A Tangled Web l 20/20 l PART 1

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 236

  • @Betonmeamberlee
    @Betonmeamberlee 3 роки тому +15

    So he had sex with Kari on their first date and she said listen it’s sex we aren’t boyfriend and girlfriend but she has a key to his place within 2 weeks?!

  • @ronnydisalvo80
    @ronnydisalvo80 4 роки тому +277

    Let me guess there gonna not upload the last part like usual

    • @iTranscendx
      @iTranscendx 4 роки тому +6

      Haha right!? There are like 6 parts I think of this.

    • @donaDsejdiu793
      @donaDsejdiu793 4 роки тому +22

      I don't know why they post a story without the ending.

    • @BorderCollieMom
      @BorderCollieMom 4 роки тому +13

      Yup...missing number 6... waste of time.

    • @donaDsejdiu793
      @donaDsejdiu793 4 роки тому +13

      @@BorderCollieMom You should search for part 3 and look at the comments bellow and reply's there are all the part's in one comment.

    • @ms.mojo_risin
      @ms.mojo_risin 4 роки тому +4

      That Liz (Heynis woman) Murdered, An Innocent Gorgeous Carrie. Liz murdered Carrie the day She walked out of His apt. on her way to work. Then, for years, Liz pretended to be Carrie - Stalking the boyfriend and Carrie’s family. The Stalker-Murder Liz was finally put in prison - When three Hero Detectives Brilliantly Solved Carrie’s Murder.

  • @opalightorro375
    @opalightorro375 4 роки тому +189

    Would be nice if this was ONE video, instead of 5+segments

    • @donaDsejdiu793
      @donaDsejdiu793 4 роки тому +3

      Agreed.

    • @BorderCollieMom
      @BorderCollieMom 4 роки тому +4

      Can’t find last video...don’t waste your time.

    • @maylivang5052
      @maylivang5052 4 роки тому +3

      Don’t bother with abc. Can’t find last episode. I watched it here instead.. ua-cam.com/video/cu0uc1KZTNs/v-deo.html

    • @miacarrillo5952
      @miacarrillo5952 4 роки тому +4

      the full episode is on hulu

    • @robbierob808
      @robbierob808 4 роки тому

      it's because u need cable 2 record the show Monday-Friday in order 4 u 2 c the whole show

  • @chantapanya
    @chantapanya 4 роки тому +78

    He aged backwards. Lol. He looks younger than in the older photos.

  • @nelamukbang
    @nelamukbang 3 роки тому +34

    Be very careful of the women (or men) you date. Very careful 😬

    • @twincherry4958
      @twincherry4958 3 роки тому +1

      Well, when you see more than one person at the same time you should expect something like this. It's like a given.

    • @kayleesykes2739
      @kayleesykes2739 2 роки тому

      @@twincherry4958 no it is not. If you think this is something casual that happened to everyone you’re deeply disturbed or I think you’re keen to commit something similar. Many of my friends (girl and guy) dated around more than most and none of them were tracked down and violently assaulted. This is a given if you’re a disgusting sociopath that thinks this is normal.

  • @rebeccasmith1008
    @rebeccasmith1008 4 роки тому +32

    She was bright and Shiny?! JUST LIKE A BRAND NEW CAR!!

  • @iadesigns
    @iadesigns 4 роки тому +21

    I'm annoyed he looks way better and younger now.

  • @daniburke9452
    @daniburke9452 4 роки тому +34

    Applebee's for the first date come on dude lol

    • @gretai8057
      @gretai8057 4 роки тому +5

      Right, el cheapo###

    • @thatcoolkidchris9965
      @thatcoolkidchris9965 3 роки тому

      Or just not creative and cheap! Sheesh.

