She's exaggerating for the bit, but you can tell Sydnee has never dated a nerd. That boy saw that thumbs up and it made his month. 'Two different types of guy' indeed
Dead on. If Syd thinks men lose interest as soon as they realize they don't have to work for it, she's never dated the kind of dork ass who spends every night crying into his pillow because girls don't want to talk to him about My Hero Academia and Dead Space 2.
Nah fr, she’s one of those friends that when your all out on a “girls night” even if you’ve been in a solid healthy relationship for years… she’ll still try and get you to talk to a guy that’s eyeing them up.
Literally the only thing to do is tell him no and move on, and if he continues, go to HR about it. This man will not drop it and lose interest if you go on a date. He will fall in love with you and probably murder you once he realizes you're toying with him.
Right. Dude’s are allowed to ask girls out. Girls are allowed to say no. People these days are so socially inept they would rather attempt to get someone fired than say no thanks.
@@RLMTreynot only that but a lot of guys are fucking crazy, and if you try and play games with them like this lady is suggesting, it can get real dark real quick. Literally just say no.
@@Treebeard1992 And regardless of whether they're actually insane or not it's just cruel to fuck with someone's emotions like that. Be firm and just say "no sorry, I'm not interested" and be done with it. Like fuck
Yeah, it's innocent enough to ask someone out, but the response should be a clear no if that's how she feels. If it's a problem, then go to HR, not some crazy scheme to psychologically manipulate the man.
Yea she's not jumping to try to get these guys fired though, and you think she as the only woman there just has to field 127 different guys asking for dates? Hell no, it's a job. Everyone should mind their work and keep it professional, and if you frequently casually have good chats and she is a little flirty, maybe maybe think about asking. But probably don't. Unless you work in retail or restaurant. This is only office etiquette.
The audacity to call these guys nerds when she has the social intelligence of a gnat. She's a need as well, but is lucky to be a woman so dating is easy for her.
What she's saying is true but doesn't apply here. Dudes that actually get some think that way - but dudes that don't are gonna cling to any opportunity to MAYBE get laid. This dude is hitting up girls on SLACK. He didn't even walk up to her in person. Mentioning boyfriend problems is just gonna give him the idea to try to play the savior assuming it'll fix everything and you'll be the perfect girlfriend after. He's not gonna be turned off he's gonna be super interested.
You’re so right, I had a friend like that in college who never had a girlfriend or had done anything with a woman before and he totally had this weird savior complex towards me about any guy I was with-do not do not take Syd’s advice towards guys like this, it likely will not go how you want
I hate that the Sydnee Washington's are the fun part of life but yeah definitely don't listen to this toxic, fun-filled, mind game master level menace.
Syd you are gonna get this girl murdered 😂, the bit was funny though. Caller just say no thank you, if he pushes it let him know you’re in a relationship. Most sane men will back off.
It’s a bit babe, the callers problem isn’t real. Just ignore people who hit on just like you do out in the world. Why is them being a coworker any different. Say no, and move on. Syd is doing a bit to make it fun from this lame question
As a 50-year-old man, I find it confusing (and a little terrifying that I'm so out of touch) that a "thumbs up" can be construed as anything other than a positive acknowledgement.
This is hilarious hahaha Sydnee's clearly never dated a nerd. He 100% read that thumbs up as a possibility and thinks the door is open. One explicit no and he will never try again.
Sydnee's advice is so insane it's hilarious. This dude is looking for a morsel of attention, and going on a fake date with him to screw with him and make her current boyfriend more interested in her is like eating a grenade.
I was waiting for some crime from the coworker but it seems his one and only crime was, "asking her to coffee sometime" and this is the advice as to what should happen to him. Christ
This lady is funny. I like her advice. It reminds me of my friend asking me what she should do about her crazy neighbor who kept coming over and bugging her with random inane shit. I told her to fight crazy with crazy. Next time that lady came over she just went off on a nonsensical tangent. The lady never came back and we had a good laugh.
