Here is some secrets I have learned. I am with my best friend. There is not a day I do not say I appreciate him and love him. I thank him when he does things. He talks to me about everything. We were friends for two years before we officially dated. Good relationships take time. Today people want that instant love which never lasts. He plays video games for release. It is very important for men to have space and when they need to talk you, you do not have to hear them but listen to them. My parents taught me that love is not enough, you have to be friends.
You say you lost your purpose. Just remember if it's lost that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. It exists you just have to find it. You have a purpose. My advice is turn to Christ. Whatever you do don't give up brother. I was lost for a lot of years spent nights with cold steel barrel in my mouth contemplating if I should pull that trigger. I was completely lost. I stayed in my room and hardly even left my room to shower. There were times where I didn't even shower for a month. Just stayed in my room in the dark. God saved me and now my purpose is in Him. Love you bro.
It took a long time, but I finally found my outlet in skydiving. I know it may sound crazy, but facing feat and internally accepting the fact that I could die makes me feel so alive when I land. Not to mention, the views are just magnificent.
I realised watching loads off these reactions how broken i am and the only person keeping me together is my other half. Im in the work work work, and I got to work to make sure my family never have the upbringing on what i had, but this means im barely at home. My other half never wants money nor does she ever spend money never really understood why as i programmed myself to belive i work they spend so i have to work more when all she really wants is me at home. Im happy i came across your video and saw how i have let myself and my family down by allowing the society norm of a man so i will find a away to be a better man for my other half and the children and not for work.
My wife & I love your's & keegan's personality & thought process on many issues. Similar thought process different words to describing but same meaning overall. I also wanted to say sorry about not paying for my membership this month was hell. Gas, new place, more bills, & car issues I figured it out. You will get it this month coming up you have my word.
Thank you highlighting my reply, I greatly appreciate it. I also appreciate Keegan's outlook on it. God bless you both and prayers 🙏 for healthy babies
I have listened to this song hundreds of times and I still can't make it though without tearing up. I lost my wife to drugs and it has been hard walking life alone.
Personally, this song hits me hard, but its not becuase I need some sort of stress outlet, its the lack appreciation that makes me feel like no matter how much I sacrifice, ill never be worth more than the paycheck I provide. Everything would be worth it if I got a smille or a hug every once in awhile, or maybe just a "thank you". thats all it takes
This is an amazing remix and your reactions matched it's energy. ❤️ And Keegan is absolutely right ( I haven't disagreed with her yet 😂 beginning to consider her a virtual mom friend) ... men have never really gotten a break in their societal expectations. Many women don't realize how hard it is because they have had their own expectations open up to such a variety of acceptable paths. I almost fell into the career minded woman mode after high school. I was told it was no longer acceptable to just be a housewife 🙃. So, I went to college. I double majored and earned my degrees... but while I was doing it I became pregnant with my first child. For the first couple years, I juggled work, school, babies ( I adopted 1 of my siblings as well)... but I always felt like everything I did was only half as good as it could be. I was doing too much, and my husband was suffering the most for it. I never had time. Time just to be with him, to support him. When I had my second child, I really had to take a step back and think about what was most important to me. What was the thing I truly wanted to give a hundred percent to? I chose my family. I've never regretted it for a second. I wish I had figured it out sooner actually. Now, 16 years later, we have 4 kids. I homeschool (no wasted degrees here 😅) and i take care of my home. My husband works extremely hard as a mechanic and I try to never take for granted this amazing life he has given me. He loved me no matter what I chose to do... and I'm extremely lucky to have found him. We are happy in our gender roles and, I think, healthier mentally. 😊 Even if we struggle bus the bills during the holidays or birthdays 😅.
I recently watched a video of a woman that refused to get out of the car because he took her to the Cheesecake Factory. He even had another reservation at a much more expensive restaurant, but she kept him waiting an hour past the time he said. I wanted to high five the guy when he took her home. It’s hard to find women that look beyond a man’s bank account. I’m glad that I was blessed with a real woman that thinks we are a team that works together toward a better future together. I’m glad you found one too, better hold on to her tight. A good woman is the best thing you can find aside from god.
For this remix, Dax posted a challenge on TicTok for people to do a verse to the song...he chose the ones in the video. He flew them all to LA to record the video with him. Awesome song & to help others that have talent to showcase their gifts with all of us.❤❤ Dax & Tom MacDonald are best friends & grew up in Canada together.
thats a really good advise... but a really really hard one. because being so strong willed that you just can bush off every comment from everyone, thats a 1 in 1000.....
