Every Indians Worst Decision Explained

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 125

  • @mayoo2000
    @mayoo2000 3 місяці тому +28

    Immaturity people may say he is talking like a boomer.
    But, he is correct. Anyone in reality can connect with him.❤

  • @atamalipriya6013
    @atamalipriya6013 3 місяці тому +61

    Conducting Indian weddings in a luxurious manner is a criminal waste. It is a vulgar display of their wealth.

    • @santos8146
      @santos8146 3 місяці тому

      Yes, Indian Government should make those things hard just like RBI now recommending everyone to invest in mutual funds through adverts. Tax them who’s spending on weddings. Cancel those loans.

    • @sriram4019
      @sriram4019 3 місяці тому +1

      It is a vulgar display of their wealth which they dont own. most do it in debt

  • @code3697
    @code3697 3 місяці тому +24

    100 percent true. Nowadays groom and bride don't take any responsibilities other than photo shoot. So absolutely no memories for groom and bride.

  • @mashaallaha8067
    @mashaallaha8067 16 днів тому +2

    Your speech seems to be so matured, learning from you

  • @burningice284
    @burningice284 3 місяці тому +5

    100 percent agree with you bro. I'd rather put my love & effort on my cousin's wedding instead of attending the wedding like a third person. This would create cherishable memories

  • @divyashankar2686
    @divyashankar2686 3 місяці тому +4

    The issue with our weddiing was that we don't have a lot of relatives. The people from my dad's side never showed up and came like guests. My husband's family is amazing here. They did their best and I am certainly jealous of that kind of bond.

  • @shanthalakshmi2082
    @shanthalakshmi2082 3 місяці тому +6

    Well said..Things had changed even twenty five years ago..in Chennai...this video is atleast two decades late..yet it is relevant even today 😂❤😮😊

  • @krishnakumarmuthiyal8354
    @krishnakumarmuthiyal8354 2 місяці тому +3

    people misinterpret needs and wants, our needs are 2 meals a day, decent clothes, and a basic house, rest all other things are wants. so don't think about wants, rather think about affordability, if you can afford nothing is wrong.

  • @fbrmtheepan
    @fbrmtheepan Місяць тому +2

    Everyone is busy with life, even i cant go to every relative s wedding and do works few days before and after the function. We have committed to do our race.

  • @subramesh3678
    @subramesh3678 3 місяці тому +18

    Own shadow wont respect you if dont have money

    • @SanthoshKumar0a1
      @SanthoshKumar0a1 3 місяці тому +2

      Let me rephrase it in a simple manner. What you need and others need implies where you put your effort and money.

  • @Rajtamizhan
    @Rajtamizhan 3 місяці тому +5

    ஆரம்பத்தில் சொன்னது நல்ல தகவல்
    💯 உண்மை தகவல்கள்
    இவற்றை புரிந்து கொள்ள ஒரு பக்குவம் தேவை.

    • @Takemichi_crybaby-hh7zq
      @Takemichi_crybaby-hh7zq 3 місяці тому

      Boomer uncle 😂😂😂

    • @Rajtamizhan
      @Rajtamizhan 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Takemichi_crybaby-hh7zq போய் படிடா பரமா 💩

    • @Rajtamizhan
      @Rajtamizhan 3 місяці тому

      @@Takemichi_crybaby-hh7zq போய் படிடா பரமா

  • @SandeepSabarish
    @SandeepSabarish 3 місяці тому +7

    Bro unga financial lessons Vida life lessons thaan yenamari youngester romba romba useful la irruku

  • @krithigamanickam6667
    @krithigamanickam6667 3 місяці тому +6

    And even after spending so much they would still be fighting that bride family didn’t do according to their status and expectations.

  • @sJ-wt8yw
    @sJ-wt8yw 3 місяці тому +11

    I like how you think! I ve raised my opening on all posts relating to A.Ambani’s pre wedding! It’s funny after all the extravagant spending, it was JUST 0.1% of his net worth.. 😮

  • @rajkumarv2150
    @rajkumarv2150 3 місяці тому +9

    It's reality check broo 🎉🎉
    Also too good 👍 ❤❤❤

  • @etheranimus
    @etheranimus 3 місяці тому +3

    yes. unconditional love is very very rare these days(except by parents). kasu than ellame.
    but again this is kali yuga. what else can we expect?

