couple times and the whole class laughed at me 🥲💀
I sometimes i have voice cracks during attendance and my voice gets continuously lower
i've always been that person who doesn't usually talk and when i talk, my voice isn't as loud as i hear it so people tend to ask me what i'm saying or if i can speak louder. Then when i get the confidence to talk loud, not to the point of shouting, i sound like i'm being rude or disrespectful... that's why i just avoid ppl lol
True, I feel the same
Sameee
yeah, I kind of have to yell to make my voice actually heard by people because I can't speak loudly at all
Yess! Same! so true
Same
'Read louder i cant hear you'
'Ok...'
*reads quieter*
Lmao 🤣
@anime11 why just why
@@rustycumbucket8111 idk its funny
Same
@@rustycumbucket8111 you must be the one who says 'read louder'
Honestly as someone who doesn't talk much, I can get real talkative with someone as quiet as me 😀
*Walks to front of class to start presentation*
Teacher: Everyone pay attention
*sweats a little bit*
*Starts presentation*
Random person: We can't hear you
*speaks a little louder*
Teacher: EVERYONE PAY ATTENTION
*heart drops*
Ugh 😫 that happens with me too :< and I can relate to it
Yo I keep having so many presentation at school and its not working for me 😃✋
Ikr!
And then u stand there akwardly.
And your not able to talk and try to get ur self together again.
And u end up getting the worst voice crack ever. Or u make a weird noise.
Omg so relatable 😫😭
These are things people have said multiple times to me throughout school:
“Talk, I want to hear your voice.”
“Why are you so quiet?”
“Can you speak?”
“I don’t think I’ve ever heard you talk before”
“You talk so low”
“I can’t hear you”
And when you talk they’re like:
“YOU CAN TALK!!!???”
And then they start laughing and you’re quiet again.
I am 1 year late but i can relate so much
My English teacher was like this in seventh grade, it was so annoying all the time he was like “do you know how to speak” “OMG u talked!”
@Nobita-kun16 🦫 damn, I try to avoid talking as much as I can in school, and when I have to talk, I time it precisely so that nobody mentions the fact that I just talked. It’s though.
Same fr 😭😭😭
As a shy person myself, I love wearing jackets or hoodies its rlly comfortable especially outside😅
same
I rem wearing a grey sweater for my whole school year even when it was hot out lol
Same, also csn someone explain to me how umbrellas are embarrassing to bring? I'm shy and I bring umbrellas at rainy days.
@@calicofries im shy and I find it embarrassing- like once it was raining and I refused to bring one 💀
Idc how wet I get, I’m not bringing one, I have no idea how it’s embarrassing, it just is 😅
for me theyre showy and attention seeking
One time in class the teacher called on me to read and I was like "But noone can ever hear me" and she goes
"WhAaAt?"
I swear the class erupted 💀💀💀
Aww!
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As a member of the shy community I approve of this message
Shy people normally talk their families ears off at home, just talk to them, they are actually super kind😊😂
Ty
So true
Yes thanks lol ❤
True, ty
Are u watching me? Ty btw
The coat thing is extremely relatable.
It’ll be snowing and I will just put on a bunch of layers so that I don’t have to deal with a coat
For me it’s the opposite cause I’m so insecure about my upper arms area cause I have something called Keratosis pilaris and some days it’s more noticeable than others.
@@leszz I have keratosis Pilaris too! Don’t be ashamed about it. I used to envy classmates who had smooth upper arms, but now I like the bumps. We are all unique and special in our own way and should never be ashamed of physical appearances!
W h y
For me it's the opposite, not only does my coat protect me from the cold but in a way also from my insecurities (ex: my upper body).
So I just feel really safe in a coat, it's my safe spot ^^
@@alisonmccain Part of it is that I’m homeschooled so I don’t have a locker and don’t want to stand out more than I already do.