Worst advice from both hosts: At most companies, simply asking someone out once isn't harassment, it's a misunderstanding (unless sexual). However, once stated verbally or in writing that you're not interested and then it continues... That's harassment. Even at work, it's not harassment if she's into you
All the people in here defending this dude asking her out for coffee via slack are hilarious. No, it's not a "me too" crime, it's just super pathetic and sad. If you don't understand why, just watch the video again and listen this time. Don't try to date the one girl in the office. Just assume she already feels pretty uncomfortable in the situation.
That’s crazy because if you don’t file a complaint with HR and you try to sue the company for sexual harassment HRR can say that you were never being sexually harassed because you didn’t report it
I do this too! It means I read your message, so a thumbs up or texting ok seems polite. What’re yall writing? I probably would’ve responded no thank you, to this situation. But a thumbs up seems appropriate too.
As a straight white dude, absolutely do not follow Sydnees advice on this, haha! We are absolutely not worth that much time or effort- like Stav said, you don’t wanna give weirdos any sign of hope AT ALL.
How is someone asking someone out an HR issue!? Tell them no and move on. If after saying no they keep pursuing, then tell HR. If you never say no, how are they supposed to know the advances are unwanted? This is the worst "problem" and the worst "advice" yet.
Lol yeah HR is there to protect the company, not the employees - unfortunately. Print it out and put it in HR's desk and say, "Im not making a complaint, but here's a chance to nip a bigger problem in the butt"
If the guys asking girls out on slack then he’s definitely not a player he’s really awkward and doesn’t know how to talk to women and doesn’t know she has a boyfriend because he is bad at socializing and doesn’t talk to people so he probably knows nothing about her he probably has never even approached her and barely knows her name
Workplace relationships aren’t worth it to start with. I don’t think that’s right either but the dude is already kinda asking for trouble even approaching. Keep it on the apps or out at bars or something like that.
I’ve never heard of Sydnee Washington, but she is stunningly beautiful, this woman is an 11, plus she seems funny as hell. She’d be a great wingwoman lol
Sydnee is talking about the top of the line guys she’s trying to snatch that don’t really want to get snatched. Most guys are just regular guys that would really like to just date a nice woman. So I do not think this guy would go about things how she described if she accepted to go out with him. Since she has a man she should just do as Stavy said and say no thank you or ignore it.
Idk man, thumbs up at work means to me its not positive or negative, its just...copy that. Its just confirming to the other person you have acknowledged them.
Hearing her tell stavvy he doesn't know what he's talking about and then come out with some ridiculous ass scheme is crazy. 😂
yeah this nerd would be ECSTATIC if she went out with him
shes one of those women that play games for sure.
He has to remind her not everyone is a NYC nigga
Black women are on another level
I’m still tryna figure out why she didn’t just say she’s in a committed relationship
She's exaggerating for the bit, but you can tell Sydnee has never dated a nerd. That boy saw that thumbs up and it made his month. 'Two different types of guy' indeed
Dead on. If Syd thinks men lose interest as soon as they realize they don't have to work for it, she's never dated the kind of dork ass who spends every night crying into his pillow because girls don't want to talk to him about My Hero Academia and Dead Space 2.
Nerds are hit and miss. Keep in mind the incel/mensright/etc far right community and nerd community has a HUGE overlap.
She’s a dumb person
@@SpiceWeazel
But my hero and dead space are cool!
Syd’s hilariously, brilliantly horrible advice.😭
“He probably doesn’t want to go out with you, you DEFINITELY don’t want to go out with him, but y’all should go on a date” 😂
Such horrible advice lol
Funny shit! 😂
@@ldgh47what could go wrong? 😂😂😂
I missed the hilarious and brilliant part
"Don't listen to Sydnee... Her life is so much worse than it should be" 😂😂😂 i fuckkng love stavvy
I've never heard such awful advice 😂
You probably don't laugh at Comedy shows either. First time here?
@@ToeKneeWarzone The laughing emoji wasn't enough clue for you to realize that I found it funny? First time on the internet?
Stav has some of the worst guests in podcast history
@@ToeKneeWarzoneas much as this is comedy, stav does actually give really good advice.
