when he was talking from 7:00 to 11:00 i just feLT this like wow i actually would really like to be friends with him cause we are similar in a way at least from what he was saying so yeah same, and really liked that talk
Omg yes I related to so much he said like about kind of avoiding love at all times and not ever having a crush. It was nice to know I’m not the only one like that
YESSS sameee!!! Honestly I've only seen a few of his videos, but I'm already subscribing and I can't explain how much I relate to him (at least everything I've seen so far lol) on a CELLULAR level lmao . It makes me lowkey very sad to hear he doesn't have much of a social life, like I feel like he would be more popular bc he just seems like such a cool and deep person in general
Conan Gray took himself on a date first, and if you ask, this guy just does what Conan Gray does, he even mimics Conan Gray's voice for some creepy reasons lmao
this video is an introvert's dream... i'm so glad you did all those things by yourself !! i always be going to the cinema and going to parks alone, the way those things hit.
I was stunned by how relatable Dustin thoughts were to mine, but then I saw him a FEW DAYS LATER with an UNOPENED chocolate box and came to the realisation that we are different people after all. But seriously, Dustin seems like such a beautiful soul. I'm thankful I stumbled across his channel
Not to say this video made me feel single but... This video made me feel GOOD about being single small youtuber heree!! thanks for the inspiration dustin >.
hearing somebody else talk about how, despite being a hopeless romantic, they've never had a crush or experienced romance in general made me feel so much better. it's weirdly validating to know i'm not completely alone in this. thanks a lot.
The way I relate to everything you just said, about no one being interested in me, to literally avoiding people I think are attractive. Wow.... we really be living the same lives. Thank you for expressing your thoughts, bc I have never felt so related to x
Your whole talk about never having a crush and a relationship like other people do just hit home because I feel the same because I also don't have self love and never experienced shit
same i honestly feel so ashamed sometimes because of it since i am 19 and I feel like everyone has had the ideal teenage life and I just missed out on all of it
is there anyone out there that is also a hopeless romantic but when someone is reaching out to you, you started to feel weird and awkward and ignore the person?!
shy scent Omg that’s literally me... someone told me he likes me some time ago. We were friends getting to know each other (we met just a few months ago)... but when he told me he likes me it got all awkward and now we’re not friends anymore... and I don’t want to ignore him, I just do? 😕
shy scent ugh, I’m the exact same. My friend told me they liked me and I completely shut down. I already knew they did, but when they opened up about it I just became so uncomfortable. Maybe it’s just because I’m not used to someone paying attention to me like that, but I feel so bad about it. :(((
.... nobody will EVER see this but you know..... Dear Dustin, I just discovered your channel today, my first impression of you was in your most current room tour. I love the way you edit and how funny you are! I really like how different you are. And something that I am really proud of, is the fact that your reading HARRY POTTER! In school last year, it was so hard to find someone that liked that as well, I would often get bullied about it. But I mean, you get what you get and you don't throw a fit. No really, Harry Potter changed the way I saw the world and in general ( I think) it made me a better person. It keeps me running. And about the romantic and friends stuff. I'm younger than you and I can tell you that ( in my case) boys SUCK. LOL, as bad as it sounds...you know what IDC. They suck, and being in drama leads you to one of the 7 doors to hell. Always with much much love, and your Ravenclaw friend T. A.W.
Whenever I think I'm attracted/interested in someone, there are 3 problems #1: I don't know whether I like/love them platonically or romantically #2: I don't have the courage to talk to them #3: I don't even have friends so why tf am I even looking for a lover
youtube recommended this to me and it seems like the algorithm is doing its job cause you are literally like another me, haven’t had any romantic experience or ever felt like we had a crush and kind of feeling unwanted and insecure about wether someone is ever going to like us and damn... first video I ever watched and I connected so deeply with you it’s insane, loved this video too💕😔
Not gonna lie, you basically described me in this video: never been in a relationship, never had my first kiss... and I'm at university...and I should consider taking myself on a date: definitely read and watch the sunset ❤ . . . I would go on a date with you tbh
OMG i relate to EVERYTHING you just said: about never been in a relationship, the way you act and i'm also VERY scary of rejection too!!!! thank you for being so open with us :)
oh my god you just explained my whole single existence, like its totally the same reason why im single. i just wanna go on cute dates in cafes, in the park, cuddle up or what so ever:(
8:42 this part I literally almost cried saying me too it was so spot on relatable to me;; i have never heard someone put into words EXACTLY HOW I FEEL it's like reassuring ;; wow was I meant to find this channel🥺♥️ ALSO HIS PLAYLIST "FOR PEOPLE WHO LOVE LOVE" ... I adore that sm FINALLY SOMEONE WHO MAKES PLAYLISTS THAT ARE SIMILAR TO MINE and thinks abt love the same way I do.. If I went to the same hs as this guy I'd wanna be his best friend 😭
i honestly don’t see a specific gender dating you! usually i’m like “oh yeah i see a girl/boy with them” but with you i could see anyone falling in love with you!
