as a victim of rape at a very young age and a victim of GBV this performance just made me emotional 😢😢😢😢. I remember how i was always beaten up for not having a proof of some bank message to prove what time i paid at the shop to the rime time i drove back home. I got tired, started fighting back. I beat him up and he collapsed i had a fright of my life. I knew i had to leave the relationship but it was not easy but i am glad o had strength to leave
As a victim of molestation amd domestic abuse it hits home . I’m triggered because she is a good performer 🥲🥲🥲🥲 I m Sorry that you had to go through that my sister 🤗🥲❤️
💔💔💔yoh guys life is so painful ... Abuse is not nice and I still cry till this day ... I'm going through depression and panic attacks and anxiety attacks because of all the trauma ... Inhliziyo yami ibhlungu 😭😭😭 I used to sing this song everyday and the pain would get worse because of the flashbacks ... I would scream and cry bafethu it still hurts and its been 8 years 🙏🙏🙏
Get out of dat pain when you ready bcs if not ,you gonna loose your life like Namhla who stayed in an abusive relationship for 17 years but lastmonth dis bastared shot him . She was living like a slave nd she was a punching bag 🎒 her body was green with bruises Good life and happiness is not only about being in a relationship or married Danko
@@Djamila773 I wish I had your numbers dear I was gonna make sure dàt you forget about dat pain and move on with your life . Nna I didn't waste my time on my abusive relationship. I just told my family 👪 and both families meet and I told them that I had a life b4 him , have a life with him and I will have a good life after him . And enjoying myself without any fear of favor 🙏
@@ttkamara1193 god bless you sis and I am healing slowly so thank you for the advice it actually helped me a little cause I feel like my chest is less pumped and my sholders are less heavy so thank you to that
I'm writing this with a broken heart. It is indeed a pandemic. To all the victims and survivors of GBV. Y'all are strong...and remember your story doesn't define you.🖤✊
i never comment anything on youtube but this deserves my coment... great, wounderful, clean hearted perfomance at Nelisiwe Sibiya wish you the best in life
I love this song so much 😭😭❤I listened to it so much in uni ,you're amazing ma,your sound and those native screams tell the story so beautifully,much love from Botswana ❤❤
Yhini Nelisiwe ukundikhalisa kabuhlungu kanje ebusuku!!! This is our reality as South African Women 😭😭😭. Yho but I love your craft❤️❤️❤️ you're amazing.
Weee ngaze ngakhala wemaye... May the Creator make it happen... We need a live show sisi and I wish it can be of couples as much as we need more healing as women I think men need to really know how deep the pain can go. Your music is healing thank you Sisi.
A beautiful rendition indeed. from a seat of a therapist this is what I tell my patients: "Psychopaths never change but the the person who does the change is you women, when you look at yourself in the mirror you wont recognize yourself anymore as you become a bitter, angry person that cant even spell the word happiness" . Don't stay because you will believe the person will change, there's a lot that goes on in the creation of that monster and it has to be dealt with from the roots and you don't have the power neither the ability to change that it doesn't matter the amount of love you give.
This also remind me of Lockdown and the songs they used to sing. Also it's heartbreaking and so touching. It hurts me to say this the reality we're facing on daily basis 😪.
You are so adorable and gifted❤ Nelisiwe And to think that my niece is no where to be found since the 20th May 💔💔 this breaks me into pieces. May the Lord help us🙏
Sister I just had a CONVO with my daughters this afternoon...I'm scared to death ...I keep reminding them to tell me about their relationship cause I need them to be open with me on everything...as a so called modern mother...( This is only way) I'll be praying for her to return home safe...I'm crying right now. God be with you.
Sis I'm back to find out if you haven't heard anything from your niece...my girls are back from Uni break looking at them and the thought of a little girl abused by some BS scares me. Hope everything is ok. Praying everyday for girl child to be loved and protected.
You finally found the strength to sing this song after so long. And you found a way that will help sing the song through. You reached and achieved. Im proud and happy for you Nelisiwe❤ this is a huge step for you
This gave me goosebumps. You are a blessing to us women cause this is exactly what the world needs to see. As much as this message is hurtful but it needs to be put out there so that we know that we not alone in this pandemic as women 💔😢we appreciate you.