    • @DaLova81
      @DaLova81 3 роки тому +6

      I would love to spend 100-500 bucks on a first date. I'm sorry, but this is a terrible comment. We live in the real world, and unless I'm a millionaire we're doing Applebee's.
      Beats McDonald's

    • @daniburke9452
      @daniburke9452 3 роки тому +3

      @@DaLova81 applebee's is disgusting has nothing to do with price

    • @thequintessential5503
      @thequintessential5503 3 роки тому

      Way Not Red Lobster or Chili’s? Crapplebee’s sucks anyways

  • @precooked-bacon
    @precooked-bacon 3 роки тому +32

    This guy is so selfish trying to get laid. He KNEW this woman was stalking him and anyone he was involved with but he never stopped bringing other women into harms way. This dude just couldn't leave dating apps or trivial sex alone for a short period of time. so many people became victims that didn't have to be when he was the issue. I have ZERO sympathy for him.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Рік тому +1

      Uhm no. You're confused. He was SINGLE!

  • @barbietheemuslimah
    @barbietheemuslimah 4 роки тому +59

    This dude was messy

    • @stee8345
      @stee8345 3 роки тому +18

      Ikr? When they kept talking about how great him and Lizs relationship was and then the next min would talk about him sleeping with some other random woman. Like daaaaamn dude ok then

    • @precooked-bacon
      @precooked-bacon 3 роки тому +4

      Exactly

  • @Justbrowsing2023
    @Justbrowsing2023 3 роки тому +27

    Don’t understand how Dave can sit there without any culpability. He put his children’s lives in danger as well.

    • @Catsss1017
      @Catsss1017 3 роки тому

      How is any of this his fault? He just wanted to date and didn’t know he was with batshit crazy psycho.

    • @sierramcclary2897
      @sierramcclary2897 3 роки тому +8

      Y’all need to stop blaming Dave.

    • @jazzjo456
      @jazzjo456 2 роки тому +7

      Thank you. Sitting there acting bewildered as to how all this could happen to poor him. He also comes off as Impervious to what happened to Cari. Poor lady died for that when he ain't even a price

    • @MrBikboi
      @MrBikboi Рік тому +1

      ​@jazzjo456 Yeah lady I'm sure you're a dime piece LOL.

    • @stryleyung3891
      @stryleyung3891 10 місяців тому +1

      That ain’t his fault he met a crazy woman online with no intentions of anything serious but obviously she had other plans she’s was crazy king before he met her to have taking things this far

  • @synchronizedconsciousness3373
    @synchronizedconsciousness3373 4 роки тому +64

    Nothing like a first date at AppleBees.

    • @ajaselah5763
      @ajaselah5763 4 роки тому +1

      Haha 😂 I was thinking the same thing!

    • @ronnydisalvo80
      @ronnydisalvo80 4 роки тому +2

      Did we jus become BEST FRIENDS? Jk. Great COMMENT

    • @raccoonchronicles5134
      @raccoonchronicles5134 4 роки тому +2

      That's why you don't date a mechanic

    • @ninamc6116
      @ninamc6116 3 роки тому +2

      Gross. Their food is awful

    • @ninadash4652
      @ninadash4652 3 роки тому +5

      @@raccoonchronicles5134 Hell, I'll date a mechanic! I'll need his services if my car breaks down while on the way to Applebee's. 🙄🙄

  • @trawlins396
    @trawlins396 Рік тому +4

    This whole story is BANANAS!!!

  • @jordy2372
    @jordy2372 4 роки тому +23

    Has no furniture but can get a laptop and pay for internet 🤣 priorities

    • @sleepygirll
      @sleepygirll 4 роки тому +5

      Some people don’t want furniture 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @thequintessential5503
      @thequintessential5503 3 роки тому

      @Kaylee Yaylee most furniture is either dirty or too expensive

    • @sleepygirll
      @sleepygirll 3 роки тому

      @@thequintessential5503 yes and sprayed with really bad chemicals

    • @honeybunch5765
      @honeybunch5765 3 роки тому +1

      Priorities are different for us all.

    • @jordy2372
      @jordy2372 3 роки тому +1

      @@honeybunch5765 that's some weird priorities guess that's society today tho

  • @lizh4933
    @lizh4933 4 роки тому +18

    If you want to avoid these episodes, 20/20 has a podcast on this. I listened to it as I drove home from work. Didn't miss the pictures etc.

