I'm not implying that he's not grieving for his wife, but family members said when his wife was around, and healthy, and up and about, she kept on top of his hoarding and kept it from getting out of hand, so it sounds like the hoarding tendencies were there long before his wife became ill and passed.
Agreed which means you gotta go DEEPER to actually help him. You have to find the REAL TRIGGER for his 'Hoarding' and address it if you want him to get beyond it. His wife is simply his MOURNING for her. I understand the issue with the clothing. I kept a dress that my Grandmother wore in one of her last pictures (as a teaching assistant). She passed back in the 80s, the dress is DEEP in storage but I have long been at the point where I can now get rid of it. If I come across it, that's exactly what I will do... get rid of it.
So true! I felt sadness for Eric during the opening scene. Also, My impression was how deeply he loved, Silvia who was a beautiful woman!!! When he raised his voice and suddenly his attitude changed; especially about the couch in the dumpster...that shocked me. But, grieving a loss of love IS pure pain...I know the entire transformation was difficult for Eric. I pray he’s found neutral ground for family to help him with the (large amount) of remaining items left in the attic?
No he is probably lashing out because they threw out a desinger leather chaise that is practically new and make him look like the crazy one for getting mad about it.
Of course that's what it is but it's totally inappropriate and not poor guy at all poor cleaners poor staff poor family. You can't jump on people He would need to be able to talk to them about it not yell at them repeatedly
@@iaJENKA Yeah I agree when I saw it in the junk house I thought - I would keep that and throw the other seats away and was a bit shocked myself to see it in the dumpster lol
I’ve never seen someone grieve so heavily like that. It was heart wrenching. He truly loved her and is hurting enormously. The way that they honored her was so beautiful
I’ve grieved this heavily & it was so moving to hear how much he sincerely loved his wife. You could hear the genuine vulnerability and love he still holds for her. It made me get emotional and brought up sorrow for my own losses. They were quite respectful to her memory and I thought that was so beautiful. Maybe humanity has some hope. ❤
I wanted to jump in screen and defend Dorothy! We love Dorothy! She hung in there and won him over! No surprise! She’s a professional who understands the mind of a hoarder! ❤️
I know. She didn’t deserve the verbal abuse. Even though they explained it, he didn’t seem to understand it’s a process and would be weird for a while. He never healed and never learned to be without her physically. But I think it was a breakthrough! I HOPE it was a breakthrough!
He kept her bedridden in one room during her last illness phase. He couldn't wheel her to a clean kitchen for a change of scenery? This guy is a piece of work. I think he is very self centered. A real jerk.
He kept her in bed during the last part of her illness and she couldn't even go to the kitchen! I think he was a jerk. All that money could of gone to a nurse or housecleaner. That is not love.
I loved this episode very much too, I would be destroyed if anything happened to my wife, She is my world, my universe and my everything so I really felt the pain in my heart of how much this guy was suffering and yes I must admit it did bring tears to my eyes.
I see it differently. His love was selfish. I don't doubt that he loved her, but he didn't love her enough to do,what was right for her. He knows that and that's why his grieving is so heavy.
His wife’s best friend is a gem. I bet, she asked her before passing to help take care of her husband when she’s gone. I really enjoyed this episode. It made me cry. I really hope he gets all his financial, mental and physical concerns sorted and and best of luck on his endeavours.
I think that his wife’s best friend didn’t say what she really wanted to say. Her friend died in a hoarded house that was once beautiful and her treasure.
Man. This is the first episode of hoarders that had me sobbing like a baby. You can just feel that poor mans pain. I hope he finds happiness until he meets his beautiful wife again
Huh? He borderline abused her when she was in bed by hoarding the home. It is unsafe and she couldn't be wheeled to another room. He is pathetic and selfish.
@@breezybird403 you do realize that hoarding is a mental health issue, don't you? It's not something to be mad at someone for, because to them, it is important. What Eric did wasn't right, but he wasn't trying to be malicious about it. He git the help he needed and you can tell he truly loves his wife.
@BreezyBird you're disgusting to blame him. He loved her so much and dedicated his time to her while she was sick and did everything he could. He clearly had mental problems going on to be hoarding but to say he abused her? You're sick.
When my husband's parents were killed the adult kids had to go and empty the house. His eldest sister grabbed a few clothing items that were particularly memorable and she made fabric dolls with outfits made from their things. It was a lot of work but was cherished by all five kids.
He still has years ahead of him to foster new friendships & fill his life with new memories & not stuff (yet still treasure the memory & goodness of Szilvie).
He was broken by being left behind and was slowly burying himself and trying to smother his pain. His wife would be so proud of him pushing through. I wish him the beautiful future his wife would want for him.
I cried when Dr. Zasio and Dorothy spoke one on one with him. Two amazing human beings. They're exactly who I want to help me and speak to me. So much empathy and care and understanding and respect.
I can feel for Eric. As someone who was diagnosed with Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis at the age of 8. I was able to work hard and I was a Registered Nurse for 16 years... until my body just broke down. It’s very depressing. I feel very blessed to have been able to accomplish what I did...but when that stops...it’s hard.
Hes got alot of anger and feelings in all that stuff. He hasn't grieved for his wife. Covered the hurt up with things... Love loved that they included his wife. Saying they should donate her clothes and helps others rather then just throw them away.
This is one of the most emotional & incredible episodes of hoarders ive seen..i couldnt stop crying for Erics pain & loss. What an amazing transformation, such. a beautiful home..The team is absolutely incredible, patient and understanding , the clutter was gone but they kept all the important memorable items of his & his beautiful wifes life..This episode really touched me, it made me see how amazing this team of people are and how hard but necessary it is to let go of whatever you need to and eventually the pain wont be as hurtful..Eric looked so happy & satisfied with his home..Absolutely incredible episode..loved it❤
Legit never cried watching these until now. Seeing or hearing a man mourn like that rips my heart right out! I hope he finds his passions and is able to smile and be happy again!
This was the most heartbreaking episode to date. My heart goes out to Eric. May you find peace and comfort and relief from you heartache Eric. I know Sylvia is smiling down on you and saying “Thank you Eric for finding the strength to get this done”. May you be Blessed beyond your greatest expectations.
