Mate, I really like the basic message of this talk. Kind of a bitter pill, but one I'm finally accepting is necessary, and finding myself willing to swallow.
In this non-teaching, you give us the best teaching, the best advice ever! Becoming one with the suffering, becoming one with what is. Embracing everything. I love the way words come from your mouth. I am French from Quebec, Canada, and your words nicely convey to my heart, deeply. Thank you for all your sharings ❤
This one hits home for me. I’ve been unable to stop searching for years because I’ve had many glimpses also. It’s brutal to stop seeking inner peace when you know it’s real, not some concept you’ve read in books, but an actual experience. It’s a constant inner struggle of how can I accept not being in peace when I know from firsthand experience that it’s real ánd obtainable for me because it already happened. Trying to add that experience to ‘me’ when the experience is the absence of ‘me’. It’s such a mindf*ck and so exhausting. Thank you for this video.
I just told a friend in Instagram… I am going to watch videos today and as of tomorrow (for a week). I will just do the crawl-walk-fall-whatever happens without these self help videos. Let’s see how much I have internalized and how co-dependent I am. I ❤ you. I am grateful for what you have shared.
Thank you so very much. I love your videos. The brief and succinct content you create imparts so much wisdom and food for thought. I hope one day you will reach a very wide audience whilst still maintaining your humbleness, sincerity and passion.
Thanks for another insightful post. I find myself experiencing awareness as moving between an expanded state of being which is relaxed, peaceful, open and in and of the moment, and a state of contraction into the the personal self, that I would call me, when I have identified with a thought. The identification with the thought, essentially being the cause of the contractions and the creator of the momentary me. This sense of moving in and out of these states feels induced by grasping onto and holding a thought, judgement or an interpretation of reality, rather than just being in or having a direct experience. I have found that I cannot will myself to allow or actively accept anything. But, I can relax into a state of not knowing. Which opens up the moment. Many thanks for the new video!
I've listened to thousands of hours to self help materials and never repeated any of them... but your videos I can enjoy them repeatedly.. and get the same warmth ...God bless your soul ❤
The only way out of suffering (if that's what we want)is to practice love continuously. Eventually we experience spontaneous connection with every being and feel the love everywhere.
Love is just a word. It doesnt exist so to speak. You cannot control love you cannot exceecise it. It comes and it goes. Just like the impulses or thoughts to create or act upon love. You cannot control it you can just watch. Once you realise that there os nothing you can do but watch the movie in which your person might excercise love. Nothing is continuous nothing has permanence the person cannot excercise love on a permanent basis. The only permanence in life is the watcher. Once you realise that your person will relax more maybe
Enlightenment for me was never about liberation from anything in myself, but about becoming aligned in a way that creates oneness with all and thus a peaceful and loving world.
I feel like im allowing emotions and thoughts to be there but they just stay. Even if I sit in silence for half an hour the feeling will be there, then I might get sidetracked by a thought, then the feeling comes back. Feel like I'm accepting it or trying to but nothing ever feels different.
It comes to say “stop trying to appear as ONE, you ARE already one”. If one wanted to become two to experience itself in all possible, we are already in the right place”! Mind is a bad liar ! Just spot it ! ❤️
Can worldly ambitions still arise after awakening? It’s weird because as a creative person I have always know that it isn’t “me” who creates anything. And that is what lead to my existential search for the Thing that has always created through me, and a pure and genuine desire to serve It since I can see the worldly potential that this character has been granted. That was the “story” of my awakening and how I was lead down this path to discover my true Nature. Now during the ascension process I oscillate between “self” and “Self” and there are days when I am back into my creative pursuits and feel very energised by it and have high dreams and hopes for the ideas that come to me, and then days when I can barely move, it seems totally pointless to create anything and I just sit in silence and feel hopeless. I know this is part of the energetic shift / ego dissolution process. It’s like the false self really wants to serve the True Self even though it’s an illusion in the first place, it is terrified of not fulfilling its potential. The challenge seems to be to surrender to the fact that it’s always been the Self doing everything, including the creating and looking for the one doing the creating! F**kkkkk 🤯
In human Life appearance, it can apparently takes time to “settle down” mentally, emotionally and physically in this understanding. Don’t worry, it gets better and better by itself! ❤
For me it's like there's something inside me, could describe it like a mouse pointer and it always had to identify with something. It can't be dropped. It's like if I lie in silence I'll take in the sounds of the environment and feel my hand stroking the dog, then something will latch onto the fact I'm not aware of my body and whatever that thing is, that thing that hooks onto things feels like me and trying to disidentify with it is impossible.
thanks a lot.. 1 query.. sometimes this STOP happens and then the past habits come into action.. and the movement starts again.. I know nothing needs to be done and can't be done..but.. what to say..