I LOVE everything about this video omg: your thoughts on love, your openness with your love experiences, your playlist, your love for sunsets, you watched my favourite film ever to exist, you bought yourself chocolates and roses, YOU ARE AMAZING
I always think it’s so encouraging and just flat out awesome seeing people trying to enjoy their time that they have to themselves, as in like not having to spend it with someone else all the time. As an extrovert, I always blamed my extreme boredom and overall “:,( sad boi” hours on not being able to hangout with friends or a lover 24/7, but I realized that maybe it’s not that. For a good 3-4 months now, I’ve been working on that and working on basically just enjoying my time, and appreciating the things that make me who I am. I’ve been a lot happier since, of course I still have bad days, but hey, that’s humanion :,) love u Dustin, hope yuu have a good valentines
this video honestly made me feel so good, like the things you were talking about were so honest and real, and also this video really made me want to spread positivity, and I know it sounds really cheesy. But man, you really deserve a whoolle lot of respect for being so honest.
I think we all struggle with western beauty standards, especially those that deviate from whiteness; however, you’re beautiful without contacts! It’s alright to be flexible with your looks-but never attempt to coat what is given to you :))
I feels so good after watching this video. Somehow u inspired me to try do things on your own and overcome the social anxiety. It's part of growing up :')
the way I cried when you went to that park and just admired your neighborhood made me realise I'm missing the same things. My town and my house doesn't feel like home and I stay in my room pretty much all day every day and the only time I leave is to go to school but .. I feel like all these places are empty to me. I feel empty but I want to explore, love and appreciate the things around me but all the school work and mental fuckary doesn't let me be free and adventurous. I'm always tired, always unmotivated and I haven't felt happy for years. literally having a simple thought like 'i wonder what it's like to be happy and stay that way' makes me burst into tears. Every single day I just want to fall asleep and have a good dream to stay in so I don't have to deal with my small, boring and lifeless world. In my 16 years, the only time I was happy for a long time was in primary school where I didn't care about anything but nowadays I care too much but in the most careless way? I know school is important and want to care but my heart falls into a hole of swirling self-hatred because I don't have a direct path, routine or really anything to hold onto and school is the major catalyst to all my problems. If I could just.. do what I want, when I want, how I want and set and pursue goals to explore? I'd be happy? I have two passions that could get me somewhere; art and writing. However, I feel they are going towards nothing because I'm wasting my time worrying about school and wishing to be free. I'm trying so hard to give myself and others love but when you're this empty.. it doesn't mean anywhere near as much as it should. I'm trying so so hard to get up every morning and I feel like the only thought that's keeping me going is 'this day will be over soon'. sorry for wasting ya'lls time I've been a mess for a while, it's currently 1:00 am and all I want to do is cry. Had to let this out... anyway thanks for reading if you did bye
Sara Mach hi I’m french so sorry if my English is not perfect. I’m 15 and you just described the way I feel sometimes. It feels kind of good to see that I’m not alone in this situation. I like art, I like to read, to write, to go to museums and I’m so bored in high school with people who don’t really understand me. Of course I have friends with who I spend time and with who I laugh and I really like them but... I like to dream of my life like I would like it to be. I’m lucky to have a good relationship with my family but idk how to explain. I can’t wait to leave high school to FINALLY study something that I’m really interested in. I would love to study art history (idk if this word is right sorry I told you my English is not perfect). It’s really weird to feel different in high school because everybody is going to parties and things like that and I just feel different. I don’t feel at the good place. So I’m telling to myself everyday « come on one year left and you will live a life in a way that interests you with people who understand you » Thanks for reading if you did I feel better now I expressed myself
Try to live life you want now. I was feeling kinda this way too but i ask myself “why i can’t start living like i want to live now?” and i’m just trying. I start to learn how to play piano and painting and i feel kinda better. Just try to take care of yourself and do what you want to do. It’s hard. You have to learn how to live with your mind. You should get know yourself because nothing will be okay if you won’t like yourself. Maybe go see therapist if possible.
incognito you are right ! It’s important to « live the moment » I don’t know if it’s correct in English I’m trying to translate a French expression. Anyway. For example I’m currently learning English and Italian too and that kind of thing make me happy. It’s hard sometimes to enjoy the moment especially when you are alone and everything but to find « hobbies » can help I think. It can be be reading, painting, learning how to play an instrument... It’s really interesting to share « tips » and to help each other like that ^^
Callisto Vanso I think your english is great. I’m from Poland and also still learning. I think that we all should try to appreciate the moment we are now like you said. World is really beautiful and we just need to find out this. Have a nice life and take care of your body and mind! ♥️
Sara Mach I recently got over these feelings somewhat. You just gotta do what you want. Don’t think about it. Just do it. I’ve wanted to create my own business for a while and I’m in the process of creating my first ever shirt to try and sell. Life can be beautiful. Go on a walk during sunrise and listen to chill music and you’ll know exactly what I mean. Makes you happy and grateful instantly.
