how I quit being jealous ❀ self-love hacks

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  • @evanjelline9865
    @evanjelline9865 Рік тому +84

    " She's not gonna steal my confidence "
    "Her beautiful is not my ugly"
    "It's not that serious"
    " god gave me all that i need "

  • @Rose.moroke
    @Rose.moroke Рік тому +3

    The honesty just humbles me♥️… I pray that anyone that’s dealing with this shall also find the light and stop torturing and tormenting themselves…. If you don’t get out of it, it will surely consume you and that’s not what we want!
    We want content and confident ladies and above all, leaning into God for the Grace and ability to be free and content. I’m happy I came across your channel, new subscriber🎉🎉

  • @OrganicallyYahs
    @OrganicallyYahs Рік тому +37

    Jealousy is so dangerous! I just “divorced” my so called family for this

  • @morgansiimone
    @morgansiimone Рік тому +2

    I really appreciate this video and your vulnerability here. My first relationship really showed me that I have some issues when it comes to self esteem and I’m glad God has shown me that it’s something I need to work on. Glad I stumbled across this video!

  • @adrielnicolesparks
    @adrielnicolesparks  Рік тому +9

    If you comment something mean, it will be deleted. This is a safe, loving space for my community.

  • @raychelalise
    @raychelalise 4 місяці тому +1

    This is too real for the internet ❤ thank you so much

  • @mapalomulenga9083
    @mapalomulenga9083 Рік тому +28

    This came at the right time....I was asking God how to get over envy and I found your video ❤

  • @ananichi
    @ananichi Рік тому +2

    Girl thank you for this. I am exhausted. I feel everything under the sky as a threat to my relationship, I’m praying it gets better. This video helps so much ❤️ I don’t feel so damn alone

  • @JackyBerrios
    @JackyBerrios Рік тому +5

    aww i really needed to see this after I had my baby I suffered so much from depression & low self esteem god bless you

  • @graciefirgau
    @graciefirgau Рік тому +5

    Needed this. When you said that worrying is praying to the devil, you helped me to truly understand that God really has me.

    • @-madhatterbbie-8011
      @-madhatterbbie-8011 2 місяці тому

      Yes spoke to me needed to hear this today. I can’t wait to share it with my fiancée

  • @3etheR3al
    @3etheR3al Рік тому +11

    your bringing me a more positive loving view of Christianity than what I've been raised knowing in which felt hostile and toxic.

  • @gisellemontanez6526
    @gisellemontanez6526 Рік тому +13

    I was talking to god on how I use to not be envious or malicious and bothered by people and how I want to be like that again and much better. And you’re video was the first to have came up on my suggestions, it really spoke to me and resonated with me 💗 thank youuu

  • @watercoloreyes_
    @watercoloreyes_ Рік тому +2

    You just described that constant feeling I’d have with my first boyfriend. It was because of real trauma and the other half was my fears. Both real and potential scenarios ran through my mind any time I found myself becoming more in love with him.

  • @samantha11davis11
    @samantha11davis11 Рік тому +3

    Omg Adriel!!! I just came across your content and I feel so grateful ahhh I LOVE this video. Such inspiring self-love hacks here, definitely going to start incorporating similar ones to upgrade my own self-love practices :)) So much of what you're sharing here reminds me Superhuman meditations that I started using recently after a friend showed it to me. It's a really cool concept - multi tasking meditations helping you tap in to your ultimate self and manifest your future. Sooo applicable to leveling up your life and getting clear on how you want to live and feel. They have soo many meditations specifically for self-love and letting go of jealousy! Incredible habit stacking - can't help but share b/c I feel like you'd love it haha :)) it's been a game changer for me! So excited to explore all of your content x

  • @elysenicole4433
    @elysenicole4433 8 місяців тому +1

    Wow! Mind blown! Keep it coming girl! ❤😊

  • @nickya6905
    @nickya6905 Рік тому +2

    This message is such a blessing❤

  • @refiloemoremadi7169
    @refiloemoremadi7169 Рік тому +8

    I love this video because I can totally relate,especially when you said you saw them as a threat to your marriage. Thank you for your honesty,this was helpful ❤

  • @bettymiranda3369
    @bettymiranda3369 Рік тому +2

    THIS IS EVERYTHING 💯❤️

  • @jozuavieira46
    @jozuavieira46 Рік тому +2

    Hi Adriel I have been recently struggling with Jealousy and my own lack of self esteem I hope you see this message and are able to hear more about my story and help me. Thank you and God loves you. I really love how you relate your advice to the word of God.