One of my faves. This was an emotional performance. The storytelling, voice and the emotions were just out of this world. One word - POWERFUL🔥🔥🔥 ❤️❤️❤️
I was abused many times by family member and strangers...wat life Iived...I'm surprised I'm still breathing after the things I went through... and keeping quiet was the biggest mistake of my life
What a talented gal , hmm muhle ecula , muhle ekhuluma, muhle nge message muhle ngoku gcoka muhle ku acting and muhle noma e slayer .it is what it is Go Gal ingawe lento I'm sorry about I loss ka mama
Didnt know the song was yours but was still my foverate😍and i loved ur voice on Durban Gen bcs u always sings wen there are funerals🤣but i love u more now😍😍😍😍
💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😔😔😔i love you Nelisiwe Sibiya the message behind your song it always leave me in tears .These are the things we go through but no one is ready to talk openly about it kubuhlungu😭😭😭💔
You are powerful, you are the truth , you are the voice of every victim you mentioned…you are so talented girla ,, please keep up with the good work.. be blessed 🙏🏽 wear your crown with pride 🙌♥️
Woow, I have been watching these gender based stories eish they cut deep even though I never experienced any. Being a woman nje makes me cry😢. Good song Nelisiwe utsho kabuhlungu
Tough being a womwn isn't it..and the funny thing is no matter how hard or how loud we scream ,the favour will always be in man .. we get abused as women,misused by such monsters..hopefully one day the world will get up and fight for women before it's too late 😊😊huge ur women...kiss her ...show her the love she deserves ..before u lose her ......let's fight before we lose anyone else ❤
😭😭😭😭This Takes Me back to what my mother went through these past weeks..so emotional and heart breaking 😭🥺❤️love you nelisiwe..keep on blessing us with such healing and beautiful music.❤️❤️
I'm here and it's 2024 💔may we all be kind to each other👐
as a victim of rape at a very young age and a victim of GBV this performance just made me emotional 😢😢😢😢. I remember how i was always beaten up for not having a proof of some bank message to prove what time i paid at the shop to the rime time i drove back home. I got tired, started fighting back. I beat him up and he collapsed i had a fright of my life. I knew i had to leave the relationship but it was not easy but i am glad o had strength to leave
Love and peace to your beautiful soul 💛
As a victim of molestation amd domestic abuse it hits home . I’m triggered because she is a good performer 🥲🥲🥲🥲 I m
Sorry that you had to go through that my sister 🤗🥲❤️
Wow,what a song
I just read the first line of your comment, and tears just fell off... I am so sorry sisi💗
May you find healing. I'm also a victim of physical abuse. My step-dad beat us up so badly me and my lilsis. It really does hit home
Waze wangikhalisa..I remembered everything happened when I was 4 years old ,umama esemsebenzini 😭😭
May all other victims of GBV heal😢
Ncesi 😢💔
I just literally cried.. The voice alone tells the stories. It's puts you in the shoes of the victims... Beautiful song as always 💕
Wept. I wept.😭😭
can we be friends if we can be........ you won't regret it I promise you
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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️God will heal your beautiful heart ❤️ and soul
Kodwa MaSibiya kuthiwa indoda ayikhali, kodwa ngiyehluleka ukuzibamba ezami izinyembezi. Ngikhaliswa nawukuthi zonke lezinto ezimbi zenziwa abantu besilisa!
Mam Busi Mhlongo didn't die
I can hear her energy here
Bravo Sotobe
My thoughts too...
