Ep 25: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli
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- Опубліковано 8 лют 2025
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I LOVE Arlette. She goes “Now don’t forget he’s 29! I don’t want you to be hanging on and then popping last minute again!” 🤣 😆 😂 she was done with the flight attendants nonsense.
😂😂😂😂
She was DOOONNNNEEE
@@michaelnapolitano1357 we were done with her clownery as well.
If there was a commercial break and they came back with her gone I wouldn't have been mad
@@dihamilton25 I said that in a different comment. I think Arlette should've asked her to leave.
Please dont invite the girl in the white shirt back. She's not looking for love. Waiting till the last minute KNOWING you aren't interested is messing up other girls opportunity. What a waste of a spot.
I was looking for this comment. I'm like wtf she even go on the show for
She’s on the show for clout and attention seeking
@@DrizzyDre787100 percent
She annoyed the hell outta me fr
Thanks for saying it out loud because she was getting on my last nerves..!
Girl in the white just wanna see how far she can get with each guy. It’s a game to her
If you look at her face and mannerisms when the guys are talking to the other girls, you can see something is seriously wrong with her! She's a crayon short in the crayon box! 😂
100%
Facts
Yup and if she didn’t wait until the last minute to pop her balloon the guys could’ve picked a different choice. She was so annoying ugh
Agree with you!
my goodness, the last girl was drop dead gorgeous it kills me every time her balloon is popped like why she's so pretty, cute and speaks so mature 🥹
I came to the comments just to see if anyone else noticed how beautiful she was
Yep, she was absolutely beautiful
If only white shirt wasn't annoying and popping at the last minute, maybe she would have been picked, especially the guy from New York
Which girl the one on the far left ?
I agree! So normal and not showy! Just pretty!
I know people will be mad at the gym guy with dreads but I think he made a good point that if people aren’t willing to motivate themselves, you’ll feel helpless wanting to help them
He had a great point. You can motivate all you want but someone has to want to change and be better.
@@courtneyt1198facts. and motivation doesn’t last as long as discipline
That dude needs to be a role model to a lot of young men.
good points but bad assumption
He’s been on the show before. I know it’s probably his personality but, I’d rather he showed his mature side, like when he answered the last question about working out, then he might would have found his match.
I honestly never seen Arlette annoyed but flight attendant was dancing on her last nerve. Waste of space.
Yeah you could see it on her face especially with the last guy.
There should be a new rule where if you left your balloon to final 2 then you are not allowed to pop, it's the persons choosing turn to decide.
This would cut out the trolls
Yep, she kept looking at BM in the background
Thank you!!! I was about to leave a comment about her but you nailed it
😂😂😂
Popping on a man because he wanted you, over all the other women is CRAZZZY. Don't bring this girl back, she's annoying.
facts I was like wtffffff...she pissed me off lol
Right
Yea she's full of alot of contradictions though she was honest enough to admit she's alot to handle which indicates she's not ready mentally for a relationship. She shouldn't at this stage be exhibiting childish behaviour
Why is it one on every balloon pop.
Theres always one crazy 🤣
Arlette the host does an AMAZING JOB hosting this show, she does just enough to have her input on this show, but also stays in the background by letting the contestants participate and speak in their own way!
Arlette is a perfect host!
The "flight attendant" has the perfect job, because she's a trip. 😂
Haaaa
Hii you look good ❤❤❤
😂😂😂😂😂
That’s a bar 🔥😂
😂😂😂
First guy was very clear and straight to the point. He definitely know what he wants.
I do
@@Vtabbskthat's awesome!
I thought he was the only catch based off this show but 3 mo ago he posted that he isn’t ready for a relationship until he gets his money up. Said there is a girl he really likes but just not ready. So is the dating show a tool used to get the UA-cam Channel running so he could get the money up? Is he looking for a wife? Why not the girl he said he really likes? Would a catch have to go on a dating show? Idk. 🤷🏽♀️
He’s a rare find
He was in and out lol
Please don’t bring Angelique back. She is cute, but she’s not here to find love, she’s just here to be seen, and now that we’ve seen her, we’re good. 😂
After watching the episode I wouldn’t say she’s cute
SO GOOD ON HER CUZ WTF ! 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Arlette
Hates her
This comment !!!!!!!
