This Makes Girls Want You (99% of Guys Don't Know Yet)
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
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In this video, I will teach you how to get a girl to like you instantly by using a subtle, psychological trick that women actually use on men.
Most men aren't even aware that women use this psychological trick on them.
...and even fewer men know that they can turn the tables and actually use it on women, to make women INSTANTLY like them, try to impress THEM and hope to get a chance with THEM.
Most seduction techniques and attraction methods that you can use to get girls to like you, are very SUBTLE.
Best of all, women aren't even aware of what you are doing.
Instead, they instinctively feel attracted, turned on, drawn to you and want you be with you sexually and romantically.
After helping new guys get laid, get a girlfriend, fix relationship problems and get ex girlfriends back for more than 18 years now, I have found that 99% of guys don't know about this subtle, psychological trick that women use on men (the trick is revealed in the video).
So, when you are one of the 1% of of guys who actually understand the subtle psychology of attraction and are able to use it when interacting with women, you will see that women like you, feel attracted to you, try to impress you and want to be with you.
It's such a rewarding skill to have as a man because you no longer have to rely on luck.
You are always able to make girls feel attracted to you and enjoy your choice of women because your approach makes them feel irresistibly attracted to you.
So, whether you're trying to get a girl to like you in high school, at college, in bars and clubs, at work (i.e. you're anywhere from 18 to 50+ years old), or through friends, remember that there is a method to this area of life.
You don't have to leave it to luck.
You can take control over this area of your life and make women automatically feel attracted and want you.
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If you enjoyed today's video and would like to learn my BEST-EVER techniques for making women feel attracted/getting girls to like you, then make sure you read my eBook The Flow, or listen to the audiobook version.
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Cheers
Dan Bacon
Founder - TheModernMan.com - Secrets to Success With Women
I broke up with my girl for 2 years. I wanted her back so I took a deep dive into your videos. Today we have two kids. Thank you for helping me develop emotionally and building my relationship power. Dan is a legend
Man, that is so good to hear. It's you and men like you who make what I do worth it. Glad to have been able to help Akuchu. Cheers, Dan 👍
@@DanBacon_ you gave me Back the woman I thought I had lost. I don’t know how to say thank you
hi how do you do that
@@Yamberry24-WS Could you pin point in a few sentences what you did? Thanks.
yo are the legend, sir
You really turned my life with women around Dan, I was so pitiful until a few years back.. your advice is so valuable, thanks mate!
This is something I have also learned from experience. The only thing I'd add is that when they use this "impending rejection" scenario, I have often wondered if they're also trying to convince themselves that they can simply turn you down if they want. The reason I've thought this is because it's exactly as you say - it's always the ones who're very drawn to you, and I think it's a way of denying any power you might hold over them. They like to think it's their decision - even though they can't actually control their impulses.
Yes, that definitely happens. The most important thing for you to do as the man though, is to not focus on her approach or technique and instead, only focus on doing what you need to do to be in the position of power and flow from one step to the next with her. When a guy gets put off by her 'game' or technique, he will often give up and lose his opportunity. You have to take control and lead the way with your approach. That's what women want. They want a man who knows what he wants, knows how to get it and makes it happen. Cheers, Dan 👍
@@DanBacon_ I'll tell you something funny. In Los Angeles I met this woman early in the evening in a bar. By the end of the evening we left together and in the street I said: "what are we doing now? Are you coming back to my hotel with me?" She said: "OK, but I'm not going to have Sx with you."
I said: "You're dead right you're not!" 😁
Not only did she have sx with me, a few weeks later she was on a plane flying over to stay with me at home here in England".
The only reason that a guy fears her impending rejection is because at some deep level he sees her as better than her. He foolishly sees her as more valuable than him, at least at a subconscious level.
Ignoring a woman only works if you attracted her before, if you ignore her out from the blue you are just creepy, the same is for impending rejection which is the same as putting her on red, it only works if you previously generated a bit of attraction, if she is not attracted by you and you put her on red nothing happens, because she does not feel anything for you and she simply does not care that you put her on red
Exactly. Attraction first and then everything else.
Wow I've actually been doing this naturally cause I don't care about looks anymore if there's not also interest shared interests and stuff.
Most of my life, I seemed to care more about my involvement in baseball, music, God, family etc. and accepted women coming and going like they didn’t matter as much. The most important relationship I’ve had with a woman has been my Mom due to the fact that she was and still is always there for me no matter what the circumstance.
Throughout the years, there wasn’t a woman who came remotely close to how my Mom treated me & supported me during all of my hospitalizations, substance abuse, extreme behaviors etc. & I have continued in this outlook towards women besides my Mom.