  • @BorderCollieMom
    @BorderCollieMom 4 роки тому +34

    Watched five segments, missing the last one. Don’t waste your time.

    • @jesselynnethornton6016
      @jesselynnethornton6016 4 роки тому +1

      I found the whole segment on Hulu! 😊

    • @miacarrillo5952
      @miacarrillo5952 4 роки тому

      its on hulu

    • @leela4051
      @leela4051 4 роки тому +15

      Here you go:
      Part 6: abcnews.go.com/2020/video/fresh-investigative-team-clues-cari-farver-case-files-74549121
      Part 7: abcnews.go.com/2020/video/police-suspect-liz-golyar-impersonating-cari-farver-time-74549211
      Part 8: abcnews.go.com/2020/video/strange-shooting-investigators-clue-cari-farver-case-part-74549212
      Part 9: abcnews.go.com/2020/video/police-develop-ruse-liz-golyar-admit-killing-cari-74549312
      Part 10: abcnews.go.com/2020/video/police-find-horrific-keepsake-photo-cari-farvers-killer-74549315
      Part 11: abcnews.go.com/2020/video/liz-golyar-sentenced-life-prison-murder-cari-farver-74549316

    • @sdhester76
      @sdhester76 4 роки тому +1

      @@leela4051 Thanks!

    • @camillemorales6053
      @camillemorales6053 3 роки тому +1

      @@leela4051 thanks much

  • @reignsorrow2806
    @reignsorrow2806 3 роки тому +9

    Ladies must be desperate in Iowa...
    Pt 1

  • @lotuslife8359
    @lotuslife8359 3 роки тому +11

    I’m so damn confused after watching this chopped up episode in 5 parts w no conclusion 🙄😩I’m starting over....hopefully they will upload part 6 by the time I’m done with part 5 this go round .... if U can’t tell, it’s really irritating 😠 that abc chops episodes up and doesn’t include the final 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @lala4461
      @lala4461 3 роки тому +3

      They NEVER upload the last part. It's annoying.

  • @soutano11979
    @soutano11979 3 роки тому +10

    Can any women tell me why this guy is getting all these dates he’s hardly an exciting charismatic guy? Like genuinely I’m intrigued.

    • @precooked-bacon
      @precooked-bacon 3 роки тому +4

      None of these women were 10s, honestly. He went to dating sites clearly looking for a type.

    • @FreshSpecimens
      @FreshSpecimens 3 роки тому +2

      I have heard that dating in Iowa is very difficult. He seemed nice, he’s decent looking and he has a good, secure job. 🤷‍♀️

    • @blondie9422
      @blondie9422 Рік тому +2

      He’s a mechanic. Good with his hands I guess

  • @herojeannabomb9802
    @herojeannabomb9802 3 роки тому +20

    Just watched this one on hulu and WOW!! This psychopath is a whole new level of extra crispy crazy!

  • @mrbrownroyyal
    @mrbrownroyyal 4 роки тому +36

    @4:27 "She was bright and shiny"? What was she an ornament?

  • @markmaday2853
    @markmaday2853 4 роки тому +10

    This guy must be blind too this chicks brutal

  • @lolli2943
    @lolli2943 3 роки тому +3

    i watch til the last video and then look up the rest of the story ... so i can watch and not get frustrated

  • @miajackie8041
    @miajackie8041 4 роки тому +28

    I heard entanglement I thought it was about Jayda Pinkett

  • @FreshSpecimens
    @FreshSpecimens 3 роки тому +6

    I just started reading the book. She was bonkers from day one which is not shown here. I now think Dave WAS somewhat of an oblivious moron. I was defending him a lot based on the show but based on the book...get a clue, guy. O_o

  • @vvll8748
    @vvll8748 4 роки тому +12

    Found this episode on Hulu it doesn’t cut off. Won’t be able to help rethinking new relationships after watching this 🤮

    • @precooked-bacon
      @precooked-bacon 3 роки тому

      What this man had wasn't "relationships". He was casually having sex with women and one of them changed her mind about it. As long as you're not an idiot, you'll be fine.

