I mean to be absolutely fair Every time I see his videos she only talks from the sidelines and never comes on screen if she has then let this be null and void but if she hasn't how are people supposed to know really who she is
@@GRiM-X on GTLIVE she was right next to MatPat and doing the same thing he did until for some reason(I don't know why) she wasn't doing it anymore and went to being on the sidelines, I didn't really research it, that's all I know.
There is never a moment when i watch matpat's videos with Steph in them and have not noticed her saying something that adds to the conversation in any of the videos
You can hear the quiver of emotion in his voice when he's talking. You can tell this means so much to him. Steph is an equal and he wants everyone to know that.
I think the video actually focuses on that fact that she is *not* an equal, she is different in almost every way and because of that is overlooked despite being comparably valuable
That's a good man right there. He understands that he's the face of the channel but Steph is just as equal as he is. He wants her to be heard as well. Most partners would just stay quiet and not let it bother them, but not MatPat, he defends her. "Listen to her ideas as much as mine." He's a keeper, Steph.
@@soonaheroI don't understand why more and more tiktok undergraduate using this uncomplete and unfinished sentence structure. Why you start your sentence with "I mean" when you hadn't saying anything yet?
@@valhatan3907 it’s a colloquial metaphor. It’s used to identify the antecedent as his speech. Without it, instead of correcting him/me disagreeing (which is the proper comprehension) it would be miscommunicated as me ADDING the idea into the conversation. Here’s an example Speaker 1: Usain Bolt is slow. Speaker 2: I mean, he’s fast. Versus Speaker 1: Usain Bolt is cool. Speaker 2: he’s fast, too. One is disagreeing/correcting, one isn’t. Here, the anime pfp is claiming step his just as equal as matpat is. I disagreed/reinforced the difference in our stances, as opposed to just sharing mine.
@858hj that’s just unimportant because that labor is fungible. She’s like an untrained and bad lawyer, his alternative is hiring someone trained and competent. Yeah she saved mat a little money but not with her spending habits. But Matpat is not fungible, no matpat meant no game theory. If one’s replaceable and one’s not, one’s not equal
I remember in the 10 years of game theory special Steph had mentioned that sometimes she signs emails with Matt's name because she's never taken as seriously as him, and that makes me really sad honestly
That's so heartbreaking, the real theorist fans love and respect steph. People have no idea the amount of work it takes to make the kind of content they do. Without steph there probably wouldn't even be The Game Theorists
Not just that, a good dude. Sure he isn’t perfect but the man needs some praise for the stuff he does right and just overall being a UA-camr with little to no skeletons in his closet.
@@Qoobon_ jeez i was just trying to help, i was obsessed with matpat until i found out about the autism speaks stuff so now i just don’t want other people to feel that kind of hurt
@@Patrick-zr8tv not being heard doesn’t just include when you are having a conversation. It includes asking for help to. So yes, r@pe does count as not being heard.
There’s a reason it’s game theorists, film theorists and food theorists. It’s a community, and it isn’t just mat in the centre. It’s his team and those who aid and nurture it to bring the best of the best theories to the internet for our viewing pleasure.
Yeah it’s kinda similar with Mr beast where him being the face automatically makes him all anyone talks about but the people that he works with are obviously very important as well and he couldn’t have executed his ideas without them.
It's familiarity Bias. It happen to everyone. It's never about the idea but the massager. If you know the massager, even a bad idea can be accepted. Just look at politics.
You can just hear the heartbreak and emotions in Matt's voice Edit this is the most amount of likes I ever had on a comment I believe but anyway thanks so much for the likes
Matpat seems like a very good guy in general The only controversies I remember him ever being in were basically him making some outlandish theories and people getting mad at him for talking about how the diversity in overwatch is good
@@oliviashearer Basically, Steph decided to not be on the couch for GTLive anymore so she could focus more on the business side of things and spending time with Ollie.
Matpat, as a person, seems like a really kind and caring person. Social media just sorta, treats him like some supervillain hell bent on some agenda to be the next Hitler or something
All the “controversies” that MatPat is in is usually rather trivial or just stupid. Yes, he makes some mistakes here and there, and yes, he makes content primarily targeting children, but I’ve seen many people unreasonably over blow stuff just to attack him (for clout I assume, considering Matt is such a big name).
@@marker52 - Best example is the bs towards his big Undertale theory than the stupid backlash he got just from talking about giving a copy of the game to the at the time current pope. He admitted in another video that what he got from the latter one was so bad that he was actually scared to post another video talking about anything related to the game. This and Josh Scorcher revealing that people get crap by hardcore fans over “not playing the game right” has turned me off on playing the game. Why bother when no matter what I do, I’m going to get harassed for it by the toxic part of the fanbase?
