why is this challenge so hard? | Not So Berry Blue #20

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  • @sampaige9468
    @sampaige9468 3 місяці тому +432

    Sims parenting aspiration hack: Teach your child/toddler to say please/thank you or sorry (under "parenting") and after each lesson, go back under "parenting" and "Encourage recent behavior" > "Encourage learning sorry/please" It's considered a discipline action!

    • @michellevanwyk
      @michellevanwyk 3 місяці тому +10

      Yes!! I came here to say the same thing!!

    • @ysharros
      @ysharros 3 місяці тому +10

      @@michellevanwyk hehe same same. Encouragement makes it so much faster than waiting for them to misbehave.

    • @CosmicHero3
      @CosmicHero3 3 місяці тому +4

      I keep saying this too, hopefully she sees it this time. Everyone like this comment above 😀

    • @vbabbe95
      @vbabbe95 3 місяці тому +6

      Yes this!! Encouraging is so much easier. They can encourage them for doing homework, washing the dishes, cleaning up, etc. Also helping them with homework levels up parenting.

  • @unapologeticallylizzy
    @unapologeticallylizzy 3 місяці тому +144

    "But he's a snuggly sleeper so it seems like he will go to sleep eventually!"
    Oh, poor, sweet, innocent, Kelsey.

  • @coffeedrinkinwoman
    @coffeedrinkinwoman 3 місяці тому +149

    If you answer the Landgraab power question with, "of course", they give you a discount on your next bill.

    • @Kyah77
      @Kyah77 3 місяці тому

      what pack dose it come from

    • @coffeedrinkinwoman
      @coffeedrinkinwoman 3 місяці тому +1

      I'm really not sure. I've been seeing it a long time though so maybe it began with Seasons. That's just a guess.

    • @genthespacewitch
      @genthespacewitch 3 місяці тому +3

      @@coffeedrinkinwoman I think it came from Eco Lifestyle pack because it gives you a lot of options to generate your own power and live off the grid.

  • @BigMamaLola1
    @BigMamaLola1 3 місяці тому +76

    Excellent episode!!! The perfect baby name for the final baby: Fin (as in final)

  • @codenamemango9701
    @codenamemango9701 3 місяці тому +61

    Kelsey pushing River to do most of the parenting to get her skill up does read, in game, as River trying really hard to balance everything herself. Hopefully Vincent sits her down soon and tells her "babe this is a team effort. You can absolutely lean on me to help take care of the kids. You're not alone."

  • @tarsha
    @tarsha 3 місяці тому +110

    Discipline includes encouraging your child. So if they clean up, do homework, journal, have good grades etc then you’ll be able to encourage them 🤍

  • @jojomunkee1675
    @jojomunkee1675 3 місяці тому +263

    Omg PLEASE have a baby with Vincent! He deserves it! 😭

    • @ninadreams127
      @ninadreams127 3 місяці тому +23

      She can have a science baby with Vincent and River together so it will genetically be his too😊

  • @shanettequao9043
    @shanettequao9043 3 місяці тому +111

    Shock of a lifetime when your relative comes and shuts off your power 😅😅

  • @laurenssss
    @laurenssss 3 місяці тому +38

    "...couch for my TWO dogs Remy and Chewie!" When my partner and I moved in together, I swear the (2nd best) highlight was combining dogs! They're best friends!

  • @sarahsmith4205
    @sarahsmith4205 3 місяці тому +54

    I love the little nods to real world things in the sims like river being premotoed to kitchens worst nightmare shes gonna be teaming up with gordon ramsay

  • @jessicaanderson958
    @jessicaanderson958 3 місяці тому +12

    As a parent of two, who works from home and my hubby works out of the house.....this is SO REALISTIC IT HURTS. 😂

  • @IM.vero09
    @IM.vero09 3 місяці тому +43

    I’m so thankful that this generation has been dragging on because I’m not ready for it to be over 😢

  • @angelinalionetta685
    @angelinalionetta685 3 місяці тому +16

    Also Kelsey I honestly appreciate that everyone was struggling with the care of the little ones + working full time. Veeerrryyy realistic, lol.