When I look around at all of my stuff that’s not being used, I realize that someone else may enjoy it as much as I once did, and it makes it easier to donate knowing that.
It's good that Eric spoke up. Some people will let it fester, building up to the point that they give up or explode. Eric spoke up. The ones helping him listened with compassion, with understanding. It was a beautiful moment. Eric expressed his love for his wife, the others listened. So touching!
I've watched a lot of episodes but this one has to be the most heartbreaking one. I honestly cried cause I could feel all the love and pain he had in his heart. All the process was a very difficult decision, but he thought of his wife and what she would have done, that was very brave of him; I'm beyond proud. Also a very big THANK YOU to everyone who made this possible, hope the best for y'all ♡
He really loves his wife. I can totally understand how he feels. Perhaps he should go out and socialise more, not to replace her, but if one is by yourself to much for too long, your mind goes to places that either do not exists or make life look 100 times worse than it really is.
This guy really broke my heart. I could feel his pain. My Dad was the same for my Stepmother. He left the house and bought another. That house was too painful
I do not think that he should continue living alone in this house. I think that it will be better for him to sell it to a young family or relatives, sell most valuable belongings, settle his finances and move to an elderly home or community. He definitely needs somebody to take care of him, communicate more, find some new connections. He may even find a nice lady that can relate to his pain. Being alone with your memories and regrets, surrounded by all his belongings will constantly affect him and bring his spirit down.
When he said this house doesn't feel like a home to me...that told me it was time for him to sell everything, get the house in order and sell it. I think it would be best that he moves to a Living Center. where he isn't alone, but someone is there to help him if he needs help and someone is there to help him take care of himself and maybe have someone to talk to about his grief of loosing his wife.
I think this is the first and only person that I’ve seen on this show that seems like a decent human being. You can tell how much he loved his wife. I hope with the aftercare that he can deal with the loss he is suffering and flourish in his home again. He deserves it.
It was heart wrenching to hear Eric cry for his late wife, Szilvie. Are we really ever prepared to lose the love of our life? Six tons of trash is huge. Dorothy is special and made this possible for Eric. It was difficult to see but it was beautiful! Loved this episode!
I rarely ever cry when I watch these shows. But this episode had me tearing up. It's so sad what this gentleman is going through. He has a beautiful home though, sending him positive vibes from Africa🥰
Seems like when he fussed with Dorothy and told her she need to be fired from her job Dorothy spirit hadn't been the same. He should of apologize to her
Hurting people hurt others. My Mom & my brother were hoarders, and lived together. Astounding how much trash they allowed me to toss. It was literally unopened mail from 60 years, plus dime store gifts from dozens of family that she couldn’t offend them by not keeping! Only one room was off limits, my brothers’.2 years later Mom died. My brother allowed me to clean and purge his room. That night he said “ I had the best peaceful sleep of my entire life” One month after Mom he died. Gratitude for the perseverance, grace and privilege of serving others. RIP Mom & Frank.
That was so heartbreaking to hear him break down to Dorothy and Dr Robin. I hope he was able to find strength with his family’s help. I truly wish him all the best🙋🏽♀️💕
For all of the horrible videos about spineless males murdering their wives, girlfriends & children. This is a beautiful story of love. A man who truly manned up, loved his wife, took care of her when she was ill. Now, the professionals are attempting to help him. I wish that even one person would help me, like this.
I really sympathize with him, when he found his new furniture in the skip and couldn't find anything to make a meal, they went in to do the clean up but his immediate needs were neglected..let this be a lesson learned..
This is a rare episode where the owner can actually, safely, stay in the house and use the kitchen and bathroom. I think they may be soused to doing houses that are in horrible shape they forget that some clients can stay in their house and take care of themselves.
When there is a huge amount of stuff, sometimes there isn’t the luxury of sorting every single item. Good things will get thrown out. There will be days of disruption to normal life.
I get it . My young adult daughter passed close to 7 years ago. I gave most of her stuff away . Some of her special belongings to her older sister . Her ashes sit in my room with an array of her favorite things. And life goes on...
Your daughter isn’t in her things. She’s in your heart and memories. You shouldn’t feel like you’re throwing her away, you’re just throwing away stuff. Good luck!
I still have a lot of my parents things and I can’t just let go of most of them. Mainly clothes. My aunts suggest donating them but I just can’t…I feel selfish for not helping those in need but it breaks my heart…
I love that they surrounded the house with Sylvie and turned the house back into a home! You can see how much he loved his wife, I hope one day I find someone who can love me like that!! 💖💖
I know this was difficult to do, but what a lovely home. I feel like Szilvie can rest in peace knowing Eric can really enjoy his home and doesn't have the burden of all the clutter taking over his life. Great job from all the caring helpers, it must feel so good to help others in this way.
Because of that too, he felt the lost of his wife even more. Because now that his wife is gone, he can see how he is all over the place without her, how miserable he is without her.
@@standingfortruth4043 yes you are absolutely right , I was thinking maybe she became so much more sick, it might trigger him to want to change for his wife's sake. I realize now it is not enough since I also live with someone with mental health issues.
Yes he has issues before he lost his wife She was keeping control over him I think this was not addressed but the truth is It is a mental issue Losing someone just makes it much worse
When he started talking about how empty his house is, his HEART is bc szilvie is gone, he broke down and my heart broke for him. When he cried i heard myself saying, "it's alright, baby". I lost the love of my life early on, and I still miss him sometimes. It's been 40 years. May God richly bless Eric and give him peace. 😇🥰🙏🤗
Good bless you Dorothy and Dr Zasio! Take a reaming out like that when you’re trying to help someone see the end goal of having a less cluttered life. I watch these programs prior to house work and spring cleaning. Such a motivator!