It really sucks. I think that people that don't like his content (which in itself is fine) have this problem of trying to nitpick every petty mistakes he's made. Even major ones where he's in the wrong he has apologized, sincerely, and made multiple steps to correct it. I think people just want to see someone they don't like fail even though said person hasn't done stuff to warrant it
You just know Ollie is gonna grow up to be one of the nicest men you’ll ever have the pleasure of meeting. Both of his parents are so sweet and kind and genuine.
Your parents aren’t your only influence, and we don’t know how his parents are in real life. They only share their good side and so anything bad isn’t displayed
Nah on GTLive You hear how matpat treats Ollie plus you can see him sometimes during their testings on like food theory and such. He is gonna be a good hearted kid. Only thing I fear is how people would treat him, Having Matpat as a dad is cool but I'm sure kids would pick on Ollie just for that, Teen years gonna be hard for sure.
Now that's actual male allyship right there. Raise up women's voices. Be her hype man. As a woman, it can be so hard to even get your foot in the door, so men open the door for women (metaphorically).
@instantchaos2385 this happens to women specifically all the time, it isn't just people seeing Matt as the face of the channel it also has to do with people not respecting Stephanie because she is a woman. This is one of the clearest ways misogyny affects women, women don't get heard and women aren't respected in the workspace because people view women as lesser. Matt is a true mvp because he sees people doing this too his partner and it angers him, he just wants his partner to be respected in their company equally.
@@veggiemonkie5041 not many people know that Stephanie exists because not many people watch enough to know she is there. So people think she isn't a part of the channel at all. It isn't misogyny, it's people not knowing of her.
But he never really does as to why they do that im not justifying those rude individuals but If he doesn't give her credit how will they it all stems from him not telling people how much work they do in his channels
@@snakeeatingapringle0 some people just take his theories too seriously. He makes a theory that they disagree with they get mad about it for some reason.
@@thewolfking3054 cause they show how he thinks and how he thinks is frequently dumb. Seems like a decent guy though- I certainly don’t hate him. I just question people who think he’s got good ideas or creative insight. Especially since there are many channels in many hobbies that should be receiving the views and respect he commands in the space, and the algorithm is unfortunately mutually exclusive (because the folks that watch it are). Not his fault though, it’s weird if that’s all people actually don’t like him over.
@@snakeeatingapringle0 As I understand it, there's been a few things he's said in his videos that have been a bit tone deaf or came off in sort of bad taste. One I remember off the top of my head was comparing FNAF to an actual real life murder case. I don't think he was ever being downright malicious, though.
How’s a perfect time for me to say Steph should get her own channel. It could be gaming,theories whatever she just needs more time on video I love watching her in these videos she is hilarious
She is seen as her own person but they more than likely watched the show for Matt and were focused on the conversation with him and didn’t hear what she said. Keep in mind he said this was at a party where there is music and plenty of loud noises to drown out the sounds of someone talking especially if they aren’t loud enough.
Adding to the full episode this is from. It goes deeper than that. These parties weren't house party shindigs. They were business affairs and she's CEO. What Mat's getting at here which so many comment threads are missing is she was being ignored as a business consultant. Business consultancy was their main financial turn over. The channels were half engagement, half advertising their knowledge. Anthony even mentions working with Mat as a consultant for Smosh. In some ways on a practical level, she's Mat's boss. In others she's equal share co-owner. Being his wife economic reality wise should have little to do with it.
That’s sweet that he felt like that because there are many men who don’t care that they’re wives are being over looked because they actually feel like a wife should be seen and not heard which is so messed up.
@@Tzavaot they ain't wrong tho, they didn't say all men did they? The frequency of which it happens is higher than one might expect. It's like saying that there are more female gold diggers than male ones. That's not a bash at women nor is it saying that men are more morally sound. Stop being so sensitive
Steph is so important to the channels and has brought us endless entertainment. Thank you MatPat for defending her, and thank you Steph for all you have done for us
Can we just appreciate how good of a husband MatPat is? Like in general he's a great guy. Does charity, works hard on videos to make people happy and help them learn in a fun way, spreads positive messages and important news but he's also just such a great husband. You can tell by the way he looks at and interacts with her that he absolutely adores her and whenever he talks about her it's just so clear that he loves and respects her. Find yourself a partner like MatPat, you all deserve a MatPat
As a parent, this is an example of exactly why I actually repeatedly suggest his channels to my pre-teen son. It doesn't diminish you to build up others.
@Alex Mercer completely true once your self substaning then you focus on community but people will fuck you over quick and leave you in the mud while they count their millions look at the creation of face book friends with a good idea and the potential to make billions now all owned and attributed to the man that went behind his friends back
Bro, I agree a ton! Stephanie is probably the only one keeping Mat sane, she's so crucial to the channels, all 5 of them. Yes, 5, because you gotta remember GTLive. Real fans love Steph just as much as Mat.