  • @angelinalionetta685
    @angelinalionetta685 3 місяці тому +14

    For the presents! I've noticed that if the christmas tree is in the corner/too close to the wall, the pile of presents don't show up under the tree. If you drag it away from the wall it should work. Alternatively, you can buy a pile of presents from build/buy and that counts too!

  • @m00n_bby_17
    @m00n_bby_17 3 місяці тому +42

    Encouraging your sim kids to do good behaviors counts as discipline. It happened when I encouraged mine to do his homework!

  • @shanettequao9043
    @shanettequao9043 3 місяці тому +30

    Iris and Bo is just so cute 😂 but this episode you could really feel the stress of being parents and trying to level up skills at the same time

  • @eriyal
    @eriyal 3 місяці тому +30

    I see that lick of paint in the background hahaha. So excited for you Kelsey now that you’ve settled in the new house! Looking forward to the transformation of the room!!

  • @erinoutred432
    @erinoutred432 3 місяці тому +27

    I am gonna b devastated when the not so berry challenge ends 😭

  • @Morgan.k
    @Morgan.k 3 місяці тому +8

    The fact that River loves metal and blares it while she’s cooking dinner cracks me up, I love it

  • @llamachai
    @llamachai 3 місяці тому +8

    I have a friend in my group like River. She's such a calm and mature adult, but her favourite bands are all metal and heavy/alternative rock. It's such a head scratcher but we wouldn't have her any other way 😂❤

  • @toniotoole3968
    @toniotoole3968 3 місяці тому +21

    The other/first Potty chair is next to the changing table

  • @unapologeticallylizzy
    @unapologeticallylizzy 3 місяці тому +7

    I still love Iris' room with the colourful walls! It's so cute! Also nice to see you settling into the new place. I can't wait to see it when it's done! I can definitely see the vision. I think it'll look really cute.

  • @toricollins4744
    @toricollins4744 3 місяці тому +1

    Man I always discover Kelsey's legacy challenges 2 years after she starts them and I always end up catching up so I can't binge watch it anymore😭

  • @siljeborgan4531
    @siljeborgan4531 3 місяці тому +13

    I would let River be a stay at home mum and work on her parenting skill and then do work when the kids are older 🥰

  • @ALBeut1ful
    @ALBeut1ful 3 місяці тому +10

    For the “discipline” part of the aspiration, you can just choose to encourage recent behavior once they’re kids doing homework or chores around the house!!

  • @tiffanyjosts9066
    @tiffanyjosts9066 3 місяці тому +13

    Lol as a parent of two, this was very accurate 😂

  • @corimorris4892
    @corimorris4892 3 місяці тому +4

    1.29am here in Australia, am I still going to watch? Yes.

  • @jenamatic
    @jenamatic 3 місяці тому +5

    Praise counts as discipline! Since your kids are too good to need a scolding haha

  • @ChanelAnice
    @ChanelAnice 3 місяці тому +1

    Next time you get that pop up asking if you’re prepared for them to shut off your power, you gotta say yes! I too learned that the hard way lol

  • @natatatt
    @natatatt 3 місяці тому +1

    Ha, enjoying the new parent chaos of this video. Seemed like a marathon to keep up with everyone's needs.

  • @b3gotten
    @b3gotten 3 місяці тому +1

    Yay! First NSB Video from your new home. Wishing you all the best with the settling in and making it all homey and ready. Really looking forward to you building your home in Sims 4 - I love your building and decorating videos. You have great story telling talent, but also a very gifted with you eye for style and I absolutely love how you have unique processes in building and decorating, inspirating your self and letting it flow as it comes - and everything comes together so nicely 100% - it's so entertaining to watch and enjoy. Thank you so much for your videos.

  • @AntiqueCoin3378
    @AntiqueCoin3378 3 місяці тому +1

    Id love to see you do the sims in bloom challenge starting with one of rivers kid's. Itd be such a cool way to tie generation's together and could have them move into the previous homes and remodel them

  • @slayerceeceegaming
    @slayerceeceegaming 3 місяці тому +2

    You can encourage behavior and it counts for the aspiration, so the kids don't have to do anything wrong to get it. When Iris is a child she can be praised for doing dishes, mopping puddles, etc.