But also, I think I can probably go without a coat until it reaches 15 F (about -9.4 C) I just gotta wear enough shirts
Why is the last one so relatable 😭😭
rarely, I’ll ask again, but if i still don’t get it, i give up.
honestly as a shy person you just gotta know me, and once im comfy with you im the most talkative person alive and my cousin and friends tell me this lmao
I have extreme social anxiety btw
Same
Same
its really true
Ye same
same, it manifested because I was so embarrassed once when I was a still a kid and it brought down my self-esteem and confidence. I'm loud af when I'm with my friends though
I swear this is my life in a nutshell.
Ikr
Fr 💀
Same
Same lmao 😂
What i hate as a shy person:
-Public Speaking
-Getting Called
-Teacher Talking To Me
Yep
Same
Yesss true
Too true ;-; I'm not even kidding we have to do these projects and u have to read... IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE CLASS😭😭😭
So true
I’m a very shy person and I can relate to all of these. If you are trying to give up on being friends with someone shy, don’t. Give them time. Once they get to know you they will become crazier
True. Near the end of every school year is when I start talking more
As a professional shy person I can confirm this is true once I get comfortable with people i will act crazy but in a funny way and possible do something stupid lol
@@hadiyamadeayea. somehow i even had the courage to talk to one of my classmates without them talking to me before!
“Hey u hungry”
Yeah kinda
“Hey mom my friends hungry do you we have any snacks?”
Um no it’s *OUR Hunger*
This is my best friend practically summed up into one, we are polar opposites she hates drawing attention to herself and being loud, but I wore sunglasses in the rain whilst walking to lunch to make people laugh so yk :))
i want to be like u but im like ur friend
:/
It's just like my bf's and my relationship, she is the shy one and I am the one who encourages her to get out of her room (to hang out) or talk to her classmates. I know she is uncomfortable with the people she doesn't know well, but once acquainted she opens up like the prettiest flower really fast :D
This is so relatable and I hate public speaking, talking to someone who works at a restaurant, or ordering food cuz they always ask me to speak louder (ノ｀Д´)ノ彡┻━┻
Edit: Tysm everyone for all the like ☺️ hope you have a wonderful day
I hate when people ask me to speak louder
One time I was at school we were doing work in a group and the teacher asked me to read one of the papers to my group and to her so I read it and she asked “can you speak louder” I stayed quiet for like 7 seconds and said for the other person in my group to read it I just can’t
@@teddybearcupcake6616 bro you got enough courage to ask the other person to read it while the teacher was watching you? 😂
I couldn't have done even that😐😐
Bruhh whenever I say anything to *anyone*
They’re like “what? Huh? I can’t hear you, speak louder”
Istg I will literally feel like I’m yelling but apparently I’m talking in a normal voice ; - ;
*everyone always talks about how quiet I talk, everyone… it’s annoying*
Same
My social anxiety hits with anything. Once I get to know someone, I talk and talk and talk- I can't even order my own food because I don't know the person that is ordering for us. My mom and dad, as well as my little brother have to do it for me. If I'm alone, or with my friends, I will actually talk to someone. My dad actually put me in counseling for it. I went to one a long time ago, and I'm in another one now
If you can try exposer therapy and (if you try it) do not forget to encourage yourself and give yourself credit for the little things. You might need to take breaks and that is ok too.
that moment when you are reading the book in class and you see a lot of words you don't know how to say
Me in english class. (I speak spanish)
@@aleezaabad9028 nobody cares
@@nathanloco8 nobody asked whether you care or not
@@nathanloco8 I care
@@nathanloco8 nobody asked
"Read louder" Fine, guess I have to sound like a beast.
YEP
Cringe
So true had this happen so many times😂
Fr if I go any louder It'll feel like I'm uncomfortably yelling
Hmm-brrp-p-p, hEllo!
I relate to all of these. Except I'm not shy, just extremely socially ackward and anxious.