I was in tears watching this. He seems to be such a nice gentleman. I hope he can shop from his attic instead of purchasing anything else. I pray he can find happiness without her. Prayers and strength to him 😊♥️🙏
This is the first time watching one of these that I have cried and felt this man’s pain. I also saw a raw and ‘real’ side to Dorothy which was beautiful to see. Wonderful episode
What a gorgeous couple. This wonderful man has touched my heart. Heartbreaking trauma he's gone through. God bless you Eric!! Your beautiful wife would want this for you. God bless you. Find peace in your love Sir.
I think Eric seemed more clued in to how his hoarding effects him on an intuitive level. So i was surprised when the hosts didn't ask him what they should set aside before throwing away. Seems he would have been more realistic than some severe hoarders who shouldn't be given a choice to rummage through obvious trash. Example in case was woman who had a plan for a rock.
He should write a book about his love story with his wife and the process of grieving to move on without her. It could be very empowering for him and others.
Much respect from Canada to all organizers, crew, filming crew, psychologist. You have tried to save so many in over 18 years. This Sylvie says thank you
I watch Hoarders to inspire me to clean...LOL My "hoard" is NOWHERE NEAR anything on Hoarders, but watching is what keeps me from letting any of my rooms get that bad! Thanks, @Hoarders 😂
What a wonderful man, you can tell he truly loved his beautiful wife! The team did an excellent job of bringing out the diamond from the rough of his hoard and made his home look spectacular!!! I am sure his wife is looking down from heaven and smiling! May she Rest In Peace and I hope he gets many more happy years in the beautiful home they created together!!!! Cheers
What a beautiful man with such love for his late wife. I'm sure with help now he can honour her memory with keeping the house and gardens in a good state. It must be hard but hopefully easier to do the things he really values in his life now. God bless him.
Literally every episode. Threw stuff away, hoarder says I did this to trust you guys and to see what you’re throwing out, oh we thought it was just going away. Every. Single. Episode.
They often have a whole house full of stuff. Things are going to be uncovered and sorted incorrectly. Its not really a formula; theres a lot happening and mistakes happen. The editors just highlight various breakdowns to show how attached people are to their stuff.
@@ajgentry7474 They just need to literally not put anything into the dumpster until the client gives the okay. Even if they put the rubbish on a tarp first, it's better than putting it in the bin and making the client get up in arms.
This has been my favorite episode ever. This man is heartbroken and watching him heal a little at a time was beautiful. I wish him all the best. He is funny, kind a d smart. I hope he finds happiness again.
If you listen closely, I think he started hoarding when she was very sick. I think he knew I was going to lose her... coping mechanism that transformed in form that he wanted to physically fill up the home.
Actually he hoarded before she died. That is what the wife was worried about when she became Ill. She could not keep it at bay. It escalated after she died.
@@danlemaire2723 I think generally he probably is a kind and gentle soul but the declutter made him extremely anxious and when that happened it triggered a temper tantrum or two. On top of that family members made some silly decisions. How could she think if the chair was tossed on a skip it would be sent anywhere other than the Tip.
Eric touched my heart, he is so sweet of the love he has for his wife who passed. I totally understand his hoarding condition. I have a hoarding condition too, except I stack a lot of it in tubs and large bags. I have way too many clothes, jewellery, bags, shoes, makeup, nail polish, etc, etc...I’m definitely holding onto to emotional stuff I’ve been through. Feeling unloved in past relationships was one main reason for me, my things I have bought makes me feel valuable and loved - something no man gave me, only broken marriages. But I want to start being a minimalist, I’m not getting younger, only older and realising I don’t need clutter anymore. This Hoarder show is really opening my eyes as to what’s important in life - Family and a breathing house is what’s important, I need these positive changes
This id probably the first time i've really and truly cried during one of these shows...i lost my husband almost 7 years ago, and although i don't have hoarding tendencies, i could feel his pain like it was my own. I do still have a good amount of my husband's belongings but i have the room for them without my house suffering because of it. I just wanted to hug Eric so tightly and let him know i know that pain, too, but having stuff won't replace his wife. Poor guy... i hope he's doing better now.
I think he was in pain. Like they said, he tried to replace the emptiness of losing her. It wasn't that he was making anyone responsible for what he did, he's the one who contacted them. But oh yeah, I would of been upset if my couch that cost a lot of money was thrown out!
I can't believe all the people on here making excuses for him. Glad you see that his ego is #1 to him. Hoarding is pure selfishness. All hoarders are ungrateful entitled beings who treat others like dogs. I've gone through a lot more than this guy and yet I don't abuse people, and aren't rude like him.
@@amberbest6942 everyone is different and handles their situations in their own way, thought it’s not always good. He has a hard time expressing his emotions in the right way and can come across as rude. None of us know him personally, and we certainly can’t judge a person based off a 20 minute episode. Personally, I think your comment comes off as rude you egotistical donut.
@@amberbest6942 Yeah he was a d*ck and probably used to disrespecting women. He immediately backed down when his brother told him to get a grip. He reminds me of people I deal with daily in customer service.
I really felt for this guy Eric, He was in love and still in love the same as I am with my wife, It would kill me if I lost my wife and I too would be lost without her but I do believe I would of gone the opposite way, I would be cleaning up too often. This episode really hit me emotionally really hard.
What made me cry was to hear the need man crying over his loss of his wife..the pain..the deep deep pain. Hope everything will be good for the man and the family🙌🏻🌹
I grow increasingly concerned at the incompetence and ignorance of the "professionals." Eric's anger and distrust were completely reasonable and valid. He wasn't salvaging an old margarine container or useless part of a lawn mower, like some hoarders. Who throws out a pristine leather couch?! I'd be angry too. It's unbelievable how gaslight-y they were with him, casting completely normal things as "fragile," "mentally ill," and "problematic." Eric had insight, humility, self awareness, and he had an accurate understanding of what he needed help with. Sometimes the professionals MAKE people crazy, telling them they're mentally ill when they are really just mentally injured, as anyone might be suffering the loss of a loved one and having some embarrassing habits exposed! It's frightening to think that people whose job it is to help actually hurt with expert brain washing on people already in a vulnerable condition. Why is everyone talking to him like he's a silly child? He's clearly intelligent and motivated. I'm impressed with his patience at being so egregiously disrespected and patronized. I truly hope he gets better support to continue moving forward.