The first girl walking away looked so happy it actually made me happy for her lol !
yessss
She has low self esteem though. Kept asking the man am I the one? Will you regret picking me...ugh
That girl didn’t want to BLOCK her blessings, but definitely BLOCKED others blessings, with the last minute pop. VERY ANNOYING!!!!!!!
Bruh?! 😵💫😵💫
She needs more therapy...
Yes she was to annoying omg
Arlette caught on to it and low key checked her.
Exactly. Just pop and let the man focus on someone else. Attention seeking, that's all.
"Momma heart disease don't run in our family, nobody runs in our family" that was a BAR!!
right!
💯
I just started reading the comments before the show I wonder would it be #4?
The accuracy here!!👌🏾💯💯
@christianthompson9879 Thats an old saying
I love how Arlette is holding the lady who keeps holding onto her balloon till the last second accountable, because that’s definitely a strategy people use to get attention on the show. I feel like after that last lineup of women she and her husband wanna do a better job, regulating behaviors exhibited on the show.
I said the same thing she needs attention
I’m noticing that too!! People keep holding on to their balloon the longest just to have a whole dissertation about why they didn’t pop sooner 🙄
It's really hard for them because even though it's a very annoying strategy if produces the best rage bait. The comments are filled with people annoyed at her and that's a banger video on UA-cam with all the engagement that it produces.
Great observation 👍
Yeah, I'm wondering what the vetting in application consists of....
Girly in the animal print is STUNNING and I feel like she’s probably so fun to be around!
That Flight Attendant is a CLOWN
CLOWN ACTIVITY DETECTED💯
Clown activity is wilddd 😂
She reminds me of Dr. Elam
🤣🤣🤣
Dead 😂
@@jeromepeterson7150i think she worst because she got picked multiple times and kept making up dumb ass excuses.. " He looked at me like he wanted me" WTF!?
I honestly dont understand how none of them are liking the lady in brown at the end? She's gorgeous, down to earth, nicely dressed and seems so sweet?!
Exactly! She was my favorite!!
She’s not that cute, shes not ugly at all, but she gives off homie vibes
Definitely seems that way, I just think it comes down to appeal. She seems like the type of girl you’d be friends with first then fall in love. This show isn’t structured that way
yea agree but also i believe her make up does not do the real justice, black girls arent suppose to wear that much make up..
She’s pretty
The flight attendant is a weirdo! What she said to the last dude was so cringe! She holds on to her balloon so she can talk and be seen. Lame as hell.
Yep
holding the balloon til the end remind me of that psycho Dr. Dentist 🥴🤢🤮
Right
complete weirdo. Full of herself to highest. She's gonna be single for A LONG TIME!!
Lame af!
The first guy is everything!!! Values😊morals!!
The flight attendant Chic and Dr. Elom would be perfect for each other's 😂 mental health
hahaha... we out here wishing dr elom upon everyone we dont like 🤣🤣🤣🤣 what an annoying person she was..ugh
😅😅😅😂😂😂
😂😂🤣🤣💀
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
YEP!! 2 arseholes become ONE!!🤭😅🤭😅🤭
I’m sorry but those last remarks by the flight attendant bother me so much. Threw that black man under the bus and tried to make him out to be some creep. Stay away from her fellas..that’s a SUPER RED FLAG!!!!🚩
PIN 📌 THIS SHIT…. I was like he looking at you the same as everyone… and you basically put rAPe on him 🤦🏾♂️
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 My thoughts exactly cause Why the hell would you keep your balloon if he made you so damn uncomfortable
So disappointed with the Flight attendant!!!
It was so weird. Arlette should've asked him if she was even his type since she was SO sure.
the women that mention therapy several times are always the ones that have no business being on this show.
The first contestant is a MAN who knows what he wants, he’s clearly done the work.
He kept saying wife, so he's wanting to settle down and start a family. That's what every church woman is looking for.
@@zamorapakalolo6699Not just church ladies
Sincerely
I am soo glad the girl in the white top didn't get her...he is too good for her
@tee3840 I mentioned church ladies because he was talking about Christianity, and he was looking for a Jesus freak.
Man, I love Shannon, she is such a vibe, I can see the genuine personality in her and she is well spoken. She is my type, if you come across my comment hit me up. Period.
“You stand like a baddie.”