That just means when Dustin does find someone, they’re literally gonna be the most perfect person for him. Waiting really does pay off, and I’m SO excited for when he’s finally gonna get to experience it :(
I get the "not having crushes thing" I've never had a crush. I can tell when I find someone attractive, but I feel nothing. It makes me feel robotic. I still feel happiness to some extent but I usually feel nothing, sadness, or anger. It makes life more tough. Now yes, Haha "an emo saying she's emotionless, so cringy!" I get that, I'm still a living thing tho, stuff still hurts. I feel like I lack love from all angles too. Self love is difficult for me, I always shoot myself down even when I jokingly say a nice thing about myself. Example: "Wow I'm a genius- no I'm not, I hate myself haha"
XxDead GirlxX i feel the exact same way. I say I have a crush but idk if I actually do. Like yea they are attractive to me but haven’t really talked to them so I can’t really feel much emotion towards them if I don’t talk to them or if I’m not close to them. I’m sure it’s normal.
@@felix.mp3639 Hey if we go down, we go down together I guess huh. If more than one person feels it, it has to be real. Being numb-ish hurts more than feeling love. You know you want to be in love but you can't. I hate when people say they wish they didn't have emotions cause their little crush didn't accept their feelings. Like no Vanessa, this isn't fun, it sucks. And it's worse when you still feel a little bit but not enough to truly live, life gives you enough emotion to want more, like a drug. But not enough to keep you actually alive ya know? Sorry that got so cringy.
I felt this one I used to only be numb or happy but now I’m just emotionless most of the times and people don’t understand that and how difficult it can be
HOW HAS NO ONE LIKED YOU I FELL IN LOVE WITH YOU MORE AND MORE THROUGHOUT THIS VIDEO :(( like i really get what you mean about wanting to have cute dates/that love you see in movies and stuff like it's high expectations but i wanna experience ittt ugh sry this comment made no sense also i love bruno majorrrrr
i think it's incredibly admirable of you to be pouring your heart out about love, and remembering that love doesn't have to be romantic, but platonic and self-love too. i'm so glad you're doing better now, and that you're feeling more comfortable with yourself and your viewers
this is the first time on UA-cam I find someone in the same emotional state, it was the perfect time to see this video, it’s good sometimes to know that you’re not alone in this phase. btw ilysm
Literally me. I have friends but it’s like they’re strictly “school friends.” I see everybody else at school who has their best friend constantly by their side and I’ve always wished that I had that.
how can anyone not fall in love with him? This is the first video I’ve seen by him and he’s just so cute wth also that sunset was surreal, even I felt at peace 🥰
Brooo you’ve really grown. I literally been binging your channel for the past 3 days and I’ve loved seeing how you can definitely tell that you went from self deprecating with ever chance you got to now calling yourself out and attempting self loveeee!!!! It’s amazing !!!
bro we have so much in common and I LOVE YOUR MINDSET/MENTALITY!!! I was always upset whenever people around me were constantly dating and no one ever showed interest in me. But you just helped me grow as a person, THANK YOU!
I also never experienced romance or kissed anybody in high school, up until I turned 22. I used to think that I was very unlikeable and that I was going to be single forever. Your time will come bb. You are such a sweetheart and who ever gets to be with you one day is extremely lucky.
Okay so two things about this video: First, as someone who is not an American native; the thing about your hair and your eye color hit me really hard. I feel like sometimes, regardless of what your ethnic background is (if you're not a native from the U.S.) you'll consciously (or subconsciously) start changing things about yourself to try to fit it because we're surrounded of people that are not like we are. Sometimes my skin color makes me really self-conscious and I'll accidentally make it lighter with sunblock or makeup and not even realize that it's just not who I am. It honestly made me really happy to see you embrace your eye color
9:25 I've felt that same exact way before! I've always thought of a crush as more than someone you find attractive and basically the way you described it. It's not weird or a bad thing at all! I think the first "crush crush" I had only happened because there was someone who clearly showed interest in me (idk what that means but oh well lol) But maybe you'll have that kind of an experience as well
Watching this vid made me realize that i'm not the only one who do those things, like keep lowering my head down, not trying to hit on anyone, lacking love, and such. bUT I JUST WANNA SAY YOU ARE SO PRECIOUS THANK U SO MUCH FOR TEACHING MORE SELF-LOVE 💕💕💕
dustin might be the only youtuber i've related w so much and he is just SO real, it gives a sense of reassurance that good people are actually out there :) also, THE VIBES ARE REALLLL
Dear Dustin, you can tie up your flowers and then hang them upside down for sometime and let them dry. Then you vibe with your "aesthetic" props in other videos!!
I can't believe how happy this video is making me feel! His energy and attitude towards love is just so wonderful and comforting. It's inspiring me to learn from him and try to love myself and appreciate the little things more. Thank you so much, I wish you all the love and happiness in the world! :)
Me too! I’m turning 20 this year and I’ve never been in a relationship, had my first kiss, etc. and that’s completely okay!!! I promise it’s okay lol it will eventually happen, just vibe ❤️
I watched Little Women and cried so much it was clearly an experience. Also you’re amazing, even if people don’t say they like you it doesn't mean nobody finds you attractive.
I related to your romantic inexperience in high school sooooooo much. I love this video, there are not a lot of you tubers who admit things like this and that always made me feel "strange" for not experiencing the same things. I wish we went to the same school, we would have been really good friends.