LOVE this reaction you two!! Just got to the photo post part.......really cute couple! Still are! I've seen a lot of BAD relationships in my time, but what you two have, has NO sense of that!! I tip my hat to you both....it truly does take two!! Thank you for this reaction! :)
Men get fulfillment from providing for their families. Women get fulfillment from raising their families. Men and women are both happiest when they work together in their relationship and support each other in their respective roles. It was this way for all of history until society went insane and now there are people who don't even know what a woman is.
You are very lucky my gye. To have a beautiful based wife to be beside you to love you with no ill intentions. She is one in a million these days. You two are amazing. Keep it up my bro. Sending Love from New Zealand from me and my Based wife also. Much love bro. Take care..
This is incredible, sadly a lot of men can’t go to their significant other due to fear of being belittled, I have a group of friends that we keep in contact on a regular basis to go to if we have an issue and all come together to solve it and I’ve been teaching my son to find the same. A lot of men fear dying alone so they don’t want to rock the boat and loose what they think is the only chance to be in a relationship even if it’s self destructive
Not to mention if they was married he could have to be paying child support even if it doesn't leave him enough to live on because if he doesn't he goes to jail not saying he shouldn't pay for his child just the situation could easily be cause of stress in his life
I absolutely love this song... both versions. Makes me cry every single time. The only thing that bothers me about the song's lyrics is he says that all a man is good for is that he's a physical provider. To me, the most important thing a man (or a woman) should be "providing" inside a home is compassion, understanding and unconditional love. Great reaction, guys.
exactly. it might not always be the truth but it is almost always how we feel. that's why this song is so good. its what we cant express. @@akashaedge1379
You guys are absolutely perfect for one another, Jeff. You have such a loving and sensible wife. She cares about you and your happiness and that speaks volumes for a man to know that his woman has his back! Great feed back on this song guys! Much love✌️❤️ Edit: also, I wanted to say that the mega remix thing was done on Dax's song "Dear Alcohol" and just about every one of these people on this song did that song as well. So, he already knew these people from then. He even flew a few of them in yo be in this video with him.
Not popular with today's woke crowd but here goes anyways. Today many people find a release from stress of family and work by hunting and fishing wether by oneself or with close friend(s). The tradition of the male as provider to family is still strong but it spills over into bonding by in past mainly fathers but many mothers also see the need for growth in youths family connection. It is time away from today's compressed society, it pits oneself against a natural form of nature while at same time connects a closer bond to the natural. To hunt or fish we call sport but in a sport where even if you do not score it is still a feeling of relief.
Well the people that is on this song is reg people like us but dax had paid them to come in and do this n he paid them for it so dax is amazing at everything he cares
You talking about she gets it? I felt like she did nothing but downplay it and shit on it. I mean just look at the screenshot it's you crying and her laughing lol but yea she gets it
Maybe it's bc she knows that she provides all the emotional support that he needs. She may not understand why a woman would not figure that out. $ is down on the list of the most important things.
In this day and age there is no incentive for a man to get married. The woman (depending on the state) can end his child in the womb and he has no say in the matter. Children are given to the mother by default. Marital assets are awarded heavily in the woman's favor. And...and...and. I'm not being a pessimist, but a realist. Thankfully NOW I have a wife that makes me feel appreciated for everything I do for her and the family, but it took three tries. Even though I trust my wife I still have trouble opening up to her about things that bother me based on the learned behavior of my previous marriages.
20:11 I'm sorry but no. Her take on that verse was wrong. He wasn't speaking on religion. He was saying he almost succumbed to the pressures of being a man and shot himself. But he found the strength each time to fight on and that's his definition of being a man. To take on the hardships and keep pushing forward regardless. Enjoyed the overall video so far though, i think she has been spot on in her assessments
Another GREAT reaction, to a song IMO should be SPREAD far and wide. The stigma on mental health overall needs to STOP, end of story. It’s DEF different for men though sadly. I think SOME of it is “engrained” in the Male DNA. I dunno. Awesome video, always great to see a “wife cameo” (I’d attempt to spell her name but fear I’d butcher it). Keep up the great work. FAM 🐷💙🤘🇺🇸🇨🇦🇬🇧🤘
I feel like most of the message in this song remix was lost on her. She focused too much on the religious aspects, but most men would not be driven to that point if they had a good woman that truly appreciated what they go through just to provide.