She sounds so much like her
Ma Njomane is probably looking down on you and so proud
Absolutely
💔💔💔yoh guys life is so painful ... Abuse is not nice and I still cry till this day ... I'm going through depression and panic attacks and anxiety attacks because of all the trauma ... Inhliziyo yami ibhlungu 😭😭😭 I used to sing this song everyday and the pain would get worse because of the flashbacks ... I would scream and cry bafethu it still hurts and its been 8 years 🙏🙏🙏
Get out of dat pain when you ready bcs if not ,you gonna loose your life like Namhla who stayed in an abusive relationship for 17 years but lastmonth dis bastared shot him . She was living like a slave nd she was a punching bag 🎒 her body was green with bruises
Good life and happiness is not only about being in a relationship or married
Danko
@@ttkamara1193 thank you for the advice although I did get out of the pain but the memories and thoughts still haunt me till this day 🙏🙏🙏
@@Djamila773 I wish I had your numbers dear I was gonna make sure dàt you forget about dat pain and move on with your life . Nna I didn't waste my time on my abusive relationship. I just told my family 👪 and both families meet and I told them that I had a life b4 him , have a life with him and I will have a good life after him . And enjoying myself without any fear of favor 🙏
@@ttkamara1193 god bless you sis and I am healing slowly so thank you for the advice it actually helped me a little cause I feel like my chest is less pumped and my sholders are less heavy so thank you to that
💔Am Sorry You Had To Go Through All That
06.10.2024 time 21:54♥️ You’re a Powerhouse Nelisiwe♥️🙏 here are your 💐
Ncese to everywomen who experienced it & a child who helplessly saw their mothers experiencing it😭😭.May the Almighty God intenvene❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
I'm writing this with a broken heart. It is indeed a pandemic. To all the victims and survivors of GBV. Y'all are strong...and remember your story doesn't define you.🖤✊
The fact that is she is a virgin and she understands what is that victims go through, I applaud her ❤️🙏
i never comment anything on youtube but this deserves my coment... great, wounderful, clean hearted perfomance at Nelisiwe Sibiya wish you the best in life
Nelisiwe’s voice is out of this world too much anointing if I may say ❤️❤️❤️
Yu can say that again
@@tankamugabiri5494 not anointing try other words English has many words to describe such voice
Not even engelic
This woman's voice and character is so strong. So glad I came across this
This is so painful it's giving me flash backs of wat happened yrs bac and it hurts becoz coz those close to u never understand
The band is on point 🔥🔥capturing the emotion of the singer and laying it in cords 👌
True, they are very talented.
felt every emotion behind this song , it's been years since it dropped but it still makes me emotional ❤️ yoh
Haibo MaSibiya👑👑👑🙌🙌🙌😭😭😭😭😭😭. Ngaze ngakhala😭. Triggered 2 occasions of my on this performance 🥺💔🥰. Thank you🙌👑
I love this song so much 😭😭❤I listened to it so much in uni ,you're amazing ma,your sound and those native screams tell the story so beautifully,much love from Botswana ❤❤
oh what a voice..thanks for healing thousands of women who are victims of violence. thanks girl.
Yhini Nelisiwe ukundikhalisa kabuhlungu kanje ebusuku!!! This is our reality as South African Women 😭😭😭. Yho but I love your craft❤️❤️❤️ you're amazing.
Just saw this from tik tok and came here to come watch the full version
You sing so beautifully my girl, keep it up good ears can hear and you already healing so many souls that are hurt ...you are the best 👌
Same here 😂😂😂
I just saw it from tik tok as well...
Just saw it either rn🥺
Me 2
If talent was a person 🥺❤️😭
This is the most emotional performance ever.♥️♥️Nelisiwe though
This is the first time I experience having chills like literally 🔥🔥🔥😭😭😭
I've heard this song a lot of times but each time I hear it it feels brand new
Weee ngaze ngakhala wemaye... May the Creator make it happen... We need a live show sisi and I wish it can be of couples as much as we need more healing as women I think men need to really know how deep the pain can go. Your music is healing thank you Sisi.
Jeez..... Hands on head.... Nelisiwe!!!!! I'm glad l walked first!
A beautiful rendition indeed. from a seat of a therapist this is what I tell my patients: "Psychopaths never change but the the person who does the change is you women, when you look at yourself in the mirror you wont recognize yourself anymore as you become a bitter, angry person that cant even spell the word happiness" . Don't stay because you will believe the person will change, there's a lot that goes on in the creation of that monster and it has to be dealt with from the roots and you don't have the power neither the ability to change that it doesn't matter the amount of love you give.
You just healed me, I'm sitting here thinking he will change I can't even recognize myself, a change has got to come from me
This also remind me of Lockdown and the songs they used to sing.