    • @FreshSpecimens
      @FreshSpecimens 3 роки тому +1

      @@precooked-bacon I have to disagree. If he made it crystal clear what his intentions were and the woman 100% agreed to that and then after the fact she’s like “oh, never mind” how is that HIM being an idiot? And what they had was indeed a relationship of sorts. It just was not a committed, monogamous relationship.

  • @Jem5122
    @Jem5122 2 роки тому +3

    All this... FOR A MAN????

  • @bernadettebailey5370
    @bernadettebailey5370 3 роки тому +4

    Wow! Walking alone at night and leaving your phone? SMH

  • @oldschool8432
    @oldschool8432 4 роки тому +2

    Ok ok this has me hooked

  • @ttrestle
    @ttrestle 2 роки тому +2

    He seems to not understand what the word attractive means

  • @rubyr3777
    @rubyr3777 3 роки тому +4

    Save yourself time. Here’s the link to the full 20/20 story: ua-cam.com/video/bsZynxV9LF4/v-deo.html 🙂

  • @donjuan7358
    @donjuan7358 3 роки тому +3

    It's also on Hulu (full version uncut)

  • @nofear2792
    @nofear2792 4 роки тому +6

    Hey this is where I live.

  • @adamarlem9863
    @adamarlem9863 3 роки тому +2

    Safetyminded should not walk alone, in a dark secluded area, male or female. Even a couple is not really safe. Do not place yourself in bad situations.

  • @truenorth3740
    @truenorth3740 4 роки тому +7

    And why should this be interesting?

  • @AfraBanafra
    @AfraBanafra 3 роки тому +1

    I'm sorry, can somebody help me? I came back to that first part, because I can't wrap my head around how this woman, being shot in her leg, fits into the story...

    • @FreshSpecimens
      @FreshSpecimens 3 роки тому +7

      Liz was the woman who was shot in the leg. But it turned out she did it to herself and was trying to frame another woman.

  • @God.sDaughter
    @God.sDaughter 3 роки тому +4

    Imagine if it was a woman “casually” dating multiple men.
    I bet she’d be called all sorts of names.

    • @FreshSpecimens
      @FreshSpecimens 3 роки тому

      People all over the comments section are dragging this guy so clearly you aren’t reading the comments and you just want to call him out. Which is your right.
      Go ahead and call this guy “all sorts of names” and contribute to leveling the field if you are so concerned about it. That’s the only way anything will ever change if you think about it.

  • @itsbrowndude1631
    @itsbrowndude1631 4 роки тому +20

    Lol I didn’t even know ABC News got 10 million

    • @brianhume1514
      @brianhume1514 4 роки тому +1

      Great news! I'll be interested to know when you discover all the other things.......that you didn't know.

    • @HontTV
      @HontTV 4 роки тому

      @@brianhume1514 dam bro... why you got to do him like that. Leave Br0wndude alone *crying intensifies*

  • @jennyhendrickson8477
    @jennyhendrickson8477 4 роки тому +3

    The people describing council bluffs I swear know nothing about it at all. Lol seriously

    • @lindarains
      @lindarains 4 роки тому

      Heh. I'm from there originally ... quiet? lol

  • @oulart
    @oulart 3 роки тому +1

    Don’t waste your time. The last episode has not been uploaded.......

  • @AngelicaBlack
    @AngelicaBlack 3 роки тому +1

    No ending????wth. Anyone know what happened

  • @kgb9600
    @kgb9600 4 роки тому +28

    "Small sad little single dad apartment"
    If it was a single mom they would call her strong and brave, smh.

    • @lizh4933
      @lizh4933 4 роки тому +1

      Single Dad who got divorced azz raped. Didn't even have any furniture. The ex got it all.
      If it was a single mom she would get a Government assisted apartment.
      Right on KGB!

    • @lilyt18
      @lilyt18 4 роки тому +6

      Oh boo hoo 🙄

    • @SynterraSteen
      @SynterraSteen 4 роки тому

      Society hates men now.