Do you still have desires and goals? If so, do you experience them differently? Do you just accept what is, or are desires and goals a part of what is?
To me the happiness and suffering are equal. That happens when you know. The only true moment is the present moment. The past and future are just thoughts.
Men can either try to prove what they already know or they can use their senses to learn what they don't. Children are dedicated to learning above all else. Unless ye be as little children you cannot enter the kingdom. Proving what you already know is the ultimate ego distraction tactic. Metanoia or changing one's mind or otherwise known as repentance is nothing more than transforming the dictator into the happy learner. Once this is accomplished the kingdom which is within us suddenly becomes the place we occupy at spiritual children. There all need is met. We know it. As the happy childhood begins to recede, suffering occurs. Prior to the disappearance of that state of being as children we had no suffering. We knew the great fullness as all our supply was through grace. We did not need to take action to acquire.
what about the material world? do we have to be ready to accept whatever happens to us? of course the body/mind will act but does it have to concern me? it seems to me that peace is only felt when I stop thinking about the future or past and stop planning because it is too complicated
ASCENDOR I LOVE YOU ❤❤❤PLEASE SEND ME YOUR BLESSINGS. BLESS ME TO REALY ACCEPT MY SELF AS IT IS. PLEASE DO IT I KNOW YOU HAVE A POWER TO BLESS ME TO JUST BE AS IT IS ❤❤❤
@@sohamsoham-k7l I'm saying that what you're asking is nonsense. You are already blessed and already have the power to dissolve into acceptance. Even if there is no acceptance there, you can accept that you cannot accept. Just become still.
Look at Nature it can withstand any turbulence tsunami floods earthquakes plague global warming n what not, name it, has power to stay calm peace n being love. Sun Moon n child never changes ever since existence of these planet. As a human being we made all these worse evil n hell bent to destroy the curse that will end the planet earth. Astala vista 🎉
Can i ask,, its about lets say actually reaching a state of peacefulness in meditation,,, once you know youre there and the feel the world is just happening around you, but once life goes on you get distracted,, now having felt how the feel of such peacefulness,,, i often tried get it back, try to remember how it feels then try to be at peace Which is absolutely 180° of how i attain that state of meditation in the first place,, any idea?
but.......question the one who accepts or doesn't accept. that one us ego. when investigating that one the revelation is that there is just awareness. be with that. redude in that. accepting or not accepting is still rooted in duality. in deep dlerp there is pure being with no I. when ego appears, in the waking dream and dream at night, everything appears. when ego doesn't appear everything doesn't appear.
What can help is to say "I accept it" 10 times and then drink half a liter of water. after that it should be there. 😀 This is a cosmic joke and whoever gets it has it. papaji was once asked by a young boy if he could show him god. papaji often put him off until the next day. But when the boy persistently kept asking, he told him to go home and hold a piece of chocolate in the air, then god would come, show himself and eat it. Since then, this boy saw God everywhere and felt comfortably embraced by him.
Acceptance wouldn't give me peace from my problems. It would mean knowing those problems have defeated me and I have to resign myself to being miserable and never having what I want. It's a coward's way of dealing with life.
the only real peace is the peace in the beyond the beyond where the real you eternally is..the goal of real seeker is to realize that real I .that real I isnt even aware of the manifestion..thats what a master would say..how the heck did you get 4.5 thousnad people to watch your video in 6 days?
You cannot escape Samsara into Nirvana. Samsara and Nirvana are one, not two. And you are not pure consciousness. You are just an illusory character created by pure consciousness. You may say you are pure consciousness but you can never say I am pure consciousness.
Mate, I really like the basic message of this talk. Kind of a bitter pill, but one I'm finally accepting is necessary, and finding myself willing to swallow.