Exactly! He’s elderly and disabled, likely has to be careful about money. A thousand dollar couch can’t just be tossed like that! My dad has been hoarding for decades but finally quit working and is now chipping away at his stuff. It’s a fortune!! Every little thing, even rusty junky looking things have great value on eBay and Craigslist ranging from the hundreds to thousands. Decluttering is about selling what has value, not just trashing it. My dad and any hoarder would go absolutely nuts if their stuff was handled like this.
I agree too. "Trash" is broken, damaged, useless or unsanitary. Furniture in good condition might be surplus to requirements, but throwing it away when it should be donated or sold is unjustifiable. I'm fully with Eric on this one, and I felt the professionals, *particularly* Dorothy, were patronising a-holes.
none of the workers threw out the couch though it was his wifes sister that told them to throw out the couch because she didnt understand the rules for whatever reason. she mentioned how she was going to auction it out without even asking eric. so they didn't do anything wrong it was just the sister in law
@@MercedesSena-d9k They did do something wrong by not enforcing the established rules consistently. If they allowed the sister-in-law to do anything with the couch without asking him, they're also responsible.
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Trash I commented way before u posted this what kind of people edit this smh ahahahahhahs fools roblox
I’m so crazzzyyy
Love the vid btw keep up the good work
Dorothy is a gem. Putting up with Eric telling her she needs to resign. She is made of strong stuff. Good on her for all she does.
Agreed 100%. I would have left him in the dust
The way he treated Dorothy…😡😡😡
He’s a misogynistic a$$.
He upended his own life . His wife died in a hoard .
@@taahism It's not misogyny. It's mental illness. Women have treated Dorothy awful as well.
@@Lanch15 This is working with mentally ill people. If she left every single one of the hoarders who got angry at her, she'd never finish a job.
Wow his wife was absolutely gorgeous, like she looked radiant.
The love they shared and her generous, beautiful spirit really shines through . . .and lives on in his memories.
Yes, she was gorgeous
Soo radiant. She reminds me of Princess Diana💕
Sooo pretty
A wife glows when she's truly loved by her husband ❤️
Dorothy has a HUGE heart. I've never seen her cry on the show but this one got to us all.
They r a beautiful couple. God bless them😇
I think there was only one other episode that I’ve ever seen her cry.
I’ve seen her cry in plenty of episodes!
she has compassion that is a gift
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I donated my 20 year old daughters clothes to a woman’s shelter and though it was bittersweet, I know she was saying good job Mom!
That must have been so hard. I think you’re really brave💓
What a wonderful thing i am sure the ladies there were grateful for things newer and in their styl e to wear
I cant imagine having to make that decision, but i do think she would be really proud of your decision
Praying for you💖💖💖
Enormous hugs to you
I'm not implying that he's not grieving for his wife, but family members said when his wife was around, and healthy, and up and about, she kept on top of his hoarding and kept it from getting out of hand, so it sounds like the hoarding tendencies were there long before his wife became ill and passed.
Agreed which means you gotta go DEEPER to actually help him. You have to find the REAL TRIGGER for his 'Hoarding' and address it if you want him to get beyond it. His wife is simply his MOURNING for her. I understand the issue with the clothing. I kept a dress that my Grandmother wore in one of her last pictures (as a teaching assistant). She passed back in the 80s, the dress is DEEP in storage but I have long been at the point where I can now get rid of it. If I come across it, that's exactly what I will do... get rid of it.
Its his way to cope. It amplifies with stress.
@@plantedbasedman9845 I agree. They made it sound that buying was a way to distract him from his scoliosis-related pain.
@Amyra Batya the hoarding tendencies were there for years. Szilvie kept it intact until she was too sick and unable to
Keep it under control.
They probably I only intensified as her health deteriorated. He said he hated himself.
Poor guy. He's lashing out at the cleaners because he's got so much pent up anger and emotions.
You absolutely right agreeing with you from Baton Rouge Louisiana 2021 he need all of our prayers
So true! I felt sadness for Eric during the opening scene. Also, My impression was how deeply he loved, Silvia who was a beautiful woman!!!
When he raised his voice and suddenly his attitude changed; especially about the couch in the dumpster...that shocked me.
But, grieving a loss of love IS pure pain...I know the entire transformation was difficult for Eric.
I pray he’s found neutral ground for family to help him with the (large amount) of remaining items left in the attic?
No he is probably lashing out because they threw out a desinger leather chaise that is practically new and make him look like the crazy one for getting mad about it.
Of course that's what it is but it's totally inappropriate and not poor guy at all poor cleaners poor staff poor family. You can't jump on people He would need to be able to talk to them about it not yell at them repeatedly
@@iaJENKA Yeah I agree when I saw it in the junk house I thought - I would keep that and throw the other seats away and was a bit shocked myself to see it in the dumpster lol
Beautiful episode. Having said that, his dog lying flat on the floor with people coming and going was hilarious.
Ikr 😊.... he was en entire mood! 😂
All in the way 😄
Literally just looked up as this was playing on the tv and a guy walked over the dog lol
The dog also cracked me up...totally unconcerned...just chilin'.
Time stamp?
I’ve never seen someone grieve so heavily like that. It was heart wrenching. He truly loved her and is hurting enormously. The way that they honored her was so beautiful
It’s so heartbreaking….
I’ve grieved this heavily & it was so moving to hear how much he sincerely loved his wife. You could hear the genuine vulnerability and love he still holds for her. It made me get emotional and brought up sorrow for my own losses. They were quite respectful to her memory and I thought that was so beautiful. Maybe humanity has some hope. ❤
He was a jerk. How does he know Dorothy hasn't lost someone? He doesn't. Grief doesn't give you a right to abuse someone.
I wanted to jump in screen and defend Dorothy! We love Dorothy!
She hung in there and won him over! No surprise! She’s a professional who understands the mind of a hoarder! ❤️
I know. She didn’t deserve the verbal abuse. Even though they explained it, he didn’t seem to understand it’s a process and would be weird for a while. He never healed and never learned to be without her physically. But I think it was a breakthrough! I HOPE it was a breakthrough!