    • @TheseEyesSeeDarknessClearly
      @TheseEyesSeeDarknessClearly 4 роки тому +1

      @@lilyt18 Get off UA-cam and go back to posting on your onlyfans account dumbass

    • @kgb9600
      @kgb9600 4 роки тому +1

      @@heyitsangelica3285 You just proved yourself wrong dumbass.

  • @subscribefor5yeargoodluck998
    @subscribefor5yeargoodluck998 4 роки тому +9

    Uh WOW.

  • @mickiemouseHM
    @mickiemouseHM 3 роки тому +2

    Can anyone tell me the end?

    • @FreshSpecimens
      @FreshSpecimens 3 роки тому +2

      Yes. It turned out they Cari didn’t send any of those harassing texts. Liz did it and was just setting it up to appear that it was Cari. Liz murdered Cari and carried on impersonating her for years before they figured it out. She did all of this because, apparently, she wanted David to herself.

  • @bouncyshak
    @bouncyshak Рік тому +5

    The fact that Dave hopped into bed with the first woman he matched with tells you everything you need to know about that man. No wonder he missed the fact that she was crazy, he only saw women as one thing. Shame Cari had to pay the price for his ho-ing.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Рік тому +1

      Gee. You mean he acted like a SINGLE man??? Shocking!!

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Рік тому

      SHE also hopped into bed with HIM! So you can say the same about HER!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Definitely_is_me
    @Definitely_is_me 4 роки тому +4

    Ah yes abc news trying to maximize its ad revenue by splitting one segment into 5 separate videos stay on TV keep your big company's out of our UA-cam

    • @stee8345
      @stee8345 3 роки тому

      The full episodes of can always be found on ABCs website-- www.ABCnews.com under the 'shows' tab. They can be viewed a week after they're posted, otherwise within the first 7 days you have to enter your cable provider. Also, the link to full episode is always posted above in description

    • @Definitely_is_me
      @Definitely_is_me 3 роки тому

      @@stee8345 you have no content and it says you have over 190 comments on this channel alone, no average user on this does that, also you got highlighted by ABC, get your bot ass out of here

    • @stee8345
      @stee8345 3 роки тому

      @@Definitely_is_me sweet dude. thanks for your criminal investigation. maybe you'll make lieutenant someday!

  • @yolandawashington27
    @yolandawashington27 3 роки тому +2

    This just pissed me off
    I watched this all the way to part 5 and no
    Part six to tell u the
    End of the story bs

    • @als3984
      @als3984 3 роки тому

      That Chapter does a short documentary on this case, and it's not in segments, ANNNND theres an ending lol! It's pretty good watch, check it out!

  • @brendamcdonall5798
    @brendamcdonall5798 3 роки тому +2

    Can't be bothered to watch a show cut into small pieces.

    • @stee8345
      @stee8345 3 роки тому

      The full episodes of can always be found on ABCs website-- www.ABCnews.com under the 'shows' tab. They can be viewed a week after they're posted, otherwise within the first 7 days you have to enter your cable provider. Also, the link to full episode is always posted above in description

  • @erbodyluvschoc
    @erbodyluvschoc 3 роки тому +1

    Can someone tell me where I can watch all parts this is becoming ridiculous 🙄 is ABC trying to see how many people they can piss off. I'm not going to keep watching if there going to keep leaving off the ending. Go to hell 20/20

  • @qceaz11
    @qceaz11 4 роки тому +11

    That no commitment thing NEVER works when it comes to women especially if u r good at what you do in the bedroom just sayin🤷🏾‍♂️😂

    • @precooked-bacon
      @precooked-bacon 3 роки тому +3

      If he was that good why didn't he have one consistent sex buddy? don't give him that much credit..

  • @isuchyquaich8518
    @isuchyquaich8518 4 роки тому +1

    I bet 5 dollars that if carrie tattoesd he eyes brown..scumbag Dave would no longer find her extreemly attractive ....4:00

  • @allisonelsasser1959
    @allisonelsasser1959 2 роки тому

    I worked for james martin davis. wow what a case

  • @evelynmarx6212
    @evelynmarx6212 4 роки тому +5

    Dave is justt to tall and skinny probably why women go after him that is about it

  • @Sebastian-mw2hr
    @Sebastian-mw2hr 3 роки тому

    Right off the bat I’m wondering how the dispatch lady knew the perpetrator was a she? Because the victim said “they” took off. Unless that was not the original call

  • @nickiewilson6985
    @nickiewilson6985 3 роки тому

    This could of been a twenty minute show so many mistake o spelling and no ending.