Once I heard that, I was distracted by homie’s stance the rest of the time he was out there. 😂😂🤦🏾♂️
Same
I was looking for this comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣..dude was standing like he was at a Diddy party 😂🤣
Ha! It wasn't just me. I thought maybe his foot or leg was hurting
Yooo yesss 😂😂😂🤣🤣💀
@@tanyatee2018yes it looks like he may have a problem with his leg or something so I thought her comment was embarrassing and unnecessary
I really liked that friendship question. People underestimate how important a good friendship is to maintain. It says a lot about the person
The girl in the white shirt had a 20 year friendship yet she wasn’t there for the right purpose 😂
Friendship are just like anything else they have good and bad 💯
💯
No it doesn't. My father taught me their is no such thing as friends. He was right. 😅
@@Hardawayfits That makes no sense. Our species only survived on our ability to rely on each other. Sounds like ya'll are just anti social or that you just cant maintain friendships. Ive had my closest friends for years
@@NmaLuqman-i2d yes there are good and bad friendships, i wont dispute that
“This the second time girl, you made it to the end and did it again! what’s going on girl” 😂😂 Arlette is funny!!
Arlette was super annoyed with her by then.
She's stupid!
arlette is clearly annoyed because she be poppin right before being matched, talking bout the holy spirit and shhhhhhh
@@zanelanga454 👍🏿
@@MrSamPhoenixyes!!
Red pants “ it’s the boots” TOOK ME CLEAN OUT😂😂😂😂😂✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
I cannot believe the last woman in the brown dress kept getting her balloon popped she seems sweet and bubbly and she’s absolutely adorable
First impressions; just like the girl next to her. They dressed and looked like they couldn't be bothered and had low self confidence. Needed to style themselves better. Look how well Arlette dresses and looks. Always stylish, lively, modest.. dressed for the occasion. A little glow up wouldn't hurt them two, because contrary to the other contestants who were unclassy and jarring, them two were actually good.
She’s is gorgeous but she looks like she needs an older man.
Pretty, classy, articulate, and a nice person.
I get friend vibes from her. I wouldn't have gone for her either but she does seem sweet
she reminded me of nicki minaj and had a good energy in her words
“Looking too much like you’re attracted to me” is the worst balloon pop reason ever.
😂😂😂
Goodness she was such an idiot. I just clicked off after she started her dumb dissertation.
SMH!!!
Write that down on the "ick" list
Na u ignoring the one where ole girl said dude look like he run and exercise man these females are showing why black men are switching up
Every 7days, we get a new episode. Arlette, thank you.
It should be every 3 days
@@theworldisimmenseYESSSSSSS i’m tryna be grateful but I luv arlette
Thats an old episode
@@theworldisimmenseyou realise people have lives right ?
@@dbee101I was going to say the exact same thing.😅
The girl in a white shirt saying I know I am your type that is DELULU😂😂
Right she’s so full of herself…
The last girl with the brown dress kept on getting popped and in my eyesight she was the most down to earth girl on the stage ...wife vibes...(well rounded)
I agree. Plus she was very pretty!
Facts
True I think because she look older
She's the first priority a good lady but seem like most men like the toxic kinda flight attendant trait. Very weird. The flight attendant is totally a red flag just from a one minute conversation.
She looked older and it seemed "she was too tall"
Brown dress at the far right is 90’s timeless FINE 🤎😍 you go girl!!
if i walked in there, i would have popped everyone else's balloon at a go and told her to just come home with me
She reminds me of the girlfriend from Boyz in the Hood❤
@@TheAryChampagne yess just beautiful I would say naturally beautiful, but she says she wears a lot of make up. But all in all very gorgeous black woman.
Yess. I got that SWV vibe with her ❤
Her and shilo was my favorite tbh, I love them dark skins
DO NOT bring that flight attendant back. she held her balloon and popped it at the last minute every round for attention
Agree let her fade in the wind.... PLEASE
Exactly. She wanted attention.
She is definitely in character lol one that no one likes at that
We don't need an update or reunion on her either. That's what she's looking for.
She was asserting dominance over the rest of the women. She was showing them she could have any of them.
Arlette is the OG of this concept, clean well structured no bs as in when people be on the show just to mock others and all that… LOVE IT ❤❤❤
Arlette is over Angelique’s last minute popping shenanigans. LOL
Right
She appeared to be on an ego trip 🙄
@@JustMe-ug3mk who
@@JoJo-op5xythe one in the white top with the skirt
She definitely picked it up, handled it well, gave her an opportunity to explain herself with grace…but got pushed to the point wear she basically had to roll her eyes. Lol. Straight up…
#AndStillHandledItWell 👏🏾👏🏾
Congrats on 600k!