  • @elisar3
    @elisar3 3 місяці тому +8

    "Santa Come Back" sounds like the title of the Hallmark holiday movie that is based on this episode

    • @maitesoto1953
      @maitesoto1953 3 місяці тому

      Alternatively, it could also be the title of a 1950s song that's about asking Sant to come back but it's just a thinly-veiled metaphor for asking your partner to come back

  • @brookes4148
    @brookes4148 3 місяці тому +2

    I don’t use that tree anymore because it’s so glitched. The other pre-decorated tree counts towards decorating too so I use that one and put down one of the present piles that is in buy mode.

  • @charleelakebean
    @charleelakebean 3 місяці тому +2

    Love the not so berry challenge! Such a fun series!

  • @aesthetic_magy0714
    @aesthetic_magy0714 3 місяці тому +1

    I love the fact that River’s baby boy’s name is “Bo” it’s exactly the same name of the first son of Chelsey in the 100 baby challenge ❤❤❤

  • @shanettequao9043
    @shanettequao9043 3 місяці тому +4

    Congratulations on the move again! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @isa_tet
    @isa_tet 3 місяці тому +2

    Because they are perfect angels, encouraging behavior as counts for the aspiration I believe!

  • @vielma-vielfaltigematerial7957
    @vielma-vielfaltigematerial7957 3 місяці тому +2

    my suggesting for more rainbow/multicolor themed Baby names:
    Hina: a Hawaiian goddess who is said to have used a rainbow as a bridge to travel between Earth and the moon.
    Anuenue: Hawaiian, meaning rainbow
    Kiran: means beam of light (sanskrit)
    Miku (ミク): “´means beautiful sky (japanese)
    Aurora: like Aurora Borealis (meaning Dawn)
    Yaiza: meaning beam of light or rainbow (after a place on Lanzarote)
    Noah: bc of the rainbow as a symbol
    Rocio: means "dewdrop",spanish; can figuratively indicate rainbow colors, as dewdrops often refract light into spectral colors
    Prisma: german word for prism as a baby name
    Pearl: Because pearls can have colorful iridescence
    Hira: Diamond (sanskrit) - (because of the colorful light refraction )
    Kaeo: crystal or diamond in Thai
    Dia: short for Diamond and has beautiful meanings in several languages

  • @elianaropel4470
    @elianaropel4470 3 місяці тому +1

    Only ogs remember when she did the first generation of this challenge or when Ivy was a ghost

  • @janakrstic6330
    @janakrstic6330 3 місяці тому

    Hi Kalsey, I just wanted to tell you that I am BINGE WATCHING this challenge and that I hope you continue to do it. I don’t think LilSimsie made a “Not so Berry 2” but I saw it on tumblr so I hope you do the Crystal Not So Berry after finishing this one

  • @mikellgoldsberry8651
    @mikellgoldsberry8651 3 місяці тому

    This episode is so close to home as a working parent! It’s such a balancing act all the time. 😮‍💨

  • @kaitlynabney1108
    @kaitlynabney1108 3 місяці тому

    Love the paint swatch!! It'll look great with the couch!

  • @jessiesue342
    @jessiesue342 3 місяці тому

    If you upgrade the bed, sleep goes up super quickly. Even a nap is much more energy increase. You do need handiness level 7 though I think.

  • @marteenap
    @marteenap 3 місяці тому +3

    What if their next child comes by Vincent being abducted by aliens? It could be fun they won't have biological children together but they'll keep being parents together

  • @BkhammoYou
    @BkhammoYou 3 місяці тому

    "Not quite dead yet! I'm getting better!"

  • @rmannayr2129
    @rmannayr2129 3 місяці тому +1

    YES SHE'S BACK!