Once I let my guard down and actually interact with people they usually go like "wow you really talk" lol
Same
Social anxiety is a bitch
Same
Me too
Omg yeah it's so annoying when they act surprised when we talkk
As an introvert I relate perfectly it's always the hungry one🤦
Being a shy person isn't easy 😣
Yeah it is just don’t talk and just ask What’s the worst that can happen are they going to kill you No just stay quiet and you won’t get asked questions
Ikr
@XxMiracleKimberlyxX lmao you’re
Bro it's dont like a special disease
@@dangermax2888 clearly you've never been a shy person. When you dont talk, you get asked why you're always quiet, when you do talk, atleast for me, someone tends to talk over you, or you're told to be quiet right away, and as a shy person, I can say that you're usually embarrassed to ask questions because depending on the answer it could make you feel really dumb for asking
when you're reading in class and someone says "read louder, i can't hear you"
Man I simply just ✨don't read✨
Genius, right?
Not really. Then you’re making an awkward silence longer and you still have to finish reading. Dumb really
@@lucasm4299 no I never offer to read so I don't ever get called on so I'm good
@@vivsiglolzz 😆👏👏 Good one I should try
The last one is so relatable 😭😭 every time I can’t hear a question, I hate having to put my hand up to ask what it was cuz I’m too shy :((
Same even when the teacher is like "dOn't bE aFraId tO aSk iF yoU hAvE a qUesTiOn" I just stay quiet and wait after class to ask. Makes me feel more comfortable and like I can talk openly when it's one-on-one
@@tinab3895 Same. I'm usually very shy to even talk to a teacher when alone. One time I wanted to ask my math teacher about the syllabus but I was to shy so my friend went to the teacher and said that I had a question to ask and after that I did ask.
Fr
Yeah ! I can relate this ...
"I'm shy. Most people don't take the time to get to know me. They don't take the time to explore the real me. So i'd like to thank everyone who has. Everyone who didn't missed out."
nobody:
*me almost crying because of how relatable these are:* 🥲
Ikr, I thought that I was the only one who is this much shy! 😂🥲
@@payaldeoda303 well now u know ur not alone 🥲
Gurl, me too
Yep, this happened to me as well
Yess
wait you forgot one
when you’re taking a test and at the rate you’re going at, you’ll finish super quickly but literally no one else is so you go suuuuuuper slowly on the last few questions you’re on until you see more people finishing-
Lol I used to just trace my answers or erase them and rewrite until someone else turned their's in
@@silverbell4548 same 😭👌
Same, except whenever I finish early I'm too afraid to turn in my work cuz of the thought that my teacher will think I was rushing.
THIS
That's not even a shy person thing
one more thing shy people can relate to: when u meet someone that likes the same things as u u just go ultra extrovert mode
YEEES THATS ME
Yusss
IKR LMAO
hmm yes because we actually know what to talk about
That is true.
I've only met 1 person like that in my life.
And they are still my friend.
And my only friend.
I myself am shy and it’s rude to make fun of shy people bc I still to this day get my classmates saying “Remember when you wouldn’t talk?” you just have to give them chances.
I don't even tell the teachers to not erase the board when they ask us if we're done writing everything down.. today when the math teacher asked, I began saying the word no, and halfway through I realized no one else was saying no too as usual, so I just cut it off right there lmao.. even though I'm sure that brought upon me way more attention than what I would've gotten if I just told them not to erase it..
I hate when ppl do that
@@queensheem3337
Which part?
When the teacher erase everything and I asked for help and the people kept talking. Over me
@@queensheem3337
Lfvsksbx that suckss
im too shy to tell the teachers im not done writing lol
Reasons I regret being shy in high school:
-I don’t have anyone’s number since I am too nervous about talking to ppl in group chats
-Avoiding dates from girls cuz of my fear
-nobody knows when I need help
-everyone would rather pick someone over me because they socialize more
-I feel lonely because everyone assumes I want to be by myself all the time
The by myself one is just like my life, I also don't have much friends.