  • @moniquesmith-rich8193
    @moniquesmith-rich8193 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you or this looking legit

  • @kellymoeding1695
    @kellymoeding1695 3 роки тому

    A tangled web 2020

  • @brendaleary9281
    @brendaleary9281 3 роки тому

    I need to cheat! Is Liz really the stalker?

  • @abby54
    @abby54 4 роки тому +5

    Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples: “The teachers of the law and the Pharisees sit in Moses’ seat. So you must be careful to do everything they tell you. But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach. They tie up heavy, cumbersome loads and put them on other people’s shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to lift a finger to move them.
    Everything they do is done for people to see: They make their phylacteries wide and the tassels on their garments long; they love the place of honor at banquets and the most important seats in the synagogues; they love to be greeted with respect in the marketplaces and to be called ‘Rabbi’ by others.
    “But you are not to be called ‘Rabbi,’ for you have one Teacher, and you are all brothers. And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven. Nor are you to be called instructors, for you have one Instructor, the Messiah. The greatest among you will be your servant. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted".
    (Matthew 23 NIV)
    You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything, in Heaven above or in the Earth beneath, or in the waters below. You shall not bow down to them or worship them, for I the Lord your God am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents up to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.
    "If my people who are called by my name, humble themselves and pray, AND TURN FROM THEIR WICKED WAYS, I will hear from Heaven, will forgive their sins, and will heal their land."
    And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.
    This, then, is how you should pray:
    Our Father in heaven,
    hallowed be your name,
    your kingdom come,
    your will be done,
    on earth as it is in heaven.
    Give us today our daily bread.
    And forgive us our debts,
    as we also have forgiven our debtors.
    And lead us not into temptation,
    but deliver us from the evil one.
    For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
    "Matthew 5-7 NIV Bible Gateway", we can use google search.
    These are the teachings,
    The Righteousness of our Lord Jesus Christ our God.
    REPENT, and start doing what is right.
    If you abide my teachings, you are really my disciples; then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.
    A time is coming and has now come, that the true worshipers will worship the Father in Spirit and Truth. God is Spirit, so his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and Truth; they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks.
    In the New Heaven and New Earth,
    only Righteousness dwells.
    May the Spirit of our Lord Jesus Christ our God be with you all.

    • @user-jc8py7dw7r
      @user-jc8py7dw7r 4 роки тому

      Dear god, be quiet. 🙄

    • @AbigaillOwusu
      @AbigaillOwusu 4 роки тому +1

      Repent for the kingdom of God is at hand!
      God bless you🙏🏾😊

    • @abby54
      @abby54 4 роки тому +1

      @@AbigaillOwusu
      May the Lord bless you too and your family.
      May the Spirit of our Lord Jesus Christ our God be with you.

    • @biellelling3649
      @biellelling3649 4 роки тому +1

      Amen🙏🙏🙏

  • @الراحلحفيظة
    @الراحلحفيظة 3 роки тому

    What About Dave meaby he can be a suspect !!!!

  • @Erica-fi6vm
    @Erica-fi6vm 3 роки тому +1

    Yeesh, Applebee’s for a first date... 🤮🤮🤮

  • @matte4123
    @matte4123 3 роки тому +2

    she's not hot

  • @shanatinnin339
    @shanatinnin339 3 роки тому

    Demon Liz!

  • @jennlovesbert1094
    @jennlovesbert1094 4 роки тому +1

    Awe me n my lovers first date was applebys 4yrs ago..

  • @elizabethjohnson53
    @elizabethjohnson53 2 роки тому

    To much going on. To hard to follow,so I lost interest. 🤷‍♀️

  • @kiajames7737
    @kiajames7737 3 роки тому

    Dave is super handsome