Here is some secrets I have learned. I am with my best friend. There is not a day I do not say I appreciate him and love him. I thank him when he does things. He talks to me about everything. We were friends for two years before we officially dated. Good relationships take time. Today people want that instant love which never lasts. He plays video games for release. It is very important for men to have space and when they need to talk you, you do not have to hear them but listen to them. My parents taught me that love is not enough, you have to be friends.
Do you know how lucky you are to have a wonderful wife, who's invested in your happiness as well as her own? Keegan Rocks!!! She does get it!!!
It's lonely when you don't have that.
@@Milehighsnake98 agreed. Exactly why Jeff is such a lucky man!!!
Just seen DAX an Phix Saturday night great concert!
Phix is the blue haired man in the video.
I have avoided this video and having you guys covering it helped but it hits hard. Excuse me someone is cutting onions somewhere.
My man standard list:
Kind
Self motivated
Can make me laugh
Can laugh at himself
Owns himself
I am one of the ones that lost purpose, stay in my room almost 24/7 because I just don't want to deal with the broken society
Brutal. Keep trucking. We all go through cycles.
Relate to what you said, hope you been doing good and hope eventually you can find purpose again, much love❤
You say you lost your purpose. Just remember if it's lost that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. It exists you just have to find it. You have a purpose. My advice is turn to Christ. Whatever you do don't give up brother. I was lost for a lot of years spent nights with cold steel barrel in my mouth contemplating if I should pull that trigger. I was completely lost. I stayed in my room and hardly even left my room to shower. There were times where I didn't even shower for a month. Just stayed in my room in the dark. God saved me and now my purpose is in Him. Love you bro.
For all the men who need and deserve their flowers 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Glad you found a good woman, Brother. Thanks for being there for him, Sister.
Your guy’s love has restored my faith in humanity. I hope to aspire to have that same connection with my future wife
The second girl's verse
is the reaction every man is looking for.
It took a long time, but I finally found my outlet in skydiving. I know it may sound crazy, but facing feat and internally accepting the fact that I could die makes me feel so alive when I land. Not to mention, the views are just magnificent.
This song is the perfect explanation of why the emotional support given by a partner is The Most Important part of a relationship.
Jeff, "Done and Done"
Me------- fell out of my chair laughing
I realised watching loads off these reactions how broken i am and the only person keeping me together is my other half. Im in the work work work, and I got to work to make sure my family never have the upbringing on what i had, but this means im barely at home. My other half never wants money nor does she ever spend money never really understood why as i programmed myself to belive i work they spend so i have to work more when all she really wants is me at home. Im happy i came across your video and saw how i have let myself and my family down by allowing the society norm of a man so i will find a away to be a better man for my other half and the children and not for work.
SPAM SPAM. woohoo im first comment. loved the reaction
My wife & I love your's & keegan's personality & thought process on many issues. Similar thought process different words to describing but same meaning overall. I also wanted to say sorry about not paying for my membership this month was hell. Gas, new place, more bills, & car issues I figured it out. You will get it this month coming up you have my word.
She is a superstar and you’re both American badasses!
Thank you highlighting my reply, I greatly appreciate it. I also appreciate Keegan's outlook on it. God bless you both and prayers 🙏 for healthy babies
I have listened to this song hundreds of times and I still can't make it though without tearing up. I lost my wife to drugs and it has been hard walking life alone.
JOHNNIE HAD ED MAC , KIRK HAD SPOCK , NOVA HAD TOM , and KEEGAN HAS JEFF !!😇😇💯✌✌🙏🙏🙏
Well done. And your wife is grounded and a breath of fresh air.
Dax left the best verses for last. That last verse hits hard.
yall are amazing so happy to see such an amazing couple. u earned that sub
Personally, this song hits me hard, but its not becuase I need some sort of stress outlet, its the lack appreciation that makes me feel like no matter how much I sacrifice, ill never be worth more than the paycheck I provide. Everything would be worth it if I got a smille or a hug every once in awhile, or maybe just a "thank you". thats all it takes
I've seen a dozen reactions now to this song. You two are the ONLY ones who have a good understanding of the problem and the solutions.
Everybody is a gangsta until Grandma Coco starts to sing...😢
There is the original version, a remix with D Rucker, and the mega remix
This is an amazing remix and your reactions matched it's energy. ❤️ And Keegan is absolutely right ( I haven't disagreed with her yet 😂 beginning to consider her a virtual mom friend) ... men have never really gotten a break in their societal expectations. Many women don't realize how hard it is because they have had their own expectations open up to such a variety of acceptable paths.