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  Рік тому +1

      Hi lovely, I see you and I’m here for you 💕

    • @jozuavieira46
      @jozuavieira46 Рік тому +1

      @@adrielnicolesparks I do practice your exercise I have gone as far as writing it down a page. But at the same time it has recently being messing up our friendship or relationship I can say. And it’s not the first time this happens. My friend has recently been given a managers position. I knew she was gonna get it before it even happened I was happy for her. But now I feel like I’m being really cold. We used to make eye contact in certain moments like when our boss says something funny or in moments like that but nowadays I look away.
      I really do want to free myself from this and her too coz she’s also getting affected.
      The other day when I was walking I saw a pretty girl and my mouth automatically went :(

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  Рік тому +1

      Firstly, I’m happy to hear you’ve been putting my advice into practice, as it has been helpful in my own life. Second, that feeling you got when your friend was promoted is completely human and we’ve all been there, so don’t tear yourself down for feeling that way. Do keep in mind, however, that what is for you will NOT pass you by. That was for her but God has something special just for you in due time. And don’t see it as you not being good at your job. I’m sure you’re great at your job and they trust you to do what only you can do.
      I would say start telling yourself that you care more about keeping the friendship than you do living in envy. It has no power over you. And since you care more for the friendship, try and keep that bond on the forefront of your mind when you see her. Remember the laughs and moments that created the relationship and love on that.
      In the meantime, write down a list of things you’re grateful for each day. Write down your blessings, gifts, talents, and times you have been successful. Gratitude helps to balance out negative thought patterns.
      As for the pretty girl, know that you are so unique and beautiful in the eyes of the Lord. He did not make a mistake with you. Remember she’s not a threat because you are complete in Christ.
      Self love is a journey, not a destination so just continue to put these things into practice (you won’t be perfect but that’s okay) and notice where you progress along the way.
      You are loved! 💕

  • @lala44805
    @lala44805 Рік тому +12

    You’re so real for posting this 💗

  • @shandapuhhuh
    @shandapuhhuh Рік тому +8

    Indeed I am safe because I am saved. Thank you for this gem! You are beautiful and this message is gold.

  • @princessyas930
    @princessyas930 Рік тому +4

    talk about perfect timing chile whew!!!

  • @AwakenedSoul101
    @AwakenedSoul101 Рік тому +3

    God brought this right to my feed because it’s exactly what I needed. God bless you always beautiful 💖

  • @Geezyp
    @Geezyp Рік тому +2

    This video was everything I needed and then some thank you for this video! ❤

  • @jaxverdeana2048
    @jaxverdeana2048 Рік тому +3

    Needed this! Answered prayer right here

  • @briannawade2740
    @briannawade2740 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this video!! ❤

  • @txm.9021
    @txm.9021 Рік тому +1

    @4:56 all the statements are you TELLING YOURSELF THE TRUTH. When you feed into the lies that causes us to feel low in energy.
    tell yourself the TRUTH & it shall set you free. Your mind ; free of worry, stress & fear and anything not of God. This really helped me. Omg my body is at peace I feel it. Thank you for this Queen ❤
    Beautiful woman. Beautiful mommy. & most importantly you have a BEAUTIFUL soul
    The proverbs scripture @13:06 😭😭😭💕
    You are my virtual big sister

  • @vmajcia
    @vmajcia Рік тому +2

    thank u so much.... i love u. on youtube there are too less films abt jelousy

  • @missellen2200
    @missellen2200 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this encouraging message!! I needed this. God bless you 💕

  • @Yahello_Lydia
    @Yahello_Lydia Рік тому +1

    I like the video overall and found the first half more useful for me. I wish there was a trigger warning or just a comment of I’m religious, I’m a Christian or a big believer and I’m going to get into that a bit more here for a second. The sudden talk about God and the devil and all that caught me off guard and just made me really uncomfortable as I haven’t had the best experiences. Not meant as a negative comment but just some true feedback from a non-Christian viewer. Great vid!

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  Рік тому +4

      I respect your opinion, but I will not be subjected to warning people that I’m getting ready to discuss God. I believe what’s meant for you will find you. And I think you came across this video for a reason. Take care ❤

  • @elaynaetuk2608
    @elaynaetuk2608 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for this.

  • @koushipark7118
    @koushipark7118 Рік тому +1

    you deserve more subscribers!!♥♥will look forward to your contents keep it uppp

  • @bauerd548
    @bauerd548 Рік тому +4

    I absolutely lOVED your video. Keep rising sista!❤

  • @Kristinaa999
    @Kristinaa999 Рік тому +1

    New subscriber! I love these videos! ❤super informative and needed !

  • @enen27
    @enen27 Рік тому +1

    Such a good video! Thank you

  • @alexisvaldez381
    @alexisvaldez381 Рік тому +2

    Thank you ❤

  • @night7168
    @night7168 Рік тому

    You are amazing, thanks for posting this

  • @arnelabih1845
    @arnelabih1845 Рік тому +10

    Jealousy is a disease it's the devil you will be in my prayers I never been jealous in my 37 years thanks to God may Allah cure your ❤ and guide you on the straight path push the devils away from your 🧠 a d ❤

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  Рік тому +8

      Each of us come from different backgrounds, history, and experiences. There are reasons why envy develops in a person. It’s not something we choose, and it’s definitely not something we want. Good to know you haven’t been through it. However, this video is for those who struggle with it. Thank you for the prayers and much love ❤

  • @JanelAngeline_
    @JanelAngeline_ Рік тому +3

    Amen ❤

  • @sarahmelissaxoxo
    @sarahmelissaxoxo Рік тому +2

    This is my first time coming across your channel and this brought me to tears..thank you 🥹🥹🥹

  • @adrielnicolesparks
    @adrielnicolesparks  Рік тому +1

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