I am so crying. Thank u so much, thank u that u share with us.
In this non-teaching, you give us the best teaching, the best advice ever! Becoming one with the suffering, becoming one with what is. Embracing everything. I love the way words come from your mouth. I am French from Quebec, Canada, and your words nicely convey to my heart, deeply. Thank you for all your sharings ❤
This one hits home for me. I’ve been unable to stop searching for years because I’ve had many glimpses also. It’s brutal to stop seeking inner peace when you know it’s real, not some concept you’ve read in books, but an actual experience. It’s a constant inner struggle of how can I accept not being in peace when I know from firsthand experience that it’s real ánd obtainable for me because it already happened. Trying to add that experience to ‘me’ when the experience is the absence of ‘me’. It’s such a mindf*ck and so exhausting. Thank you for this video.
I just told a friend in Instagram… I am going to watch videos today and as of tomorrow (for a week). I will just do the crawl-walk-fall-whatever happens without these self help videos. Let’s see how much I have internalized and how co-dependent I am. I ❤ you. I am grateful for what you have shared.
Wooooow! This one stopped seeking. I’m done brother ❤ Thank you thank you thank you 🙏
Beyond grateful for you Ascendor ❤🙏. Thank you 🙏 for sharing your unforgettable knowledge❣️❣️
A Young Master with the deepest simply thoughts and language! Thank you so much!
from Vietnam, sending you love and gratefulness
Thank you so very much. I love your videos. The brief and succinct content you create imparts so much wisdom and food for thought. I hope one day you will reach a very wide audience whilst still maintaining your humbleness, sincerity and passion.
I agree wholeheartedly word for word.
Thanks for another insightful post. I find myself experiencing awareness as moving between an expanded state of being which is relaxed, peaceful, open and in and of the moment, and a state of contraction into the the personal self, that I would call me, when I have identified with a thought. The identification with the thought, essentially being the cause of the contractions and the creator of the momentary me. This sense of moving in and out of these states feels induced by grasping onto and holding a thought, judgement or an interpretation of reality, rather than just being in or having a direct experience. I have found that I cannot will myself to allow or actively accept anything. But, I can relax into a state of not knowing. Which opens up the moment. Many thanks for the new video!
Thank you thank you thank you.
what i was looking for was a mirage so i put an end to my searching thanke you 🙏🏻❤️
Oh man, amazing. You are blessed.
Accepting all there is is unconditional love is God and then God is in charge.
Ich bin der Spiegel und gleichzeitig die Reflexion. Ich kann
mich dahinein entspannen ... 'vergesse' es nur immer und immer wieder
Kommt der "Ascendor'" aus Deutschland?
Ich vermute aus der Schweiz.
Watching this video was like a meditation: the words , the gaps, silence...is soooo relaxing and takes me to cery peaceful places ❤
Beautifully Expressed! Thanku again. Love your ❤️
I've listened to thousands of hours to self help materials and never repeated any of them... but your videos I can enjoy them repeatedly.. and get the same warmth ...God bless your soul ❤
Thank you so much!
Priceless!!! 👌
Thanks!
Thank you❤️
3:46 Watching this video with my closed headphones on: That sound scared the bejeesus out of me. 😂
Me too! What was that? 😂
@@MichaelT7363 My guess: his dog trying to puke.
@@JCrashB👍🏼. Ah. That works for me. And I prefer that to my initially thinking it was a demon. 🤣
I love how you always look like you are about to cry or burst out in laughter at the same time. Onelove brother. Thank you for your "wisdom"
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You know,we are soo greatful and blessed to have you, you doing something so precious, so useful and valuable serving to us ❤
Thank you❤❤❤
Spot on, hooray!
Thank you 💎💎💎💎💎
So true....be, where you are. ❤
Thank you ❤
Thank You! There was agitation and I was running away and avoiding. Did this and now it dissipated and love was there...much love💛
Thank you .
The only way out of suffering (if that's what we want)is to practice love continuously. Eventually we experience spontaneous connection with every being and feel the love everywhere.