STEPH IS LITERALLY A QUEEN AND I CANNOT EXPLAIN HOW MUCH I LOVE HER PARTICIPATION IN THE CHANNEL 😭😭 this makes me so sad to hear she has never deserved to be overlooked
Steph is fucking amazing, anyone who says otherwise is full of shit. She does so much and the best live streams include her, she's an integral part of the show
For some time I was gonna leave the channel, and then Steph brought such energy to the show I just couldn't believe it. The more I watch the more thankful I am that Steph brought that energy and comedy and kept me around. It's also beautiful to see that mat is in tears over people overlooking his partner
Stephanie is such a W so loyal to Mat and you can see that she also likes to give her input on the theories sometimes which is very cool that both of them are interested in the same thing and it’s very sad that they don’t take her seriously because the GTLive streams with both of them are amazing
You can hear the anger, frustration, and heartbreak in his voice 💔 Stephanie is an importation part of the channel, just as important as Matthew. Why did those people treat her like that 😢
People don't listen to someone they don't know or care about when the main person who is the face of everything is right there. As fucked up as it is that's the reality.
That's what we women go through. We are ignored. Our ideas are ignored. Our input is ignored. It's in all facets of our lives. I remember one time with a very misogynistic DM, I said something about a piece of armor I researched online and he said I was wrong. I went to the bathroom and my husband said the same thing and the DM said he was right. We dropped the group that evening, after my husband told me
I dont think its about her being a woman. But i will not deny that there may be a small minority that ignores her because she's a woman. I think it more has to do with the fact that matts literally the voice and face of the theory chammels that he manages/hosts. The only way you'd get to know stephanie is thru gtlive (until she stopped regularly joining the streams) or the theory here she joins in to discuss. Its too far few for people to know who she is. What matpat says here is more the result of stephanie not being represented enough in the channel for people to recognize her. If she was the host of game theory and the other channels instead, i have no doubt matt would be going through the same thing
Look misogyny is a problem but this is not it. It’s because he’s the face of the channel. The male partners of big female youtubers have the same problem. No one cares about the spouse. It’s unfortunate but people are just respectful to prominent figures, sometimes it’s not even genuine but that’s the attention we give to celebrities. And youtubers as big as MatPat are in fact, celebrities.
No that is what EVERY GENDER goes through. Stop trying to turn this into a thing about sexism, Women are treated just as well as men if not better in todays society
Man, some UA-camrs are so insanely wholesome. Mark, Sean, Felix and Matt are absolutely the moral compass of UA-cam. I'm certain there are others who are also genuinely good people as well, these are just the ones that I'm aware of.
Just the fact he even noticed it, and is aware it's an issue, he's a keeper 🙏 I hope Stephanie is doing better and is now being heard and not just ignored
Steph and Mat seem like not only such smart, hardworking people, but you can tell that they actually care for each other and for their channels. They’re so great
I may not like most of matpat's videos, but it's hard to find a more caring loving person on the internet. From how he talks to his wife, to his stories about his son, it's very obvious. He's such a standup guy, I only wish him the best.
That Pat is such a standup guy. I feel exactly the same way when it comes to my wife in conversations in general. She could have a phenomenal idea and nobody responds, but somebody else has the exact same idea and all of a sudden it’s brilliant. It’s not fair that the kindest people are usually the ones that are the most ignored.
Yes, Stephanie is his wife but she also is an integral part of the company. She is the COO which is basically the person who oversees the business portion of the company... So even though Matt Pat is the face, she is definitely the one behind the scenes that's getting everything done.
It is incredibly sad when this happens in any relationship. This happens with my brother in law and sister where my brother in law will say something and people won't acknowledge it until my sister restated it. Watching people get overlooked for the things they're saying is very troublesome.
watch the full vid here: ua-cam.com/video/EDXN2kHTFAM/v-deo.html
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When I saw the whole thing on the original video I GOT MAJORLY PISSED THAT WOMAN DESERVES RESPECT
I mean to be absolutely fair Every time I see his videos she only talks from the sidelines and never comes on screen if she has then let this be null and void but if she hasn't how are people supposed to know really who she is
@@GRiM-X on GTLIVE she was right next to MatPat and doing the same thing he did until for some reason(I don't know why) she wasn't doing it anymore and went to being on the sidelines, I didn't really research it, that's all I know.
For me thé link doesnt work it's white and don't work
Thats actually rage inducing, shes so kind
There is never a moment when i watch matpat's videos with Steph in them and have not noticed her saying something that adds to the conversation in any of the videos
I miss Steph in gtlive so much. I loved her takes and banter. She made it enjoyable to watch
@@nayabkhurshid4089 I honestly stopped watching after she left. Took away a lot from the videos
@@illuminatedstonepersonisp6869 you should try again. The two latest cohosts have been very funny.