I almost fell into the career minded woman mode after high school. I was told it was no longer acceptable to just be a housewife 🙃. So, I went to college. I double majored and earned my degrees... but while I was doing it I became pregnant with my first child. For the first couple years, I juggled work, school, babies ( I adopted 1 of my siblings as well)... but I always felt like everything I did was only half as good as it could be. I was doing too much, and my husband was suffering the most for it. I never had time. Time just to be with him, to support him. When I had my second child, I really had to take a step back and think about what was most important to me. What was the thing I truly wanted to give a hundred percent to?
I chose my family. I've never regretted it for a second. I wish I had figured it out sooner actually. Now, 16 years later, we have 4 kids. I homeschool (no wasted degrees here 😅) and i take care of my home. My husband works extremely hard as a mechanic and I try to never take for granted this amazing life he has given me. He loved me no matter what I chose to do... and I'm extremely lucky to have found him. We are happy in our gender roles and, I think, healthier mentally. 😊 Even if we struggle bus the bills during the holidays or birthdays 😅.
You aren't too far from those 7 kids yourselves 😂
This one a hard one of facts for this old vet.
Finally got a notification!!! Hot dog!!!
Let's lift our glasses for women like Keegan.
I recently watched a video of a woman that refused to get out of the car because he took her to the Cheesecake Factory. He even had another reservation at a much more expensive restaurant, but she kept him waiting an hour past the time he said. I wanted to high five the guy when he took her home. It’s hard to find women that look beyond a man’s bank account. I’m glad that I was blessed with a real woman that thinks we are a team that works together toward a better future together. I’m glad you found one too, better hold on to her tight. A good woman is the best thing you can find aside from god.
For this remix, Dax posted a challenge on TicTok for people to do a verse to the song...he chose the ones in the video. He flew them all to LA to record the video with him. Awesome song & to help others that have talent to showcase their gifts with all of us.❤❤ Dax & Tom MacDonald are best friends & grew up in Canada together.
"And if you get killed, walk it off..." Captian-America
first of all , I love the reaction one of the best !!! me and my is a traditional family too keep the positive vibes going !!!!#traditional#famliy
🎶🎶❤️🎶🎶 #Dax
Understanding and appreciation mean the world to a man and can give him the strength to face the world alone! 🤷🏻♂️
Great reaction, FJB!
That's a great partner you have there. Wish you both all the best 🙂
There is no solution if you have an ungrateful spouse !
Never again, learned the hard way !!!
Don't listen to anybody else. If yous guys are happy. Then stay happy forever......Stay Gold.
thats a really good advise... but a really really hard one. because being so strong willed that you just can bush off every comment from everyone, thats a 1 in 1000.....
LOVE this reaction you two!! Just got to the photo post part.......really cute couple! Still are! I've seen a lot of BAD relationships in my time, but what you two have, has NO sense of that!! I tip my hat to you both....it truly does take two!! Thank you for this reaction! :)
Men get fulfillment from providing for their families. Women get fulfillment from raising their families. Men and women are both happiest when they work together in their relationship and support each other in their respective roles. It was this way for all of history until society went insane and now there are people who don't even know what a woman is.
i'm only 18 and i'm finding it hard being a man and battling depression and bipolar and with being a boxer as well- its not easy
You are very lucky my gye. To have a beautiful based wife to be beside you to love you with no ill intentions. She is one in a million these days. You two are amazing. Keep it up my bro. Sending Love from New Zealand from me and my Based wife also. Much love bro. Take care..
I dont have many friends, especially women friends, but Keegan definitely would be someone i wouldnt mind hanging out with irl
She wrong. She try’s but she’s wrong
B.B.KING LYRIC = I BOUGHT YOU A $10 DINER , YOU SAID THANKS FOR THE SNACK
This is incredible, sadly a lot of men can’t go to their significant other due to fear of being belittled, I have a group of friends that we keep in contact on a regular basis to go to if we have an issue and all come together to solve it and I’ve been teaching my son to find the same.
A lot of men fear dying alone so they don’t want to rock the boat and loose what they think is the only chance to be in a relationship even if it’s self destructive
The best reaction, ever!
Ur the luckiest man in the world to have a wife like that.