I was like that too everybody hated me in school and thought I was nerd and don't talk to anybody they were calling me freak
But then I switched my class and introduced myself absolute different person
Now in my new class everybody thinks I'm very talkative and not shy they don't know anything about my past 😊
I'm very happy in my new life right now ☺
I deal with this too
@@nurtacimamquluyeva8507 I also want to change class and start everything from the beginning and introduce myself as a not shy person, if I did it in my class everyone will be like omg omg which would make me more nervous
@@jamesmiller9764 yes it's not late just change your class and start a new life you won't regret it
But at first it'll be hard because everyday you have to act like a film actor but after few months you'll get used to it and you won't be shy even in your normal life)
And when someone tells you "you're shy aren't you?" like they discovered some kind of weird secret and you have to agree
I once walked up to my teacher and asked for help and she explained it in a very hard way to understand and took a long time explaining it so then she said, you understand? I was like Yep, but I actually didn't, and I didn't know how to ask again, so I guessed 🤣
"Read louder, I can't hear."
Me: *Save me god, I must speak louder*
As a very shy and nervous person I face a lot of problems 😅
For our speaking skills test we have to read a chapter and it's role no. wise, so the more my role no. comes closer the more nervous I get and when it's my turn, due to all my nervousness I just start reading at supersonic speed. Commas, full - stop yeah they don't even exist.
Same 🤣🥲
I RELATE TO YOU SO MUCH
Samee
And when I get a single thing wrong and I fear being laughed at-
Same
Lyrics coming at you at supersonic speed...AH-
This physically attacked my soul 😔 it’s too relatable
Im so shy at school but at home I'm a whole fricken new person😂
LITERALLY ME
Me: *goes to friend house for sleepover*
Their mom: "are you hungry dear?"
Me: "no..."
*ends up going home starving because I'm scared to ask for anything*
Mee too
Mee
I always say yes bc i can’t say no
Me too....
I always say ok instead of no
As someone who struggled with separation anxiety and being selectively mute as a kid I totally understand the struggle of being “that shy kid”.
I’m still super shy and I get anxious around others, but it’s all about practice. Also therapy helps a ton
Same
good to know
Everything thing will be okay one day just believe in yourself and be yourself
Okay I’m shy because of my social anxiety 😥 and I had a PowerPoint presentation in front of my new class for the first time…sooo yeah I can relate so much
As a shy person
I can admit that this is relatable
I relate but instead of smiling awkwardly i have managed to teach myself to avoid social expression when talking with people I'm not close too or people i just don't know.
I am the walking 😐 emoji when talking to people lmao
a coversation when i went to my friend's house like a month ago:
her dad: anyone wanna play board games
me: su-
my friend: no dad theyre soooo boring
her dad: come on we have her over
me: ye w-
friend: no daddd
**friend walks away**
**her dad whispers** : u want to play right???
me: well uh-
friends: comes back and pulls me to her room
**her mom sipping tea and watching all this**
Lol you must have like say that I wanna play with her
Lol her dad is a whole mood
Hi
Lolllll
I feel kinda bad for her dad-
He just wants to play board games with yall
When they tell me read louder I be YELLING AND READING THEN MY TEACHER WOULD SAY “NOT THAT LOUD”
Here’s another one:
When someone says “Why do you never talk”💀ITS BC I HAVE NOTHING TO SAY
Omg so true , and when I talk something they ignore me bro then what do u want me to do then😭
Yas
So relatable
YES. Or I do and never have the chance.
Or I want to talk in the worst timing possible 🙃
I'm really shy and I don't talk much in class that some of my classmates think I'm mute, but luckily most of my teachers are understanding and good, they help me boost my confidence too
wish my teachers were like that too :(
my teachers are mean they make me answer questions in class though😥🤣
I can relate so here's a story nobody asked for:
I'm really shy around people and I really struggle with socializing so I'm quiet most of the time. I know there's nothing wrong with this BUT here's the thing: There is THIS ONE PROFESSOR that borrows my pens and doesn't give them back and I'm too shy to ask him. He has taken three so far😭
@@xmchellax it’s not that easy
write a note! i done that b4 when this girl never gave my pend bck😭😭
I'm gonna be honest, I've been pretty shy with stuff like that in the past, but if people take my stuff I'll call them out on it. I believe the last time I struggled with situations like that was back in 2017, now my shyness has dialed down a lot ever since. Do your best to build up the courage and ask him nicely.