A black king supporting a black queen nothing new here💯
Not THEE MTR👏🏾👏🏾
Good seeing you over here bro!
We gotta get active on the stream tonight 🔥🔥🗣🗣
W MTR
The comment that said "The flight attendant Chic and Dr. Elom would be perfect for each other's 😂 mental health" LMAOOOOOOOOO! spot on!
Hahahahahahahah
I saw it 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂 facts
The young lady in the Brown dress is classy, articulate, confident, well dressed and pretty. I don't understand why she's being passed up. Hopefully God will bless her with a man worthy of her presence.
The last girl Shannon has the best demeanor, best attitude, best answers, best outfit. She seems very genuine.
i literally just said she’s so pretty the hair everything
Omg so true. They kept popping on her. I didn't get it
Wasn't cute enough and most dudes don't like fake hair and makeup and she wore most makeup of them all and doubled down on it. Thats why she was least chosen.
@@afroking5340 I disagree. Women like make up , they will wear it on a special occasion like being on a show with lights and camera on. I'm pretty sure most women do make up outside and natural at home. And clearly that is her hair. She looks cute to me. Also her general attitude was cool. There just weren't that many guys her age. Only 2. The others were in their late 30's.
@@muyoworld men don't meet women at home in their natural state though. She has on fake lashes and a lot of makeup and said herself she likes to make up her face. A lot of men nowadays don't like that look because they don't know what she looks like in her natural state because in the dating process he won't see her to see if she's even cute. So they don't waste time like u saw one dude curve girls cuz of makeup
That lady always popping as last two has some main character syndrome
Exactly my thoughts
She got on my last nerve with that
facts, especially the comments she made about the last dude with the hat
I call her the last minute pop girl 😂
Lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I feel like homegirl on the end in the animal print did not get enough recognition. She seems so sweet ☺️
And she’s pretty
Too sweet , dressed to conservative, decent body . But definitely cool .
she’s SO beautiful!!
Proves that the world is still colorist
@@liabee3122: The light skinned one ain’t getting picked either
I love watching these videos. I enjoy looking into each individual, seeing the one that is truly searching for that special person, eliminating the ones that are there for the wrong reasons, predicting the ones that will be picked and being angry at the ones that were unjustly looked over. I watch Arlette, as you can simply know what she is thinking by the expressions on her face. She does well hiding some, but I can still tell, like when she wants someone to stop talking. I am willing to bet, that off camera she is nothing to play with. She is definitely headed to land a deal with a network. Creating this was a fabulous idea, it can help the younger generation to not only choose a potential mate based upon their appearance, but to understand ones beliefs, flaws, etc. Great Job!
The first man might be the most serious and thoughtful contestant in the Pop history to date 👏🏾😲
Not might be … certainly is
true he was the best so far
he FOR SURE was
Agree 🙌🏽
Yea the questions
The flight attendant 😭😭 you sound so smart from the start and along the line we find out you’re a clout chaser. I really don’t think she came out looking for love
She got a free flight to Arizona
She think she's cute
@@Msheepz BM flying these folks out for the show? I highly doubt that but I could be wrong
@@ZTForeverThey are talking about flying her to AZ for the show.
@@Msheepzthey buy they own tickets
First girl in the red floral dress was so smart for asking the guy if he’s sure he’s attracted to her before they match because a lot of ppl sometimes just match because they’ve made it to the last point but haven’t even ensured they’re actually attracted to the other person and that’s why they don’t end up working out
I really like that too. She ain't wasting no more time
@@iyatashhartley7968but if she gotta ask him that 2/4 times and he didn’t mention it , she was better off poppin. I think the last dude would’ve possibly been a better match . The darkskin girl that want a Benz, lookin for a trick not treat . Any guy that come off like he gotta bag , can get her.
2nd guy is actually really intelligent. I love his stance on health and wellness. No one there understood him and he was definitely out of their league lol
Uber and Lyft driver out of their league? U must be talking about looks?
@@Nenebe-f3uHe probably makes six figures 🤷🏾♂️
First guy was really smart. Knows what he wants. Stood on business wanting to raise a godly non ghetto family. And a lot of people missed the point behind the car question but he tested their financial literacy with that one. Guy was raised extremely well or gain wisdom through experience either way he was a good one.