  • @karthikv2257
    @karthikv2257 3 місяці тому +5

    vera leval ji... but Marriage in India on the other hand is a very big market meanwhile it helps boost our economy

  • @sarasperikavin5555
    @sarasperikavin5555 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm a Real Estate Consultant.
    It was happened before COVID. We were searching a houses for us. I saw a house owner. He told me his new house for selling. He spent upto Rs.40 L for it's construction. I refused, because of no Patta.
    Thereafter, he sold it just Rs.30 L.
    I just enquired. His neighbors said, some financial crisis.
    Finally, I got the exact reason. He having a sun. Only one boy. He arrange his marriage, very grand. He think, his sun were took responsibility for this expenses. But, he was gone with his new wife. Also, he never mind it.
    Finally, the total burden has fallen to his head.
    This is the reason, he sold his house in the less price.

    • @AskRaghulan
      @AskRaghulan  2 місяці тому

      Ambani spend .01% of his profit on a wedding
      Middle class spend their years of saving

    • @sarasperikavin5555
      @sarasperikavin5555 2 місяці тому +1

      @@AskRaghulan Money makers only know the value of money. Ambanis are one of them.
      Salaried employers are not money makers. They just making money for somebody.

  • @alvinanthony9230
    @alvinanthony9230 3 місяці тому +3

    Thanks for retrospective ❤️😊

  • @RM-gq5jv
    @RM-gq5jv 3 місяці тому +5

    the wedding industry is hugee. doesn't it help a lot of people in the industry when you spend on weddings? most people who have big wedding, can mostly afford it. if you can't afford it and you still want to do it big then there's a problem. I don't think you should judge someone for how they choose to spend their money.

  • @naveenraj8286
    @naveenraj8286 2 місяці тому +2

    Varra sondakaranga ellam vaitherichal patta yenna use irukku? Ippo panra kalyanum appitha irukku. Enga relations romba mosam

  • @gayathrijayaraman9800
    @gayathrijayaraman9800 3 місяці тому +5

    Ipo irka relatives lam kita kuda varamatranga bro. en mamiyar lam en marriage la avalo prachana panaga na upset ah dha thali katikita.worst family bro...amma appa ku jalra adikura husband...ena porutha vara better dnt get marry don't waste money.en appa 25lakh selavu panaru marriage agi 4yrs im not happy....nimadhya thaniya vazhdhutu poidalam

  • @mirunaanand5127
    @mirunaanand5127 3 місяці тому +1

    Your point on comfort and relationships are 💯 true ..holds good for all kind of relationships

  • @mohammedsardar3779
    @mohammedsardar3779 3 місяці тому +2

    Well said. You can control anything until its in your control.

  • @ka1pana
    @ka1pana 3 місяці тому +2

    One point... In the past marriages didn't take into account consent, or love, or respect protocol between the man and the woman. It was "alliance" making. Money did change hands, and lavish spending was forced by the guy's side.... that propagated and turned into an avalanche effect.. whether affordable or not, girls side started spending like crazy so that the boys side would shut up and treat their daughter with respect.. The infamous sondhakaaranga didn't contribute much to the wedding other than gossip, comparison, reverse engineer how loaded or how corrupt the girls father must be to conduct sucha wedding etc.etc. and toxicity... but ironically it didn't make any difference in the quality of life post marriage, especially for the girl.
    Now... today the kids, the couple they want to spend and splurge... and enjoy those moments, and make the marriage about themselves (which is correct in my opinion) Nothing wrong and not judging... but elders like to "tch tch" about it... oh these girls are crazy these days.. etc. When the parents spend its culture, if the kids do the same in the style it is excess... "culture" spoiling
    Whether its a diamond necklace, jewellery, car, bungalow, cash dowry demand or helicopter entry splurging the money spent is more or less the same.
    Agreed that you can use the lakhs you spend on a helicopter entry into an amazon business... I find that the new age marriage is in the discovery phase.... where it's about the man and woman marrying, more than the parents and sondhakkaranga... The moment the focus shifts from age old one-sided unfair customs, everyone starts feeling nostalgic.. New age marriages are new and evolving.. give it time to get to a better place..

  • @theerthasasidharan7268
    @theerthasasidharan7268 3 місяці тому +2

    Very true bro 👍🏻 Good content 👏🏻

  • @CosmosChill7649
    @CosmosChill7649 3 місяці тому +8

    "Men are in love. Women are in business."