I hope he apologized profusely to her.
I was in shock! These lovely people are here to help you. If you don’t want the help truly want the help then don’t call the show.
When Dorothy and Dr. Robyn went in to talk to him and he started crying over his list wife I couldn't help crying too. He loved her so much
Me too :(
Me too I’m in tears rn 🥲😭😭😭
Me too. And he made so many strong decisions.
I bawled like a baby!!!
He kept her bedridden in one room during her last illness phase. He couldn't wheel her to a clean kitchen for a change of scenery? This guy is a piece of work. I think he is very self centered. A real jerk.
For me this was a VERY special hoarders. Dorothy was so loving as were the rest of the crew. I wish a man loved me as much as he loved his wife.
He kept her in bed during the last part of her illness and she couldn't even go to the kitchen! I think he was a jerk. All that money could of gone to a nurse or housecleaner. That is not love.
I loved this episode very much too, I would be destroyed if anything happened to my wife, She is my world, my universe and my everything so I really felt the pain in my heart of how much this guy was suffering and yes I must admit it did bring tears to my eyes.
I see it differently. His love was selfish. I don't doubt that he loved her, but he didn't love her enough to do,what was right for her. He knows that and that's why his grieving is so heavy.
This was 2021 and she only died in 2019 so the pain and grief would have still been very raw
His wife’s best friend is a gem. I bet, she asked her before passing to help take care of her husband when she’s gone. I really enjoyed this episode. It made me cry. I really hope he gets all his financial, mental and physical concerns sorted and and best of luck on his endeavours.
I think that his wife’s best friend didn’t say what she really wanted to say. Her friend died in a hoarded house that was once beautiful and her treasure.
God I hope not, why would she ask such a thing of her good friend? Asking her to take care of a hoarder old man no thanks!
@@ragingzimexactly!!! She couldn't do it so why does she think her bff should be burdened
Man. This is the first episode of hoarders that had me sobbing like a baby. You can just feel that poor mans pain. I hope he finds happiness until he meets his beautiful wife again
Huh? He borderline abused her when she was in bed by hoarding the home. It is unsafe and she couldn't be wheeled to another room. He is pathetic and selfish.
@@breezybird403 you do realize that hoarding is a mental health issue, don't you? It's not something to be mad at someone for, because to them, it is important. What Eric did wasn't right, but he wasn't trying to be malicious about it. He git the help he needed and you can tell he truly loves his wife.
She was a lucky woman to be so loved. He just adored her. I wish I had that.
@@alexanderf.6396 Mental health can be a cause of abuse, but that doesn't mean it's not abusive
@BreezyBird you're disgusting to blame him. He loved her so much and dedicated his time to her while she was sick and did everything he could. He clearly had mental problems going on to be hoarding but to say he abused her? You're sick.
When my husband's parents were killed the adult kids had to go and empty the house.
His eldest sister grabbed a few clothing items that were particularly memorable and she made fabric dolls with outfits made from their things.
It was a lot of work but was cherished by all five kids.
She's smiling Eric you've reclaimed your home. Release your pain and celebrate your life together and memories.
Yes! He needs to forgive himself and LIVE! He has to live and enjoy life for his dear wife. It's what she would want -you can tell she loved life.❤️
That's beautiful Karen 😍
@@carolannemckenzie3849 thanks
He still has years ahead of him to foster new friendships & fill his life with new memories & not stuff (yet still treasure the memory & goodness of Szilvie).
I bet his house is already well on the way to becoming exactly what it was before it was cleaned out.
He was broken by being left behind and was slowly burying himself and trying to smother his pain. His wife would be so proud of him pushing through. I wish him the beautiful future his wife would want for him.
I cried when Dr. Zasio and Dorothy spoke one on one with him. Two amazing human beings. They're exactly who I want to help me and speak to me. So much empathy and care and understanding and respect.
It broke my heart when he said crying, " I miss you Sylvie, where are you Sylvie?"
So heart breaking
So dramatic.
Yes, for some people
This is probably the most heart-wrenching episode so far.
I can feel for Eric. As someone who was diagnosed with Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis at the age of 8. I was able to work hard and I was a Registered Nurse for 16 years... until my body just broke down. It’s very depressing. I feel very blessed to have been able to accomplish what I did...but when that stops...it’s hard.
@@patriciacole8773 you really have no class to proselytize and make this something about your personal belief system. Just shameful.
I hope you're doing well and leading a happy life, dear
Hes got alot of anger and feelings in all that stuff. He hasn't grieved for his wife. Covered the hurt up with things... Love loved that they included his wife. Saying they should donate her clothes and helps others rather then just throw them away.
Dorothy is so kind and patient, I'm so grateful these people have the benefit of her expertise.
This is one of the most emotional & incredible episodes of hoarders ive seen..i couldnt stop crying for Erics pain & loss. What an amazing transformation, such. a beautiful home..The team is absolutely incredible, patient and understanding , the clutter was gone but they kept all the important memorable items of his & his beautiful wifes life..This episode really touched me, it made me see how amazing this team of people are and how hard but necessary it is to let go of whatever you need to and eventually the pain wont be as hurtful..Eric looked so happy & satisfied with his home..Absolutely incredible episode..loved it❤
Legit never cried watching these until now. Seeing or hearing a man mourn like that rips my heart right out! I hope he finds his passions and is able to smile and be happy again!
This was the most heartbreaking episode to date. My heart goes out to Eric. May you find peace and comfort and relief from you heartache Eric. I know Sylvia is smiling down on you and saying “Thank you Eric for finding the strength to get this done”. May you be Blessed beyond your greatest expectations.
When I look around at all of my stuff that’s not being used, I realize that someone else may enjoy it as much as I once did, and it makes it easier to donate knowing that.
It's good that Eric spoke up. Some people will let it fester, building up to the point that they give up or explode. Eric spoke up. The ones helping him listened with compassion, with understanding. It was a beautiful moment. Eric expressed his love for his wife, the others listened. So touching!