  • @olliebard2444
    @olliebard2444 3 місяці тому

    i love this challenge! 💙💙 gonna miss it when it's over

  • @lyralivingstonabbott
    @lyralivingstonabbott 3 місяці тому

    Kelsey - you can encourage as well! That counts towards disciplining

  • @AttalahWilliams
    @AttalahWilliams 3 місяці тому +2

    I was waiting for the next episode

  • @YunngRozlinator13
    @YunngRozlinator13 3 місяці тому

    Can’t believe family movie night is still on the calendar from Grey gen 😂😂

  • @shushia1658
    @shushia1658 3 місяці тому +2

    Prism, is a kind of cute baby name

  • @livinnit2477
    @livinnit2477 3 місяці тому

    You know it’s a good day when Kelsey uploads ❤

  • @Reading_With_Tabs
    @Reading_With_Tabs 3 місяці тому

    It would be cool to use one of the babies as the next gen in whatever challenge you decide to do next

  • @rachelwhatley01
    @rachelwhatley01 3 місяці тому

    I have a little cat named Bo Peep and I call her Bo for short, so hearing Bo in the video is trippy 😂

  • @Dorky_Witch17
    @Dorky_Witch17 3 місяці тому

    I forgot Kelsey moved for a sec so when I started the video and she was in the new office I got jump scared 😂😅

  • @bhatley3
    @bhatley3 3 місяці тому +1

    I just wanted to point out that there's 2 pottys in the kids room lol one is tucked behind the change table

  • @laceywoods6108
    @laceywoods6108 3 місяці тому +1

    After you finish this legacy, you should do the Jellybean legacy by Zefrine! It’s so fun!

  • @myahle01
    @myahle01 3 місяці тому

    My "Ask for present" from father winter has been broken for aaaages

  • @rmannayr2129
    @rmannayr2129 3 місяці тому +1

    USE THE DRINK TO MAKE HIM SLEEP!

  • @kimberlybeaty7837
    @kimberlybeaty7837 3 місяці тому

    love the potty chair in the corner of the room being the decor potty

  • @Milotics_Melody
    @Milotics_Melody 3 місяці тому

    Yeah, toddlers interacting with Santa for a gift has been not working in The Sims for... a while. They'll do the interaction, but not get the gift, most of the time. I do think there is a mod that can help with that, (Better Father Winter by... Zafireria, I think), if you're interested.

  • @scholarhobbitz8269
    @scholarhobbitz8269 3 місяці тому

    Iris should be able to make a mess, then River can "discipline" her by calmly asking her not to or by hugging it out. :) Maybe she and Vincent can have a third baby once Iris is a child and Bo is a tod, that way it would be less chaotic.... Maybe. xD

  • @abi_killerkitty
    @abi_killerkitty 3 місяці тому

    Kelsey, the Force to Leave mod by LittleMsSam is amazing! It lets you kick sims off the lot!!! I've had this mod for years and never had a problem with it. It's actually the only mod I use now

  • @Linny02
    @Linny02 3 місяці тому

    I know this is a long time later...but I just started a scenario, and I just ran into Brytani Cho, sparkling...but she actually gave me an autograph on the first try!!! What?! I got 4 out of her in one sitting!! It's like before she gets bigger! Just thought I'd share!

  • @rmannayr2129
    @rmannayr2129 3 місяці тому +1

    HE IS A NIGHT OWL!

  • @irenetesalonika9116
    @irenetesalonika9116 3 місяці тому

    You better upgrade your bed so when Iris asleep the energy will increased faster

  • @catherine-eggallergyinmd
    @catherine-eggallergyinmd 3 місяці тому

    Love the lilac/lavender color but I totally thought a hot second my phone was acting up 😅.

  • @beccajean4418
    @beccajean4418 3 місяці тому +7

    Next baby is Rain. For rainbow.

  • @opperman818
    @opperman818 3 місяці тому +1

    Name a girl Rayne, so you have Rayne and Bo 😂

  • @Ginnyvos
    @Ginnyvos 3 місяці тому

    The rainbow bottoms are actually cloth diapers!

  • @CosmicHero3
    @CosmicHero3 3 місяці тому

    Kelsey, praise counts as discipline so you can teach to say sorry etc. then praise for it 👍

  • @xmissjm
    @xmissjm 3 місяці тому +1

    Lil sim hack - I’ve discovered that if you have your sims drink orange juice when they feel unwell it acts as a medicine!