@@waterdragon3367 I stopped to, there are new people?
you can actually feel Mat Pad getting angry just by remembering what happened
Ah yes,the younger brother of WattPad,*Mat Pad*
You could say he is... Mad Pat???
@@vendettawasd4516 lol
the new game theory brand period products, mat pad
@@vendettawasd4516 no I think he's sad pat
You can hear him getting emotional over this. He loves her so much and it shows. "Listen to her" damn near made me cry
Say what you want about him, Matthew is a good family man
@@TheBluePhoenix008lucky there’s a family guy
I think ya meant nearly
@@nannerb8139Lucky there’s a man who, positively can do. All the things that make us…
@@nannerb8139lucky there's a man who positively can do all the things that make us laugh and cryyyy he's our family guuuuuuuuuuuuy
find a husband that can defend you like matpat
And if ur a guy?
@@Defaultsparest8007then be gay 💀
@@TaintedByRedI love this answer
I would still marry matpat if i was a straight man
A lot of modern women don't deserve that lmao
I never knew Stephanie got treated so bad....
Man that sucks. Hope she gets the attention she deserves, cause that's heartbreaking.
it happens/has happened to pretty much every woman in a male female partnership… nothing new. of course it sucks but this happens to so many women
@@landonlinevision8481 You're the problem
@@landonlinevision8481 Clearly you don't know you're the main problem bud
@@ireallylikenuggets9490 boi that troll is just that, report it so that we won’t see it again
@@landonlinevision8481 Yeah bro I can tell 💀 Brain dead fr
You can hear the quiver of emotion in his voice when he's talking. You can tell this means so much to him. Steph is an equal and he wants everyone to know that.
Yup like steph is the reason his channel exists in the first place
@@aperson7511 Fr she does all the accounting and back stage stuff
@Dothe art CAT same I woke up today and chose to be a dick... Dunno why
@@Tavemanicsomeone has to be the dick, it's a thankless job but someones gotta do it.
I think the video actually focuses on that fact that she is *not* an equal, she is different in almost every way and because of that is overlooked despite being comparably valuable
She even said that she manages the business side of everything. I would say she doesn't get the credit that's she's due.
This is such a perfect comment that it’s almost impossible to follow up on
@@killedbycrit Why, thank you.
That's a good man right there. He understands that he's the face of the channel but Steph is just as equal as he is. He wants her to be heard as well. Most partners would just stay quiet and not let it bother them, but not MatPat, he defends her. "Listen to her ideas as much as mine." He's a keeper, Steph.
I mean, she’s not
@@soonaheroI don't understand why more and more tiktok undergraduate using this uncomplete and unfinished sentence structure. Why you start your sentence with "I mean" when you hadn't saying anything yet?
@@valhatan3907 it’s a colloquial metaphor. It’s used to identify the antecedent as his speech. Without it, instead of correcting him/me disagreeing (which is the proper comprehension) it would be miscommunicated as me ADDING the idea into the conversation.
Here’s an example
Speaker 1: Usain Bolt is slow.
Speaker 2: I mean, he’s fast.
Versus
Speaker 1: Usain Bolt is cool.
Speaker 2: he’s fast, too.
One is disagreeing/correcting, one isn’t.
Here, the anime pfp is claiming step his just as equal as matpat is.
I disagreed/reinforced the difference in our stances, as opposed to just sharing mine.
@858hj that’s just unimportant because that labor is fungible. She’s like an untrained and bad lawyer, his alternative is hiring someone trained and competent.
Yeah she saved mat a little money but not with her spending habits.
But Matpat is not fungible, no matpat meant no game theory.
If one’s replaceable and one’s not, one’s not equal
@@soonaherothis guy really said Steph isnt important for Game Theory and meant it☠️
I remember in the 10 years of game theory special Steph had mentioned that sometimes she signs emails with Matt's name because she's never taken as seriously as him, and that makes me really sad honestly
Isn't she like the main reason game theory exists?
@@zacharonivevo Yup! For so many reasons He wasn't even going to do it until she encouraged him to give it a try.
@@Nightingale_time That makes people drooling over MatPat even more depressing.
@@Nightingale_time we all love Steph
That's so heartbreaking, the real theorist fans love and respect steph. People have no idea the amount of work it takes to make the kind of content they do. Without steph there probably wouldn't even be The Game Theorists
Matpat is such a good husband
Not just that, a good dude. Sure he isn’t perfect but the man needs some praise for the stuff he does right and just overall being a UA-camr with little to no skeletons in his closet.
@@amine423 tbf he might be the best youtuber there is! Of course, Mr beast helped a lot of people, but Matty patty seems like he never made a sin lol
@@Qoobon_ idk just be careful when putting someone on a pedestal, especially if you don’t know them irl. it can just lead to lots of hurt
@@jadeeliss1370 of course of course, I know that MOM...