Also it's heartbreaking and so touching. It hurts me to say this the reality we're facing on daily basis 😪.
11:38 Saturday 13.07.2024 dear Lord they cannot say it out loud but it's in their heart mind & soul plsss listen to your children's cry
Eyi sisi your voice
I'd love to see more of you in theater productions, TV is masking your talent 🤍
You are so adorable and gifted❤ Nelisiwe
And to think that my niece is no where to be found since the 20th May 💔💔 this breaks me into pieces. May the Lord help us🙏
Sending love and light 💔🥺 sengathi ningamuthola
@@cassandrayolanda4220 Thanks dear. Sisathungatha.
Sister I just had a CONVO with my daughters this afternoon...I'm scared to death ...I keep reminding them to tell me about their relationship cause I need them to be open with me on everything...as a so called modern mother...( This is only way)
I'll be praying for her to return home safe...I'm crying right now.
God be with you.
Sis I'm back to find out if you haven't heard anything from your niece...my girls are back from Uni break looking at them and the thought of a little girl abused by some BS scares me.
Hope everything is ok.
Praying everyday for girl child to be loved and protected.
Hope she is found safe 😌
I just bumped into this now & it got me so emotional.
I would give anything to hear you sing live. Your voice is just out of this world🤩🤩🤩🤩
You finally found the strength to sing this song after so long. And you found a way that will help sing the song through. You reached and achieved. Im proud and happy for you Nelisiwe❤ this is a huge step for you
As someone that just got out of an abusive relationship, this hit home. Thank you for this sisi❤
How I wish a whole week of us crying praying taking out the pain without fear of what will be said woman goes through a lot
This gave me goosebumps. You are a blessing to us women cause this is exactly what the world needs to see. As much as this message is hurtful but it needs to be put out there so that we know that we not alone in this pandemic as women 💔😢we appreciate you.
Goosebumps all over my body literally....Your voice alone is Godly 😭😭😭🤗🤗🤗🤗🤧🤧🤧
A like from Mama ka Bafana self hhaybo 🤸♀️🤸♀️🤸♀️🙏🙏🎉🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊🎊🎊Laduma izulu ngiyabonga MaSotobe....❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
This is one of the saddest yet powerful song I’ve ever heard 😫❤️
One of my faves. This was an emotional performance. The storytelling, voice and the emotions were just out of this world. One word - POWERFUL🔥🔥🔥 ❤️❤️❤️
I was abused many times by family member and strangers...wat life Iived...I'm surprised I'm still breathing after the things I went through... and keeping quiet was the biggest mistake of my life
The story behind this song is very touching. 😭❤️
kuningi adlule kukhona empilwen ngob esefike lah esekhona manje nd ngathi uxoxa ngento eyenzeka kuyena.
Listening to this song with so much meaning and understanding hits differently 🥺❤
Shout out to TIK TOK for bringing most of us here❤️😭❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 beautiful ❤️ 🥰 🥰
What a talented gal , hmm muhle ecula , muhle ekhuluma, muhle nge message muhle ngoku gcoka muhle ku acting and muhle noma e slayer .it is what it is
Go Gal ingawe lento
I'm sorry about I loss ka mama
Didnt know the song was yours but was still my foverate😍and i loved ur voice on Durban Gen bcs u always sings wen there are funerals🤣but i love u more now😍😍😍😍
I was crying😭😭 while watching the video men are so cruel you have beautiful voice just like you are beautiful to 😭😭😭❤❤❤
Your voice is everything and this song my God cannot get used to it.
I always pass by UA-cam just to watch her perform especial this song and azania😍her voice😢❤
The voice she have is very unique 🥺🌹 nothing compared to it❤💯💯💯God bless🙌
Lord💔💔💔😭😭😭
I've been watching this all day..