Why are you my spirit animal bruh, everything you feel, what you do in the car( feeling the music ), fashion, everything literally is mee. To one person to another, keep being you, someone will recognize and love you for it❤
ok but almost everything you did in this video feels like me and i just wanna say that just before seeing this video i was crying because of how tired i was and after seeing it just wanna say that i love you and thank you for making me happy! i don’t know how you did it to make me so happy and to feel better just by a vid of you being yourself. i guess i love seeing you loving yourself then :-) i really love you and if you see this i hope you’re doing great dustin!
dustin you're quite literally one of my favorite youtubers. your genuine and like casual nature are just so nice and i enjoy your videos so much, like you feel more like a friend than someone i watch online and i just really appreciate that.
just found your channel and you remind me of me when I was in high school c: RT on the "expecting the universe to work out for me" or whatever you said because i was too lazy to rewind back and get the exact quote because i am super shy and don't really push my affection onto others expecting them to fall for me lulululul. you got time tho! you young, thriving!
I know people don't want anyone comparing him and Conan Gray but I love how he really gives off that vibe that old Conan used to give in his vlogs because although I love the Conan now I miss old Conan so much now that he's a big thing 😭 (or at least rising to stardom). Like I love how even this video is a lot like the video Conan made when he took himself out on a date but I love that! It's almost like I get to enjoy the era of aesthetic videos all over again thanks to you ❤️
someone PLEASE take “vibe” out of my vocabulary
Your absolutely adorable dustin you have such a big heart and your just so cute and amazing ❤🥰
no we're vibing
lilacforlife we do be vibing tho 🤷🏽♀️
but the vibes in this video are exquisite
nO u are the vibe
p.s bE mY vAlentinE pLz (i’m $inGle)🥺🤟🤟
if someone ends up marrying this man, they are the luckiest person.
kayden simbulan for real
Rwa ma same tho
kayden simbulan I guess I’m the luckiest person in the world
I wish I was that lucky
*one of but ye
"I have never felt rOMANCE in my life"
Me: *smashes subscribe*
“i love myself. even though i look like a burnt chicken nugget, i still love myself.”
Same 😂😂😂
Sameeeeeee💜💜💜💜armys just just everywhere!!
Same.
goldenmixtape ughhh i love that one hahah
goldenmixtape same
Dustin:sad and lonely
me:**immediately singing crush culture in my head**
omg same
Mood
F*ck! So true...
they give off such a similar vibe tho
fr they have the same vibe.
use me as a "Dustin you're my crush" button
We needed that
I’m gonna say what everyone’s thinking
*his hairs so freakin cute*
HE IS SO FREAKIN CUTE
MY CRUSH ASKED ME TO BE HIS VALENTINE WHILE WATCHING THIS THANK YOU FATHER DUSTIN
my impact.
congrats🥺🌿
Kim Namjoon is your Valentine?
Omg u so lucky
@@cerisemin😂😂
*He's the most aesthetic guy I've ever seen* 💜
when he was talking from 7:00 to 11:00 i just feLT this like wow i actually would really like to be friends with him cause we are similar in a way at least from what he was saying so yeah same, and really liked that talk
Omg yes I related to so much he said like about kind of avoiding love at all times and not ever having a crush. It was nice to know I’m not the only one like that
@@sarahmirzayee5367 right idk why but I mean it's weird but I'm happy others understand :)
YESSS sameee!!! Honestly I've only seen a few of his videos, but I'm already subscribing and I can't explain how much I relate to him (at least everything I've seen so far lol) on a CELLULAR level lmao . It makes me lowkey very sad to hear he doesn't have much of a social life, like I feel like he would be more popular bc he just seems like such a cool and deep person in general
Literally everyone in this comment section would have taken you on a date.
YES!!!!!!
Affirmative
True. 🤣
Facts.
basically XD
Was never in a relationship, never on a date, never kissed someone and never held someone's hand..... Oh boooooy and how I could relate lmaooo
nobody :
Dustin: I'm taking myself on a date
me: that's....actually not a bad idea
i'm about to take myself on a date ;-;
My aunt took herself on a date a few years after her divorce. It really helped her ♡♡
Ikr??
Conan Gray took himself on a date first, and if you ask, this guy just does what Conan Gray does, he even mimics Conan Gray's voice for some creepy reasons lmao
@@kienduong5317 how? A lot of people do this
this video is an introvert's dream... i'm so glad you did all those things by yourself !! i always be going to the cinema and going to parks alone, the way those things hit.
dustin: i feel like i’m not like-able
everyone watching this: is this how betrayal feels like ?
yoongi is tiny this has 666 likes so we can just hope nobody likes it (sorry lmao)
Smexy Sun_baby omg
“Spread love. The world is crumbling to pieces, literally.”
Dustin be seeing the future of 2020 there
I bet in his school someone does have a crush on him but is too shy to say something
facts
nice to meet you im cRaZY FOR mYSELF
love your usernames it reminded me of
“Hi thanks for checking in, I’m stTiLl a pIeCe oF gARbaGe”
that would be me
true
Felix.mp3 The way I read that in the tune of the jingle with no hesitation-
the segment in the car where he talks about love and lacks thereof, regarding both self-love, platonic and other, really hit home
you’re literally the cutest human being
anette agree 😊💘💘💘
I was stunned by how relatable Dustin thoughts were to mine, but then I saw him a FEW DAYS LATER with an UNOPENED chocolate box and came to the realisation that we are different people after all.