@@Qoobon_ jeez i was just trying to help, i was obsessed with matpat until i found out about the autism speaks stuff so now i just don’t want other people to feel that kind of hurt
I'm not a big fan of GT but matpat is unironically a really good person, he's very based to say what he did.
221 likes, no reply? Let me change that.
Honestly steph is so sweet and caring and does not deserve to be overlooked
Stephanie is an absolutely sweetie and she honestly doesn’t deserve that treatment. No one does, one of the worst things is not being heard
I mean come on, one of the worst things? Definitely not nice but that's a bit hyperbolic don't you think?
@@Patrick-zr8tv actually it is
@@hunnilola so you'd put not being heard up there with rape and murder? Righto.
@@Patrick-zr8tv not being heard doesn’t just include when you are having a conversation. It includes asking for help to. So yes, r@pe does count as not being heard.
@@hunnilola Jesus Christ man. Doing some mental gymnastics there.
There’s a reason it’s game theorists, film theorists and food theorists. It’s a community, and it isn’t just mat in the centre. It’s his team and those who aid and nurture it to bring the best of the best theories to the internet for our viewing pleasure.
Well-said!!
Yeah it’s kinda similar with Mr beast where him being the face automatically makes him all anyone talks about but the people that he works with are obviously very important as well and he couldn’t have executed his ideas without them.
Exactly 👏🏾
Don’t forget Science Theorists
It's familiarity Bias. It happen to everyone. It's never about the idea but the massager. If you know the massager, even a bad idea can be accepted. Just look at politics.
The fact that he sounds like he’s about to cry over how upset this made him 😭 he and Steph are both too pure for this world
You're a good husband MatPat. We need more people like you.
Correction: We need to be like him.
You can just hear the heartbreak and emotions in Matt's voice
Edit this is the most amount of likes I ever had on a comment I believe but anyway thanks so much for the likes
likes don’t matter for comments you made a good point nobody’s doing this to help your career
@@jaketylenol weird and unnecessary take
@@jaketylenol 😭
@@jaketylenol damn who hurt you fam 😭
@@lapislotus2195 I could easily make a “your mother” joke but I’m not that mean, i just wanted you to know that option was on the table
This is why Matthew is a king. Bro genuinely loves Stephanie and it is obvious in every interaction they have.
Matpat seems like a very good guy in general
The only controversies I remember him ever being in were basically him making some outlandish theories and people getting mad at him for talking about how the diversity in overwatch is good
THE KING OF THEORY'S
@@glossyplane542 also giving Undertale to the pope was something people got mad about but it was funny af
I thought there was some stuff about being transphobic
@@matthewdeplato1227 eeeexcuse me?
Literally never heard a word of that.
I think everyone is crying watching this we will all miss you matpat
Yes,yes we are
Matpat isnt a simp. He is just a good husband
Anyone who still unironically uses that dumb word shouldn't be taken seriously
It was really sad when I heard Stephanie was walking out. I really enjoyed the two of them and the energy she brought onto GT live 😢
Wait, what? I don't watch GT Live, would you mind going into detail a bit?
@@oliviashearer she used to be on the couch with him playing games for GT Live but eventually stepped back from that
@@oliviashearer Basically, Steph decided to not be on the couch for GTLive anymore so she could focus more on the business side of things and spending time with Ollie.
@@rachelong3755 Solution: We watch them both play games while Ollie is on the floor filling out quarterly reports.
@@takeandbakejake3271 Gotta teach em young
I love matpat so much he drinks "I love my wife" juice at every meal
And actually meaning it compared to Ned 😂
Oh no MatPat accidentally dropped his crown 👑
@@pissapocalypse I’ll take that, thank you 👑 🚶♂️
@@BlastKetchup that's not for you frick off before I steal your teeth
@@pissapocalypse srry Elmo, i forgot you have no teeth
The fact this hurts him so much speaks to what a caring and sensitive partner Mat is. Absolutely unhateable
Seeing and hearing the pain in his voice, he loves his wife so much and it's so sweet to see
Matpat, as a person, seems like a really kind and caring person. Social media just sorta, treats him like some supervillain hell bent on some agenda to be the next Hitler or something
Honestly! He just makes theory videos on his own favorite games/movies to give his own sort of fun twist on them and people act like it’s sacrilege.
All the “controversies” that MatPat is in is usually rather trivial or just stupid. Yes, he makes some mistakes here and there, and yes, he makes content primarily targeting children, but I’ve seen many people unreasonably over blow stuff just to attack him (for clout I assume, considering Matt is such a big name).
@@marker52 - Best example is the bs towards his big Undertale theory than the stupid backlash he got just from talking about giving a copy of the game to the at the time current pope. He admitted in another video that what he got from the latter one was so bad that he was actually scared to post another video talking about anything related to the game. This and Josh Scorcher revealing that people get crap by hardcore fans over “not playing the game right” has turned me off on playing the game. Why bother when no matter what I do, I’m going to get harassed for it by the toxic part of the fanbase?