One day I will be ready to open up😭
Absolutely beautiful💗Music has the power to heal nations😍
Always and forever my favourite song!!!!😭😭
😭♥️♥️i so love Nelisiwe’s voice 🥺♥️♥️what a masterpiece ♥️love you from 🇧🇼
Weeks later…, I still come back to this. Amazing❤️🔥
Poetic story told through this song 😭😭❤❤ I cry everytime, it's so deep.😭❤
The moment l listen to this song it’s like wooooow
You made me cry 😭😭😭😭
This is my favorite song, you are very talented ♥️♥️♥️🔥 🔥🔥🇧🇼
❤❤❤❤❤please give us more mami
You're healing our souls 🥺♥️♥️♥️♥️
This song just makes you live in the moment, imagining yourself in that same position 😭
Just came here again and i still feel the pain 😭😭Lord please help us and protect us siya cela nkosi 😭😭
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Favorite ❤ this song still hits hard everytime u listen to it
Revolutionary 🥺❤️!! God bless your soul MaSotobe ❤️🙏🏼.
This performance gave me goosebumps 🥺 ❤️
💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😔😔😔i love you Nelisiwe Sibiya the message behind your song it always leave me in tears .These are the things we go through but no one is ready to talk openly about it kubuhlungu😭😭😭💔
Joh What an emotional song😭😭😭 thanks so much for sharing my sister you are truly blessed with your voice 😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You are truly a blessing ❤️🙏 May God guard your beautiful soul
Your voice darling,( I cried) you're my role model
This song still hit 🔥
Till today!!😭. Exquisite performance, love your work😍🤌🏽
You are powerful, you are the truth , you are the voice of every victim you mentioned…you are so talented girla ,, please keep up with the good work.. be blessed 🙏🏽 wear your crown with pride 🙌♥️
Ibuhlungu le ngoma💔💔
This song reminds me of all the times I would have flashbacks of my past 💔😭
Goosebumps 🥺🥺🥺
So much talent.
Much love from 🇸🇿 amazing voice ❤ amazing song❤
Yuuuuuuu angeke phela, you poured your soul maSotobe...... beautifully so❤️❤️❤️
She is so amazing
The next legendary Busi Mhlongo she truly is gifted in story telling like Mam Mhlongo....
You hear the power and pain in her voice. We must protect at all cost👸🏽
The performance just remind's🥹🤕💔👀 me of my past 😭😭♥️
I came here running too thanks to TikTok ❤❤
I just shut down after listening to this... 😭😭 on behalf of most men we're sorry 😞 😔 askies 😢
Super Star, the whole world needs to know about you🙌🎆🌏
It is never getting better trust me I know
I just love you Sisi so much and your voice is really amazing❤
Love this child......love this song..... it is REAL
Woow, I have been watching these gender based stories eish they cut deep even though I never experienced any. Being a woman nje makes me cry😢. Good song Nelisiwe utsho kabuhlungu
Cha aybo😳😳😳😳🔥🔥yacula lomtan yoooooo hybo😭🙋🙋🙋🙋🙋💪💪💪💪💪💪💪🤦. Yooo you are so talented aykhona 100%
Wow😭💔.... You have an incredible voice and this was done beautifully.❤️🙏🤗💔
I love you my sister❤️👏uShembe akubusise
the song made me cry and your voice alone tells the whole story 😭💔💔
Tough being a womwn isn't it..and the funny thing is no matter how hard or how loud we scream ,the favour will always be in man .. we get abused as women,misused by such monsters..hopefully one day the world will get up and fight for women before it's too late 😊😊huge ur women...kiss her ...show her the love she deserves ..before u lose her ......let's fight before we lose anyone else ❤
your voice 😢😢👌👌♥️♥️♥️🍓♥️ you have a angelic voice wow 😢😢 jelous down mbali ka struberry 😅😅😅😊
Beautiful!!! Storytelling through music 🎶 Emotional and soul trenching.
Wow wow wat a voice ! am proud of you a.k.a Mbali , go go girl ! Big shout out to you Sibiya
😭😭😭😭This Takes Me back to what my mother went through these past weeks..so emotional and heart breaking 😭🥺❤️love you nelisiwe..keep on blessing us with such healing and beautiful music.❤️❤️
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U are absolutely amazing my dear. Your voice make me crazy xm
Beautifully, absolutely super...you are blessed with that voice sisi and you know how to use it, keep it up 🤝💞♥️