But seriously, Dustin seems like such a beautiful soul. I'm thankful I stumbled across his channel
Not to say this video made me feel single but...
This video made me feel GOOD about being single
small youtuber heree!! thanks for the inspiration dustin >.
Kit Alexander any small youtubers wanna support eachother
Hey I jus subbed☺️ and I think ur thumbnails are really unique and original!😁
Kit Alexander Omg I think I fell in love with ur channel 🥺 new subscriber here
I love ur aesthetic sm I might’ve subbed🥺🥰
Kit Alexander i'm a small youtuber here too 🥺❤️
hearing somebody else talk about how, despite being a hopeless romantic, they've never had a crush or experienced romance in general made me feel so much better. it's weirdly validating to know i'm not completely alone in this. thanks a lot.
The way I relate to everything you just said, about no one being interested in me, to literally avoiding people I think are attractive. Wow.... we really be living the same lives. Thank you for expressing your thoughts, bc I have never felt so related to x
Ooww
100% same 🥴
Sameeeee
Sameee
Sayuni i'll look anywhere but them 🤣 that part gets me too
Your whole talk about never having a crush and a relationship like other people do just hit home because I feel the same because I also don't have self love and never experienced shit
same i honestly feel so ashamed sometimes because of it since i am 19 and I feel like everyone has had the ideal teenage life and I just missed out on all of it
@@mmkay1777 same!! I even talked to a friend today who is one year younger than me and she has so much more experience
"I haven't had my first kiss" oh my god he ISSS CONAN
HE REALLY IS!!!
I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING
They are my new shipp dbdbdjd
LOLLL
fr tho
Dustin: I’m gonna take out these green contacts and put these clear ones in
Me: *gasps* his eyes are so pretty
is there anyone out there that is also a hopeless romantic but when someone is reaching out to you, you started to feel weird and awkward and ignore the person?!
shy scent Omg that’s literally me... someone told me he likes me some time ago. We were friends getting to know each other (we met just a few months ago)... but when he told me he likes me it got all awkward and now we’re not friends anymore... and I don’t want to ignore him, I just do? 😕
shy scent ugh, I’m the exact same. My friend told me they liked me and I completely shut down. I already knew they did, but when they opened up about it I just became so uncomfortable. Maybe it’s just because I’m not used to someone paying attention to me like that, but I feel so bad about it. :(((
shy scent meee
When i see interest i just run away, even if I really want to be with the person, I don't understand me :')
Meeee
.... nobody will EVER see this but you know.....
Dear Dustin,
I just discovered your channel today, my first impression of you was in your most current room tour. I love the way you edit and how funny you are! I really like how different you are. And something that I am really proud of, is the fact that your reading HARRY POTTER! In school last year, it was so hard to find someone that liked that as well, I would often get bullied about it. But I mean, you get what you get and you don't throw a fit. No really, Harry Potter changed the way I saw the world and in general ( I think) it made me a better person. It keeps me running. And about the romantic and friends stuff. I'm younger than you and I can tell you that ( in my case) boys SUCK. LOL, as bad as it sounds...you know what IDC. They suck, and being in drama leads you to one of the 7 doors to hell.
Always with much much love, and your Ravenclaw friend
T. A.W.
Whenever I think I'm attracted/interested in someone, there are 3 problems
#1: I don't know whether I like/love them platonically or romantically
#2: I don't have the courage to talk to them
#3: I don't even have friends so why tf am I even looking for a lover
Ummmm ....... Same .............
omg same tho
Same
3rd one hit me hard I honestly just want some friends crii :/
I could be ur friend :>>>
youtube recommended this to me and it seems like the algorithm is doing its job cause you are literally like another me, haven’t had any romantic experience or ever felt like we had a crush and kind of feeling unwanted and insecure about wether someone is ever going to like us and damn... first video I ever watched and I connected so deeply with you it’s insane, loved this video too💕😔
I feel that ....
NOW THIS IS THE VIBE WE ALL SHOULD BE GOING FOR IN 2020
Dustin: I have never experienced romance ever in my life.
Me screaming at my phone screen: OMG meeeee!!!!!!!
Not gonna lie, you basically described me in this video: never been in a relationship, never had my first kiss... and I'm at university...and I should consider taking myself on a date: definitely read and watch the sunset ❤
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I would go on a date with you tbh
Me too 🥺
same here, bro
just casually joining in here cuz same
same
Same.
It's nice to know I'm not the only one, because, when people find out about it, they always make me feel bad.