They do ?
It really sucks. I think that people that don't like his content (which in itself is fine) have this problem of trying to nitpick every petty mistakes he's made. Even major ones where he's in the wrong he has apologized, sincerely, and made multiple steps to correct it.
I think people just want to see someone they don't like fail even though said person hasn't done stuff to warrant it
You just know Ollie is gonna grow up to be one of the nicest men you’ll ever have the pleasure of meeting. Both of his parents are so sweet and kind and genuine.
Your parents aren’t your only influence, and we don’t know how his parents are in real life. They only share their good side and so anything bad isn’t displayed
@@QUBIQUBED well aren’t you just a ray of sunshine and positivity
@@QUBIQUBED shut up👺
@@SeraliaAerials They kinda are right
Nah on GTLive You hear how matpat treats Ollie plus you can see him sometimes during their testings on like food theory and such. He is gonna be a good hearted kid. Only thing I fear is how people would treat him, Having Matpat as a dad is cool but I'm sure kids would pick on Ollie just for that, Teen years gonna be hard for sure.
Now that's actual male allyship right there. Raise up women's voices. Be her hype man.
As a woman, it can be so hard to even get your foot in the door, so men open the door for women (metaphorically).
that has nothing to do with gender, it's about matt being the face of the channel
@instantchaos2385 this happens to women specifically all the time, it isn't just people seeing Matt as the face of the channel it also has to do with people not respecting Stephanie because she is a woman. This is one of the clearest ways misogyny affects women, women don't get heard and women aren't respected in the workspace because people view women as lesser. Matt is a true mvp because he sees people doing this too his partner and it angers him, he just wants his partner to be respected in their company equally.
@@veggiemonkie5041 not many people know that Stephanie exists because not many people watch enough to know she is there. So people think she isn't a part of the channel at all. It isn't misogyny, it's people not knowing of her.
@@Alex_09999 it's misogyny
@@itzaestheticsasha4176 no its not. She's not the face of channel that's all there is to it.
MatPat is such an incredible husband and overall an amazing person.
at that point you can call them on their bullshit and loudly introduce her as your wife and co-writer
Mattpat: Did you like that idea? *Because I’m not the one that came up with it.*
But he never really does as to why they do that im not justifying those rude individuals but If he doesn't give her credit how will they it all stems from him not telling people how much work they do in his channels
I think Mat is not a fighter as his more of an emotional person. I think his feeling get in the way of the raction ones.
Co-CEO 😅
I know some people don’t like Matpat, but the guy seems like a great partner and father, that’s something no dumb hatter can take away from him.
Did not the mad hatter disliked matpat, hopefully he changes his mind lmao
Wait people don’t like him? Why??
@@snakeeatingapringle0 some people just take his theories too seriously. He makes a theory that they disagree with they get mad about it for some reason.
@@thewolfking3054 cause they show how he thinks and how he thinks is frequently dumb. Seems like a decent guy though- I certainly don’t hate him. I just question people who think he’s got good ideas or creative insight.
Especially since there are many channels in many hobbies that should be receiving the views and respect he commands in the space, and the algorithm is unfortunately mutually exclusive (because the folks that watch it are). Not his fault though, it’s weird if that’s all people actually don’t like him over.
@@snakeeatingapringle0 As I understand it, there's been a few things he's said in his videos that have been a bit tone deaf or came off in sort of bad taste. One I remember off the top of my head was comparing FNAF to an actual real life murder case. I don't think he was ever being downright malicious, though.
How’s a perfect time for me to say Steph should get her own channel.
It could be gaming,theories whatever she just needs more time on video I love watching her in these videos she is hilarious
This hits different now...
Yea
Steph was so cool. I enjoyed her saying the lines for nugget in kindergarten
yes! I really liked her voices!!
Steph is my favorite nugget voice
Steph is the perfect Nugget
Stephanie is such a sweetheart, it hurts knowing that she doesn't get recognition purely because she's seen as "MatPat's wife" and not her own person
She is seen as her own person but they more than likely watched the show for Matt and were focused on the conversation with him and didn’t hear what she said. Keep in mind he said this was at a party where there is music and plenty of loud noises to drown out the sounds of someone talking especially if they aren’t loud enough.
Adding to the full episode this is from. It goes deeper than that. These parties weren't house party shindigs. They were business affairs and she's CEO. What Mat's getting at here which so many comment threads are missing is she was being ignored as a business consultant. Business consultancy was their main financial turn over. The channels were half engagement, half advertising their knowledge. Anthony even mentions working with Mat as a consultant for Smosh. In some ways on a practical level, she's Mat's boss. In others she's equal share co-owner. Being his wife economic reality wise should have little to do with it.