Too much hurt, pain, confusion & mixed signals from different women created a darkness about them to the point of perceiving them as demonic or a sort of enemy forming hatred & disgust towards them.
Am sick & tired of focusing my attention on them at this point Dan despite being very talented, intelligent, compassionate, heart-centered, spiritual & more.
It’s gotten to the point of wanting to just be close to my immediate family & continue to pursue my relationship with God as well as everything else that seems more important to me in life.
Maybe I come across as being too much for women to handle because of how different I am which is why something long term hasn’t clicked. Yea, there have been flings, but they ended up leaving me in a deeper state of indifference towards them since we ended up just parting ways & moving on.
Am not really sure how to go about this moving forward because I’ve lived such a great & amazing life without being in extended relationships with women.
I felt drawn to open up to you about this & am curious what your thoughts are on what I’ve shared with you. Cheers! Seems like I could go on & on about my relationship with women, but I’ll leave it at that.
Don't try to find your Mom in other women. A relationship between a mother and son, is completely different to a romantic relationship between a man and woman. A mother (like yours; not all mothers are like yours) will be there for you no matter what. Yet, the best kind of girlfriend or wife will be there for you, but expect and pressure you to level up/man up and stop behaving like a boy, or an immature man. If you expect or seek your Mom from other women, they will feel see you as a boy/immature man and lose respect and sexual attraction for you. Your mother doesn't have to feel sexually attracted to you and therefore, she can put up with boyish/immature behavior and continue to love you unconditionally. Yet, a girlfriend or wife needs to be able to feel sexually attracted to you. Cheers, Dan
Mate, another top video, cheers. The issue for me is, rejection doesn't bother me, it's that most of the women I find attractive are those that I see regularly such as at work or there's a trainer at the gym I've taken a shine to. If I make a move and get palmed, I don't care but I'll be seeing them around afterwards and that kinda sucks. Thanks Dan.
You're the best one in the game, Dan! You have truly helped me a lot, and I am very grateful for that!
Cheers man 👍 I'm glad you're enjoying the videos and growing from it.
One of your best videos Dan. This is gold. Dan the man with his pearls of wisdom.
I agree 👍 Glad you enjoyed it man. Cheers, Dan
I've always had a fear of being ridiculed/ shamed by the woman or other people who happened to be around if I approached a woman in public.
It's an interesting video how psychology plays a big role in attracting women. I think if you look at it from a guys perspective, if a woman came up to you and she came on too strong, then guys could get turned off as well. For example, suppose a woman starts talking about getting married in 6 months to a year, have a kid etc, it definitely will get the guy thinking and possibly fearful of going any further. Also I think with women, if you face resistance, the best thing to do is walk away and carry on with the rest of your day and interact with other women if you get the chance. It'll keep her thinking lol.
.... This is just genius Dan. Thank you! Beautifully done.
Cheers Stefan! 👍
I wish I new all this when I was in my 20s.
This guy is a Master one of the Best Coaches and a seen a Lot and Bacon is Top 3 if not the Best.
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Make her love you for live is a true gamechanger for anyone in a relationship. All my friends ask how i have such a nice relationship.
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Hi Felix! Great to hear man! I'm glad you have benefited so much from Make Her Love You For Life and good on you for doing the most important thing of all, which is to implement the advice and knowledge. BTW: I contacted Max (who handles emails for The Modern Man) and he has now replied to you. He was away from his computer for the last 24 hours and is now answering pending emails. Cheers, Dan 👍
Your channel is too great, keep it up man!
The cool thing about this is that it applies to social situations too, thank you.
Thanks, Dan. I've been taking notes from your videos, and you helped me tremendously! My game has been sharper, and I use other ways to make her feel attracted. Question: What can you do if your girlfriend or a girl who is interested starts you giving you the silent treatment via text/online. Is it a test, and what can I do to overcome this test? Thanks
Glad you've been enjoying the videos. About your question: I made a video on that topic here: ua-cam.com/video/OezzRlCGd9g/v-deo.html Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ Thanks Dan, and thank you for making my relationships and dating life better ✌️
Dan is the Best dating coach on UA-cam.
Thank you Dan Bacon you have helped me lots
Glad to hear it Zabdiel 👍
These insights are Powerful Dan! If a woman can expect/predict sweet syrupy waffles from you all the time, she will mos def not be stimulated or excited by you… this shit is ❤️🔥!
It's cool, I just have fun interacting with women now, next thing you know one of them wants me really bad. I've noticed lately that there are many women that seem to hang around me, talk to me out of the blue, it's really fun.