He shouldn't have had to speak up, brand new $1000. Lounge, someone probably had dibs on it
I like how these 20 min episodes are edited !!! Straight to the point
I have NEVER got emotional during a Hoarder episode until this one! Dorthy and Dr. Zasio are a good team!
Who is cutting the onions I’m crying so hard with him. May god be with him.
What a sweet, tender man you are. Stay kind.
@@bellagrace9812 thanks I will life is short u had to be so kind to everyone
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Your kind❤️
I feel you. I’m at 2:30 minutes in and I have a tear.
Dorothy is the sweetest person. The sparkle in her eyes while she was talking about her medi about the day
That made me so mad for her.
I need a little Dorothy breninger in my life.
I've watched a lot of episodes but this one has to be the most heartbreaking one. I honestly cried cause I could feel all the love and pain he had in his heart. All the process was a very difficult decision, but he thought of his wife and what she would have done, that was very brave of him; I'm beyond proud.
Also a very big THANK YOU to everyone who made this possible, hope the best for y'all ♡
I only hope I have a man that loves me that much one day. And what a great way to honor his wife.
A dv shelter would really be grateful because some family’s have to leave so fast they have nothing. God bless this amazing man
How blessed some people is to have someone that loves them that much !! Still having faith and hoping to have such blessing.
He really loves his wife. I can totally understand how he feels. Perhaps he should go out and socialise more, not to replace her, but if one is by yourself to much for too long, your mind goes to places that either do not exists or make life look 100 times worse than it really is.
This guy really broke my heart. I could feel his pain. My Dad was the same for my Stepmother. He left the house and bought another. That house was too painful
My sis in law did the same.
I'm so glad she was able to.
Grieving is very different for everyone
I do not think that he should continue living alone in this house. I think that it will be better for him to sell it to a young family or relatives, sell most valuable belongings, settle his finances and move to an elderly home or community. He definitely needs somebody to take care of him, communicate more, find some new connections. He may even find a nice lady that can relate to his pain. Being alone with your memories and regrets, surrounded by all his belongings will constantly affect him and bring his spirit down.
i totally agree..memories of the house with her wife would be so painful..or remarry if he wants to take care of him
I centainly agree about moving to a different house but it will be hard for him with so many memories there.
Yes.
When he said this house doesn't feel like a home to me...that told me it was time for him to sell everything, get the house in order and sell it. I think it would be best that he moves to a Living Center. where he isn't alone, but someone is there to help him if he needs help and someone is there to help him take care of himself and maybe have someone to talk to about his grief of loosing his wife.
So true!
I think this is the first and only person that I’ve seen on this show that seems like a decent human being. You can tell how much he loved his wife. I hope with the aftercare that he can deal with the loss he is suffering and flourish in his home again. He deserves it.
Man powerful to hear him being able to be vulnerable like that man takes alot of courage to do that. Really moved me!
It was heart wrenching to hear Eric cry for his late wife, Szilvie. Are we really ever prepared to lose the love of our life? Six tons of trash is huge. Dorothy is special and made this possible for Eric. It was difficult to see but it was beautiful! Loved this episode!
I rarely ever cry when I watch these shows. But this episode had me tearing up. It's so sad what this gentleman is going through. He has a beautiful home though, sending him positive vibes from Africa🥰
Seems like when he fussed with Dorothy and told her she need to be fired from her job Dorothy spirit hadn't been the same. He should of apologize to her
Yes, but I think he has a long way to go before he realizes. Everything is still about his wife, not about him and not at all about others...
I know, I hope he never spoke to his wife that way 😕
He was speaking from pain.
@@capercat9785 exactly. I think Dorothy gets that, BUT it's never an excuse to hurt somebody.
Hurting people hurt others. My Mom & my brother were hoarders, and lived together. Astounding how much trash they allowed me to toss. It was literally unopened mail from 60 years, plus dime store gifts from dozens of family that she couldn’t offend them by not keeping! Only one room was off limits, my brothers’.2 years later Mom died. My brother allowed me to clean and purge his room. That night he said “ I had the best peaceful sleep of my entire life”
One month after Mom he died. Gratitude for the perseverance, grace and privilege of serving others. RIP Mom & Frank.
That was so heartbreaking to hear him break down to Dorothy and Dr Robin. I hope he was able to find strength with his family’s help. I truly wish him all the best🙋🏽♀️💕
I felt his pain. I lost my husband 16 years ago. I still have his clothes in storage.
For all of the horrible videos about spineless males murdering their wives, girlfriends & children.
This is a beautiful story of love. A man who truly manned up, loved his wife, took care of her when she was ill. Now, the professionals are attempting to help him.
I wish that even one person would help me, like this.
And I hope that you can get whatever help you need too. Everyone deserves a chance to better themselves.
One of the most heartfelt episodes. I cried along with him. Hope he has healing
We should all be so lucky to feel a love as deep as theirs. Bless them both.
I really sympathize with him, when he found his new furniture in the skip and couldn't find anything to make a meal, they went in to do the clean up but his immediate needs were neglected..let this be a lesson learned..
This is a rare episode where the owner can actually, safely, stay in the house and use the kitchen and bathroom. I think they may be soused to doing houses that are in horrible shape they forget that some clients can stay in their house and take care of themselves.
When there is a huge amount of stuff, sometimes there isn’t the luxury of sorting every single item. Good things will get thrown out. There will be days of disruption to normal life.
It is so hard to give up things. I have all my daughter's possessions still. It's like giving her away.
I get it . My young adult daughter passed close to 7 years ago. I gave most of her stuff away . Some of her special belongings to her older sister . Her ashes sit in my room with an array of her favorite things. And life goes on...
Helen Burns so sorry, I hope you get some comfort that you have another daughter. I don't.
Your daughter isn’t in her things. She’s in your heart and memories.
You shouldn’t feel like you’re throwing her away, you’re just throwing away stuff. Good luck!
@@sarcasticallyrearranged thanks. Yes but.......so many buts.
I still have a lot of my parents things and I can’t just let go of most of them. Mainly clothes. My aunts suggest donating them but I just can’t…I feel selfish for not helping those in need but it breaks my heart…
This is most emotional episode I have seen yet, My heart goes out to Eric.