I love when I hear her giggling around with him… they sound so happy together and he genuinely listens when she talks.
I love Steph. I wanna give her a hug.
MatPat is one hell of a good husband
That’s not only take away though. The GT channel grow because of the hard work of both both Mat and Steps. People tend to overlook.
That’s sweet that he felt like that because there are many men who don’t care that they’re wives are being over looked because they actually feel like a wife should be seen and not heard which is so messed up.
It's actually not.
@@spelcheak what?
You really just turned a semi-wholesome story into a male vs female thing for literally no fucking reason at all. Are you proud of yourself?
@@Tzavaot they ain't wrong tho, they didn't say all men did they? The frequency of which it happens is higher than one might expect. It's like saying that there are more female gold diggers than male ones. That's not a bash at women nor is it saying that men are more morally sound. Stop being so sensitive
Uhhhh, that's tangential.
and now MatPat is stepping down :(
But that's just a theory... The last theory...
Well almost still 9 left!❤😢
It's not a theory
Steph is so important to the channels and has brought us endless entertainment. Thank you MatPat for defending her, and thank you Steph for all you have done for us
He was my childhood... But he is handing his channel through the generations.. But thats just a theory.. A game theory
Matpat and Stephanie are such a power couple and I’m glad I got to see their videos together over the years.
Can we just appreciate how good of a husband MatPat is? Like in general he's a great guy. Does charity, works hard on videos to make people happy and help them learn in a fun way, spreads positive messages and important news but he's also just such a great husband. You can tell by the way he looks at and interacts with her that he absolutely adores her and whenever he talks about her it's just so clear that he loves and respects her. Find yourself a partner like MatPat, you all deserve a MatPat
MatPat is the best husband ever. He and Steph deserve nothing but the best
Give mat’s wife some honor and respect please
Its telling in how really heartbroken he sounds, thats a man who loves her more than himself.
As a parent, this is an example of exactly why I actually repeatedly suggest his channels to my pre-teen son.
It doesn't diminish you to build up others.
thank you :)
It does focus on your self fuck everyone else, because at the end of the day the only one you can really rely on is yourself.
@@alexmercer2220I hope whatever is hurting you heals soon. It is terrible to carry around such pain alone.
@@bethneild108 nothings hurting me it’s just a cold truth not a lot of people like
@Alex Mercer completely true once your self substaning then you focus on community but people will fuck you over quick and leave you in the mud while they count their millions look at the creation of face book friends with a good idea and the potential to make billions now all owned and attributed to the man that went behind his friends back
Dude looked like he wanted to cry🥺🥺 he loves his wife so much and it shows 🥺❤️
Bro, I agree a ton! Stephanie is probably the only one keeping Mat sane, she's so crucial to the channels, all 5 of them. Yes, 5, because you gotta remember GTLive.
Real fans love Steph just as much as Mat.
We will miss you matpat
STEPH IS LITERALLY A QUEEN AND I CANNOT EXPLAIN HOW MUCH I LOVE HER PARTICIPATION IN THE CHANNEL 😭😭 this makes me so sad to hear she has never deserved to be overlooked
Steph is fucking amazing, anyone who says otherwise is full of shit.
She does so much and the best live streams include her, she's an integral part of the show
How the hell are people overlooking steph? And, of course the real star of the show, Ollie?
Although we’ll miss him, I think Matt made the right decision to step away. Hope to see him pop in a few times to say hi in future ❤❤❤
"Bad" doesn't even begin to cover how I feel for Steph.
THATS SO FUCKED UPPPP OMFG I WOULD BE SO INFURIATED AND FRUSTRATED I FEEL SO BAD FOR HER SHE DESERVES TO BE LISTENED TO AND HEARD
Stephanie is a GOAT just as much as MatPat!! She deserves just as much love!!!
I wouldn’t blame Matt, if this was part of the reason why he chose to retire
o7
Steph is an amazing part of GT and her personality is so warm and kind. I hate that people treat others like this. She deserves so much better
For some time I was gonna leave the channel, and then Steph brought such energy to the show I just couldn't believe it. The more I watch the more thankful I am that Steph brought that energy and comedy and kept me around. It's also beautiful to see that mat is in tears over people overlooking his partner
Who here heard the news about Matthew
I have 😭
Stephanie is such a W so loyal to Mat and you can see that she also likes to give her input on the theories sometimes which is very cool that both of them are interested in the same thing and it’s very sad that they don’t take her seriously because the GTLive streams with both of them are amazing
Find you someone who cares about your feelings like matt does steph. You deserve that 🥺
You can hear the anger, frustration, and heartbreak in his voice 💔 Stephanie is an importation part of the channel, just as important as Matthew. Why did those people treat her like that 😢
She's so kind though
People don't listen to someone they don't know or care about when the main person who is the face of everything is right there. As fucked up as it is that's the reality.