Keegan is tell it like it is person. Your lucky to have her. You are a tell it like it person and she is lucky to have you🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Not to mention if they was married he could have to be paying child support even if it doesn't leave him enough to live on because if he doesn't he goes to jail not saying he shouldn't pay for his child just the situation could easily be cause of stress in his life
I absolutely love this song... both versions. Makes me cry every single time. The only thing that bothers me about the song's lyrics is he says that all a man is good for is that he's a physical provider. To me, the most important thing a man (or a woman) should be "providing" inside a home is compassion, understanding and unconditional love. Great reaction, guys.
hes not saying thats all a man is good for, it what men are valued for in society.
exactly. it might not always be the truth but it is almost always how we feel. that's why this song is so good. its what we cant express. @@akashaedge1379
Pretty sure thagreatwhite ( the albino gentleman that was singing) was speaking in afrikaans and English
Terreble reaction... Poor guy he just so used to being hen pecked he's become numb
You guys are absolutely perfect for one another, Jeff. You have such a loving and sensible wife. She cares about you and your happiness and that speaks volumes for a man to know that his woman has his back! Great feed back on this song guys!
Much love✌️❤️
Edit: also, I wanted to say that the mega remix thing was done on Dax's song "Dear Alcohol" and just about every one of these people on this song did that song as well. So, he already knew these people from then. He even flew a few of them in yo be in this video with him.
Yes Keegan ❤️❤❤!!!!
Not popular with today's woke crowd but here goes anyways.
Today many people find a release from stress of family and work by hunting and fishing wether by oneself or with close friend(s).
The tradition of the male as provider to family is still strong but it spills over into bonding by in past mainly fathers but many mothers also see the need for growth in youths family connection.
It is time away from today's compressed society, it pits oneself against a natural form of nature while at same time connects a closer bond to the natural.
To hunt or fish we call sport but in a sport where even if you do not score it is still a feeling of relief.
This song hits way too close to home. The verse of this song broke me down. I’m in that spot right now.
2 more Loading 😂😂😂😂
I keep my boots on because I never know when I have to hit the ground
Don't pay attention to today's twisted expectations of how you should be.
Feels like she really gets it. You're blessed, sir. Does she have a sister?
I am blessed, and she does have a married sister 🤣
Well the people that is on this song is reg people like us but dax had paid them to come in and do this n he paid them for it so dax is amazing at everything he cares
You talking about she gets it? I felt like she did nothing but downplay it and shit on it. I mean just look at the screenshot it's you crying and her laughing lol but yea she gets it
Maybe it's bc she knows that she provides all the emotional support that he needs. She may not understand why a woman would not figure that out. $ is down on the list of the most important things.
In this day and age there is no incentive for a man to get married. The woman (depending on the state) can end his child in the womb and he has no say in the matter. Children are given to the mother by default. Marital assets are awarded heavily in the woman's favor. And...and...and. I'm not being a pessimist, but a realist. Thankfully NOW I have a wife that makes me feel appreciated for everything I do for her and the family, but it took three tries. Even though I trust my wife I still have trouble opening up to her about things that bother me based on the learned behavior of my previous marriages.
20:11
I'm sorry but no. Her take on that verse was wrong. He wasn't speaking on religion. He was saying he almost succumbed to the pressures of being a man and shot himself. But he found the strength each time to fight on and that's his definition of being a man. To take on the hardships and keep pushing forward regardless.
Enjoyed the overall video so far though, i think she has been spot on in her assessments
I will say it’s a little frustrating that your boiling all of it down to the same issue when each of them are speaking on different stuff
See the thing about men is that we dont gonaround crying and complaining....see that would make us women
Another GREAT reaction, to a song IMO should be SPREAD far and wide. The stigma on mental health overall needs to STOP, end of story. It’s DEF different for men though sadly. I think SOME of it is “engrained” in the Male DNA. I dunno. Awesome video, always great to see a “wife cameo” (I’d attempt to spell her name but fear I’d butcher it). Keep up the great work. FAM 🐷💙🤘🇺🇸🇨🇦🇬🇧🤘
I think it's less likely a woman can be a provider and the man be a home keeper in fellow man's eyes than in women's eyes. Hmmm.
The twins are be 3d printed in the womb
Accurate 🤣
@@FreethinkersRebellionJeffD I mean it’s how I look at pregnancy
Great perspective on traditional gender rolls work better.
33:05
God's Eyes mega remix Dax
you good stay flashy
Have you and her done Metallica One or Fade to Black
I feel like most of the message in this song remix was lost on her. She focused too much on the religious aspects, but most men would not be driven to that point if they had a good woman that truly appreciated what they go through just to provide.
Shocking you liked the girl…be less predictable one time.also catch a bar at some point
It’s all messed up. Maybe you see
You are talking talking talking..all the way i scrolled..for sure..talking, get a balance.
Sorry it's just too long of a video for 1 song.