You are right i really like the first guy he's so smart
Definitely want a update on them
Agreed!!
Yes he was really nice
He's very practical and straight laced. He definitely needs a more conversative woman. These days though, that's getting harder and harder to find.
Girl at the end in the brown dress is stunning. God didn’t send a match on this show for a reason because the personality absolutely shined through as well ❤️ something better is in the works for her
@@sydneyj.9017 she is the best
The female gaze vs the male gaze
For the male gaze, she just needs to wear a colored dress
@@FranziskaMLeibe I was thinking that as well.
I agree. Stunning
"I don't wanna be unequally yoked" preach man!
I liked Jay and I respect what he said regarding motivation and not being a crutch for other people.
This dude was on the show before. And he popped for every stupid thing. He was known as being “sassy” He’s most definitely that
See, I thought you guys were being extra at first about the girl in the white, but damn, she was doing too much like even Arlette got annoyed. I caught her roll her eyes at the girl in the white lmao 😭😂
@OliviaWilliams-oy4ih That was my initial thought of her too. My goodness, she was a whole lotta whole lotta!! 😫😫
The flight attendant Angelique shouldn’t have been there wasting folks time.
She out of there smh wasted my time
Nah deadass. She knew she was gonna pop but just kept holding. She just didn’t wanna be the first one to pop
I scrolled down looking for this comment, she done getting on my nerves. Even Arlette was annoyed by her, you could see it on her face
She is out for a viral moment smh
She's so Silly and immature, I cant
"I don't wanna block my blessing" that's literally all she did.
😂😂
Just attention she wants..
@@stanbrooks7923 straight tomfoolery
Especially with the first dude...He was clearly strongly Christian which she rejected another man for not being, but rejected the first dude on how she thought they would interact - and immediately admitted "she wasn’t sure" if her assumption was even correct...girl go back to therapy
No she was right she just wanted to block the other women's blessing
“Cause you made me” was the realest response tbh lol
The flight attendant got on my last nerve. She blocked everyone else from connecting. I feel like she just wanted to see how many guys would pick her.
Exactly! Attention seeker 😬
She's annoying, childish, immature. Attention seeking for validation.
She has mental issues.. You can see her mannerisms. Something is seriously off
I agree with ya
Her gut been wrong the whole time
The annoying flight attendant needed rejection from the ninja turtle 😂😂😂
First off queen, you ain't even qualified. ❤😂 I miss him on the show.
Not kwalifyd 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
@@random-dc3xr I am looking at your armpit hair queen 😂😂😂
@@jomorod4275 but it's okay queen I'm talking this queen right now. Lool he roasted them 🤣 they low key deserved it. Nobody is looking at your chest miss ma'am.
The 2nd girl in white. The type to say yes to a marriage then change her mind at the alter 😭😭😭
She reminds me of Julia Roberts in the movie 'The Runaway Bride.'
She is annoying. Very conceded.
Bugged out!
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Ghetto vibess
The one with the black dress in the beginning looks amazing
Girl in the white popped her own balloon every time. She’s a walking red flag 🚩
32 and single for a reason 👍
She likes having the last bit of attention. She waited to pop last for every guy she knows she didn't like.
Facts... attention seeking
Super obnoxious
Facts! She said she went through therapy so she's not all the way there.
“I can’t do long distance”
*travels across the country for a Dating Show*
That never made sense to me 😂
You can’t make this shit up 😂
Where is this filmed 😂
@@BBrunnelArizona, I think phoenix AZ
Irony 😂😭
I think first dude made a new record for no balloons popped from the girls from START to FINISH 😂
It’s really because of last episode they on there best behavior
Mal from episode 23 didn’t get popped, he survived the worst ladies lineup of all time
@@originalblerd One of the last girls popped her balloon on him because how how he was looking at another contestant.
You gotta be 6ft 6 though come on dude was tall ass hell these females too boujie for me I would never go on there lol
@@RichForever91-j6n😂😂😂
It’s true a lot of men say they don’t like makeup yet a lot of women keep wearing makeup. It’s interesting when women don’t listen to what men say they like/don’t like. I used to “fight for my right to makeup” but then I realized I was fighting for my right to cover up my natural beauty. I met a partner that helped me embrace my natural beauty and it’s been amazingly liberating to know I’m with someone that truly appreciates my natural beauty.