OMG i relate to EVERYTHING you just said: about never been in a relationship, the way you act and i'm also VERY scary of rejection too!!!! thank you for being so open with us :)
dustin is literally ME everything he's explaining is ME every single word is ME
omgggg uk
I was looking for a comment like this. Omg. 😂
ikr
We all felt this comment
oh my god you just explained my whole single existence, like its totally the same reason why im single. i just wanna go on cute dates in cafes, in the park, cuddle up or what so ever:(
when he said he don’t throw the word love around then said i love u guys my heart went 💕🥰🥺❗️❗️
8:42 this part I literally almost cried saying me too it was so spot on relatable to me;; i have never heard someone put into words EXACTLY HOW I FEEL it's like reassuring ;; wow was I meant to find this channel🥺♥️ ALSO HIS PLAYLIST "FOR PEOPLE WHO LOVE LOVE" ... I adore that sm FINALLY SOMEONE WHO MAKES PLAYLISTS THAT ARE SIMILAR TO MINE and thinks abt love the same way I do.. If I went to the same hs as this guy I'd wanna be his best friend 😭
Tbh, you're the type of person I would want to be friends with. Don't worry, you're not the only one who's lonely, sad and loveless
THE VIBES IN THIS VIDEO IS SIMPLY IMMACULATE
i honestly don’t see a specific gender dating you! usually i’m like “oh yeah i see a girl/boy with them” but with you i could see anyone falling in love with you!
he's the bestest boi 🥺
I think he is going to fall in love with the lofi hip-pop girl btw it’s a joke
HE SAID THAT NO MATTER WHAT TYPE OF LOVE IT IS. IT SHOULD BE CELEBRATED. So love yourselves today, tomorrow, and the day after that forever. YESSSS
the title is a WHOLE MOOD WHO ELSE AGREES???
I LOVE everything about this video omg: your thoughts on love, your openness with your love experiences, your playlist, your love for sunsets, you watched my favourite film ever to exist, you bought yourself chocolates and roses, YOU ARE AMAZING
I always think it’s so encouraging and just flat out awesome seeing people trying to enjoy their time that they have to themselves, as in like not having to spend it with someone else all the time. As an extrovert, I always blamed my extreme boredom and overall “:,( sad boi” hours on not being able to hangout with friends or a lover 24/7, but I realized that maybe it’s not that. For a good 3-4 months now, I’ve been working on that and working on basically just enjoying my time, and appreciating the things that make me who I am. I’ve been a lot happier since, of course I still have bad days, but hey, that’s humanion :,) love u Dustin, hope yuu have a good valentines
this video honestly made me feel so good, like the things you were talking about were so honest and real, and also this video really made me want to spread positivity, and I know it sounds really cheesy. But man, you really deserve a whoolle lot of respect for being so honest.
I think we all struggle with western beauty standards, especially those that deviate from whiteness; however, you’re beautiful without contacts! It’s alright to be flexible with your looks-but never attempt to coat what is given to you :))
I feels so good after watching this video. Somehow u inspired me to try do things on your own and overcome the social anxiety. It's part of growing up :')
the way I cried when you went to that park and just admired your neighborhood made me realise I'm missing the same things. My town and my house doesn't feel like home and I stay in my room pretty much all day every day and the only time I leave is to go to school but .. I feel like all these places are empty to me. I feel empty but I want to explore, love and appreciate the things around me but all the school work and mental fuckary doesn't let me be free and adventurous. I'm always tired, always unmotivated and I haven't felt happy for years. literally having a simple thought like 'i wonder what it's like to be happy and stay that way' makes me burst into tears. Every single day I just want to fall asleep and have a good dream to stay in so I don't have to deal with my small, boring and lifeless world. In my 16 years, the only time I was happy for a long time was in primary school where I didn't care about anything but nowadays I care too much but in the most careless way? I know school is important and want to care but my heart falls into a hole of swirling self-hatred because I don't have a direct path, routine or really anything to hold onto and school is the major catalyst to all my problems. If I could just.. do what I want, when I want, how I want and set and pursue goals to explore? I'd be happy? I have two passions that could get me somewhere; art and writing. However, I feel they are going towards nothing because I'm wasting my time worrying about school and wishing to be free. I'm trying so hard to give myself and others love but when you're this empty.. it doesn't mean anywhere near as much as it should. I'm trying so so hard to get up every morning and I feel like the only thought that's keeping me going is 'this day will be over soon'.
sorry for wasting ya'lls time I've been a mess for a while, it's currently 1:00 am and all I want to do is cry. Had to let this out... anyway thanks for reading if you did
bye
Sara Mach hi I’m french so sorry if my English is not perfect. I’m 15 and you just described the way I feel sometimes. It feels kind of good to see that I’m not alone in this situation. I like art, I like to read, to write, to go to museums and I’m so bored in high school with people who don’t really understand me. Of course I have friends with who I spend time and with who I laugh and I really like them but... I like to dream of my life like I would like it to be. I’m lucky to have a good relationship with my family but idk how to explain. I can’t wait to leave high school to FINALLY study something that I’m really interested in. I would love to study art history (idk if this word is right sorry I told you my English is not perfect). It’s really weird to feel different in high school because everybody is going to parties and things like that and I just feel different. I don’t feel at the good place. So I’m telling to myself everyday « come on one year left and you will live a life in a way that interests you with people who understand you »
Thanks for reading if you did I feel better now I expressed myself
Try to live life you want now. I was feeling kinda this way too but i ask myself “why i can’t start living like i want to live now?” and i’m just trying. I start to learn how to play piano and painting and i feel kinda better. Just try to take care of yourself and do what you want to do. It’s hard. You have to learn how to live with your mind. You should get know yourself because nothing will be okay if you won’t like yourself. Maybe go see therapist if possible.
incognito you are right ! It’s important to « live the moment » I don’t know if it’s correct in English I’m trying to translate a French expression. Anyway. For example I’m currently learning English and Italian too and that kind of thing make me happy. It’s hard sometimes to enjoy the moment especially when you are alone and everything but to find « hobbies » can help I think. It can be be reading, painting, learning how to play an instrument...