Sydnee is a god damn menace, if anything like what she was advising happened to me when I was younger I'd be a shell of a man lol😂😂😂😂😂
She's a lesbian so the bad advice makes sense haha
Nah fr, she’s one of those friends that when your all out on a “girls night” even if you’ve been in a solid healthy relationship for years… she’ll still try and get you to talk to a guy that’s eyeing them up.
Literally the only thing to do is tell him no and move on, and if he continues, go to HR about it. This man will not drop it and lose interest if you go on a date. He will fall in love with you and probably murder you once he realizes you're toying with him.
Right. Dude’s are allowed to ask girls out. Girls are allowed to say no. People these days are so socially inept they would rather attempt to get someone fired than say no thanks.
@@RLMTreynot only that but a lot of guys are fucking crazy, and if you try and play games with them like this lady is suggesting, it can get real dark real quick. Literally just say no.
@@Treebeard1992 And regardless of whether they're actually insane or not it's just cruel to fuck with someone's emotions like that. Be firm and just say "no sorry, I'm not interested" and be done with it. Like fuck
Yeah, it's innocent enough to ask someone out, but the response should be a clear no if that's how she feels. If it's a problem, then go to HR, not some crazy scheme to psychologically manipulate the man.
Yea she's not jumping to try to get these guys fired though, and you think she as the only woman there just has to field 127 different guys asking for dates? Hell no, it's a job. Everyone should mind their work and keep it professional, and if you frequently casually have good chats and she is a little flirty, maybe maybe think about asking. But probably don't.
Unless you work in retail or restaurant. This is only office etiquette.
The thousand dollar a person restaurant is actually hilarious advice
It's advice so terrible that it wraps around and sort becomes brilliant again.
“Sorry, I’m in a relationship”
End of advice.
They love the attention
The audacity to call these guys nerds when she has the social intelligence of a gnat. She's a need as well, but is lucky to be a woman so dating is easy for her.
Literally that’s it 😂 why tf would she give a thumbs up that’s probably the worst response she could’ve given to her (probably) autistic coworker.
What she's saying is true but doesn't apply here. Dudes that actually get some think that way - but dudes that don't are gonna cling to any opportunity to MAYBE get laid.
This dude is hitting up girls on SLACK. He didn't even walk up to her in person. Mentioning boyfriend problems is just gonna give him the idea to try to play the savior assuming it'll fix everything and you'll be the perfect girlfriend after. He's not gonna be turned off he's gonna be super interested.
You’re so right, I had a friend like that in college who never had a girlfriend or had done anything with a woman before and he totally had this weird savior complex towards me about any guy I was with-do not do not take Syd’s advice towards guys like this, it likely will not go how you want
Fuckin' Jamiroquai over here about to ruin this poor woman's entire life.
VIRTUAL INSANITY.
One look at that hat tells you
That is what we're living in
@dpclerks09 Damn it you beat me to it
Lmaoooo
"it'll come out in march" is CRAAAAAAAZY 💀💀💀💀💀💀
Her advice is toxic for Black men too... gtfo
I hate that the Sydnee Washington's are the fun part of life but yeah definitely don't listen to this toxic, fun-filled, mind game master level menace.
Syd you are gonna get this girl murdered 😂, the bit was funny though.
Caller just say no thank you, if he pushes it let him know you’re in a relationship. Most sane men will back off.
Sydney's advice was unhinged. Take it with the smallest molecule of salt
Take it as serious as you would any other girl trying to un-ironically pull off a Jamiroquai hat, lol.
Haha it’s the opposite of what you’re saying. She should take it with a handful of salt.
@@chinqlinq89 Nah.
@@zclark1986 so take her advice with the least bit of skepticism is what you’re saying
@@chinqlinq89 Nah.
Lmao, this chicks advice is AWFUL her outlook on life is hilarious though.
Sydnee toxic af
That girl gave the worst advise from the most twisted perspective. I guess when you're that hot, you can be detached from reality.
It’s a bit babe, the callers problem isn’t real. Just ignore people who hit on just like you do out in the world. Why is them being a coworker any different. Say no, and move on.