I felt this
Lol that's a cool professor😂😂took 3 pens
Shy people are the most talkative 😢
while i was doing a concert my teacher yelled WHAT DI YOU SAY SPEAK LOUDER and then i died and respawned as ed sheeran
I grew up almost completely socially isolated and became socially anxious, shy, and asocial because of it :)
I related to all of these, especially the last one 😭 but srsly parents, teach ur kids how to socialize, having social issues is so terrifying and frustrating..
True:(
I was never socially isolated and I have the most social anxiety out of everyone I know. My parents always pushed me to socialize but I never would. It’s not on parents, some people are just born that way and it’s fine
Do true
My mom is trying to make me socialize and I really don't want to and now she blames my older sister for everything
@@Lisa-qm5bc yea
Me: **does literally anything in a different way than usual at school**
My brain: DO YOU THINK THEY'RE JUDGING US!? THEY'RE TOTALLY JUDGING US!!!
YOU MUST BE MY TWIN
@@y0urlocaltheatrekid295 twinnie
As a shy person myself, I can confirm that none of those happen.
I never really ask my teacher if I didn't understand something, like, let me figure this out by myself but at the end of the day, I still didn't get it. Also, everytime I was asked to read aloud and someone said "read louder, I can't hear", I still read with the same volume as before and surprisingly they heard me. Like how? Confusion level up.
I completely understand
Same, my English teacher told me that I’ll be alright and that he wouldn’t ask me again if I read a short paragraph and the kid behind me said “Where do I read from? I couldn’t hear her so idk where to start!” And I got really nervous and looked at the teacher, he said “No no it’s alright, you did perfectly fine,” and smiled. I felt a bit better but I couldn’t say anything for the rest of the lesson due to embarrassment…
me neither, but i understand it after a bit of thinking
The hungry me when my bestie's parents are home:
"Aren't you hungry? It's almost like one o clock..."
"No, why are you? You can go and eat if you want to."
"nonononooo just asking..."
*dies in hunger*
But when her parents are not home:
"I'M STARVIIIING! Do you have something to eat?"
"You know where's the kitchen."
"Okay! :]"
*accedantly eats EVERYTHING in the fridge*
"Whoopsie."
Same with me xD
Man every time I see you have made a new vid I'm like "Let's go I get 30 seconds of happiness in my life"
Ikrrrr
Imagine having the confidence to ask the teacher a question in the first place
I’m what’s called selectively shy. Really only shy when I’m in an uncomfortable situation or meeting now people or if I’m not close with someone.
That’s literally just being normal
THIS IS LITERALLY ME 😭😭 unless you find me in my natural habitat talking to other kpop fans, genshin players, and weebs 😭
we love talking about kpop, genshin and anime LMAO 😩🖐
OMG I PLAY GENSHIN TOOO HI WHO'S YOUR MAIN
I main eula btw (☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)☞ {damn those thighs tho}
well,,, I just got hutao, tryna build her, but I main keqing :)
Bro, I'm u
Hi me
Love you
“today we will be working in groups that i will pick” worst words you could ever hear
You ain’t shy on of
i'm so shy that everytime I walk inside my class in the morning, I'm afraid of saying "hi" because I don't want to interrupt anyone's talk. but later I feel bad because I'm afraid of looking unfriendly-
yo, I feel so fricking awkward whenever I walk into the classroom late
@@jencIaire oH goD, I feel youuuu 😥
At my school, when we have to read out out work (I have a literature scholarship) it's really embarrassing for me to read out my poetry
"when you tell your friend that you're hungry and they tell their mom you're hungry"
it doesn't even help that i'm picky and there are only certain things I'll eat.
The last one is accurate for everyone
I remained mostly quiet in my classes however one day other kids were talking over the teacher so I yelled " BE QUIET AND PAY ATTENTION!!!" And caught everyone off guard
brooo i could never
The friend part is probably the most relatable-
Honestly the teacher just repeats the question😂😂
I seen a kid cry infront of the classroom when he had to give a presentation. It was crazy. i use to be shy, but you grow out of it when you been through the ringer of life. You become a bad ass adult so nothing to be worried about. Stay up shy people speak up, stand up for what you believe in, and you will all be ok.