  • @moyahardman483
    @moyahardman483 3 місяці тому

    Right now, I’m just waiting for the purple generation lol

  • @gabrielasartori5527
    @gabrielasartori5527 3 місяці тому

    Yessss i’ve been waiting for this

  • @KessaDrendel
    @KessaDrendel 3 місяці тому

    More babiesssssss!!!!!!!!! We want a meduim sized family! can you get another girl and name her Lena? Or Alya which means sky/ heavenly! Aveline means beautiful bird, Evangeline means messenger of good news, Clarabelle means bright, Iridiana means rainbow!

  • @sajimenezsaj
    @sajimenezsaj 3 місяці тому

    I started the not so berry challenge not too long ago. Im this close 👌🏼 to giving up and i’m not even dine with the first gen.
    Having 5 children was tough. Thank the Sim lord that Rose gen will become a young adult in a Sim week.

  • @emilycampbell6876
    @emilycampbell6876 3 місяці тому

    Hack: i aged up an infant and they couldnt go to sleep well but if you add a lullaby to the cot and play lullabys it helps them go to sleep so much better

  • @mecsalltheway
    @mecsalltheway 3 місяці тому

    If you say yes to the "are you prepared" for power outage, they don't shut it off and you get a bonus.

  • @koriwurangian6241
    @koriwurangian6241 3 місяці тому

    You have to click on the present pile to add more
    😊

  • @mztazzypooh08
    @mztazzypooh08 3 місяці тому

    Use the sleep replacement drink

  • @fantasyk87
    @fantasyk87 3 місяці тому

    That poor doggo was begging for a pet for the whole episode 😭

  • @michellebetman7276
    @michellebetman7276 3 місяці тому +2

    Do we get a new upload time due to your move? As an east time zone girly, I love it!

  • @sarah_thecellist
    @sarah_thecellist 3 місяці тому

    I hope you're only building your office in the Sims and not your whole house, that seems like it could be a security risk! All love

  • @Incognito_asparagus
    @Incognito_asparagus 3 місяці тому

    She forgot Bo downstairs !!!

  • @trp3645
    @trp3645 3 місяці тому

    Baby name - Tiara! It's my name and perfect for a rainbow princess

  • @ari03127
    @ari03127 3 місяці тому

    Just a tip! I know you want to make another room for the baby but the reason iris keeps waking up is because she’s a light sleeper and the baby being in her room wakes her up

  • @malleyopal
    @malleyopal 3 місяці тому

    Take advantage of the family leave!

  • @autumncortez6254
    @autumncortez6254 3 місяці тому +1

    You misspelled “affair,” which is very wholesome of you. 😋

  • @karoline853
    @karoline853 3 місяці тому

    After you finish this legacy, you should do the super sims challenge🙂

  • @ambermartinez2684
    @ambermartinez2684 3 місяці тому +1

    Ypu dont have to just discipline your children. Ypu can also encourage their behavior. For example, ypu can teach then to say sorry, then encourage learning to say sorry and it will count towards the aspiration.

  • @ambersexton517
    @ambersexton517 3 місяці тому

    It's a glitch that for whatever reason, Santa will not give gifts to toddlers. It's been a glitch for a long time.

  • @kimberleymcmillan682
    @kimberleymcmillan682 3 місяці тому

    Toddlers getting gifts from Santa is broken and has been for a while now

  • @KunoichiN3rd
    @KunoichiN3rd 3 місяці тому

    So I am a writer with a baby and a toddler, and right around 11:32 I felt SEEN.

  • @catherine-eggallergyinmd
    @catherine-eggallergyinmd 3 місяці тому

    I think if you tell them yes (to the power pop up) the lights stay on.

  • @rmannayr2129
    @rmannayr2129 3 місяці тому +1

    THIS CHALLENGE IS SO HARD!

  • @marisaleeannb
    @marisaleeannb 3 місяці тому

    ivf baby for the final baby!!!

  • @JoSharples
    @JoSharples 3 місяці тому

    Praising for recent behaviour counts as "Discipline", so you can encourage for doing homework/setting table/cleaning dishes etc once they're a child.

  • @alinabugov8622
    @alinabugov8622 3 місяці тому

    Name it Rain so it will be Rain and Bo (rainbow) :)