Syd is doing a bit to make it fun from this lame question
Honestly it's the most comedic advice I've ever heard anyone on this podcast ever tell someone
Guy’s literally would never ask out a girl they didn’t wanna date. That was some terrible advice
You’re definitely the ladder kind of guy
VIRTUAL INSANITY
This lady would probably live stream your date to the roof of a tall building and see if she can say something detrimental enough to make you jump
lol "c'mon ma" and her reaction to it was so good.
Sydnee really out here giving the most dogshit advice on every episode she's on and I'm here for it
As a 50-year-old man, I find it confusing (and a little terrifying that I'm so out of touch) that a "thumbs up" can be construed as anything other than a positive acknowledgement.
Stavvy looking like a gta character with that fit.
i could not imagine the single minded desire to get fired for sexual harassment it would take for me to hit a coworker up on the company slack
It’s true, i do love my ps5. Did you know No Mans Sky just got another update!
I got a Ps4 playing Ghost Of Tsushima but if Ghost 2 and TLOU 3 comes out I will buy a Ps5 just to play them
I'm conflicted after all that time I spent hunting down a ship I liked the look of
This is hilarious hahaha Sydnee's clearly never dated a nerd. He 100% read that thumbs up as a possibility and thinks the door is open. One explicit no and he will never try again.
Sydnee's advice is so insane it's hilarious. This dude is looking for a morsel of attention, and going on a fake date with him to screw with him and make her current boyfriend more interested in her is like eating a grenade.
“come on ma” LMFAOOOO
This is the best one. Enjoyed both their perspectives.😂😂😂
Thumbs up is a fucking thumbs up. Thats go time baby.
I was waiting for some crime from the coworker but it seems his one and only crime was, "asking her to coffee sometime" and this is the advice as to what should happen to him. Christ
Seems like a pretty innocent way to ask someone if they want coffee. This doesn’t seem like a big deal to me.
Remote work problems. How to ask out coworkers when y'all never get to meet in person 😂
"Maybe cause im a comedian" girl no one believes that 🤣
Something else the woman could do here is the 'undo' the thumbs up.
👍
@@jeffbaker7209this dude's trying to hit.
This lady is funny. I like her advice. It reminds me of my friend asking me what she should do about her crazy neighbor who kept coming over and bugging her with random inane shit. I told her to fight crazy with crazy. Next time that lady came over she just went off on a nonsensical tangent. The lady never came back and we had a good laugh.
This is the dumbest one by a thousand islands
Yo what is she talking about 😂
Sydnee looking good
Yup and sounding crazy...gotta be a real freak
looks great, sounds like an idiot. my kinda woman
She don’t like bones in her fish
If I was on a date with Sydnee, my eyes would start wondering too😂
Worst advice from both hosts: At most companies, simply asking someone out once isn't harassment, it's a misunderstanding (unless sexual). However, once stated verbally or in writing that you're not interested and then it continues... That's harassment. Even at work, it's not harassment if she's into you
Sydnee's advice is terrible lmao
"it'll come out in MARCH!" 😂😂
Love me Syd, absolutely hilarious takes
Her advice gonna set women back 15 year
Lmao once they take you out they don’t wanna take you out again? Maybe cause you’re a trainwreck to hang out with 😂😂😂
Probably because she’s an absolute mess of a person imagine how loud that gets drunk
“Oh yea trash the man” 🤣🤣
All the people in here defending this dude asking her out for coffee via slack are hilarious. No, it's not a "me too" crime, it's just super pathetic and sad. If you don't understand why, just watch the video again and listen this time. Don't try to date the one girl in the office. Just assume she already feels pretty uncomfortable in the situation.
This lady is actively giving her advice she views as harmless but will end a relationship.
HR IS NOT ON YOUR SIDE FYI
That’s crazy because if you don’t file a complaint with HR and you try to sue the company for sexual harassment HRR can say that you were never being sexually harassed because you didn’t report it
Sydnee needs to never give anyone any advice EVER lmaooo
I've never heard worse ideas based off completely off assumptions in my life 😂😂😂
You guys have good chemistry
Is it bad that I always use a 👍 as a conversation ender
Yeah in this circumstance lol. A desperate dude takes that as you’re busy right now but you’ll let him know when he can take you out😂
I do this too! It means I read your message, so a thumbs up or texting ok seems polite.