Absolutely 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Most women do not wear makeup to please men.
I think the consensus is clear. Most people were annoyed by the flight attendant 🤣
Even Arlette 🤣 Never saw her giving that look to any woman.
😂😂 Indeed!
@@vy__lc yep Arlette was over it 🤣
Is thay the girl in the white?
@@FunnyBunnyBogyes with the white top
This show is becoming more and more wholesome and Arlette is growing in a nurturing manner by fostering a no nonsense approach. I feel that she is wanting the show to become the most credible among the other “pop the balloon” shows. I’m enjoying witnessing the growth. ❤
Agreed
You're speaking in future terms, I'm guessing. It aint there yet, but I appreciate your wishful speaking.
Arlette's show already is the most credible. I only wish she didnt try to pull answers out of people when it's clear that they're trying to be respectful. Every other "pop the balloon" show is unorganized foolishness.
@@smoothsavage2870Every other "pop the balloon" show is organized foolishness. IMO.
@@motolaoshin And ya know what? I honestly dont think i could argue against that 🤣
Thanks to everyone who spoke my mind about the flight attendant. I felt like dragging her out of my screen.
Anyways, am enjoying this show from Nigeria
She has that naija blood in her.. Majority of the naija girls on the naija pop the balloon show are just like her 😅
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@@2Black4yall and i had to go back to see where she said she is a nigerian but couldn't find it. Don't come for my country. @Xenophobia
@joycesarima2437 calm down...I be naija, too 🤣... Try to be objective in your criticism of others while trying to ignore our own. Even the naija girls own worse pass 🤣🤪
@@2Black4yall you get luck say you be Nija, i for don report you to my village uncle weh no deh wear slippers
I love how Arlette kept her cool, while also giving a vibe of, “check yourself, don’t play yourself.” If she could do like a watch episode and tell everyone what she really wanted to say in the moment, I bet her and her husband would start a whole new trend.🤣 She looks demure for the show. But she looks like she would blow our minds with her commentary. I’m here for it too!🤭 Y’all think about it because these comments giving! Okayyyy can you imagine how much more it would give? IJS
The INTERNET saw through that FLIGHT ATTENDANT, like a CRYSTAL CLEAR SKY. 😪
Very much and i don’t understand why she would want to waste her own time like that. Also, her voice was absolutely annoying!
I like her, though. She's thirst-trapping all the guys then popping in the end. I love her.
I love Her ❤❤
Love the pun lol. Spot on
Has anyone ever asked the “we” is she’s referring to?
I have an important lesson for all the ladies looking for love. When I met my husband 19 years ago he only had a couple nice shirts and his closet was empty. After we fell in love I would give him clothes for his Birthday, Christmas etc. I bought him clothes that I liked that I thought he would look good in. After a while he had a great wardrobe with a nice mixture of casual and dressy clothes. He began to know the clothes I liked to see him in. Ladies……clothing is temporary and easily changeable. So don’t exclude a man over his clothing or lack thereof. It’s just something he chose for that day, not something that you will have to see and accept the rest of your life. Good luck to you all.
Wow!!!
THANK YOU MA/SIR FOR THIS ADVICE,IT REALLY TOUCHED ME❤
GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AS WELL
GOD BLESS YOU
But it is also an expression of your personal style. A man who takes pride in how he dresses or what he wears or really enjoys a certain clothing style shouldn't feel pressured to dress how his partner wants him to dress. There is a difference in being complimented for something that proceeded out of yourself. Not liking somebody's personal style or choice of self-expression is a somewhat valid reason to reject them. If you never find them attractive with how they present themselves, then it's valid. Same with women and makeup - if they never choose to go without it and a man genuinely hates makeup on women, even though it can be changed, it is a reasonable choice to reject based on that personal styling choice.
@@censaimthe thing is, not everyone is married to their expression. I personally think it's a premature move. It's worth a conversation to see if this is how you are and will forever be, or maybe you just didn't consider your choice from another angle I'm seeing it. I've changed up things for the one I'm with, because I considered they're perspective on it. I'd rather get to know your mindset, and what can be changed, if you're willing, is not a deal breaker to me. It's when you're not willing, then we can stop it here. I'd rather get to know you to see if you're the one for me, because every relationship takes cultivation, and their presentation could be part of it. What we have to build on is irrelevant, who I'm building with is what matters. So, I'd look pass that to see who I'm dealing with.