Hi Dan. Good video , as usual. Yes , women are crafty creatures , either consciously or unconsciously. Why not emulate their behaviour and turn the tables a little ? All in moderation and in good spirits , of course. Personally i naturally display both this behaviour and being quite direct. The latter one , women usually react cautiously to. A question of finding the right balance , i guess.
For sure. Direct definitely works too. This is an example of 'one' of the ways to get women to like you. From memory, I think you have bought my eBook The Flow store.themodernman.com/in/4c3fa79 so you would know that The Flow teaches a unique approach to attracting women that I used to easily enjoy my choice of women for over 10 years, before settling down. Cheers, Dan 👍
@@DanBacon_Thanks. Yes , i have The Flow. With me it's just finding the right balance of directness with every woman and learning to really master all the principles by applying them in practice. Something i should do more , especially when i have a tendency to settle for the validation of knowing i could get a woman if i wanted to , and sometimes not be so lazy about it.
You rock, Dan. 🙂
7:00 - 8:10 a lot of guys I’ve seen are like that. Especially the ones who attack dating coaches and inject their negativity. Those negative guys have never invested a day in improving themselves and their attraction skills so they resort to just existing. That’s pathetic of them
This topic is relevant for me. As I have become the kind of guy who is too reassuring.
I need social intelligence concerning when others need to be reassured. My default is to let others squirm, which isn't very charismatic. I grew up ignoring people's feelings and running them over, as I was always comfortable and looked down on others dependance more or less. To compensate for this, I eventually took on the role of reassuring people but eventually it became almost an emotional dependance in which I assume that I'm too intimidating, thus obligated into "over" helping others be comfortable. This does keep me from cold approaching as I think girls are kind of scared, more or less and I do not want to be too much. I'm a big dude and have a predisposition for a serious demeaner.
I am just now starting to identify this irritating dynamic and not give any feedback or support again unless earned. I need to find a sweet spot. I understand this does not give you much to work with, but some advice would be helpful.
Thankyou.
This is the only dating guru on youtube that actually knows what he's talking about
Thanks, Dan, as always!
Thanks Dan
Cheers Sepehr 👍
the key is to not give a fk about that impending rejection
For sure - that works and is another way to say it. However, unless a guy knows how to attract women, he will give an f about impending rejection. It's only when a guy can attract women on purpose (i.e. not rely on luck) that he will then begin to not give an f because he knows that women find him attractive and he isn't doomed if he doesn't get with her. That's why it's essential guys learn how to attract women first. That said, yes - you definitely do then get to a point where you just don't care because you know that you're attractive and that countless other women will want you. The woman then senses that you don't give an f and she knows that if she doesn't show enough interest, she will miss out on being with you. Cheers, Dan 👍
Wow, amazing insights!
how do you make the woman feel the pain of worry or uncertainty and be less friendly? Do you have a video on it @Dan Bacon ?
Dan I am 29 and single. Suggest your best video to me.
Body language never lies
“The eyes chico, they never lie” - Al Pacino (Scarface) 😎
Appreciate your vids
What about choosing signals but talks to other dudes the whole night? I tend not to talk to woman when they’re surrounded by dudes… i guess it’s a red flag when a woman has a lot of “guy friends”… who just want to bang her that’s it…. So i just enjoy my night, I don’t feel desperate to be single. I can tell as a good looking men that finding a high quality woman that looks good ain’t easy… sure i can hook up with a lot of woman who are not so good looking but I can’t do that. So i say single 😅
The first catwalk model I ever slept with was at a table surrounded by 8 or 9 guys. She was the only woman. I noticed her as I walked into the bar and could see she was bored by them. I instantly decided to approach her and have a casual chat (i.e. not come across as though I was trying to pick up, just in case one of the guys was her boyfriend). 1 hour or so later, we left the bar together, made out on the beach and then went back to my place for sex. Moral of the story: Don't assume that a woman surrounded by dudes is a 'red flag.' In terms of your question about choosing signals (i.e. she's looking at you, showing interest), but talking to other dudes the whole night. Man, what do you expect? Her to come over and approach you?😄 You've got to go over and say hi. Women almost never approach in real life. They almost always approach in the movies and TV dramas. In the real world, you've got to shoot your shot. Cheers, Dan 👍
@@DanBacon_ Takes bawls of titanium to walk up and seduce a woman surrounded by other men. I read "The Flow" five times yet I would never get up the courage to swoop in, correctly analyze the woman's entire entourage, ignore them all, and then land the prize like you did, Sensei Dan.
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Tell me you have a TikTok account
So how do I make a girl I haven't met yet or am meeting for the first time - to feel pain related to me?
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