What’re yall writing? I probably would’ve responded no thank you, to this situation. But a thumbs up seems appropriate too.
Syd is trying to send these nerds to therapy 😂
Just say "I have a boyfriend"
"How to create a Stalker 101" by Sydnee
Sydnee calling herself a comedian was the funniest thing she said here
Great chemistry 🧪😁
like bleach and ammonia 😷
As a straight white dude, absolutely do not follow Sydnees advice on this, haha! We are absolutely not worth that much time or effort- like Stav said, you don’t wanna give weirdos any sign of hope AT ALL.
Lmfao bro homegirl is on one
that girls advice is terrible
How to get thrown to the side 😂
I knew the comment section was about to agree with me hahahaha
Stav is giving better relationship advice than this woman lmao. Sometimes mansplaining is warranted.
You’re the only other person who agrees that a thumbs up is mean! Thank you!!
This is so bad, it's almost brilliant 😂
I have never heard worst advice in my life lol it was funny tho!!
Syd was speaking the truth about guys losing interest and flaking most of the time when the girl agrees lmao
Respond to the guy: I’m in a long term relationship so no thanks
Girl logic lmaooo
This actually came out in March 😂
How is someone asking someone out an HR issue!? Tell them no and move on. If after saying no they keep pursuing, then tell HR. If you never say no, how are they supposed to know the advances are unwanted? This is the worst "problem" and the worst "advice" yet.
Why tf did she not just say she’s in a committed relationship
Andrew Tate of Women as the guest wtf
Cmon ma is crazy 😂😂😂😂😂
never seen sydnee before, shes great
thanks to Sydnee for illustrating why black men dont stick around.
Lol yeah HR is there to protect the company, not the employees - unfortunately. Print it out and put it in HR's desk and say, "Im not making a complaint, but here's a chance to nip a bigger problem in the butt"
If the guys asking girls out on slack then he’s definitely not a player he’s really awkward and doesn’t know how to talk to women and doesn’t know she has a boyfriend because he is bad at socializing and doesn’t talk to people so he probably knows nothing about her he probably has never even approached her and barely knows her name
I'm so happy you guys did the live call in with a guest, especially one as funny as Sydney Washington
even better! 😂😂
The pink and white looks good on you Stavvy baby!
"Itll come out in march!"
Seriously? Y'all jump straight to reporting to HR when the dude just asked to grab a coffee? Wth...
Seriously thats fucking childish and rat like behavior
Workplace relationships aren’t worth it to start with. I don’t think that’s right either but the dude is already kinda asking for trouble even approaching. Keep it on the apps or out at bars or something like that.
Hahaha just change your slack picture to you and your bf. Feel like that would stop the nerd horde
I’ve never heard of Sydnee Washington, but she is stunningly beautiful, this woman is an 11, plus she seems funny as hell. She’d be a great wingwoman lol
Sydnee is talking about the top of the line guys she’s trying to snatch that don’t really want to get snatched.
Most guys are just regular guys that would really like to just date a nice woman.
So I do not think this guy would go about things how she described if she accepted to go out with him.
Since she has a man she should just do as Stavy said and say no thank you or ignore it.
Sydney is so gorgeous.
Tbh this one’s an obvious hr conversation in my opinion and entertaining all these wild scenarios is concerning lol
NT society full on saying opposites are in effect now 🤷♂️🤦😂
Over slack is crazy 🤣 I’m sick of the updates so I deleted slack
Idk man, thumbs up at work means to me its not positive or negative, its just...copy that. Its just confirming to the other person you have acknowledged them.
Her mind is scrambled eggs.
Sydnee has NO Idea what kind of man works in tech AND flirts via Slack
Stacey is the type of woman you run from
sydnee is really reinforcing all the things incels feel about women lol
tell her to man-up and appreciate a nice ask out.