  • @TimeSlipping1375
    @TimeSlipping1375 3 місяці тому +5

    nice brother, u made me remember vasegara vijay matri pesuringa, same like dialgue nice point brother.

  • @மாயராசக்குமாரன்

    Anna...iniyoda 20 vayasu aga podhu 🤭✨

  • @summy2607
    @summy2607 3 місяці тому +2

    Bro.. is telling what Prophet Muhammad ( peace be upon him) said 1400 years before.. Marriage which is conducted with lesser expenses has more blessings on it. You are right bro.. Nobody cares about the future of the pair .. only soru nu sollite innum sila Peru porango.. It's Mandatory on everyone who attends the marriage to wish with blessings and praying for them to have God to bless them.. that's what Prophet Muhammad ( peace be upon him ) told .. there is a specific dua or prayer to bless them..

  • @Globalmultibrands007
    @Globalmultibrands007 3 місяці тому +1

    Always giving practical contents .superb sir

  • @makaer1
    @makaer1 3 місяці тому +10

    ரொம்ப நாளாக என் மனதில் ஓடிக்கொண்டு இருந்தது. கடைசியாக பேசிவிட்டார் nice

  • @devishreeg4885
    @devishreeg4885 Місяць тому +1

    Hi Raghulan,
    It would be highly appreciated if you could create a awareness video about Aryan Anandan reddit confession.
    In sense how to use the skills we possess in a right path and how to tune ourselves towards a morally right direction.

  • @naveens696
    @naveens696 3 місяці тому +2

    One should marry...only if they want to marry.

  • @SanthoshKumar0a1
    @SanthoshKumar0a1 3 місяці тому +7

    Do a simple register marriage and come home.

    • @raghavsridhar
      @raghavsridhar 3 місяці тому

      Exactly brother 💯 but few people want to do show off for marriage

  • @RiskRahul007
    @RiskRahul007 3 місяці тому +3

    Bro part 2 video potukaa ( like unka marriage story or neeka eppo kalyaam pana na eppdi panuvaika )

  • @ashok-w4i
    @ashok-w4i 3 місяці тому +3

    Bro apolam kalyanam kedavetu sarayam nu sema alambala irkum bro sandailam varum semma fun ahh irkum ipolam formalities vanthu hotel mari moi vachutu saptu poite irkanuga kalayan ponnu maplaya kuda vanthu vaalyhrathum ila avingalum dance aditu cake vetranuga dancers kuda

  • @gownat
    @gownat 3 місяці тому +1

    Well done Bro👏

  • @lilaartiques3710
    @lilaartiques3710 3 місяці тому +1

    Avar soldradhula thappe illanu dhan na solluven, bcuz andha kaalathula relationship ku avlo value irundhuchu and unmaiyum irundhchu, ana ipo…Oru family la prblm na, sondha annane andha thangachi family a pirichu vitu kulir kaayira velai lam pannitrukanga..adha kolandhainga nanga paathutrukom and simply solliduvanga kids dhan un break ku kaaranam nu💔 what a generation la!

  • @jamunarani9694
    @jamunarani9694 3 місяці тому +2

    Girls mattum than parents ah vitutu varanum ellathaum izhakanum, boys ku entha restrictions um. Illa, ithu epdi nyayam so marriage concept is waste,

    • @AskRaghulan
      @AskRaghulan  3 місяці тому

      These days there are no joint family.

    • @jamunarani9694
      @jamunarani9694 3 місяці тому +1

      May be in the city there is no joint family, here in thr towns and village still there are some, atleast not like before but still there, I got affected a lot bcz of joint family still seeing many women suffering due to joint family

    • @jamunarani9694
      @jamunarani9694 3 місяці тому +1

      From ur points in the video, ithu success aaguma Or failure aaguma nu theriyama people should not spend their hard earned money in the name of grand marriage...

