If you reframe it, trying to obtain that which we can't have, makes one more resilient to similar situations. Making it easier as part of growth and familiarity, e.g. muscle memory. So instead of framing it as "It will make me happier, or life will be easier", you can rather say it will be a stepping stone to the next big unobtainable thing. But this is less about meaningless things such as phone, but rather these bigger decisions that are milestones in your story. I see freeing yourself from this rather as neglecting your own human nature and emotions, creating artificial peace for yourself.
Okay, but consider these questions : What can't you have? Who's saying you can't have it? What is the "unattainable"? Also : ua-cam.com/video/5-sfG8BV8wU/v-deo.html
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it slips away because it is difficult to get. you wanted it just as much before it slipped away. it was always hard to get or keep.
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If you reframe it, trying to obtain that which we can't have, makes one more resilient to similar situations. Making it easier as part of growth and familiarity, e.g. muscle memory.
So instead of framing it as "It will make me happier, or life will be easier", you can rather say it will be a stepping stone to the next big unobtainable thing. But this is less about meaningless things such as phone, but rather these bigger decisions that are milestones in your story. I see freeing yourself from this rather as neglecting your own human nature and emotions, creating artificial peace for yourself.
Great perspective! Challenges do shape us, and reframing is such a powerful tool.
So that's why I've craved intimacy all those years
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Okay, but consider these questions : What can't you have? Who's saying you can't have it? What is the "unattainable"?
Also : ua-cam.com/video/5-sfG8BV8wU/v-deo.html