Ty really needed that!
Ez to say
I cry every time there’s a presentation🤠
It really sucks cause then my partner has to do it alone while I feel super bad about it and cries even more.🤷♀️
@@panduoba
I can't even do that cause my friend in class is even more shy than me
@@zeearts9484 Damn that sucks. At least you’re a good friend!
As a shy person I can confirm this that it is most relatable thing I seen in this week
Same
Nah I hate when I go over my friends like
“I’m hungry want a snack?”
So I’m like sure and then they tell their mom that IM hungry and want a snack. It pisses me off.
The first one I actually do appreciate someone saying that because it means that they're actually listening to what i'm reading
I used to be rlly shy, and then I completely changed, so I can definitely relate to this
HOW DID YOU CHANGE?!?! show me your ways sensei..
@@inspectorbean4331 I HONESTLY DON’T KNOW 🤣🤣
Actually it was probably the fact that my bestie was in my class, cause she really brought out the outgoing side of me to the class.....And I haven’t changed since
@@ari_6103 aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaok. nice that is
All of them are so freaking relatable, except for the one where you're to embarresed to bring an umbrella and rain jacket to school....😂
🐙🥤cause it's awkward! you gotta shake em off and find a place to put them...it's awkward!
I'm embarrassed to bring headset, sunglasses, and the jacket, my umbrella is compact and can be retracted, it easily fits in my bag, so I'm not that worried about it
Yeah the umbrella makes it awkward for me, I used to tell my mom to keep it on rainy days and when i go back home mum finds me all wEt 😀
I hate when people in class be like: *"Can you say that again?"*
LIKE BRUH don't be acting like you didn't hear me-
but whyd they ask then?
i get really nervous when people say that, and, when i sit in the back of the class and when the teacher calls me to answer some math question everybody gonna be looking at me and thats when i start getting really shaking a lot and stutter a lot.
“Read louder! I can’t hear you!”
Me: *screams*
I could relate to the last one so much. When I finally muster up the courage to ask, and I still don’t get it, I never find out :’)
I relate to this so much I have major anxiety with speaking infront of classes and I'm very insecure. When I speak infront of the class my eyes start watering and blurring up, I shake a lot, my voice starts braking, I get sick and light-headed and almost faint. I'm in 9th grade and I've been dealing with this my whole life I can't get over it.
Same bud 🥲, even now in online classes I've been searching for a way to join class without anyone noticing me...
I had this for years and took a public speaking class to work on it (signing up was terrifying). The thing that helped me, besides just practice, was they videod me speaking. Watching the playback I realized I looked much more confident than I expected. A lot of it was in my head. I'm still not a great speaker, but am not as intimidated by it as I used to be
can we just appreciate that he didn’t fake wheeze half way into his sentence-
😎✋
Only shy people relate
💡Points to a picture of gummy bears💡
When I was in 6th grade my teacher wrote a math test on the board. I couldn't see it and when I told her she dragged my desk, with me still in it, to the very front of the room, right up against to the chalkboard, in a dramatic fashion. I have terrible vision and still couldn't see the math test questions on the board but was too shy and embarrassed to say anything so I just squinted as hard as I could and guessed. I got every answer wrong because I got every math problem she wrote on the board wrong 🤦
That sounds absolutely terrible lmao
I feel bad for you
This is my whole life 😩 The teacher did everything humanly possible so I could see and I still couldn't. Fuck nearsightedness
@@_my_insomnia_blink562 Bruh I totally get that. Nearsightedness sucks.
Something similar happened to my grandmother when she was in school
Our history teacher of the 8th grade always used to pick the shy students to read out the text and would always ask them to lead louder even though their voice is audible to everybody in the class, in an attempt to "bring them out of their comfort zone". Like its okay lady, we can all listen to them, what do you want them to do, shout or scream? 🙂
Imagine your history teacher reading this lol
@@violetriddle20 Lmao
Me realizing I’ve grown as a person when I think back to when these would’ve been so relatable and now can’t relate at all 😄
Yayy good job
Couldn’t be me-