Beautiful story, love it. Thanks for sharing.
Only a woman who is married for this amount of time gets it. Women are powerful and often don't understand their abilities. If your a good man, with a good woman, she will see to your success and hers, don't ever think you did it on your own. Keep that kind of women close to you and dedicate yourself to her.
The young lady in the brown leopard print dress was stunning. Such an alluring smile and personality; overall gem.
Easily the most slept on.
@@ANON-G I really don't get it. She was so kind to the eyes. Please bring her back.
True!!! I thought she was stunning
She’s outta Shape. Most Men like a Woman that has a shape
It was her height in them boots.
I know the flight attendant is kooky, but her speech to the second guy is on POINT! He knew what he was doing by saying that, and she stood her ground and you could tell the other women appreciated it.
10 minutes in and this lineup is much more polite and sophisticated than the last ladies’ episode!👏😂
Thank God.... That last one was 🗑️
AGREED!!!
@@Rawkicks utter rubbish lol i dont want to see them again
@@Rawkicksword, niccas don't know what tf that shit was
That don't mean they won't be pedantic with their reasons of popping that 🎈.
YES ARLETTE👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 calling out the girl in the white shirt🤍 yes queen
I love the first guy. Not based on his appearance but he asked some of the best questions anyone has ever asked on this show.
Was it necessary to add that u didn’t like his appearance?
@@moxchi2578 I never said I didn’t like his appearance. I was just clearly stating that my reason for liking him is because the questions he asked not his appearance.
@@moxchi2578 reading is fundamental brotherman
@@Celebeauti21that’s exactly what you said lol. Not sure how someone can misread that.
Yes! He was the best one in my opinion
Most ladies on this show are wonderful,but This is the most wholesome and real lineup of ladies I have seen on it yet! I love that they are clear about what they prefer and hold space for themselves and who they are, as well as for others in the same way.
When arlette gotta tell you to pop bc she got you figured out already, you know thats bad. White top was a mess. 😂
Total mess 😂
Should've booted her off the show after the first round
The 1st guy exemplifies a high caliber man, Godly, tall, has a career, well groomed, appears grounded & knows what he wants/desires. He was articulate & asked the most thoughtful questions. I hope he finds his Queen.✌🏽
He did find a match(potential queen).
He had status but his character is flawed. One of the Christian raise black nigga. His bias shows, religion, color, ethnicity should not be a criteria for finding a good partner. There are hoes in the church too. Character above all else
I don't think being tall has anything to do with being a high caliber man
What does being tall have to do with being a high caliber man?😂
Well, contrary to popular opinion . . . there was something off-putting about man #1. Every time Arlette asked him a question he looked up in the air/ceiling to answer. 🤭
The last guy was so sweet and respectful. I could tell he really didn’t wanna say anything bad about any of the girls he eliminated. It was so sweet. Can’t even get mad at the rejection when it’s like that 😅
She just didn't have a reason to pop until towards the end. I don't see people's issue with that
The last girl is a gem !! 💎 In my opinion it’s just the outfit sometimes. ❤
The flight attendant job might be in the air but shes definitely for the STREETS 😂😂
Lol
😂
Shes a bird
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@albrat1563a cute bird, but lawd she annoyed me and Arlette 😅
Red pants guy was way smarter than he looked! He nailed the question about not being able to help someone who isn’t motivated, and his take on unhealthy eating habits and heart attacks, especially in the Black community, was spot on. His answer definitely made him more attractive-showing that mature side, but just a bit late 😂
Facts, he is definitely super knowledgeable just led with the super goofy side unfortunately
Yeah he was very interesting !
The way we look showcases how smart we are?
I agree 💯
the only guy i followed from pop the balloon he is a clever gemini. seems cool
The flight attendant seem like she need more therapy. 🤦🏻♂️
😂😂😂 facts
You are so on point. That's exactly what I said.
😂😂😂
You can even hear it in her response to the “past relationship & what you did wrong” question.
She went to therapy before her previous relationship and the guy still pointed out the thing that made her go to therapy. She didn't learn at all.
😂😂😂 honestly
I love when Arlette breaks a lil character and shows some humor 😂
Angelique just went on there to tell everybody she's a flight attendant 😂
She isn't?
And available😂😂😂
She is a giant red flag
I don’t know her name but my goodness that woman is obsessed with the sound of her own voice, no short answers just constant rambling and of course using therapy vocabulary to do so. Perfect fit for a podcast, podcasters love discussing a subject more than the actual participation of it.