I love that they surrounded the house with Sylvie and turned the house back into a home! You can see how much he loved his wife, I hope one day I find someone who can love me like that!! 💖💖
First hoarders I’ve seen where I felt so bad for the hoarder. Eric is so empty and lonely inside. I pray that he’ll heal in time
I know this was difficult to do, but what a lovely home. I feel like Szilvie can rest in peace knowing Eric can really enjoy his home and doesn't have the burden of all the clutter taking over his life. Great job from all the caring helpers, it must feel so good to help others in this way.
This was the most heart touching episode...EVER. I'm bawling.
I am so very, very sad for his loss.
I wish him peace.♡
He was hoarding even when she was alive and moving! When she was confined in the bed, he still didn't change his ways!
Because of that too, he felt the lost of his wife even more. Because now that his wife is gone, he can see how he is all over the place without her, how miserable he is without her.
Because this is mental addiction, their way to cope with problems. Like alcoholics do drinking hoarders hoard..
@@standingfortruth4043 yes you are absolutely right , I was thinking maybe she became so much more sick, it might trigger him to want to change for his wife's sake.
I realize now it is not enough since I also live with someone with mental health issues.
Yes he has issues before he lost his wife She was keeping control over him I think this was not addressed but the truth is It is a mental issue Losing someone just makes it much worse
This episode got me right in the feels. Grief is so hard to endure. Hugs to Eric ❤️
When he started talking about how empty his house is, his HEART is bc szilvie is gone, he broke down and my heart broke for him. When he cried i heard myself saying, "it's alright, baby". I lost the love of my life early on, and I still miss him sometimes. It's been 40 years. May God richly bless Eric and give him peace. 😇🥰🙏🤗
This is the most heartbreaking show I’ve seen on Hoarders. The doctor and organizer did so great.
Good bless you Dorothy and Dr Zasio! Take a reaming out like that when you’re trying to help someone see the end goal of having a less cluttered life.
I watch these programs prior to house work and spring cleaning. Such a motivator!
My heart goes out to him it's the first time I've cried watching hoarders ... the workers were sooo kind and caring 🤗❤
I was in tears watching this. He seems to be such a nice gentleman. I hope he can shop from his attic instead of purchasing anything else. I pray he can find happiness without her. Prayers and strength to him 😊♥️🙏
This is the first time watching one of these that I have cried and felt this man’s pain. I also saw a raw and ‘real’ side to Dorothy which was beautiful to see. Wonderful episode
This was such a heartbreaking episode. I’m glad y’all were able to help him out, even just a little.
What a gorgeous couple. This wonderful man has touched my heart. Heartbreaking trauma he's gone through. God bless you Eric!! Your beautiful wife would want this for you. God bless you. Find peace in your love Sir.
I think Eric seemed more clued in to how his hoarding effects him on an intuitive level. So i was surprised when the hosts didn't ask him what they should set aside before throwing away. Seems he would have been more realistic than some severe hoarders who shouldn't be given a choice to rummage through obvious trash. Example in case was woman who had a plan for a rock.
This episode was so touching. One can really feel his pain and it is heartbreaking. I hope he finds happiness and peace.
He sounds exactly like Sam Elliott. Such a soothing, kind voice.
He should write a book about his love story with his wife and the process of grieving to move on without her. It could be very empowering for him and others.
Eric you had every right to go mad about that beautiful sofa so glad you rescued it good on you your home is your castle
Wow how you manoeuvred through his emotional needs is a testimony to your professional outfit!!! Well done!!!
Much respect from Canada to all organizers, crew, filming crew, psychologist. You have tried to save so many in over 18 years. This Sylvie says thank you
I watch Hoarders to inspire me to clean...LOL My "hoard" is NOWHERE NEAR anything on Hoarders, but watching is what keeps me from letting any of my rooms get that bad! Thanks, @Hoarders 😂
Me too!!!!
What a wonderful man, you can tell he truly loved his beautiful wife! The team did an excellent job of bringing out the diamond from the rough of his hoard and made his home look spectacular!!! I am sure his wife is looking down from heaven and smiling! May she Rest In Peace and I hope he gets many more happy years in the beautiful home they created together!!!!
Cheers
Wonderful man? His wife DIED in that hoard. He's a bully and a brute.
What a beautiful man with such love for his late wife. I'm sure with help now he can honour her memory with keeping the house and gardens in a good state. It must be hard but hopefully easier to do the things he really values in his life now. God bless him.
Literally every episode. Threw stuff away, hoarder says I did this to trust you guys and to see what you’re throwing out, oh we thought it was just going away. Every. Single. Episode.
I was just going to comment on the same thing. I like the show, but it is too formulaic.
They often have a whole house full of stuff. Things are going to be uncovered and sorted incorrectly. Its not really a formula; theres a lot happening and mistakes happen. The editors just highlight various breakdowns to show how attached people are to their stuff.
It's pretty irresponsible of them. It makes me wonder if they do it on purpose for tv.
@@ajgentry7474 They just need to literally not put anything into the dumpster until the client gives the okay. Even if they put the rubbish on a tarp first, it's better than putting it in the bin and making the client get up in arms.
@@mareebrown2163 The mental illness of hoarding is formulaic and highly ritualized. Not sure what you expect.
Brought me to tears. I hope this one step helps him come to terms with this new part of his life and is the catalyst to healing and wholeness.
His wife was just beautiful. Poor man was grieving so hard hence why he lashed out.
His wife was and still is beautiful, even if she is gone she sounds like a beautiful soul
This has been my favorite episode ever. This man is heartbroken and watching him heal a little at a time was beautiful. I wish him all the best. He is funny, kind a d smart. I hope he finds happiness again.
this actually isn't the full episode..
If you listen closely, I think he started hoarding when she was very sick. I think he knew I was going to lose her... coping mechanism that transformed in form that he wanted to physically fill up the home.
Actually he hoarded before she died. That is what the wife was worried about when she became Ill. She could not keep it at bay. It escalated after she died.