Mat just really loves his job and family, and that's deserving of respect.
That's what we women go through. We are ignored. Our ideas are ignored. Our input is ignored. It's in all facets of our lives.
I remember one time with a very misogynistic DM, I said something about a piece of armor I researched online and he said I was wrong. I went to the bathroom and my husband said the same thing and the DM said he was right. We dropped the group that evening, after my husband told me
Shush
I dont think its about her being a woman. But i will not deny that there may be a small minority that ignores her because she's a woman.
I think it more has to do with the fact that matts literally the voice and face of the theory chammels that he manages/hosts. The only way you'd get to know stephanie is thru gtlive (until she stopped regularly joining the streams) or the theory here she joins in to discuss. Its too far few for people to know who she is.
What matpat says here is more the result of stephanie not being represented enough in the channel for people to recognize her.
If she was the host of game theory and the other channels instead, i have no doubt matt would be going through the same thing
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See how my reply makes no sense? Yes, that's exactly how you're replying 🧍🏻♀️
Look misogyny is a problem but this is not it. It’s because he’s the face of the channel. The male partners of big female youtubers have the same problem. No one cares about the spouse. It’s unfortunate but people are just respectful to prominent figures, sometimes it’s not even genuine but that’s the attention we give to celebrities. And youtubers as big as MatPat are in fact, celebrities.
No that is what EVERY GENDER goes through. Stop trying to turn this into a thing about sexism, Women are treated just as well as men if not better in todays society
I'm so sorry Stephanie we will miss u both 😔
Man, some UA-camrs are so insanely wholesome. Mark, Sean, Felix and Matt are absolutely the moral compass of UA-cam.
I'm certain there are others who are also genuinely good people as well, these are just the ones that I'm aware of.
Jenna marbles is also INCREDIBLY wholesome. It sucks that she left 😢
Big ups for Mat, people forgetting mat prolly wouldn't be here in the same place had it not been for Stephanie
That is horrible to hear, Steph is wonderful and deserves respect and recognition for the things she does
Thank you Matt for everything
Didn't know who he was before his farewell video I just heard his name since forever but after seeing this I gotta say that the dude is a real one!
Just the fact he even noticed it, and is aware it's an issue, he's a keeper 🙏 I hope Stephanie is doing better and is now being heard and not just ignored
Steph and Mat seem like not only such smart, hardworking people, but you can tell that they actually care for each other and for their channels. They’re so great
i'm so sad because when i watched FT as a kid, i would always be so happy when steph came on the video. dang 😔
HOW DARE THEY NOT ACKNOWLEDGE STEPHANIE!!!
I may not like most of matpat's videos, but it's hard to find a more caring loving person on the internet. From how he talks to his wife, to his stories about his son, it's very obvious. He's such a standup guy, I only wish him the best.
Man we need more people like Steph and matt ☹️
perpetually sounds like he’s about to start crying at any second
i come back after he announced he’s retiring
All men should aim to be like Mat.
No we don’t!!
There are so many videos where Steph was the one who explained and made it understandable, yet she still is overlooked
That Pat is such a standup guy. I feel exactly the same way when it comes to my wife in conversations in general. She could have a phenomenal idea and nobody responds, but somebody else has the exact same idea and all of a sudden it’s brilliant. It’s not fair that the kindest people are usually the ones that are the most ignored.
Damn, he truly looks hurt for her talking about it happening again. That’s a real relationship
That would PISS ME OFF! She is LITERALLY his other half! I always got so happy when Steph would do a guest appearance on the channels! She's so fun!
Stephanie is always such a delight when she comes on! she’s fun, witty, energetic, and seeing her and MatPat together is really sweet
It doesn't matter who you are, where you come from, everyone should be treated with the same respect until proven otherwise.
MatPat is a calmer man than I for keeping his cool after having his partner disrespected right in front of him
Than me, than I am, I is a subject, you can't just put it there independently buckaroo
I mean at least you capitalize I
From what i've seen, MatPat, as we know, love to dig deep and/or aim high while steph stick to the ground for what he overlooked. What a great pair.
It actually touches my heart to see Mat so humble and compassionate for his wife.
Yes, Stephanie is his wife but she also is an integral part of the company. She is the COO which is basically the person who oversees the business portion of the company... So even though Matt Pat is the face, she is definitely the one behind the scenes that's getting everything done.
Protect this man at all costs
I didn’t even know that happened to her 😢 she seems so nice and caring
I'm a little glad he's retiring now, maybe they won't have to deal with this kind of thing anymore
I really like Steph, so frustrating she went through that.
It is incredibly sad when this happens in any relationship.
This happens with my brother in law and sister where my brother in law will say something and people won't acknowledge it until my sister restated it. Watching people get overlooked for the things they're saying is very troublesome.
Their situation is a reflection of reality. This has been happening for so long to regular people