    • @AskRaghulan
      @AskRaghulan  3 місяці тому

      You got valid points interesting

  • @oumaramin9651
    @oumaramin9651 3 місяці тому +2

    very true

  • @jamunarani9694
    @jamunarani9694 3 місяці тому +1

    From my point of view nowadays concept of indian marriage and married life for women is utter waste, better live alone, women has to leave all such things just bcz she is married (parents, job, home etc), she has to bring lots of dowry to the husband home, only then she will get the respect, she has to earn and have to do household works, have to take care of all the people in the house, she has to give a baby, have to take care of it, she has make the kids ready for school,she has to taught and make them complete thier homework, ithuku nadula samayal seyyanum after coming from work, nadula vara relatives ah samalikanum, sunday kooda no leave for household works,pppaaahhh mudila... So girls pls live alone dont get caged in the name of marriage, marriage is a failed concept... Earn urs, give the hard earned money only to who really the reason for ur earnings(ur parents padikka vachathu yaro, namma sambathichu kudukarthu yaruko enna nyayam ithu)

  • @Rajavvs756
    @Rajavvs756 3 місяці тому +3

    20 வருடத்திற்கு முன்பு இருந்த திருமணத்திற்கும் தற்போது உள்ள திருமணத்திற்கும் உள்ள வேறுபாடு கூறிவிட்டீர்கள்..... இதிலிருந்து தாங்கள் கூற வரும் கருத்து என்ன,???
    மீண்டும் அந்த காலத்து முறையில் திருமணம் நடக்க வேண்டும் என்று கூற வருகிறீர்களா)??? இந்த வீடியோவின் மூலம் எதை செய்ய வேண்டும் என்று கூற வருகிறீர்கள்??? Suggesting any solution or simply sharing your thoughts??? Bro

    • @Takemichi_crybaby-hh7zq
      @Takemichi_crybaby-hh7zq 3 місяці тому

      Boomer punda 🤣🤣🤣

    • @AskRaghulan
      @AskRaghulan  3 місяці тому +2

      If you marrying invite relatives and do it with everyone around. You spend 2 days and let everyone work together to make the arrangements. Dont need to be grand just need all real wishes and love.

  • @sethurajan8038
    @sethurajan8038 3 місяці тому +1

    Completely agree withyou

  • @abubakersiddique7597
    @abubakersiddique7597 3 місяці тому +1

    Spending lakhs and lakhs of their marriage and expecting everyone amazed about their marriage is grand. After that they are struggling depts in longer periods. It is purely said they are idiot.

  • @mrAkmum
    @mrAkmum 3 місяці тому +1

    absolutely ... sometimes looks better do register marraige and send food vouchers 😃😃😃

  • @Rendafrank
    @Rendafrank 3 місяці тому

    Boss markets kaas poodu...nifty 50 or nifty 100..40% or more returns...pharma,banks,IT sectors
    Kalyanam oru waste...mutaal dhan kalyanam panuvangha

  • @viraltrenders5946
    @viraltrenders5946 Місяць тому

    25 lakhs ah ipdi selavu pandradhuku badhila wife kaga edhachum andha kaasa usefull ah pannivaikalam

  • @ashok-w4i
    @ashok-w4i 3 місяці тому +1

    Good content 🎉

  • @mithunmahaadevan463
    @mithunmahaadevan463 3 місяці тому +1

    awesome sir, a very practical information

  • @choco6611
    @choco6611 3 місяці тому +1

    Bro you got my respect. And I Subscribe you

  • @seethas865
    @seethas865 3 місяці тому +2

    Ida sonna othukave matengirnaga veetla. I also had spent 8 lakhs. Waste dan

  • @NagenTechTips
    @NagenTechTips 3 місяці тому

    8:00 like filming a movie 😅

  • @jamunarani9694
    @jamunarani9694 3 місяці тому

    Neenga kondu pora dowry ah vache neenga kaalam fulla nimathiya thaniya vazhnthutu saptu nimathiya irunthutu polam

  • @mangosreedhar8277
    @mangosreedhar8277 2 місяці тому +2

    Marraige is a failed institution. தேவை இல்லாத ஆணி. ஒரு வேலை பிரியாணி காக தலப்பாகட்டு franchaise எடுக்குற மாதிரி முட்டாள் தனம். As a married man for 19 yrs, இது என்னோட புரிதல். I advice my teenaged children marraige is not mandatory. இந்த பூமிக்கு தனியா வந்தோம், தனியா விட்டு போக போறோம் எதுக்கு கருமம் புடிச்ச கல்யாணம் எல்லாம். நான் செஞ்ச தப்பை வேற யாரும் செய்ய கூடாது. Tamil சினிமா glorify love & marraige, அதை பார்த்து ஏமாந்தவன் நான்.