I do not even know this man and I am so proud of him.
my heart broke for this kind, deeply-caring man.
No offense but he wasn't kind
@@danlemaire2723 no offense, but i 100% don't care what you think
😔😔😔💝💝💝
@@danlemaire2723 I think generally he probably is a kind and gentle soul but the declutter made him extremely anxious and when that happened it triggered a temper tantrum or two. On top of that family members made some silly decisions. How could she think if the chair was tossed on a skip it would be sent anywhere other than the Tip.
Eric touched my heart, he is so sweet of the love he has for his wife who passed. I totally understand his hoarding condition. I have a hoarding condition too, except I stack a lot of it in tubs and large bags. I have way too many clothes, jewellery, bags, shoes, makeup, nail polish, etc, etc...I’m definitely holding onto to emotional stuff I’ve been through. Feeling unloved in past relationships was one main reason for me, my things I have bought makes me feel valuable and loved - something no man gave me, only broken marriages. But I want to start being a minimalist, I’m not getting younger, only older and realising I don’t need clutter anymore. This Hoarder show is really opening my eyes as to what’s important in life - Family and a breathing house is what’s important, I need these positive changes
This id probably the first time i've really and truly cried during one of these shows...i lost my husband almost 7 years ago, and although i don't have hoarding tendencies, i could feel his pain like it was my own. I do still have a good amount of my husband's belongings but i have the room for them without my house suffering because of it. I just wanted to hug Eric so tightly and let him know i know that pain, too, but having stuff won't replace his wife. Poor guy... i hope he's doing better now.
When someone refuses to accept the consequences of their actions, they tend to blame others rather than themselves
yep, the ego always has to have a scapegoat
I think he was in pain. Like they said, he tried to replace the emptiness of losing her. It wasn't that he was making anyone responsible for what he did, he's the one who contacted them. But oh yeah, I would of been upset if my couch that cost a lot of money was thrown out!
I can't believe all the people on here making excuses for him. Glad you see that his ego is #1 to him. Hoarding is pure selfishness. All hoarders are ungrateful entitled beings who treat others like dogs. I've gone through a lot more than this guy and yet I don't abuse people, and aren't rude like him.
@@amberbest6942 everyone is different and handles their situations in their own way, thought it’s not always good. He has a hard time expressing his emotions in the right way and can come across as rude. None of us know him personally, and we certainly can’t judge a person based off a 20 minute episode. Personally, I think your comment comes off as rude you egotistical donut.
@@amberbest6942 Yeah he was a d*ck and probably used to disrespecting women. He immediately backed down when his brother told him to get a grip. He reminds me of people I deal with daily in customer service.
I really felt for this guy Eric, He was in love and still in love the same as I am with my wife, It would kill me if I lost my wife and I too would be lost without her but I do believe I would of gone the opposite way, I would be cleaning up too often. This episode really hit me emotionally really hard.
This is by far the most heartbreaking episode I’ve ever seen. It made me burst into tears with how sad he is
I would love to see a "where are they now?" episode on this gentleman. Praying that he would get healed...😪😔🙏🖤❤
He boarded up up the house again months after this.
I really love the casts of Hoarders. They are strong, passionate, and caring.
It's been a long time since I ugly cried during a Hoarders show. His pain was palpable.
Poor guy. I hope he gets a really good grief counsellor to help him through what's going to be a really tough journey for him.
I lost my husband in 2019.. grief lasts.. it's hard still
Bless you. It's still very early in your grief, praying for you
💜
This has to be the most heart wrenching episode Iv watched. Cried multiple times. You are a great man Eric. I wish you peace
What made me cry was to hear the need man crying over his loss of his wife..the pain..the deep deep pain. Hope everything will be good for the man and the family🙌🏻🌹
I hope from the bottom of my heart Eric is doing well. What a heartbreaking story.
I cried so hard. If only I could ever find someone who loved me as much. What a wonderful man. 💓
I grow increasingly concerned at the incompetence and ignorance of the "professionals." Eric's anger and distrust were completely reasonable and valid. He wasn't salvaging an old margarine container or useless part of a lawn mower, like some hoarders. Who throws out a pristine leather couch?! I'd be angry too.
It's unbelievable how gaslight-y they were with him, casting completely normal things as "fragile," "mentally ill," and "problematic." Eric had insight, humility, self awareness, and he had an accurate understanding of what he needed help with.
Sometimes the professionals MAKE people crazy, telling them they're mentally ill when they are really just mentally injured, as anyone might be suffering the loss of a loved one and having some embarrassing habits exposed!
It's frightening to think that people whose job it is to help actually hurt with expert brain washing on people already in a vulnerable condition.
Why is everyone talking to him like he's a silly child? He's clearly intelligent and motivated. I'm impressed with his patience at being so egregiously disrespected and patronized. I truly hope he gets better support to continue moving forward.
Totally agree. He was willing to do it but they had no idea what they were treating as trash. How many other people do they do this to?
Exactly! He’s elderly and disabled, likely has to be careful about money. A thousand dollar couch can’t just be tossed like that! My dad has been hoarding for decades but finally quit working and is now chipping away at his stuff. It’s a fortune!! Every little thing, even rusty junky looking things have great value on eBay and Craigslist ranging from the hundreds to thousands. Decluttering is about selling what has value, not just trashing it. My dad and any hoarder would go absolutely nuts if their stuff was handled like this.
I agree too. "Trash" is broken, damaged, useless or unsanitary. Furniture in good condition might be surplus to requirements, but throwing it away when it should be donated or sold is unjustifiable. I'm fully with Eric on this one, and I felt the professionals, *particularly* Dorothy, were patronising a-holes.
none of the workers threw out the couch though it was his wifes sister that told them to throw out the couch because she didnt understand the rules for whatever reason. she mentioned how she was going to auction it out without even asking eric. so they didn't do anything wrong it was just the sister in law
@@MercedesSena-d9k They did do something wrong by not enforcing the established rules consistently. If they allowed the sister-in-law to do anything with the couch without asking him, they're also responsible.
The decorators, interior designers did a great job.