That has to be the Liberian chic…that’s just the half of it from experience lmaooo
Flight attendant
the disadvantage of social media is everybody speaking on what they know a few flashcards worth of info on....yes she been to therapy if her therapist is watching take her back
I was fast forwarding everytime she spoke after I realised what kind of mind game she was playing upon these men and the girls lined up. Very distasteful
Her name is Angelique 😂😂😂
That flight attendant was very annoying.. first it was the age .. then she popped cuz the guy likes her ?!! WTF ?!!
She was on an ego trip
She was annoying.
facts. and she was very immature for 32.
Why are you always so negative. Everytime you comment on one of these episodes even the catch-ups, it’s never anything positive.
I definitely would have popped her balloon..I love her energy but she was extra...
That Sedona edit was crazyyy 😂😂 they clocked it
Arlette & BM needs to start doing confessionals !! I want to hear from the people that didn’t match after they walked away or the couples that did once they walk off stage IN REAL TIME. 😆
This is a very good idea 😂
They do it’s on her husbands channel
Maybe they can do shorts if their confessions. Because the thing is the vidoes are already an hour long so🤷🏾♂️
@@rhaevanshields3686What's her husband's channel?
@@rhaevanshields3686In real time
The car question was my favorite!!! Tells a lot about how people act and think financially, cars are one of the biggest reasons people are in trouble financially.
I mean kinda. I wouldn’t buy a new car before I had house tho. My wife had an older car I got her and I was spending all my free time working on it with my dad so I just got her a new one. It depends on the situation more than anything.
He's broke.
It was a flawed question because the answer depends on the price of the new car
@allenllewellynkra - Exactly. I'm saving for a new car, buy it will be the cheapest new car they have out. Nissan Versa..below $20k.
@Yomommahouse - exactly. That was the thinking of thr lady who's balloon popped and all tye other women too. It's best to get something new that you know works.
Arlette always looks the best and carries herself in a superb fashion. No wonder she’s married.
I literally always think this, her and BM go so well together.
@@nishadh366 very well! Perfect blend of feminine and masculine in my opinion from the interviews I’ve seen. These ladies who come on the show really should take notes…
@@quantiadhana331j Totally agree
Wanting your man to be chill and inside While you're loving to be outside is diabolical
I love Arlette, she’s so graceful and feminine and always laughing and smiling. Outfits, hair, and makeup always on point. That microphone twirl during the intro have me laughing everytime.🤣🤣🤣♥️
I have to agree. She's stylish, but never looks cheap or like an old lady. She's articulate and rarely if ever stumbles on her words. I enjoy watching her.
Love her
Well theres a reason she's married and all the other contestants are single
@@MD-qt1of so true💯
The mic twirl bothers me , can’t lie 🙈😂
That holding on to the ballon last just to have the floor to speak is diabolical lol 😂
She's giving dr.elom with waiting til the last minute to pop
Dr Elon!
EXACTLY
The girl with the white shirt on got on my LAST NERVE! It was giving “wanting to be seen”🙃🙄 Arlette please do not bring her back😭💀🤣
The cat that didn't like Mercedes stood on business 😂
First dude has his stuff together. He was respectful, gave great answers and helpful feedback to the ladies. Good on him for finding a match.
Thank you 🙏🏾
@@VtabbskI’m single by choice and it’s my first time in years that I have a “crush” after seeing you on the show, never thought I’d see that day again 😅, not only are you extremely handsome but you are intelligent, mature, and christian. I love the fact that you mentioned having control over your feelings and emotions. I never yell or raise my voice, I don’t get angry easily, and I never call anyone out of their names or cuss. It’s hard to see someone with the same values these days 😍.
@@Vtabbskgeniune question:
Was the lady you ended up with, someone you would've initially went for? You guys really looked great together
Also he knew exactly what he wanted. No messing around
The girl in boots seems very gentle and the way she carries herself is charismatic
Pretty girl.. Just needs a style makeover imo
She ain’t got nothing on that African mama 😩
The best thing about this show is that it doesn't cater to stereotypes. You see black people from all walks a life and different perspective of what we want in relationships
“ You stand like a baddie” lmaooo he definitely was too!😂😂😂 33:30
Also 😂😂😂 @ “I’m traumatized”