We have to "be love". Just be love. Which is not easy, but then nothing is easy. Just .. be.. love ❤
Love is just a word. It doesnt exist so to speak. You cannot control love you cannot exceecise it. It comes and it goes. Just like the impulses or thoughts to create or act upon love. You cannot control it you can just watch. Once you realise that there os nothing you can do but watch the movie in which your person might excercise love. Nothing is continuous nothing has permanence the person cannot excercise love on a permanent basis. The only permanence in life is the watcher. Once you realise that your person will relax more maybe
thank you
Beautiful ❤
I love looking at you when you are in silence ❤
Enlightenment for me was never about liberation from anything in myself, but about becoming aligned in a way that creates oneness with all and thus a peaceful and loving world.
(without this being a goal, as you say, just as an observable effect of acceptance)
I feel that NOT knowing and living the truth IS the suffering ..
I feel like im allowing emotions and thoughts to be there but they just stay. Even if I sit in silence for half an hour the feeling will be there, then I might get sidetracked by a thought, then the feeling comes back. Feel like I'm accepting it or trying to but nothing ever feels different.
Expectations to "feel different" means that you don't accept what is, as it is. It means trying to enlighten your brain, not yourself
Your video is great. The colors are 100% fabulous
JUST BE❤💞💞YOU ARE YOU AND ME💞💞❤
Incredible, I litteraly though of the sentence of this title yesterday
Love you brother 💜🔥
beautiful, thank you
It comes to say “stop trying to appear as ONE, you ARE already one”. If one wanted to become two to experience itself in all possible, we are already in the right place”! Mind is a bad liar ! Just spot it ! ❤️
❤🙏
Thank you so much
Love you bro 💖💯
🦋🕊🙏
"Become one with what is."
❤❤🎉🎉🎉
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Can worldly ambitions still arise after awakening?
It’s weird because as a creative person I have always know that it isn’t “me” who creates anything. And that is what lead to my existential search for the Thing that has always created through me, and a pure and genuine desire to serve It since I can see the worldly potential that this character has been granted. That was the “story” of my awakening and how I was lead down this path to discover my true Nature. Now during the ascension process I oscillate between “self” and “Self” and there are days when I am back into my creative pursuits and feel very energised by it and have high dreams and hopes for the ideas that come to me, and then days when I can barely move, it seems totally pointless to create anything and I just sit in silence and feel hopeless. I know this is part of the energetic shift / ego dissolution process. It’s like the false self really wants to serve the True Self even though it’s an illusion in the first place, it is terrified of not fulfilling its potential. The challenge seems to be to surrender to the fact that it’s always been the Self doing everything, including the creating and looking for the one doing the creating! F**kkkkk 🤯
One must first ask and seek to find. The only good quality of the ego. Once one knows, then the only thing we must do is let go.
I was laughing when I got the joke, but now back to suffering and the character :(
Yes, I feel this. It's like I'm dancing on the liminal line, a lightbulb with a bad connection flickering on and off.
In human Life appearance, it can apparently takes time to “settle down” mentally, emotionally and physically in this understanding. Don’t worry, it gets better and better by itself! ❤
who is aware of this 🙂
Nice
For me it's like there's something inside me, could describe it like a mouse pointer and it always had to identify with something. It can't be dropped. It's like if I lie in silence I'll take in the sounds of the environment and feel my hand stroking the dog, then something will latch onto the fact I'm not aware of my body and whatever that thing is, that thing that hooks onto things feels like me and trying to disidentify with it is impossible.
good bro...nice.
thanks a lot.. 1 query.. sometimes this STOP happens and then the past habits come into action.. and the movement starts again.. I know nothing needs to be done and can't be done..but.. what to say..
Do you still have desires and goals? If so, do you experience them differently? Do you just accept what is, or are desires and goals a part of what is?
@ascendor thank you for this beautiful video.however my question is..does this acceptance also means watching the thoughts and emotions?
@@novamelodies7658 Yes accept that too :)
To me the happiness and suffering are equal. That happens when you know.
The only true moment is the present moment. The past and future are just thoughts.
what meditation music are you using? Thanks for the vid!