It’s really interesting to share « tips » and to help each other like that ^^
Callisto Vanso I think your english is great. I’m from Poland and also still learning. I think that we all should try to appreciate the moment we are now like you said. World is really beautiful and we just need to find out this. Have a nice life and take care of your body and mind! ♥️
Sara Mach I recently got over these feelings somewhat. You just gotta do what you want. Don’t think about it. Just do it. I’ve wanted to create my own business for a while and I’m in the process of creating my first ever shirt to try and sell. Life can be beautiful. Go on a walk during sunrise and listen to chill music and you’ll know exactly what I mean. Makes you happy and grateful instantly.
Going out alone is what you called self care and self love. ❤
That just means when Dustin does find someone, they’re literally gonna be the most perfect person for him. Waiting really does pay off, and I’m SO excited for when he’s finally gonna get to experience it :(
DUSTINNNNNN!!!!! FOR SOME ODD rEaSoN watching your videos gives me a happy vibe where I can’t get from any where else
I get the "not having crushes thing" I've never had a crush. I can tell when I find someone attractive, but I feel nothing. It makes me feel robotic. I still feel happiness to some extent but I usually feel nothing, sadness, or anger. It makes life more tough. Now yes, Haha "an emo saying she's emotionless, so cringy!" I get that, I'm still a living thing tho, stuff still hurts. I feel like I lack love from all angles too. Self love is difficult for me, I always shoot myself down even when I jokingly say a nice thing about myself. Example: "Wow I'm a genius- no I'm not, I hate myself haha"
XxDead GirlxX i feel the exact same way. I say I have a crush but idk if I actually do. Like yea they are attractive to me but haven’t really talked to them so I can’t really feel much emotion towards them if I don’t talk to them or if I’m not close to them. I’m sure it’s normal.
@@felix.mp3639 Hey if we go down, we go down together I guess huh. If more than one person feels it, it has to be real. Being numb-ish hurts more than feeling love. You know you want to be in love but you can't. I hate when people say they wish they didn't have emotions cause their little crush didn't accept their feelings. Like no Vanessa, this isn't fun, it sucks. And it's worse when you still feel a little bit but not enough to truly live, life gives you enough emotion to want more, like a drug. But not enough to keep you actually alive ya know? Sorry that got so cringy.
I felt this one I used to only be numb or happy but now I’m just emotionless most of the times and people don’t understand that and how difficult it can be
HOW HAS NO ONE LIKED YOU I FELL IN LOVE WITH YOU MORE AND MORE THROUGHOUT THIS VIDEO :(( like i really get what you mean about wanting to have cute dates/that love you see in movies and stuff like it's high expectations but i wanna experience ittt ugh sry this comment made no sense also i love bruno majorrrrr
i think it's incredibly admirable of you to be pouring your heart out about love, and remembering that love doesn't have to be romantic, but platonic and self-love too. i'm so glad you're doing better now, and that you're feeling more comfortable with yourself and your viewers
You are such a sincere and likeable person that throughout the video i literally felt like i was next to you.
bruh im same same. when i see someone attractive mY EYES GO ANYWHERE BUT THEM. my definition of crush is like "iwanttomarryunow" type.
omg EXACTLY
this is the first time on UA-cam I find someone in the same emotional state, it was the perfect time to see this video, it’s good sometimes to know that you’re not alone in this phase. btw ilysm
does anyone else not have a best friend to do everything with?? or maybe it’s just me 🥺🥺
AWWWWWW
Literally me. I have friends but it’s like they’re strictly “school friends.” I see everybody else at school who has their best friend constantly by their side and I’ve always wished that I had that.
@@blaiklees.9751 the future may hold a perfect person for you! Be patient 💗
CALISTO I’ll definitely try. Thank you for your kind words 💛
i will be your bestfriend🥺
💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
how can anyone not fall in love with him? This is the first video I’ve seen by him and he’s just so cute wth also that sunset was surreal, even I felt at peace 🥰
dude your voice is so soothing especially when you're singing
abby w ty 🥺💛
Brooo you’ve really grown. I literally been binging your channel for the past 3 days and I’ve loved seeing how you can definitely tell that
you went from self deprecating with ever chance you got to now calling yourself out and attempting self loveeee!!!! It’s amazing !!!
bro we have so much in common and I LOVE YOUR MINDSET/MENTALITY!!! I was always upset whenever people around me were constantly dating and no one ever showed interest in me. But you just helped me grow as a person, THANK YOU!
I also never experienced romance or kissed anybody in high school, up until I turned 22. I used to think that I was very unlikeable and that I was going to be single forever. Your time will come bb. You are such a sweetheart and who ever gets to be with you one day is extremely lucky.