    • @AskRaghulan
      @AskRaghulan  2 місяці тому +1

      Hmmm i felt saddened by this message. I am not against marriage, i hate the reasons which on one side women are abused on another side men are abused. Women’s issues are more vocally expressed and supported while men’s issues are made a joke.

  • @CosmosChill7649
    @CosmosChill7649 3 місяці тому +1

    Independent and / or wealthy women can NEVER stay in a marriage
    Divorce rates among independent women is almost 100%, and it is important that men realise this danger before falling into a relationship, especially marriage

  • @bairavaa4942
    @bairavaa4942 3 місяці тому +1

    Simple register marrage is always best

  • @vethamoorthy9143
    @vethamoorthy9143 3 місяці тому

    Women want a grandeur wedding for their Instagram. They don’t want a marriage.

  • @yashyashwanth5888
    @yashyashwanth5888 3 місяці тому +1

    All seriya irudhum thimiru mental problem ,selfishness irundha ippidha

  • @tracktwisterfc9384
    @tracktwisterfc9384 3 місяці тому

    Audio lang iruku

  • @Raja-tt4ll
    @Raja-tt4ll 3 місяці тому +1

    Nice

  • @srinivasannatarajan6589
    @srinivasannatarajan6589 3 місяці тому +1

    1000%

  • @S_E_L_V_A
    @S_E_L_V_A 3 місяці тому

    Bro podcast name enna?

  • @viji823
    @viji823 3 місяці тому +1

    Sir I have mailed you. Kindly revert.

    • @AskRaghulan
      @AskRaghulan  3 місяці тому

      Hi yes i have responded to you.

  • @vigneshp766
    @vigneshp766 3 місяці тому

    How much did you spend for your marriage?

    • @AskRaghulan
      @AskRaghulan  3 місяці тому +2

      I think around 1.5 lakhs

    • @vigneshp766
      @vigneshp766 3 місяці тому

      Then you have all the qualities to make this video man and Thanks for this one.

  • @NjS16
    @NjS16 3 місяці тому

    i thought you so high and you do crypto, irrelevant to video.but great disappointment.every crypto ad i ever heard was a scam or just great loss for the users.i am literally like superman in batman v superman "No One Stays Good In This World".irony between the video content and the ad.

    • @AskRaghulan
      @AskRaghulan  3 місяці тому +1

      Wtf are you talking? Virtuacoin is my project? I am promoting in my video. Is bitcoin a scam? If you got scammed you are not smart enough simple. People get scammed all the time. Virtuacoin is 5 yrs research and development. Dont talk BS without knowing anything…

    • @NjS16
      @NjS16 3 місяці тому

      BULLSHIT!
      Website doesn't even have terms and conditions,privacy policy working
      Link to github doesn't work and links in your LinkedIn connectivity hub dosn't work.
      What do you call this.
      Whole idea of making gaming to get partial income is deforming of gaming as a whole.games are supposed to be experienced like any art(music,movie).playing the game just for money is like selling the soul just for money.
      Ps:your LinkedIn page has spelling mistake for "and"

    • @AskRaghulan
      @AskRaghulan  3 місяці тому

      Project is not public yet, we are still in closed beta, we are only giving access to limited number of people. Not sure whats the big deal about it. there is no option on our app or games or site asking for payment details then where is the scam here? have you heard of esports? all other form of sports and games people win prizes all the time. not sure why you keep finding reason to whining about it. playing games is just waste of time atleast making some income in that time will make the time worth something. nothing soul touching in it, i am a gamer myself.

  • @divyapriyadarsini8977
    @divyapriyadarsini8977 3 місяці тому +43

    Konja boomer thanama iruke... Started watching expecting something else

    • @madhanmadhan4253
      @madhanmadhan4253 3 місяці тому

      Ok

    • @atamalipriya6013
      @atamalipriya6013 3 місяці тому +25

      No, it's not boomer. It's a national crime to spend and wasting food in weddings

    • @seleno_phile221
      @seleno_phile221 3 місяці тому +18

      He is speaking the truth. Spending much money on wedding become business nowadays. It's unnecessary.

    • @thinkdifferent8933
      @thinkdifferent8933 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@Artisticsigma-gw4gs
      He should reduce his expenses.... Budget should be planned low

    • @raghavsridhar
      @raghavsridhar 3 місяці тому +3

      Many Hindi youtubers are also speaking the same about lavish marriages