Men can either try to prove what they already know or they can use their senses to learn what they don't. Children are dedicated to learning above all else. Unless ye be as little children you cannot enter the kingdom. Proving what you already know is the ultimate ego distraction tactic. Metanoia or changing one's mind or otherwise known as repentance is nothing more than transforming the dictator into the happy learner. Once this is accomplished the kingdom which is within us suddenly becomes the place we occupy at spiritual children. There all need is met. We know it. As the happy childhood begins to recede, suffering occurs. Prior to the disappearance of that state of being as children we had no suffering. We knew the great fullness as all our supply was through grace. We did not need to take action to acquire.
We wanna know more about you! tell us about your personal story’s upbringing your community and culture we want to know these things
what about the material world? do we have to be ready to accept whatever happens to us? of course the body/mind will act but does it have to concern me? it seems to me that peace is only felt when I stop thinking about the future or past and stop planning because it is too complicated
Nice video! Sorry my other comment found it's way here!
ASCENDOR I LOVE YOU ❤❤❤PLEASE SEND ME YOUR BLESSINGS. BLESS ME TO REALY ACCEPT MY SELF AS IT IS. PLEASE DO IT I KNOW YOU HAVE A POWER TO BLESS ME TO JUST BE AS IT IS ❤❤❤
xDDDDD as long as he doesn't touch your forehead, it doesn't work
@Affenhandski what do you mean realy?
@@sohamsoham-k7l I'm saying that what you're asking is nonsense. You are already blessed and already have the power to dissolve into acceptance. Even if there is no acceptance there, you can accept that you cannot accept. Just become still.
@@Affenhandski thank you so much 💓 💖 💗
@@sohamsoham-k7l welcome brother
There are so many beautiful teachers Rupert Spyera, Echart Tolle, Ascendor, and others.
Look at Nature it can withstand any turbulence tsunami floods earthquakes plague global warming n what not, name it, has power to stay calm peace n being love.
Sun Moon n child never changes ever since existence of these planet.
As a human being we made all these worse evil n hell bent to destroy the curse that will end the planet earth.
Astala vista 🎉
Would like to meet you
Where do live
Is it oké to like and love material things?
It's okay and normal to like these things. It only becomes painful when your happiness depends on them.
@@ascendor.ascendorThank you so much I can not explain in Words how much it
means you take the time to give a reaction, much ❤for you
Can i ask,, its about lets say actually reaching a state of peacefulness in meditation,,,
once you know youre there and the feel the world is just happening around you, but once life goes on you get distracted,, now having felt how the feel of such peacefulness,,, i often tried get it back, try to remember how it feels then try to be at peace
Which is absolutely 180° of how i attain that state of meditation in the first place,, any idea?
but.......question the one who accepts or doesn't accept. that one us ego. when investigating that one the revelation is that there is just awareness. be with that. redude in that. accepting or not accepting is still rooted in duality. in deep dlerp there is pure being with no I. when ego appears, in the waking dream and dream at night, everything appears. when ego doesn't appear everything doesn't appear.
What can help is to say "I accept it" 10 times and then drink half a liter of water. after that it should be there. 😀
This is a cosmic joke and whoever gets it has it.
papaji was once asked by a young boy if he could show him god. papaji often put him off until the next day. But when the boy persistently kept asking, he told him to go home and hold a piece of chocolate in the air, then god would come, show himself and eat it. Since then, this boy saw God everywhere and felt comfortably embraced by him.
You are a very nice beautiful person 🎉😅😊. s‘. all
The statement of millennia
@@quogir1 Meinst du mich oder hat sich dein Kommentar ausversehen als Antwort unter meinem Kommentar eingeschlichen? =)
@@quogir1 was genau bedeutet das? "The statement of millennia"
@@Affenhandski your statement and the quality there of. It is simply that good 👍 appreciate
the point is there is no point
Acceptance wouldn't give me peace from my problems. It would mean knowing those problems have defeated me and I have to resign myself to being miserable and never having what I want. It's a coward's way of dealing with life.
the only real peace is the peace in the beyond the beyond where the real you eternally is..the goal of real seeker is to realize that real I .that real I isnt even aware of the manifestion..thats what a master would say..how the heck did you get 4.5 thousnad people to watch your video in 6 days?
You cannot escape Samsara into Nirvana. Samsara and Nirvana are one, not two. And you are not pure consciousness. You are just an illusory character created by pure consciousness. You may say you are pure consciousness but you can never say I am pure consciousness.
🥰🤣 it is the best
Thank you❤