Okay so two things about this video:
First, as someone who is not an American native; the thing about your hair and your eye color hit me really hard. I feel like sometimes, regardless of what your ethnic background is (if you're not a native from the U.S.) you'll consciously (or subconsciously) start changing things about yourself to try to fit it because we're surrounded of people that are not like we are. Sometimes my skin color makes me really self-conscious and I'll accidentally make it lighter with sunblock or makeup and not even realize that it's just not who I am. It honestly made me really happy to see you embrace your eye color
boy i tell you , you deserve the world.
9:25 I've felt that same exact way before! I've always thought of a crush as more than someone you find attractive and basically the way you described it. It's not weird or a bad thing at all! I think the first "crush crush" I had only happened because there was someone who clearly showed interest in me (idk what that means but oh well lol) But maybe you'll have that kind of an experience as well
Sameee
Relatable 😭 but yeah I love your personality dustin I always idolize yah.
We love a self care vibe tho, taking yourself out on a date is great. Love yourself before you love someone else 😤
Jamless Jin hEy Jin haS jAMs jsjsjsj
Watching this vid made me realize that i'm not the only one who do those things, like keep lowering my head down, not trying to hit on anyone, lacking love, and such. bUT I JUST WANNA SAY YOU ARE SO PRECIOUS THANK U SO MUCH FOR TEACHING MORE SELF-LOVE 💕💕💕
I read the title, I clicked.
I've never been this early.
You are a mood. A PURE. MOOD.
dustin might be the only youtuber i've related w so much and he is just SO real, it gives a sense of reassurance that good people are actually out there :)
also, THE VIBES ARE REALLLL
Dear Dustin, you can tie up your flowers and then hang them upside down for sometime and let them dry. Then you vibe with your "aesthetic" props in other videos!!
I can't believe how happy this video is making me feel! His energy and attitude towards love is just so wonderful and comforting. It's inspiring me to learn from him and try to love myself and appreciate the little things more. Thank you so much, I wish you all the love and happiness in the world! :)
This entire video is such a mood honestly
Bro you are so relatable
loved the ‘love’ chat ‘cause it’s almost 100% how i feel 🥺💕
the cutest human I've ever seen-
Gosh this literally made my heart so happy, yes take yourself on dates and normalize extreme self love !! We stan, we really do
dude that love chat rly hit me, dont feel that way man ur srsly not alone at all.
Me too! I’m turning 20 this year and I’ve never been in a relationship, had my first kiss, etc. and that’s completely okay!!! I promise it’s okay lol it will eventually happen, just vibe ❤️
okay but this is better than any TED talk i have ever watched
I watched Little Women and cried so much it was clearly an experience.
Also you’re amazing, even if people don’t say they like you it doesn't mean nobody finds you attractive.
I related to your romantic inexperience in high school sooooooo much. I love this video, there are not a lot of you tubers who admit things like this and that always made me feel "strange" for not experiencing the same things. I wish we went to the same school, we would have been really good friends.
If Dustin never hade a romantic relationships, and never been on a date. That mean there is literally no hope! (Laughing but low key crying)
Why are you my spirit animal bruh, everything you feel, what you do in the car( feeling the music ), fashion, everything literally is mee. To one person to another, keep being you, someone will recognize and love you for it❤
ok but almost everything you did in this video feels like me and i just wanna say that just before seeing this video i was crying because of how tired i was and after seeing it just wanna say that i love you and thank you for making me happy! i don’t know how you did it to make me so happy and to feel better just by a vid of you being yourself. i guess i love seeing you loving yourself then :-) i really love you and if you see this i hope you’re doing great dustin!
dustin you're quite literally one of my favorite youtubers. your genuine and like casual nature are just so nice and i enjoy your videos so much, like you feel more like a friend than someone i watch online and i just really appreciate that.
this vlog is an artpiece by itself....i'm so amazed at how you're getting so good at this
Believe me, you're definitely lovable
I'm feeling kinda inspired by this, maybe I will go on a date with me tomorrow bc it's actually genius
just found your channel and you remind me of me when I was in high school c: RT on the "expecting the universe to work out for me" or whatever you said because i was too lazy to rewind back and get the exact quote because i am super shy and don't really push my affection onto others expecting them to fall for me lulululul. you got time tho! you young, thriving!
You really deserve the world ❣️ I don’t make the rules
I know people don't want anyone comparing him and Conan Gray but I love how he really gives off that vibe that old Conan used to give in his vlogs because although I love the Conan now I miss old Conan so much now that he's a big thing 😭 (or at least rising to stardom). Like I love how even this video is a lot like the video Conan made when he took himself out on a date but I love that! It's almost like I get to enjoy the era of aesthetic videos all over again thanks to you ❤️
Okay like I was depressed about Valentine’s day but your video just boost me thanks you 🥺✌🏻
BRUNO MAJOR DEFINITELY IS THE SOUNDTRACK IF THE HOPELESS ROMANTICS WERE A MOVIE
"true love will find you in the end"
-Daniel Johnston
Dustin:i never experienced love or had my first kiss yet
Sounds alot like conan gray to me😂❤️
this is such a beautiful moment in your life and I’m glad you shared it with us 🥺
the wholesome content that i needed right now